Group Notes | February 18

Difference Makers: To Send is to Serve, To Serve is to Give, To Give is to Love
February 18, 2018

Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Doing something kind for someone—especially one who has hurt you, or even hates you—is very difficult, isn’t it? If you can think of an example, share how you felt after serving.

Recently we have focused our hearts and our minds on how we can be “Difference Makers” in the lives of people with whom we come into contact. We have learned that sharing our story of salvation, discipling someone who has accepted Christ so that they, too, can share their story, and serving are all “non-negotiables” in God’s plan for our lives. Let’s continue our ending thought from last week on our responsibility to serve.

Focal Passages: Gal. 5:13-15.

Discuss:

TO SEND IS TO SERVE

Serving is an antidote to selfishness

  1. Read Gal. 5:13. Some forms of freedom a Christ-follower is saved from is freedom from our past (2 Cor. 5:17), and freedom from the power of sin (Rom. 8:2, 6:11-14); can you think of others? How can one abuse those freedoms (read Rom 6:1-2)?
  2. Why would God warn you not to use your freedom for yourself, but to serve others? Name some reasons you hold back from serving others.
  3. Was selfishness a reason listed? Will you share if there are feelings of selfishness in your life? What happens when you begin serving someone else? Can the two feelings reside together in your heart?

Serving is a picture of God’s command

  1. Read verse 14. Give some examples of how much you love your own self. How does this go with Eph. 5:29?
  2. In the opening, you saw that God commanded you to serve one another; what must be your attitude as you undertake this (14b) and why?
  3. Read verse 15. What are some examples of “biting and devouring” each other? How can this destroy you, your testimony or your service?
  4. 6:2 lists a way you can serve: what are some others?
  5. When you serve others, what happens to your own Christ-like spirit? Read Heb. 5:14; how is that like making your spirit stronger?

Serving keeps us together

  1. You probably thought of someone in the opening discussion that has made a negative impact on your life; what are practical ways you can serve this person, differently than you might serve someone you are trying to win for Christ? Read Titus 3:1-3. Would you impact your world if you followed these few verses?

 

Close

It is very easy to think of taking a short-term missions trip, until, on reflection, you grow uncomfortable thinking of insects, dirt, food you haven’t experienced, and bathrooms. Then a feeling of “maybe sometime” comes. Being comfortable in your safe area becomes more important than ministering to others. Who are you putting first?

Perhaps the person next door has been an antagonistic neighbor: always finding something about the way (or frequency) you mow your yard, or allow your children to yell, or how you leave outside lights on at night. You decide to build an invisible wall between the two of you, waiting until he goes into his house before enjoying your yard. Who are you putting first?

The truth is, it’s not easy to serve, unless it’s someone you know, or like, or are comfortable with. But none of those requirements are in the command from God, are they? Everyone who calls himself a child of God is commanded to serve others, particularly those who are your “enemies” (Matt. 5:43-44). And God understands our emotions and says start by “pray(ing) for” those people. Service can take many forms, and prayer should be at the top of the list. Pray God would open doors that you can serve often and effectively, and that it would be with an attitude of love.

Key Verses: Gal. 5:13: For you, brethren, have been called to liberty; only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. (NKJV)

 

Group Notes | February 11

Difference Makers: What Does the Walk Look Like?
February 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Have you ever realized how many things you do foolishly because you are attempting something you are not experienced at? Sometimes raising children or taking care of a parent with dementia might fall into that category. Can you think of an example?

We have been in a series that will teach us how to be “Difference Makers” in our community if our hearts are open to doing God’s will. We have learned how to be certain we are a Christ-follower, how to recognize people who need Christ, and how to take the good news of the story of what He’s done for us to those we meet. Today we want to look at three steps we can take when we’re ready to share Christ, knowing that with each witness the task will become more familiar and less daunting.

Focal Passages: John 9:1-11, 26-33, 35-38; Matthew 28:19,20.

Discuss:

TELL: Tell them the Gospel story

  1. Read John 9:1-11. For years, the man in this account had nothing to tell. After Jesus healed him, what story could he share?
  2. Can someone refresh everyone’s mind with the recent sermon on the Gadarene demoniac? How did the people respond to that man’s healing? Read Mark 5:17-20. What do you think happened to that village after he returned and told his story?
  3. Everyone who is saved has a new beginning. What are some things that hold you back from sharing what Christ has done for you?

GROW: Help them grow in their awareness of, and identity in, Christ

  1. Read John 9: 26-33. Why were the Jews so focused on finding fault with Jesus? How did the healed man react?
  2. What do you notice about his responses—was he able to answer all their questions? Did this stop him from telling what had happened? How can this encourage you when you begin to tell others how Christ saved you?
  3. If someone wants to accept Christ, what steps would you take to help him/her grow in their faith? How would it help you if you searched for and wrote out verses or passages that encourage prayer or Bible memorization (Psa. 119:11)?

SEND: Help them map their mission

  1. Read verses 35-38. What did the blind man do after Jesus healed him? Thinking back to the demoniac, why did Jesus tell him to stay in his own country? How is that like the Samaritan woman last week, whose entire village was changed because of her story? Testimonies draw people!
  2. What would happen if you suggested you meet with the person you are trying to win to Christ one time a week to study together, or pray? How is it possible that your little two-some would grow to include more?
  3. Read 2 Timothy 2:15. Why did Paul instruct Timothy to “study”? What are some other ways in which you can grow as a Christ-follower?

Close

In the opening dialogue, you thought about efforts you have made when you have no previous experience. The first time you tell the story of your salvation, you may feel you should have said something else, added more, or feel in general you made a mess of it. But have you ever likened what you say in marriage to your witnessing? In marriage, one partner will make a statement; later, it is a “you didn’t tell me that” scenario. The difference is, they don’t always hear what you mean when you speak! When you tell the story of accepting Christ, the Holy Spirit, who is in you, and perhaps working in the other person, can cause them to hear what they need to—that is an awesome thought. And as we see in the passage of the blind man, he didn’t know the answers to most of the questions the Jewish leaders were throwing at him, so he kept repeating, “All I know is, whereas I was blind, now I see!” Perhaps that’s all you can say: “All I know is, whereas I lived a life of sin and pain for others, now I want to live it to glorify Jesus Christ,” and it may be all they need to hear.

There doesn’t have to be carefully worded stories. God has saved you. The change may be instant, or it may be gradual, but people will see the difference. Babies are not born ready for walking and eating meat; they are born, carefully taken care of, taught how to do things that will become lifestyles, and one day leave the home and begin their own life and family. That is what you want the hearers of your story to do. Nothing will be better than to stand before Jesus and see a room full of people whose lives you impacted for God’s kingdom. But you have to start. We have to start!

Key Verses: John 9:25: He answered and said, “Whether He is a sinner or not I do not know. One thing I know: that though I was blind, now I see.” (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

  1. Can make a call, a visit, or write a letter;
  2. Stop and notice what someone is saying or doing;

Engage someone in conversation and listen with interest.

Group Time | February 4

Difference Makers
February 04, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Sometimes our “comfort zone” is the only place we feel as though we have peace. Can you share a recent time when you’ve had to step out of where you’re relaxed or calm?

We are in a series called “Difference Makers,” looking at 2018 with a goal of making a difference in our community through introducing lost souls to a Savior Who loves them. For some of us, it is a scary thing; for others, there is an exhilaration and adventure in bringing the lost to Christ. Let’s look at our responsibility, and how to carry it out.

Focal Passages: John 4:1-30; 2 Peter 3:9; Rom.10:1-4; Acts 26:15ff; Matt. 28:19,20.

BEING A DIFFERENCE MAKER

Last week

  1. We learned our responsibility as it is given by Jesus Christ, in telling our story to people with whom we come in contact. What does He expect of us?
  2. Read Matthew 28:19-20. How does He desire we keep up the discipling after they accept salvation?

Identify Them

  1. Read John 4:1-30. What are some categories of people that today we tend to avoid, just as the Jews shunned the Samaritans?
  2. If we open our church doors, what is the likelihood of the lost attending? Then how do we find them? Is this what Jesus did with the woman at the well?

Pray for Them

  1. Read Rom. 10:1-4. Why is it necessary to pray for them?
  2. Read 2 Peter 3:9. How does God feel about the lost? Why is this how you are supposed to feel? Can you work, go to school, or do life with them, but never say a word about their soul; how?
  3. Have you considered most people desire to go to heaven, but are confused or ignorant of how to get there? What if you prayed for them, and then told them your story? When is the last time you told anyone?

Invest in Them: Tell and Grow

  1. Read Matt. 28:20. What does God promise you? Will He give you words to speak as you witness?
  2. Why is it important that you continue to love and disciple those whom you’ve led to the Lord? How was this done for you?

 

Close

Recently on a radio broadcast, a pastor made the statement that most Christians feel that if the doors of their church are open, the lost will come in. As we know from experience, this is false. It generally takes about thirteen invitations before someone you’ve asked will eventually join you at church. Most of us don’t persevere that long.  And yet, think of the efforts you put into standing in line to see an opening night at the movies, sales of Black Friday, etc.—we tend to endure things that mean the most to us.

How does your soul feel about the lost around you? Do you evade the issue of salvation at family get-togethers? At Superbowl parties? We must take the message of Jesus’ death, burial and resurrection to the lost, and not expect them to come to us. Read the story of the woman at the well again. Jesus went where He knew she would come, He initiated a conversation about her lost condition, He said He had the answers, and soon she had a story that she could hardly wait to share. She left her water pot and ran—with her bad reputation and immoral lifestyle—to tell the people she knew that the Messiah had come to the city of Sychar. Would that we were so enthusiastic about what Christ has done for us that we can’t wait to share the Good News of salvation!

Key Verses: John 4:28, 29: The woman then left her waterpot, went her way into the city, and said to the men, “Come, see a Man who told me all things that I ever did. Could this be the Christ?” (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

Sees things and people the way Christ does; Loves people, and uses things (not the reverse!); Has a heart for the hurting; Has a heart for the lost;  Is a Christ-follower; Is one who has believed and received the Gospel story of Jesus [His death, burial,   resurrection], has followed Jesus in baptism, is obeying all that Jesus taught, and is helping others do the same.

 

 

Group Notes | January 28

Difference Makers: Where Do I Start?
January 28, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

For some of us, a list of steps necessary to achieve a certain end is extremely helpful, while others do great without one. Can you share an example?

We are in a series called “Difference Makers,” looking at how we should be living out our Christian life in the world. Because we sometimes feel we’re in a gray area as to what we should be doing, today’s sermon lays out for us three steps that will help us examine our hearts to know that we are prepared to witness, who we should have a burden for, and why it is our job to share with them the Good News.

Focal Passages: 2 Pet. 3:9-10; 1 Cor.15:1-4a; John 14:6; Rom.10:9-13; Matt. 22:37.

BEING A DIFFERENCE MAKER: Where do I start?

Know who you are

  1. What have you learned in prior weeks that defines a “Difference Maker”? According to those passages above, what is your responsibility?
  2. How can you be a Christian, and not be a Christ-follower? What does a Christ-follower do?
  3. In 1 Cor. 15:1-4a, what did Paul do once he was saved by grace?

Know who they are

  1. John 3:16 says Jesus’ atonement for sins is available to whom?
  2. What are some normal characteristics of those who need Christ? How is it possible that their anger, profanity, or attitude might be covering up a deep desire to have someone love them?
  3. Read Matt. 22:37. Why is it so hard to love those who are going to hell (your “neighbors”)?
  4. What are some intentional things you can do to show love for these people?

Know what your job is

  1. Go back again to 1 Cor. 13:4. What did Paul do after salvation? What was probably said of him? (Remember, his reputation would have gone out among all those following Jesus Christ at that time. How hard would that have been for him to face those same people?)
  2. 28:19-20: What does Jesus tell you?

 

Close

If we are not careful, we can become insulated in our churches through Bible studies, evening groups, choosing friends, worship or Sunday School, and never reach our neighbors or the world. It takes intentional, daily discipline to be willing to be used to further the kingdom of God on earth. Usually work situations are not easy places to witness verbally, so we rely on our lifestyle to show our co-workers that we hold ourselves to another standard. But is this what Jesus desires of us? If we look at the early church, we find the disciples going out “street preaching,” sharing the good news of the death, burial and resurrection of a Messianic Savior to all who would listen. They didn’t just live their faith, they shared it. Have you examined your life to see if you love the lost with the same compassion Jesus did? Does your lost neighbor weigh on your heart? Until you get the courage to witness, you can at least lift him/her to the throne each day, asking God to open a door. If you are unsure of the status of their soul, you can usually pick up on it with just a few minutes conversation, or ask a non-threatening question like “Do you attend church?” Most people are not offended by that. Identify your job as a Christ-follower as someone who is a witness of what He has done for you, gives out the good news, and loves people into a relationship with Jesus. You’ll never be satisfied to live a life of mediocrity again!

Key Verses: 2 Peter 3:9: The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

Sees things and people the way Christ does;                                                                  Loves people, and uses things (not the reverse!);                                                              Has a heart for the hurting;                                                                                             Has a heart for the lost;                                                                                                     Is a Christ-follower;                                                                                                              Is one who has believed and received the Gospel story of Jesus [His death, burial,   resurrection], has followed Jesus in baptism, is obeying all that Jesus taught, and is helping others do the same.

