March 28, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 19:11-29

What does it say?
Wisdom gives the patience to overlook an offense. Unfailing love is what is desired.

What does it mean?
Several verses in this passage explore the dynamics of family life as Solomon offered wisdom on how to have harmony at home. The relationship between husband and wife sets the tone for everything that happens. A nagging wife combined with a lazy or hot-tempered husband is a recipe for disaster. Likewise, undisciplined, disobedient children who argue with their parents create a toxic atmosphere. Harmony is achieved when each family member chooses to overlook the routine offenses of family life and offer one another unfailing love.

How should I respond?
Facebook is full of smiling faces displaying only their best moments. But behind the posts, there are no perfect families. Disagreements are bound to occur when people continually live in close quarters. So how can your family experience unity? Show one another the same unconditional love that God has shown to you. This kind of love drives each person to be more like Christ through accountability and the willingness to immediately forgive the irritations that happen on a daily basis. Have a family meeting to openly and calmly discuss issues that need to be addressed. When each person chooses to love and forgive, then everyone can say, “There’s no place like home!”

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March 27, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 19:1-10

What does it say?
People who rush into foolish behavior cause their own ruin. Yet they get angry with God for the outcome.

What does it mean?
Enthusiasm needs to be tempered with wisdom. Passion and eagerness are good qualities, but they must be supported by knowledge. Acting out of ignorance, even with the best of motives, can be as disastrous as acting foolishly. Ironically, people who refuse to consult or wait on the Lord often blame Him for the results of their own foolish actions.

How should I respond?
At some point we’ve all rushed into something, only to regret the results of our decision. Poor choices are usually the result of rushing into an idea without seeking godly wisdom or spending time in prayer. Acting impetuously, without a clear God-given path, causes blunders in our personal, spiritual, and professional lives. In what area do you need more information before you act? Who can offer you wise counsel? Preparation is part of God’s plan. Submit your enthusiasm to His will, and ask for the patience to do it right.

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March 26, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 18:10-24

What does it say?
The Lord is a strong tower for the righteous, but the rich imagine their wealth as a fortified city. Pride is a man’s downfall, but humility leads to honor.

What does it mean?
The illustration of God’s name as a strong tower pictures a place of refuge, protection, and security. The righteous know the Lord can be trusted, and they run to Him for shelter when difficult times come. In contrast, the rich person tends to place his trust in material wealth. He imagines his wealth will last and protect him from the dangers and uncertainties that others face. Having wealth gives him an attitude of superiority and a false sense of security. The proud may have to suffer a downfall to learn humility.

How should I respond?
Everywhere you look, there are financial gurus spouting their latest plan to help you prepare for the future. But it’s impossible to plan for every financial scenario life may bring. On what or whom are you relying? While it’s wise to plan responsibly for your later years, our security should be in the Provider of everything we have, not in the provision itself. God alone knows the future and promises to meet your every need as you turn to Him for refuge. In what situation are you in danger of trusting anything other than the Lord? In times of trouble, God is to be our first line of defense – not our last resort.

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March 25, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 18:1-9

What does it say?
A foolish person is quick to share his opinion. His words are his undoing, bringing trouble into his life. The words of a gossip go down into one’s innermost being.

What does it mean?
Today’s passage describes various aspects and consequences of communication. Foolish people care more about being heard than listening and learning. Thoughtlessly airing personal opinions tends to repel others. At times it even results in physical confrontation. The person who gossips lures others in with the promise of hearing something that not everyone else knows. True or not, words of gossip are heard as truth and are hard to forget. But the words of a wise person are refreshing and clear, like water from a fountain. Wise speech is kind, cautious, and encouraging.

How should I respond?
Words matter. As believers, what we say should reflect that we follow Christ. What do your words say about you? Have your conversations this week been marked by wisdom or by foolishness and gossip? If we’re not careful, we can think too highly of our own opinion, ignoring the opinions and feelings of others. Ask God to help you in your conversations today. Determine to listen more than you talk. Pray that your words will be encouraging and laced with God’s wisdom.

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March 24, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 17:23-28

What does it say?
A person with knowledge and understanding is even-tempered and shows restraint in his use of words. Even a fool is considered wise if he stays quiet.

What does it mean?
As in previous Proverbs, today’s passage contains a caution regarding one’s speech. All knowledge isn’t meant to be shared, especially when situations cause tempers to rise. People with God-given understanding stay calm and know how to stop before saying something unnecessary. As a matter of fact, being quiet gives the appearance of wisdom, even for a foolish person.

