And the Greatest of these is Love – Part 1
February 17, 2019
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

The world, Hollywood, and movies or TV are all trying to re-define “love” to be consistent with whatever they are seeking to justify in any given set of circumstances. How would you define love? Does your definition differ than you would have described it many years ago?

Recently we’ve been looking at God’s plan for our lives as we seek to obey Him in love. If we are to love God with all our heart, soul, mind and spirit, and love our neighbor more than we love ourselves, we certainly need to understand what God means by “love.” Today we’re going to hear the first part of a 2-part sermon on love, examining 1 Corinthians 13, inspecting each word to see what God expects from us, and how we are to represent it.

Focal Passage: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13.

Discuss:

Love is patient and kind:

• Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 and Matthew 7: 21-23. What is the common thread between these two passages? What is lacking in both? What does this teach us?
• Read 1 Cor. 13:4. What relationships are you to be patient and kind in?

Give the group time to answer. Did anyone list “enemies”? Why should it have been listed?

• Why do most of us struggle to be patient and kind? Can they be separated? Why do they act as a team? Will someone give an example?
• What is the biggest attribute that patience requires? What was the meaning of the original language when it referred to patience? How is that different from the meaning today?
• Read James 2:15-16. What was lacking in the person who said, “Be warm and be filled!” and went on about his life? Was this kindness? Love?
• How can one change an outcome by showing kindness? Most of us will say we want to be like Jesus Christ. As the crowds of ordinary people gathered around Him, what qualities did He always show?

Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude

• What do you immediately see as a common thread underlying all four of these attitudes? Who are they all focused on? Where should our focus be?
• How does jealousy (or envy) begin? How can you quench it when you first detect it? What is the best way to rid yourself of jealousy?
• How can you detect pride within yourself? What should you do immediately?
• How do you react when someone is out-and-out rude? How can you respond without being similarly rude?
• Read Phil. 2:3-8. How are jealousy, boastfulness, pride or rudeness the opposite of what Jesus Christ was like?
• Why are these four negative traits not to be tolerated in a Christ-follower?

Close:

Nearly everyone is familiar with the 13^th chapter of 1 Corinthians—mainly because we pull verses out to use them when someone in our relationships causes an offense! But God has given us some incredible “meat” to chew on with these qualities. Some should never be found in a mature Christian, others will be a work-in-progress until the day we draw our last breath.

Paul immediately lays out the walk of a Christian as being a heart-condition, rather than external works (which make men Pharisees). Activities done—even in the name of Jesus—without love, are nothing but “civil good,” able to be done by anyone. The same theme is in Matthew, as used in bullet 1. Works will always be seen by men, but the motivator that is acceptable to God is a heart full of love.

Once Paul starts down the road of defining love, there is no room for excuses or weak synonyms. Love IS…., and love is NOT. None of these are natural to our flesh: they are disciplined qualities that the soul sold out to God learns to use to bring Him glory and honor. There are probably few people reading this who can honestly say they are always patient and kind, but never (or seldom) jealous of others, boastful, proud or rude. Most of us fall at least once a day in any of these areas, and probably more often. We want to keep the pathway to     1 John 1:9 wide open, able to run to the Father’s arms and throw ourselves on His mercy and forgiveness, letting Him clean us up from the stains of the world, ready to return to the ministry He has given us. Make it a goal this year to learn the characteristics of love, putting them into practice where it is the hardest (your home? Your job?). Bringing God glory and enjoying Him forever is the first calling of a Christ-follower.

KEY VERSE: “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”   1 Cor. 13:13.

  Say Yes : Time to Follow (part 1)
February 3, 2019
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

How many times have you signed up for a class or seminar, only for the first week to come and you have a car problem; the second week, a virus has you down; the third week, a family member needs your help, and by the fourth week you barely give the night a second thought?

In reviewing our verse for this series, we are seeking God’s expectations when He said, “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” As we have seen in past weeks, loving God leaves a path as we go through our day: perhaps a smile, a word of praise or encouragement, an action for the good of a stranger, etc. These are examples of “fruit” when one seeks to do His will. Today we are going to look at the importance of the local church, and why we need to make our attend-ance, service and growth a priority that is never put on the shelf, never letting it become something to do “next week.” Great discipline and intentionality must be exercised in order to eventually grow where we are hungering and thirsting for the Living God.

Focal Passage: Matthew 4:18-22.

Discuss:

Go to church:

Background: Most unchurched people feel pastors can be stereotyped as always asking for money or pushing to add to their numbers. The truth is, God Himself instructed His people to worship Him through Old Testament temples and New Testament churches. Our study today is to show His will is for believers to serve and love Him and each other.

• Read Matt. 4:18-22. This small nucleus is the original “setting apart” of men who would eventually change the world. The same calling is for us today, as we answer His call on our lives. What would be symbolic of “leaving our nets”?
• Read Luke 4:16. How do you know that Jesus was always in “church” on the day of worship?
• Read Matt. 18:20. What are some of the reasons we worship together? What are the reasons many people are apathetic about their attendance? What promise does Jesus make in this verse?
• Read Heb. 10:25. What can Satan accomplish if he can get us isolated from other believers?
• Read Acts 2:41-47 for a picture of the first NT church. What were their customs? In Acts 5, the story of Ananias and his wife, Sapphira, is told. Can someone paraphrase what you know of it? What was so important about the early church’s purity? Why have we fallen away from that purity?

Grow in church:

Statistics: Statistics show an alarming trend among Christians today: only 36% attend church more than once a month. Those who consider themselves “faithful,” attend church 1.26-2.3 times per month. Less than 20% read their Bible daily, and only 1 out of 10 memorize 3 or more verses per year. The good news is that the church attendance among Gen Y and Gen Z is seeing a definite curve upward, perhaps due to the detached world of social media, leaving many needing real personal contact.

• Read Matt. 5:6. How much time do you spend preparing for a normal work week or quality family time? How does this compare with the amount of time you spend in God’s word? What are ways you can grow as a Christian? What promise does this verse end with?
• Read 2 Peter 1:5-8. What are the eight qualities a believer should strive to achieve? How does one succeed in acquiring them? What is the promise these verses end with? If you had these qualities, and saw the promised fruit, would you ever be satisfied to return to a life of mediocrity?
• Read John 15:5. What is the promise in 15a? What is the warning in 15b?

Close:

It is a misnomer to believe that worship in its truest form can be a “habit.” To keep this treasure—your relationship with God—safe and alive, you must discipline yourself to be a vibrant part of a local church body as long as it is possible. Eventually you will find that the weeks you have to miss the fellowship of meeting together leaves a hungering that you find is satisfied only by getting back with your “family” as soon as possible. There is true encouragement and a love that exists among believers who love God with all their hearts and love their neighbors as much as they love themselves. Their walk will bear fruit, as we read above in 2 Peter.

Have you ever sat down and listed the benefits of being part of a local church body? It is almost every Sunday that one will hear another person state, “I don’t think I would have made it through this past year had it not been for my church family!” What a beautiful statement, and a wonderful witness and testimony of that local church. If your church is very large, you probably already realize that unity, friends, and those who hold you up in prayer normally comes from a smaller group, like Sunday School (by whatever name) or small groups who meet in homes.

Knowing the local church was ordained by God, that it is continually being built by Him, and that Satan cannot defeat it (Matt. 16:18) is enough reason to give it the preeminence it deserves. We know that we cannot be accepted by God because our parents loved the Lord with all their hearts—each person must accept Jesus Christ for himself. Have you made Him your Lord? If so, worship and meeting in your local church should be “a given” as much as the unwritten law that you’re going to your job each day! Your God deserves your “utmost, for His highest!” (Oswald Chambers).

KEY VERSE: “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” John 14:15.

 Say Yes : What Must I Do As I Follow Christ?
January 20, 2019
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most people claim not to be influenced by the many commercials on public television, yet the jingles often stick in our minds! What do you think of when you hear “Just Do It!” or “Have it your way!” or “Double your pleasure, double your fun”? Are they all based on actions that gratify ourselves and not someone else? If you’re alone, write your answers in a notebook.

As we begin a new series on what we must do to follow Christ, it seems appropriate to begin with the Israelites, whom God chose to be His people, and the hardships they suffered as they learned to trust Him fully. History shows us the intimate details of their lives as they followed their own desires, repented, came back to God and eventually the cycle was repeated time after time. May we learn from their experiences, and faithfully follow Him, saying “Yes!” to His commandments.

Focal Passages: Deuteronomy 8:11-18; James 1:22-25.

Discuss:

Know His Word:

• Read Deut. 8:11-18 to understand how seriously God takes His commandments for you to live a godly life. What stands out to you?
• We must Read God’s Word! Read James 1:22a. What do you immediately notice about Deut. 8:11 and James 1:22a? Why is it not enough to just intellectually know God’s word?
• Read Joshua 1:8a. A recent poll on those who reveal their Bible reading track record, show about 20% of churched Americans read their Bible daily, whether it’s a favorite passage, a regular time of systematic reading, or a familiar verse. How can a Christian grow without knowing God’s Word?
• We must Think About It (Meditate on what we’ve read)! Read Josh. 1:8b. What are Joshua’s instructions and why?
• We must Obey God’s Word! Read Josh. 1:8c and Jas. 1:22b. God did not change His will for you to observe and obey His word during the thousands of years from OT to NT; why is it still His will that His words be obeyed?

Know His Way:

• Read Jas. 1:22c-25. This may seem a little hard to understand. A quick analogy is the amount of time some women spend “putting on their face,” in the morning. It takes much time to get everything perfect, but when she leaves the mirror, she is confident she looks her best. During the day, her thoughts may go back to her appearance, always knowing she still looks well. How does that illustrate the difference in the verse in James?
• Read Josh. 1:8b-9. To be confident you are carrying in your heart the words you read in Scripture, you must know it intimately. How can you meditate on it as you go about your day?
• Why are you told not to fear or be afraid?

Respond:

• Read John 14:15. How does this line up with the verses you read previously? If you give your spouse or family the same amount of time you give the Lord (prayer, Bible reading, meditating) during most days, would you make them happy? Why or why not?
• Read Eph. 2:8-10. In your heart, do you think the good works you do will get you into heaven? Explain your answer. If they do, would you be able to boast? Read Matthew 7:21-23. Were these people boasting about what they had done for Christ? How did Christ reply?
• Where do “good works” come from? How is that like the fruit of a tree that bears because it has a good root system and plenty of water?

Close:

Everyone who is a regular attender at church knows in his heart that he needs to be reading God’s word. Satan uses the busyness of our schedules to thwart that need, creating time constraints that cause us to plan a time to read but somehow it seldom comes about unless we are disciplined and intentional. It is setting aside part of your morning or day when you get alone with God and absorb the “marching orders” He has given for us to be good soldiers through this life of land mines. They lurk on every corner, from the flirtatious wink of a co-worker to the pornography available at our fingertips on the internet.

If we, indeed, have a passion for following Christ, we may get slightly off-kilter by the term meditate. Have you ever considered how like a cow our mind can be? One of the very unique animals created by God, a cow has four stomachs: as she takes in food or pieces of potential problems, the grass, hay or food goes into the first stomach. During the digestive hours (up to 72!), the cow will burp up the food, chew on it some more, where it eventually goes into the 2^nd stomach. There it is separated from the bad that can hurt the cow (bits of metal, wire, etc), then on to the 3^rd stomach, and eventually reaches the 4^th, where the digestion is finished and the cow produces clean, white, healthy milk! So it should be with us: God’s Word—even one verse—can be ingested into our soul, where, during the day, we can think on a word or phrase. Any garbage that is exposed can be purified out, and eventually the Word will do a work in our heart. How wonderful is that?

The Scripture has all that we need to run a household of faith, have a functional family that is sold out to Christ, and live blessed, peaceful lives (2 Peter 1:2-4). When we are in the Word of God daily, letting it saturate our soul and spirit, applying it to our actions, and putting into practice the principles God has given us, the overflow spreads to our family unit, our friends and our acquaintances. Why should we walk in a defeated, downtrodden path, when He has given us a path of Life (Psalm 16:11)? Let us walk in His light, teach it to our children or those closest to us, and spread love as we obey Him!

KEY VERSE: “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” John 14:15.

 Letting Go, Moving On
January 6, 2019
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Everyone messes up! Mistakes made in the past are very hard to forget, and it takes a strong person to move on after a life-altering choice. We can ruin our lives wishing we could live certain times over again, but to put a bad event behind us is necessary for mental health. Can someone share a memory?

This past year has been a season when we’ve been constantly encouraged to make Christ the priority in our lives, grow daily in Scripture, and live godly lives. Now it’s time to look back to see if those messages bore fruit. At the same time, we have the opportunity to put past failures behind us and start with a clean slate in a new year. We will look at the great apostle Paul and learn life lessons of “keeping on keeping on” past adversity.

Discuss:

Recognize the pain and failures of the past are not the description of our future:

• Read Philippians 3:7. The NLT quotes Paul as saying the things that were important to him at one time are now worthless. Can you share some things you have done in the past that are now meaningless because of what Christ has done, and that what is really important is Christ?
• That verse also tells us we are to forget the past and look forward to what lies ahead. It’s easier said than done. Among your group discuss the difficulty of doing this.
• Read Genesis 50:14-21. This passage is the perfect biblical example for pastor Jonathan’s message today on letting go of the past and moving on to the future. What were Josephs brothers afraid of? Would someone be willing to share a fear of something in their past they carried for a long time they felt would follow them for all their life? We cannot allow our past to keep us fearful and shape our future. Discuss that we cannot change our past.

Take the right steps …. Seek forgiveness:

• What are Joseph’s brothers doing in Vs 16-17a? The same steps they took are the same steps we must take for salvation. What two things did the brothers do? These are the same steps we must take with others. Why is this hard?

Respond the right way… forgive

• When it is reversed and we are the ones being asked to forgive, what must we do? Discuss how hard it is to ask someone for forgiveness.
• In vs 17b, why do you suppose Joseph reacted the way he did?

Know that the job of judge is not ours

• In vs 19b Joseph asks an important question. Discuss the question and its effect? A judge in our judicial has an important and weighty duty to perform once someone has been declared guilty. What is it? Do we sometimes try to mete out punishment on someone who has wronged us? In Romans 12:19 it tells us to let God handle the punishment. Talk about why we should do that.

Know that the job of peacemakers is ours

• Vs 21b tells us Joseph reassured his brothers by speaking kindly to them. He forgave them then proved it by offering to move on. Discuss how this corresponds to God’s forgiveness of ourselves.

Close:

As we look forward to 2019, it is imperative that we put things behind us that we cannot change. We never find joy by continuing in strife. The solution to strife is to pray about it, pursue resolutions, and be persistent to pray about those conflicts. We will have freedom that comes as a result. For 2019 let’s keep the focus we discussed last week:

• Stay in God’s Word – read and study His Word daily
• Talk to Him daily – a strong prayer life is the only way to keep the line of communication open with God
• Keep a journal of what you’re learning, reading, and praying about
• Read books, stories, articles about faithful followers of Christ
• Connect with others in the journey to remain to remain accountable – Christians were not meant to live in isolation
• Prioritize your faith walk over EVERYTHING else – this includes a commitment to regular, intentional worship services.
• Don’t quit
  • If you get behind in your devotions and bible reading, you can catch up
  • Falling behind yesterday is not an excuse for today

Doing these things will change the way you live and feel. It will change everything,

 The Final Word
December 30, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Everyone messes up! Mistakes made in the past are very hard to forget, and it takes a strong person to move on after a life-altering choice. We can ruin our lives wishing we could live certain times over again, but to put a bad event behind us is necessary for mental health. Can someone share a memory?

This past year has been a season when we’ve been constantly encouraged to make Christ the priority in our lives, grow daily in Scripture, and live godly lives. Now it’s time to look back to see if those messages bore fruit. At the same time, we have the opportunity to put past failures behind us and start with a clean slate in a new year. We will look at the great apostle Paul and learn life lessons of “keeping on keeping on” past adversity.

Discuss:

Nobody’s Perfect:

• Read Philippians 3:12a. Even the great apostle Paul indicated elsewhere that there were periods of his life he would like to do over. Can you share a time when you thought you were right, and wouldn’t listen to advice, only to learn later you were wrong? What did you learn from this?
• Think of the people you know, whom you feel are “practically perfect in every way” and discuss why you think of them like this. God knows no one is perfect. Read Psa. 103:13-14. Why do you compare yourselves to others?
• Read Romans 7:15-25. How did Paul say he struggled? How can you relate to the spiritual battles he fought? What can you learn from him?

Keep Trying:

• Read verse 12b. How does this verse inspire us, when the going gets tough?
• Read 2 Cor. 11:23-28. Have you suffered as Paul did? How was he able to keep going, through the perils he endured? How do yours compare with his?
• What is the biggest reason you believe may be a factor in people giving up? How can you help them?

Let Go of What’s Behind:

• Read verse 13a. Who is the great accuser of the brethren (Rev. 12:10)? Does he accuse you of your past?
• No matter how much we agonize over past choices, most can’t be undone. What are some ways we can leave that baggage in the past and move on?
• Can you think of scriptures that would help break the chains that bind us?

Look Forward to What’s Ahead:

• Read verse 13b. How do we keep our focus on the years ahead, when we are able to serve Christ through whatever gifts He has given us?
• The beginning of 2019 is upon us; what are some ways we can increase our joy in this new season of our lives?

Do What’s Needed:

• Read verse 14. Have you ever run a race? Where do you keep your focus as you move ahead? How can you get there if you get sidetracked? What causes you to keep moving forward? Read Prov. 24:16. Does this help?
• Share verses to memorize that will furnish strength when you are overcome by the weights you carry in this world? Read Matt. 11:28-30.Does Christ want to help you shoulder these burdens?

Take Away:

• Stay in God’s word daily! Learn more of scripture each day this year.
• Talk to God daily! How would your relationships be if limited to 30 sec. daily?
• Keep a journal for your thoughts, lessons, prayers and growth.
• Read books by people who have had victory in battles that you are facing.
• Connect with others who can encourage you. Isolation kills spiritual growth!
• Don’t quit! Don’t allow challenges to make you throw in the towel—victory is probably just around the corner.

Close:

Another year! It seems we just put last year’s Christmas decorations away, made our resolutions, and suddenly the stores begin putting up the tinsel again—and you realize a new year is coming fast. How does time pass so quickly? More importantly, has your spiritual growth shown an upward trend this past year? When you made those resolutions last year to be more faithful in church, Bible reading, and prayer, did it happen? If not, start again! There will always be challenges that Satan puts in our way, or hindrances to carrying out our mission, but it is with a new lease on life that we realize whatever is past is PAST. Let it go—it can’t be redone. If you need to ask forgiveness from someone, restore something to someone, do so, but don’t carry the baggage that causes your spirit to suffer and your joy to be suffocated. Christ has forgiven you—what better news could you have to start 2019? Go out, find a friend, and tell them your story. It may change the new year for someone you love!

KEY VERSE: “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me.” Philippians 3:12.

 For Unto You… Righteousness
December 9, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Knowing an up-coming event is going to happen can keep one in joyful anticipation! All of us look forward to special occasions that occur as a rarity. Can you think of something you were anxious to see finally come to fruition—and the enjoyment was amazing?

