Week 6: Genesis 12-15 – God’s Call on Abram

As a family, read Genesis 12 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened? 

Abram didn’t know why God was selecting him or for what purpose, but the Lord did have a purpose.  (Later in Genesis God told Abram that purpose and changed his name to Abraham, but that’s a story for another week.) God came to Abram and told him to pack up his family and everything he owned, and go to… “the land I will show you.” Abram wasn’t sure where God was telling him to go, but he was sure that he needed to follow what God told him to do. So Abram set out with all his livestock (he owned a lot of animals), his wife, Sarai, all of their servants, and his nephew, Lot.

Along the way, there were some really rocky moments. Abram and Sarai had trouble while traveling through Egypt because they tried to protect themselves by being sneaky and untruthful. The Pharaoh of Egypt even took Sarai to live in his house. But God stepped in and revealed the truth to Pharaoh so he would let her go. As the journey continued, Lot and Abram had to split up; but a war erupted in the land where Lot lived, and he was captured. So Abram and a group of his trained fighting men conducted a rescue mission to save Lot.

But the journey doesn’t stop there. During this time, Abram and Sarai wanted to have kids. In fact, in Genesis 15, God told Abram that his descendants would be like the number of stars in the night sky. Abram had prayed and Sarai had prayed, but they still had no children in their old age.

Abram finally made it to the land God had been leading them to. There, God made a covenant with Abram that He would use his family and this land to make a great nation. That nation would bring glory to God’s kingdom.

To find out more about God’s promise to Abram, read Genesis 15.

Why is this important to us, today?

God asked Abram to follow Him even when it didn’t made sense, and the journey became difficult. From the beginning, they didn’t know exactly where God was taking them. But Abram was faithful and trusted that God was in control.  Abram learned that where God guides, God provides.  Abram chose to place his faith in God, and God took responsibility for making sure he and his family were taken care of. Abram believed God when He said, “Do not be afraid, I will protect you.”

Like Abram, we may not know the outcome of everything God asks us to do, but we can trust the One Who asks us to do it.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What parts of Abram’s journey were most interesting and exciting? How was Abram faithful to God, even when it was scary and confusing?

How can we better follow God this week?

What has God directed your family to do that requires complete faith in Him? What exciting or scary things have happened on your “journey of faith”? How can you still be faithful to God, even when it is scary?

Remember that where God guides, God provides. As Abraham found, what God asks for, God provides for. God will take responsibility for what we need; we just need to follow Him.

Week 8: Genesis 22 – God Always Provides

As a family, read Genesis 22 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Abraham had waited for a very long time for Sarah, his wife, to have a child. The Lord did what He had promised and gave them a son, Isaac. God also promised that through Isaac He would build a great nation, His chosen people.

God came to Abraham to test him. He told Abraham to sacrifice his Isaac on an altar. So early the next morning after cutting the wood for the burnt offering, Abraham and Isaac set out for Mount Moriah, the place God told him to go. While on the journey, Abraham believed that God would “provide a lamb for the burnt offering.”

Abraham had faith that God would intervene in order to keep His promise of making a great nation from Isaac’s descendents, even if it meant raising Isaac from the dead. So God sent an angel to stop Abraham.  Just then they saw a ram stuck in the bushes close to where they were standing. God provided the sacrifice so Abraham and Isaac could worship Him together. God saw that Abraham was willing to obey Him and not hold anything back, not even Isaac.

Why is this important to us, today?

God never intended for Isaac to die. He wanted Abraham to prove that he loved God more than he loved his son – a son that Abraham had waited for and on whom all the promises of God rested. Simply put, God was testing Abraham.

The purpose of God’s testing is always to strengthen our character and deepen our commitment to Him. Abraham strengthened his commitment to God through this extremely difficult situation. He proved that his faith was genuine, not just something he talked about.

We can talk about our faith and how we’re ready to trust God and obey His commands, but sooner or later we’re going to have to put some action behind our words. How would you respond if God told you to do something that just didn’t make sense?  Would you look to Him for strength to get through the situation or would you take matters into your own hands?

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

How did Abraham’s actions display trust and faith in God? How had Abraham’s previous experiences with God prepared him for this test?

How can we better follow God this week?

The Bible says in Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will direct your paths.” God never promised that the Christian life would be easy, but He did promise that He is always there for you. He will never leave you. No matter how old or young you are, God wants you to trust Him for EVERYTHING. Spend a few minutes discussing how God is strengthening your faith and trust in Him.

Week 9: Genesis 25, 27– Jacob and Esau

As a family, read Genesis 25 and 27 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.                                                

What happened?

Isaac and Rebekah had twin boys, Esau and Jacob. Before they were born, God told Rebekah that one would be stronger than the other and that the older one would serve the younger. When the boys arrived, the first one to come out was red and his body was like a hairy cloak. He was named Esau. After Esau was born, his brother came out with his hand holding Esau’s heel, so he was called Jacob.

As the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter, and Jacob was more of a quiet man who served the family at home.  Isaac loved Esau because of his ability to hunt, but Rebekah favored Jacob.  One day Esau came in from the field, exhausted from all of his work, while Jacob was cooking stew.  Esau was so hungry that he demanded food from Jacob. So Jacob made Esau swear to sell his birthright to him.  Now, a birthright in those days was a big deal.  Because Esau was born first, he would inherit most of the family’s possessions.  But because Esau couldn’t control his appetite, he gave away his birthright to Jacob.

However, the boys didn’t have the last say in the birthright; their father had to give a blessing to the son who would receive it. So when Isaac was old and ready to give Esau the blessing, Rebekah helped Jacob deceive him. Rebekah knew Isaac’s eyesight was very bad and that Jacob was not like his brother.  She took Esau’s nicest garment and some goat hair and put them on Jacob so that the father would think that Jacob was Esau.  After all of the preparation, Jacob took some food to his father. Isaac asked Jacob who he was, and Jacob said that he was the firstborn. Isaac called him over, felt his arms, and smelled him. He was confused because he sounded like Jacob but felt and smelled like Esau. Isaac gave Jacob Esau’s blessing. Jacob left and Esau came in with some dinner for his father. He then asked for his blessing, but Isaac had already given it to Jacob!

Why is this important to us, today?

Although the people in this story loved God, they acted in ways that displeased Him and harmed their family. Isaac and Rebekah each showed favoritism to a different son. Isaac favored Esau, and Rebekah favored Jacob. When parents make children feel as if one is loved more than the others, it creates intense sibling rivalry. Jacob wasn’t willing to share his stew when his brother was hungry, and Esau was willing to give up the most important thing he had—his birthright— for a bowl of soup. He satisfied a temporary need without thinking about the long-term consequences. Then, Jacob and his mother were deceitful in how they tricked Isaac.

Favoritism, sibling rivalry, and untruthfulness can harm your family just as much as it did in Isaac’s family. Honesty is an important rule in any home. Lying breaks trust and harms your relationships. Sometimes we think deceiving isn’t lying, and it’s okay if we don’t get caught. But a half truth is always a whole lie.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What should Jacob and Esau each have done differently regarding the stew? How did each person, including the parents, act in ways that harmed their relationships? How did their actions displease the Lord?

How can we better follow God this week?

Moms and Dads, this is a great time to let your children know that you love them completely… just the way they are! The same should be true of brothers and sisters. Just like Esau and Jacob, you are probably very different from your siblings. God made you each unique. For the next few minutes, take turns pointing out the talents and positive character traits of each person in your family.

When everyone in a family knows they are loved and each wants the best for the others, it creates a strong and happy home. Finish your time together with prayer, thanking God for each person in your family.

Week 12: Joseph and His Brothers

As a family, read Genesis 41-45 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

We learned last week that Joseph had been unfairly thrown into prison. While there, he remained faithful to God and showed that God’s favor was on him by interpreting dreams. Sometime later, Pharaoh had two dreams that he could not understand, nor could his smartest and wisest advisors. Pharaoh’s cupbearer, who was in prison with Joseph, told Pharaoh that his dreams had been interpreted by Joseph and that he could do the same for Pharaoh. Pharaoh sent for Joseph; and as the cupbearer had said, Joseph was able to tell Pharaoh what his dreams meant. God told Joseph: there would be seven years with lots of food, followed by seven years of severe famine. Pharaoh was so impressed with how God spoke to Joseph that he made him second-in-command of all of Egypt!

Joseph organized the land to prepare for the seven years of famine by saving the extra grain. The amount of grain they were able to save was so large that Joseph stopped counting because the number was too big! But, just as God had told him, the seven years of famine came right after. The land of Egypt had more than enough food because of Joseph’s planning, and they had so much that people from other countries came to buy grain from them.

Back in Canaan, Joseph’s family felt the effects of the famine and traveled to Egypt to buy food. They were sent to Joseph and bowed before him, not recognizing him as their own brother. Joseph, however, recognized them, but did not reveal who he was. He sent his brothers back and forth several times from their homeland without revealing his identity.

Eventually, Joseph brought his brothers to him and told them who he was. God helped Joseph to forgive his brothers. He told them that God had allowed everything that happened to him so that they could live through the famine and have food. After Joseph told Pharaoh that his family had come, Pharaoh provided land for them and their herds.

Why is this important to us today?

Joseph had endured terrible treatment because of his brothers, including years of slavery and imprisonment. However, because he stayed faithful to what God wanted him to do, God blessed him. Because of his position and authority, he was able to save his family and many others.

God made good things happen from the bad things in Joseph’s life. He can do the same in our lives. We all have times when we don’t understand how anything good can come from something that has happened. We can be tempted to blame God or try to fix it ourselves. Joseph gives us a better example, though. His story reminds us to follow God even in the bad times and trust that He will use it for something good.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Take a few moments to talk about the difficult times that you’ve gone through as a family. How did you respond to God? How have you seen God make something good happen from a bad situation?

How can we better follow God this week?

Maybe you’re going through a hard time right now; maybe you’ve just come out of one. Maybe you can already see how a bad time has ultimately worked out to help you. Wherever you may be, follow Joseph’s example and choose to obey God, even when it feels as if life is unfair. What difficult or unfair situations are your family members facing? Stop now and pray for each other to honor God with your words and actions. Thank God that He is going to do (or already has done) something good even with times that have been rough.

Moses’ Calling

As a family, read Exodus 3 and 4 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

“God called to him from the midst of the bush and said, ‘Moses, Moses!'”

God spoke to Moses from a unique place – a burning bush.  He told Moses about the cruel things that were happening to His people in Egypt.  God heard their cries and wanted to rescue them from the harsh treatment of their slave masters.  So God told Moses to go to Egypt on His behalf.  He wanted Moses to speak to the Egyptian Pharaoh and ask for the release of God’s people. Moses was given the incredible opportunity to represent God and help rescue people who were being treated badly.

But Moses was intimidated by God’s request and was afraid of what might happen to him if he went to Egypt and confronted Pharaoh.  Moses asked God, “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh, and that I should bring the children of Israel out of Egypt?”  Moses had excuse after excuse for why he couldn’t obey God.  Every time Moses gave God an excuse, God gave Moses an answer to his concern.

Throughout the story God reminded Moses he wasn’t alone.  God said He would go with Moses.  God sent Moses’ brother Aaron to help communicate with Pharaoh.  God showed His power by turning Moses’ staff into a serpent, allowing Moses’ arm to be covered in leprosy, and then healing the disease.  God gave Moses everything he needed to fulfill the mission he’d been given.

Why is this important to us today?

At some point, God will call each of us to do something for Him.  It may be big, like the task He gave Moses, or it may seem small and insignificant. Either way, we have to decide how we’ll respond to God’s call. The things God asks us to do sometimes seem difficult or scary, but we are reminded by the account of Moses that God is with us and will provide us with everything we need to complete the mission.  This should encourage us to be obedient to God’s call on our lives.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What were Moses’ concerns, and how did God address each of these concerns? What would Moses have missed if he had not gone to Egypt as God asked?

How can we better follow God this week?

Think about what God has given your family to do, together and as individuals. What opportunities do you each have to serve God and help others? Have each person share his or her concerns about fulfilling God’s call. What part seems difficult or scary? Discuss these concerns and how God might help your family members accomplish the calling placed on their lives. How has God already provided something you need to fulfill the mission you’ve been given? This week, look for ways to encourage each other to be obedient to God’s call. Close your time together by praying for the concerns each family member shared.

The Great Passover

As a family, read Exodus 7:1-7  and 12:21-31.  Afterwards, share the following discussion:

What happened?

God was ready for the Israelites to leave Egypt, but Pharaoh wanted to keep them as slaves.  Moses and Aaron went to Pharaoh with God’s message, “Let my people go!”  God warned Moses that Pharaoh wouldn’t listen until He punished Egypt, proving that He was the only true God.

As Moses and Aaron followed God’s instructions, nine different plagues struck Egypt.  First, the Nile River was turned to blood, and then frogs and gnats were everywhere.  Next, swarms of flies covered everything, and all the livestock in the fields died.  God even made sores break out on the people of Egypt, but Pharaoh still wouldn’t listen.  So God caused a hailstorm and locusts to destroy every plant and tree.  Then complete and total darkness covered Egypt for three days.  Through all nine plagues, God protected His people; none of the plagues struck the Israelites.

The Egyptians worshiped over eighty gods from nature.  Pharaoh was even thought to be the sun god, Ra.  Every plague God sent was directed against one of Egypt’s false gods.  The Lord was supreme ruler over all He had created.  God wanted everyone to see His power and know that He was the one true, sovereign Lord.

God told Moses there would be one final plague, and Pharaoh would finally release them.  At midnight, God would kill every firstborn son of Egypt.  Moses gave a final warning to Pharaoh, but he remained stubborn and wouldn’t obey the Lord. Moses instructed the Israelites to roast the very best lamb they had and sprinkle the blood on the doorframe, as an act of faith (Heb. 11:28).  Everyone in the family was to be completely dressed and ready to leave Egypt as they ate, expecting God’s deliverance at any moment. At midnight, a family in any house not marked with the blood of the lamb lost their firstborn son. The final plague showed that there was no match for the God of Israel.  After that, Pharaoh ordered Moses and the Israelites to leave. God’s rescue of Israel was also His judgment on Egypt (Genesis 15:13-14).

Why is this important to us today?

This passage demonstrates the contrast between those who worship the one, true God and those who look to other things as their god. We live in a society that promotes being spiritual but rejects Jesus as the Son of God. There are still people who choose to worship creation rather than the Creator. Others deny His existence at all. But God has not changed and holds all people responsible for how they respond to the knowledge of who He is.

God wants us to listen to His warnings and obey His instructions.  Just as the Israelites had to follow God’s instructions for the plague to pass over them, we have to follow God’s instructions to avoid the penalty of our sin.  Jesus is our Passover lamb.  Israel’s slavery pictures our slavery to sin with the penalty of death (Rom. 6:23).  But Jesus’ death is payment for our sin.  Asking Jesus to be your Savior, by faith, marks the “doorframe” of your heart just as their homes were marked by the lamb’s blood.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

In our culture, what do people worship other than God? How did Pharaoh’s refusal to obey God affect the Egyptians? What instructions has God given to you?

How can we better follow God this week?

Do you recognize God as the sovereign Lord and supreme ruler in your life?  It’s easy to tell; you will devote your life to whatever you worship. Think back to how you spent your time last week. What does it reflect about what’s most important to you? If we claim allegiance to Jesus, then our lives should demonstrate obedience to His instructions. When you choose to disobey God’s commands, how does it affect others in your family? What specific instruction or command from God will you start obeying this week?

Have you accepted the blood of Jesus as the sacrifice for your sin?  If you have, take time now to tell your family how you received Jesus as your Savior and what difference knowing Him as your “Passover lamb” has made in your life.

God Gives Moses the Ten Commandments

As a family, read Exodus 19:1-11, 16-19; 20:1-21 together. Afterwards, share the discussion below.

What happened?