 

Group Time | January 21

Difference Makers: What does it mean?
January 21, 201
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

When is the last time you saw a need in your community, and responded by helping? Can you share?

Today we are beginning a new series called “Difference Makers.”  What does it mean to be a person who makes a difference, and what does that look like? We are going to look first at the words of Jesus as He gave us instructions for our lives, and then at Nehemiah, a man whose homeland had a great need, and who knew, with God’s help, he could fix it. Pray that God will open your heart to absorb the message, making it the catalyst to committing yourself to making a difference in your neighborhood.

Focal Passage: Acts 1:8; Matthew 28:18-20; John 20:21b.

Discuss:

  1. In Acts 1:8, what are the two promises Jesus made to the believers?
  2. In Matt. 28:18-20, what are the four action verbs (or commands) Jesus told the believers to do?
  3. In John 20:21b, what is Jesus’ will for us? How do these three passages apply to us today?

BEING A DIFFERENCE MAKER

Changes our thinking

  1. Read Nehemiah 1:1-4. What was Nehemiah’s reaction to the news concerning Jerusalem? Why were his emotions so affected, as he was no longer there?
  2. What are some usual responses when a tragic situation touches our heart? What should our first response be?
  3. Why must we not allow negative thinking to quench a desire to help?

Puts others first

  1. What are some reasons we hold back from stepping up to make a difference? If we “love others more than we love ourselves” (Mark 12:33), how should we react when we have Jesus on our side?
  2. When we sit back to see if someone else steps forward, what should that warn us about our heart attitude?

Looks for ways to help

  1. Read Neh. 2:4-5. What is so significant about these verses? The king asked a question, Nehemiah prayed (“Help!”?), and then answered. Why was he ready with an answer?
  2. When is the last time you fervently sought God that you would be ready to step in if/when faced with a need? How is that the issue here?

Starts from the perspective of Christ

  1. Read Matt. 9:35-38. What was Jesus’ reaction to the needs of the people, and how was He affected in His emotions?
  2. When you see people (or things), how do you discern their needs? Why are we not easily able to “read” people?
  3. Why does our “looking” have to start with love and with prayer to be ready?

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

Sees things and people the way Christ does; Loves people, and uses things (not the reverse!); Has a heart for the hurting;  Has a heart for the lost; Is a Christ-follower; Is one who has believed and received the Gospel story of Jesus [His birth, death, burial,   resurrection], has followed Jesus in baptism, is obeying all that Jesus taught, and is helping others do the same.

Close

Did the opening thought cause you to remember times when you’ve filled needs in your neighborhood, or did it convict you that you’ve never—or seldom—felt it your concern to act? If you find yourself in the second category, what are you going to do about it? If we’re able to stand to the side, hoping someone else steps in and takes charge, we are not fulfilling the second greatest commandment. In our church’s Mission Statement, we are to “love God and love people.” Perhaps it’s time to be truthful with ourselves: do we love God and tolerate people? Love God and love our friends, but in general ignore the world? Love God, and like some people? When is the last time, as in Neh. 1:4, that we truly were broken over the plight of someone or something, and sought God with all our heart? It’s still January…let’s make the commitment to be a Christ follower with all that the phrase implies and use the 8000+ hours that we have left in this year to be a Difference Maker. With God’s help, we can pray that at this time next year we can look back at 2018 and see we truly made a difference in our neighborhood!

Key Verses: Acts 1:8: “But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth. (NKJV)

Group Notes | January 14

Our Response to Christ’s Church
January 14, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

When you were young, did you find it easy to obey, usually doing what you were told, or were you constantly finding it difficult to submit to authority? Can you share?

Last week we looked at the institution of the church—the cohesive body of believers that Christ established as a method to spread the good news of salvation available through Him. We learned what He planned for the church and how it is to function. Now we ask ourselves, “How do we respond?” Let’s look at the responsibilities of believers as we come together in small or large groups, in order to change our world.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 2:19: “Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”

Discuss:

Background

Last week we learned:

  • The Church is God-ordained, instituted by Him to preach the gospel (Matt. 16:18).
  • The Church is not a building or an organization, it’s YOU! Individuals are the church.
  • Jesus is the Head of the Church, (Eph. 1:22, 23)
  • Jesus gave a plan for the Church, (Acts 2:42-47)
  • Jesus gave us the keys to the Church, (Matt. 28:18-20)

We can see that God ordained the church and we should have a much clearer idea of the importance of it. Now, what are our responsibilities?

We are required to carry out His plan

  1. Read Matthew 28:18-20. Who did Christ give the job of spreading the gospel to? Does this apply to today’s churches? Why?
  2. Did He suggest this commitment, or give it as a directive, expecting believers to be obedient? Going back to the Ice Breaker, do you find it difficult to serve in your church, or does it excite you? Share your heart.
  3. Why do you think church members leave it to the pastor and staff? What three words are important in verse 19? 

We are required to serve within the church

  1. Read Romans 12:4-5. What is the analogy in these verses that is compared to the church? How do you see yourself as a member of a church body, just as your fingers or toes are functioning members of your own body?
  2. Read 1 Peter 4:10 and Romans 12:6-8. What is the charge here?

We are required to baptize believers

  1. Read Matt. 28:19b. Why do we baptize? Why did Christ set us an example to follow, when He was baptized by John?
  2. What does it symbolize? Is this a suggestion or commandment?

We are required to remember how Christ established the church

  1. What is the second ordinance the church is told to perform, in remembrance of Christ’s death on the cross? Read 1 Cor. 11:23-26.
  2. Both ordinances are holy. However, what are we told in verses 27-30?

We are required to pray that the world would believe

  1. 12:12, Eph. 1:18, 6:18, and Phil. 4:6 are just a few of the hundreds of verses on prayer. Why is that communication so important to your spiritual life and what does it mean in the lives of others?

 

Close

It is incredible to think that God gave frail, sinful humans the task of seeking out the lost in this world, and presenting them with the gospel. One feels the listener could turn and say, “But you used to ____!” This gives you an even greater reason to tell the story of your changed life—not yet perfect, not complete, but always striving for the goal that God has set before you. One of the responsibilities you have as a Christian is to be part of a local body of believers who come together to worship, praise, and pray (Heb. 10:24, 25). Would you pray the more earnestly if you knew that it was only by your prayers that someone you love would be saved? Yes, without a doubt you would be constant in coming before God on their behalf! The obligations laid on you for serving your Lord are contained in the Scriptures in today’s sermon. Write those on 3×5 cards, memorize them, and recognize that your job is to love the Lord your God first and foremost, and love your neighbor as much as you love yourself. If you do these two things, you will find yourself serving and being effective in your church, your community, and your world.

Key Verse: Colossians 1:18 (NKJV): “And He is the head of the body, the church, Who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in all things He may have the preeminence.”

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | January 7

A New Day in the Old Way
January 7, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Have you ever been so aware of a position you hold, whether possibly by birth or station, that you conduct yourself discreetly when you are in public? Can anyone give an example?

We have entered the new year of 2018, and already the first week has passed! Today we will look at the church, and its relevancy in the 21st century. It has had to evolve throughout centuries of change, but the past one hundred years has wrought the greatest transformation, as technology enables all parts of the earth to be interconnected. Is the church still important? Let’s see what God says.

Focal Passage: Matthew 16:13-18.

Discuss:

WHAT IS THE CHURCH?

The Church is God-ordained

  1. Read Matt. 13-18. In verse 18a, Who builds the church? What was Jesus speaking of?
  2. Most of us have lived at least a quarter of a century; what are some changes the church (as a unit) has gone through during the years you’ve lived?
  3. What are some signs your church is in line with New Testament doctrine?

WHY IS THE CHURCH IMPORTANT?

The church is not a building or an organization, it’s YOU!

  1. Read 1 Cor. 1:1-3. Who was Paul writing to? What did he call them? What were their common characteristics?
  2. In the ice breaker, you thought of the way you sometimes present yourself, either as a representative of your family or company. How do you see your behavior as a believer in Jesus Christ as being a testimony to others?
  3. Do you “go” to church, or are you the church, wherever you are? Explain.

IS THE CHURCH STILL RELEVANT TODAY?

Jesus is the Head of the church

  1. Read Col. 1:18. What does Paul say in this verse? How are the underground churches that meet in basements in foreign lands, groups who meet in Africa under trees, or Christians meeting in air-conditioned buildings in America the same? Which might possibly hold their faith more precious, and why?
  2. Each day newspapers are reporting businesses that are closing their doors after decades of trade. Verse 18b assures us of what fact? How can this be?
  3. Every business or organization has a focus, either on fashion, health, or spirituality. Why will people find no “rest” for their souls (Heb, 4:9) in any place except a solid Bible-teaching group of fellow-believers?

DO I REALLY NEED TO BE A PART OF THE CHURCH

Jesus gave a Plan for the church

  1. Read Acts 2:42. What were the apostles doing in the early days after Jesus’ resurrection and ascension back to heaven?
  2. Read Matt. 28:19. Why did the church in Jerusalem have to undergo tribulation to get them to begin changing the world?

Jesus gave us the Keys to the church

  1. Read John 1:12. What does Christ expect of you once you have given your life to Him?
  2. Read Eph. 2:19. Becoming a member of a family requires what responsibility? Is this the same as becoming a Christian?
  3. Read Heb. 10:23-25. What is so important about fellowship?

 

Close

God is so incredibly above “all that we could ask or think!” You will never figure Him out. When He ordained the church (the body of believers who meet to worship, praise and learn of Him), its purpose was to bring together those of like minds and common goals. We meet to know Him, praise and draw near to Him, depend on Him for our very life, and take care of each other. The church is magnificent in its function, and if we carried out its duties as He intended, we would see many souls added to it. In the early days after Jesus had returned to His Father, the apostles and believers shared what they had, met together, did life together, and took care of their own. There may be some civic organizations that take on some of those roles, but none focuses on the spiritual to the extent the church does. But do you realize that you—even when alone—represent the church? When people know you are a Christian, they observe what you do and how you speak. When you go out among strangers or friends, you need to keep your heart focused on the truth that you represent Him to those you meet. As we begin this new year, let us keep our thoughts centered on being the “church” that most people avoid. Do you smile at them? Say hello? You are drawing them to you, showing them a love they get few other places. Eventually you may earn their trust and a time will come when you can share your faith. Don’t be afraid of being the church in the world—embrace the possibility and be a pleasing aroma to God!

Key Verses: Matt. 16:18: “And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it.” (NKJV)

 

 

 

 

Group Time | December 31

Pressing On
December 31, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Finding a time or circumstance in which to make a fresh start is a great thing. The beginning of a new year definitely seems to be the optimal time when we hope for a change in our lives! What other times might hold new hope?

As we end 2017, we know we answered firmly that Christ is the only reason for the Christmas season. Now we can’t help but hope 2018 might be a year of new beginnings. Perhaps it will be the year we achieve a long dreamed-of goal, or reach a new level of faith. Let’s strive with the apostle Paul toward the goal of knowing Christ and the power of His resurrection better than we ever have before.

Focal Passage: Philippians 3:1-14.

Discuss:

THE PAST SHOULD STAY THERE

Our beliefs about the past

  1. Read verse 13. Why did Paul give this piece of advice he himself followed? What happens to any living organism if it remains stagnant? Read verses 2-3. Why does he warn against holding onto traditions learned as immature believers?
  2. Read verses 6-7. All the good works in the world can’t save anyone. How did Paul find this out for himself? Read Eph. 2:8-9. What are some traditions the church is still holding onto today that should be put into the past?

What we should believe

  1. Read verse 8. What is the only thing worthwhile that will help you, keep you, protect you, and save you? What were some of them Paul counted as nothing? (Is there anything you are relying on for salvation, other than the work of Jesus Christ on the cross? Answer in your heart.)
  2. How can you commit to “knowing Him better” as one of your New Year’s goals—and then keeping a daily journal to see that you do?

THE GOAL IS CLEAR

  1. Read verse 10. If you set your goal for 2018 to know Christ better, what could that look like? What would change as you come to know Him more intimately?
  2. What is the fruit that begins to come as you know Him better? (Gal. 5:22-23.)
  3. Read verse 12. Paul wanted the church to know he had not “arrived.” What does he say he has to do?

THE GOAL? PURSUIT OF CHRIST AND THE PROMISE OF HEAVEN

  1. Read verses 13-14. What were the three things Paul disciplined himself to do?
  2. What are some ways you can take control in these areas? Read Heb. 12:1. 

Close

If you’ve ever stood in the sand at a beach as the waves roll in, you know that remaining in one spot will soon pull sand away from your feet, only to cover them higher with each incoming wave. Standing still in the Christian life will destroy your progress, just as surely. Paul knew that he could not let his family, his reputation as a Pharisee, his zeal for God and eventually his torture of Christians, define who he was: he became a child of the King the day Jesus met him on the road to Damascus, and from that point on he had to forget those things which had seemed to matter, to become the person God intended him to be. When you reach(ed) the point at which you surrender(ed) your heart to Christ, from then on you must pursue a life of knowing Him, serving Him, and letting the change in your heart be reflected in your lifestyle. What better time to discipline yourself setting these worthy goals than the beginning of a new year? Keep a journal of your progress, your prayers, and His answers this year, so you can see your growth. In a way, life as a disciplined Christian will never become any more of a habit than a new lifestyle of healthy eating habits. One piece of pie, one bag of chips, and suddenly the control slips. Be honest with yourself: admit the slip, and begin again (Prov. 24:16). Strive for the prize that Jesus Christ has promised! Keep pressing on, and if you stumble, get up, knowing the heavenly reward will be waiting when He calls you.