How should I respond?
In our culture, the use of social media has almost completely removed restraint from speech. Some people feel the need to post their stream of consciousness for everyone to read, laying out every thought and aggravation throughout the day. Think back through your written and spoken communications yesterday. Were you a good listener? Or did your whole conversation focus on your own thoughts and opinions? Ask God to help you know what to say and when to say it. Take time to really listen in order to gain true understanding of what is happening in any given situation. Others are more likely to ask for your thoughts and opinions if they are spoken less often. Always be prepared to make the most of those God-given opportunities (Col. 4:5-6).

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March 23, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 17:17-22

What does it say?
A true friend loves at all times. A cheerful heart is like medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

What does it mean?
Several verses in this passage read like a recipe for friendship: staying close when times are tough, avoiding arguments, and being truthful. When all of these ingredients are present in a relationship, it serves to bring hope and optimism, which are beneficial to the body as well as the mind and spirit. Healthy relationships aren’t built on deceit or characterized by constant fighting.

How should I respond?
What traits do you look for at the onset of a friendship? No doubt, the characteristics mentioned in today’s passage should be important to all of us. Think about your closest relationships. Are they based on truthfulness and mutual encouragement? Carefully examine any relationship that is marked with constant strife. Ask God to help you love that person the way that He does. That kind of love chooses to stand by a friend when others choose to walk away. What friend or family member do you need to contact today? Your voice or presence may be just the medicine that person’s heart needs.

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March 22, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 17:1-16

What does it say?
Solomon described the actions of those who are evil. He stated that grandchildren are a crown of glory, and parents are the pride of their children.

What does it mean?
Solomon gave warnings concerning the behavior of the foolish – those who have left God out of their lives and do not desire wisdom. His purpose was to prepare his sons to be godly leaders and to be ready for what they would face in the real world. Children who grow up in godly, peaceful homes often have no experience with the different facets of evil around them. To avoid the influence of evil, they need discernment and guidance to make right decisions. Children who embrace their parents’ training and choose God’s way of wisdom bring joy to the hearts of their parents and grandparents.

How should I respond?
The home is where lives are developed. The challenge for parents is to display authentic Christianity and encourage their children to develop godly character, choose godly friends, and make right decisions. Investing in their lives is more than watching them excel in academics, sports, or the arts … it’s appealing to their spirits to develop a relationship with the Lord and seek His wisdom. How are you passing on the wisdom found in Proverbs to your children and grandchildren? It takes time to help them apply what Proverbs teaches, but it will prepare them for their future home and family.

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March 21, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 16:21-33

What does it say?
The wise are known for their understanding and controlled tempers, whereas scoundrels gossip, stir up dissension, and hurt others by what they say.

What does it mean?
Proverbs has a lot to say about what and how a wise person speaks. This passage reiterates the way a wise person carefully uses words and then shows the impact of his speech on others. Gracious, winsome language has a way of drawing people in. A discerning person with controlled emotions has the opportunity to persuade others. The key to this kind of influence is having a heart of wisdom to guide the mouth. Wisdom rightly leads away from worthless speech that promotes mischief, strife, and division.

How should I respond?
What if someone secretly recorded everything you said yesterday and played it back to you now? Would you have reason to be concerned? This passage challenges us to pay attention to what we say because our words have profound influence – either positive or negative. It’s impossible, however, to simply control our mouths (James 3:8). Jesus taught that everything we say is an overflow of what is in our hearts (Luke 6:45). What do your most recent conversations reveal about the condition of your heart? Ask God to guide your heart with wisdom to enable you to speak soothing words, drawing people closer to Him. End today with a clear conscience regarding what you’ve said.

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March 20, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 16:10-20, 28

What does it say?
Pride will eventually bring a person to disaster. It is better to have a poor and lowly life than to have much and be proud.

What does it mean?
Pride and humility cannot co-exist. The irony of pride is that it causes the opposite of what the proud person desires. The intent is to elevate one’s status, when in reality pride is the very thing that leads to a great loss or failure. A “haughty spirit” involves an attitude of superiority and a belief that others, maybe even God, are not needed to achieve success. Humility, on the other hand, involves being teachable and having a willingness to live without worldly status symbols. Humility, not pride, brings honor (Prov. 18:12; 29:23).