Three months after leaving Egypt, the Israelites camped beside Mt. Sinai, where God made a covenant with Moses on behalf of Israel.  God promised to make them His “special treasure” and “a holy nation” if they would obey and keep His covenant. But before the people could receive God’s laws, they had to prepare themselves in a three-day period of purification and consecration. When Israel had prepared to hear Him speak, God descended upon the mountain in an awesome display of might and holiness. God called Moses and Aaron to the top of the mountain and spoke the first words of the Law.

The first four commands dealt with Israel’s relationship to God. He wouldn’t tolerate worship of other gods or even an image designed to represent Him.  Because God is spirit, no physical image can adequately represent Him. The name of the Lord was to be used with reverence, not disrespectfully.  And on the Sabbath (Saturday) they were to cease from work, as God did during creation, and focus on Him.

The final six commands express how Israel was to relate to one another as a community.  A society is only as strong as the families in it, so God instructed them to honor parents and remain faithful in marriage.  Israel’s treatment of each other was to be different from other communities. They were to respect one another’s life, property, and reputation.  Finally, God told His people to be content and not desire what belongs to another person.

God’s covenant with Moses to make Israel a “holy nation” meant they would be set apart from other nations and be dedicated to God’s service and purpose. The sights and sounds from the mountain made the Israelites tremble with fear, and they stood far away.  The people agreed to hear Moses but were afraid that if God spoke directly to them, they would die.  Moses, however, went near the thick, dark cloud where God was.

Why is this important to us today?

The Ten Commandments are the foundation for law and moral behavior, but these laws also serve to show our sinfulness in contrast with God’s standard of holiness. Obeying the law isn’t a means of salvation but the appropriate response to God’s grace.  Our relationship with Him, outlined in the first four commandments, must be in order before relationships with others can be the way God designed them to be. It’s interesting that the observance of the Sabbath is the only commandment not repeated in the New Testament. Commands five through ten reveal the importance God places on human relationships.  In Romans 13:8-10, these six commands are summarized in one phrase: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Which of the Ten Commandments are laws in our country today? Why do followers of Christ worship on Sunday (the first day of the week) rather than Saturday (the Sabbath)? Why do you think God placed such importance on how people should treat one another?

How can we better follow God this week?

The relationships within your family will strengthen as each member develops a closer relationship with God. What is your heart attitude toward God?  Do you treat God’s name with respect?  As a family, what gets your time and attention on the Lord’s Day? Answering these questions will help pinpoint obstacles to closeness with God. Now, turn your focus to the last six commandments (19:12-17). How can you encourage each other to better follow these this week? How would obeying these commands make the relationships in your family stronger?

Joshua Enters the Promised Land

As a family, read Joshua 1:1-8; 3:9-16 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

The first several chapters of the book of Joshua tell the story after Israel’s forty years of wandering in the desert.  Moses had died, and the Lord promoted Joshua to be the new leader of Israel. God reassured Joshua that he was the man for the job and that he wouldn’t be alone. God promised to be present with Joshua just as He had been with Moses. The knowledge of God’s presence would allow Joshua to “be strong and very courageous” in the difficult days ahead. God gave Joshua simple instructions for great leadership: “Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go.” God went on to say that in order to obey His law, you must know what it says and sincerely think about what it means.

Joshua then prepared God’s people for the crossing of the Jordan River into the Promised Land.

In accordance with Joshua’s instructions, the priests led the procession of people, while carrying the Ark of the Covenant. The river was at its highest point of the year. But as God had done many times before, He made a way for Israel when it seemed impossible.  As the priests entered the Jordan with the Ark of the Covenant, the water stopped flowing, allowing them to cross on dry land.  Can you picture that? The priests stood in the middle of dry ground where, only moments before, the Jordan River had flowed! The rest of Israel then passed through the dry riverbed on their way to the Promised Land.

This again showed Israel that following God and having faith in Him resulted in His blessing being shown to them in great ways.

Why is this important to us today?

Moses was a great man, but when he died, God’s plan didn’t die with him.  God raised up Joshua as the new leader to move Israel forward into the land He promised them. The secret to Joshua’s success was his obedience to God’s instructions. Joshua needed guidance to lead so many people. It was important to keep his heart clean before the Lord in order to hear God speak. Joshua kept himself close to the Lord by reading and meditating on God’s laws. As he listened to God, Joshua helped the Israelites focus on the Lord’s strength and power, not the obstacle in front of them. In response to their faith, God proved Himself trustworthy and removed the obstacle, giving them dry ground as a path.

God has also used great men and women throughout the centuries as part of His plan for our nation. With each new generation, God raises new leaders. Who knows? Maybe someone in your family will become a “Moses” or a “Joshua” and lead our country to follow God with increased faith.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Read back over God’s instructions to Joshua (1:7-9). How would these instructions help leaders in your community, state, or country today? 

How can we better follow God this week?

God positions leaders of all ages in all kinds of places, such as your church, school, and workplace. He may want you to be a leader, right where He has already placed you. What positions of leadership has God given the members of your family? Take a minute to discuss what parts of being a leader cause you to be scared or intimidated. How would following the instructions God gave to Joshua help ease those fears? Take turns sharing how and when you will spend time reading Scripture each day. Remember, you can’t obey God’s Word if you don’t know what it says.

Pray together for each member of your family to see where God wants them to take a leadership role, and ask for God’s guidance and strength.

Week 10: Genesis 32– Jacob wrestles God

As a family, read Genesis 32 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

 After Jacob had sent his family and all his possessions across the stream, he found himself all alone. Out of nowhere, a man came and wrestled with him till daybreak. Neither one could get the best of the other all night. Just before daybreak, the man caused Jacob’s hip to go out of joint and told Jacob to let him go. But, Jacob knew that this was no ordinary man and refused to release him until the man blessed him.The man then told Jacob that from that moment forward, his name wouldn’t be Jacob, but Israel. Why? Because he had made it through a wrestling match with God! So Jacob asked, “What’s your name?” But he already knew that he was face to face with God, which is why Jacob named that spot, Peniel (God’s face). He had seen and touched God and lived to tell the story. The man blessed Jacob and left.  As the sun came up, Jacob walked to meet his family and Esau. But Jacob’s hip was still out of joint, and it caused him to limp.

Why is this important to us, today?

Jacob wrestled with God? That is nothing short of amazing! He was crossing the river to see his brother, Esau, for the first time since stealing his birthright twenty years earlier. But before Jacob could move forward in God’s plan, he had to put the old Jacob behind him. God changed his name from Jacob (which means “deceiver”) to Israel (“one who has power with God”). The limp was a permanent reminder that he was no longer the same man who fled from Esau – he now lived for God’s purpose, not his own.

This story can be hard for us to understand because we have never wrestled with God physically. However, most of us wrestle with God on decisions that we make in our lives. Think about a time God led you to do something, but you said, “No.” Did God continue to wrestle with your heart about it?  When God places something on your heart, He does not let it go easily. When you say, “Yes” and decide to live completely for God’s purpose, your life will be changed and others will take notice.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What do you know about Jacob from earlier in Genesis? What do you know about him after God changed his name to Israel? What are the differences between the old Jacob and the new?

How can we better follow God this week?

Tell your family about something you have been wrestling with God about. This could be anything from giving your tithe to going on a mission trip. In order to receive the blessing that God wants to give us we have to be willing to give up what we want and give in to what He wants for us. How can you better live for God’s purpose this week? Spend a few minutes praying for each other. Ask God to help you surrender to Him the things you’ve discussed.

Enjoying the same things as you spend time together helps you to build strong relationships with classmates and neighbors. Growing a strong friendship with Jesus is done the same way. This week we’ll explore how God’s Word brings you closer to Christ.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Psalm 119:9-16
• 1 John 1:8-10
• James 4:8

Let’s start it.

Tell your family about your best friend. How are you alike? What have you learned about that person by spending time with him or her?

Let’s learn it. 

The first building block to a strong friendship with God is simply to spend time with Him, learning what He is like and what pleases Him. We’ve already learned that God talks to us through His Word – the Bible. God even tells us about His Word in His Word! It’s so important that the longest chapter in the Bible has only one topic – Scripture. Pause and read Psalm 119:9-16 together to see what the psalmist said about God’s Word.

The writer of Psalm 119 had such a deep love for God’s law that he memorized it. We can’t always stop and read the Bible the exact moment we’re tempted to sin or when we need encouragement. So, the Holy Spirit brings God’s Word back to our minds – if we’ve stored it there by reading and memorizing it. Taking time to think carefully about God’s promises, warnings, and commands will help you to remember them.

The Bible is like a map that directs your thoughts and behavior to please God. Following that map leads you to enjoy the same things Jesus enjoys and dislike what He dislikes. As you put Scripture into your mind, the Holy Spirit will show you where you’re wrong and will urge you to make it right. When you sin, it’s like your heart gets dirty and needs to be washed. What does 1 John 1:8-10 say about how to clean sin from your heart?

A wonderful thing happens when you keep a clean heart. Have a family member read James 4:8 aloud to learn what that is. Did you hear that? When we come near to God by asking Him to forgive our sins, He moves closer to us!

How can you have a stronger friendship with Jesus? Meditate on God’s Word and memorize it. Use the Bible like a map to direct your thoughts and behavior to please God. When you do sin, immediately ask God to forgive you and then change that behavior. Remember to use 1 John 1:9 like a bar of soap to keep your heart clean.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Discuss some things that God’s Word says He likes and dislikes. How can you show that you like and dislike the same things in your life this week?
2. Take turns sharing parts of God’s Word that you’ve stored in your mind. Have someone ready to look up those passages to check your accuracy.

Let’s do it.

Did you know more verses of Scripture than you thought you knew? It’s great to be familiar with the Bible, but nothing can replace the benefits of intentionally memorizing God’s Word. Ask each member of the family to memorize at least one verse from today’s Bible readings. Older kids and parents may even choose to commit all of this week’s passages to memory. These passages will be a good reminder throughout the week to come near to God and to keep your heart clean.

Ask everyone to bow their heads and share in a silent prayer while one family member reads 1 John 1:9. Silently, ask yourself this question, “What ungodly thought, attitude, or behavior have I been guilty of this week?” Admit that sin to God right now and ask Him to forgive you. If that attitude or action hurt someone else, make sure you ask that person to forgive you, too. Just like taking a bath, you’ll feel better when your heart is clean and pure!

The Bible is no ordinary book; it is true information from the heart of God. Scripture tells us how to have a right relationship with God, how to protect ourselves against Satan, and how to have a joyful life. What could possibly be more valuable than that?

 

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Hebrews 4:12
• Matthew 4:1-11
• Ephesians 6:17
• Psalm 19:7-11

Let’s start it.

Have each family member name one treasured possession and tell why it is so valuable to him or her.

Let’s learn it.

Some of the most exciting stories ever told are found in the Bible, but it is much more valuable than a history book. The words of Scripture are not just words on a page, like the words in other books, because they are God’s words. The Bible is God speaking to us! His promises, warnings, and commands are alive with power. Check out Hebrews 4:12 and Ephesians 6:17. What is the Word of God compared with in these verses? God’s Word is such a powerful weapon that Jesus used it to defeat the devil (Matthew 4:1-11). When you read and memorize Scripture, you are using the sword of the Spirit to protect yourself against the devil’s plan to trick you into believing his lies.

The more you read Scripture and go over it again in your thoughts, the better you will understand why you do the things you do. Following God’s instructions will change how you think and what you think about. Your own thoughts – which can be very foolish sometimes – are replaced by thoughts that the Holy Spirit gives to you, helping you to make wise choices that please God. Take a moment to read Psalm 19:7-11 together before continuing.

The Bible warns us that sin is dangerous because it is thinking something or doing something that God says is wrong. That’s why it is so important to read and study Scripture every day. The Holy Spirit uses God’s Word to correct us when we make wrong choices. The Holy Spirit also uses the Bible to teach us the right things to do. You can always depend on God’s Word to be right and to tell you the truth, even about yourself. As followers of Jesus, we are always happier when we choose to obey Him. The things His Word tells us not to do are things that will harm us in some way.

Let’s discuss it.

1. See how many of God’s warnings and instructions you can remember as a family. For each one, name a way that heeding that warning or following God’s instructions is valuable or rewarding.
2. What are some things you’ve learned about yourself from reading the Bible? How has knowing that truth been valuable by changing a wrong thought or attitude?

Let’s do it.

Think back to the precious possession you named in Let’s start it; do you treat that belonging differently than you treat your other stuff? Now that we’ve learned the value of the Bible, we see that our material stuff isn’t nearly as valuable as knowing and obeying what God has said in the Bible. What are some ways you can show how much you value God’s Word this week?

We’ve learned today that God’s Word is “alive, powerful, perfect, trustworthy, right, pure, sure, and righteous.” Write these words down on an index card or notepad to put on your refrigerator, so everyone can see them all week. When you’re trying to make a difficult choice, remember that God’s instructions are trustworthy. When you’re tempted to sin, remember that God’s instructions are always right. He knows what is best for us because He loves us completely and knows everything fully. How do we know this? Because we know the Bible is God’s Word, and the Bible tell us so!

 

John Sees the New Kingdom

As a family, read Revelation 21-22 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

In the last two chapters of the last book of the Bible, we see that the relationship God has always wanted with His people has become a reality. Looking back at the Old Testament books, we remember the incredible Garden of Eden that He prepared for Adam and Eve. We marvel at His closeness with them before sin entered their lives. We are amazed at the details of the construction of the Tabernacle and the Temple where He lived among His people in the Holy of Holies. Then, His Son came to live among His people – the One who loved us so much that He gave His life for us. John now sees a new Heaven and a new earth and writes about the vision God gave him.

The New Kingdom is the place that God is making for those who choose to follow Him. It won’t be like anything presently on earth. There won’t be any reason for tears because in the New Kingdom death, sorrow, and pain won’t exist. God Himself will wipe away every tear from the eyes of His children. But the most wonderful thing about this kingdom will be living in the presence of God every day.

Why is this important to us today?

At some point, every person – boy or girl, young or old – will think about or ask, “Why am I here on earth? Why do I exist?” Well, the answer is that you were designed to have a relationship with Jesus and to glorify God for all eternity. John’s account of the New Kingdom is a description of what God has designed for us and desires for us to experience. God’s purpose for you has always been to be your God so that you would be able to live with Him. Can you imagine being in the same location as the Creator of the world?

The goal of these 52 Family Time devotions is to learn about the salvation we can have through Jesus. Every story from Adam to Isaac, Jacob to Moses, Joshua to King David, and Jesus to John is meant to point us to Christ and the price He paid for our sin. Your salvation not only makes life on earth more satisfying, it also means being able to live for all eternity with the Creator and Savior of the world.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. How does it make you feel to know that God has created a kingdom in Heaven for you to live with Him for all eternity?

2. What are you looking forward to the most about living in Heaven?

How can we better follow God this week?

In order to live with God in Heaven, you must choose to receive His gift of salvation. We all have sinned and that sin must be forgiven. That’s why Jesus died for us! Have you asked Jesus to be your Savior? If not, pray a simple prayer from your heart to God. It can be something like this:

“Dear Lord Jesus … I believe You are the Son of God. And I believe that You died on the cross for my sin. I know that I am a sinner, and I ask You to forgive me. I know that You were raised from the dead, and I want to live with You in Heaven. Please save me today. Thank You, Jesus, for saving me. I want to follow You for the rest of my life.”

Jesus Is Coming Again

As a family, read Revelation 1:4-8 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

When the Apostle John wrote the Book of Revelation, he was in exile on the Isle of Patmos, an island in the Mediterranean Sea that was used to keep criminals away from people on the mainland. John wasn’t a criminal, but he was teaching the ways of Jesus, which caused great controversy and sparked riots. So to control the spread of Jesus’ teachings, the disciples were often imprisoned or… worse.

John wrote what God gave him concerning the coming of Jesus to redeem His kingdom. One day – we don’t know when – Jesus will return to bring His kingdom together. The letter that John wrote to the churches is called “Revelation” because it tells us that Jesus will one day reveal Himself to the world again. Sometimes the Book of Revelation is hard to understand because John wrote about events that would occur in the future, things he didn’t understand or hadn’t experienced in his lifetime.