Last week we looked at the Old Testament, focusing on some of the many prophecies that Jesus Christ fulfilled when He left heaven, coming to earth in the form of a tiny baby, born in a stable. He was the Enemy of Satan, the coming Blessing, Ruler, Presence and Hope for the world. Today we look at the response we should have to His coming, and how it impacts our lives.

Discuss:

A Call to Righteousness:

• Read Jeremiah 23:5-6 and Zechariah 3:8. Who is Jeremiah quoting in these verses, who was going to raise up the Branch? Why is He called a “Branch”?
• What was He going to do on the earth?
• What is His name by which He is called? Read Isaiah 64:6. How can we sinners be righteous?
• Where is the presence of God here on earth? How should His presence affect our actions?

A Call to a Higher Standard:

• Read Colossians 3:5a. What does this command mean to the Christian living today?
• Read Col. 3:17. How are we representing the Lord Jesus each day? Can our representation be a negative testimony? Will anyone want the relationship with God if they see us in church on Sunday, but living (speech, actions) as the world during the week?
• Read 1 Cor. 10:31. What are some ways we can show Christ in our lives each day?
• Why do you think Christians are finding it easier and easier to use profanity in daily conversation, or using God’s name carelessly (omg, etc)?

A Call to Point the Way:

• Read Malachi 3:1-2. This was written about 400 years before Jesus was born. Who was Malachi referring to? Read John 1:6-9 and Matt. 3:1-6. How did Matthew and John describe John the Baptist?
• How and where did John announce that Jesus was now among the people?
• Read verse 2b once more. How was Jesus described? Read Job 23:10. How does He test and refine us?
• When we tell someone our story of salvation, what is the major thing that they should notice about us? (2 Cor. 5:17).
• John came into the world to fulfill the prophecy that the Messiah would have a forerunner. How did people miss this fulfilment?
• We, as John, have a responsibility to point others to Jesus Christ. As the time draws closer for His return, will you have souls in heaven whom you have witnessed to? Read Prov. 11:30b to see God’s take on this!

Close:

The wonder of Christmas forever remains the same, no matter how much the world desires to take Christ out of the season. The story of the angels’ coming to Mary and Joseph, the trip to Bethlehem, and the birth of the Christ Child in the manger will never lose its appeal to anyone whose heart is open and willing to accept the glorious facts of the Gospel.

Can you imagine life without hope, without Someone who has the power to change your life, and save you from your sins? It would be a dismal existence without Him. The millions of people around the world are waiting for someone like you to tell them there is a way to have their sins forgiven, and hope for a future. How can we turn down so great a responsibility? Have you imagined standing before God and seeing faces of those you’ve passed by, willing to let someone else witness to them? What if they spend eternity in hell because you did not go? We need to take the story of the gospel, preaching it to anyone who has open ears. Say with Isaiah, “Here am I, Lord, send me!”

KEY VERSE: “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulders. And His Name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Isaiah 9:6.

 Being Thankfull is Not Enough
November 25, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

With our thoughts recently centered on gratefulness, did you find any part of your life that you could not adequately express thanks for? For instance, maybe someone who’s spent years desiring a child and finally gives birth, and can hardly speak of that joy without crying! Can you share?

As Thanksgiving week winds to a close, we want to properly thank God for being the giver of “every good and perfect gift” (James 1:17). Some of His gifts, however, are so great as to fall outside our ability to thank Him enough. As we look at those gifts, we want to write their significance on our hearts, daily praising Him for what He has done, and how He has changed our lives.

Discuss:

God’s Love:

• Read John 3:16-17, and personalize it in your own Bible. Can anyone share their testimony of salvation? How do you feel your love for Jesus compares today to what you felt the day you first accepted Christ as Savior?
• Read Rom. 5:8. Can you share a recent moment when the reality of what Jesus did on the Cross made a new impact on your life? How can you keep the significance of that incredible act fresh, giving God praise daily for it?

God’s Power:

• Read Col. 1:15-17. How powerful do you see God? By what method did He bring creation into being? How did Jesus do many of His miracles?
• What does His power mean to you personally?
• Read Heb. 2:9. How does it impact you that God the Son left the glory of heaven, came to earth as a human, fully man but fully God, and died on a cross to save you? Would you give your child to die for the sins of the world?
• If He has the power to speak creation into being, to die for the sins of everyone who trusts in Him, what does that mean He can do with your problems?

God’s Healing:

• Read John 3:14-15, again personalizing verse 15 with your name. Who does this verse say is able to be saved?
• Read Num. 21:5-9. What was the sin of the Israelites? How did God intervene in order to provide a way of forgiveness? Do you think any of the people refused to look upon the serpent because it seemed “too easy”?
• Does anyone recall the story of Naaman, the captain of the Syrian army who became a leper, and his servant girl? Paraphrase it for the group if you do, then read 2 Kings 5:10-14. How did the provision for Naaman’s healing differ from that in Num. 21? Why do we think healing should be hard for God?
• Can you think of an area where you need God’s healing touch, but feel you are not worthy, or the “steps” given in counseling are too easy? Share only if you want.
• God’s Gift:
• Read John 1:29 and again, personalize the gift of salvation with your name. Do you struggle with thinking that belief in Jesus as God’s son, Who died for your sins so that you can be forgiven and become His follower, is too simple?
• Read 1 John 2:2. The simplicity of the gospel is so applicable to all ages that children and adults, poor or rich, may understand and be saved. How can you keep from becoming complacent about the size of the cross? What does it mean to you?

Do you recognize the significance of the gift (read Rom. 5:12-21 at home)?

Have you received the gift? If not, what hinders you?

Close:

No matter the area of your life, the subject discussed, or the initial impact something has made on you, it is difficult to keep an attitude of joy about it day after day. Eventually, we find ourselves expecting the day to bring what it has been: whether a daily rose from a loving spouse, to a clean house with supper ready. Perhaps the gladness of a new baby might last longer, as he falls asleep in your arms, but one day when he’s starting down the road to independence your expectations might become less ecstatic. When you are contemplating the gifts of eternity, however, the wonder of the Cross should never become less than a constant delight. Realizing  the eternal impact it has on your life—you who are unworthy, sinful, and make a myriad of mistakes daily—should give you pause to stop and glorify God for His continued goodness to you! What would you be doing, and where would you spend eternity if He had not stepped to your “grave” and called you by name, out of your tomb, as He did Lazarus? “Even when [you] were dead in sins, [you] has He made alive with Christ!” (Eph. 2). Last week’s key verse is also powerful for today: “rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” How appropriate for those things that mean the difference between life and death!

KEY VERSE: “For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” John 3:17.

Giving, Gaining, and Greed
November 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

What brings you the most joy? Is it giving a very essential item or gift to someone truly in need, giving a new toy to your child to add to his shelves of previous gifts, or receiving a gift to add to your own collections? Can anyone share?

We are entering the season of Giving. Whether it is the giving of Thanks, the giving of Christmas items for children in foreign countries, or the giving of ourselves to help others, these next few months will determine whether you desire to be a giver or a receiver. Most people will admit to desiring more “stuff,” but this is not Biblical. Today, we will talk about giving, gaining and greed.

Focal Passages: Jeremiah 22:13-16; Acts 20:35, 2 Cor. 8:9; Luke 14:12-14

Discuss:

“Having” (stuff) never leads to contentment:

• Read Jer. 22:13-155a. The scripture records Jeremiah’s words to Jehoiakim, the king. What does God have against him?
• How does this remind you of two other kings who were consumed with getting things, including adoration and worship? Read Dan. 4:29b-30 and Eccl. 2:10-11.
• Thinking of your own home, does it reflect a lifestyle of spending to display it in pride, or is it a home where a family lives and loves? Can anyone share?
  • Has your pride in a beautiful home, new cars, or personal collections made you a better Christian? How can it be a stumbling block?
    

Giving is what brings joy:

• Read Jer. 22:15b. What were the things about Josiah that God commended?
• How were the two kings—Josiah and Jehoiakim—different?
• What did you do in 2018 that gave you the most joy? How was someone helped by what you did? Can you share?

Giving is what brings you closer to Christ:

• Read Jer. 22:16b. What was God referring to, regarding Josiah? Did it strengthen Josiah’s relationship with God to share what he had?
• Why do we have a new appreciation of God when we share ourselves?
• Why did God give you the resources you have?

Giving is what makes you more like Christ:

• Read 2 Cor. 8:9. What were the riches of Christ throughout eternity past? What was His poverty when He came to the earth? What are the riches we receive from Him?
• John 3:16 begins, “For God so loved the world that He GAVE”; so why does giving make us more like Christ?
• What are some things we can give to others daily?

Giving is what leads to reward:

• Read Luke 14:12-14. What was Christ telling us in this passage?
• When is the last time you invited someone out to eat, to your home, or gave in some other fashion, when you knew they would not be able to repay you? Can you share?
• Why would we get rewards in heaven for doing that which we should be doing?

Close:

Almost everyone has heard the famous response of John D. Rockefeller, considered to be the richest man in modern history, when asked how much money would be enough. His reply? “Just a little bit more.” Many of us live our lives desiring “just a little bit more,” and find it never satisfies. The truth is, we all love gifts. But do you love “getting” more than giving? What does your home witness about you? There is another truth Paul quoted Jesus as saying, in our Key Verse for the day, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” It might interest you to know that a foreign country, where Christianity is growing daily, considers America to be a country in need of prayer. Not prayer for our ungodliness, but beseeching God to take away our enormous wealth, as they see it as a huge obstacle to following Christ whole-heartedly.

Not everyone receives with genuine gratefulness: some feel the action tends to make them indebted to the giver. How sad! True generous giving is an essence of the Godhead. God’s greatest gift to the world, Jesus Christ, was the ultimate gift to pave the way for our eternal life. Christ gave His life, the most He could give, for us who are unworthy and could obtain salvation in no other way. The Holy Spirit gives gifts to men, comfort, conviction of sin, and so much more. Giving of ourselves—our time, our gifts (listening, counseling, meals, etc.) in times of pain, and our resources to bless others—transforms us, as Paul tells us in Romans 8:29-32, into the likeness of Christ. And he goes on to say, “He that spared not His own Son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things?” Giving is beautiful, giving is Christ-like, and giving will bring rewards to throw at the feet of Jesus.

Key Verse: Acts 20:35: I have shown you in every way, by laboring like this, that you must support the weak. And remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

Masquerade : Be Real
October 28, 2018
Dr. Ben Guterriz

Open:

Have you attended a function where someone tried to impress those present, yet their family or close friends knew their words were not consistent with the person they are at home? Can someone share an example, and tell how you felt for the family?

As we continue our series Masquerade, today we focus on the Mask of Religion. Wearing this mask, we try to appear spiritually as someone we’re not. We wish to appear perfect, which is not only deceitful—therefore sinful—but ruins opportunities to show the world how faithful and loving God is during our worst trials. Dr. Ben Gutierrez teaches us how important it is to be transparent, so our testimony becomes powerful and gives praise to God for His grace to us.

Focal Passages: Matt. 23:1-6, 11-12; Mark 5:1-15, 18-20; Mark 7:31-33a; Eccl. 7:20; Jas. 3:2; 1 John 1:8-9.

Discuss:

THE DANGERS OF WEARING THE MASK OF RELIGION

It Has No Spiritual Benefit:

• Read James 3:2. What signals do you pick up when someone you are talking to is not authentic? Do you notice a lot of emphasis on “I”?
• What impact does portraying a spiritual manner have on one’s own character? What are some of the sinful qualities that wearing this mask hides?

It Repels People:

• Most people have some idea of the kindness of Jesus as a man, and how He lived His life. They see through someone who claims to be a Christian; how?
• Read Eccl. 7:20. What type of feelings might a child experience if they see their parent or guardian act in a holy attitude at church, yet be the opposite at home? What might happen as they get old enough to leave home?
• Read 1 John 1:8-9. Why do people resort to wearing a mask to cover a life of discontent with themselves or their circumstances?

It Is Not Believable

• Back to the reference from Ecclesiastes, what do other people think when they know you are pretending to have “all your ducks in a row”?
• How does it alienate friends or acquaintances if you are not authentic in portraying your lifestyle?
• What is at the root of wearing a mask? Read 1 Peter 5:5. How will your testimony reflect the fact that you are covering a perceived flaw?

BIBLICAL EXAMPLE OF GOD’S BLESSING ON BEING REAL

Two Examples of those Who Wore Masks

• Read Matt. 23:1-6, 11-12. Who were the two groups in this passage whom Jesus was using for an example of how NOT to be?
• What were some of the reasons they were an offense to God?
• Their lifestyle was summed up in verse 5a: what was it? Do you know anyone who lives like this, perhaps with their clothes, home, yard or other pretense?

An Example of Someone Who Was Real

• Almost everyone knows the story of the Gadarene Demoniac. Will someone paraphrase the story from the book of Mark (for time’s sake)?
• Read Luke 8:37. What was the reaction of the people to Jesus because of the now fully-restored man?
• Read verse 18-19. How did Jesus respond when the man asked to go with Him and become one of His followers?
• Read verse 20. This man was known by everyone in the region of the Gadarenes. What was their reaction when he told them what had happened?
• Read Mark 7:33a. Jesus decided to return to the towns where the demoniac had lived. What impact did his testimony have on the people? How do you know this?

Close:

No doubt many of us have recognized in the past few weeks areas where we have continually worn a mask. It would be the prayer of every pastor who has spoken during this series that we are able to break free from the bondage this mask gives us. It is not hiding anything: those who are authentic realize immediately that we are fooling only ourselves. There is a universal law among financiers that to recognize a counterfeit bill, one must become so familiar with genuine currency that the false is spotted instantly. It is the same with the masks we wear: true Christ-followers will spot those whose life does not line up with Truth. At the same time, for those who don’t know us well, our family will recognize the deceit and it will alienate us from them eventually. Unbelievers may not know Jesus as their Savior, but most people will be able to tell you that He was someone who lived a life of being real and will know you are not living that life. All in all, the result will be that a mask will be holding back its wearer from a life of fullness and joy. It is not unlike an elderly woman (or man) who keeps themselves fit, wearing clothes and make-up meant for youth. The evidence is there for everyone to see—except the one looking from the inside out.

Key Verse: Matthew 23:12: But those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.

Masquerade : Our Digital Masks
October 14, 2018
Jonathan Falwell

Open:

What happens when you look through Facebook at the profiles of those you graduated with? Do you become discouraged as they appear so gorgeous, handsome, or look younger than you feel you do? Does it occur to you these may be intentionally misleading photos? Can anyone share an example?

Today we continue “Masquerade,” seeking to take off the masks we wear so others may see the real you, rather than an inaccurate picture of who we try to be. We want to focus on the digital world we live in—and the issues caused by modern technology. Are you open to having God shine His light on your spirit, exposing the masks you use on social media?

Focal Passages: Romans 8:5-8, James 4:1-8, Galatians 6:10, Ephesians 4:15, Proverbs 11:2, 16:5.

Discuss:

Rage and Anger

• As we have done on previous weeks, will someone please explain why we feel the need to present a false front to others?
• Read James 4:1. What example can you give that has caused you, or someone you know, stress or anger through social media over the past year? How did you (or they) respond?
• Read Gal. 5:19-16. Why will you always have conflict between the flesh and the spirit? Read Rom. 7:15-25. As you exercise the fruit of the Spirit, what happens to the things of the flesh?
• Read Gal. 6:10. Who are we to be good to? How is responding to a negative tweet or post in the same manner as the one who posted the original, lowered you to their standard? Can you explain how hard it is to refrain from a rebuttal, and why it’s a victory to overlook what has taken place?

Jealousy

• Read James. 4:2-3. What is the root cause for posting pictures of new homes, new cars, or new possessions? How does that cause a feeling of covetousness? How is that wrong? Why do we always want more?
• If we seek the things that would enrich our lives for Christ, what would be our emotional feeling?

Desire for Acceptance

• Read James. 4:4-5. What are some of the things the world throws at us that are hard to resist?
• Why do we feel the need for acceptance so strongly that we go to great lengths and sometimes sinful actions? Why is our understanding of how much God loves us not sufficient for all our needs at all times, in all ways?

Pride

• Read James. 4:6. Where does pride ultimately lead us? Can we be proud and serve God at the same time? Read Prov. 13:10 in KJV (if possible). What does this verse say about all disagreements?
• Read Prov. 11:2 and 16:5. How much does God hate pride, which is at the root of the need to wear a mask?
• What matters to God: how we look or whether we are pointing others to Him for salvation?

Our Response

• Read James. 4:7-8. What are the instructions in these two verses?
• Why does James say that our loyalty is divided between God and the world? Is that the way it should be?

Close:

Wearing a mask has become such a normal part of who we are, that it might seem an impossibility to be transparent with our feelings. Yet through God’s help, we can overcome any sin, realizing the lies come from Satan. One of the surest methods of defeat is to spend hours on social media, where our mentality is fed with large helpings of things that would encourage worldly feelings—covetousness, jealousy, anger, wrath, gossip, and so much more, including the temptation to interact with someone of the opposite sex—or an old flame. How does God feel about these hours? They could be put to such good use by witnessing of things He has done for you, blessings He has given you, and His love for you. One lady (many people, actually) makes it a point each day to write a short devotion, overflowing with God’s love. It will not be known until eternity the impact her short posts have had on people, and those whose lives she has touched. Would that we all used social media to further God’s kingdom!

Key Verse: Romans 8:5: For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.

Masquerade : The Art of Covering
September 30, 2018
Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Do you know someone who acts in a certain manner, but their words just do not seem to ring true? Without naming names or gender, what is it about them that you believe indicates they are playing a part which is false?

Today we begin a new series that will cut many of us to the quick: the unveiling of the mask we wear to appear as if we have everything in our life together, even if we’re falling apart on the inside. Over the next few weeks we’ll examine the dangers in this action, hiding the real person in order to keep our imperfections from the eyes of the world. Today we set the stage by looking at the general reasons and risks some feel the need to wear a mask.

Focal Passage: Genesis 27:1-29.

Discuss:

Putting on our masks starts with deceit

• Do you recall ever going to a costume party? What was the primary thing you wanted to achieve?
• Once your costume was on, did you find yourself acting in character with how you were dressed? Explain what you mean.
• Read Gen. 27:1-10. Why did Rebekah choose to deceive her husband? What other option could she have chosen, which would have been right in God’s sight?

Putting on our masks starts with feelings of inadequacies

• Read verses 11-12. What was wrong with the protests Jacob laid before his mother? What could he have said if he did not want to sin against God?
• Read Gen. 25:20-26. What had God told Rebekah? How do you see her actions? What was she teaching Jacob by instructing him to do this deed?
• If we put on a mask of perfection, which is ultimately a lie, what are some of the feelings we may be trying to cover up? Why is it lying?

Once we put on the mask, it starts a never-ending cycle

• Read verses 18-24. Although Rebekah began the charade, Jacob was now making his own choices. What five lies did he tell to keep the plan together?
• What could Jacob have done at any point while before Isaac, to redeem himself in the eyes of his father?
• Why does one lie lead to more? Who is the “Father of Lies”?