Key Verses: Phil. 3:14: I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. (NKJV)

 

 

 

Group Time | December 17

The Point of Christmas: From Fear to Peace
 December 17, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Fear can immobilize us! It is terrifying to be in a situation where something horrific is happening, and we have no power to control the circumstances. Can you think of an example?

Our series for December has been asking, “What’s the point of Christmas?” This week we will look at the shepherds who were guarding their sheep, read of their frightful moment seeing an angel, and feel their fear. Their emotions run full circle when the events that began with fright turn them into witnesses that the Savior of the world has been born!

Focal Passage: Luke 2:8-18.

Discuss:

The shepherds were not expecting this arrival

  1. Read Luke 2:8-9a. If anyone in your group has farm animals, why is the night-watch so important?
  2. Imagine yourself guarding the sheep on a clear, cold night; how would you react if you saw an angel, sent from God, standing before you?

Fear was the first response

  1. Read Luke 2:9b. When something occurs that is totally out of your comfort zone or previous experience, why is fear the first response that you feel?
  2. Have you, or someone in your family, undergone a disruption to normal routine, and experienced something terrifying? What was the initial response of everyone close to them?

Alleviating fear requires listening

  1. Read verses 10-12. What was the correct reaction as the angel gave his message to the shepherds?
  2. Why is listening so important? Read James 1:19. Why would God command this in any situation we find ourselves in?
  3. Read verses 13-14. What message would they have missed if they had run in fear when the angel first appeared?

When fear vanishes, peace arrives

  1. Read verses 15-16. How do you know the shepherds believed the message given them?
  2. What was the other miraculous occurrence? How would this message bring peace to them?

When peace arrives, there’s a story to tell

  1. Read verses 17-18. Why would they have gone out, eagerly recounting what had happened?
  2. When you found that a Savior had come into the world to save you from your sins, did that give you a story to tell? Why? Do you honestly believe it is for others whom you love, and do you tell them? Why or why not?

 

Close

Most of us have never sat through the night on a hillside, guarding animals against predators who use the darkness to kill. However, most of us have sat through the night at some time, waiting—possibly interceding in prayer—for someone we love as Satan prowls, seeking “whom he may destroy.” We can learn so much from this short experience of the shepherds that wonderful night of Jesus’ birth. They were doing their job, not anticipating a change in their lives. We do the same. We get up, dress, and prepare for a normal day. But in a moment of time an angel from God stood in front of the shepherds, changing their normality to fear. Perhaps in our daily routine, we have an appointment where we get bad news, or have a death, or maybe a wreck occurs, and in that moment our day is changed. After the initial fear, the shepherds listened. Do you listen for God to speak, when you’re in that place where fear has taken hold? Suddenly, in an instant, the sky was filled with wondrous angels singing, and peace descended upon the shepherds. As God sends His “wonderful words, beautiful words of life,” does peace fill your heart? They immediately ran to find the Newborn Babe. Do you? Do you flee to Christ when darkness has come, fear takes over, and God disperses the fear, bringing peace? Do you want more of His attention, His love, His comfort? After they had tested and found the Truth was real, they had a story to tell. Hopefully, if you’ve found Christ to be real, your life has been changed. When that occurs, you have a story to tell. Draw a circle around the area where you live, and intentionally take your story to the ones who live within that space, and let them know the point of Christmas is the change in your life, when the Christ child who came as a baby became your Savior.

Key Verses: Luke 2:10-11: Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David, a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.” (NKJV)

 

 

Group Notes | December 10

The Point of Christmas Is: SACRIFICE
December 10, 2017
Matt Willmington and Dr. Harold Willmington

 

Open:

There is not a day that passes that we are not asked to make some type of sacrifice, whether it’s our time, money, a place in line or one where loss or cost is heavy. Can you think of an example to share?

We are in a series for December, asking “What’s the point of Christmas?” Today we will have Dr. Harold Willmington and his son, Matt Willmington, discuss how the Christmas story was one of a supreme gift, as God the Father sacrificed the life of His only Son, Jesus Christ, for sinners who are unworthy and uncaring. We will focus on Abraham and Isaac.

Focal Passage: Genesis 22:1-14.

Discuss:

The Testing

  1. Read Gen. 22:1. What are some pertinent facts you know of the life of Abraham? Why was he special to God?
  2. What does the Bible mean when it says God tested Abraham? Read Deut. 13:3b and Psalm 26:2. Why does God test you?
  3. Some versions translate the word “tested” as “tempted.” Read Matt. 4:1 and 1 Cor. 10:13. What is God looking for as He tests you? Who tempts you to do evil, and why?

The Ultimate Sacrifice

  1. Read verse 2. What was God asking Abraham to do?
  2. Put yourself in Abraham’s place, and imagine giving the life of your child, to obey a direct order from God? What would be some of your thoughts?
  3. Did God already know the outcome? Why would He ask Abraham to do this deed, as He knew what the result would be?
  4. Read verse 4. How many days did Abraham travel, expecting to fulfil God’s command. What was this a foreshadowing of (two thousand years later)?

Incredible Faith

  1. Read verses 5-10. As Isaac asked Abraham his amazingly perceptive question, what must Abraham have felt?
  2. Between the time God told him to go make the sacrifice, until verse 10 when he stretched out his hand to slaughter his son, had Abraham hesitated or argued with God? Do you believe he was unhesitatingly going to go through with it?

God Provides

  1. Read verses 11-14. What did God do to reward Abraham’s act of obedience?
  2. When has God asked something from you, and you have obeyed without hesitating or question?

ASK YOURSELF: WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO PUT ON THE ALTAR?

 Close

This passage from the life of Abraham, recorded in the book of Genesis, evokes so many emotions from us as children of God. We may feel disbelief that God would ask such a difficult—seemingly impossible—act from one of His own. What would Sarah say when Abraham returned? What would the Gentiles in the area think? What precedent would it create for human sacrifice, among the Jewish nation? The closest we can get to understanding Abraham’s feelings is when our child enters the military during wartime. The thought of losing him to save a nation who detests what Christians stand for is almost impossible, yet we somehow do it.

Abraham was instant in his obedience, not faltering or hesitating when God gave the instruction. He put together the articles needed for the sacrifice, got his servants and donkeys, and headed for the place he knew God wanted him to go. What did he think about during those three days of travel? How did he feel when Isaac asked the penetrating question “Where is the sacrifice?”? Was his heart broken, or did he trust God was going to provide an alternative at the last moment? Have you wondered why God tested him? The testing is not because God doesn’t know what the outcome will be (for He always does), but often our final response will open our eyes as to how much we trust God when He asks something difficult of us. Has He asked something of you, and you failed? Did you realize you lacked the will to fully obey? Or did you pass, like Abraham, with flying colors? What do you have in your life right now that needs to be placed on the altar, so that you can be fully and whole-heartedly obedient? Be “Abraham’s seed” (Gal. 3:29) and be prompt to do His bidding!

Key Verse: Genesis 22:14: And Abraham called the name of the place, The-Lord-Will-Provide; as it is said to this day, “In the Mount of the Lord, it shall be provided.” (NKJV)

 

Group Time | December 3

The Point of Christmas: The Covering
December 3, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

If you are a “to do” person, you probably have a long list of things needing to be taken care of. Often it seems there’s one item that either continually is back on your list, not working, or really needs to be replaced. Can you think of an example to share?

We are beginning a series for December, realizing many people ask, “So what’s the point of Christmas?” Today we will find the reason God the Creator sent His one and only Son to the earth, clothed in human flesh. We are loved so deeply by God, yet so flawed by sin, that Jesus came to be the sacrifice that would pay the sin debt nothing, or no-one, else could satisfy.

Focal Passages: Hebrews 10:1-18; Genesis 3:6-11.

Discuss:

All have sinned

  1. Read Heb. 10:1. What was the old law, given through Moses? Why was it given? Why were the sacrifices in the Old Testament repeated “over and over,” but never could attain perfect cleansing?
  2. Read Romans 3:23. Paul explained that we all mess up continually. How and why did man reject God’s dominion, and begin accumulating the debt of sin that separated him from God?

We needed an out

  1. Read verse 2. Even the most committed Christians continue to sin. Read 1 John 1:7-9 and Rom. 7:14-25. What hold does sin have over us?
  2. God gave the first covenant to Moses, but what did it show us that we are not capable of doing? Read Judges 21:25. How does this explain why we need a savior?
  3. In the opening, you thought of times when your best efforts provided no real help in fixing some items. How does that illustrate the futility of sacrificing animals to completely remove the debt of sin we owe?

The old way was never enough

  1. Read verses 3-4. If you made yearly trips to sacrifice animals for your sins, then had to do it all over again next year, what would that teach you? How does that explain that the sacrifices reminded the people that animals could not take away their sin?
  2. If you saw that nothing you were attempting was accomplishing a certain task, what would you eventually do?

We needed a covering

  1. Read verse 5. Jesus did not come to the earth against His will, or in ignorance of what He was going to endure. Why would He verbalize His birth to the Father, quoting Psalm 40:6-8?
  2. Read Genesis 3:6-11. Have things changed in man’s nature since Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden of Eden? Read Romans 5:15b. Our choice to follow God’s will or choose evil will remain in conflict throughout time. Can you think of other verses that confirm His humble birth was to save us?* (end)

Jesus paid it all

  1. Read verse 10, and chapter 7:26, 27. Unlike the priests, who had to go into the Holy of Holies yearly, Christ’s blood was sufficient as a one-time sacrifice. Read Heb. 1:1-3, and 10:11-13. What did He do when He ascended back into heaven?

Close:

This past week was the 500th anniversary of the day Martin Luther nailed the 95 Theses to the door of the Wittenberg Castle Church, listing the offensive doctrines of the Roman Catholic Church. Particularly, Luther was pointing out the heresy that required monetary payment be paid to the church for forgiveness of sins. This amazing young man—just 33—began the movement that was known as the Protestant Reformation. Protestant Churches owe a debt of gratitude to this man who realized that forgiveness of sins comes through Jesus Christ, and Him alone. Jesus sacrificed with His life for complete forgiveness in a “once for all” action, available to anyone who believes and repents.

At Christmastime it is unusual to hear a message taken from the book of Hebrews. How fitting that the book contains the story of salvation! We flesh it out with the wonderful Christmas stories found in Matthew and Luke, but the writer to the Hebrews made certain we are aware of the reason for the manger, as he tied together the prophecies surrounding the birth of a Messiah, and the fulfilment of His cry “It is finished” as He died on the cross, once for all. He wrote the life of Jesus, wrapping up His birth, death and resurrection. His death, more gruesome than we—or movies—can ever imagine, was His choice, because His love for us is so incredible. His grace should always amaze us. It should cause us to bow down and worship, overwhelming us as it covers our sin. Have you accepted the truth that He actually paid the price of your sin? Open your heart if you haven’t already, and ask Him in. Find a Life Group where you can grow, and learn to love Him with all your heart.

Key Verse: Colossians 3:17: Hebrews 10:5: Therefore, when He came into the world, He said, “Sacrifice and offering You did not desire, but a body You have prepared for Me.” (NKJV)

*1 Timothy 1:15; Luke 19:10; Matthew 1:21; John 3:17 (to name a few).

 

Group Notes | November 26

The Heart of Thanksgiving
November 26, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Parents whose young child attempts “Thank you” (in childish language) for the first time—without being prompted—experience so much joy! Even as adults we are grateful when someone commends us for a job or attitude done well. Can you give an example, realizing we’re doing it, not for boasting, but to make a point?

We are just finishing the last hours of four days traditionally known in America as the “Thanksgiving holiday.” These days are usually filled with an abundance of food, family, and thankfulness for blessings of the past year. Possessing a grateful heart is one of the important characteristics of one who wants to be genuine as a Christ-follower. Paul gives us much guidance in the short book of Colossians, knowing if we set our mind to be more aware of, and thankful for, our blessings, we will pass on a joyous legacy.

Focal Passages: Colossians 3:12-17.

Discuss:

The Heart of Gratitude

Be Different

  1. Read verse 12. We often hear the word “intentional” used today. What are the characteristics that Paul encourages us to be “intentional” about, in this verse?
  2. What is the connection between the qualities listed in the verse (which might differ according to translation), and the trait of being thankful? The deeper question is, what is the foundation upon which being thankful is situated?
  3. What is the relationship between gratefulness and humility? Explain.

Be Caring

  1. Read verses 13-14. No one is perfect, including you! What list of sins could Jesus recite against you, if He wanted to? Have you asked for forgiveness? What is the analogy between being forgiven by Christ, and you forgiving those who antagonize you?
  2. In verse 14, another action is intentional; what is it? What are some ways you can “put on” love? Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a. Why in Col. 3:14 does Paul call love the “bond of perfection”? How is that linked with 1 Cor. 13:4-8a?
  3. Who does the world encourage you to put first? Why is that contrary to the Word of God?