A few things from this passage, however, are very clear: Jesus has always existed and He always will. He is eternal. He is God. Jesus died to pay the final price for sin. And one day, Jesus is coming back to take those who follow Him to live with Him in Heaven forever and ever!

Why is this important to us today?

Knowing that Christ will return for His followers is an incredible promise. But if Jesus is coming again – and we don’t know when that might be – what do we need to know and do in order to be ready? First, it’s important to understand who Jesus is. The descriptions of Jesus in the Book of Revelation are very different from what we read about Him in the Gospels. When Jesus returns, no one will doubt that He is God because everyone will see His power and His glory.

Next, we must know that we’ve received Jesus as our Savior. Jesus loves you so much that He died in your place to pay the price for your sin. In order to live with Jesus in Heaven, each person must personally make the decision to follow Jesus.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. Does knowing that Jesus could return at any moment excite you? Why or why not?

2. Have you accepted Jesus’ payment for your sin? If so, share how you made the decision to start following Christ.

3. Which friends or family members need to know how much Jesus loves them?

How can we better follow God this week?

Write down the names of the friends and family members who may not know Jesus as their Savior yet. Post the list on your refrigerator, or write the names on separate pieces of paper. As a family, make a commitment to pray for one of those people each day. Brainstorm ways you can show them the love of Christ and tell them about Jesus’ payment for their sin.

Spend some time praying together for those on your list. While you are praying as a family, take time to thank God for His desire to save us, and His promise to come again.

Acts 15 The Church and Gentiles

As a family, read Acts 15. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

The church at Antioch was full of new Gentile believers. When men arrived from Judea, teaching that circumcision and following the Law of Moses was necessary to be saved, these new Christians were extremely disturbed. After confronting the Judean preachers, Paul and Barnabas went to Jerusalem to discuss the issue with the apostles.

A council was convened in Jerusalem to hear all sides of the argument. Peter reasoned with the council that Gentiles had received the Holy Spirit the same way the Jewish believers had – by faith in Jesus. Salvation is a gift of grace, so why put an unnecessary burden on new believers? James agreed that adding circumcision and the Law of Moses to salvation made following Christ needlessly difficult.

Paul and Barnabas returned to Antioch, carrying a letter with the council’s decision. Under the leadership of the Holy Spirit, the Jerusalem Council asked the Gentiles to focus on three things as they lived out their new faith: stay away from anything related to idol worship, maintain sexual purity, and honor Jewish dietary customs. The church in Antioch was relieved and reassured by the message.

Why is this important to us today?

The Law of Moses and circumcision had been signs of the covenant God made with Israel, setting them apart from the idol-worshiping nations around them. It made them aware of sinful behavior that displeased God and taught them that no one could keep the law perfectly. It was intentionally designed to prepare God’s people for the Messiah. The Gentile converts in today’s passage didn’t have a history with the God of Israel; everything about this way of life was new to them. They had become followers of Christ by believing the simple message of the gospel: Jesus died, was buried, and rose again in payment for their sin.

The message of the Jerusalem Council is still encouraging today. God’s grace and love aren’t based on how well you follow the rules or meet religious expectations. No effort of your own gains favor with God. All believers are saved by grace through faith in Jesus.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. Name the three things the Gentile believers were asked to focus on, then answer the following questions:

1. Has something or someone become an idol, taking a higher place in your heart than Christ? If so, what?

2. What do you need to get rid of in order to live a morally pure life?

3. What should you give up because it offends fellow believers or weakens their faith?

 

How can we better follow God this week?

Have you accepted God’s free gift of salvation? Before continuing, take a moment and have the followers of Christ in your family take turns telling how they received Jesus as their personal Savior.

Our lives should demonstrate the difference that knowing Jesus makes. Like the church in Antioch, be encouraged that you live in the freedom of grace rather than under the burden of the law. Spend a few minutes together, thanking God for His gift of grace.

Peter and Cornelius

As a family, read Acts 10. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Cornelius was a Roman centurion in Caesarea who, along with his family, worshiped and served God. One day, an angel came to Cornelius and told him that God was pleased with the way he honored Him and served others. He gave Cornelius instructions to send for Peter, who was in a place called Joppa.

Meanwhile in Joppa, Peter was praying on a rooftop. He fell into a trance and saw a large sheet coming down from the sky. In the sheet, there were animals of all kinds, including birds and reptiles. Peter heard the voice of the Lord telling him to get up and eat from the animals in the sheet. Because Peter, a Jew, knew that he should eat only the animals that God had called clean, he said that he could not eat any of the unclean animals. God told Peter not to call anything unclean that He had cleansed.

While Peter was thinking about the meaning of the vision, Cornelius’ men arrived. Peter heard the Holy Spirit telling him to go down and greet the men. Upon hearing what they had to say, he invited them to stay for the night. The next morning, Peter went with them to go to Cornelius’ house.

A large number of people had gathered to hear Peter speak. He told them that it was against the Jewish law to go into the house of anyone who was not a Jew, but God had told him not to call anything impure or unclean that He had made clean. Peter asked Cornelius why he had sent for him, and Cornelius explained the angel’s visit. Peter realized then exactly what God had sent him to say. God accepted people from every nation who wanted to follow Him. Peter explained to them who Jesus was and what He had come to do for them. When Cornelius and the people with him heard this, the Holy Spirit came on them, and they began to praise God. Peter gave orders for them to be baptized, and then he stayed with them to teach for a few more days.

Why is this important to us today?

Israel has always been God’s chosen people. A dedicated Jew would not associate with Gentiles at all. But God showed Peter that He doesn’t love just the Jewish people. God wants all people to come to know His Son, Jesus, no matter who they are, what they look like, or where they are from. This was a totally new way of thinking for Peter. But God opened Peter’s mind and heart and used him to open the door for the preaching of the gospel of Jesus to the Gentiles. God loves everyone, not just people who look and act like us. Like Peter, our job is to tell people about Jesus, no matter who they are!

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. Peter’s message about God’s love was probably surprising to the people who gathered in Cornelius’ house to hear him speak. Who do you think might be surprised to hear that God loves them?

2. How does your treatment of others show that they are just as important to God as you are?

How can we better follow God this week?

As you go about your usual activities this week, look at the people around you. Don’t think about just your friends or family or people that you like; notice everyone. God loves every person you see just as much as He loves you. Knowing that God loves everyone the same means you should too. Every person you meet needs the salvation that Jesus Christ alone can provide. This week, challenge yourself to treat them as He would, no matter who they are or where they come from.

John Sees the New Kingdom

As a family, read Revelation 21-22 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

In the last two chapters of the last book of the Bible, we see that the relationship God has always wanted with His people has become a reality. Looking back at the Old Testament books, we remember the incredible Garden of Eden that He prepared for Adam and Eve. We marvel at His closeness with them before sin entered their lives. We are amazed at the details of the construction of the Tabernacle and the Temple where He lived among His people in the Holy of Holies. Then, His Son came to live among His people – the One who loved us so much that He gave His life for us. John now sees a new Heaven and a new earth and writes about the vision God gave him.

The New Kingdom is the place that God is making for those who choose to follow Him. It won’t be like anything presently on earth. There won’t be any reason for tears because in the New Kingdom death, sorrow, and pain won’t exist. God Himself will wipe away every tear from the eyes of His children. But the most wonderful thing about this kingdom will be living in the presence of God every day.

Why is this important to us today?

At some point, every person – boy or girl, young or old – will think about or ask, “Why am I here on earth? Why do I exist?” Well, the answer is that you were designed to have a relationship with Jesus and to glorify God for all eternity. John’s account of the New Kingdom is a description of what God has designed for us and desires for us to experience. God’s purpose for you has always been to be your God so that you would be able to live with Him. Can you imagine being in the same location as the Creator of the world?

The goal of these 52 Family Time devotions is to learn about the salvation we can have through Jesus. Every story from Adam to Isaac, Jacob to Moses, Joshua to King David, and Jesus to John is meant to point us to Christ and the price He paid for our sin. Your salvation not only makes life on earth more satisfying, it also means being able to live for all eternity with the Creator and Savior of the world.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. How does it make you feel to know that God has created a kingdom in Heaven for you to live with Him for all eternity?

2. What are you looking forward to the most about living in Heaven?

How can we better follow God this week?

In order to live with God in Heaven, you must choose to receive His gift of salvation. We all have sinned and that sin must be forgiven. That’s why Jesus died for us! Have you asked Jesus to be your Savior? If not, pray a simple prayer from your heart to God. It can be something like this:

“Dear Lord Jesus … I believe You are the Son of God. And I believe that You died on the cross for my sin. I know that I am a sinner, and I ask You to forgive me. I know that You were raised from the dead, and I want to live with You in Heaven. Please save me today. Thank You, Jesus, for saving me. I want to follow You for the rest of my life.”

Acts 1 – Jesus’ Ascension

As a family, read Acts 1:6-11 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

After Jesus rose again, He appeared to his followers several times over the course of forty days. He wanted them to know that He was actually alive. During that time, they asked Him if the time had come for Him to free Israel. As a nation, they had lived under the control of other empires for hundreds of years. They knew that Jesus was more powerful that any ruler on the face of the earth. After seeing Him rise from the dead, they knew He could do anything! So they thought that maybe He would defeat Israel’s enemies and set Himself up as the King of the whole earth. But Jesus told them not to worry about that right now. Instead, He wanted them to focus on a new mission.

In Acts 1:8, Jesus told His followers that their mission was to tell people about Him. They were to start in Jerusalem and then move outside the city to the surrounding areas. But they were not to stop there. Jesus told them to carry His message to the ends of the earth. Jesus knew that was a big job, so He promised to give them His very Spirit to live inside them. The Holy Spirit would give them the strength and courage to carry out their mission.

Then, while they were standing there watching, Jesus disappeared into the sky. He returned to Heaven to be with His Father. Suddenly, two angels appeared and said, “Why are you standing here? Jesus has gone to Heaven, but He will come back some day.” It was as if they were saying, “Don’t stand around staring up into the sky. You have a job to do. Someday Jesus is coming back, and the world needs to hear about Him. So don’t waste time. Get to work!”

Why is this important to us today?

As Jesus’ followers, we too have a mission. He returned to Heaven so that we could be His witnesses. If Jesus stayed on earth, He could be in only one place at a time. But, through his Spirit, Jesus is with every believer, and through us He can reveal Himself to the whole world. But each of us has to make the choice to share Him with our friends and neighbors. We can’t just stand around and idly wait for Him to return. We have a job to do!

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. How do you think the disciples felt when Jesus returned to Heaven?

2. How can your family take part in telling others about Christ in your city? In other parts of your country? In other parts of the world?

How can we better follow God this week?

It’s natural to tell others good news. When we get a new game or a new phone or get to go somewhere fun, we can’t wait to tell others about it. Well, there is no greater news than Jesus! He has forgiven us and is preparing a place for us in Heaven. He loves us, provides for us, comforts us, and guides us. He has given us everything we need, and we should share Him with others every chance we get. Pray that God will give your family courage to share Jesus with those around you. Who will you share His message with this week?

Mark 15 – The Death of Christ

As a family, read Mark 15 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Jesus had been healing, teaching, and helping people see their need for a Savior. He revealed to the people of Jerusalem and the surrounding areas that He is God, but now Jesuswas on trial!Pilate was the Roman ruler of Jerusalem. It was his job to decide whether or not Jesus was guilty of a crime deserving of death, as the Jewish leaders demanded. These leaders, so envious of Jesus’ popularity with the people, conspired to ruin His reputation by twisting Jesus’ words in order to turn people against Him.

Pilate wanted to please the crowds. So, he brought a murderer named Barabbas out of prison to see if the people would decide to release him or Jesus. But the people still wanted to crucify Jesus. He was mocked, beaten, and led to a wooden cross that He carried down the streets of Jerusalem to a place outside the city. This path became known as the “Via Dolorosa,” which means the “Way of Suffering.” Jesus and two criminals were hung on crosses for everyone to see.

After several hours, Jesus said the words that changed the world, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” You see, forgiveness was God’s plan from the beginning. Shortly after that, Jesus cried out, breathed His last breath, and died. A centurion overseeing the crucifixion had been observing everything that happened and said, “Truly, this is the Son of God!”

After this terribly sad event came to a close, Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus, leaders who had become believers in Jesus, came and took His body to be buried in a new tomb. Could this really have happened? Could Jesus, who is God, really have died? We will soon see – this is all part of God’s plan for us!

Why is this important to us today?

Jesus is God the Son, and He died for every person who ever lived. No event in the history of the world has had a greater impact on mankind than the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Are you wondering why Jesus would choose to come to earth and die for you? God’s Word gives us the answer: mankind – you and every other person in the world – has a problem called sin. Sin is anything that displeases God. Sin separates us from God and is punishable by death. But God loves us so much that He provided a payment for our sin… that payment is Jesus!

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions:

1. Ask each person, “What is one thing you’ve done that is sin, deserving of God’s punishment?”

2. How does it make you feel to know that Jesus died in your place for that sin?

How can we better follow God this week?

Have you received God’s gift of salvation through faith in Jesus Christ? Have you prayed and asked God to forgive you of your sin? God is not concerned about the exact words of your prayer because He looks at your heart and wants to know that you really mean what you are saying. God wants you to believe what the Scriptures say: that Christ died for your sins, that He was buried, and that He rose again – for you. In your own words, tell God that you know you have sinned, and you believe that Jesus died in your place to pay for your sins. Ask for His forgiveness for all the wrong things you have done, and tell Him that you want to receive Jesus as your Savior. It’s the most important decision you will ever make.

Discuss if and when each family member made this decision to become a follower of Christ. Talk about the fact that when you receive Christ, God gives you His Holy Spirit to let you know that you are a child of God. The Holy Spirit guides you and helps you understand how to live a life that pleases God.

Jesus’ Triumphal Entry into Jerusalem and Cleansing of the Temple

As a family, read Matthew 21 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

About two million people were in the area around Jerusalem for Passover. Jesus and his disciples had been together for about three years. By this time, Jesus was really well known in the area, and many knew of His teachings and miracles. On this particular day, Jesus rode into Jerusalem on a donkey. Many of those people who were in Jerusalem for the Passover celebration began to lay tree branches as well as their coats on the road before Him as He made His way through the streets of Jerusalem. As Jesus passed through the crowds, people shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!” The word Hosanna is a Hebrew word that means, “Save us now!” The people seemed to recognize that Jesus was a special person, but their later actions show that they didn’t truly understand Who He was or what He had come to do.

Almost as quickly as the celebration started, it ended. When Jesus arrived at the temple, you would think that there would be shouts of joy. But when Jesus entered the temple area, He encountered a group of men called moneychangers. These men were “religious” leaders who took advantage of people who needed to purchase sacrifices for the Passover celebration. Jesus was so angry that the worship of God had become a business that He flipped over tables and ran the money changers out of the temple.

Jesus entered Jerusalem on this particular day to reveal Himself as the long-awaited Messiah. His triumphal entry into to Jerusalem and the cleansing of the temple were fulfillments of the Old Testament Scriptures. Over the next few days, Jesus healed many blind and crippled people, but the Jewish leaders became more jealous and afraid. They tried to find a way to have Him arrested. Many of those who had praised Him when He entered Jerusalem earlier in the week now chose to stand with those leaders who rejected Jesus. However, God was going to use everything that happened to accomplish His plan of salvation for the world.

Why is this important to us today?

The moneychangers and Jewish religious leaders didn’t really know or love God. The moneychangers used their religious leadership positions in the temple to take advantage of others and make themselves rich. Jesus reminded them that God’s house was to be a place of prayer. It’s sad to see how the Jewish leaders turned against Jesus and rejected the Messiah of their own Scriptures! Their hearts were so far away from God that they couldn’t recognize Him when He stood in front of them.

Many people today who hear that Jesus is the Son of God still choose not to believe or receive Him as their Savior. When He entered the temple, He looked around and saw clearly what was going on. Jesus can also see what’s going on in our lives. When you receive Christ, you become a temple of the Holy Spirit who gives you the ability to trust and obey God’s Word.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. What are some things you’ve learned about Jesus by reading this passage?