How should I respond?
As Christians, we are to be clothed with humility because that is how we identify with Christ (Col. 3:12; Phil. 2:5-9). For some, the personal relationship with the Lord Jesus becomes the very thing that causes a superior attitude toward unbelievers. It’s essential to guard against the belief that we are better than other people in any way. Only by regularly acknowledging our position before God are we properly positioned to be used by Him. What part has pride played in a downfall in your life? Humbly ask God to reveal any hidden areas of pride. True humility will result in honor and blessing from our gracious Lord who promised, “Whoever humbles himself will be exalted” (Matt. 23:12).

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March 19, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 16:1-9

What does it say?
People make plans, but ultimately, God holds the future. Success and peace come by pleasing God and committing one’s plans to Him.

What does it mean?
God is sovereign, which means that He is in control of everything. His purposes take precedence over any human plan – no matter how noble. This doesn’t mean that making plans is a worthless effort, but plans must line up with what God has determined to do. God knows the heart and sees the motives behind the plans. Since God gives guidance and direction for the plans He initiates, any planning must begin with consulting Him for His will. Successful plans are the product of completely surrendering one’s heart and future to a sovereign God.

How should I respond?
Too often, we set goals and ask God to bless our plans after we have it all figured out. The order needs to be reversed. Go to God first. Commit your life to obedience and trust in Him. He will then mold your heart and mind in such a way that you’ll begin to see the plan He already has in motion. If you are willing to let go of your grip on your own ideas, His will can be successfully carried out in and through your life. God’s plan is always better than anything we could think or imagine (Eph. 3:20). Simply put, surrendering to our sovereign Lord brings success. What goal or plan are you holding too tightly? Are you willing to let God bend you and your plan to align with His will?

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March 18, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 15:16-33

What does it say?
It is much more desirable to have a home filled with love for God and people than to have a home filled with great wealth that is tainted by hate, greed, or sinful motives.

What does it mean?
Several verses in this passage emphasize that it is better to have less in this lifetime and please God than to amass much without Him. Solomon does not condemn wealth or say that prosperity is sinful. However, material gain tainted by greed or hatred cannot be enjoyed in peace. Contentment, even with little, leads to a better life for the person who is in a trusting relationship with the Lord. Building wealth by sinful means is not worth the turmoil and trouble it brings.

How should I respond?
True contentment requires a shift in focus from what we can get from God to God Himself. Greed keeps our focus on getting the things we want at any cost. But God desires that we trust Him to provide all that we need. Contentment is not dependent on wealth, achievements, or circumstances that change throughout life. Seeking a godly life brings contentment that pursuing wealth never can bring (1 Tim. 6:6). What turmoil in your life is the result of a greedy pursuit? With what is God asking you to be content? Will you choose to pursue the Lord and be satisfied with all He has provided?

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March 17, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 15:1-15

What does it say?
The wise make peace with truthful and gentle answers, while fools stir up anger through harsh, lying words.

What does it mean?
Calmly speaking the truth can take the fuel away from tense, argumentative situations. That is why the wise person maintains a courteous demeanor and sticks to the actual facts of the situation, making a solution and peace more likely. Wisdom and knowledge are connected yet different. Wisdom is the ability to apply knowledge to life’s situations. The wise seek, acknowledge, and speak what is true. The foolish person, however, lashes out angrily with no regard for the truth or how his words may crush someone else. Meanwhile, the Lord sees the motives and reactions of both types of people.

How should I respond?
We’ve all met people who think that being loud and contentious adds validity to their argument. At times, we may have even been that person. When passions run high, winning the argument at any cost can become a wrong priority. In those situations, it’s important not to lose sight of the truth and the effect of your words and demeanor on the other person. How could a softer response deflect a tense situation you’re facing? Be sure to know the facts before engaging in a heated debate. Pray. Then calmly and wisely talk about the issue rather than argue.

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March 16, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 14:30-35

What does it say?
A tranquil heart gives life to the body, whereas envy corrodes the bones.

What does it mean?
Many of the proverbs are not promises but truth observed. Because of Solomon’s God-given wisdom, his observations hold great insight. Here, he recognized a timeless truth: envy affects the human body negatively. Envy is like a cancer that eats away at spiritual and physical health. Although this verse is not a formula for an illness-free life, it highlights the fact that a peaceful, calm heart controls destructive emotions. Being content with what God has provided is vital to emotional and spiritual well-being.