Be Together

  1. Read verse 15. How do you attain God’s peace? How can you let it rule in your heart? Why is that important?
  2. Everyone has friends who do not know about or care about God. Why is it important to maintain most of your fellowship with believers? How are some ways you can love an unbeliever but not let them influence you?
  3. Why does Paul add “and be thankful” at the end of this verse? How does Peace and Thankfulness go together?

Be Consistent

  1. Read verse 16. As you look back at the previous four verses, how many of the actions that are addressed are “intentional”? What do the words “put on,” “let,” “do,” and “be” have in common?
  2. Read Ephesians 4:14-16. Why would the world want to take you down in your faith? What is the goal in verse 15? What is God’s purpose for us in 16b?

Close:

When was the last time you saw a two-year-old throw a fit when you tried to dress him? It is typical as they learn to express the desire to “do it myself!” We should be so adamant about appropriating the word of God, putting it on, taking it in, and teaching ourselves to be more and more aware of the reality of the characteristics until we do them as naturally as breathing. When your soul wells up in “Thank You!” to God, does that one time express your gratefulness? Certainly, it is good. But you can teach yourself, no matter your age, to remember to thank Him more than just one time when He has shown Himself involved in your needs. What has He done for you today? Did you say thank You? Yesterday? During the time when friends or family were gathered around a meal, did you have some time set aside when each one listed some of those things you are so very thankful Christ did for you this year?

Paul encourages us to incorporate gratefulness into our lives, so that no blessing comes our way without immediate thankfulness going up to God. Did you realize, in question 3, that thankfulness goes hand in hand with humility? Think of royalty, or movies where there are servants who labor long and hard to do their employer’s bidding. Are they used to hearing “thank you”? No. It was the expectation that the service would be done to please the one who hired them. Do you say thank you to your spouse for working all day, doing the jobs around the house, or keeping meals prepared? Begin with those small things that show you realize you don’t deserve all the time and effort made on your behalf; your children will see the “attitude of gratitude” and copy it. Soon it will become habitual, and you will carry it outside your walls into the world—and show them the difference as a true Christ-follower!

Key Verse: Colossians 3:17: And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him. (NKJV)

Group Notes | November 12

TINY GIANTS: Do What’s Right
November 12, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

As we recently learned, each day adults make about 35,000 choices. That is a staggering number, and most are made spontaneously, with only experience stored in the brain to be our deciding factor. Can you give some examples?

We have been focusing on the four smallest books in the New Testament, which are often passed as we go to Revelation. Today we search 3rd John, looking for hidden truths that will make our daily actions bring joy to God as we strive to please Him. This short letter seems to be a personal interaction between John and a man named Gaius, but contains a wise message of guidance for us as we make the thousands of choices each day we live.

Focal Passages: 3rd John.

Discuss:

Background

John was writing to churches after he had returned to Ephesus from the Isle of Patmos. These short letters (1, 2 and 3 John) reveal John’s passion that believers in the early churches would walk in truth and love. We find him referring to three types of individuals referenced by name and character, recognizing the same traits in members of modern-day churches.

Someone who encourages

  1. Read verses 1-8. Gaius, the recipient of the letter, was characterized by what qualities? How do people who encourage others make a difference in the lives of those with whom they interact?
  2. How do we “walk in truth” (verse 4)?
  3. The person who is an encourager has whose welfare as their focus?
  4. Today, what are some ways we can encourage any of our brothers or sisters who are having a rough season of life?

Someone to avoid

  1. Read verses 9-10. Every church has those who wish to be recognized for their leadership and actions, rather like the Pharisee in Luke 18:11. What were the things John said Diotrephes was doing?
  2. What are some character traits in the heart of someone who wants all the praise and honor? In your mind, go back to Genesis 3 or Isaiah 14:13. Who was being spoken of who desired all the glory?
  3. Read verse 11. What warning did John give to the church? We hear much about “judging.” John said it is easy to determine good and bad people; how? Does Matthew 7:15,16a back this up?

Someone to emulate

  1. Read verse 12. John spoke of a man in the church who was setting an example for others to aspire to. What was his reputation?
  2. Read 1 Peter 2:21. Who is our example? Can you tell others to follow your example?

Question:

If YOU were listed in this letter, what would John have said of your testimony? Have you ever given your life to Christ?

Close:

John’s letters are so filled with encouragement to walk in truth and love that it overflows from the pages, and leaves a path for us to follow. Today we label that someone’s “heartbeat.” It is the essence of their life, the passion they give themselves to, and the thought behind every decision they make. If your heartbeat is your job, you will give all your energy to it. If it is personal pleasure, you will make certain you miss nothing. Read Ecclesiastes 2:10-11. What did Solomon try? And, at the end of his life, after having satisfied every passion available, read what he wrote in 12:13-14.

Solomon is a good example of the person who wants glory and revels in his wisdom, has everything revolve around him, and yet in the end he found it was all based on “pride.” John, on the other hand, from the moment Jesus said, “Follow Me,” laid down his life to follow the Savior. Jesus Himself said “Follow Me,” and referred to all believers throughout the ages.

If you desire a closer walk with Him, get in the Scripture daily, learn to talk to Him aloud as you drive, work around the house, or have moments of quiet. He will never fail you, even when you question if He is there. He will give you peace and joy for living!

Key Verse: 3 John 3-4: For I rejoiced greatly when brethren came and testified of the truth that is in you, just as you walk in the truth.  4) I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth. (NKJV)

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, commentaries, and more study materials.

Group Notes | November 5

TINY GIANTS: Truth in Love
November 05, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Being told the truth about something in your life may result in hurt feelings. However, if the one who speaks what you need to hear loves you genuinely, does that help you absorb the correction better? Can you share an example?

We are currently looking at the second of the three shortest books in the NT, gleaning nuggets of wisdom that are often missed because the books are so short. This week we want to examine 2 John for God’s commandment that we walk in love, speak truth in love and serve people in love. We want to internalize these important qualities so that we are not a “noisy gong or a clanging cymbal!” (1 Cor. 13:1).

Focal Passages: 2 John.

Discuss:

The encouragement of truth

  1. Read verses 1-3. Why is it such a fallacy to believe that it really doesn’t matter what you believe, if you are sincere? Who is Truth? Why can truth not exist apart from Him?
  2. What are the three blessings John prays for, for the church he’s writing to? How does one have access to those qualities?
  3. If grace, mercy and peace are from God, how intimately do you have to know Him to receive these gifts?

The requirement of love

  1. Read verse 4a. What do you need to be reminded of? Why is it so easy to get so bogged down with the ‘nasty now and now’ that love is often pushed aside for ‘duty’?
  2. Read verse 6. What does John say love means? Read John 14:15. What does Jesus say? Read 1 John 4:8; just as we know that Jesus is the Way, Truth and Life, what does this verse tell you?
  3. How does 1 Cor. 13:13 end? Why is love more important than faith and hope?

The importance of discernment

  1. Read verse 7a. John said that he was writing the previous verses (4-6), because there were so many different deceitful philosophies being taught. What are some ideas being stated as truth today that demonstrate his statement?
  2. Read verses 10-11. How can we protect our minds from being sucked into the false beliefs that are being propagated?

The value of fellowship

  1. Read verse 12b. Why did John hope to visit these friends and talk “face to face”? What are you missing today by interacting through social media, tv, etc? Give some examples of displacing true fellowship with other options.
  2. How much do you value the fellowship you have with Christian brothers and sisters? How often do you seek them out?

 Close:

John wrote this short letter to a church he loved, opening his heart to give words of warning he felt necessary for these early believers. His two main themes, reminding these brethren to show love to all people always, as well as warning the flock to be vigilant of false doctrine regarding Jesus Christ, were both very pertinent in their walk as believers. He begins his letter with emphasis on love and truth, not separating one from the other. He stressed the importance that Jesus Christ is both, and true believers show their love for Him by obeying His commandments, and loving each other.

We read this small book—about the length of a daily devotional—and find it as applicable today as it was two thousand years ago. Individually we all have turmoil, both from outside of our control, and internally from attacks of warfare, of human failings, and by sinful thoughts or actions. Yet it is love and truth that ultimately triumph in our lives. Seek out a Life Group that will help you grow in your faith, fight with the armor of God, and love unconditionally, so that others will know you are a Christ-follower!

Key Verse: 2 John 6: This is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it. (NKJV)

*Matt. 18:15-17, 21-22; 1 John 2:9-11; Matt. 6:14-15; Col. 3:13

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

Group Notes | October 29

TINY GIANTS: Mercy Matters
October 29, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

When someone hurts us—or injures someone dear to us—the idea of revenge may seem like a logical step, but it is not the right thing to do. Can you think of a time when you showed mercy rather than having retaliated?

For three weeks we are going to look at the three shortest books in the Bible (according to the original Greek). We want to bring the wisdom that these small books contain to light and apply it to our lives, especially in these days of turmoil. As we look at the first, Philemon, we want to focus on learning lessons from the Apostle Paul.

Focal Passages: Philemon.

Discuss:

MERCY MATTERS:

            The Right Testimony

  1. Read verses 4-7. What was so amazing that Paul, a prisoner in Rome, would hear of the faith of Philemon? That would be about the same as someone in the Midwest hearing of you, in an eastern state—without benefit of electronic equipment or motorized methods of transportation. Read Proverbs 22:1. Is this still true today?
  2. Paul said he “keeps hearing”: what did that indicate? What were some of the good reports Paul was hearing about Philemon?
  3. When Onesimus fled from Philemon, he must have known that once he had damaged his reputation, there was a possibility Philemon would not forgive him; most people would continue to think of his past actions whenever they saw him. Why are people still like that? Can anyone share from experience?

The Right Response

  1. Read verse 8. What did Paul say gave him confidence to ask a favor of Philemon? What was Paul’s other option? Why did he feel he would not have to make it an order?
  2. Read verse 10. He was now bringing his desire to Philemon. What was it? Why did he call Onesimus his child? Why did he want to be certain these two were restored in relationship?

The Right Action

  1. Read verse 21; Paul had not lacked confidence to ask the favor of Philemon (verse 8) because he knew Philemon was in a right relationship with God. How did he expect Philemon to react when Onesimus eventually arrived in Colossae and sought out Philemon?
  2. How does this relate to the church today, as brothers or sisters harbor grudges or ill-feelings toward each other? What should they be doing? What Scriptures back up your answer? *(Listed at end of study.)

The Right Example

  1. Back in verse 1b-2, who was going to be hearing this letter from Paul? What impact would have been made on the early believers if Philemon had not been willing to forgive and forget?
  2. What should be your response for every negative action someone has taken against you?

 Close:

Showing mercy to someone who has not merited it, perhaps by a deed done to us or someone we love, is one of the hardest actions for us to take as humans—and believers. Every part of our emotions become involved, and revenge is easy to focus on. Yet as Christ followers, we must overcome the desire to retaliate, and from the bottom of our heart, forgive. How do you take that step? It is not going to be a giant leap, overcoming all the animosity you have built up: it will be tiny steps forward. The best way, and perhaps the hardest, is to begin to pray for your enemy. Pray however the Lord leads, as long as it is in line with what Jesus would have done. Pray for their recognition of the deed, their conviction of sin, perhaps pray that God will lead them to see that what they’ve done needs forgiveness. In whatever manner you pray, if you do it daily, eventually you will find that the hatred is leaving you, little by little. It is impossible to pray for someone and continue to call them an enemy.

Pray for yourself, as well. Bitterness is like a weed that gets hold of your life, and, like poison ivy, keeps spreading (Eph. 4:31), defiling everyone in your immediate circle. But gradually you will be able to grant mercy to the one who has been your adversary, as you realize that you, too, was once full of trespasses and sins, and yet God reached down and gave you forgiveness that you did not deserve. If the one who has hurt you will not accept a restored relationship, remember that God is not going to forget the offense, and will discipline the person as only He knows best. His way is always right, His timing will be perfect, and He will perhaps save them. What if they come to you, as Onesimus did to Philemon, and ask forgiveness? Will you give it?

Memory Verse: Philemon 7: For we have great joy and consolation in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed by you, brother. (NKJV)

*Matt. 18:15-17, 21-22; 1 John 2:9-11; Matt. 6:14-15; Col. 3:13

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

Group Notes | October 22

START: Taking the Next Step of Service
October 22, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you learn of a need that someone has, what is your immediate response? Did you have to stop for a moment, or were you able to give a spontaneous anwer?

This week we finish the series “START: Taking the Next Step from the Step You’re On.” We have been seeking God’s direction for this journey of faith we are living. We want to follow the example Jesus set by serving those whom we meet along our path. We want to condition ourselves to be alert to their needs, then meet those needs as we are able.

Focal Passages: John 13:4-17; Matthew 25:40; Philippians 2:3-4.

Discuss:

THE NEXT STEP OF SERVICE:

Putting Jesus First

  1. Someone read the memory verse, John 13:15. Why should you learn to be a servant? Read Mark 10:44-45. What does that teach you?
  2. Read Matthew 25:37-40. What stands out as you read this passage? Were the “righteous” serving because they wanted to be noticed or because they wanted to show their love for Christ? Why does service have to start in the heart?