2. What examples should you follow or not follow from this story?

How can we better follow God this week?

God wants us to keep our hearts clean so we can understand what He says to us from His Word, the Bible. Talk about changes that each of you should make to keep your temple – your heart – clean. How can you use your temple as a place to pray for yourself and for others?

Jesus came to provide a way for our sins to be forgiven and to give us eternal life with Him. Do you believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and only Savior of the world? Have you chosen to become a follower of Christ?

Jesus Feeds the 5000

As a family, read Matthew 14:13-21 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

The disciples brought the sad news to Jesus that His cousin, John the Baptist, had been killed by King Herod. Jesus asked Peter to get a boat so He and the disciples could get to a quiet place away from the crowds.  It wasn’t long before the people found where He had gone.  Rather than getting upset that His plans were disrupted, Jesus had compassion when He saw the people coming. Knowing that they were like sheep with no shepherd, He began to teach them.

Late in the day, the disciples asked Jesus to send the crowd away so they could buy food and eat.  Jesus said, “You give them something to eat.”  Andrew, Simon Peter’s brother, spoke up, “There is a boy here with his lunch.  He has five small loaves of bread and two fish, but what is that among so many?”  The boy gave his little lunch to Jesus.  The people were told to sit on the grass in groups of fifty. Jesus told the disciples to find some baskets, and then He blessed the food.  He broke the loaves of bread into pieces and did the same with the fish.  The baskets were filled, and as the disciples passed the bread and fish, it multiplied until five thousand men were fed.  That doesn’t even count the women and children who also ate, and twelve baskets of food were left over!

Why is this important to us today?

This really happened! Four different men wrote the account of this miracle in the Bible.  Do you realize that Jesus has the same power today as He did when He fed over five thousand people with one boy’s lunch? Think about that.  Although it was very small, Jesus made it huge! In the same way, if we obey Jesus in small things, He will use those little things to make a huge difference in our lives and in the world around us. The disciples learned that Jesus could do anything.  He is God and He loves people. Even when He was sad and wanted some time alone, Jesus still cared for the people who crowded around Him. Jesus cares for you too, just as He did for the people who followed Him that day.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. What was the disciples’ solution to the huge crowd of people? Why do you think Jesus had a different solution?

2. Can you think of an example where God took some small act and did something big?

How can we better follow God this week?

Like Jesus, we sometimes get bad news or just have a bad day. When that happens, we tend to get selfish with our time and energy. Brainstorm ways that you, as a family and as individuals, can show God’s love and care for the people in your neighborhood, school, and church. Which of these things can you do this week? Which things will take more planning? As a family, commit to love people like Jesus does.  Ask for His help. Don’t forget that little is much if God blesses it.

Jesus Teaching the Crowds

As a family, read Matthew 5:1-16.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Jesus gathered his disciples on a hillside in Galilee, where Jesus was just beginning to become known as a healer and great teacher. Jesus wanted to help his disciples understand what it means to be a follower of Christ.  We call these the “beatitudes” because these are the characteristics that true disciples are to have.  Jesus said:

3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

4 Blessed are those who mourn,

for they will be comforted.

5 Blessed are the meek,

for they will inherit the earth.

6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,

for they will be filled.

7 Blessed are the merciful,

for they will be shown mercy.

8 Blessed are the pure in heart,

for they will see God.

9 Blessed are the peacemakers,

for they will be called children of God.

10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Jesus would go on to say that His disciples are to be the salt and light of the world so that those around them can see the truth of God and follow after Jesus as new believers. By the time Jesus finished His Sermon on the Mount, many people had gathered, and they were all amazed by the words of love, truth, and life that Jesus shared.  Many people that day would give their lives to Christ and would follow Him.

Why is this important to us today?

Have you and your family ever had a family meeting?  You know, one of those meetings called by a parent to talk about a family issue that needs to be addressed.  Mom or Dad, you might tell the kids, “Ok, everyone to the dining room table!”  And here you might need to share some news or make an announcement, or you might just need to let the family know of some new rules or a new chore list that everyone is going to need to participate in.

Well, this passage shows Jesus having a family meeting of sorts. He needed the disciples to know what family they belonged to and what being in that family meant.

If we desire to be followers of Jesus, we must know what He has done for us, what He desires for us, and how He wants us to live.  Jesus’ sermon to His disciples is an incredible message that gives us a look at how we are to follow Jesus.  We have lots of people telling us how we should act and behave, but wouldn’t it be much better if we heard from God on the subject?  That is exactly what Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount is – it is a message from God that is designed to help us follow Jesus closer every day.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. Look back over verses 3-10; discuss what you think each of these attitudes means. For example, what does it mean to be “meek” or “pure in heart”?

2. Have each family member choose one of the beatitudes that Jesus mentioned. Why is that particular attitude important for a follower of Christ?

How can we better follow God this week?

Many people are only concerned with outward appearance and popularity. But God looks at your heart attitudes.  All the things Jesus talked about in this meeting are inward qualities, not outward actions. But, as you know, heart attitudes affect your actions. Have a quick family meeting right now. Ask each person to identify a personal strength and weakness from today’s passage. Then ask God to help you strengthen the attitudes where you are weak. Remember you’re not in this alone. God has given you His Holy Spirit to help you change to be more like your Savior.

Jesus’ Baptism and Temptation

As a family, read Matthew 3-4 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Jesus started his public ministry around the time He was thirty, and He did so in a truly awesome way.  In Matthew 3, Jesus came down to the Jordan River, where John the Baptist was baptizing people and telling them about how the Messiah was going to come.  Jesus asked John to baptize Him, and after some hesitation, John agreed. As soon as Jesus was baptized, the heavens opened, and God spoke from Heaven and said, “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased” (Matthew 3:17).  Jesus’ ministry on earth had begun!

Jesus then went into the desert to fast and pray. After forty days, the devil showed up and tempted Jesus three times with three different things.  It’s interesting that the devil didn’t try to tempt Jesus until He was weak from being so hungry and tired.  First, he told Jesus to make himself some bread out of rocks. Then he tried to convince Jesus to jump off a cliff and have the angels save him. Finally, the devil told Jesus that he would grant him all the kingdoms in the world if He would just worship him.

Each time, he offered Jesus something that would make Him feel better or show His awesome power to prove how great He is.  But every time, Jesus refused to fall into the devil’s traps.  Instead, He used Scripture to fight every temptation and to send the devil away.

Why is this important to us today?

Can you imagine going 40 days without food? Jesus must have been really tired and really, really hungry. The devil showed up at the worst time ever.  It would have been so easy for Jesus to throw in the towel and give in. But with every temptation, Jesus responded with Scripture. He knew that Scripture was more powerful than anything the devil was throwing at Him. How did Jesus know what to say? Do you remember what we read last week? Jesus had studied God’s word and memorized it as a young boy. He was able to use it to help fight off temptation from the devil when He needed it most!

By memorizing even the smallest parts of Scripture, God will allow those words to come to our minds when we need them most.  When we are tempted or when we are facing a difficult time, those Scriptures that we’ve memorized will come to our minds first.  Those Scriptures will help us just as they helped Jesus in the desert.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. Why do you think Scripture had power over the devil?

2. When do you feel tired and weak? What temptations do you feel during those moments?

3. What verses of Scripture could be helpful for each situation mentioned?

How can we better follow God this week?

As you go through your week, try to think of some of the Scripture verses that you have memorized before.  You may not remember the reference or the entire verse word for word, and that’s okay! Just think through the verses you know already.  Maybe as a family, commit to memorizing one new verse a week for the next few weeks and see how you do.

Pray that God will help you as you fight temptation and hard times.  Ask Him to help you as you study His Word and as you try to commit some verses to heart.  Pray that He will bring those verses to your mind this week so that you can stand strong and resist whatever may come your way.

Jesus the Greatest Gift Ever

As a family, read Luke 2:1-20. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

God’s people had been waiting and waiting for the Messiah, the person who would rescue them and be their king. Here in Luke chapter 2, we see the long-awaited birth of Jesus. God arranged circumstances in the lives of Mary and Joseph in order for Jesus to be born in Bethlehem, fulfilling prophecy regarding the birth of Israel’s Messiah. The Lord didn’t send hosts of angels to the highest ranks of Jerusalem to announce the Messiah’s birth; instead, angels appeared to a group of shepherds nearby. They filled the sky and proclaimed, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.”  The shepherds were so amazed by the sight that they left their sheep and ran to find the baby in the manger. They couldn’t have fully understood what was taking place, but the astonishing events of the evening caused them to praise and glorify God, telling everyone about what they had experienced.

Why is this important to us today?

The name Jesus actually means “the Lord saves!” It’s no wonder that God chose this name to give to His Son because He came to save people from their sins. When the angels proclaimed “peace on earth,” they were announcing that peace between God and mankind would now be possible through Jesus.

All of us are born with a problem called sin. God hates sin because it separates us from Him. People have tried many things all throughout history to get rid of sin. They have created false gods, tried to work hard, and attempted to do more good than bad. But God sent Jesus because there’s nothing we can do that is good enough or great enough to pay the price for our sin. Jesus is the only One who can remove our sin and create peace between God and us. Jesus, who never sinned or did anything wrong, came to pay the price for our sin. If we believe that Jesus is the solution for our sin problem, and the only solution, then we can have a relationship with God and even go to Heaven one day!

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. Why do you think it was important that Jesus came?

2. What are some of the wrong or sinful things people do?

3. How did the shepherds react to the birth of Jesus? How have you had a similar response to Jesus?

How can we better follow God this week?

In a few short months, we will celebrate Christmas.We all love getting gifts; few of us would refuse to accept something picked out just for us.  Well, over two thousand years ago, God gave us the greatest gift ever in Jesus! Have you accepted God’s gift of Jesus? Deciding to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Ask the members of your family who have accepted Jesus as their Savior to name one or two ways He has made a difference in their lives.

Who in your life needs the gift of Jesus? This week, look for an opportunity to give that person a gift. It can be a teacher, a friend, or even someone who makes fun of you. This can be a great way to tell them about Jesus or to invite them to come to church this week.

Israel’s Return from Exile

As a family, read Ezra 3 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Ezra 3:11 With praise and thanks, Israel sang this song to the Lord: “He is so good! His faithful love for Israel endures forever!” Then all the people gave a great shout, praising the Lord because the foundation of the Lord’s temple had been laid.

This verse is an incredible picture of what God did in the lives of the Israelites. But to fully understand how great it is, we must first understand what happened before the temple construction began. In the first chapter of Ezra, we learn that King Cyrus of Persia was stirred by God to let the Israelites go back to the land that God had promised to them way back in the book of Exodus. (Persia is the location of modern-day Iraq, Syria, and Turkey.) Cyrus ruled all of this land. The Israelites had been exiled across Persia for 70 years without any place to call their own. But they knew that one day God would allow them to return to the land that He had promised them.

Finally, God spoke to the heart of King Cyrus, impressing him to allow Israel’s return to Jerusalem. As the Israelites returned, they began rebuilding the temple – the place where God’s presence had lived among His people. Israelites came back from all over Persia. It was like a huge family reunion. Every man over 20 years old worked on the temple. God’s people rejoiced because they were finally coming back to Jerusalem. God had not forgotten them. “His faithful love for Israel endures forever!”

Why is this important to us today?

Israel had been in captivity in Persia because of disobedience to the Lord. When God disciplines His children, there is always a lesson to be learned. God wanted Israel to turn to Him and repent from their sins. They needed faith that He would provide for them and guide them, even in the middle of a very difficult time.
They had been without a land to call their own for generations. The opportunity to go back home after so long must have flooded them with emotion. But God didn’t just send them home to do as they pleased – He gave them a job to do. The work on the temple was the first priority. It was the outward symbol of their love for God and would once again provide the place to worship Him as He had instructed. Israel was wandering and homeless as a nation for generations, but this caused them to rely more on God and to trust that He would guide them.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. What do you think God wanted the Israelites to learn while they were in exile?

2. Any Israelite under 70 years old had never seen Jerusalem. How do you think they felt as they made their way back to a home where they had never lived?

3. In what area of your life do you feel alone or on your own right now? What lesson are you learning during this time?

How can we better follow God this week?

Perhaps the best lesson to consider this week is that God is always faithful, loving, and in control. Make a commitment to look to the Lord for guidance in each situation you face. Our biggest challenges in life are opportunities to learn to trust and rely on the Lord. He loves you and has a plan for your life. God is in control, even when life seems out of control. For what situation do you need to trust the Lord this week?

Elijah and Israel at Mount Carmel

As a family, read 1 Kings 18 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

In 1 Kings 18, the nation of Israel was in the third year of a terrible famine (not much food) and drought (not much water), which had been caused by King Ahab’s decisions to do evil and worship false gods. When the Lord decided to end the famine and drought, He instructed His prophet Elijah to go see King Ahab. After he did that, God would send rain.

On the way to meet Ahab, Elijah saw Obadiah, Ahab’s official. He was looking for grass for Ahab’s animals. After some convincing, Obadiah went to tell Ahab that Elijah was there. Elijah asked the king to bring people from all over Israel, as well as the prophets of the gods Baal and Asherah, to Mount Carmel. Ahab sent word, and the people and prophets gathered there.

The people had been torn between following Baal and following the Lord God. So, Elijah issued a challenge to see whose god was the true God. Two altars would be made for sacrifices, one for Elijah and one for the prophets of Baal. However, neither altar would be lit; instead, each group would call upon their god to light the fire. The god that answered the call would prove to be the true God.

The prophets of Baal went first. They began to pray and shout and dance, calling to Baal and asking him to send fire. They did this from morning until night, but the fire never came. After trying all day, Elijah finally stopped them and took his turn. He had the people help him build an altar of wood and stone; then he dug a trench around it. He placed a bull on the altar and instructed that four large jars of water be poured over the altar. He asked them to do it again and then again. After all 12 jars had been emptied on the altar, the wood and the bull were soaked. Even the trench was filled with water. Elijah prayed, “Lord God of Abraham, Isaac, and Israel, let it be known this day that You are God in Israel and I am Your servant, and that I have done all these things at Your word. Hear me, O Lord, hear me, that this people may know that You are the Lord God, and that You have turned their hearts back to You again” (I Kings 18:36b-37, NKJV). God sent fire, and it burned up the wood, the stones, the bull, the ground around it, and even the water! The people fell on their faces, saying they now knew that the Lord is the true God. God then sent rain, and the drought ended.

Why is this important to us today?

The nation of Israel was stuck in the middle of two gods, two beliefs, and two paths to go down. For a while, many had chosen to simply sit and not follow in either direction. Others followed Baal and rejected God completely. The Israelites needed a clear reminder that God is real, that He is all-powerful, and that He is the only one who deserves worship. As we continue to look through the Old Testament, we’ll see more examples of the Israelites being tempted to follow things other than God.

Even today, many people struggle with who or what to follow. But we have the advantage of reading in the Bible all the examples of God’s power and might. There is only one who can tell us what is right and wrong, and that is God.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

1. God showed Himself all-powerful over and over again. Why do you think the Israelites strayed away from the Lord so many times?

2. Who or what do people follow today other than the Lord? How can you avoid doing the same thing?

How can we better follow God this week?

This week, think about the experience of Elijah on Mount Carmel. When you have a choice to make, think of the Israelites and their mistake of following the wrong thing. Remember what God has already told us to do through His Word. Don’t be wishy-washy when you’re faced with right and wrong. If you know the right thing to do, do it! If you don’t know, look in the Bible and see what it says. We can trust the Word of God to help us follow Him. The Lord has given us Scripture so we will know how to live.

1 Kings 6, 8 – Solomon Builds The Temple

As a family, skim over 1 Kings 6, and read Chapter 8 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

King David loved God very much.  In fact, he loved him so much that he came up with the idea to build a temple, or house of worship for God. You remember that God’s people had worshipped Him before in the desert in a tent called “the Tabernacle.” Well, David had the idea to build a permanent building in Jerusalem to honor God.

It was a great idea, but God told David that He wanted his son, Solomon, to build it instead. David’s job was to gather the building materials and plans for the temple in his last years as king.