Our masks will all be removed

• Read Heb. 4:13. No matter how hard we try to cover up our inadequacies , what will happen?
• Why should we cultivate a lifestyle of truth, without any masks of hypocrisy?
• Read Matt. 10:26. If you choose to live a lie in order to appear something you are not, who will possibly remove that mask at a time you least expect it—and possibly in a very humbling way?
• If you have been saved, what is your position before God? What are some of the descriptions of your relationship that should make you feel valuable and
• valued? (Child of God, etc.) How does this speak against the act of deceit?

Close:

This passage leaves us with the feel of a modern novel: barren wife finally gets pregnant and learns she is going to have twins. God Himself tells Rebekah the “older shall serve the younger,” leaving her with a promise she could/should have trusted. The story progresses as the father prefers one child, the mother prefers the other. At that point you begin to sense a conflict in the home that will cause immense problems. Then comes an evening when Isaac, old and of bad eyesight, wants to give the blessing to the older son Esau, the firstborn who had already rejected his birthright for a meal (cf Heb. 12:15-17)—thereby himself thwarting the words of God to his wife many years before. Rebekah, overhears the conversation between Esau and Isaac, and takes it upon herself to control the situation by deceiving  her husband, to make certain that her favorite son, Jacob, would receive the blessing (already promised by God, Who would have brought it to pass in a holy way). Consequently, she is not only usurping her authority over Isaac, but teaching Jacob that it is permissible to lie. Jacob, consenting to do her will, offered token reservations, to which she had the answers. As Jacob goes in to his father, he himself now takes the responsibility of the choices to deceive, when—five times—God gives him ample occasion to throw himself upon Isaac’s mercy.

How like Jacob we can be! Not wanting to seem less holy, less perfect, or less rich than our neighbors, we put on our mask, remembering to play our part when we are in the position where it matters. We may be looking for admiration, gain, power or anything else the world offers, but it’s tiring to keep that role going all the time. How much better if we could see the truth: that those who know us well realize we are far from perfect, and in their hearts they label us a “hypocrite.” Yet even with our imperfections, we were chosen by God to be His child! If we could get that from our head into our heart, we would be full of awe that would humble us; we would have the mask we wear torn away and would be given beauty for ashes.

Key Verse: Matt. 10:26: Therefore do not fear them. For there is nothing covered that will not be revealed and hidden that will not be known.

How Church? : Tell, Grow, Send
September 16, 2018
Matt Willmington

Open:

Most people will tell you they have continued to learn new things on a regular basis. Can you share something you’ve recently learned? We’ll relate it to the topic in a few minutes!

The past few weeks we’ve looked at the God-established body called “the church.” We’ve examined the importance of it, how relevant it is in today’s world, and how much a local body of believers can achieve. Today we look at “how” we do this thing called Church. We will find that it is a very simple but effective way to obey the calling of God on our lives.

Definition of a living, active church: It is the Family of God, under the Authority of God, living out the Word of God, on a Mission for God.

Focal Passages: Matt. 4:18-20; Matt. 11:28-30; Matt. 28:16-20; Dan. 7:13-14; Rev. 7:9,10.

Discuss:

The Church Is: The Family of God

• Read Matt. 18-20. What happened as Jesus walked through life?
• Who is He calling now?
• What relationship do those who follow have with Him (read Mark 3:33-35)?

Under the Authority of God

• Read John 14:21. If we are the children of God, how will we live our lives?
• Read 1 John 2:3. What is our authority?
• Read 1 John 2:17. If we love God, will we be happy to obey Him? What type of attitude will you have?

Living Out the Word of God

• Read 1 John 3:16,17. How do we live our lives?
• Do you react to those you meet during the day the same way you would if they were friends? Is this as Jesus would do?

On a Mission for God

• Read Matt. 11:28-30. How often do people who are in a spiritual storm search out a church?
• What should we do, especially for those who are facing the storms of life?
• There are promises in these verses; what are they? How can we convince others that they need His yoke of grace?

TELL

• How can we begin to help those who do not know the love of God?
• Why does it matter that we ask them to tell us their story?
• How important is baptism to you? It is the first ordinance that Jesus told us to do after salvation, even as He was baptized as He began His ministry. Why do people put it off? Have you?

GROW

• There are always plenty of people who were not raised as you were, and who know so much less about Jesus than you. How can this be important to you?
• What are other ways you can continue to grow, in order to “sprout seeds” that can be planted in someone else’s life?

SEND

• If you know you must be prepared to leave home in an instant, what are some preparations you will make? How is that the same as being “instant in season and out of season” (2 Tim. 4:2)?
• Are YOU willing to go?

TEST YOURSELF: On a scale of 1-10—if 1 is close to Jesus, 10 is far from Him, where are you?

HOW do you walk closer? WHO are you following? WHO is with you that you are bringing with you?

Close:

How many people do you know who have storms of life raging, yet never go inside the church building? If they have never been to church, they may have no idea of the peace and joy that can found in Jesus Christ. You may be the only one who will ever tell them. It is important that you gently and lovingly show them you care about where they will spend eternity, then listen as they tell you their story. Most people love talking about themselves: give an interested, listening ear. Are you aware that many converts to cults are those who have been hurt in their youth, believing that God is good, yet feeling betrayed and leaving the church when a parent, sibling or loved one dies, as God answered their fervent prayers with “No”? There was no “trust” factor built into their thinking.

We need to take the Great Commission to heart, not choosing to leave it to the pastoral staff. It was not given to pastors—it was given to fisherman who chose to follow Jesus, learn from Him, and then carry His message to their world. We, too, need to carry this message to our community, our neighbors, co-workers and friends, so that they will not be lost for eternity. Can you imagine standing at their judgment as God orders them to “Depart from Me—I never knew you,” and they turn to look you in the eye, and ask why you never told them of the saving grace of Jesus? It is vital that we make use of the time we have left. Do you know how to witness? It’s never too late to learn! Ask any of the staff of the church, and they will guide you to someone who would be willing and happy to help you. Answer like Isaiah, “Here am I Lord, send me!”

Key Verse: Matt. 28:18-20: “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the age.” Amen.

Why Church? : The  Purpose of The Church
September 2, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

When you hear someone ask, “What on earth am I here for? Why was I even born?” do you have an answer for them? Share some of your thoughts.

The past two Sundays we have looked at the incredible, beautiful gift from God called “the church.” There is the local church—that body of believers who worship and do life together, and the Universal church, encompassing believers all over the world. We have also looked at the importance of gathering in a large or small group of like-minded believers, and asked what God meant when He “built” His church. Today we look at the results we need to be achieving in the local church to change our world.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 1:6-8, 12-14; 4:14-15

Discuss:

We give Him Glory

• Read Eph. 1:12-14. Two times in these short verses Paul tells us why the church gathers together each week. What does he say?
• Who are the Gentiles? What happens when Christ saved you (vs. 13)? What is our response to be after salvation?
• How can we know we are carrying out the purpose God had for the church?

We bring Him Growth

• Read Col. 1:28-29. If we are in the church, what should we be doing? Read Matt. 16:18. Who built the church? What will destroy it?
• When should we present the gospel to those with whom we come into contact?
• Read Eph. 4:14-15. What are some of the lies the world tells us? What do you reply when someone says they don’t need to go to church to be a “real” Christian? Who are some of those who try to devise clever lies against truth?

We celebrate Grace

       Because we have been saved from our sins

• Read Eph. 1:6-8. What was our condition before salvation? After salvation, does He stop forgiving our sin? How do you know?
• Why did God forgive YOU, and not someone else whom you know intimately? Did you deserve it more? Why or why not?
• Do you live your life so that those you meet want what you have?

       By how we show grace to others

• Read 1 Pet. 2:9. Why should we show grace to others?
• Read 1 Pet. 4:8-10. We see scriptures that exhort us to be different from the world, and to do good to those around us. What does verse 9 tell us?
• Does it matter to God if we choose to obey Him or not? Read 1 John 2:3. What does this verse tell us?

We recognize His Grip

• Read Heb. 7:25. Does Christ have to die again because the world is still sinning? Why was His death sufficient for all people, for all time?
• Read 1 Cor. 1:8-9. Will He ever leave you? Are you convinced in your soul that God will never leave you, or let you slip through the grip He has on your life? What will make it such a part of your heart that you will want to shout?

Close:

The local church, like our physical body, has no limit on the amazing functions it can perform. When twelve men were turned loose on the ancient world, they turned it upside down with the gospel of Jesus Christ. Yet millions of believers around the world today struggle to make an impact that changes their family or community. Have you asked yourself why not? What can you do differently? Do you truly desire to change your community for the Lord, working with other believers in your local church? You can start with the people you know who, for whatever reason, do not get out on Sunday morning and gather to worship Christ. Yet they believe themselves to be saved, and they desire not to go to hell. How can you help?

God’s love for us is beyond our understanding; the closest we can come to grasping it is the love we have for our children, but even that is flawed by our humanity. Most of us who have had small ones have, at some time, let their grasp on our hands slip, and immediately we are in panic mode. Their existence is so important to us that we cannot act calmly until they are back in our arms. Yet has it ever occurred to you that the grip God has on you will never let go? If we lose sight of this truth we need to search Scripture for verses that reinforce His constant and abiding love for us. Perhaps when we get a genuine grasp of His intense love for us, we’ll want to share it with those we meet. As Dr. Falwell would tell his son, Pastor Jonathan, “if a microphone is stuck in your hand, use it to tell folks about Jesus Christ!” Whenever an opportunity presents itself, share the good news that saved you.

Key Verse: Ephesians 1:13-14: In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory.

Flannelgraph Faith: Passing it on
August 12, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Parents will tell you how difficult it was the first time they left their infant in the church nursery or day care! Placing them on a school bus for the first time usually brings on tears for Mom. Why is it so hard to trust the responsibility of our precious possessions to someone else?

We are continuing our series of learning lessons from Bible characters who were strong in the faith, using the vintage style flannel-graph with modern-day technology. Today we see how Paul rejoiced that his passion of taking the gospel to all places was to be handed off to the next generation. The years were passing, enemies increasing, and Paul knew his time on earth would eventually end. Let’s join him in Acts, chapters 16 to 20, learning from him how to pass our faith on to those who will hold dear the beloved Scriptural doctrines.

Discuss:

Changing Our World Must Include the Next Generation

• Read Acts 16:3-5. What kind of reputation did Timothy probably have that Paul would have taken him “under his wing” for mentoring?
• Paul was continually subjected to persecution (2 Cor. 11:23-28) and knew his ministry needed to be given to those who could carry it forward after he was gone. Why was/is this necessary?
• Why is it normally so hard to turn our responsibility over to the someone in the younger generation?

Trusting the Next Generation

• Read Acts 17:14. Paul, Timothy and Silas arrived in Berea, only to have Paul’s dissenters attack him again. Why was he willing to leave Timothy and Silas in Berea and himself leave that area?
• How are you pouring your life into someone who will be able to carry on your love for Jesus? Why is it important that you are willing to give what you value most into their possession?
• Share some ways in which you are trusting someone of the next generation.
• For those who are parents, what was it like to come to a milestone: school, driving, college, even marriage? Why?

Commissioning the Next Generation

• Read Acts 19:22. How did Paul show Timothy that he trusted him to carry on Paul’s burden for the churches?
• What did your teen understand the first time you confidently handed them the car keys and asked them to go pick up ______ (sibling, grocery, etc.)?
• How will you know when it is time to hand over responsibility?

Celebrating the Next Generation

• During the next couple of chapters, we read of Paul having reunions with his co-workers. What must the joy have been as they reported to each other?
• Read 2 Tim. 1-2. What relationship did this older apostle have with the younger one whom he had mentored? Do you have a son or daughter in the faith? How are they carrying out what you passed on?
• There is no greater joy for the Christian than to see one’s children walking in truth! (3 John verse 4) Can you describe the feeling?

Take Away:

• Are you raising the next generation for Christ? What are you doing?
• Are you sending out the next generation (are you handing them the keys?)
• Younger generation: are YOU ready to take over?

Close:

As you read from these chapters in Acts, it is impossible not to mentally examine your life to make certain there is someone from the next generation, whether grandchild, child, friend, etc., that you are investing your life in. Are you praying that they are ready to receive the baton and carry the church forward? All investments in life indicate that there has been time put into knowing the person or firm. One does not knowingly invest their precious goods into something or someone whom they do not trust. Who in the next generation are you investing in?

The investing of your time and talents may seem a small thing. You may not see results in your lifetime, but God has the timeline, not you. As long as you are faithful as a steward in your Father’s house, He will bring about the increase. Let those you love see you putting what you love into God’s work. It will pay great dividends one day!

Key Verse: Acts 18:5: When Silas and Timothy had come from Macedonia, Paul was compelled by the Spirit, and testified to the Jews that Jesus is the Christ.

Focal Passages: Acts 16-20. Take some time this week to read these four chapters that tell of Paul’s trials and victories!

Flannelgraph Faith: The Power of Purpose
July 29, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Do you have a purpose for your life, one that motivates you to actually accomplish it? Or perhaps, in the different seasons of living, your purposes have changed. Can you share either?

Today we look at a married couple from the New Testament who had such love for Jesus that they had completely committed themselves to His work. They were willing to go anywhere they felt led, at any time, to do the work of the ministry. This study continues our series using a modern day flannel-graph, giving visual images to tell a story of love for God and each other.

Discuss:

Reputation Matters

• Read Acts 18:1-4. Aquila and Priscilla, Jewish believers who lived in Rome, were forced to leave by a decree of Claudius. They were strong believers of Jesus Christ and made their way to Corinth. When Paul arrived there, he was introduced to them. Why do you think he was led to them?
• What was their occupation? What was Paul’s trade? What did Paul accomplish by earning his own living while preaching the gospel?
• Surely the reputation of Aquila and Priscilla was such that Paul felt equally yoked in abiding in their home in Corinth. Why would this have been important?
• What do people say about you (you don’t have to answer out loud)? How do you stand out differently from those you work with, or have for friends? Do they know you are a Christ-follower?

   Solidarity Matters

• Read verses 5-11. When the message of Jesus Christ was rejected by those in the synagogue, what did Paul do? What did Jesus tell him in a vision?
• Why is it so much easier to quit, or be silent, in the face of adversity than to continue?
• What did God do by way of encouragement while Paul was being verbally attacked often?
• When you are going through difficult situations, why does it give you so much confidence when God sends others to come along beside you?

 Commitment Matters

• How long did Paul remain preaching in Corinth? Can you remember a job or situation that you endured, only to see it result in victory? Can you share?
• Read verses 18-21. From what you’ve read, how can you conclude Paul left with the young church doing well? Whom did he take with him when he left?
• After visiting with the Ephesian believers, Paul felt he had to leave. Speculate as to why Aquila and Priscilla remained in Ephesus. Was their work finished?
• Has God called you to a certain task? Are you being obedient?

Growth Matters

• Read verses 24-28. What were some of the qualities Apollos had? What was his greatest lack? Does this possibly reflect the reason why Priscilla and Aquila were needed in Ephesus? They now had a new church plant! How would that make youfeel?
• Are you being used to grow the kingdom of God? If you are not growing, God cannot use you the way He desires. What are some ways that you grow? Are you willing for Him to use you?

Close:

This study of the life of two individuals who were committed to God gives us several options to serve as a great study! These two people had a marriage that could provide a role model for any couple who desires to serve God. They were faithful to each other, with a common goal, not holding onto material possessions or home, but willing to carry out God’s plans for their lives. They saw fruit not only in planting churches, but in discipling and mentoring others also.

It also gives us a picture of the great apostle Paul, often regarded as one who lived in the Spirit always. Yet small verses like Acts 18:6, Acts 15:37-39 or Romans 7:18-19 show us that he was human just as we are, sometimes reacted with frustration, just as we do, and was even ready to quit—yet he was on the verge of victory! It should give us extra courage to know that we can do great things for God if we grow, draw near Him moment by moment, and be ready in any situation to let Him use us. That only comes about if we have prepared our heart ahead of time.

Key Verse: Acts 18:9-10:Now the Lord spoke to Paul in the night in a vision, “Do not be afraid, but speak, and do not keep silent; for I am with you, and no one will attack you to hurt you; for I have many people in this city.” (NKJV)

Focal Passage:Acts 18:1-28.

Flannelgraph Faith: The Courage of Conviction
July 15, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Some people seem to have the gift of courage, while others struggle with stepping out of their comfort zone. Can you think of an example when you showed courage even though you were scared?

Today we continue our series using the modern version of the flannelgraph, choosing godly characters from the New Testament. This week we will focus on Stephen, a righteous man who became known as the first martyr of the Christian religion

Discuss:

Courage in our faith comes from above before it comes from within

• Read Acts 4:23-31. Peter and John had just been arrested and taken before the Sanhedrin. Can anyone tell the story of what had happened?
• These two men were perceived to be “unlearned and ignorant” (vs. 13) yet stood boldly before the ruling Jews. Where did their courage come from?
• Why is courage not natural for us? What are some areas where courage is desperately needed in our families? Why do we not take a stand?
• Read Acts 6:8. Why would God give us courage to defy fear?

Courage in our faith is from the overflow

• When are you—in any situation—the most confident? Why is that? As you spend more time with God, do you become “filled and overflowing” with His promises and faith in what He says?
• Read Acts 22:14. What do you know about Stephen? What did he answer when he was taken before the High Priest? Why did he have so much courage? Read Acts 6:8.

Courage in our faith will protect us from beginning to end 

• Read Eph. 3:19, and Romans 15:13 (in The Living Bible if possible, or one that translates abound as “overflowing.”) Why do we have to have conviction in our faith before we can be used by God in courageous ways?
• Read Acts 7:57-60. You may ask, “where was God’s protection for Stephen as he was being stoned?” Will someone answer?
• Why did Stephen cry out to God to receive his spirit, and how could he find the love for those gnashing their teeth in hate as they killed him?
• Probably none of us feel we can face a death of martyrdom, yet every day across the world this is happening. Where do they get their courage?

Close:

The life and age of Stephen is one we know nothing about, although probably he was a husband and father. The Bible records he was a man “full of faith and the Holy Spirit” (Acts 6:3-6). Would that we all had such a eulogy from God! Yet he had such faith that he was able to preach a very long sermon to the ruling Jews, laying the guilt for the crucifixion of Jesus Christ at their door, not fearing his coming death. His conviction that Jesus was truly the Messiah gave him a courage that would face any attack against his belief.

Stephen had the courage of his convictions because he was confident in Whom he believed, and in what he believed. While we will not take a stand for our preferences, we will for our convictions. Do you know the difference? You may prefer a movie with no cursing, but if you continue to watch it, you do not have a conviction. Turning it off and removing it from your home means you have a conviction and will take a stand against it. That difference gives one confidence to face ridicule or back down! Those around Stephen that day saw a good man die; the Jews thought they were squelching the growing community who believed that Jesus was the Messiah; God saw the result: that those who would flee Jerusalem would take the news of the gospel of His Son and spread it throughout the world (Acts 8:1). May we all be so courageous in our conviction as to simply tell our neighbor before it’s too late.

Key Verse: Acts 4:19-20: But Peter and John answered and said to them, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge. For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.” (NKJV)

Focal Passages: Acts 4:19-20, 23-31; 6:8; 7:57-60 and Romans 8:38-39.