Putting Others First

  1. Share some examples when you don’t exactly excel at putting others first. (Did you say, “in traffic,” or “waiting in a line”?) How can you change these situations?
  2. Read Phil. 2:3-4. There are several suggestions of how to be more like Jesus in these two verses. What are they? Which of these things do you find the hardest?

HOW?

With What You Have

  1. In verses 4-5 of John 13, what did Jesus need to perform the humble task of washing the feet of His disciples?
  2. Can someone relate the oft-quoted maxim about God’s calling and equipping?* Use what He has already given you.
  3. What will happen if you wait until you feel you are prepared to serve before you can be useful to God?

With what you know

  1. Read verses 6-8 of John 13. The last phrase has a deeper meaning to Jesus than it did for the disciples. What was Jesus really saying?
  2. What should be the goal for every act of service you perform?

With Christ as your model

  1. Read verses 13-15. Why does Christ want you to serve others? Examine your acts of service to make certain your motive is to show the love of Christ.

WHAT’S NEXT?

 Pray

  1. Why should you pray? When you pray for the needs of others, are you also asking God to use you?

Offer

  1. What would happen if you prayed each morning that God would bring someone across your path who had a need, you see the need, and are able to meet it? Take that step of faith!

Try

  1. All believers have the responsibility to share the gospel, and to serve. In the Ice Breaker, you listed how you would react to a need. Now that you’ve had the sermon study, can you embellish on seeing a gift that might be more comfortable for you than you had thought? You may have to try more than once to find what niche is really yours.

Close:

Serving someone sounds like an uncomfortable step of faith, doesn’t it? Yet it is a heart attitude God wants us to have, and has said that we do it for His glory, not our own. We look into the eyes of those we meet and get a glimpse of their heart. If there is an obvious need, ask Him to reveal how you can help. Have you ever been behind someone in line at Walmart and they are digging for change to come up with sufficient money to pay for their groceries? You look, and see nothing but food. Don’t hesitate to hand the clerk the dollar in your hand! God will never let you go hungry for giving away what’s He’s given to you. Does someone have a yard that needs mowed? You don’t know their story, but you can take a half hour and push your mower down to their yard and mow. If you’re afraid they’ll take it wrong, take a basket of fresh-baked bread and a note to put on their porch. Give God the opportunity to start sending needs your way, and the satisfaction that comes will make you hunger for them more and more. If you go on a short-term mission trip, prepare yourself to feel as though you barely got started when you need to leave! You will look at the elderly people and your heart will cry that they may go into a Christ-less eternity before someone else comes to tell them of Jesus. Let every day be a day of opportunity to serve your Lord, and to follow Him.

Memory Verse: John 13:15: For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. (NKJV)

*”God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.”

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

 

 

Group Notes | October 15

START: A Fight Worth Fighting
October 15, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Have you ever realized that children do not have to be taught to like sugar, to fight, or get angry? We seem to be born with these negative behaviors! Can anyone remember an early fight?

This week we continue the series “START,” as we seek God’s direction for the next step in our journey of faith. We want to evaluate whether the fights we are engaging in are from selfishness in our heart, or from a righteous motive that makes the fight worthwhile, with eternal consequences. Let’s look at the fights that are worth fighting.

Focal Passages: Proverbs 4:23-24, Galatians 6:3, Philippians 4:8, Ephesians 5:25-33, and 1 Timothy 5:8.

Discuss:

FIGHT FOR YOUR HEART:

  1. Read Prov. 4:23. Why do you need to guard your heart? What are some things you guard with “all diligence”? How do you guard your heart? Read Psalm 101:3a. What are some things that would violate this phrase?
  2. What is meant by the “issues of life” coming out of your heart? Read Matthew 15:16-18. How does this passage parallel Prov. 4:23b?
  3. In verse 24 what are you warned to put far from you? Why do people feel they have to use profanity to embellish their speech? Does God approve of it?

FIGHT FOR YOUR MIND:

  1. Now, more than ever before, your mind is inundated with information that is against all that the Bible teaches. What are some common commercials that encourage you to put yourself first? What are they teaching the children?
  2. Read Gal. 6:3. Why is putting yourself first against everything that Jesus taught? What are you to do instead? How does your answer match Phil. 2:3?

FIGHT FOR YOUR FAMILY:

  1. Read Eph. 5:22-33. Why is the husband’s role greater? Who will have the greater responsibility when standing before God? How much does Christ love the church?
  2. If you do not fight for your family, who will? Who else cares about your family? Why is Satan determined to destroy the children through media and schools?
  3. Read 1 Tim. 5:8. How serious does God view the husband/father who does not make it a priority to care for his family?

FIGHT FOR THE CHURCH:

  1. You just read how much Christ loves the church. How much is it? Why did He ordain the church?
  2. Read Heb. 10:24-25. How are we to treat the family of God inside the church?

What type of testimony to unbelievers is it when we do not get along?

  1. What are some of the benefits of meeting together for worship as often as possible? Fellowship within the church is as necessary to your spiritual life as keeping a close relationship within your family is to your family unit. Why?

Close

Most people apparently love a good fight. Books and movies made without some type of confrontation are minimal! But the truth from the Bible is that pride is the cause of trouble, and trouble generally leads to arguments and fights (Proverbs 13:10). Children need to be taught from early childhood that those type of fights are wrong because their basis is to satisfy the pride of the fighter. They are not fought to protect those things God holds dear. Fighting for things that have eternal consequences is an entirely different set of circumstances. Satan is the great divider of families, the one who is behind the scenes for books and movies that destroy the mind, speech and heart, and behind the strife that goes on in the church. Those fights need to be fought with the armor of God protecting the warrior! If you need help learning how to fight with the armor that God has provided for our fight against principalities and powers, join a Life Group that is committed to fighting for those things that will ensure you, your family and your church follows Christ so closely that when the world sees you, it recognizes that you have been with Jesus (Acts 4:13)!

Memory Verse: Ephesians 5:15: See then that you walk circumspectly [carefully], not as fools but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil. (NKJV)

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites there are resources such as Original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

 

 

Group Notes | October 8

START: Prayer Matters
October 8, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Meeting someone who is well-known and respected, possibly powerful, can be intimidating—and often we feel foolish, on reflection, for what we said as our mind went blank! Can anyone think of an example you can share?

This week the series “START” continues as we realize the truth that God—who cannot lie—wants a conversation with us on a personal basis. That He would care enough to form us in our mother’s womb, see every detail of our lives (good and bad) from birth to death, and still desire a relationship with us, completely blows our mind. Yet we often treat Him with flippancy, offering “prayers” that are more like a recitation than a conversation. Let’s see what His word says about the importance of prayer.

Focal Passages: 1 John 5:14-15; 1 Peter 5:6,7; Hebrews 4:14-16; James 5:16b; Luke 11:1-4, 17:17.

Discuss:

Prayer Matters:

  1. Read 1 John 5:14-15. What do you mean when you use the word “if,” as in “if I go”? Why, then, do these verses say “if you ask,” and “if you know”?
  2. Assuming our heart is right with God’s heart, what does He promise? Are these verses a blanket promise we will get what we want?

Prayer is talking to God your Father:

  1. God is your Father if you are saved. In that case, how do you view prayer, and your ability to come before the Creator of the entire universe?
  2. Read 1 Peter 5:6-7. Sometimes we assume God is like those we talk to who give some attention to what we say, rather than truly focusing on us. Does it matter that He “hears” you?

Prayer is a conversation:

  1. Read Hebrews 4:14-16. In verse 16, how are we to come to Him? Do your children (if applicable) hesitate to tell you their needs? How does that relate?
  2. There are two sides in a conversation. After pouring out your heart, do you take any time to be quiet and see how He responds? If you don’t, why not?

Prayer is powerful:

  1. Read James 5:16b. Would God have this verse in Scripture if it were not true? How do you demonstrate that you believe it, as you pray?

How Do I Pray?

  1. Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked this question of Jesus. Therefore, we need to internalize the answer.

Know Who God is:

  1. In verse 2a, what does “hallowed” mean? If you could describe God with one word, what would it be? Is this how you see Him as you pray?

Recognize the importance of God’s plan:

  1. In verse 2b, we are not told that it is our will that will be done. Why is it of utmost importance that we bow to God’s will, both in our prayers, and in our lives?

Know that God cares about YOU:

  1. Read verse 3. Jesus Himself says we need to ask for our “daily bread.” God cares so much about us that He wants to satisfy our daily needs. How often was the manna in the wilderness given? Why would He want us to ask daily?

Be in the right spiritual place for prayer:

  1. Read John 9:31. What must our lifestyle be like for God to hear our prayers? Why is it important that our lives be “holy” as He is holy? How does 1 John 1:9 fit in here? If we are His children, how does He view us?

Be in the right attitude for prayer:

  1. Read verse 11:4. What happens when we have unforgiveness for others?

Seek God’s leading in your life:

  1. How do we do this? Read 11:4c. Why should we want what God wants?

Be thankful for everything:

  1. Developing an attitude of gratitude is the key to being in God’s will. Why is that true?

Close

Cultivating a deep and meaningful prayer life is essential if you want a close relationship with your heavenly Father. As we have mentioned in numerous ways often, no relationship, whether with a spouse, your child, a family member, etc., will ever morph into a quality bond unless time is invested by conversation. If one side does all the talking, without giving the other an opportunity for answering and sharing equally, the relationship is nothing more than a power trip. We have learned much about prayer in these passages, but the most obvious is that our hearts must be in a condition where sins are confessed, a lifestyle is God-centered, no bitterness resides against our fellow man—in essence, we are in a right relationship with Him.  We cannot be living in sin and present our requests, expecting Him to overlook the things we are doing that are in direct opposition to His word. Paul wrote in Romans 6:1, “What? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid!” Paul uses the most forceful word in Greek to imply “Absolutely Not” to emphasize our dependence on the relationship must be clean. “Be holy, as He is holy.” Do you want Him to answer your deepest needs? Then begin by lining up your life with His, desiring His will in all things, and being fervent with your prayer life. Above all, learn to be grateful for everything He blesses you with. As you do, you will find contentment, knowing He hears you, is answering in His time frame, and doing what is best. He sees the end, not the tunnel you’re in!  Trust Him.

Memory Verse: 1 John 5:14: Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. (NKJV)

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites there are resources such as Original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

 

Group Notes | October 2

START: The Power of the Word
October 1, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Those of you who are parents or grandparents can no doubt remember the days when the children were 2 or 3, and you seldom let more than a few moments go by without knowing exactly what they were doing. Can anyone share a story when your watchfulness paid off?

Today we continue the series “START,” as we learn to recognize the different ways God directs us, guiding us to the next step in our walk with Him. Last week we made certain we are His child; this week we want to absorb what a perfect Father He is, constantly caring for us, and giving us guidance through His word.

Focal Passages: 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12; Psalm 119:11, 105; James 1:22-25;1 Corinthians 15:3-4.

Discuss:

THE POWER OF THE WORD:

  1. Read Hebrews 4:12. What attributes does the Bible have?
  2. What does it mean that the Bible is “living?”
  3. If one is looking for a Bible-believing, Bible-preaching, evangelical church, what beliefs about the Bible should they teach that are “non-negotiables,” before you consider attending? (All start with the letter “I”.)

Read What It Says:

  1. Read 2 Tim. 3:16a. What is meant to say the Scripture is “inspired”?
  2. The Bible is God, speaking to you! How does that excite you?
  3. What are some reasons that less than 20% of “church goers” read their Bible daily?

Quote by A. W. Tozer: [The Bible] is God’s present Voice which makes His written word all powerful! Otherwise it should be locked in slumber within the covers of a Book.”

Learn What It Means:

  1. Read verse 16b. There is a difference in reading the Bible in order to check it off your “to do” list, and studying what God is saying. If you do not understand a verse, what sources are available to help you? (There is a list at the end).
  2. Read 2 Peter 1:2-4. According to these verses, why is it so necessary that you take time to study the Scriptures?

Put It Into Practice:

  1. Read verses 16c, 17. Why should you be instructed in the teaching of the Word? How do you believe you can handle the things the world throws at you, if you don’t know how God wants you to react?
  2. Read James 1:22-25. If you are going to be called by His name, how does He want you to act? 

Close

Do you stand in awe that a book could be written 2000-6000 years ago, yet prove to be applicable to every generation, for doctrine (guidance for being taught), reproof (an expression of disapproval), correction and instruction in righteousness? To the one who loves the Lord and wants a deeper relationship, nothing compares with the Bible, and your quiet time alone with Him, when you can focus on His Word. It should be compared to the same discipline you might have for working out, eating healthy meals, romancing your spouse, or spending quality time with those you love. Be aware that Satan will throw many curve balls at you (phone calls, interruptions, etc.) to break your concentration! If you read it year after year, decide to study it with different goals: perhaps look for prayers as you read one year, and write them in a notebook; another year focus on the promises that are contained within the pages as God speaks. If you read a chapter or section, and find your attention has wavered, go back and re-read it. Seek out Life Groups of Bible Studies that will help you understand it. It will generate a feeling of humility, of love, and a greater idea of what God has done for you, to read His word and put your name in places that refer to mankind. Eventually, realizing that He is not up in the sky, far away, but residing within you as God, the Holy Spirit, you should come to the place where you talk to Him often during your day, and He will become so much more to you—the best friend you could ever have.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 3:16: All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness. (NKJV)

Notable quotes: A. W. Tozer: “Reading the Word of God is the only way to discover the Will of God. If you’re trying to discover God’s Will for your life without reading God’s Word for your life, you’re wasting your time.”  “God did not write a book and send it by messenger to be read at a distance by unaided minds. He spoke a Book and lives in His spoken words, constantly speaking His words and causing the power of them to persist across the years.”