King David finally died, and his son Solomon became king over all of Israel. He was very wise and talented. He accepted God’s instruction to build the temple. It was a huge project! Tens of thousands of Jews labored on the project, cutting huge stones from quarries, bringing expensive lumber from other nations, building the structure, and designing all the furniture and decorations. You can read the incredible details in chapters 5 and 6. Finally, after seven years of construction, the temple was completed.

A great building like this needed a “Grand Opening” ceremony. Solomon, the leaders of the tribes of Israel, and the priests led a huge parade through town. They carried the Ark of the Covenant (the wooden chest covered with gold, containing the two stone tablets inscribed with the Ten Commandments) through the streets and into the new temple. The ark was to be kept permanently in the Holy of Holies, a special room in the temple where God’s presence would reside.

The priests made sacrifices to honor God. Then, Solomon led a service and made a long speech about the importance of God’s temple. Afterward, he prayed a special prayer of dedication for the temple. The people were so excited about God’s new temple that they feasted for fourteen days in celebration!

Why is this important to us today?

The temple was an awesome building. But more amazing is that God said He would live there so that He could be close to His people. Solomon understood how big God is. He prayed, “But will God really live on earth?” Solomon knew that God didn’t need this building – He is bigger than heaven and earth! But God had chosen to meet with His people in this place.

This wasn’t the first or last time God did that. Years earlier we remember that God led His people out of Egypt and into the Promised Land. On the way through the desert, God gave His people the Tabernacle, a place He could meet with them. Now He would meet them in this temple building. The temple was a place God’s people could serve Him, bring sacrifices to Him, and worship Him.

Years later God chose a more spectacular way to meet with His people. He sent His Son Jesus to come in a human body to live on earth for 33 years (John 1). But the best was yet to come! Once Jesus died, was buried, and then rose again, He left earth for Heaven – and He sent God the Holy Spirit to live INSIDE of every Christian!

You see, it’s great to go to a building like a temple – or a church – to meet God with His people. But God doesn’t live in a building. He lives inside of YOUR life if you are a member of His family. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 6:19 that “your BODY is the temple of the Holy Spirit.”

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

God gave King David, Solomon, and the people different jobs regarding the building of the temple. How was each task important? Why do you think it was necessary for God’s people to have a place to meet with God? How should you treat your body, knowing that it is God’s temple?

How can we better follow God this week?

You, as a follower of Christ, are God’s temple. So,

• Thank God this week that He lives in your life. Remember every day that He is with you, and think about how amazing that is.
• Treat each of your Christian family members and friends as “temples” of God! Treat them with kindness and honor since God lives with them, too.
• Be careful you are not doing anything that would dishonor your body or life, since it is where God lives.

Paul says it best in 1 Corinthians 6:20 “Glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”

1 Samuel 8-10 – Israel Gets a King

As a family, read 1 Samuel 8 and 10 together.  Afterwards, share the following family discussion.

What happened?

The nation of Israel was unique – they were God’s chosen people, God’s valued possession.  God wanted to use Israel’s faith to reveal His great love for the rest of the world.

However, in the chapters we read today, Israel was questioning how God was leading them.  The Israelites looked around at their neighbors and saw that other countries had kings leading them. They didn’t recognize that God Himself was leading them. He led them out of Egypt, out of the wilderness, and into victory against many nations that were physically stronger than Israel.  But all those nations didn’t have faith in God – instead, they submitted to human kings.

The people of Israel wanted to have a king so they could be like the nations they saw around them.  They went to Samuel, a prophet and priest, to bring their request to God. He warned Israel that living under the authority of a king wasn’t nearly as good as answering directly to God.  Human kings made mistakes and could lead them in directions that were wrong or harmful. But Israel insisted. So Samuel prayed and took Israel’s request to God.

God told Samuel something interesting: give Israel what they wanted.  So Samuel began his search for a king. But God would bring Samuel the man He desired to lead Israel. Saul was the son of a wealthy man in Israel. He was responsible for his father’s livestock. One day, his father’s donkeys were missing. Saul and some of his men went searching for them. They could not find the donkeys, but during their search they were pointed to the house of a man who had a reputation for always being right in what he said.

Saul arrived at the man’s house. That man happened to be Samuel. When Samuel met Saul, he knew that this was the man God wanted to be king of Israel. So Samuel anointed Saul as Israel’s first king. Then Samuel said to all the people, “This is the man the Lord has chosen as your king. No one in all Israel is like him!”

And all the people shouted, “Long live the king!”

Why is this important to us today?

God gave Israel what they wanted – a king.  They would go on to have many kings.  But just as God warned, some of their kings became selfish and power hungry and led them away from following God’s laws. With each bad king the people had to decide if they would follow God’s way or the king’s commands. For generations Israel struggled through good kings and bad kings, suffering the consequences of their forefathers and demanding to have their own way rather than following what God said was best for them.

The time and culture in which we live is very different from Israel in this account, but we have to make a similar decision every day – either follow God’s directions or demand our own way. God desires to be the Lord of your life, just as He did in the lives of the Israelites.  He is the only one who will never mislead you or subject you to harm. God can be trusted because He never acts out of selfishness. All of God’s commands and directions are for our good.

But like Israel, we sometimes demand our own way. When we do, God may choose to let us have what we want; but we’ll suffer the consequences of stepping outside of His will.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Why did the people ask Samuel for a king? How would God’s plan have been better for Israel? Share a time when you did what you wanted rather than follow God’s instructions. What were the consequences? How would God’s plan have been better?

How can we better follow God this week?

It’s important to encourage one another, as a family, to follow the Lord. Like Israel, you can be influenced by people around you to do what they do rather than follow what God has told you to do.

This is a great time to craft a family mission statement.  A good example of this is found in Joshua 24:15 where Israel was told by Joshua not to follow the ways of others. Joshua declared, “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

Take some time to talk about what serving God means to each of you. As a family, what is your “mission” for the Lord? Have one member of the family write down what you come up with and post it on the refrigerator or another prominent place in your home. It will serve as a daily reminder that your family has committed to following Jesus and His leadership – not demanding your own way.

God Uses Judges to Keep Israel Holy

As a family, read Judges 2 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What Happened?

Many generations before the time of the Judges, God made a covenant with Abraham (Genesis 12:1-3).  A covenant is an agreement between two people – in this case an agreement or promise with specific conditions between God and Israel (Deuteronomy 28:9).

What was God’s covenant to the children of Israel?  He would give them the Promised Land and would bless and protect them as they settled into this new home. God wanted His people to love and follow only Him. Therefore, He commanded that they destroy all of their meaningless false idols.

The children of Israel arrived and began to settle in the land God had promised. They were faithful to God during Joshua’s life. But when Joshua and the generation of adults who experienced the great works of God died, the next generation did not know or love God.  Instead of obeying God, they abandoned God’s rules. They made friends with nations that didn’t know the true God and worshipped their idols.

God was very angry with the Israelites for not obeying Him. He punished them by allowing the pagan countries to attack Israel and steal their possessions. When they went to battle with the surrounding countries, God did not protect them. He brought disaster on them just as He had promised.

Although the children of Israel did not love God or keep His rules, God still loved them. When the Israelites cried out to God because of their suffering, God listened to their prayers. Each time, God sent a judge (a leader) to rescue them and remind them of God’s laws.  While a judge ruled over the Israelites, God protected them; but when that judge died, the children of Israel returned to their sinful ways.

This cycle continued throughout the book of Judges.  When the children of Israel refused to obey God, He punished them. They cried out to God to help them, and then God sent a judge to rescue them.  After that, Israel enjoyed a period of peace from their enemies. However, they soon forgot God, and the cycle began again.

Why is this important to us today?

We are just like the Israelites. We have a difficult time obeying God’s rules. Disobeying God is called sin.  Just as God loved the Israelites and sent a judge to rescue them from their sin, God has a plan for you and me.  He loves us so much that He sent His Son Jesus Christ down to earth to die for our sins.  Jesus died on the cross, was buried, and rose from the grave three days later.  After His resurrection, He walked on the earth for forty more days. He then went up to Heaven where He is preparing a home for all who ask Him into their lives.  Being a follower of Jesus doesn’t mean you’ll never sin again, but it does mean that God is always with you to show you the difference between what is right and what is wrong. Following Jesus gives you a desire to follow God’s instructions.

Have you asked Jesus to be your Savior? If so, the Holy Spirit lives inside of you and will convict you when you disobey God. As a child of God, He will make you very uncomfortable when you choose sin over Him. His commands always have our best interest at heart.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Think back on today’s Bible story. Why do you think the young Israelites didn’t know or love God? Why do you think God wants us to obey His rules? Who has God put in your life to remind you of God’s commands and laws?

How can we better follow God this week?

Which commands of God are most difficult for you to obey? As a family, discuss why. Like Israel, God loves us even though we may struggle to obey Him.  How does knowing that God loves you, no matter what, help you to obey Him?

Follow these steps to protect your heart and pass your faith in Christ to the next generation:

• Look for opportunities to tell someone this week about how Jesus came into your life.
• Share a story about God’s protection in your life or how He provided for your family.
• Examine your close friendships. What ungodly influence have you allowed into your life?
• What warning from God have you ignored? What behavior is He prompting you to correct?

Wrestling with God means Wandering from God

As a family, read Numbers 12-14:1-9 together.  Afterwards, share the discussion below.

What happened?

God had brought Israel a long way from their captivity in Egypt.  However, Israel once again found their faith tested. Israel was at the doorstep of the land to which God had been leading them.  They had been wandering and in search of a land they could call their own.  Here in Numbers we find that Israel is at the border of the land God had promised them.

So God commanded Moses to send twelve men into the land to explore it and return with a scouting report.  When the men came back, they had both good news and bad news.  The good news was that the land was incredibly beautiful and full of great sources of food and livestock. So what was the bad news?  Well, the land God was giving to Israel was inhabited by a nation much bigger and stronger than the Israelites.

When the twelve scouts presented their findings to Moses and the rest of Israel, the people of Israel rebelled. They said, “Why is the Lord taking us to this country only to have us die in battle? Wouldn’t it be better for us to return to Egypt?”  Then they plotted among themselves, “Let’s choose a new leader and go back to Egypt!”

But two of the scouts, Caleb and Joshua, were courageous and brave because they believed God would give them what He had promised them. Caleb, Joshua, Moses, and Moses’ brother, Aaron, tried to remind the rest of the Israelites that they could defeat those in the Promised Land and that the nation should follow God by faith!  But because Israel wouldn’t listen, God would punish them with forty years of wandering in the wilderness. Israel did not have faith that God would pull them through the challenge ahead. Because of that, Israel would need to wait another generation until they would finally experience the blessings that God wanted to give them.  Even though Israel wasn’t faithful, God remained faithful.  Joshua, one of the faithful scouts, would eventually lead Israel into the Promised Land.

Why is this important to us today?

We can learn a great lesson from Israel’s failure to follow God.  The people of Israel could have experienced the great blessing that God wanted to give them, but they didn’t have enough faith in God’s power.  As a result, they didn’t believe they could defeat the bigger nation in the Promised Land.

This is a powerful reminder that to please God, we must have faith in Him.  Hebrews 11:6 tells us, “It is impossible to please God without faith.  Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that He rewards those who sincerely seek Him” (NLT).

We should follow and obey God because we believe in Him and believe that He loves us and knows what is best for us.  Israel would learn to obey God through faith, but unfortunately it took failure and wandering in the wilderness to learn that faith in God is much better than wrestling with God.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering the following questions together:

What are the good things in the land God wanted to give the Israelites? Why do you think the majority of the spies focused on the negative? Why do you think Caleb and Joshua were ready to take the land?

How can we better follow God this week?

As a family, take some time to talk about how important it is to have faith in God.  What can we learn from Israel’s mistake in not following God into the Promised Land? In what situation have you been focusing on the negative rather than trusting in God? How does believing that God knows what’s best for you change that attitude?

This week, commit to follow and obey God because you believe that He loves and cares for you.  And remember Israel’s lesson that it is far better to trust and follow God rather than to wrestle and wander.

God’s Desert Provision

As a family, read Exodus 15:22 – 16:31 and Philippians 4:19 together. Afterwards, share the discussion below.

What happened?

Immediately after crossing the Red Sea, Moses led the people of Israel away from Egypt.  After traveling three days in the desert without finding water, they came to a spring, but the water tasted bitter.  So the people grumbled to Moses, “What shall we drink?”  Moses prayed and the Lord told him to throw a branch into the water to make it sweet.  When everyone was refreshed, God guided Israel to an oasis where they could camp and rest before continuing on their journey.

After a month of traveling, the food supplies from Egypt were gone.  Once more, the people complained to Moses who told them that their grumbling was not against him, but against God.  The Lord spoke again to Moses and said that quail would appear in camp that night, and manna would rain from heaven every morning.  God provided food for His people, but He gave them specific instructions. They were to gather only enough manna for that day. On the sixth day they were to gather twice as much because the next day was the Sabbath, a day of rest.

Most of the people followed Moses’ instructions and had the exact amount of food they needed.  The ones who didn’t listen and tried to keep manna for the morning found maggots in the rotting leftovers.  On the Sabbath, however, the manna didn’t get maggots or stink, just as Moses had said.  Some people went out on the Sabbath looking for food, but there was none.  God reminded Moses that the people must follow His instructions and gather twice as much on the sixth day.  For forty years, God faithfully provided food for His people in the desert.

Why is this important to us today?

Israel had seen God perform miraculous feats to save them from Pharaoh. But when the next obstacle arose, the people complained to Moses instead of turning to God. If the Israelites had trusted the Lord and continued on their journey, they would have come to the oasis at Elim sooner.  The same God who delivered them from Egypt and parted the sea would provide for them in the desert. They quickly forgot how God had miraculously provided water and grumbled to Moses again – this time about food.  As Moses pointed out, all complaining is sin and is really against the Lord. God is sovereign and ultimately in control of everything that happens.  He wanted the Israelites to depend on Him to solve their problems.

Once again, God miraculously provided for His people as He brought quail and manna to cover the ground around their camp.  As the people followed God’s instructions, there was never too little or too much manna.  They learned to be dependent on God for each day’s provisions.

We, too, need to make the choice to trust God rather than worry or complain. When something doesn’t go according to our plans, we often gripe and complain before we turn to God and pray. The same God who provided for the Israelites in the desert will provide for us today. God wants us to recognize Him as the provider of everything we have or need.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

Why do you think the people complained to Moses rather than prayed to God?

Why is all grumbling ultimately against God?

How can we better follow God this week?

When do you grumble, whine, or have a bad attitude? Briefly share with each other how God has provided for your family in the past.  How does God’s previous faithfulness encourage you in a present challenge or need? Pray together about the needs you have as a family and as individuals.  Make a commitment to follow God’s instructions and depend on Him for what you need.

The Great Passover

As a family, read Exodus 7:1-7  and 12:21-31.  Afterwards, share the following discussion:

What happened?

God was ready for the Israelites to leave Egypt, but Pharaoh wanted to keep them as slaves.  Moses and Aaron went to Pharaoh with God’s message, “Let my people go!”  God warned Moses that Pharaoh wouldn’t listen until He punished Egypt, proving that He was the only true God.

As Moses and Aaron followed God’s instructions, nine different plagues struck Egypt.  First, the Nile River was turned to blood, and then frogs and gnats were everywhere.  Next, swarms of flies covered everything, and all the livestock in the fields died.  God even made sores break out on the people of Egypt, but Pharaoh still wouldn’t listen.  So God caused a hailstorm and locusts to destroy every plant and tree.  Then complete and total darkness covered Egypt for three days.  Through all nine plagues, God protected His people; none of the plagues struck the Israelites.

The Egyptians worshiped over eighty gods from nature.  Pharaoh was even thought to be the sun god, Ra.  Every plague God sent was directed against one of Egypt’s false gods.  The Lord was supreme ruler over all He had created.  God wanted everyone to see His power and know that He was the one true, sovereign Lord.