The Church There and Here
July 1, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

So often in businesses, additional help is needed to cover shifts when vacation time occurs. Most are hesitant to volunteer, hoping someone else will take the responsibility. Can someone give an example?

This week we want to continue last week’s sermon, looking at the way in which Christ uses believers to build His church. Today we will examine our individual role, our mission, and the reward we know we will receive in heaven. We were given a personal responsibility (gift) whenwe received salvation. Now we must identify our task and apply ourselves to it.

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:1-7; Hebrews 12:1, Phil. 3:13

Discuss:

We are called

• Read Ephesians 4:1. Paul begs us not to forget our calling. What is he referring to?
• What is required for us to accomplish our own calling?
• Read Romans 12:4-5. Is everyone’s work the same? Why not?

To live differently than the world

• Read Eph. 4:2. Why is this the opposite of what society, the media, and commercials would have us believe to be the correct way? If you are living a life of humility (putting others before your own needs), discuss why this is so difficult when it comes to overtly sinful persons who cross our paths?
• What is the opposite of those virtues in verse 2?
• Read Titus 2:11-13. How does God desire that we be separate from the world?

To be united in mission

• Read Eph. 4:3-4a. Occasionally we see people who cannot control a part of their body because of a physical malady. How difficult would this be if the body of Christ operated as dis-unified members? Are we striving for unity?
• Why does the world not take the church seriously in these days of turmoil?What can each of us do about it? What focus must we have?
• We can each make our own calling our focus. Where do we start?

To celebrate our future

• Read Eph. 4:4b. If we are saved, what is our hope for the future?
• Read Phil. 3:13. Paul was able to forget his former life. Can you forgive yourself past sins in order to be effective for the calling God has given you?
• Read Heb. 12:1-2. This is a description of how we should approach life. Name some of the witnesses that make up this “Hall of Faith” and tell why it is amazing that God used them. What does verse 2 tell us to do?

All because of Him

• Read verses Eph. 4:5-6. What truths should our lives center around?
• Read Heb. 12:2 again. What did He do for us while we were “dead in trespasses and sins” and what is He going to do to see that we finish well?
• If our church body—we as individuals and corporately—are going to be effective in a world of upheaval, what does our focus have to be?

Close:

The church is a body universal, made up of every nation, people and language. Have you had the experience of meeting a Christian in an unlikely country or situation, and immediately a sense of the same Spirit dwelling in each of you comes over you? That is how Christ wants the body to work: healthy, growing, and full of love. It is His plan for our lives, and the best life that can be had for all of us.

Individually, we all need to be members focused on Him throughout our day, looking for ways we can bring glory to Him. To be like the world—go the same places, take in the same entertainment, use profanity, or wear the same clothes—causes us to take away that “set apartness” that God desires for us. It also gives the world the right to call us hypocrites, as we say we’re holy, but act like them.

No outside force will ever destroy God’s church. However, we can destroy our own effectiveness if we do not keep our focus on our calling and on our future! God has prepared a place for us, one that is so great that our finite minds cannot even imagine the glory of it. Let’s keep that thought central as we faithfully endure each day.

Key Verse: Matthew 16:18: And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock [confession] I will build My church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it. (NKJV)

Our Responsibility as Christ Followers
June 17, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

What are some responsibilities you have? Tell when or how you learned they would be something that would be in your life long-term.

We tend to look to the Bible, the church, Life Groups or Home Bible Studies as our greatest means for learning how to conduct ourselves as Christ-followers. Have you ever given much thought to the early Christians, who had nothing but word-of-mouth or home gatherings to learn and encourage each other? We are so blessed to have the Scriptures and can see exactly what God expects from us as believers.

Focal Passage: Galatians 6:1-10

Discuss:

We are responsible to and for one another

• Read verse Gal. 6:1a. We all know that getting married or having a child brings responsibilities we have not previously had. Why would God want us to help care for the believers He brings into our lives after we are saved?
• Read Heb. 2:11 and 1 Pet. 2:17 and 5:9. Does God consider believers to be a family? What are some of the responsibilities He expects from us for our new “family”?
• What are some ways in which we can tear down a fellow believer who has fallen into sin? Are these things pleasing to God? How can we gently restore those who are in sin and out of fellowship? (Where would prayer rank as one of the ways?)

We are responsible to God

• Read verse 1b. Why did Paul feel it important to warn believers to be careful lest the same temptation that overtakes a brother or sister in Christ also overtake us? Why did Jesus warn us often about falling into temptation?
• Read Heb. 12:1. We all have an area (or areas) where we are weak, and Satan has that weakness targeted. Why does he want to see us fall?
• How can we avoid the traps he sets in those areas where we are most vulnerable?

We are responsible to care

• Read verse 2. Does anyone recall the meaning for the word “burden”?
• What keeps us from being willing to let others know we have a burden too heavy to carry by ourselves? What should we do?
• Read verse 3. What is the connection of thought between restoring a fellow Christian who is in sin (vs. 2), and not caring (verse 3)?
• Read verse 4. Paul now admonishes us to keep ourselves under a microscope, so that no-one has a reason to accuse our behavior. There are many verses that can be used as a self-examination; why is it important that we do this often?

We are responsible to do what’s right

• Read verse 5. What is the difference in the burden of verse 2, and the “burden” used in verse 5?
• Read verses 7-8 and Jas. 3:18. We must accept responsibility for our actions. Who is watching us because we call ourselves Christ-followers?

We are responsible to NOT QUIT

• Read verses 9-10 and Hebrews 10:36. Why is perseverance so important?

Close:

Many years ago, a young lady from a broken home dated a young man whose family was large and close. She was captivated by the love and general caring she saw within the family unit. She married him and became a part of that close-knit family. That’s how the church body should be. When a person accepts the free gift of God’s grace, they immediately become a part of the large family of God—adopted children of God, and brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ, as we read in the Scripture passage today. That brings responsibility, just as being a part of any family does. You sorrow when someone sorrows, laugh when they are filled with joy, hold them accountable and in general see that they are always on the path to a closer walk with Christ.

Above all, we all need to carry each other’s burdens, and at the same time hold ourselves accountable for seeing that we walk in close fellowship with Jesus Christ. Today’s world will try to get us off the right path as often as possible, but the tight closeness of family will insure that we maintain a healthy, vibrant Christ-like spirit.

Key Verse: Galatians 6:9: And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.

Dr. Jerry Falwell, “Don’t quit! Have a 4^th Quarter Ministry!”

Keys to Living Right
June 03, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Reading the Instruction Sheets that come with a new DIY piece of furniture is a prudent step. Often, however, we feel we are sensible enough to navigate the task of assembly without the need for the instructions. Can you think of an example and tell what occurred?

The past two weeks we have looked at the work of the Holy Spirit in witnessing and in speaking. Today we will look at Psalm 119, as we are presented with the “keys” to a life of joy.

Focal Passage: Psalm 119:9-16

Discuss:

Obey His Word

• How would you describe the Bible to someone who is unfamiliar with it?
• Read verse Psalm 119:9. What does the word “psalms” mean? In the section of Scripture called “Psalms,” who did they magnify?
• If you answered question one by saying the Bible is God’s instruction manual for believers, so that their lives can be empowered by and glorify Him, you would have been correct. Read Romans 10:17 and Heb. 11:6. How does one get the faith to believe that God exists?

Seek Him

• Read verse 10. If you were an unbeliever, not in church, how would you begin to search for God?
• What is the promise God has given in Deut. 4:29? Does anyone remember how the Greek was translated in describing how the Psalmist had searched for God? Why would we actively seek Him with our entire being?

Memorize Scripture

• Read verse 11. When are we tempted to sin? Read Rom. 6:11-14. Why should we NOT sin? What can keep us from obeying the lusts of the flesh?
• Read Heb. 4:12. If God’s Word is living (and God says it is!) and we have it in our heart, will it be present with us when we want to run from sin? How?
• Read Deut. 6:6-8. Can anyone relate their experience with teaching their young children to memorize Scripture?

Worship Him

• Read verses 12, 13. What are some ways in which we worship God? Are there other things in your life that you worship? If so, what are they?
• Read 1 Cor. 10:31. Why should we give God worship?

 Find Joy in Following

• Read verses 14-16. What are some of the joys you experience from following Christ as your Savior?  Are you following Him? If you are not, He’s not that “big of a deal” for you, is He?
• Read 1 Pet. 1:6-9. Is this the testimony of your life?

Key thoughts: Just as a parent sets boundaries for his child, every boundary that God has set around us is there to give us the best life possible. Does this truth bring you amazing happiness? Find joy in following Jesus Christ, as it leads to the happiest life that is possible.

Close

Peter—that brash, often outspoken disciple—was a different man after seeing Jesus in His resurrected body. He became a bold testifier of the faith, and his letters were filled with nuggets of gold. In chapter 3 of his first letter, he writes that if we want to love life and see good days, we should keep our tongues from evil, and our lips from speaking deceit. Last week we learned that controlling the tongue is one of the hardest virtues to acquire, but we are to strive for it. He goes on to say that we should turn away from evil and do good; to seek peace and pursue it (in fact, run after it). In his second letter, he says that God’s divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness, and His word is filled with “exceedingly great and precious promises”

Reading these short passages from the small books of 1 and 2 Peter, we can see that Peter summarizes the sermon for today: we are to obey the Word, to seek God’s way within the Scripture, memorize it, worship Him for Who He is, and find joy in following His way, so that we have life and godliness. Do these guidelines illustrate your lifestyle? As said in question 11, if He’s not first and foremost in your life, then He’s not that big of a deal to you. Another statement heard today from a believer was “if my iPad dings to say I haven’t clicked on my Scripture app in three days, I know I need to read some!” Would your family be okay if you only spoke to them every few days? Probably not. Timothy reminds us that we are to flee sin, and pursue (run after) righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience and gentleness (1 Tim. 6:10-12.) Let’s make new commitments to pick up these “keys to living” and live a life of righteousness.

The Power of His Presence
May 20, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

We often are hesitant to speak out concerning a matter we feel may leave us open to stress, yet when someone else—smarter, stronger or more powerful—is behind us, we immediately have much more boldness. Can you think of an example?

Today we are focusing on the powerful presence of the Holy Spirit. We open with the apostles gathered in a room in a house, praying, beseeching God to use them. The apostles, who had been ready to return to former trades after the crucifixion, were now gathered together, waiting for the promise from the resurrected Jesus that they should remain in Jerusalem until they had received the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Focal Passage: Acts 2:1-21.

Discussion:

Pentecost

• Although to us, Pentecost has become synonymous with this occurrence in Acts 2, was it actually a term for this event, or a word with a simple meaning? How long had it been since Jesus had been resurrected?
• Can someone tell, in their own words, what happened as the disciples were gathered in that room?
• In the Old Testament, what were some references to fire, and what did they generally represent? What about the effect of wind?
• Tongues: the apostles were miraculously able to speak in other languages, so that everyone clearly could hear the gospel in their native language. Why would God do such a miracle?

The supernatural power of the Holy Spirit in our lives

• It was promised
  • Read Acts 1:8. Jesus, who cannot lie, told the disciples to wait for this anointing. What did He say would be the result of the Holy Spirit coming upon them?
  • Read Romans 5:5 and 1 Cor. 3:16. Is the Holy Spirit promised to us as well?

• It was obvious
  • Read Acts 2:6-8, 12. Why do we tend to put a limit on the power of God?
  • The apostles had seen three years of miracles. How do you think they reacted when they realized they could communicate with foreigners?

• It was significant
  • How likely is it that these 3,000 who were saved that day would ever forget the occasion? Why?
  • What are some significant things you’ve experienced, never forgotten, and how did they impact your life?

•  It was life changing
  • Read verse 41. What did these saved persons do next?
  • What has been the most life-changing part of the gospel for you individually?

ASK YOURSELF: Why is today’s believer not willing to “seek and to save those who are lost”?

Close:

This passage is the true beginning of the church. Although these individuals in Acts were miraculously anointed with the Holy Spirit, able to begin a ministry of bringing lost souls into the kingdom of God, He was not limited to that time, and that place. In the following years the disciples saw the Gentiles of all nations become empowered with the Holy Spirit as well.

As we saw in the references in Romans and Corinthians, we, also, have been given the same Holy Spirit, with the same resurrection power, and the same ability to be used significantly in bringing others to Christ. What is holding us back? In Isaiah 6:8 the Lord asked, “Who will go for us?” and Isaiah responded, “Here am I! Send me!” Have you said that to Jesus? He is looking for a heart that is sold out to Him, willing to put Him first before everything else in one’s life. He’s looking for a heart that is not held down by being close to family, to a beautiful home, comfort, a steady paycheck, safety, or so much more. He is waiting for us to say to Him, “Here am I, Lord—send me.” Will we be that one? We have the Holy Spirit’s power. Are we using it?

Key Verse: Acts 2:21: “And it shall come to pass that whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.” (NKJV)

HOPE IN THE HURTING
May 06, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

OPEN:

If you are someone who can honestly say that you have a great life with few problems, you are a blessed person! Most of us are often overwhelmed and sometimes feel we can’t take the next step. Can someone share?

Today we are looking at Psalm 34, a Psalm of David, written when he was running from King Saul by way of the wilderness. In it, we get the instruction needed to make it through any trial Satan could throw at us. It is a mini-sermon, filled with wisdom, and pointing us to the Source of Strength we can use throughout our days.

Key Verse: Psalm 34:1: “I will bless the LORD at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth.”

Focal Passage: Psalm 34:1-22

DISCUSS:

When you hurt–worship! (Vv. 1-3)

1. Read Psalm 34:1-3. Why is it so important to take our attention off ourselves and our immediate problems and focus on God?
   2. What are some ways in which you can turn this into a worship experience?
2. How often did David say he would praise the Lord? What did he boast in? Who else should speak God’s praise? (Is that us?) Whom should we tell of God’s greatness? What is special about praising Him with other believers?

When you hurt–pray! (Vv. 4-7)

1. Read verses 4-7. Why is it so important to pray? Whose power are you seeking when you pray? Read Philippians 4:6. What does Paul (through the Holy Spirit) tell us about prayer?
2. David knew that when he talked to God, God would listen and answer. What else does God do for the one who prays? How can we be free from all our fears? What will the results look like, for the one who looks to God for help? (vs. 5).
3. It is okay to pray when we are desperate. David was running for his life when he penned this Psalm, and what does he assure us the result will be? What power had he tapped in to with his prayer? Is this meant for us as well?

When you hurt–run! (Vv. 8-10)

1. Read verses 8-10. When you were a child, where did you run when you hurt? Why is this a good analogy for us, always running to God, but especially when we are hurting?
2. Often, we take a taste of a food to see if we like it; David begs us to give God the opportunity to show us He is good. What does God promise if we are His people who fear Him?

When you hurt–listen! (Vv. 11-14)

1. Read verses 11-14. David, knowing he was writing to those who could learn (his people and by extension, believers through the ages), desires to teach them the most important thing he knew. What was it? Why is “listening” so important, not only while we pray, but anytime God may speak to our hearts?
2. We all wish to be joyful and live a good life. How is this possible? What else should we strive for? Read 1 Pet. 3:10-11. Does Peter echo the same thing?

When you hurt–trust! (Vv. 15-18)

1. Read verses 15-18 and 1 Pet. 3:12. What is God doing for His children? Do you have someone you watch over with passionate vigilance? How can you trust God to watch over you or those you love with the same fervor you exhibit?
2. Read 2 Chronicles 16:9a. What did this Old Testament author know of God’s watch-care?
3. What happens to those who do evil and never turn to the Lord?

When you hurt–don’t quit! (Vv. 19-22).

1. Read verses 19-22. David emphasizes again the benefits of trusting the Lord. What are they (name them one by one!)?
2. Do these verses mean that we shall avoid all calamity? Read in KJV or NKJV if possible. Verse 20 was thought to be fulfilled by Christ on the Cross.

TAKE AWAY:
1) Spend at least 10 minutes each day thanking Him for His care for you
2) Spend time asking God for clarity and wisdom to navigate life each day
3) Read His word every day (1 Proverb and 3 Psalms each day will finish both books each month)
4) Don’t quit when the trials come
5) The greatest of all hope is salvation; when you hurt, God will deliver you

CLOSE:

Following the guidelines in these 22 verses will change your living! Can you imagine your life next year at this time if you put these principles into practice? When David writes to “taste and see that the Lord is good,” he was thinking of the true satisfaction you would have if you truly placed your faith and trust in God. With that thought being uppermost each morning, carried throughout the day, and meditated on at night, you would always be dwelling on God and His goodness. Does that seem impossible? No—God does not give us impossible tasks; He gives us tasks that He knows we can fulfill. Worship Him. Pray to Him, not in stilted, “King James” prayers, but talk to Him as you would to someone you know loves you with their whole heart.

We sing “He’s a good, good Father,” and the truth of that one phrase should be enough to give you encouragement through any trial you encounter. Finances going badly and not enough money? Marital problems? Turn them over to Him and then show the Christ-like behavior that He desires. Do you think there’s nothing left of your marriage, or nothing that can be done about your debt or addiction? That nothing can be done that will help you–even by God? Remember His creation? He had nothing to work with there, either. Yet the evidence of His eternal Power and Godhead is all around you. Don’t run away, don’t pretend your hurt doesn’t exist, give it all to Him and then listen to see if He wants you to do something. We can’t do all the talking and no listening–that’s not a relationship, but disconnection. You need to listen to the still, small voice well. Trust Him.

Above all, don’t quit. Some of us have a harder time standing our ground than others. Stand firm, remembering that God is not your enemy–Satan is. And he’d like nothing better than for you to leave God and go back to old ways. Keep on keeping on. “The Lord will redeem those who serve Him.” Salvation and joy are the result of unity with Christ. Hold tightly to that hope that will not fail you, especially when you’re hurting.

A BRAND NEW DAY: A BRAND NEW DAY OF SERVING
April 22, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Some people love to help others in the capacity they enjoy most—for instance, cooking a meal for a new neighbor, —while others serve grudgingly. A radio pastor told of arriving in a country only to be ushered to the kitchen with a “Sleep here on the floor; I didn’t know you were coming!” presented in a sour tone. The result was awkward and inhospitable. Can anyone share an example that will illustrate ways to serve?

We are in the series, “A Brand New Day,” looking at the new life a believer has in Jesus Christ. We have learned that we are new creations in Him, with a new purpose in life. We have looked at our new walk, our growth, and the new relationships we have. Now we want to look at the ways in which we can serve others, knowing that is part of our new life and our “calling” from God.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 4:1-7

Discuss:

You have been CALLED

1. Read Eph. 4:1. As believers, it is as though God has “called” us by name. Why would He do that? (John 10:27, 1 John 4:19).
2. When will our calling end? Will we ever be worthy of this calling?
3. Who were some Biblical saints called for a special job or vocation?

You are called to SERVE

4. Read verses 2-4. The calling is to be a blessing to other people through our service. What are ways Paul mentions in these verses?
5. How impactful is verse 3, i.e., making allowances for people’s differences from our own? Why do we feel our way is usually the right way?
6. Verse 4 says our calling has a glorious hope. What is it?