How should I respond?
Advertising in our society appeals to our tendency to desire what we don’t have. Coveting isn’t isolated to just wanting other people’s possessions, but applies to being discontent with our abilities and positions as well. Only God’s Spirit can help us to avoid such selfish attitudes. When we yield to His leading, envy stays under control, and our hearts remain at peace. What consuming desire is causing turmoil in your heart and mind? Will you give that desire completely to the Lord right now? Determine today to rid yourself of any emotion that hinders your spiritual or physical well-being.

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March 15, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 14:13-29

What does it say?
The wise are patient and prudent, guided by reverent trust and obedience to the Lord. The foolish are hasty and rash, ruled by their own spirit.

What does it mean?
The author chose two types of people to contrast the ways they deal with life. The character of each reflects what is most important to them. The wise man focuses on obedience to God, avoids evil, develops discernment, and is ultimately blessed with spiritual knowledge. The fool, however, is unaware of his reckless behavior and is known for hurting himself and others. In the end the fool always fails because he ignores God’s wisdom and follows his own foolish heart.

How should I respond?
As children, we all heard the fable of the tortoise and the hare. The wise man in today’s passage is like the tortoise: his singular focus gains him the victory. Like the hare, the fool is often exceptionally talented, either physically or intellectually. But he ultimately loses because he does not maintain focus on what is most important. Wisdom is not intelligence; it is putting into practice what God has revealed. Where is your focus? Is it on God’s Word or on your own knowledge and ability? Scripture, the antidote for foolishness, is perfect – making even the simplest person wise (Psalm 19:7).

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March 14, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 14:1-12

What does it say?
A wise woman builds up her home and prudently gives thought to her ways. The home of the upright will flourish.

What does it mean?
A conscientious woman can cause her household to thrive. She cares for her home, creating a refuge for those who live there. In contrast, the choices of an unwise woman show neglect for the management of her home and for the quality of relationships within her family. Wisdom results from thinking each decision through – but not in terms of human understanding.

How should I respond?
Many women today are under a lot of pressures. Overwhelmed with balancing work, family, and even commitments at church, they can easily feel defeated and depleted. As a result, they lack the emotional and physical strength to meet the needs of the ones closest to them. God does not want us to live defeated lives but to be a blessing and an encourager to our families. Have you been running your household in your own strength? How is your attitude toward God reflected in your home? Trust God today to do through you what you could never do for your family in your own efforts.

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March 13, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 13:15-25

What does it say?
A wise person chooses wise friends. Loving parents are careful to discipline their children.

What does it mean?
Wise people intentionally associate with wise individuals. Associating with foolish people will eventually lead to trouble and harm. Parents who choose not to discipline their children are actually harming them by allowing their foolish nature to run free (Pro. 22:15). Loving parents want the best for their children and recognize that correction of ungodly attitudes and behavior is part of God’s plan.

How should I respond?
Today’s passage offers principles for wise parenting. First, it’s important to know your child’s friends and what kind of influence those friends have in your child’s life. When was the last time you talked with your children about their friendships? Encourage them to use discernment when choosing friends and help them recognize foolish behavior. Next, the goal of loving discipline is to guide your child’s heart to Christ, not just manage his behavior. Reflect on your parenting style, and ask God for wisdom and insight as you correct them. After all, God has entrusted your children to your care. Treat them as gifts from Him.

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March 12, 2018

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Read – Proverbs 13:1-14

What does it say?
Listening to and heeding insightful instruction will lead to wisdom and life. Pride, however, breeds quarrels and ensnares the one who rejects wise advice.

What does it mean?
People who reject instruction and advice often think they know enough to navigate life on their own. Today’s passage, however, points out that wise people listen to other wise people. Receiving instruction and correction with a teachable spirit directs a person away from destructive behavior. Doing so requires humility. Pride, on the other hand, keeps people from taking advice or admitting when they are wrong, which tends to breed conflict. The dangers of pride can be largely avoided by acknowledging wise counsel.

How should I respond?
Pride is a deceptive problem in our lives that is difficult to overcome. Too often we’re unaware of it, even though others see it clearly. Ask yourself a few questions: How well do I follow instruction? How do I respond when corrected? Am I open to learning and taking advice? Your answers should act as a barometer to determine if you’re on the path to humility and wisdom or on the path of pride and destructive behavior. Who has given you counsel in your life? Look for people who spend time gaining wisdom from God’s Word. Remember, wise people listen to other wise people.

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