God told Moses there would be one final plague, and Pharaoh would finally release them.  At midnight, God would kill every firstborn son of Egypt.  Moses gave a final warning to Pharaoh, but he remained stubborn and wouldn’t obey the Lord. Moses instructed the Israelites to roast the very best lamb they had and sprinkle the blood on the doorframe, as an act of faith (Heb. 11:28).  Everyone in the family was to be completely dressed and ready to leave Egypt as they ate, expecting God’s deliverance at any moment. At midnight, a family in any house not marked with the blood of the lamb lost their firstborn son. The final plague showed that there was no match for the God of Israel.  After that, Pharaoh ordered Moses and the Israelites to leave. God’s rescue of Israel was also His judgment on Egypt (Genesis 15:13-14).

Why is this important to us today?

This passage demonstrates the contrast between those who worship the one, true God and those who look to other things as their god. We live in a society that promotes being spiritual but rejects Jesus as the Son of God. There are still people who choose to worship creation rather than the Creator. Others deny His existence at all. But God has not changed and holds all people responsible for how they respond to the knowledge of who He is.

God wants us to listen to His warnings and obey His instructions.  Just as the Israelites had to follow God’s instructions for the plague to pass over them, we have to follow God’s instructions to avoid the penalty of our sin.  Jesus is our Passover lamb.  Israel’s slavery pictures our slavery to sin with the penalty of death (Rom. 6:23).  But Jesus’ death is payment for our sin.  Asking Jesus to be your Savior, by faith, marks the “doorframe” of your heart just as their homes were marked by the lamb’s blood.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

In our culture, what do people worship other than God? How did Pharaoh’s refusal to obey God affect the Egyptians? What instructions has God given to you?

How can we better follow God this week?

Do you recognize God as the sovereign Lord and supreme ruler in your life?  It’s easy to tell; you will devote your life to whatever you worship. Think back to how you spent your time last week. What does it reflect about what’s most important to you? If we claim allegiance to Jesus, then our lives should demonstrate obedience to His instructions. When you choose to disobey God’s commands, how does it affect others in your family? What specific instruction or command from God will you start obeying this week?

Have you accepted the blood of Jesus as the sacrifice for your sin?  If you have, take time now to tell your family how you received Jesus as your Savior and what difference knowing Him as your “Passover lamb” has made in your life.

Week 13: Exodus 1-2 Moses’ Rescue

As a family, read Exodus 1-2 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

God’s people, the Israelites, lived in Egypt where God provided everything they needed. The Egyptian king, called Pharaoh, became afraid of the Israelites because they had grown into lots of families with many, many people. So Pharaoh decided to do two cruel things to keep the Israelites from growing any larger. First, he made God’s people his slaves. Then he ordered the Egyptians to kill all the baby boys born to the Israelites.

Moses was born to Hebrew slaves named Amram and Jochebed. Hebrew is another name for God’s people, the Israelites. While Moses was very small, his mother was able to hide him so he was protected. But after he was three months old she couldn’t hide Moses any longer.  Jochebed put Moses in a waterproof basket and placed it in the tall reeds that grew at the edge of the river.

Pharaoh’s daughter found Moses and felt sorry for the little baby. When she heard him crying, she wanted to help him. Moses’ sister offered to get a Hebrew nurse to help take care of the baby. Who do you think she brought back? Moses’ own mother, Jochebed! The outcome was even better than they had hoped. Moses was alive, and Pharaoh’s daughter paid his family to take care of him. When Moses was older, Pharaoh’s daughter adopted him. Moses went from being the child of slaves to being a prince in the palace of Egypt and Israel’s deliverer from slavery.

Why is this important to us, today?

The Israelites were living under the rule of an evil king who didn’t know or love their God. But God was with them and kept His promise to grow them into a great nation. Pharaoh’s wicked commands couldn’t stop God’s plan.

Amram and Jochebed had grown up hearing the wonderful stories of how God had used Joseph to save their people. They had faith in God and trusted him to take care of their family. Even when she was scared, Jochebed trusted that God had a plan when she put Moses in the basket (Hebrews 11:23). Was it luck or coincidence that Pharaoh’s daughter found Moses? Of course not, it was part of God’s plan for His people and for Moses. God was faithful and proved that He could be trusted.

Does it surprise you that nothing ever surprises God? He cares about everything that happens to you, big or small. Even before you were born, God had a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11). Things that seem like trouble to us can be part of God’s plan. God is faithful, even when we don’t know what’s going to happen. He is trustworthy. Nothing can stop God’s plans!

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

 

What special purpose could God have for each member of your family? What situation currently frightens you because you’re not sure what is going to happen? How does the story of Moses and his parents help you when you think about that situation?

How can we better follow God this week?

Discuss with your family what difficult things happened to you this week. How do you think God can use it to influence new people or build godly character?

His plan is what we would choose if we could see how it turns out. He wants you to trust Him with your daily problems because God knows how each situation fits into His plan for your life. As you go through this week, spend time in prayer, praising God for being faithful and trustworthy. Thank God for the family He gave you. Ask God for the courage to trust Him with every part of your life.

 

Week 11: Genesis 37, 39 – Joseph in Prison

As a family, read Genesis 37 and 39 together.  Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Jacob had many sons; but of all his sons, Joseph was his favorite. Joseph’s brothers were very jealous and planned to get back at Joseph.  They even came up with a plan to kill Joseph while out in the field with their sheep. When Joseph arrived at the field, his brothers shoved him into a well. Instead of letting him die in the well, the brothers decided to sell Joseph as a slave to a group of travelers who were headed for Egypt. The brothers returned to their father Jacob and told him that a wild animal had eaten Joseph.

When Joseph got to Egypt, he was sold again to Potiphar, a high-ranking official in Egypt. Potiphar saw that God was with Joseph and gave him a very special job. Joseph was put in charge of everything in Potiphar’s house, and God blessed that household greatly. God was with Joseph the entire time.

One day, Potiphar’s wife asked Joseph to do something that God would not like, and Joseph refused to sin against God. This made Potiphar’s wife very mad, and she had Potiphar throw Joseph into prison. While in prison, God never left Joseph and was very good to him. Joseph was put in charge of everything in the prison, and God made him very successful.

Why is this important to us today?

Joseph went through a lot in his life. Can you imagine your own brothers selling you as a slave, getting a really awesome job, and losing it unfairly only to be thrown into prison? The Bible is very clear that God was with Joseph the entire time.  From the bottom of a well, all the way to Egypt, God was there. From the ruler’s house to the prison cell, God was still there. He was right beside him, and He helped Joseph to be successful at whatever he did. Also, the Bible never mentions that Joseph did anything wrong. He wasn’t perfect, but he made a habit of obeying God and making decisions that would please God.

The Bible promises us that God will never leave us alone either. Even when you go through difficult situations, God is always right there beside you. When you recognize that you’re not alone, it’s easier to make decisions that please and honor God.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What decisions did Joseph make that were pleasing to God? How was God faithful to help Joseph? How has God been faithful to you and your family?

How can we better follow God this week?

This week, pay attention to the different ways God is there and faithful to you. Maybe even talk with your family about some favorite Bible verses that remind us that God is always with us everywhere we go.

What decisions will you make this week? How can you better obey God and honor Him with wise choices? As you pray together, thank God for his goodness, and ask Him to help you be obedient in return.

Week 9: Genesis 25, 27– Jacob and Esau

As a family, read Genesis 25 and 27 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.                                                

What happened?

Isaac and Rebekah had twin boys, Esau and Jacob. Before they were born, God told Rebekah that one would be stronger than the other and that the older one would serve the younger. When the boys arrived, the first one to come out was red and his body was like a hairy cloak. He was named Esau. After Esau was born, his brother came out with his hand holding Esau’s heel, so he was called Jacob.

As the boys grew up, Esau became a skillful hunter, and Jacob was more of a quiet man who served the family at home.  Isaac loved Esau because of his ability to hunt, but Rebekah favored Jacob.  One day Esau came in from the field, exhausted from all of his work, while Jacob was cooking stew.  Esau was so hungry that he demanded food from Jacob. So Jacob made Esau swear to sell his birthright to him.  Now, a birthright in those days was a big deal.  Because Esau was born first, he would inherit most of the family’s possessions.  But because Esau couldn’t control his appetite, he gave away his birthright to Jacob.

However, the boys didn’t have the last say in the birthright; their father had to give a blessing to the son who would receive it. So when Isaac was old and ready to give Esau the blessing, Rebekah helped Jacob deceive him. Rebekah knew Isaac’s eyesight was very bad and that Jacob was not like his brother.  She took Esau’s nicest garment and some goat hair and put them on Jacob so that the father would think that Jacob was Esau.  After all of the preparation, Jacob took some food to his father. Isaac asked Jacob who he was, and Jacob said that he was the firstborn. Isaac called him over, felt his arms, and smelled him. He was confused because he sounded like Jacob but felt and smelled like Esau. Isaac gave Jacob Esau’s blessing. Jacob left and Esau came in with some dinner for his father. He then asked for his blessing, but Isaac had already given it to Jacob!

Why is this important to us, today?

Although the people in this story loved God, they acted in ways that displeased Him and harmed their family. Isaac and Rebekah each showed favoritism to a different son. Isaac favored Esau, and Rebekah favored Jacob. When parents make children feel as if one is loved more than the others, it creates intense sibling rivalry. Jacob wasn’t willing to share his stew when his brother was hungry, and Esau was willing to give up the most important thing he had—his birthright— for a bowl of soup. He satisfied a temporary need without thinking about the long-term consequences. Then, Jacob and his mother were deceitful in how they tricked Isaac.

Favoritism, sibling rivalry, and untruthfulness can harm your family just as much as it did in Isaac’s family. Honesty is an important rule in any home. Lying breaks trust and harms your relationships. Sometimes we think deceiving isn’t lying, and it’s okay if we don’t get caught. But a half truth is always a whole lie.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What should Jacob and Esau each have done differently regarding the stew? How did each person, including the parents, act in ways that harmed their relationships? How did their actions displease the Lord?

How can we better follow God this week?

Moms and Dads, this is a great time to let your children know that you love them completely… just the way they are! The same should be true of brothers and sisters. Just like Esau and Jacob, you are probably very different from your siblings. God made you each unique. For the next few minutes, take turns pointing out the talents and positive character traits of each person in your family.

When everyone in a family knows they are loved and each wants the best for the others, it creates a strong and happy home. Finish your time together with prayer, thanking God for each person in your family.

Week 7: Genesis 13 – Abram and Lot Separate

As a family, read Genesis 13:5-18 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

 Abram and his nephew, Lot were both very wealthy. They had flocks of sheep and goats, herds of cattle, and many tents. Unfortunately, the land could not support both Abram and Lot with all of their flocks and herds living so close together, so fights began to break out between their workers.

Finally, Abram suggested to Lot that they separate so that there would not be conflict between their workers. Abram gave Lot the opportunity to choose which part of the land he wanted, and then Abram would leave and settle in the other part.  Lot chose for himself the whole Jordan Valley to the east, and Abram settled in Canaan.

Why is this important to us, today?

After fights broke out between Abram and Lot’s workers, Abram recognized that a real conflict was beginning to develop, so he took the initiative in solving the dispute. He gave Lot the first choice, even though Abram, being older and probably wealthier, had the right to choose first. It was a real risk for Abram because Lot could have cheated him or left him with a part of the land that would not support his flocks and herds. But that didn’t matter to Abram. What mattered most to him was a family that loved and cared for one another. He didn’t want to fight with his family.

Family peace was so important to Abram that he took the initiative in resolving the conflict. He unselfishly gave Lot first choice—even if it meant not getting what he wanted or what seemed like the best. That’s not easy to do, but when we act unselfishly and trust God for the outcome, conflicts can be avoided and we can have peace in our home.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

As a family, talk about why you think fights were breaking out among Abram’s and Lot’s workers. What was Abram’s response to the conflict? How did his response show faith in God?

How can we better follow God this week?

Conflict is a reality of life. There is no avoiding it. Sometimes conflicts happen inside our homes and among our families. That is why it is so important that we learn how to work it out when a conflict begins to develop.

With whom are you having a conflict? How can you act unselfishly in the situation? Take a few moments to pray together that family peace will be a priority in your home. Pray that each of you will learn how to work it out when conflicts arise.

Week 5: Genesis 11 – The Tower of Babel

As a family, read Genesis 11:1-9 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

At one time, a group of people settled in a plain in the land of Babylonia. They decided to build a city with a tower that reached high into the sky. They thought it would make them famous and keep them from being scattered all over the world. Back then, all the people of the world spoke the same language. So they could easily talk and make plans for baking bricks and other things they needed to build their great tower.

But the Lord came down to look at the city and the tower the people were building. He knew that as long as they were together, they would encourage one another to rebel against Him. So, He decided to go down and confuse the people with different languages. Since they couldn’t understand each other, they couldn’t build their city or their tower. Eventually, people who spoke the same language found one other and settled in new areas together.

Why is this important to us, today?

The people of Babylonia wanted to build their city with a massive tower that would reach to the heavens. It would be a monument to their own greatness, showing the world what they could accomplish. The people were only concerned with making a name for themselves, not honoring the name of the Lord.

God was not pleased with them.  He was disappointed in their pride, and He feared that they would continue to depend on their own skills and talents rather than depend on Him.  So God stopped their plan with a very interesting solution— He confused the language (which prevented them from communicating), and He scattered them across the world (which prevented them from cooperating and working together).

Although the people had the wrong motivation for building this tower, this story shows us something very important: there is incredible power when we communicate and work together.  In other words, when we talk regularly and make it a point to cooperate, we can accomplish a lot! It displeases God, however, when people work together to make themselves look good rather than showing how great He is.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

In your own words, why do you think it was wrong for the people to build this tower?  Talk about God’s solution to this problem – how did the two things He did (confused their language and scattered them) affect the world?

How can we better follow God this week?

How can your family work together to serve and glorify God? What personal or group accomplishments cause you to be prideful? How can you use that accomplishment to honor God?

Take a few moments now to thank God for bringing you together as a family.   Pray that you will make communication and cooperation a priority in your home and that, unlike the people of Babel, you will take part in things that are good and pleasing to God!

Week 3: Genesis 4 – Cain and Abel’s Sibling Rivalry

As a family, read Genesis 4 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened?

Cain and Abel were brothers and were the first kids of Adam and Eve.  Cain was a farmer who grew fruits and vegetables, while Abel was a shepherd. “And in the process of time…Cain brought an offering of the fruit of the ground to the Lord. Abel also brought of the firstborn of his flock” (Genesis 4:3-4).  The book of Hebrews tells us that by faith Abel offered God a better sacrifice than Cain did (Hebrews 11:4). God was pleased with Abel’s sacrifice, but not with Cain’s.

What was supposed to be an opportunity to worship God turned into a battle of sibling rivalry.  Cain put his desire to be better than his brother in front of the opportunity he had to worship and serve God. Cain became very jealous and angry toward Abel.  The Lord saw this and encouraged Cain to do what was right, but Cain didn’t listen to God. By allowing jealousy into his heart, Cain began to hate his brother.

Why is this important to us, today?

Abel approached His worship to the Lord with the right heart, but Cain did not.  Abel focused only on his desire to please God and do what was right.  Cain, however, focused on pleasing himself and turned his energy toward anger with God and his brother.  Because God loved Cain, He challenged him to correct his attitude and make things right. Rather than repent, Cain unwisely gave in to jealousy and anger.

What makes you angry or jealous? You can’t always avoid having these feelings, but God wants to help you correct them. Why? Because wrong attitudes and thoughts lead to sinful actions.

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What were the differences between Cain and Abel?  What should Cain have done differently? Discuss ways you can each give your best, as Abel did.

How can we better follow God this week?

We, too, have the choice to either love God and give Him our best or selfishly focus on what we want.  After learning about Cain, what should you do when jealousy creeps into your heart? In what ways does God try to get your attention when your attitude is wrong? Stop now and ask God to help you see and hear how He wants to correct your attitude this week.

Week 1: Genesis 1 – In the Beginning…God Made It All                                  

As a family, read Genesis 1 together. Afterwards, share the following discussion.

What happened? 