You have been EQUIPPED

7. Read verse 7 and Romans 12:4-13. How and why should this information fill us with comfort?
8. What is a “gift” (in Scripture) and how can we liken the passage in Romans to our natural body? How is that the same as being a member of the church?
9. Who are a few examples from the Bible of someone God called to a certain work, after having given him/her a background for what would be needed?

You have been BLESSED

10. Read Eph. 4:16. What is the result of our service? Is this the life God desires for each of us, and why?

Key Verse: Ephesians 4:1: “I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called.”

Close:

This past week in central Virginia, Christians were able to put their faith into action as churches and Disaster Relief teams organized efforts to provide help, resources and food to many who lost homes or household goods in tornadoes. The number of those seen working in communities was staggering as they aided overwhelmed homeowners in restoring their lives as much as possible. It was a testimony of Christ-followers being called to serve their neighbors, loving them, caring, encouraging and repairing. Meanwhile, citizens in the upper Mid-west of the US saw the same love expressed by churches and Christ-followers as they fought their way out of a record-breaking blizzard. Service in action was exemplified everywhere.

Just as we expect fruit trees to flourish, bloom, and produce luscious fruit in its season, so also believers in Jesus Christ, who are rooted in Him, will produce fruit that is both Godly and “worthy of the calling with which you were called.” The service that we give to benefit others must come from a pure heart of love, willing and passionate to do the Father’s business. Do you realize that someday we will all stand before God and give an account of ourselves? Does that cause you to desire a more holy life? What will you answer Him when He asks if you loved your neighbors?

The church has a multitude of ways in which you can serve with whatever gift God has given you. Get connected with a Life Group that is comfortable and fitting for you, and jump in. There will never be a better time to begin to serve than this brand new day of TODAY!

A BRAND NEW DAY: OF LIVING
April 8, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you are a parent, grandparent, or even a close, loving aunt or uncle, you know the entire dynamics of a home changes when a new baby arrives! What are some of the obvious—and less obvious–changes?

On Easter Sunday, the power of God was present in a stirring message of salvation, as many accepted the free gift of grace and faith available through believing on Jesus Christ, and experienced the beginning of a new life. This week we look at the changes that gift of salvation will bring about as you grow in faith, and assess some of the areas that will be most affected.  Did your life change in the past week? Let’s look at the picture of what the gospel should bring about.

Focal Passage: 1 John 1:1-10

Discuss:

A Brand New Day of Salvation

1. Read John 5:24. Does this verse describe what has happened to you recently? Recognizing your need to be saved from your debt of sins (Rom. 6:23) is the first step in coming to salvation. Read Rom.10:13. Did you follow the recognition up by asking Jesus to save you and repenting of your sins?
2. Read Rom. 3:23. How many—or what kinds—of sin will separate you from the love of Christ? Read Rom. 10:10. What, besides repentance, is necessary for salvation?

A Brand New Day of Action

3. Read John 3:13-14. Jesus was ready, at thirty years of age, to begin His ministry. What was the first act of obedience that He performed? How does this give us a precedent as to the importance God places on baptism?
4. What does baptism represent? Have you been baptized, even after salvation of some lengthy time? What has held you back from obeying this ordinance?

A Brand New Day of Living

5. Read 1 Pet. 2:1-2. In the opening, a new baby requires the family or guardian to take responsibility for certain requirements the child needs. If you liken that to your salvation experience, what are some things your new life will require of you?
6. Read 1 John 1:5-6, and 2 Cor. 5:17. Explain why you, as a newborn babe in Christ (or even as a seasoned believer) cannot go places, look at things, or have companions that would be contrary to your faith in Jesus Christ.

A Brand New Day of Walking

7. Read verses 7-8. If you’re a new believer you might be asking yourself, “Where do I go? What do I do?” Read Matt. 6:33 and James 1:5. You now have a Creator who will “liberally” give you wisdom when you ask. How do you seek God and His righteousness before other things (Matt. 6:33)?
8. Read 1 Thess. 5:16-18. When you read verses such as this, underline it so that you can find it at a moment’s notice. What does it mean to your new way of life?

A Brand New Day of Forgiveness

9. Read verse 9. Why is it necessary to keep a “short account” of your sins? How is that analogous to letting debt on a credit card mount up?
10. What are some ways you can keep your walk pure?

Memory Verse: 1 John 1:6: If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.

Close

So often non-believers will scoff at Christianity, saying it is a list of rules—of “do’s and don’ts.” You may have felt that way yourself before Jesus called you to Himself. What they do not realize, however, is that He has taken the “old” you, the one who walked in darkness and had fellowship with darkness, and created a new being! You are no longer the same person, with the same desires for sin and its temporary pleasure. The old has passed away, and the new has come—and continues to keep coming.

If you remember, Pastor Jonathan used the organ as an example of a new creation. It had been a tree that was cut down, and fashioned by experts into a beautiful instrument that is used to worship God. You, too, have been changed from the person you were  into someone completely new, whose being can bring glory to God for the rest of your life. What a praise!

If you feel you need additional help—and most of us do!—connect with one of the Life Groups at church, and find one that meets your needs. There are studies for everyone, and they will help you grow as you seek this new life of joy and peace with God.

Crossroads: Walking With Jesus
March 25, 2018
Dr. Jerry Vines, Guest Speaker

Open:

It is a terrible feeling to turn your head for a moment, only to look back and your child—parent, friend—is nowhere to be seen. Can you think of an example?

We are interrupting our series, “Crossroads: Where His Road Meets Our Road,” as we welcome Dr. Jerry Vines to the pulpit. At the same time, as he brings to our attention the life of Enoch from Genesis 5:21-24, we see the amazing story of the life of a man whose walk intersected with God and became incredible. He served and “walked with God” for three hundred years, and was one of only two people in the Bible who did not die, but passed from this life directly to heaven.

Focal Passages: Genesis 5:21-24; Hebrews 11:5-6; Gal. 5:22-23.

Discuss:

Enoch Walked In

1. Read Genesis 5:21. How long had Enoch lived his life before he met God? There must be a moment at which you choose whether to walk with God or reject Him.
2. What are some problems Enoch dealt with in his world that are similar to the same problems you face daily? Read Gen. 6:5-6. Because the ancient world was so evil, what did God do?
3. When you—just as Enoch did—cry out to God that you want to know Him, what immediately happens? (Hint: just-as-if-I-had-never-sinned).

Enoch Walked On

4. Read Gen. 5:22, and Amos 3:3. When two walk together in fellowship, what are some of the bonds that hold them together?
5. What are some evidences of growth as you continue your walk daily? Read Gal. 5:22-26. How does this growth come about?
6. The growth—sometimes sweet and sometimes painful—is a continuation of the justification gotten at the moment of salvation (question 3), and is called _________. (Hint: we are being “set apart.”)

Enoch Walks Out

7. Enoch proved himself worthy in his walk for three-hundred years. Read Col. 1:9-11, and 1 Thess. 2:12. How are these verses—hundreds of years later—exactly what God meant when the Holy Spirit said Enoch “walked with God”?
8. What happened to Enoch after three-hundred years? Read Heb. 11:5-6. He was not found! How many people do you imagine went looking for him? As in the opening thought, would his family have searched long and hard for him?
9. When we pass from this life to the eternal life that is promised to believers, what is that step called (after sanctification, question 6)?

 Close

When we think of the highest praise given some men in Scripture, a few immediately come to mind: Enoch, of whom it was said (Heb. 11:5-6) that “he pleased God;” Nathanael, whom Christ said was “…an Israelite…in whom is no guile;” Abraham, who was a “friend of God; and Moses, with whom God spoke face to face as to a friend. These would indicate men who lived above the average in their godly walk.

Enoch was a man who was in a world very much like ours. For sixty-five years he was immersed in that culture—perhaps, like Lot, it could have been said of him that his righteous heart was “oppressed by the filthy conduct of the wicked.” However, when he cried out to God, God heard and saved him, allowing him to witness for Him for three hundred years. Jude, in verses 14-15, presents Enoch as a preacher and prophet, pointing the way to God. His walk was so filled with fellowship with his God that he was ushered into heaven, straight from the grim conditions of earth. What bliss!

Is that your walk? Do you start your day with devotions? Reading your Bible early in the morning means you are seeking to hear what God wants to say to you for your day, so you can meditate on it as you do chores. Lifting up holy hands in prayer, with your eyes open to heaven, indicates you are talking to Him. The conversation goes back and forth in fellowship. Out of the abundance of the comradeship comes the fruit listed in Gal. 5:22-23: gentleness, peace, etc. Is this your greatest desire? Seeking God, walking with Him, and persevering through trials and testing will mold you into a person whom God says is worthy of Him. Do you want to be that person?

Enoch’s world: Social disruption; emotional confusion; spiritual rebellion; and religious upheaval. Does this sound like the world in which you live?

Crossroads: Hope for Tomorrow and Forever
March 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

We’ve all had the experience of hearing information but not quite understanding the complete significance of it. Often, not wanting to seem presumptuous, we have not asked enough questions, and thereby caused ourselves difficulties down the road. Can you think of an example?

This is the second week of the series “Crossroads,” as we look at Biblical characters whose lives intersected with Jesus. Today we study Thomas, the disciple who has been known throughout history as “Doubting Thomas.” However, closer scrutiny will reveal Thomas to be an enthusiastic follower of Jesus, ready to die with Him, but always trying to be sure he completely understood the significance of what Jesus was saying. He asked bold questions, not out of doubt, but to confirm the information he was hearing. Would that all Christ-followers would be so sure they have their facts straight when it comes to doing God’s will!

Focal Passages: John 11:1-16; 14:1-6; 20:24-29; Mark 8:31-37.

Discuss:

Thomas was unsure of what tomorrow might hold

1. Read John 11:1-16. What reaction did most of the disciples have when Jesus told them he was going to go to Bethany? Who had a different reaction?
2. Why would Thomas have been willing to go with Him, and possibly even to die? How do you think you would have reacted?

Jesus gave the answer

3. Read John 14:1-6. What did Jesus tell His disciples in verses 5-6? Why do you think Thomas asked his question? If you were in Thomas’ place and was told you could go where Jesus was going, what questions would you ask to make sure you did not miss the way?
4. How did Jesus answer? Why is He called the great “I AM”?

Thomas’ tomorrow came quicker than expected

5. Read John 20:24-25. Thomas had followed Jesus for three years, had seen countless miracles, and watched Him be beaten and crucified. Now the other disciples are telling him they have seen Jesus, alive and well. What emotions were probably uppermost in Thomas’s mind and heart?
6. How can you best understand his emotions? No analogy comes even close, but can you think of a time when you could not believe what you were hearing or seeing?

 Thomas forgot what Jesus had said

7. How do you think he tried to reconcile Jesus’ words of going “to prepare a place for you” with the death he had seen Jesus die?
8. What do you think Thomas did during that next week, hearing over and over how the apostles had seen Jesus? How far away from those closest to Jesus would you have strayed, had it been you? Why?

Jesus again gave the answer

9. Read verse 26. Thomas made certain that he was close to the disciples during the week, and he was ultimately rewarded with the presence of Jesus. How did he probably feel, knowing he had not believed the disciples?
10. Read verses 27-29. Jesus assured Thomas that it was He, and Thomas believed. How are we mentioned in verse 29?

Jesus’ answer is always the same—HOPE

11. Read verses 25 and 26. What are the promises Jesus gives? Do you believe this? Do you share your story?

Close:

How like Thomas we are today! We know Jesus from the Scriptures, believe in Him, have our sins forgiven, and try to walk a holy life. Often we sense the presence, power and sometimes “feel” the voice of God. But the bad times come, the loved ones die, prayers seem not to get answered, the road gets very rocky, and we forget what Jesus tells us: “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Thomas had seen it all, from the early days when Jesus called the twelve together, to the ascension as He disappeared in the clouds going back to heaven. But like us, he wanted evidence. He bluntly stated that he wouldn’t believe unless he could put his fingers in the hands and side of the pierced Savior. Often, we, like Thomas, demand signs before we’ll go further with Jesus. And yet He says, “Blessed are those who have not seen, and yet believed.”

How many times can you look back and see that through the tough times, He was holding you, carrying you, leading you? The trust must be there when the going gets hard, when the faith almost deserts us, and you have to cry out “Lord, increase my faith!” And what keeps us going? His answer, that He is the Great “I AM” _______ (fill in the blank), He is whatever you need, at the moment you need Him. Share your story of HOPE for the world.

KEY VERSE: John 11:25: So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!” But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in His hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into His side, I will not believe.”

Difference Makers: To Serve is to Give
February 25, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

For some, sharing your resources to help others is easy; for others—it can be very hard. Can you reveal the ways your heart responds to needs, and how you handle it?

Today we finish the series “Difference Makers.” This has been a time to learn ways to love people, and make a difference in their lives. We found that God commands that we give of our time, our talents, and the treasures we hold dear, so that we meet the needs of others. Sharing what we have, helping fill a need, or giving where our heart leads is each a part of giving, and we want to learn how to do it cheerfully and in abundance.

Focal Passages: 2 Corinthians 8:1-9; 9:6-9.

Recap from last week, Galatians 5:

Serving is an antidote to selfishness: You can’t be selfish while serving Serving is a picture of God’s command: Meeting the needs of others is a must Serving keeps us together: Serving someone leaves no room for animosity

Before we begin the last half of last week’s sermon, we’ll look at Biblical references for giving from Genesis through Malachi. Please read them at home (to save time):

Genesis 14:17-20: Abraham gives Melchizedek one-tenth of all he has;
Leviticus 27:30: 400 years later: A tithe is one-tenth, and belongs to God;
Deut. 14:22-29: 40 years later, Moses reminds the people of the tithe;
Malachi 3:6-12: 1,000 years later: Robbing God of tithes brings consequences;
1 Corinthians 16:1-2: On the first day of the week, set aside your tithe to give.

Therefore, the New Testament picture of giving reinforces the Old Testament.

Discuss:

FIRST:

1. Read 2 Cor. 9:7-8. What is the first verb Paul uses in these verses for you to have a “Step 1” to follow for tithing?
2. Was he speaking of money, talents, time or all three here?
3. Go back to 1 Cor. 16: 2. Why should God want your gift set aside on the first day of the week? Does He mean the first DAY, or the first thing that should be taken out of the paycheck?

INTENTIONAL:

4. How do you decide how much you can give? What is your guide concerning your tithe?
5. How much faith do you have that if you make a commitment to begin tithing, God will provide for your needs?
6. Read Malachi 3:10. What does God promise, if you give your tithe? What does “floodgates” (NIV) mean?
7. If you are intentional about giving, what does Paul call that? How many other things in your life are you intentional concerning? Do you waver on those, and why not?

PROPORTIONAL:

8. If you gave back to the Lord in proportion to what He has given you, how would you decide the amount to give? List some of your priceless treasures.
9. How does God (through Paul) tell you to give? Does anyone know the Greek word for cheerful? (Hilarious). Do you give like this?
10. What would you be doing in service or serving, if you tithed a tenth of your hours to God, or a tenth of your talents? What are some talents used for the good of others?

 Close

There was a couple many years ago whose bills were taking every penny that came in as wages. The husband figured their outgo (needs, not wants), and looked at his income. He calculated that he owed God $250 per month if they had the courage to begin tithing and believed that God would honor His promise in Malachi 3:10. The next pay period was followed by a weekend, and on Sunday they put their check in the offering plate. When he went to work the next day, his boss called him into his office. He was given a $250.00 per month raise, not anticipated. God is faithful!

Hopefully you have been motivated to make a difference in the life of someone—or more—during 2018. You may be well on your way, or it may be that you desire to do so but have fears. Go back and re-listen to the sermons, taking notes. Seek out Life Groups who will guide you through ideas, opportunities, or steps. The staff always knows of needs, whether it is for salvation, taking food to new families, inviting those who move into your area to church, or “owning your neighborhood” by doing all those things. God will be with you every step of the way, and there are always others who will go with you until you are comfortable alone. Test Him and see if He will not open the floodgates and pour out blessings on you!

Key Verse: 2 Cor. 8:9: For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor that you, through His poverty, might become rich. (NKJV)

Difference Makers: What Does the Walk Look Like?
February 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Have you ever realized how many things you do foolishly because you are attempting something you are not experienced at? Sometimes raising children or taking care of a parent with dementia might fall into that category. Can you think of an example?

We have been in a series that will teach us how to be “Difference Makers” in our community if our hearts are open to doing God’s will. We have learned how to be certain we are a Christ-follower, how to recognize people who need Christ, and how to take the good news of the story of what He’s done for us to those we meet. Today we want to look at three steps we can take when we’re ready to share Christ, knowing that with each witness the task will become more familiar and less daunting.

Focal Passages: John 9:1-11, 26-33, 35-38; Matthew 28:19,20.

Discuss:

TELL: Tell them the Gospel story

1. Read John 9:1-11. For years, the man in this account had nothing to tell. After Jesus healed him, what story could he share?
2. Can someone refresh everyone’s mind with the recent sermon on the Gadarene demoniac? How did the people respond to that man’s healing? Read Mark 5:17-20. What do you think happened to that village after he returned and told his story?
3. Everyone who is saved has a new beginning. What are some things that hold you back from sharing what Christ has done for you?

GROW: Help them grow in their awareness of, and identity in, Christ

4. Read John 9: 26-33. Why were the Jews so focused on finding fault with Jesus? How did the healed man react?
5. What do you notice about his responses—was he able to answer all their questions? Did this stop him from telling what had happened? How can this encourage you when you begin to tell others how Christ saved you?
6. If someone wants to accept Christ, what steps would you take to help him/her grow in their faith? How would it help you if you searched for and wrote out verses or passages that encourage prayer or Bible memorization (Psa. 119:11)?

SEND: Help them map their mission

7. Read verses 35-38. What did the blind man do after Jesus healed him? Thinking back to the demoniac, why did Jesus tell him to stay in his own country? How is that like the Samaritan woman last week, whose entire village was changed because of her story? Testimonies draw people!
8. What would happen if you suggested you meet with the person you are trying to win to Christ one time a week to study together, or pray? How is it possible that your little two-some would grow to include more?
9. Read 2 Timothy 2:15. Why did Paul instruct Timothy to “study”? What are some other ways in which you can grow as a Christ-follower?

Close

In the opening dialogue, you thought about efforts you have made when you have no previous experience. The first time you tell the story of your salvation, you may feel you should have said something else, added more, or feel in general you made a mess of it. But have you ever likened what you say in marriage to your witnessing? In marriage, one partner will make a statement; later, it is a “you didn’t tell me that” scenario. The difference is, they don’t always hear what you mean when you speak! When you tell the story of accepting Christ, the Holy Spirit, who is in you, and perhaps working in the other person, can cause them to hear what they need to—that is an awesome thought. And as we see in the passage of the blind man, he didn’t know the answers to most of the questions the Jewish leaders were throwing at him, so he kept repeating, “All I know is, whereas I was blind, now I see!” Perhaps that’s all you can say: “All I know is, whereas I lived a life of sin and pain for others, now I want to live it to glorify Jesus Christ,” and it may be all they need to hear.

There doesn’t have to be carefully worded stories. God has saved you. The change may be instant, or it may be gradual, but people will see the difference. Babies are not born ready for walking and eating meat; they are born, carefully taken care of, taught how to do things that will become lifestyles, and one day leave the home and begin their own life and family. That is what you want the hearers of your story to do. Nothing will be better than to stand before Jesus and see a room full of people whose lives you impacted for God’s kingdom. But you have to start. We have to start!