*Ed Stetzer, September 13, 2012

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites there are resources such as Original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

Group Time | September 24

START: How Can I Be Sure?
  September 24, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

There are so many decisions that must be made in life, and the right path is not always easy to know. For instance, “Is she/he the right person for me to marry?” Can you think of an example when you struggled with not being certain about something crucial?

Today we start a new series simply entitled “START.” All of us are on different levels of faith, of commitment, or maturity, but we want to know what the next step is for our situation. Dr. Falwell originally wrote a pamphlet, “How to Get Started Right,” outlining those next steps. Before we look at those steps, let’s be positive that we are in a right relationship with God, without any doubt of our salvation.

Focal Passages: Ephesians 2:1-9; John 3:16, 4:14, 8:52,10:27-29; 1 Corinthians 1:8,9; Philippians 1:6; Hebrews 13:5; 1 John 1:3-4, 5-10, 2:3-5, 2:15, 3:2-3, 3:5-6, 3:14, 3:22, 4:1-3, 5:1-2, 5:14-15.

Discuss:

Background:

  1. Read Eph. 2:1b-3. What is the condition of the person who has not asked Jesus to save them?
  2. Read verses 4-6. “But God” stepped in and did what? Why (vs. 4)?
  3. Read verses 8-9. How were you saved? Did you do something to merit it? If you had achieved it by being good, could you boast about it?

How You Can Be Sure:

You will want to know Him:

  1. Who will share the story of meeting your spouse, and the desire to know every little thing about her/him?
  2. If you are going to trust God with your life, what are some things you will want to know about Him (for instance, is He always trustworthy?)? Where are you going to find these character traits?

Conviction of your sin:

  1. Read John 14:26. It is said that there is no one more miserable than a true Christian who is living a sinful lifestyle. What can you conclude if you have a sinful addiction, and are not convicted about it?
  2. Read 1 John 3:6. How does the Scripture back up the conclusion you just came to concerning a lifestyle of sin?

Seek fellowship with other Christians:

  1. Read 1 John 1:7. Think of a fire: if you pull a piece of log out from the rest, what soon happens to it? How is that like a Christian who does not fellowship with other believers? Do you get that fellowship watching a service on the television?
  2. At our churches, what is the biggest benefit of being part of a Life Group?

Understand the power of prayer:

  1. In your family or work, how much of a relationship would you eventually have if you took no time to communicate with the others?
  2. The Person Who has taken up residence in your life wants a very personal, loving relationship with you. Do you have a special name for Him that signifies your deepest feelings for talking with Him? What does James 5:16b tell you?

Recognize the importance of God’s Word:

  1. Going back to family again, or even before that, to your relationship as it grew with the person who would be your spouse (if applicable), if you received a letter from her/him, how did you treat it? Discuss.
  2. How do you view the books of the Bible, in giving you a guideline to know God, His plan, and how to live your life? Read 1 Peter 2:2-3 and 2 Peter 1:3. What do these verses tell you about Scripture? Read Psalm 119:11. What is another reason for memorizing His word? 

Close

Have you ever asked people where they will spend eternity? It is very few who will answer “Hell.” Since almost everyone assumes they will go to heaven, you must follow your question up with “What are you basing your hope on?” You already know most will say their good must outweigh their bad. This is such an unfortunate situation, and brings great pain to those of us who have tried to reach family members who are in a works-based religion. The START of a journey with Jesus Christ is to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you were “dead in your sin” and being so, were powerless to resurrect yourself. BUT GOD, through His great love with which He loved YOU, was willing to save you, and give you a new life of salvation. It was Grace—all grace—and nothing that you did. He offered it to you freely, asking that you live your new life with Him at the center. Did you accept that gift? If you did, He adopted you, and nothing you can do will cause Him to back out of this relationship. However, Romans 6 begins by telling us that the adoption by God is not a license to continue to sin. That is why you must do a self-examination with the points outlined above, making certain that your walk is in line with the Biblical precepts. If you have no desire to read your Bible, change your way of a sinful lifestyle, be with other Christians, or pray, you might need to reassess your conversion experience. However, if He is alive and well within you, and you are maturing in your walk with Him, begin by talking aloud with Him every time He crosses your mind! Nothing you say to Him will shock Him, cause Him to condemn you or think less of you, (He knows it anyway,) and the constant conversation will eventually morph into a close relationship that will flood your soul. You will “never find a friend so faithful!”

Memory Verse: Ephesians 2:4-5: But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved). (NKJV)

Group Notes | September 17

Why Then Do We Suffer?
September 17, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Each day world or national news seems to be filled with crises that would have been unimaginable fifty years ago. Can you share an event that has impacted you or your extended family recently?

Today the severe challenges we are facing—whether from health, financial, family, sin or dozens more—inevitably lead us to the point of suffering where we cry out to God, “Why, Lord?” This week we are going to look at life from God’s perspective, as well as our own personal frame of reference.

Focal Passages: Romans 5:12-25, 8:31-39; Job 5:7, 14:1.

Discuss:

This World Is Not What God Intended:

  1. Read Genesis 1:31. What did God say about His creation at the end of Day Six?
  2. Read Genesis 2:15. What did God give Adam the ability to do in this verse?
  3. Why would God create Adam, knowing he was going to bring sin—and therefore death—into the world? Can we not relate to some extent, wanting children even while we know there will be very tough times with them?

Even Still There is Hope:

  1. Read Romans 5:18. What are some of the tribulations you face? Does God hold these against you? How can you back that up?
  2. Read Rom. 5:19-23. How did the fall affect God’s creation?
  3. Read verses 24-25. Why do people hold so tightly to hope? Read 1 Peter 1:3. (Is this your hope?)

Our God Is Still in Control and Taking Care of Us

  1. How do you know that God is still in control? Read Col. 1:16-18 (in a translation that is more modern, if possible.)
  2. Think back over the recent events in your life; has God done anything that would indicate to you that He is caring for you? Read 1 Pet. 5:7.
  3. Why do we so often take matters into our own hands, trying to do the job in our strength, without letting Christ take the lead? Can you share your thoughts?

Close

Almost all the New Testament writers warn that this life comes with trials and troubles. If you thought when you received Jesus as Savior that life would be easy, the truth is, since evil and man’s choice exists, it won’t be. Suffering is a by-product of the fall, bringing sin and natural disasters. Those who trust Him fully have learned that Jesus is the only One you can depend on through the storms. This past month we have witnessed miracle after miracle as God brought people safely through tragedies that should have taken thousands of lives, and with minimal loss of life. “Things” can always be replaced, but people cannot. God is your only hope.

It was His desire that the creation would be a place of perfection, beauty, and happiness. Adam chose to disobey God, and man has been full of sin ever since, bringing suffering into creation. Had He made us robots, worshiping Him like puppets, there would be no relationship of love. If you have children who obey you for any reason other than a genuine desire to show their love, you know there is no satisfaction in outward obedience. Yet in giving us choices to do good or evil, sin enters our lives through the actions of ourselves or others. If you want evil to stop, choice must stop. Where would you want your ability to make choices end and you have none? You wouldn’t. The good news is that Jesus, dying on the cross to pay the debt of those sins, stands ready to forgive and give new life. That new life will include the transition from earth to heaven one day. Will you make mistakes—sometimes willfully—between now and then? Will suffering continue until He returns? Yes! But He loves you with a love so huge it is inexplainable, and as a God of forgiveness, will never disown you. One day, life will be exactly what God intended. Let us all be sure we are ready for that day!

Memory Verse: Romans 5:18: For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.

Group Notes | September 10

Nothing Is Impossible With God
September 10, 2017
Dr. Ben Guttierez

Open:

Sometimes, in making a decision to take a certain action, we realize we have started something where the task becomes too big, and we want to give up. Can anyone give an example?

These past two weeks, we have come through catastrophes that have left millions destitute, and they no doubt wonder if they will survive the stress of these crises. At the same time, we have witnessed God showing His mighty and awesome power, bringing about miracles that man could not—under any imagination—have orchestrated. Nothing is impossible for Him to accomplish, and as His child, nothing is impossible to the believer whose life is rich in faith. We are promised that God will do exceedingly abundantly above all that we can ask or think!

Focal Passages: Matthew 9:1-13, 10:2-4; 16:26; Luke 3:12-13, 5:27, 7:34, 18:10-11, 13a.

Discuss:

Background:

  1. Matthew, the tax collector, was someone the Jews would have gone out of their way to avoid. In that day, tax collectors ranked with the lowest of the low in terms of character and integrity. Read Matthew 18:17, 21:32, and Luke 7:34 to see how they were lumped in Scripture with those whom no one would believe could be saved.

Who Can God Use:

  1. Read Matthew 9:9. What would make a wretched sinner, tax collector and outcast obey Jesus when He said, “Follow Me”?
  2. How do you know that Matthew’s new-found faith was real?

God—the Forgiver of Sins

  1. Read Matt. 9:1-6. What is Jesus saying in verse 6?
  2. Can you think of an acquaintance that you have felt, perhaps for years, they were too “bad” for God to save them?

No One is Too Wayward That God Cannot Use Them

  1. Read Matt. 9:10-13. Who was Jesus seeking as He went through the towns preaching, teaching and healing?
  2. Read Mark 12:37. Who embraced Jesus and His teaching?
  3. How does this compare with 1 Corinthians 1:21?

God Changes Hearts

  1. Read Luke 19:7-9. Zacchaeus was also a tax collector, like Matthew. What showed his humility when Jesus went to his house?
  2. Read 1 Sam. 15:22. How high does God place obedience to His word?

Can God Use YOU?

  1. Read Matt. 18:4. What does God desire from you?

Read Matt. 22:36-38. What else?

Can He use you?

 Close:

Satan can so easily get any of us tied up in regret, doubt or lies, bringing up the past and reminding us of it. How many times have you thought, “God can’t use me, because I have ____________”? Or perhaps there is an acquaintance that you know who has made life a living torture for someone you love, and you feel they are so far beyond the possibility of salvation that God will never write their names in the book of Life (Rev. 20:15). The truth is, no one is beyond the reach of God’s mercy and grace, unless they choose to ignore the call of Jesus. It takes a repentant heart and an act of turning from sin to obeying the voice of God to become His child. “He is the forgiver of sins and the determiner of one’s mission in life. God will use any heart that is submissive to His will.” (Sermon). He does not desire anyone to perish, but all to come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.

With the number of catastrophes coming one after another, examine your heart closely to (2 Cor. 13:5) to see that you are His child, lest you be caught unprepared! Once you know that you are, without a doubt and with a faith that will not be shaken, tell your story as often as God gives you opportunity, as the time may be short. He can use you no matter what you’ve done, if you ask forgiveness and repent, just as He can use those whom you continue to lift to the throne, no matter how hopeless the outlook! Do so this week!

Memory Verse: Matthew 19:26: But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Group Notes | September 3

The Believer’s Exciting Future
September 3, 2017
Dr. Ed Hindson

 

Open:

Millions of people have arranged for that first vacation at Disney. So much planning, money and time goes into the excitement of preparations. But until you physically arrive, are you able to envision the thrill, joy, and delight that the reality produces?

Today Dr. Ed Hindson is going to present some of the promises Jesus made to believers concerning heaven, and the blessings that have been prepared for those who have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord.

Focal Passages: 1 Thessalonians 4:13-17; John 14:1-6; 2 Corinthians 5:10; Revelation 19:7-14, 20:1-6, 21:1-2, 9-10.

Discuss:

Background:

  1. In this world today, everyone who believes in an eternity will assure you they will be in heaven. What are reasons they say their lives merit that destiny?
  2. What is the truth found in John 3:16?

Rapture:

  1. Read 1 Thess. 4:13-17. Why did Paul write these verses to the believers in Thessalonica?
  2. How does this passage impact your life today? If God called you home today, would you be ready (you don’t have to answer aloud)?

Bride to the Father’s House

  1. Read John 14:2-6. What is Jesus promising here? Is this for you? How can you take comfort in it?
  2. Read Rev. 21:9, 10. What was being shown to John in this passage? Who is the Bride?

Judgment Seat of Christ

  1. Read 2 Cor. 5:10. What promise does this verse contain? Paul is speaking of rewards, as your sins have been covered by Calvary. What would merit a reward?
  2. What will be done with those rewards?

Marriage of the Lamb

  1. Read Rev. 19:7-9. This may seem strange to us, that the church would be called the Bride of Christ. But what does He command that we do, and why?
  2. What is her “fine linen”?

Triumphal Return

  1. Believers have been taken to heaven to be with Christ, as a Bride going to her Father’s house; they have been taken before the judgment seat of Christ for rewards, and the marriage of Christ and the church has been accomplished.

Read Rev.19:14. What happens next? Is this a promise we can be assured of? Who are the armies following? How are they dressed?

