September 4, 2020

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Read – 2 Samuel 18:1-18

What does it say?
David’s troops marched out against Absalom. Ignoring the king’s instructions, Joab and his armor-bearers killed Absalom after his head was caught in a tree.

What does it mean?
Absalom’s reaction to tragic events turned him against his father. His bitterness and anger motivated his failed attempt to seize the throne, resulted in great bloodshed, and ultimately ended his life. Despite Absalom’s rebellious spirit and determination to end his father’s reign, David loved his son. While Absalom’s actions were heartbreaking, David valued his son’s life and instructed his commanders not to harm him. As king, David needed to be victorious in battle, but not at the expense of losing another son.

How should I respond?
Anger and jealousy are emotions that destroy relationships. What challenges from your past stir up strong feelings? What steps have you taken to heal and restore healthy boundaries with the people involved? Forgiving them is a gift you can give to yourself. Harboring resentment breaks relationships, causes others to take sides, and can even negatively affect your health. Who is God asking you to forgive today? Choosing to love someone who has hurt you is an act of obedience that pleases God. Ask the Lord to give you courage to relate to others in a way that honors Him.