Key Verses: John 9:25: He answered and said, “Whether He is a sinner or not I do not know. One thing I know: that though I was blind, now I see.” (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

1. Can make a call, a visit, or write a letter;
2. Stop and notice what someone is saying or doing;

Engage someone in conversation and listen with interest.

Difference Makers: Where Do I Start?
January 28, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

For some of us, a list of steps necessary to achieve a certain end is extremely helpful, while others do great without one. Can you share an example?

We are in a series called “Difference Makers,” looking at how we should be living out our Christian life in the world. Because we sometimes feel we’re in a gray area as to what we should be doing, today’s sermon lays out for us three steps that will help us examine our hearts to know that we are prepared to witness, who we should have a burden for, and why it is our job to share with them the Good News.

Focal Passages: 2 Pet. 3:9-10; 1 Cor.15:1-4a; John 14:6; Rom.10:9-13; Matt. 22:37.

BEING A DIFFERENCE MAKER: Where do I start?

Know who you are

1. What have you learned in prior weeks that defines a “Difference Maker”? According to those passages above, what is your responsibility?
2. How can you be a Christian, and not be a Christ-follower? What does a Christ-follower do?
3. In 1 Cor. 15:1-4a, what did Paul do once he was saved by grace?

Know who they are

4. John 3:16 says Jesus’ atonement for sins is available to whom?
5. What are some normal characteristics of those who need Christ? How is it possible that their anger, profanity, or attitude might be covering up a deep desire to have someone love them?
6. Read Matt. 22:37. Why is it so hard to love those who are going to hell (your “neighbors”)?
7. What are some intentional things you can do to show love for these people?

Know what your job is

8. Go back again to 1 Cor. 13:4. What did Paul do after salvation? What was probably said of him? (Remember, his reputation would have gone out among all those following Jesus Christ at that time. How hard would that have been for him to face those same people?)
9. 28:19-20: What does Jesus tell you?

Close

If we are not careful, we can become insulated in our churches through Bible studies, evening groups, choosing friends, worship or Sunday School, and never reach our neighbors or the world. It takes intentional, daily discipline to be willing to be used to further the kingdom of God on earth. Usually work situations are not easy places to witness verbally, so we rely on our lifestyle to show our co-workers that we hold ourselves to another standard. But is this what Jesus desires of us? If we look at the early church, we find the disciples going out “street preaching,” sharing the good news of the death, burial and resurrection of a Messianic Savior to all who would listen. They didn’t just live their faith, they shared it. Have you examined your life to see if you love the lost with the same compassion Jesus did? Does your lost neighbor weigh on your heart? Until you get the courage to witness, you can at least lift him/her to the throne each day, asking God to open a door. If you are unsure of the status of their soul, you can usually pick up on it with just a few minutes conversation, or ask a non-threatening question like “Do you attend church?” Most people are not offended by that. Identify your job as a Christ-follower as someone who is a witness of what He has done for you, gives out the good news, and loves people into a relationship with Jesus. You’ll never be satisfied to live a life of mediocrity again!

Key Verses: 2 Peter 3:9: The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

Sees things and people the way Christ does;                                                                  Loves people, and uses things (not the reverse!);                                                              Has a heart for the hurting;                                                                                             Has a heart for the lost;                                                                                                     Is a Christ-follower;                                                                                                              Is one who has believed and received the Gospel story of Jesus [His death, burial,   resurrection], has followed Jesus in baptism, is obeying all that Jesus taught, and is helping others do the same.

Our Response to Christ’s Church
January 14, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

When you were young, did you find it easy to obey, usually doing what you were told, or were you constantly finding it difficult to submit to authority? Can you share?

Last week we looked at the institution of the church—the cohesive body of believers that Christ established as a method to spread the good news of salvation available through Him. We learned what He planned for the church and how it is to function. Now we ask ourselves, “How do we respond?” Let’s look at the responsibilities of believers as we come together in small or large groups, in order to change our world.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 2:19: “Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”

Discuss:

Background

Last week we learned:

• The Church is God-ordained, instituted by Him to preach the gospel (Matt. 16:18).
• The Church is not a building or an organization, it’s YOU! Individuals are the church.
• Jesus is the Head of the Church, (Eph. 1:22, 23)
• Jesus gave a plan for the Church, (Acts 2:42-47)
• Jesus gave us the keys to the Church, (Matt. 28:18-20)

We can see that God ordained the church and we should have a much clearer idea of the importance of it. Now, what are our responsibilities?

We are required to carry out His plan

1. Read Matthew 28:18-20. Who did Christ give the job of spreading the gospel to? Does this apply to today’s churches? Why?
2. Did He suggest this commitment, or give it as a directive, expecting believers to be obedient? Going back to the Ice Breaker, do you find it difficult to serve in your church, or does it excite you? Share your heart.
3. Why do you think church members leave it to the pastor and staff? What three words are important in verse 19? 

We are required to serve within the church

4. Read Romans 12:4-5. What is the analogy in these verses that is compared to the church? How do you see yourself as a member of a church body, just as your fingers or toes are functioning members of your own body?
5. Read 1 Peter 4:10 and Romans 12:6-8. What is the charge here?

We are required to baptize believers

6. Read Matt. 28:19b. Why do we baptize? Why did Christ set us an example to follow, when He was baptized by John?
7. What does it symbolize? Is this a suggestion or commandment?

We are required to remember how Christ established the church

8. What is the second ordinance the church is told to perform, in remembrance of Christ’s death on the cross? Read 1 Cor. 11:23-26.
9. Both ordinances are holy. However, what are we told in verses 27-30?

We are required to pray that the world would believe

10. 12:12, Eph. 1:18, 6:18, and Phil. 4:6 are just a few of the hundreds of verses on prayer. Why is that communication so important to your spiritual life and what does it mean in the lives of others?

Close

It is incredible to think that God gave frail, sinful humans the task of seeking out the lost in this world, and presenting them with the gospel. One feels the listener could turn and say, “But you used to ____!” This gives you an even greater reason to tell the story of your changed life—not yet perfect, not complete, but always striving for the goal that God has set before you. One of the responsibilities you have as a Christian is to be part of a local body of believers who come together to worship, praise, and pray (Heb. 10:24, 25). Would you pray the more earnestly if you knew that it was only by your prayers that someone you love would be saved? Yes, without a doubt you would be constant in coming before God on their behalf! The obligations laid on you for serving your Lord are contained in the Scriptures in today’s sermon. Write those on 3×5 cards, memorize them, and recognize that your job is to love the Lord your God first and foremost, and love your neighbor as much as you love yourself. If you do these two things, you will find yourself serving and being effective in your church, your community, and your world.

Key Verse: Colossians 1:18 (NKJV): “And He is the head of the body, the church, Who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in all things He may have the preeminence.”

Pressing On
December 31, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Finding a time or circumstance in which to make a fresh start is a great thing. The beginning of a new year definitely seems to be the optimal time when we hope for a change in our lives! What other times might hold new hope?

As we end 2017, we know we answered firmly that Christ is the only reason for the Christmas season. Now we can’t help but hope 2018 might be a year of new beginnings. Perhaps it will be the year we achieve a long dreamed-of goal, or reach a new level of faith. Let’s strive with the apostle Paul toward the goal of knowing Christ and the power of His resurrection better than we ever have before.

Focal Passage: Philippians 3:1-14.

Discuss:

THE PAST SHOULD STAY THERE

Our beliefs about the past

1. Read verse 13. Why did Paul give this piece of advice he himself followed? What happens to any living organism if it remains stagnant? Read verses 2-3. Why does he warn against holding onto traditions learned as immature believers?
2. Read verses 6-7. All the good works in the world can’t save anyone. How did Paul find this out for himself? Read Eph. 2:8-9. What are some traditions the church is still holding onto today that should be put into the past?

What we should believe

1. Read verse 8. What is the only thing worthwhile that will help you, keep you, protect you, and save you? What were some of them Paul counted as nothing? (Is there anything you are relying on for salvation, other than the work of Jesus Christ on the cross? Answer in your heart.)
2. How can you commit to “knowing Him better” as one of your New Year’s goals—and then keeping a daily journal to see that you do?

THE GOAL IS CLEAR

1. Read verse 10. If you set your goal for 2018 to know Christ better, what could that look like? What would change as you come to know Him more intimately?
2. What is the fruit that begins to come as you know Him better? (Gal. 5:22-23.)
3. Read verse 12. Paul wanted the church to know he had not “arrived.” What does he say he has to do?

THE GOAL? PURSUIT OF CHRIST AND THE PROMISE OF HEAVEN

1. Read verses 13-14. What were the three things Paul disciplined himself to do?
2. What are some ways you can take control in these areas? Read Heb. 12:1. 

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If you’ve ever stood in the sand at a beach as the waves roll in, you know that remaining in one spot will soon pull sand away from your feet, only to cover them higher with each incoming wave. Standing still in the Christian life will destroy your progress, just as surely. Paul knew that he could not let his family, his reputation as a Pharisee, his zeal for God and eventually his torture of Christians, define who he was: he became a child of the King the day Jesus met him on the road to Damascus, and from that point on he had to forget those things which had seemed to matter, to become the person God intended him to be. When you reach(ed) the point at which you surrender(ed) your heart to Christ, from then on you must pursue a life of knowing Him, serving Him, and letting the change in your heart be reflected in your lifestyle. What better time to discipline yourself setting these worthy goals than the beginning of a new year? Keep a journal of your progress, your prayers, and His answers this year, so you can see your growth. In a way, life as a disciplined Christian will never become any more of a habit than a new lifestyle of healthy eating habits. One piece of pie, one bag of chips, and suddenly the control slips. Be honest with yourself: admit the slip, and begin again (Prov. 24:16). Strive for the prize that Jesus Christ has promised! Keep pressing on, and if you stumble, get up, knowing the heavenly reward will be waiting when He calls you.

Key Verses: Phil. 3:14: I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. (NKJV)

The Point of Christmas Is: SACRIFICE
December 10, 2017
Matt Willmington and Dr. Harold Willmington

Open:

There is not a day that passes that we are not asked to make some type of sacrifice, whether it’s our time, money, a place in line or one where loss or cost is heavy. Can you think of an example to share?

We are in a series for December, asking “What’s the point of Christmas?” Today we will have Dr. Harold Willmington and his son, Matt Willmington, discuss how the Christmas story was one of a supreme gift, as God the Father sacrificed the life of His only Son, Jesus Christ, for sinners who are unworthy and uncaring. We will focus on Abraham and Isaac.

Focal Passage: Genesis 22:1-14.

Discuss:

The Testing

1. Read Gen. 22:1. What are some pertinent facts you know of the life of Abraham? Why was he special to God?
2. What does the Bible mean when it says God tested Abraham? Read Deut. 13:3b and Psalm 26:2. Why does God test you?
3. Some versions translate the word “tested” as “tempted.” Read Matt. 4:1 and 1 Cor. 10:13. What is God looking for as He tests you? Who tempts you to do evil, and why?

The Ultimate Sacrifice

4. Read verse 2. What was God asking Abraham to do?
5. Put yourself in Abraham’s place, and imagine giving the life of your child, to obey a direct order from God? What would be some of your thoughts?
6. Did God already know the outcome? Why would He ask Abraham to do this deed, as He knew what the result would be?
7. Read verse 4. How many days did Abraham travel, expecting to fulfil God’s command. What was this a foreshadowing of (two thousand years later)?

Incredible Faith

8. Read verses 5-10. As Isaac asked Abraham his amazingly perceptive question, what must Abraham have felt?
9. Between the time God told him to go make the sacrifice, until verse 10 when he stretched out his hand to slaughter his son, had Abraham hesitated or argued with God? Do you believe he was unhesitatingly going to go through with it?

God Provides

10. Read verses 11-14. What did God do to reward Abraham’s act of obedience?
11. When has God asked something from you, and you have obeyed without hesitating or question?

ASK YOURSELF: WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO PUT ON THE ALTAR?

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This passage from the life of Abraham, recorded in the book of Genesis, evokes so many emotions from us as children of God. We may feel disbelief that God would ask such a difficult—seemingly impossible—act from one of His own. What would Sarah say when Abraham returned? What would the Gentiles in the area think? What precedent would it create for human sacrifice, among the Jewish nation? The closest we can get to understanding Abraham’s feelings is when our child enters the military during wartime. The thought of losing him to save a nation who detests what Christians stand for is almost impossible, yet we somehow do it.

Abraham was instant in his obedience, not faltering or hesitating when God gave the instruction. He put together the articles needed for the sacrifice, got his servants and donkeys, and headed for the place he knew God wanted him to go. What did he think about during those three days of travel? How did he feel when Isaac asked the penetrating question “Where is the sacrifice?”? Was his heart broken, or did he trust God was going to provide an alternative at the last moment? Have you wondered why God tested him? The testing is not because God doesn’t know what the outcome will be (for He always does), but often our final response will open our eyes as to how much we trust God when He asks something difficult of us. Has He asked something of you, and you failed? Did you realize you lacked the will to fully obey? Or did you pass, like Abraham, with flying colors? What do you have in your life right now that needs to be placed on the altar, so that you can be fully and whole-heartedly obedient? Be “Abraham’s seed” (Gal. 3:29) and be prompt to do His bidding!

Key Verse: Genesis 22:14: And Abraham called the name of the place, The-Lord-Will-Provide; as it is said to this day, “In the Mount of the Lord, it shall be provided.” (NKJV)

The Heart of Thanksgiving
November 26, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Parents whose young child attempts “Thank you” (in childish language) for the first time—without being prompted—experience so much joy! Even as adults we are grateful when someone commends us for a job or attitude done well. Can you give an example, realizing we’re doing it, not for boasting, but to make a point?

We are just finishing the last hours of four days traditionally known in America as the “Thanksgiving holiday.” These days are usually filled with an abundance of food, family, and thankfulness for blessings of the past year. Possessing a grateful heart is one of the important characteristics of one who wants to be genuine as a Christ-follower. Paul gives us much guidance in the short book of Colossians, knowing if we set our mind to be more aware of, and thankful for, our blessings, we will pass on a joyous legacy.

Focal Passages: Colossians 3:12-17.

Discuss:

The Heart of Gratitude

Be Different

1. Read verse 12. We often hear the word “intentional” used today. What are the characteristics that Paul encourages us to be “intentional” about, in this verse?
2. What is the connection between the qualities listed in the verse (which might differ according to translation), and the trait of being thankful? The deeper question is, what is the foundation upon which being thankful is situated?
3. What is the relationship between gratefulness and humility? Explain.

Be Caring

4. Read verses 13-14. No one is perfect, including you! What list of sins could Jesus recite against you, if He wanted to? Have you asked for forgiveness? What is the analogy between being forgiven by Christ, and you forgiving those who antagonize you?
5. In verse 14, another action is intentional; what is it? What are some ways you can “put on” love? Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a. Why in Col. 3:14 does Paul call love the “bond of perfection”? How is that linked with 1 Cor. 13:4-8a?
6. Who does the world encourage you to put first? Why is that contrary to the Word of God?

Be Together

7. Read verse 15. How do you attain God’s peace? How can you let it rule in your heart? Why is that important?
8. Everyone has friends who do not know about or care about God. Why is it important to maintain most of your fellowship with believers? How are some ways you can love an unbeliever but not let them influence you?
9. Why does Paul add “and be thankful” at the end of this verse? How does Peace and Thankfulness go together?

Be Consistent

10. Read verse 16. As you look back at the previous four verses, how many of the actions that are addressed are “intentional”? What do the words “put on,” “let,” “do,” and “be” have in common?
11. Read Ephesians 4:14-16. Why would the world want to take you down in your faith? What is the goal in verse 15? What is God’s purpose for us in 16b?

Close:

When was the last time you saw a two-year-old throw a fit when you tried to dress him? It is typical as they learn to express the desire to “do it myself!” We should be so adamant about appropriating the word of God, putting it on, taking it in, and teaching ourselves to be more and more aware of the reality of the characteristics until we do them as naturally as breathing. When your soul wells up in “Thank You!” to God, does that one time express your gratefulness? Certainly, it is good. But you can teach yourself, no matter your age, to remember to thank Him more than just one time when He has shown Himself involved in your needs. What has He done for you today? Did you say thank You? Yesterday? During the time when friends or family were gathered around a meal, did you have some time set aside when each one listed some of those things you are so very thankful Christ did for you this year?

Paul encourages us to incorporate gratefulness into our lives, so that no blessing comes our way without immediate thankfulness going up to God. Did you realize, in question 3, that thankfulness goes hand in hand with humility? Think of royalty, or movies where there are servants who labor long and hard to do their employer’s bidding. Are they used to hearing “thank you”? No. It was the expectation that the service would be done to please the one who hired them. Do you say thank you to your spouse for working all day, doing the jobs around the house, or keeping meals prepared? Begin with those small things that show you realize you don’t deserve all the time and effort made on your behalf; your children will see the “attitude of gratitude” and copy it. Soon it will become habitual, and you will carry it outside your walls into the world—and show them the difference as a true Christ-follower!

Key Verse: Colossians 3:17: And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him. (NKJV)

TINY GIANTS: Truth in Love
November 05, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Being told the truth about something in your life may result in hurt feelings. However, if the one who speaks what you need to hear loves you genuinely, does that help you absorb the correction better? Can you share an example?

We are currently looking at the second of the three shortest books in the NT, gleaning nuggets of wisdom that are often missed because the books are so short. This week we want to examine 2 John for God’s commandment that we walk in love, speak truth in love and serve people in love. We want to internalize these important qualities so that we are not a “noisy gong or a clanging cymbal!” (1 Cor. 13:1).

Focal Passages: 2 John.

Discuss:

The encouragement of truth

1. Read verses 1-3. Why is it such a fallacy to believe that it really doesn’t matter what you believe, if you are sincere? Who is Truth? Why can truth not exist apart from Him?
2. What are the three blessings John prays for, for the church he’s writing to? How does one have access to those qualities?
3. If grace, mercy and peace are from God, how intimately do you have to know Him to receive these gifts?

The requirement of love

4. Read verse 4a. What do you need to be reminded of? Why is it so easy to get so bogged down with the ‘nasty now and now’ that love is often pushed aside for ‘duty’?
5. Read verse 6. What does John say love means? Read John 14:15. What does Jesus say? Read 1 John 4:8; just as we know that Jesus is the Way, Truth and Life, what does this verse tell you?
6. How does 1 Cor. 13:13 end? Why is love more important than faith and hope?

The importance of discernment

7. Read verse 7a. John said that he was writing the previous verses (4-6), because there were so many different deceitful philosophies being taught. What are some ideas being stated as truth today that demonstrate his statement?
8. Read verses 10-11. How can we protect our minds from being sucked into the false beliefs that are being propagated?

The value of fellowship

9. Read verse 12b. Why did John hope to visit these friends and talk “face to face”? What are you missing today by interacting through social media, tv, etc? Give some examples of displacing true fellowship with other options.
10. How much do you value the fellowship you have with Christian brothers and sisters? How often do you seek them out?

