Anonymous

My wife recently disclosed to me that she had two affairs several years ago. One of them was fleeting and the other was quite involved and went on for about a year.

I am struggling with everything. With my faith, anger, desire for retribution, acceptance, etc.

I am spiritually attacked on a daily basis. Constant temptation to indulge in alcohol and drugs or that I am simply not worthy.

It is debilitating.

Please pray for me to be able to get through this. We have been in counseling since she disclosed, which was several months ago, but it is so hard. Some days I feel like I can’t do it. The simple act of life maintenance is about as much effort as I can muster at this point. We have a small child and I am constantly finding myself short on patience with him.

Please pray for healing, reconciliation, patience, grace, forgiveness, and for God to restore this marriage.

Received: September 6, 2026