November 3, 2022

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Read – James 3

What does it say?
The mature person controls his or her tongue and keeps the entire body in check.

What does it mean?
Hurtful, harsh, and judgmental words are products of uncontrolled speech. Once again, James offered practical examples to show how dangerous the tongue can be. The words people speak can determine their course in life just as a rudder or a bridle determines the destination of the one controlling it. Trying to praise God and gossip simultaneously are as unnatural as salt water and fresh water coming from the same spring. A Christian’s mind and mouth should be subject to God’s wisdom, never allowing either to be influenced by Satan. A mature believer doesn’t tear others down, but looks for ways to build others up when they speak.

How should I respond?
The old saying, “If you can’t say something nice, say nothing at all,” speaks volumes. In the heat of the moment, we’ve all said things that we didn’t mean. If you don’t think before you speak, you’ll regret unkind words that can’t be retrieved. Who has been hurt by your words this week? Today can be the day that you restore that relationship. How can your words be like a spring of fresh water to someone hurting today? Ask God to help tame your tongue and use it for His glory and purpose. Determine right now to end today with no regrets about anything you say.