“In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.  The earth was formless and empty, and darkness covered the deep waters. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the surface of the waters.

Then God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light.   And God saw that the light was good. Then He separated the light from the darkness.  God called the light ‘day’ and the darkness ‘night.'”   – Genesis 1:1-2

After God made day and night, He made the sky. Then He formed the oceans and land.  But He didn’t stop there…God went on to fill the beautiful earth with all kinds of plants and trees that make seeds and fruit.  God made day and night.  He made all the living creatures in the sky, the seas, and on land.  He made animals that would be wild, and He made animals for man to care for.  Yes, God even made the bugs and the creepy crawlies.

God made all of that by just speaking it into existence, and God said His creation was “good.”  But then God did something even better, He made a very special creation out of the dust of the ground.  God created a person, two people to be exact, named Adam and Eve.  He did something with Adam and Eve that made them special compared to every other created thing—He breathed into them life and made them in His own image.

When He was all done, God said His creation was “very good!”

Why is this important to us, today?

Isn’t it amazing to think that God made everything out of nothing? He created the birds, trees, oceans and sky. All you have to do is look around each day to see the beautiful world God made.  But even more incredible than that, God made you and your family. He loves His entire creation and thinks it’s “very good” and that includes you! Since God is your Creator, shouldn’t you love Him and follow Him in everything you do?

Spend a few minutes talking about what you just read by answering these questions together:

What does learning about God’s act of creation tell us about Him?  What do you think was the best part of God creating the world?

How can we better follow God this week?

This week, think about the cool things God created and thank Him for them. He made your favorite foods, the beach, and the mountains. He even created humor so you could laugh. Remember, God also made your family, as unique as it might be! God designed you to love and cherish each other.

This week look for things and think of the people that you are thankful for.  When you think about these things, thank God for making them and be in awe of the power that God must have to be able to create this world!  Take a few moments now as a family to thank God for everything He created.

God doesn’t force us to say or to do the right thing, but He has given every follower of Christ the ability to have self-control through the Holy Spirit. Are you ready to look at the last fruit of the Spirit this week? Well then – let’s get started!

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Romans 8:5-9
• James 3:2
• Proverbs 17:27-28
• Proverbs 29:11

Let’s start it.

Which devices in your house have remote controls? Discuss what each remote allows you to control.

Let’s learn it.

The person holding the remote has the power to control that device. In a similar way, God has given you the controller to your life. You have the freedom to choose what you think, say, and do. Have you noticed how hard it is to control your thoughts, words, and behavior on your own? Well then, take a look at Romans 8:5-9.

Like a rider who controls his horse by pulling back on the reins, you can keep your whole self under control by holding back and being careful about what you say. Have you ever gotten really mad and said something that you regretted? Compare what Proverbs 17:27-28 and Proverbs 29:11 say about losing control of your temper. There are times when we need to hold back our words – especially when we’re upset.

From time to time, each of us struggles with an area of self-control. You might not lose your temper, but maybe you talk without thinking about how your words will hurt someone else. Or maybe you don’t control how much television you watch or how long you play video games. Others might try to get you to do things that you know are wrong. Sometimes you might even put off doing good things that you should do. At those times, it’s not your own willpower or strength that you need. Instead, you can choose to give “the remote control” of your life to the Holy Spirit. The spiritual fruit of self-control means you can choose to allow the Holy Spirit to control each thing that you think, say, and do.

Let’s discuss it.

1. In what area do you need more self-control?
2. Discuss with your family how you can choose to give the Holy Spirit control of that area this week.

Let’s do it.

You can choose to keep yourself under control by following the Holy Spirit’s leading each day. When you feel yourself start to lose control of something you think, say, or do, hand the “remote control” of your thoughts and behavior to the Holy Spirit. Then allow Him to choose how you respond. His choice will always be what is right and best for your life.

Now that we’ve learned about all nine fruits of the Spirit, try saying them together as a family. Do you remember where to find the fruit of the Spirit in the Bible? Consider highlighting Galatians 5:22-23 in your Bible as a reminder of what we’ve learned. Next week we’ll finish up by learning how the fruit of the Spirit helps us to be more like Jesus.

Our journey through the first six fruits of the Spirit has shown us how to grow in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and gentleness. Can someone in your family name the next fruit of the Spirit? Ask a family member to read Galatians 5:22 as we prepare to answer the question, “Am I trustworthy and dependable?”

Be ready to read the following passages:

• 1 Corinthians 4:1-2
• Psalm 86:15
• Matthew 24:45-50
• Lamentations 3:23
• Luke 16:10-12

Let’s start it.

What chores and responsibilities do you have at work or around the house? Who depends on you to get those things done?

Let’s learn it.

If you are a follower of Christ, then you are a steward – a person responsible for something that belongs to someone else. God has entrusted believers with something very valuable. Are you curious about what that is? To find out, ask a family member to read 1 Corinthians 4:1-2.

God has given us His holy Word. It’s our job to share His message with the people around us and to faithfully carry out His plans. “Faithful” is a word we hear a lot at church, but what does it mean? Check out how Jesus explained it in Matthew 24:45-50.

A faithful steward is loyal and dependable. He can be trusted to carry out his tasks, even when it seems that no one is watching. You see, God has not only entrusted you with the mission of sharing His Word – He has also given you other responsibilities. Think about your chores at home and your work at school or on your job. Are you trustworthy and dependable with those tasks? God tests our faithfulness in little things before He entrusts us with larger tasks. Let’s see what Jesus said about that. Who’s ready to read Luke 16:10-12?

No one is more qualified to talk about faithfulness than Jesus. As we’ve discovered in previous devotions, each fruit of the Spirit is also a character trait of God. What do you learn about the Lord’s faithfulness from Psalm 86:15 and Lamentations 3:23?

You can grow the spiritual fruit of faithfulness because of God’s faithfulness to you – it’s like a cup that can be filled until it overflows. He is even faithful to us when we are not faithful to Him (2 Timothy 2:13). We help God to accomplish His plans in the world by being trustworthy and dependable with His message and with the responsibilities He has given to us.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Look back at the tasks you wrote down in Let’s start it. Based on what we’ve just learned, what God-given responsibilities can you add to that list?
2. Name specific ways that you can prove yourself faithful (trustworthy and dependable) with all of your responsibilities this week.

Let’s do it.

Have you ever wished you could do something really big for God? Then look for the smaller things He’s already entrusted to you. As you carry out those tasks in a dependable way, you prove that you can be trusted with more responsibility.

So how would you answer today’s question? Are you trustworthy? Can people depend on you to do what you’re supposed to do? Can God? We don’t know when Jesus is coming back, but we certainly want to be found faithful when He does return. Determine to be faithful this week with each task you are given, even when no one is watching.

Which fruit of the Spirit comes after “love, joy, peace, patience” (Galatians 5:22)? This week, we’ll look at the spiritual fruit of kindness. Being nice and being kind are a lot alike, but kindness is more than simply being polite and respectful. Are you ready to look into God’s Word to learn what He says about being kind?

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Ephesians 4:29-32
• 2 Timothy 2:24
• 1 Samuel 20:12-17
• 2 Samuel 9:1-13
• 1 Samuel 16:13

Let’s start it.

As a family, come up with words that describe a nice person.

Let’s learn it.

Did you come up with lots of words? We understand the basic difference between being nice and being mean, but what about being kind? Let’s see what the Bible says about kindness. Read Ephesians 4:29-32 and 2 Timothy 2:24, and then add words from those verses to your paper.

Have you ever been encouraging, forgiving, or compassionate by accident? Probably not. Acts of genuine kindness are done on purpose. There’s a great illustration of this in the Old Testament; it’s the true account of how King David went out of his way to be kind. What promise was David asked to make in 1 Samuel 20:12-17?

King Saul’s son Jonathan was next in line for the throne of Israel. He and David were best friends even though God had chosen David to be king. After Saul and Jonathan died in battle, Jonathan’s brother became king of Israel’s Northern Kingdom, and David was anointed king of Judah – Israel’s Southern Kingdom. The war between the house of Saul and the house of David lasted a long time (2 Sam. 3:1). But when David finally became king over all Israel, he remembered his promise to show kindness to Jonathan’s family. Now let’s read the rest of the story in 2 Samuel 9:1-13.

Jonathan’s son Mephibosheth had been hidden from David. You see, anyone in Saul’s royal line to the throne could have been a threat to David’s reign. No one would have known whether or not David kept his promise to Jonathan. Although he was the king, he went to a lot of trouble to be generous, caring, and compassionate.

If David had acted from his human nature, he might have taken revenge on the house of Saul to protect his kingdom. David’s kindness towards Mephibosheth was the fruit of God’s presence in his life. What do you learn about David in 1 Samuel 16:13?

What other spiritual fruit do you recognize in this story about King David? He and Jonathan had a friendship that was rooted in godly love (1 Samuel 20:17). The fruit of kindness is so much more than just being nice; genuine kindness is done on purpose and is the result of the Holy Spirit giving you sincere love for others.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Which words or phrases from today’s devotion describe David’s acts of kindness? What other words would you use to describe the things he did?
2. When did someone go out of his or her way to be kind to you?

Let’s do it.

Although it’s important to be nice, the Holy Spirit prompts us to go a step further – to be kind. Is there someone you find it difficult to be kind to? Ask God to give you sincere love for that person – to see him or her the same way that He does. How can you be thoughtful, caring, or compassionate to that person? Have each family member choose at least one act of kindness to show this week.

Love, joy, peace. Learning how God explains these words in Scripture teaches us why only His Spirit can produce them in our lives. We learned last week that we can have joy in any situation. Well, the same thing is true about peace. Let’s take the next step on our journey through the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) and discover what Jesus taught about how to have His peace when we’re worried or afraid.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Mark 4:35-41
• John 16:33
• Philippians 4:7
• John 14:27

Let’s start it.

What causes you to be troubled, worried, or afraid? When you feel that way, what helps to calm you down?

Let’s learn it.

Everyone gets frightened or upset from time to time, including followers of Jesus. Check out what happened in Mark 4:35-41 when Jesus’ disciples found themselves in a frightening situation. Let’s see what we can learn from their experience.

 

The disciples were in a storm at sea, and water was coming into their boat! Can you imagine how frightened they must have been? Situations come up that make us feel anxious or afraid, too. Take a look at what Jesus said about troubles in John 16:33.

Even though the world is full of all kinds of problems, Jesus promised we could find peace in Him. He is never worried or caught off guard. Just think about what Jesus was doing during that storm. He was sleeping through the whole thing! Jesus knew that He had power over the wind and the waves. We, too, can have peace in the middle of our problems – if we trust Jesus. He is more powerful than any difficulty we will ever face.

What does Philippians 4:7 tell us to do when we’re worried or afraid? Taking your fears to God shows that you trust Him to take care of you. God’s peace will guard your heart and mind against worry. It might not seem to make sense, but God makes it possible for you to be calm even before the problem is solved.

The disciples could have remained calm during the storm just knowing that Jesus was in the boat with them. They were controlled by their fear of the storm rather than by faith in the Lord. What did Jesus say in John 14:27 that would have helped at that moment? You see, God’s peace is not the absence of trouble in your life; it’s the absence of worry in your heart. Do you remember the words Jesus spoke to calm the sea? “Peace, be still!” When you take your troubles, worries, and fears to the Lord, He speaks, “Peace, be still,” into your heart.

Let’s discuss it.

How would the following words of Jesus help you the next time you’re worried, troubled, or afraid?

• Peace, be still!
• Take heart! I have overcome the world.
• And the peace of God…will guard your hearts and your minds.
• My peace I give you…do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Let’s do it.

Nothing overwhelms Jesus. He has absolute power over everything in your life. God might bring a quick solution to a problem. If so, praise and thank Him. But He may allow it to continue – giving you the opportunity to grow your faith and develop the spiritual fruit of peace. If you’re in a “stormy” situation right now, ask God to give you a peaceful heart. Remember, only the Holy Spirit can replace worry with peace. When others notice that you’ve remained calm, tell them about Jesus – the One who commands the wind and the waves!

The list of godly qualities found in Galatians 5:22-23 is like a measuring stick that shows us where we need to be more like Jesus. Only the Holy Spirit can truly produce these characteristics in the lives of Christ’s followers. This week we’ll take the first step on a journey to look at all nine character traits – and it all begins with love.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• 1 Corinthians 13
• Colossians 3:12-14
• John 3:16

Let’s start it.

Take turns finishing the sentence: “I love….”

Let’s learn it.

Back in week 35 of Family Time we talked about how we sometimes use the word “hate” without giving it much thought. Well, the same thing is true of the word “love.” We use it to describe our feelings for everything from chocolate to members of our family to God! We use it when we want people to know how strongly we feel about something or someone. But what does it really mean? The best description of love is found in 1 Corinthians 13, which is known as the “love chapter.” Let’s read that passage together.

 

Godly love sounds a lot like the fruit of the Spirit – doesn’t it? Love is not just an emotion that comes over you. Love is a choice. Responding in love means choosing to be patient and kind, while also choosing not to be selfish or rude. It’s not always easy to be loving. But remember, responding in love starts by asking for God’s help and then following the Holy Spirit’s leading.

It’s not a coincidence that the fruit of the Spirit begins with love. Love is like rich soil that grows healthy fruit. The other eight fruits of the Spirit need genuine love in order to grow. Now check out Colossians 3:12-14 for another word picture about love. Did you catch what verse 14 said? Love is like a strong cord that holds a bundle of packages together. Love should be our first and last response, not just because we feel like it, but because we choose to speak and act in love.

There’s never been a better example of love in action than what’s described in John 3:16. Can someone in your family say that verse from memory? Either read or recite that verse now.

The first four words of John 3:16 tell us why we can be saved from our sin, “For God so loved….” His act of love wasn’t just for certain people. He loves the entire world and invites each person to become His child. It’s impossible for us to love people the way God wants us to unless we first have His love in our hearts.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Look at the description of love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a again. Make a list of the things love does and the things it does not
2. Discuss how you can live out God’s description of love this week at home, church, school, and work.

Let’s do it.

As we continue our journey through the fruit of the Spirit, begin to think of your heart as a garden and of God as the Gardener. You need to start with good, rich soil to grow healthy fruit. If you’ve accepted God’s love by receiving Jesus as your Savior, then love is the soil and the first fruit that should show up in your life. Do you love each person God brings across your path? Or, do you only act loving toward certain people? We can choose to love because God first chose to love us!

This is an excellent time to start memorizing the fruit of the Spirit if you haven’t yet. For this week, just memorize, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love….” Then as we explore each new word, add it on. Did some members of your family accept the challenge to memorize all nine character traits? If so, give them the opportunity to say them now.

Last week we talked about how to choose right over wrong. Well, the Bible is full of word pictures to help us understand which attitudes and actions are good and which ones God says are wrong. In this week’s Family Time, we’ll come across two word pictures that explain what spiritual fruit is and how it grows. Let’s get started!

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Galatians 5:22-23
• Ephesians 5:8-12

Let’s start it.

As a family, talk about what is needed for fruit trees to be healthy and grow. Here’s a big hint: oranges, limes, and lemons grow best in states like Florida and California!

Let’s learn it.

Does fruit grow best in the light or in the dark? In the light, of course! Fruit trees need lots of sunshine to produce big, healthy fruit. If you live in the light of Jesus, then the Holy Spirit will help you to produce spiritual fruit that will please the Lord: what’s good, right, and true. Look back at Galatians 5:22-23 now to remind yourselves of what the Apostle Paul called the fruit of the Spirit.

Obeying God’s Word helps you to become a fruitful follower of Christ. Disobedience, however, does just the opposite. Read Ephesians 5:8-12 to see how God’s Word uses light and darkness to describe good and evil and right and wrong.

Becoming a follower of Jesus is like stepping out of the dark and into the light! We actually become “children of light.” You see, when you receive Jesus – the Light of the world – His Spirit begins to shine from within you. Think about the words Paul used to describe disobeying God: fruitless, darkness, and shameful. Christians shouldn’t take part in anything that resembles the actions of our old, sinful nature (Galatians 5:19-21).

