April 1, 2021
What does it say?
Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not turn from it. Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him.
What does it mean?
Verses 6 and 15 address the training and discipline of children. Training is intentionally narrowing down a child’s conduct to what pleases God, while discipline is the correction of foolish and wrong behavior. Consistent with other Proverbs, “the way” a child should be trained is in the wisdom of God. The aim should be to develop a godly heart and mind, which leads to godly conduct. It is important to remember that Proverbs are “wise sayings,” not promises. Every child has free will to choose whether or not to follow God. In general, most kids follow their parents’ example when those parents promptly exercise their authority with love (13:24) while modeling godly lives.
How should I respond?
The ultimate goal of parenting is to work yourself out of a job by preparing your kids to be responsible adults. As Christian parents, we also want our children to live godly lives. Godly behavior is the result of a godly worldview. How are you intentionally training your children to follow the Lord? It takes steadfast resolve to be consistent in disciplining foolish or rebellious behavior. Ask God to help you act promptly with patience and love. Remember, the life you model at home will outweigh any lesson or sermon at church.