Millennial Reign

  1. Read Rev. 20:4-6. Who is “they” in verse 4? We do not know exactly what the 2nd resurrection is, but it will be dreadful, as souls are sent to hell (Matthew Henry, Vol. XI, Rev. 20). Is the promise of reigning with Christ for a thousand years something we can stake our faith on? Why?

The New Jerusalem

  1. Read Rev. 21:1-2. What is the climax of the revelations John was given for the saints? How does 1 Corinthians 2:9 describe this scene? 

Close:

What an amazing future we can look forward to, all backed by promises of God—Who cannot lie—of what He has in store for us! To study those promises, and absorb them into our hearts, should cause us to yearn for the souls of those whom we love who have not made the choice to follow Jesus. Or worse, we can withdraw from the obligation that Jesus laid on us before He descended into heaven: “GO, make disciples, baptize, and teach,” and assume it is for others. This was not a suggestion: this is a command. We let family, jobs, getting ahead, having fun, chasing happiness, and more, take priority in our lives, and decide to let those “called” do the “going.” As we learned last week, we need to start by inviting friends and neighbors, those we don’t know, to our homes to get to know them. We have to earn the right to be heard, by building that relationship. That is “going.” We don’t have to get a passport and go to India—there are souls within a half mile of us going to hell, who need to be told Jesus has died to save them.

Hopefully one day you will have the blessing of standing by the bed of a loved one as they make that transition with a shout of hallelujah, and witness the joy as they see heaven—you’ll never be the same! Let that vision color all you do, and never delay the decision to invite Christ into your life, if you haven’t done so already!

Memory Verse: 1 Thess. 4:17: Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord.

Group Notes | August 27

Flannelgraph of Faith: Jonah
August 27, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Occasionally we’re asked to take a responsibility in an event or situation for which we’re competent, but don’t wish to participate. Sometimes we will go so far as to make plans to “be away” in order to escape taking on the task. Can you share an example?

Today we will conclude our Flannelgraph series, having used a modern twist on the old visual aid style of teaching. We have reframed the precious stories we learned as children, looking for deeper meanings to apply to our lives as we continue to grow in Christ. We are going to learn from Jonah, the prophet who was commissioned by God to go preach repentance to a people whose sins were leading to their destruction.

Focal Passages: Jonah, Chapters 1-4

Discuss:

Background:

  1. Jonah, an Israelite, was called by God to prophecy to the enemy country of Nineveh. Instead of obeying, Jonah ran from God. Can one or two share the first part of Jonah’s life, to give us the background?

God’s Call Trumps Our Comfort

  1. What is the most astonishing fact that stands out after God calls Jonah to go preach to Nineveh?
  2. How is his fleeing in the opposite direction the same as our knowing to obey God, but not doing it? How does God view the difference?
  3. Where was Jonah when the storm from God came upon the ship? How can we compare this to the storms that may come into our lives when we are in disobedience to God’s will? Why does He bring those storms (Heb.12:5,6)?

God’s Redemption Trumps Our Contempt (Anger)

  1. Can someone tell what occurred after the sailors threw Jonah into the sea?
  2. Read Jonah 2:2-10. We can certainly understand Jonah’s fervent prayer of repentance when he found himself inside the belly of the whale, miraculously alive. Why does incredible trouble cause us to repent of known sin and turn to God? Can you relate? Was 9/11 a good example? Why?
  3. Will someone tell us what happens next? How was he received in Nineveh?
  4. How did Jonah react? 

God’s Salvation Trumps Everything

  1. Read 4:1-4. It is easy to criticize Jonah’s reaction to God’s incredible mercy to the people of Nineveh, but what was his real problem? What was he missing that had just happened in his own life? Are you ever aware that God is merciful toward you, but subsequently you get angry as He shows mercy to someone you think unworthy?
  2. God acts again in mercy, even following Jonah’s angry response. Can someone tell what happens in the last several verses of chapter 4? Even though Jonah was in sin, reacting with hurt pride, God still granted him grace and mercy. Can you think of an example when He gave you grace when you didn’t deserve it? (Share if you can).

Close:

What a short book to be so full of lessons for life! We have seen how God in His omnipotence wanted to save an ungodly heathen nation, calling them to Himself. In calling Jonah, He showed His power over nature by bringing the storm over the boat; His power was again manifest as He provided a sea creature to not only swallow Jonah, but provided air for him in the belly of the whale. He gave Jonah another chance to go to Nineveh, where He used him to cause an entire kingdom to repent and be saved. He administered grace to an angry prophet, and in love spoke to the word for a plant to grow for shade. His power over His creation provided a worm to devour the plant, making Jonah all the angrier, yet God was trying to get him to understand how much more valuable a human soul is than a plant.

We can also learn totally different lessons from the first chapter. We have an enemy who is alive and well, roaming the earth to tempt and devour the saints. As we read the first few verses we see that Satan is willing to help those who would run from Jesus, seeking to do their own thing. He will provide a way (i.e., the ship), to make it as easy as possible. But (verse 3b) there is a “fare” that must be paid for running. And Satan cannot stop the Almighty God when He is ready to rescue and use His servant.

Hopefully, as you go about your daily activities this week, you pay special attention to your actions, choosing always to follow God. God is our Rescuer, our Deliverer, and our Strength. Share Him with those you love—and those you may not love!—this week.

Memory Verse: Jonah 2:9: But I will sacrifice to You with the voice of thanksgiving; I will pay what I have vowed. Salvation is of the Lord.

Ask Yourself: Am I running from anything God has asked me to do?

Group Notes | August 20

Flannelgraph of Faith: Daniel
August 20, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Last week we talked about a time when you stood alone against a crowd. Perhaps during this past week you’ve remembered other examples. Did any of them cost you something important, perhaps a job, a fiancé, or possibly even threaten your life? Can you share?

This series, using the modern version of a flannelgraph, has taken on new dimensions as we’ve looked at the old stories we learned as children, reframing them with applications for our lives in today’s world. Last week we saw the courage of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, and this week we will see their friend, Daniel, who chose to worship only the one true God, even when it seemed certain it would cost him his life.

Focal Passages: Daniel 1:8-20, 6:1-27

Discuss:

Background:

  1. Read Daniel 1:8-20. These four Hebrew boys of royal blood were taken from their families and homes to Babylon, and put in training to serve Nebuchadnezzar, the king. Why did God bless them so richly?

Being Faithful in the Tough Times Is Vital

  1. Years passed, and Daniel was now serving under King Darius, who set up a parliament, making it easier to rule over his kingdom. Read Daniel 6:3, and paraphrase what positions his rulers had. (Satraps were like “mayors.”)
  2. What was the plan they wanted the king to make into a 30-day law, and what was their motive? Why would you expect Daniel to be aware of it?
  3. When Daniel knew the bill had been officially signed, what did he do? Why did he do this? What do you think he was thanking God for, in this coming situation?

Our Faithfulness Will Be Noticed by Even Those Against Us

  1. What was going to happen to anyone found breaking the law?
  2. Read 6:14,16. What happened when the king realized he had been duped? What were some of the differences Darius saw in Daniel that caused him to care so deeply for him? (Do you make that much difference at your work?)

Our Faithfulness Breeds Confidence When We Need It Most

  1. Read 6:18-20. How did the king spend the night? What can we learn from these verses of action that can be taken before a huge testing?
  2. Do you think Darius expected Daniel to be alive? Why or why not?

Our Faithfulness Changes Others

  1. Read 6: 24. What action did the king take when he found Daniel’s God had saved him?
  2. Read 6:25-26. What was the new law he immediately enacted?

Our Faithfulness is Only Possible When It Comes from the Heart

  1. Read Dan.1:8 again; what type of lifestyle had Daniel purposed for his life?
  2. Would any of his authority, promotions, integrity or wisdom have happened if he was not sincere in his love for God? (How about yours?)

Close:

Daniel lived a life we can all wish for, but few choose: he stayed true to God from his youth up! He began at home, surely, before being taken captive to Babylon. There, he made the choice to follow his God and chose to obey what he knew to be right. He never deviated from that decision, and God used him to help rule a kingdom, impacting the lives of at least three kings.

Jesus wants us to take the good news of the kingdom to the world. Had Daniel and his three friends stayed in their little clique, they would possibly have impacted no one. By following God’s principles and loving Him, they allowed themselves to be used by God in a pagan society, where they attained high authority and had much influence. Are you going into the world with the Good News? We find that if we’re not careful, our circle of friends becomes more Christ-centered, and although we can grow, have great fellowship, and love God, we are not moving toward loving our neighbors who are very different from us. Let us strive to learn the lesson that Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego teaches us, to hold onto God in all the good times as well as the bad, and to affect the people with whom we come in contact. We do this through loving them. Pray for opportunities this week to love on someone, getting to know them, in order to earn the right to tell them of Jesus.

Memory Verse: Daniel 6:27: He delivers and rescues, and He works signs and wonders, in heaven and on earth, Who has delivered Daniel from the power of the lions.

Ask Yourself: Would I describe my faith in God as half-hearted? If so, it will never deliver me from the lions’ den.

Group Notes | August 13

Flannelgraph of Faith: Prayer and His Presence
August 13, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

In interesting studies that have been done, the amount of people who will stand alone when in a crowd is minimal. Have you ever had an experience of being the last person still holding a certain position when everyone else had chosen another option, and can you share?

The story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego is one most of us learned—by way of a flannelgraph—as children. We listened with sympathy to their punishment of being thrown into a fiery furnace for not bowing down to a golden image, and the miracle God displayed as He delivered them in an incredible way. These three brave young men left us a legacy that sought to teach us courage and help us grow strong in our faith. We want to glean more nuggets of truth that will increase our confidence as we go through our own fiery trials (1 Peter 4:12), and grow in our relationship to God.

Focal Passages: Daniel 1, 2, 3

Discuss:

The Background

  1. Daniel and his three friends were brought to Babylon as prisoners of Nebuchadnezzar. Can someone give a short overview of the early years of their life there? Read Daniel 1:17. How did these four cope in Babylon? Because of their wisdom, they advanced in authority, although they were about to go through a trial that would seem impossible to overcome.

Pray Like It Matters…Because It Does!

  1. Before we get to the golden image, read Dan. 2:16-19. Verse 18 gives you a picture of the source of strength for these young men. What was it? Do you feel this was a habit or a one-time occasion, and why?
  2. Why does it seem to take a crisis to bring you to prayer? Prayer should be our first line of defense; why? If you don’t pray often, is it realistic to assume God will give you a reason to do so? Why? Read James 5:16b.

Compromise Will Never Deliver

  1. Someone relate the demand Nebuchadnezzar made of his people when he built a 90 ft. high statue. What happened when all the people bowed down?
  2. Recall the opening Ice Breaker; who will be the one(s) left standing alone against the majority during testing?
  3. Read Dan. 3:17-18. What was on the line when the men did not bow down? Did they have any reason to assume they would not die? As a Christian, have you ever folded when you should have stood alone (don’t answer aloud unless you choose to).
  4. If they had bowed down, what would it have cost them?

The World’s Power Is No Match For His

  1. What initially happened when the three were thrown into the fiery furnace? What did the king witness, as he looked into the fire?
  2. Read Dan. 3:27. What was Nebuchadnezzar’s conclusion when they came out?

We Have His Power

  1. Read John 14:26. How do you know you can trust His power when you’re in a trial?
  2. Read Isaiah 43:2b. You are the only one who can truthfully answer this question: can you look back and see that your faith is increasing, and that you are trusting Him to be with you every step?

Close:

Standing alone is hard. In the opening, if you thought of an example from your own life, you possibly sensed that same twinge of unease that you had felt then, and wonder now where you got the nerve to step away from the crowd. The decision to not bow to any god but the true God seemed as if it was going to cost Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego their very lives. They had not read the end of the story! We can see from chapters 1 and 2 that prayer was a part of their daily routine; in this case, they probably had time only for a short plea for God’s help and His will, but if He had different plans, whether He saved them or not, they would be faithful to Him until death took them.

We need to ask ourselves the same question. Will you stand regardless of the outcome? If you are praying for a loved one to survive a disease, for an end to a financial crisis, for help in your marriage, for a wayward child—will you still stand with Him and trust Him if He is quiet? Remember, too, that those who are going through trials usually need others to intercede for them—which not only keeps you in a state of prayer but also gives strength for the burden for those in the trial. Seek out a Life Group and get with others who are going through crises, and let the burdens be shared by brothers and sisters (Gal. 6:2). We need to know that we know the Holy Spirit is with us as we go through trials. Sometimes He walks with us, and sometimes He carries us. Trust Him. You will find He is trustworthy.

Memory Verse: Daniel 3:17: “If that is the case, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king.”

Ask Yourself: Is my faith in God strong enough that I would stand against enemies of Christ? Do I trust Him to bring me through the trials of life? How can I develop a closer relationship with Him?

Group Notes | August 6

Flannelgraph of Faith: Fighting the Giant
August 6, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It seems everyone you spend quality time with reveals they are fighting some sort of “giant” in their life, whether it’s physical, spiritual or emotional. Can you share an example?

We continue our series this week, looking at the characters taught us in our early years, using the decades-old idea of a flannelgraph. This week we are looking at a story familiar to almost everyone: the story of David, the Israeli youth who had the courage to take a slingshot and a stone, killing an enemy giant, Goliath. We are looking for deeper lessons resting under the top layer of this piece of history. As we re-examine this narrative, we lay the groundwork for finding the giants in our own lives, and hopefully David’s example can help us as we seek to slay our “Goliaths.”

