Group Notes | May 10

Mother’s Day: Things I’ve Learned From My Mom
May 10, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us, whether old or young, have had a person in our lives who has had a positive impact upon how we live. Can you share wisdom you have received from someone who has loved you unconditionally?

Today we will look at Proverbs 31, and find truths that are fundamental for any of us. These are timeless applications that will make life more fulfilling for us, and for our family.

Discuss:

1. Read Proverbs 31:11. You may have been raised in a home where being “right” was often the cause of disagreements. What type of example are you setting for your family if you always need to be right?

2. Why would others be leery of trusting you if you must always be right? Is “being honest better than being right” a good principle and why?

3. Read verse 13. Those of you who have employees have probably seen a huge shift in work ethics over the past few years. Does anyone have insight into why this has happened?

4. Just doing the minimum will never get us past “ordinary.” Why is that?

5. Read verse 20. It is so much easier to turn a blind eye to the needs of others than reach out to help. What are some reasons we do this? What are some scriptures that indicate this is wrong?

6. Read verse 23. It is said that the only thing we can take to heaven is our children (physical or spiritual). What is meant by that? How can our work schedules drive them away?

7. Read verse 26. If you contrast wisdom, kindness and anger, are there shared qualities in them? Can they all exist in the same heart? Someone read James 3:9-12, and someone read Matthew 15:18 to back up your answers.

8. Read verse 30b. How does this support the first and greatest commandment given by God?

Close:

Perhaps many of us were not fortunate enough to learn that honesty, hard work, serving others, the worth of family, kindness and loving God are the keys to a life filled with God’s blessings. But we can all start today, no matter what baggage we have on our shoulders, to be that person! As you break into small groups, give God the burdens that cause you heartache, and ask Him to re-direct your paths into following in His footsteps. Seek out a Life Group that will encourage you if needed. And always pray for the opportunity to share what God has done for you!

Memory Verse: Proverbs 31:30: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.”