 Close:

John wrote this short letter to a church he loved, opening his heart to give words of warning he felt necessary for these early believers. His two main themes, reminding these brethren to show love to all people always, as well as warning the flock to be vigilant of false doctrine regarding Jesus Christ, were both very pertinent in their walk as believers. He begins his letter with emphasis on love and truth, not separating one from the other. He stressed the importance that Jesus Christ is both, and true believers show their love for Him by obeying His commandments, and loving each other.

We read this small book—about the length of a daily devotional—and find it as applicable today as it was two thousand years ago. Individually we all have turmoil, both from outside of our control, and internally from attacks of warfare, of human failings, and by sinful thoughts or actions. Yet it is love and truth that ultimately triumph in our lives. Seek out a Life Group that will help you grow in your faith, fight with the armor of God, and love unconditionally, so that others will know you are a Christ-follower!

Key Verse: 2 John 6: This is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it. (NKJV)

*Matt. 18:15-17, 21-22; 1 John 2:9-11; Matt. 6:14-15; Col. 3:13

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: Taking the Next Step of Service
October 22, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you learn of a need that someone has, what is your immediate response? Did you have to stop for a moment, or were you able to give a spontaneous anwer?

This week we finish the series “START: Taking the Next Step from the Step You’re On.” We have been seeking God’s direction for this journey of faith we are living. We want to follow the example Jesus set by serving those whom we meet along our path. We want to condition ourselves to be alert to their needs, then meet those needs as we are able.

Focal Passages: John 13:4-17; Matthew 25:40; Philippians 2:3-4.

Discuss:

THE NEXT STEP OF SERVICE:

Putting Jesus First

1. Someone read the memory verse, John 13:15. Why should you learn to be a servant? Read Mark 10:44-45. What does that teach you?
2. Read Matthew 25:37-40. What stands out as you read this passage? Were the “righteous” serving because they wanted to be noticed or because they wanted to show their love for Christ? Why does service have to start in the heart?

Putting Others First

3. Share some examples when you don’t exactly excel at putting others first. (Did you say, “in traffic,” or “waiting in a line”?) How can you change these situations?
4. Read Phil. 2:3-4. There are several suggestions of how to be more like Jesus in these two verses. What are they? Which of these things do you find the hardest?

HOW?

With What You Have

5. In verses 4-5 of John 13, what did Jesus need to perform the humble task of washing the feet of His disciples?
6. Can someone relate the oft-quoted maxim about God’s calling and equipping?* Use what He has already given you.
7. What will happen if you wait until you feel you are prepared to serve before you can be useful to God?

With what you know

8. Read verses 6-8 of John 13. The last phrase has a deeper meaning to Jesus than it did for the disciples. What was Jesus really saying?
9. What should be the goal for every act of service you perform?

With Christ as your model

10. Read verses 13-15. Why does Christ want you to serve others? Examine your acts of service to make certain your motive is to show the love of Christ.

WHAT’S NEXT?

 Pray

11. Why should you pray? When you pray for the needs of others, are you also asking God to use you?

Offer

12. What would happen if you prayed each morning that God would bring someone across your path who had a need, you see the need, and are able to meet it? Take that step of faith!

Try

13. All believers have the responsibility to share the gospel, and to serve. In the Ice Breaker, you listed how you would react to a need. Now that you’ve had the sermon study, can you embellish on seeing a gift that might be more comfortable for you than you had thought? You may have to try more than once to find what niche is really yours.

Close:

Serving someone sounds like an uncomfortable step of faith, doesn’t it? Yet it is a heart attitude God wants us to have, and has said that we do it for His glory, not our own. We look into the eyes of those we meet and get a glimpse of their heart. If there is an obvious need, ask Him to reveal how you can help. Have you ever been behind someone in line at Walmart and they are digging for change to come up with sufficient money to pay for their groceries? You look, and see nothing but food. Don’t hesitate to hand the clerk the dollar in your hand! God will never let you go hungry for giving away what’s He’s given to you. Does someone have a yard that needs mowed? You don’t know their story, but you can take a half hour and push your mower down to their yard and mow. If you’re afraid they’ll take it wrong, take a basket of fresh-baked bread and a note to put on their porch. Give God the opportunity to start sending needs your way, and the satisfaction that comes will make you hunger for them more and more. If you go on a short-term mission trip, prepare yourself to feel as though you barely got started when you need to leave! You will look at the elderly people and your heart will cry that they may go into a Christ-less eternity before someone else comes to tell them of Jesus. Let every day be a day of opportunity to serve your Lord, and to follow Him.

Memory Verse: John 13:15: For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. (NKJV)

*”God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.”

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: Prayer Matters
October 8, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Meeting someone who is well-known and respected, possibly powerful, can be intimidating—and often we feel foolish, on reflection, for what we said as our mind went blank! Can anyone think of an example you can share?

This week the series “START” continues as we realize the truth that God—who cannot lie—wants a conversation with us on a personal basis. That He would care enough to form us in our mother’s womb, see every detail of our lives (good and bad) from birth to death, and still desire a relationship with us, completely blows our mind. Yet we often treat Him with flippancy, offering “prayers” that are more like a recitation than a conversation. Let’s see what His word says about the importance of prayer.

Focal Passages: 1 John 5:14-15; 1 Peter 5:6,7; Hebrews 4:14-16; James 5:16b; Luke 11:1-4, 17:17.

Discuss:

Prayer Matters:

1. Read 1 John 5:14-15. What do you mean when you use the word “if,” as in “if I go”? Why, then, do these verses say “if you ask,” and “if you know”?
2. Assuming our heart is right with God’s heart, what does He promise? Are these verses a blanket promise we will get what we want?

Prayer is talking to God your Father:

3. God is your Father if you are saved. In that case, how do you view prayer, and your ability to come before the Creator of the entire universe?
4. Read 1 Peter 5:6-7. Sometimes we assume God is like those we talk to who give some attention to what we say, rather than truly focusing on us. Does it matter that He “hears” you?

Prayer is a conversation:

5. Read Hebrews 4:14-16. In verse 16, how are we to come to Him? Do your children (if applicable) hesitate to tell you their needs? How does that relate?
6. There are two sides in a conversation. After pouring out your heart, do you take any time to be quiet and see how He responds? If you don’t, why not?

Prayer is powerful:

7. Read James 5:16b. Would God have this verse in Scripture if it were not true? How do you demonstrate that you believe it, as you pray?

How Do I Pray?

8. Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked this question of Jesus. Therefore, we need to internalize the answer.

Know Who God is:

9. In verse 2a, what does “hallowed” mean? If you could describe God with one word, what would it be? Is this how you see Him as you pray?

Recognize the importance of God’s plan:

10. In verse 2b, we are not told that it is our will that will be done. Why is it of utmost importance that we bow to God’s will, both in our prayers, and in our lives?

Know that God cares about YOU:

11. Read verse 3. Jesus Himself says we need to ask for our “daily bread.” God cares so much about us that He wants to satisfy our daily needs. How often was the manna in the wilderness given? Why would He want us to ask daily?

Be in the right spiritual place for prayer:

12. Read John 9:31. What must our lifestyle be like for God to hear our prayers? Why is it important that our lives be “holy” as He is holy? How does 1 John 1:9 fit in here? If we are His children, how does He view us?

Be in the right attitude for prayer:

13. Read verse 11:4. What happens when we have unforgiveness for others?

Seek God’s leading in your life:

14. How do we do this? Read 11:4c. Why should we want what God wants?

Be thankful for everything:

15. Developing an attitude of gratitude is the key to being in God’s will. Why is that true?

Close

Cultivating a deep and meaningful prayer life is essential if you want a close relationship with your heavenly Father. As we have mentioned in numerous ways often, no relationship, whether with a spouse, your child, a family member, etc., will ever morph into a quality bond unless time is invested by conversation. If one side does all the talking, without giving the other an opportunity for answering and sharing equally, the relationship is nothing more than a power trip. We have learned much about prayer in these passages, but the most obvious is that our hearts must be in a condition where sins are confessed, a lifestyle is God-centered, no bitterness resides against our fellow man—in essence, we are in a right relationship with Him.  We cannot be living in sin and present our requests, expecting Him to overlook the things we are doing that are in direct opposition to His word. Paul wrote in Romans 6:1, “What? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid!” Paul uses the most forceful word in Greek to imply “Absolutely Not” to emphasize our dependence on the relationship must be clean. “Be holy, as He is holy.” Do you want Him to answer your deepest needs? Then begin by lining up your life with His, desiring His will in all things, and being fervent with your prayer life. Above all, learn to be grateful for everything He blesses you with. As you do, you will find contentment, knowing He hears you, is answering in His time frame, and doing what is best. He sees the end, not the tunnel you’re in!  Trust Him.

Memory Verse: 1 John 5:14: Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. (NKJV)

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites there are resources such as Original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: How Can I Be Sure?
  September 24, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

There are so many decisions that must be made in life, and the right path is not always easy to know. For instance, “Is she/he the right person for me to marry?” Can you think of an example when you struggled with not being certain about something crucial?

Today we start a new series simply entitled “START.” All of us are on different levels of faith, of commitment, or maturity, but we want to know what the next step is for our situation. Dr. Falwell originally wrote a pamphlet, “How to Get Started Right,” outlining those next steps. Before we look at those steps, let’s be positive that we are in a right relationship with God, without any doubt of our salvation.

Focal Passages: Ephesians 2:1-9; John 3:16, 4:14, 8:52,10:27-29; 1 Corinthians 1:8,9; Philippians 1:6; Hebrews 13:5; 1 John 1:3-4, 5-10, 2:3-5, 2:15, 3:2-3, 3:5-6, 3:14, 3:22, 4:1-3, 5:1-2, 5:14-15.

Discuss:

Background:

1. Read Eph. 2:1b-3. What is the condition of the person who has not asked Jesus to save them?
2. Read verses 4-6. “But God” stepped in and did what? Why (vs. 4)?
3. Read verses 8-9. How were you saved? Did you do something to merit it? If you had achieved it by being good, could you boast about it?

How You Can Be Sure:

You will want to know Him:

4. Who will share the story of meeting your spouse, and the desire to know every little thing about her/him?
5. If you are going to trust God with your life, what are some things you will want to know about Him (for instance, is He always trustworthy?)? Where are you going to find these character traits?

Conviction of your sin:

6. Read John 14:26. It is said that there is no one more miserable than a true Christian who is living a sinful lifestyle. What can you conclude if you have a sinful addiction, and are not convicted about it?
7. Read 1 John 3:6. How does the Scripture back up the conclusion you just came to concerning a lifestyle of sin?

Seek fellowship with other Christians:

8. Read 1 John 1:7. Think of a fire: if you pull a piece of log out from the rest, what soon happens to it? How is that like a Christian who does not fellowship with other believers? Do you get that fellowship watching a service on the television?
9. At our churches, what is the biggest benefit of being part of a Life Group?

Understand the power of prayer:

10. In your family or work, how much of a relationship would you eventually have if you took no time to communicate with the others?
11. The Person Who has taken up residence in your life wants a very personal, loving relationship with you. Do you have a special name for Him that signifies your deepest feelings for talking with Him? What does James 5:16b tell you?

Recognize the importance of God’s Word:

12. Going back to family again, or even before that, to your relationship as it grew with the person who would be your spouse (if applicable), if you received a letter from her/him, how did you treat it? Discuss.
13. How do you view the books of the Bible, in giving you a guideline to know God, His plan, and how to live your life? Read 1 Peter 2:2-3 and 2 Peter 1:3. What do these verses tell you about Scripture? Read Psalm 119:11. What is another reason for memorizing His word? 

Close

Have you ever asked people where they will spend eternity? It is very few who will answer “Hell.” Since almost everyone assumes they will go to heaven, you must follow your question up with “What are you basing your hope on?” You already know most will say their good must outweigh their bad. This is such an unfortunate situation, and brings great pain to those of us who have tried to reach family members who are in a works-based religion. The START of a journey with Jesus Christ is to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you were “dead in your sin” and being so, were powerless to resurrect yourself. BUT GOD, through His great love with which He loved YOU, was willing to save you, and give you a new life of salvation. It was Grace—all grace—and nothing that you did. He offered it to you freely, asking that you live your new life with Him at the center. Did you accept that gift? If you did, He adopted you, and nothing you can do will cause Him to back out of this relationship. However, Romans 6 begins by telling us that the adoption by God is not a license to continue to sin. That is why you must do a self-examination with the points outlined above, making certain that your walk is in line with the Biblical precepts. If you have no desire to read your Bible, change your way of a sinful lifestyle, be with other Christians, or pray, you might need to reassess your conversion experience. However, if He is alive and well within you, and you are maturing in your walk with Him, begin by talking aloud with Him every time He crosses your mind! Nothing you say to Him will shock Him, cause Him to condemn you or think less of you, (He knows it anyway,) and the constant conversation will eventually morph into a close relationship that will flood your soul. You will “never find a friend so faithful!”

Memory Verse: Ephesians 2:4-5: But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved). (NKJV)

Nothing Is Impossible With God
September 10, 2017
Dr. Ben Guttierez

Open:

Sometimes, in making a decision to take a certain action, we realize we have started something where the task becomes too big, and we want to give up. Can anyone give an example?

These past two weeks, we have come through catastrophes that have left millions destitute, and they no doubt wonder if they will survive the stress of these crises. At the same time, we have witnessed God showing His mighty and awesome power, bringing about miracles that man could not—under any imagination—have orchestrated. Nothing is impossible for Him to accomplish, and as His child, nothing is impossible to the believer whose life is rich in faith. We are promised that God will do exceedingly abundantly above all that we can ask or think!

Focal Passages: Matthew 9:1-13, 10:2-4; 16:26; Luke 3:12-13, 5:27, 7:34, 18:10-11, 13a.

Discuss:

Background:

1. Matthew, the tax collector, was someone the Jews would have gone out of their way to avoid. In that day, tax collectors ranked with the lowest of the low in terms of character and integrity. Read Matthew 18:17, 21:32, and Luke 7:34 to see how they were lumped in Scripture with those whom no one would believe could be saved.

Who Can God Use:

2. Read Matthew 9:9. What would make a wretched sinner, tax collector and outcast obey Jesus when He said, “Follow Me”?
3. How do you know that Matthew’s new-found faith was real?

God—the Forgiver of Sins

4. Read Matt. 9:1-6. What is Jesus saying in verse 6?
5. Can you think of an acquaintance that you have felt, perhaps for years, they were too “bad” for God to save them?

No One is Too Wayward That God Cannot Use Them

6. Read Matt. 9:10-13. Who was Jesus seeking as He went through the towns preaching, teaching and healing?
7. Read Mark 12:37. Who embraced Jesus and His teaching?
8. How does this compare with 1 Corinthians 1:21?

God Changes Hearts

9. Read Luke 19:7-9. Zacchaeus was also a tax collector, like Matthew. What showed his humility when Jesus went to his house?
10. Read 1 Sam. 15:22. How high does God place obedience to His word?

Can God Use YOU?

11. Read Matt. 18:4. What does God desire from you?

Read Matt. 22:36-38. What else?

Can He use you?

 Close:

Satan can so easily get any of us tied up in regret, doubt or lies, bringing up the past and reminding us of it. How many times have you thought, “God can’t use me, because I have ____________”? Or perhaps there is an acquaintance that you know who has made life a living torture for someone you love, and you feel they are so far beyond the possibility of salvation that God will never write their names in the book of Life (Rev. 20:15). The truth is, no one is beyond the reach of God’s mercy and grace, unless they choose to ignore the call of Jesus. It takes a repentant heart and an act of turning from sin to obeying the voice of God to become His child. “He is the forgiver of sins and the determiner of one’s mission in life. God will use any heart that is submissive to His will.” (Sermon). He does not desire anyone to perish, but all to come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.

With the number of catastrophes coming one after another, examine your heart closely to (2 Cor. 13:5) to see that you are His child, lest you be caught unprepared! Once you know that you are, without a doubt and with a faith that will not be shaken, tell your story as often as God gives you opportunity, as the time may be short. He can use you no matter what you’ve done, if you ask forgiveness and repent, just as He can use those whom you continue to lift to the throne, no matter how hopeless the outlook! Do so this week!

Memory Verse: Matthew 19:26: But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Flannelgraph of Faith: Jonah
August 27, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Occasionally we’re asked to take a responsibility in an event or situation for which we’re competent, but don’t wish to participate. Sometimes we will go so far as to make plans to “be away” in order to escape taking on the task. Can you share an example?

Today we will conclude our Flannelgraph series, having used a modern twist on the old visual aid style of teaching. We have reframed the precious stories we learned as children, looking for deeper meanings to apply to our lives as we continue to grow in Christ. We are going to learn from Jonah, the prophet who was commissioned by God to go preach repentance to a people whose sins were leading to their destruction.

Focal Passages: Jonah, Chapters 1-4

Discuss:

Background:

1. Jonah, an Israelite, was called by God to prophecy to the enemy country of Nineveh. Instead of obeying, Jonah ran from God. Can one or two share the first part of Jonah’s life, to give us the background?

God’s Call Trumps Our Comfort

2. What is the most astonishing fact that stands out after God calls Jonah to go preach to Nineveh?
3. How is his fleeing in the opposite direction the same as our knowing to obey God, but not doing it? How does God view the difference?
4. Where was Jonah when the storm from God came upon the ship? How can we compare this to the storms that may come into our lives when we are in disobedience to God’s will? Why does He bring those storms (Heb.12:5,6)?

God’s Redemption Trumps Our Contempt (Anger)

5. Can someone tell what occurred after the sailors threw Jonah into the sea?
6. Read Jonah 2:2-10. We can certainly understand Jonah’s fervent prayer of repentance when he found himself inside the belly of the whale, miraculously alive. Why does incredible trouble cause us to repent of known sin and turn to God? Can you relate? Was 9/11 a good example? Why?
7. Will someone tell us what happens next? How was he received in Nineveh?
8. How did Jonah react? 

God’s Salvation Trumps Everything

9. Read 4:1-4. It is easy to criticize Jonah’s reaction to God’s incredible mercy to the people of Nineveh, but what was his real problem? What was he missing that had just happened in his own life? Are you ever aware that God is merciful toward you, but subsequently you get angry as He shows mercy to someone you think unworthy?
10. God acts again in mercy, even following Jonah’s angry response. Can someone tell what happens in the last several verses of chapter 4? Even though Jonah was in sin, reacting with hurt pride, God still granted him grace and mercy. Can you think of an example when He gave you grace when you didn’t deserve it? (Share if you can).

Close:

What a short book to be so full of lessons for life! We have seen how God in His omnipotence wanted to save an ungodly heathen nation, calling them to Himself. In calling Jonah, He showed His power over nature by bringing the storm over the boat; His power was again manifest as He provided a sea creature to not only swallow Jonah, but provided air for him in the belly of the whale. He gave Jonah another chance to go to Nineveh, where He used him to cause an entire kingdom to repent and be saved. He administered grace to an angry prophet, and in love spoke to the word for a plant to grow for shade. His power over His creation provided a worm to devour the plant, making Jonah all the angrier, yet God was trying to get him to understand how much more valuable a human soul is than a plant.