Being ungrateful, unforgiving, or disobedient to your parents is disobedience to God. You might still slip up and sin occasionally, but those attitudes and actions shouldn’t be a habit for a child of God because we are children of light! When you choose right over wrong – as we talked about in last week’s Family Time – then you begin to produce spiritual fruit. The more you make wise choices, the more fruit you’ll grow. So let’s get growing!

Let’s discuss it.

1. Name some attitudes and behaviors that do not show the light of Jesus. Which fruit of the Spirit is the opposite of each of those attitudes or behaviors?
2. Which wrong attitudes and actions trip you up most often? What did you learn in this devotion that would help you to do better?

Let’s do it.

God has written His Word so that we can understand exactly what He wants us to know. He tells us that we should be “fruitful” and that spiritual fruit cannot grow in darkness. Knowing Jesus as your personal Savior puts God’s light in your heart. But living in that light each and every day is up to you. The choices you make will either be fruitful or fruitless.

Here’s a way to use God’s word picture of light and darkness to help you. Picture yourself stepping from a dark shadow into the bright sunshine. Choose to leave that thought, attitude, or behavior in the dark – where it belongs. Ask God to focus your attention on what is good, right, and true.

It’s natural to think about things that we want. Many of those things are good, and we work hard to have them. But focusing all of your thoughts and energy on what you want rather than what God has already given you will never make you truly happy. This week’s devotion explores the secret of being content and what God says about wanting something so much that it consumes your thoughts. Are you ready to get started?

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:17
• Philippians 4:10-14; 19
• 1 Timothy 6:6-10
• Hebrews 13:5

Let’s start it.

What is something that you want and why?

Let’s learn it.

It’s fun to think about new things that we want – isn’t it? Sometimes, though, we can want something so much that it’s all we think about. You might even convince yourself that you won’t be satisfied until you have it. Check out Exodus 20:17 to see what God said to the Israelites about keeping their wants under control.

The Tenth Commandment warns about coveting, which is a strong desire to have something that someone else has. The things God told Israel not to covet covered every area of their lives, as well as ours. Coveting their neighbor’s house or wife meant wishing they lived in a different place or had a different family. Coveting someone’s servants, ox, or donkey is wanting that person’s possessions, lifestyle or job.

When you covet, you’re really saying to God, “What you’ve given to me isn’t enough.” Let’s take a look at Philippians 4:10-14 to learn what God-honoring attitude is the opposite of coveting.

Paul was content because He knew and trusted God, not because of what he had. Did you notice, though, that he “learned” to be content? That’s a lesson we all need to learn. Once Paul understood the secret to contentment – relying on God’s strength – he could help others to trust God, too. How did he encourage the Philippians in 4:19?

Ask a family member to read 1Timothy 6:6-10 to hear what Paul wrote to his friend Timothy about being content. God’s idea of contentment is quite different from ours. Our wants usually go way beyond food and clothes! But Paul didn’t just warn Timothy not to want money and things – instead, he instructed him to desire God, who would always be with him (Hebrews 13:5).

Contentment doesn’t come from what you have, where you live, where you work, or who your family is. Contentment comes from knowing that God is enough. Nothing or no one else can ever fill the empty space in your life that is meant for God. He’s the only one who can really make you satisfied and happy.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Spend a few minutes talking about the things God has already given to you. How does knowing that God is your Provider help you to be more content?
2. How have you recently wished that something about your life was more like someone else’s life? Discuss with your family how you can learn to be content in that area.

Let’s do it.

Have family members write 1 Timothy 6:6 on index cards or sticky notes to help each of you memorize Paul’s advice about godliness and contentment. Be aware this week of when your wants start to get out of control, and then quote that verse.

Remember, no one else has a life exactly like yours. Only you can live the life that God has allowed you to have. So instead of wanting what someone else has, look for ways you can serve and honor the Lord right where you are with exactly what He has given to you. God may very well give you the things you desire, but He often waits until we learn to be content with what we already have.

The Ten Commandments are God’s most basic rules. Two of those commands address the importance of being trustworthy. Next week we’ll take a look at being trustworthy with our words. But first, this week’s devotion will explore what God says about being trustworthy with our actions.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:15
• Ephesians 4:28
• Luke 19:1-9

Let’s start it.

What are some actions that show that a person isn’t trustworthy?

Let’s learn it.

Any behavior you have to hide is usually wrong behavior. Even thieves sneak around in the darkness to hide what they’re doing because they understand that their actions are wrong. Taking something that doesn’t belong to you is stealing, and we know that stealing is wrong. Check out Exodus 20:15 to see how the Eighth Commandment addresses stealing.

We learned last week that every sinful behavior has an opposite, God-honoring behavior. What does Ephesians 4:28 suggest the opposite of stealing is?

Instead of taking what belongs to someone else, our hands should be busy working so we can share what we’ve earned with others. The book of Luke tells the true story of a man who stopped cheating people in his community after he met Jesus. Ask someone in your family to read his story in Luke 19:1-9.

Zacchaeus was a tax collector. It was his job to collect money owed to the government, but Zacchaeus was not honest. He collected more than people owed and kept the extra for himself. When Zacchaeus met Jesus, however, he stopped cheating people, paid back what he had stolen, and gave back more than he had taken.

Obeying God’s command not to steal includes more than respecting another person’s property and money. If your eyes wander to a classmate’s paper during a test, then you’re stealing his or her answers. We sometimes forget that nothing can be hidden from God. He knows everything you think and sees everything you do. Fully obeying the Eighth Commandment means being completely trustworthy with all of your actions.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Think back to the untrustworthy actions you discussed in Let’s start it. Name an opposite, God-honoring behavior for each one.
2. As a family, discuss what you think about the following statements:
   1. Bringing a pen home from your workplace or wasting time at work is robbing your employer.
   2. Copying another person’s homework is cheating.
   3. Taking credit for another person’s words or ideas is stealing.

Let’s do it.

Will you choose to respect other people’s money, property, time, and ideas? Remember, hard work and honesty honor God. If you are a student – work hard. If you are a parent or teenager with a job – work hard. Then be generous with the knowledge and money you’ve earned. If you find yourself trying to hide something you’ve done from your parents, your teacher, or your boss, don’t forget that nothing is hidden from God. So be careful to show that you can be trusted each and every day.

Most people would agree that it’s wrong to take the life of another person. But what about things like hatred and uncontrolled anger? Jesus taught His followers to love one another and to show His love to people who don’t know Him. This week we’ll take a closer look at the Sixth Commandment and learn what Jesus said about our attitudes toward other people.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:13
• Genesis 1:27
• Genesis 4:1-12
• Matthew 5:21-22
• 1 John 3:15
• John 13:34-35

Let’s start it.

Ask each family member to describe a food that they hate to eat and a food that they love to eat.

Let’s learn it.

How did your faces and voices change when you described foods you love versus ones that you hate? The same thing happens when those emotions enter our conversations about people. We often use the word “hate” without much thought. Sometimes, we use strong words that don’t really reflect our true feelings. As we’re about to learn, however, God isn’t pleased when we express hatred towards other people.

The Sixth Commandment has only four words, “You shall not murder” (Exodus 20:13), yet the Bible has so much more to say about why we should place a high value on human life. To understand why God gave this command, we need to go back to the beginning – the very beginning. Turn to Genesis 1:27 in your Bible and ask someone in your family to read that verse aloud.

Human beings are different from all other living things. God created us in His image so we could have a personal relationship with Him, the Creator. No other part of creation is as valuable to God as people. But when sin came into the world, it affected how people valued and treated one another. Check out what happened to the very first family in Genesis 4:1-12.

Cain allowed himself to be consumed with a sinful attitude – anger. The result was the murder of his brother Abel. Let’s look at what Jesus taught about the connection between anger and murder in Matthew 5:21-22.

As followers of Christ we would never think about killing someone, but keeping our anger under control is more difficult, isn’t it? Have you ever yelled at a sibling or a friend when you got mad? The words “Raca” and “fool” that Jesus talked about would be like calling someone stupid or an idiot. That kind of attitude fuels anger in your heart and can eventually become hatred if it’s left uncontrolled. Before you continue, check out what 1 John 3:15 says about that.

Wow! John says that whoever hates his brother is a murderer! God looks at the heart, and hating someone is like committing murder in your heart. You see, it’s not enough to simply follow the do’s and don’ts of the Ten Commandments; God also wants our thoughts and attitudes to reflect His character. Check out what Jesus told His disciples in John 13:34-35. Since God loves and values every person, so should we.

Let’s discuss it.

1. What causes you to lose your temper or become angry with someone?
2. Discuss ways that family members can learn to control strong emotions like anger, jealously, and hatred.

Let’s do it.

Uncontrolled anger and hatred are not from God, so they should never have any place in our lives. We all get mad from time to time, but we need to let God control our emotions before we speak or act out of anger. Having strong negative emotions for another person over and over again should send a warning to your heart. Ask God to help you see that person as God sees him or her. God loves and values every person because each one has been created in His image – even the ones you get angry with. Share with your family how you will show God’s love this week.

Over the last six weeks, we’ve looked at how to better love God by following His rules in the first four of the Ten Commandments. We’ve discovered how these commands help to shape the right attitude toward the Lord. This week we’ll begin our exploration of how the right attitude toward God affects our behavior toward others.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:12-17
• Romans 7:14-25

Let’s start it.

How would you want people to treat others if you were in charge of the rules at school, at church, or in your neighborhood?

Let’s learn it.

The last six commandments are God’s rules for our relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers. How well do the rules your family came up with match God’s rules? As a family, try to name the last six commandments from memory. Then read Exodus 20:12-17.

How did you do? Commandments five through ten teach us to live unselfishly as a family and as a community. Children should honor and obey their parents. Spouses should remain faithful to each other. We should respect one another’s life, property, and reputation. And finally, God instructs us to be content with what we have, being satisfied with what God has provided and not wanting what belongs to someone else.

 

Have you ever wondered why we need rules about how to treat one another? Why doesn’t everyone just do the right thing? Let’s take a minute to see what the Apostle Paul said in Romans 7:14-25 about why God gave us His law in the Ten Commandments.

God’s law shows us that we’re sinners in need of a Savior. But even after we choose to follow Christ, we can be guilty of selfishness, greed, or an unloving attitude. As you begin to grow as a Christian, there is still a battle against sin going on inside you. It’s a struggle between following your sinful nature (leading to wrong behavior) and your spiritual nature (leading to right behavior.) When you have the right attitude toward God, you become more aware of sinful thoughts and attitudes. A right relationship with Him helps you to see and treat other people with the same love and respect that He does.

Let’s discuss it.

1. Why do you think God placed such importance on how people treat each other?
2. Think of examples of how wrong attitudes toward God can cause wrong behavior toward each other.
3. Look at commandments five through ten one more time. How would loving as God loves help you to keep each of these?

Let’s do it.

Which of the last six commandments is hardest for you to follow regularly? Do your words and actions honor your mom and dad? Are you determined to be truthful, no matter what the consequences are? Are you content with the things God has provided for you?

It’s not enough to simply know the right thing to do or to simply desire to do it – we need to follow through on the rules that God has given us. When you struggle to do the right thing, remember that it’s your sinful nature taking over. Turn to God – He has promised to help you. Human relationships aren’t perfect, but they will be greatly improved when you rely on God’s Word and the Holy Spirit to help you.

Parents choose names for their children for all kinds of reasons. They may simply like the sound of the name or the meaning that it has. Sometimes, parents name their children after another family member, special friend, or a person in the Bible. Names are important in Scripture, but no name is more significant than the name of the Lord. This week’s devotion will focus on using God’s name in the right way.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:7
• Isaiah 54:5
• Psalm 47:2
• 1 Timothy 1:17
• Isaiah 9:6

Let’s start it.

Do you know why you were given the name you have? If you were named after a particular person, discuss what led your parents to give you that name. You can also use a search engine to look up the meaning of each family member’s name. Does your name accurately represent something about you?

Let’s learn it.

Names in the Bible often represented an event at the time of the child’s birth or expressed the parents’ desire for the kind of life the child would have. But God’s name expresses His character far more than any human name ever could. That’s why the third commandment is so important. Ask a family member to read Exodus 20:7 to start our discussion on the name of God.

The command not to misuse God’s name implies that it should be used correctly – with reverence and respect. However, our society has forgotten what it means for God’s name to be precious. Even Christians sometimes casually or jokingly use phrases containing God’s name. We need to break any habit of saying the name of the Lord when we aren’t talking directly about Him or to Him.

To better understand why God’s name should be used with such respect, we need a better understanding of what His name means. There are many names for God in the Bible because His nature cannot be expressed in just one name. What do you learn about God’s name or character from the following verses – Psalm 47:2, Isaiah 9:6, Isaiah 54:5, 1 Timothy 1:17?

Wow! Is it any wonder that we should use the name of our God with such respect? His name is awesome – literally!

Let’s discuss it.

1. How do you feel and react when God’s name is misused around you?
2. Give examples of proper ways to use the name of the Lord.

Let’s do it.

The command not to misuse the name of the Lord should motivate followers of Christ to always use God’s name with reverence and respect. Look for opportunities this week to make God’s character known by using His name in ways that honor Him. When your words give God the credit and the glory for what is happening in your life, you honor His name. How can you show respect for His name throughout the week? Keep in mind that how we talk about God matters to Him.

Many people today either doubt or outright deny that God exists. They only believe in what they can see and touch. Have you ever wondered if our invisible God is real? Well, the First Commandment reminds us that there is only one true God, and He deserves our complete and total loyalty. As a matter of fact, He commands it! Let’s take a look at how God reminded the Israelites that He is real.

Be ready to read the following passages:

• Exodus 20:1-3
• Genesis 1:1
• 1 Kings 18:16-39

Let’s start it.

What do you have to be reminded of most often? Why do you think you’re forgetful about that particular thing?

Let’s learn it.

Very few people have the ability to remember perfectly. Of course, God knows that human beings tend to be forgetful – even about the most important things. Ask a family member to read Exodus 20:1-3 and make note of what God reminded Israel in the first words of the Ten Commandments.

God reminded Israel of who He was and what He had done in the past so they would worship Him alone. You see, generations of Israelites had grown up as slaves, watching the Egyptians worship false gods. Instead of recognizing the Lord as their Creator, the people of Egypt created gods from various plants and animals. They worshiped creation instead of the Creator. How does Genesis 1:1 remind you of who God is?

All the gods of Egypt were no match for the Lord. By miraculously delivering Israel from slavery, the Lord proved that the gods of Egypt were false and the God of Israel was real. God’s people were to be different from Egypt and from other nations they would encounter as they traveled to their new home. The Lord reminded the Israelites that they served the one true God.

The First Commandment may seem simple – “have no other gods.” But Israel struggled over and over again to keep it. So from time to time the Lord would remind His people that He alone is God. One of the best examples of this is found in 1 Kings 18:16-39. Check out this incredible passage together right now.

Although Elijah was greatly outnumbered, he knew without a doubt that he served the one true God. When the power of the Lord fell on the altar, God’s people remembered Him and cried out repeatedly, “The Lord – He is God!” The God of Israel proved once again that He was (and is) real.

Today, as in the days of the Israelites, we place our faith in the invisible God. Even though we can’t see Him with our eyes or touch Him with our hands, the Lord works in the world and in our lives to remind us that He is our Creator, Provider, and Protector.

Let’s discuss it.

1. What evidence in creation proves that God is real?
2. How has God protected and provided for your family in the past? How did it remind you to keep Him in first place in your life?

Let’s do it.

If you read the Bible regularly and are actively involved in church, then you probably believe that God exists and still works in our world. Are your actions and attitudes consistent with what you say you believe? Do you honor God as your Creator by how you behave? Are you trusting in anything or anyone other than the Lord to provide for what you need? Having no other gods before the Lord isn’t just something you acknowledge in your thoughts. How you choose to live each day shows what you really believe.

As you go throughout your week, look for someone who has doubts that God is real. Ask the Lord to help you show His love to that person. It’s not enough to simply know that we serve the only true God – we need to share that news with the world!