April 4, 2018
What does it say?
The Sayings of the Wise warn against envying sinners who indulge in drunkenness, gluttony, and promiscuity. The wise son applies truth, discipline, and understanding.
What does it mean?
Today’s passage looks at a wise father’s desires for his son. He instructed his child to spend time in pursuits that have lasting value rather than temporary pleasures that would eventually trap him. Listening to and following the father’s instructions would result in wise choices. He taught his son to have a proper view of the Lord and to accurately assess the consequences of rejecting godly wisdom. The father used discipline to keep his child from physical and spiritual danger. Both parents anticipated the joy of watching their son choose wisdom and righteousness over a lifestyle of sin.
How should I respond?
Parenting is both exhausting and exhilarating. No other role brings such joy. But parents must first help kids navigate the minefield of adolescence and early adulthood. What is your greatest desire for your children … happiness or holiness? If you only want them to be happy, you’ll find yourself giving in to their latest whim, tantrum, or mood. Directing children toward holiness, however, must be done intentionally. How does your parenting style match up with the wise father in Proverbs 23? What discipline is needed for your child’s physical or spiritual protection? Ask God for the wisdom to raise wise children.