March 21, 2021
What does it say?
The wise are known for their understanding and controlled tempers, whereas scoundrels gossip, stir up dissension, and hurt others by what they say.
What does it mean?
Proverbs has a lot to say about what and how a wise person speaks. This passage reiterates the way a wise person carefully uses words and then shows the impact of his speech on others. Gracious, winsome language has a way of drawing people in. A discerning person with controlled emotions has the opportunity to persuade others. The key to this kind of influence is having a heart of wisdom to guide the mouth. Wisdom rightly leads away from worthless speech that promotes mischief, strife, and division.
How should I respond?
What if someone secretly recorded everything you said yesterday and played it back to you now? Would you have reason to be concerned? This passage challenges us to pay attention to what we say because our words have profound influence – either positive or negative. It’s impossible, however, to simply control our mouths (James 3:8). Jesus taught that everything we say is an overflow of what is in our hearts (Luke 6:45). What do your most recent conversations reveal about the condition of your heart? Ask God to guide your heart with wisdom to enable you to speak soothing words, drawing people closer to Him. End today with a clear conscience regarding what you’ve said.