We can also learn totally different lessons from the first chapter. We have an enemy who is alive and well, roaming the earth to tempt and devour the saints. As we read the first few verses we see that Satan is willing to help those who would run from Jesus, seeking to do their own thing. He will provide a way (i.e., the ship), to make it as easy as possible. But (verse 3b) there is a “fare” that must be paid for running. And Satan cannot stop the Almighty God when He is ready to rescue and use His servant.

Hopefully, as you go about your daily activities this week, you pay special attention to your actions, choosing always to follow God. God is our Rescuer, our Deliverer, and our Strength. Share Him with those you love—and those you may not love!—this week.

Memory Verse: Jonah 2:9: But I will sacrifice to You with the voice of thanksgiving; I will pay what I have vowed. Salvation is of the Lord.

Ask Yourself: Am I running from anything God has asked me to do?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Prayer and His Presence
August 13, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

In interesting studies that have been done, the amount of people who will stand alone when in a crowd is minimal. Have you ever had an experience of being the last person still holding a certain position when everyone else had chosen another option, and can you share?

The story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego is one most of us learned—by way of a flannelgraph—as children. We listened with sympathy to their punishment of being thrown into a fiery furnace for not bowing down to a golden image, and the miracle God displayed as He delivered them in an incredible way. These three brave young men left us a legacy that sought to teach us courage and help us grow strong in our faith. We want to glean more nuggets of truth that will increase our confidence as we go through our own fiery trials (1 Peter 4:12), and grow in our relationship to God.

Focal Passages: Daniel 1, 2, 3

Discuss:

The Background

1. Daniel and his three friends were brought to Babylon as prisoners of Nebuchadnezzar. Can someone give a short overview of the early years of their life there? Read Daniel 1:17. How did these four cope in Babylon? Because of their wisdom, they advanced in authority, although they were about to go through a trial that would seem impossible to overcome.

Pray Like It Matters…Because It Does!

2. Before we get to the golden image, read Dan. 2:16-19. Verse 18 gives you a picture of the source of strength for these young men. What was it? Do you feel this was a habit or a one-time occasion, and why?
3. Why does it seem to take a crisis to bring you to prayer? Prayer should be our first line of defense; why? If you don’t pray often, is it realistic to assume God will give you a reason to do so? Why? Read James 5:16b.

Compromise Will Never Deliver

4. Someone relate the demand Nebuchadnezzar made of his people when he built a 90 ft. high statue. What happened when all the people bowed down?
5. Recall the opening Ice Breaker; who will be the one(s) left standing alone against the majority during testing?
6. Read Dan. 3:17-18. What was on the line when the men did not bow down? Did they have any reason to assume they would not die? As a Christian, have you ever folded when you should have stood alone (don’t answer aloud unless you choose to).
7. If they had bowed down, what would it have cost them?

The World’s Power Is No Match For His

8. What initially happened when the three were thrown into the fiery furnace? What did the king witness, as he looked into the fire?
9. Read Dan. 3:27. What was Nebuchadnezzar’s conclusion when they came out?

We Have His Power

10. Read John 14:26. How do you know you can trust His power when you’re in a trial?
11. Read Isaiah 43:2b. You are the only one who can truthfully answer this question: can you look back and see that your faith is increasing, and that you are trusting Him to be with you every step?

Close:

Standing alone is hard. In the opening, if you thought of an example from your own life, you possibly sensed that same twinge of unease that you had felt then, and wonder now where you got the nerve to step away from the crowd. The decision to not bow to any god but the true God seemed as if it was going to cost Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego their very lives. They had not read the end of the story! We can see from chapters 1 and 2 that prayer was a part of their daily routine; in this case, they probably had time only for a short plea for God’s help and His will, but if He had different plans, whether He saved them or not, they would be faithful to Him until death took them.

We need to ask ourselves the same question. Will you stand regardless of the outcome? If you are praying for a loved one to survive a disease, for an end to a financial crisis, for help in your marriage, for a wayward child—will you still stand with Him and trust Him if He is quiet? Remember, too, that those who are going through trials usually need others to intercede for them—which not only keeps you in a state of prayer but also gives strength for the burden for those in the trial. Seek out a Life Group and get with others who are going through crises, and let the burdens be shared by brothers and sisters (Gal. 6:2). We need to know that we know the Holy Spirit is with us as we go through trials. Sometimes He walks with us, and sometimes He carries us. Trust Him. You will find He is trustworthy.

Memory Verse: Daniel 3:17: “If that is the case, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king.”

Ask Yourself: Is my faith in God strong enough that I would stand against enemies of Christ? Do I trust Him to bring me through the trials of life? How can I develop a closer relationship with Him?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samuel—God’s Way, Always
July 30, 2017
Dr. Ben Gutierrez

Open:

When we were young, we often did not have enough experience, or enough guidance, to make the best choices, and our lives were impacted with consequences we could not undo. Can anyone share an experience?

This week we continue the series, “Flannelgraph of Faith,” taking stories we learned as children and looking for deeper—or underlying—lessons we can use in our own lives. This week we will focus on I Samuel, looking not only at Samuel’s life, but also the far-reaching consequences for Israel that came when they rejected Samuel’s warning. We continue to use the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, as we learn from his life.

Focal Passages: Taken from I Samuel

The Background:

In Judges 2:10-15, we read that after Joshua died, God appointed judges who would lead under God’s direction. The people fluctuated between following the Lord while the judge lived, then turning to idols after his death. This pattern continued about 300 years, and caused the word of the Lord to be “rare in those days” (1 Samuel 3:1).  Judges 21:25 ends this period declaring “everyone did that which was right in his own eyes.”

Discuss:

Nothing & No One Can Make You Choose the Way You Choose:

1. Can someone give an overview of the events occurring during the conception and early years of Samuel? Read 3:19, 20. What was Samuel’s position in Israel after God spoke to him?
2. Read 7:15 and 8:1, 3-7. What event occurred that changed the course of Israel’s future? Israel had adopted the ways of the heathen nations; what are some reasons this happened? How are we seeing this with Christians today?
3. Who decides what you wear, watch, where you work, etc.? What establishes your boundaries (you don’t have to answer out loud)?

Bad Choices Lead to Worse Choices:

4. The people of Israel wanted a king, like their pagan neighbors. Read 1 Sam. 10:17-19a. What did Samuel tell the people? What was their response?

Only Obedience from a Pure Heart Honors God:

5. Does anyone remember the story of the anointing of Saul as King? Can you paraphrase it for the group?
6. Read 15:17-23. Saul started his reign well, but soon got sidetracked with pride. What was the final straw? What does God delight in?

 To Obey Is Better Than Sacrifice:

7. Read Joshua 24:15. Substitute your country for the Amorites, and read it as a contemporary choice. What is holding you back from choosing to serve God with a pure heart?

 Close:

As we read the life of Samuel, it is hard not to liken the people of Israel to those around us, and across our own land. Immorality, profanity and immodesty is rampant, while crime and unrest is on the increase. Jesus Christ is being confined to the church building, until we have a generation growing up who will not know the Lord (Judges 2:10). But our choices are not forced upon us: you may not be able to control the behaviors and values of the citizens of the land, but you have control over your choices for yourself. It may be the only thing you can control!

Learn from Samuel that, in the midst of a sinful country, you can have a relationship with God that is real and personal. He will never forsake you, never leave you on your own, and loves you beyond anything you have ever known. If you get to the end of your rope and cry out to Him for evidence that He is with you, listen and watch for an indication that He has heard your cry and show you that He is listening. If He answers no, or seems silent, trust Him. If He doesn’t answer a fervent prayer, will you still love Him? That is the main question, and only you can choose your answer. Commit your life to establishing a closer relationship with Him, and then tell others your story.

Memory Verse: I Samuel 15:22: So Samuel said, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.” (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Are my choices in attitude, clothing, words I speak and my integrity something that brings glory to God? Am I giving “lip service” to God but not my heart? “To obey [His word] is better than sacrifice.” Am I doing life God’s way, or my way?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samson
July 16, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

It is not unusual for expectant parents to desire a particular goal for the baby’s future (for instance, perhaps becoming part of the family law firm). Do you know someone who is an example of such a life, and what has been the outcome?

As we continue looking at Bible characters whose lives have much to teach us, we come to the powerfully strong Israelite, Samson. Using the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, this colorful, yet wayward, man had a future ordered by God. As the last in the line of judges of Israel, he lived a life that will encourage many who have wondered if God gives second chances.

Focal Passages: Taken from Judges 13:1 through 16:31

Discuss:

God’s Promises Are Filled with Power:

1. Read Judges 13:1. What was the condition of the people of Israel after the last judge had died? How long were they in captivity this time?
2. Each time Israel found themselves enslaved by other nations, what did they eventually do?
3. In verses 2, 3 & 5, how did God act in grace toward His people? What was the promise and purpose for Samson that God gave his mother?

God’s Promises Can Be Derailed by Our Actions:

1. Will someone paraphrase the next years of Samson’s life? What was his greatest hindrance to God’s perfect plan for him? Read 1 John 2:16. Does this sum up his actions?
2. Read Jeremiah 29:11. What would you do differently if you had known from a child that God’s had a specific plan for your life, that would give you “hope, and a future”?
3. What are some examples of God’s ideal plan for you, and how can you wreck what He wants to accomplish? (For example, marriage is His perfect plan, unfaithfulness and divorce can thwart it.)
4. When you ruin the plan God had for you, what does He do? Read Romans 8:28,29. After receiving forgiveness (1 John 1:9), how does this change the consequences?

God’s Promises Are Forever Promises:

1. Read 16:28-30. Samson knew how badly he had hindered God’s plans for his life, and begged God for one more chance. What did God do?
2. What lesson can you learn from the continual backsliding that Samson did, and yet, when he cried out to God, God helped him?

Close:

It is hard to read these chapters in Judges on the life of Samson, and not have questions and concerns about the immoral way in which he lived his life, yet was used mightily by God. Being brought up to be Israel’s deliverer from the Philistines, as an adult he went from one sinful situation to another. Yet somehow, in the timing of all the years that he judged Israel, he apparently had a faith so profound that he is listed in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11:32.

We can learn much from Samson’s life. God promised that he would be used for a specific plan and purpose, and nothing could take that away. He promised it to Samson’s mother, and it was not conditional on Samson never straying from the path of righteousness. We also were created by God for something above and beyond all we can ask or think, but we must live lives of faithfulness to see that purpose fulfilled. We also can take comfort in knowing that the backslider can return to the God he left for the world and will find Him waiting with arms open wide. That is a blessed reassurance. The cry of our heart should always be that the Lord would make Himself so real to us that we recognize answers to our heart’s requests as quickly as they come. Nothing fills you with the security of being loved, as seeing Him fulfilling promises to give you a life full of His unmerited favor.

Memory Verse: Judges 6:28: Then Samson called to the Lord, saying, “O Lord God, remember me, I pray! Strengthen me, I pray, just this once, O God, that I may with one blow take vengeance on the Philistines for my two eyes!” (NKJV)

The True Definition of Freedom
July 2, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

The very word, freedom, conjures up an incredible number of ideas, synonyms, or lifestyles! Can you share what immediately comes to mind when you hear “freedom”?

Today, as we celebrate the date commemorating the birth of America, we are going to look at the true meaning of “freedom,” and see what God’s word says about it. In doing so, we’ll find we need to be giving Him glory for the greatest freedom life will ever bring: liberty from a sinful and condemned lifestyle to a surety of eternal life with Him.

Focal Passages: Titus 3:1-8; Galatians 4:3-7.

Discuss:

Freedom Requires Submission

1. Read Titus 3, verse 1. What does Paul say you must do in order to fulfill your obligation for your freedom?
2. What are some instances of this submission? When can it be disregarded?

Freedom Requires Humility

3. Read verse 2. One of the hardest instructions to obey is true believers must not be given to slander—or “evil speaking”—against another. How do you justify this in your own life, or when do you think it may not apply? (Did you say social media?)
4. What is the second command in this verse? What is the source of strife (quarreling)? Read Proverbs 28:25.
5. How are you supposed to treat others?

Freedom Requires Reflection

6. In verse 3, how does Paul describe those who are not saved, including you, before salvation? Think for a moment about girls in the past couple of years who were freed from kidnappers. How would they view freedom had they not been held captive for a period of time?
7. What was your condition before salvation? How do you feel now to know you have been set free from the chains of death and hell? Read Gal. 4:3-7.

Freedom Requires Release

8. Read Titus 3:4-5. Why did Christ save you? In His mercy, what did He do for you?
9. Read Ephesians 2:1-3. Does this explain your inability to be saved because of what you did to deserve it?

Freedom Requires a Future

10. Read verses 6-7. What is your reward for the freedom you have through salvation?
11. Early pilgrim voyages to America were done for what hope? If there was no future promised by freedom, what would be the benefit?

Freedom Requires a Response

12. Read verse 8. What are you obligated to do once God has shown you mercy and saved you? Who has the responsibility to “go into all the world and teach the gospel”? (Matt. 28:19.)

Close:

A popular saying in America is “Freedom Isn’t Free.” We all know this statement means your freedom was bought by blood—that of the soldier for physical freedom, and that of Jesus Christ for spiritual freedom. Both carry a huge responsibility on the part of the one who has benefitted from the one who paid with his life.

Paul recognized the obligations each carried, and laid them out for us in today’s passage from Titus. Now we need to take these truths and internalize them, making them our aftermath of salvation. Our responsibility is that we can comfort and teach others with the good news. Take this week to reflect on the paths you have walked, and life prior to your salvation. Can you now look back and see God was guiding you and taking care of you even then? Write the instances down as they come to you, and see the good hand of your God was preparing you for the day you would cry out to Him for freedom from your sins, for the gift of eternal life, and then spread the good news of salvation as you love your neighbor!

Memory Verse: Titus 3:4-5: “But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit.” (NKJV)

Act Like Men
June 18, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Today is the day set aside to give honor to fathers, but the truth is, not everyone has a godly—or even good—father. However, almost all have a father-figure who impacted our lives for good. Can someone share?

We take time on this day to look at the attributes of the man who has the qualities God highly values. Paul, finishing his first letter to the church at Corinth, included two small verses that can be used as a goal for anyone who desires to be “a man after God’s own heart” (Acts 13:22).

Focal Passages: 1 Corinthians 16:13,14; 1 Corinthians 13:1-7

Discuss:

Be A Man of Protection

1. Read the two verses, focusing on 13a. Living in a world that seems to be coming more and more sinful, what are some obvious things a man would need to protect both himself and his family from?
2. Thinking more deeply—and in a spiritual direction—what are some of the less apparent but more dangerous issues that one needs to be vigilant about?

Be A Man of Purity

3. In verse 13b, what is the responsibility laid out here? Someone read Ephesians 6:13,14. In any situation where you are “standing firm,” what does that imply you are doing?
4. In this case, Paul says to “stand firm in the faith.” How can you do that? Consider your life: are you impacting the world around you, or is it impacting you? (Don’t answer aloud unless you want to.)

Be A Man of Power

5. Read verse 13c. Anyone raised on the Marvel or D.C. Comic Heroes knows what bravery is. What are some things brave men do?
6. What are some character traits of a brave man?

Be A Man of Purpose

7. Read verse 13d. Let’s assume Paul was not speaking of the physical body, although the Greek does not clarify. So, what should one show strength concerning?
8. What do you do if you are faced with opposition? Do you have, as Dr. Falwell used to say, “stick-to-itiveness”?

Be A Man of Perfection

9. Read verse 14. Last week we spent time discussing actions done without love as the motivator. Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-7. What is the bottom line?

Close:

There has never been a time in our country when the need for individuals who will stand firm in Jesus Christ has been so great.  Our children desperately need to know that their fathers are going to do everything in their power to see that they—the child—will safely arrive to adult status. There are times this goal doesn’t happen, but God will bless the man whose heart is fixed on Him.

The five actions Paul has laid out in these two short verses can equally apply to a woman, but some of Paul’s strongest words are used to encourage men to provide for his family, see that they are united following God’s principles, and be the loving leader that he has been anointed by God to be. Paul (Ephesians 5:25) equates the father’s role in a family to that of Christ loving the church, and giving Himself for it. If Christ knocked at your door, could you invite Him in, or would it send you into a dither? Do you understand that He sees and knows everything you are looking at, everyone you are talking to, and every conversation you have? He knows your thoughts before you speak them! Any man who does not fulfill this role will ultimately be judged by God. Praise Him if that does not fill you with fear, but with knowing you are running the race, trying to win the prize He has laid out for you.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 16:13, 14: “Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love.”

Not My Jesus: Christ In Me
June 4, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Family resemblances can be a very strong indicator of who someone is a relative of, can’t they? Have you had the experience of identifying some person’s family because of their facial features?

During the past several weeks, we have looked at the life of Jesus Christ from secular and Biblical historical evidence. You should have formed a solid foundation on which to build a relationship, especially when we examined passages that illustrate how much He loves you. This week we want to see if becoming His child will change your appearance or lifestyle so that others will be able to identify you as a child of God. As Acts 4:13 states, “they [the religious leaders] marveled…and realized they [the disciples] had been with Jesus.”

Focal Passage: Galatians 3:20-21; Romans 8:9-14

Discuss:
The World Does Not Control Us

1. Read the verses from Galatians, and Rom. 9a. When you ask Jesus to forgive your sins and save you, what do you receive? How would you describe the power the Holy Spirit gives you?
2. Perhaps an area in your life has been a trigger for a response that was not godly; what are some scriptures or “ways of escape” that will help you control your reaction and overcome this stronghold by the power of the Holy Spirit?

(BUT) God Controls Us

3. In verse 9b, what is the spiritual condition of those who do not choose to obey the Holy Spirit’s leading?
4. Read Romans 13:11,12. As you read this passage, whose responsibility is it to choose to obey God, rather than a past sinful lifestyle? Will God force you to obey? What are some factors that should enter as you choose your action?

(BECAUSE) He Dwells Within Us

5. Have you ever been afraid, perhaps being alone as a child, and suddenly someone you loved came into the room? How did your feelings change? How is that analogous to God dwelling within you?
6. We have life, resurrection power, and the ability to flee sin when the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us. Do you consciously think of your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit and care for it in that manner? Why or why not?

(AND) The Holy Spirit Leads Us

7. Read verse 11. We sing “The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us!” Are you actively aware of that often? What causes you to think of it?
8. Where does the He lead us? (Psalm 23 may help you think of some joyful places!)

(TO) A Life That Is Different

9. Read verse 12-14. Give some examples of living a life that is set apart from the world.
10. Has anyone ever asked you what makes you different? If not, have you asked yourself ‘why’?

Close:

Do you ever meet someone who seems to have a joy and zest for life that amazes you? Even their countenance exudes peace! That is the evidence that they have the sweet Spirit of God residing in their life. When we give the control of our lives over to let the Holy Spirit rule and reign, we should experience a relief and gladness that we no longer must carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. As we wake in the morning, we should be full of gratitude and delight for another day in His presence! Our “temple” (that is, our body) should be kept clean of filthiness and worldliness (James 1:21), our mouths should always speak what is truthful (Pro. 8:7), and nothing wicked should be set before our eyes (Psa. 101:3). If we could actively be conscious, as we go through our daily routine in the world, that we have the God of the universe within us, would we clean up our “house” and change what we see, speak, or do? Is that a description of your life, or do you fall short, letting the small irritating conflicts that Satan throws at you constantly steal your joy?