Focal Passages: I Samuel 17

The Background:

There’s probably no one in your group who can’t tell the story of the life of David! Could someone give an overview of what was happening with King Saul and the Israelite army when David came on the scene? Then someone else relate the events that led David to the area where Israel was encamped against the Philistine army. Those two accounts will set the background as David entered the war zone, with Israel and the Philistines getting into position for a coming battle.

Discuss:

The Greatest Challenge in Life is Rarely the Actual Challenge:

  1. Read 1 Sam. 17:22-24. What was the first thing David heard as he entered the camp?
  2. His immediate response is in verse 26b (read). If you can imagine the situation, what was probably some of the ridicule hurled at him? Verse 28 records the words of his older brother; how would that make you feel?
  3. What were the attackers trying to accomplish? Why was such an attack made by the men who were seasoned warriors? Which was the real challenge here that David had to overcome?

Facing Opposition While Doing God’s Will Should be Expected

  1. Where did David get his confidence to go against Goliath?
  2. Which is harder: going against our peers, or sitting among them saying nothing? Why?
  3. Read Matthew 5:10-12, and 2 Timothy 3:11b-13. Why does God record these passages for us?

Your Success or Failure is Directly Related to How You Handle that Opposition

  1. Can you achieve a desire you might have to serve God in a certain capacity, if you let fear hold you back? Why or why not?
  2. Can someone share a fear you have, and tell how it has affected your life?

Depending on God’s Power in the Face of Your Biggest Giant is Always a Winner:

9. Who was Goliath trusting in? Who was David trusting in? Do you think it even crossed David’s mind that he could lose? Why?

Close:

What a marvelous gift, to have a trust so great in our Holy God that we will go up against the most evil giant we can encounter.  David, even though young and surrounded by men, found himself angered as he saw the fear paralyzing the soldiers. His amazing faith in God, developed through his experiences in the wilderness watching sheep and worshiping his Creator, left him stunned that others would take no action against someone insulting the Living God. It would have been so easy to give in to the jeers of men much older than himself, and run back home. But David was convinced in his soul that God would win the victory for him, and failing to act was not an option David even considered.

How about you? Have you let the giants in your life dictate your choices? They can be your friends, criticism, your appearance, a disability—so many possibilities. Some physical traits perhaps were given to us by God to make us stronger! Think for a moment of those you know in your church who are such a great example of being strong for Christ, though weak by the world’s standards. Follow David’s example and work on trusting God with everything you are, so that you can eliminate the giants that want to take you down and render you incapable of service. You will soon be able to tell you are succeeding: whenever you are doing God’s will, you will have opposition. You will never have spiritual warfare unless you are doing something spiritual!

Memory Verse: I Samuel 17:47: Then all this assembly shall know that the Lord does not save with sword and spear; for the battle is the Lord’s, and He will give you into our hands. (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Are my giants destroying my effectiveness as a Christian? Am I giving in to the persecution and fear, or am I trusting without question? How can I trust more fully? Am I praying to God for more faith?

 

Group Notes | July 30

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samuel—God’s Way, Always
July 30, 2017
Dr. Ben Gutierrez

 

Open:

When we were young, we often did not have enough experience, or enough guidance, to make the best choices, and our lives were impacted with consequences we could not undo. Can anyone share an experience?

This week we continue the series, “Flannelgraph of Faith,” taking stories we learned as children and looking for deeper—or underlying—lessons we can use in our own lives. This week we will focus on I Samuel, looking not only at Samuel’s life, but also the far-reaching consequences for Israel that came when they rejected Samuel’s warning. We continue to use the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, as we learn from his life.

Focal Passages: Taken from I Samuel

The Background:

In Judges 2:10-15, we read that after Joshua died, God appointed judges who would lead under God’s direction. The people fluctuated between following the Lord while the judge lived, then turning to idols after his death. This pattern continued about 300 years, and caused the word of the Lord to be “rare in those days” (1 Samuel 3:1).  Judges 21:25 ends this period declaring “everyone did that which was right in his own eyes.”

Discuss:

Nothing & No One Can Make You Choose the Way You Choose:

  1. Can someone give an overview of the events occurring during the conception and early years of Samuel? Read 3:19, 20. What was Samuel’s position in Israel after God spoke to him?
  2. Read 7:15 and 8:1, 3-7. What event occurred that changed the course of Israel’s future? Israel had adopted the ways of the heathen nations; what are some reasons this happened? How are we seeing this with Christians today?
  3. Who decides what you wear, watch, where you work, etc.? What establishes your boundaries (you don’t have to answer out loud)?

Bad Choices Lead to Worse Choices:

  1. The people of Israel wanted a king, like their pagan neighbors. Read 1 Sam. 10:17-19a. What did Samuel tell the people? What was their response?

Only Obedience from a Pure Heart Honors God:

  1. Does anyone remember the story of the anointing of Saul as King? Can you paraphrase it for the group?
  2. Read 15:17-23. Saul started his reign well, but soon got sidetracked with pride. What was the final straw? What does God delight in?

 To Obey Is Better Than Sacrifice:

  1. Read Joshua 24:15. Substitute your country for the Amorites, and read it as a contemporary choice. What is holding you back from choosing to serve God with a pure heart?

 Close:

As we read the life of Samuel, it is hard not to liken the people of Israel to those around us, and across our own land. Immorality, profanity and immodesty is rampant, while crime and unrest is on the increase. Jesus Christ is being confined to the church building, until we have a generation growing up who will not know the Lord (Judges 2:10). But our choices are not forced upon us: you may not be able to control the behaviors and values of the citizens of the land, but you have control over your choices for yourself. It may be the only thing you can control!

Learn from Samuel that, in the midst of a sinful country, you can have a relationship with God that is real and personal. He will never forsake you, never leave you on your own, and loves you beyond anything you have ever known. If you get to the end of your rope and cry out to Him for evidence that He is with you, listen and watch for an indication that He has heard your cry and show you that He is listening. If He answers no, or seems silent, trust Him. If He doesn’t answer a fervent prayer, will you still love Him? That is the main question, and only you can choose your answer. Commit your life to establishing a closer relationship with Him, and then tell others your story.

Memory Verse: I Samuel 15:22: So Samuel said, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.” (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Are my choices in attitude, clothing, words I speak and my integrity something that brings glory to God? Am I giving “lip service” to God but not my heart? “To obey [His word] is better than sacrifice.” Am I doing life God’s way, or my way?

Group Notes | July 23

Flannelgraph of Faith: Ruth—Everyone Matters
July 23, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

In almost everyone’s life at some time there has been a woman—perhaps a mother, teacher, or friend—who has made an impact on one’s character. Can you share a memory you may have as you reflect?

We are continuing to examine Bible characters whose lives have left many lessons for us. This week we will concentrate on the book of Ruth, but it will be the life of Naomi, the mother-in-law, whom we will focus on. As we use the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, we will see what we can learn from her life.

Focal Passages: Taken from Ruth 1:1-4:22

Discuss:

God Uses the Famines of Life to Bring Blessings:

  1. Can someone give a short summary of why this family of Judea lived in Moab, and what occurred in the first several years? Can you relate to a lifestyle that seems to bring grief every way you turn, and can you share?
  2. Read Ruth 1:6 & 14. If you were Naomi, would you have made the decision to return to Bethlehem? Why?
  3. Explain how you would reason (for or against) Naomi seeing any blessings in her life since coming to Moab.

God’s Love is Not Exclusive:

  1. In a moment we will read Naomi’s outpouring of grief at her circumstances; however, how would you explain her relationship with both daughters-in-law that they would desire to go with her?
  2. Read 1:19-21. How do you perceive the heart of Naomi toward God? Can you share a time when you questioned God’s love for you and your faith was shaken?
  3. Naomi could see only the events that had occurred in Moab; what are some scriptures that would have been helpful to her know (both OT or NT)?
  4. According to Romans 8:28, what would God do with her life?

God’s Plan is Greater:

  1. Can someone give a brief synopsis of what happened after Naomi returned to Bethlehem (leaving out the end)?
  2. Read 4:15a. Who were the people talking about? How do you think Naomi felt as she held Obed in her arms?
  3. List some of the miraculous results that God brought about even though the road had been a very painful one.

Close:

One is so focused on Ruth as the main character in this short book that we often overlook the harsh years that Naomi lived through. Her husband (probably) made the decision to move to the heathen land of Moab. Although there is no mention of the age of her boys, they grew old enough to marry while living there. Their marriages to Moabite women, especially after the death of their father, had to have been a trial to Naomi, but we know she must have treated them with tremendous love and respect. Otherwise, they would not have desired to go to Bethlehem with her, although Orpah was, in the end, persuaded to return to her own parents. Although Naomi did not verbalize a bitterness toward God, asking friends in Bethlehem to call her “Mara” (bitter) must have been her heart’s attitude. She could never have imagined that the simple act of bringing Ruth back to Bethlehem would result in her being great-great-grandmother to King David, and Ruth ultimately being in the line of the Messiah, Christ Jesus.

In our own lives, we can sympathize with the times of trouble Naomi experienced. We have days of crisis, with a rare day here and there that is peaceful and quiet. And often our valleys get so low, we question God’s love for us, His presence with us, and His plan to bring good out of our situation. Perhaps this story of Naomi will be one that will inspire you to recognize God’s miracles are not confined by our past, our race, or our heritage, and He is weaving a purpose that will result in amazing outcomes. He will use truly unlikely circumstances to bring about a beautiful end and a deliverance.

Memory Verse: Ruth2:10: So she fell on her face, bowed down to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?” (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Do you ever fall down before the Lord, bowing yourself to the ground, and asking Him, “Why have I found favor in Your eyes, that You should take notice of me, since I am a sinner?”

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | July 16

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samson
July 16, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It is not unusual for expectant parents to desire a particular goal for the baby’s future (for instance, perhaps becoming part of the family law firm). Do you know someone who is an example of such a life, and what has been the outcome?

As we continue looking at Bible characters whose lives have much to teach us, we come to the powerfully strong Israelite, Samson. Using the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, this colorful, yet wayward, man had a future ordered by God. As the last in the line of judges of Israel, he lived a life that will encourage many who have wondered if God gives second chances.

Focal Passages: Taken from Judges 13:1 through 16:31

Discuss:

God’s Promises Are Filled with Power:

  1. Read Judges 13:1. What was the condition of the people of Israel after the last judge had died? How long were they in captivity this time?
  2. Each time Israel found themselves enslaved by other nations, what did they eventually do?
  3. In verses 2, 3 & 5, how did God act in grace toward His people? What was the promise and purpose for Samson that God gave his mother?

God’s Promises Can Be Derailed by Our Actions:

  1. Will someone paraphrase the next years of Samson’s life? What was his greatest hindrance to God’s perfect plan for him? Read 1 John 2:16. Does this sum up his actions?
  2. Read Jeremiah 29:11. What would you do differently if you had known from a child that God’s had a specific plan for your life, that would give you “hope, and a future”?
  3. What are some examples of God’s ideal plan for you, and how can you wreck what He wants to accomplish? (For example, marriage is His perfect plan, unfaithfulness and divorce can thwart it.)
  4. When you ruin the plan God had for you, what does He do? Read Romans 8:28,29. After receiving forgiveness (1 John 1:9), how does this change the consequences?

God’s Promises Are Forever Promises:

  1. Read 16:28-30. Samson knew how badly he had hindered God’s plans for his life, and begged God for one more chance. What did God do?
  2. What lesson can you learn from the continual backsliding that Samson did, and yet, when he cried out to God, God helped him?

Close:

It is hard to read these chapters in Judges on the life of Samson, and not have questions and concerns about the immoral way in which he lived his life, yet was used mightily by God. Being brought up to be Israel’s deliverer from the Philistines, as an adult he went from one sinful situation to another. Yet somehow, in the timing of all the years that he judged Israel, he apparently had a faith so profound that he is listed in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11:32.

We can learn much from Samson’s life. God promised that he would be used for a specific plan and purpose, and nothing could take that away. He promised it to Samson’s mother, and it was not conditional on Samson never straying from the path of righteousness. We also were created by God for something above and beyond all we can ask or think, but we must live lives of faithfulness to see that purpose fulfilled. We also can take comfort in knowing that the backslider can return to the God he left for the world and will find Him waiting with arms open wide. That is a blessed reassurance. The cry of our heart should always be that the Lord would make Himself so real to us that we recognize answers to our heart’s requests as quickly as they come. Nothing fills you with the security of being loved, as seeing Him fulfilling promises to give you a life full of His unmerited favor.

Memory Verse: Judges 6:28: Then Samson called to the Lord, saying, “O Lord God, remember me, I pray! Strengthen me, I pray, just this once, O God, that I may with one blow take vengeance on the Philistines for my two eyes!” (NKJV)

Group Notes | July 9

Flannelgraph of Faith: Gideon
July 9, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Fear can be a mild stress that causes us worry, or a paralyzing dread that almost immobilizes us, often because we have no control over a situation. Can you share an example?

Today we begin a new series based on the visual teaching from decades ago: the flannelgraph. Although we will use it along with today’s technology, we want to reframe the stories learned from childhood of the heroes of faith, and see how their lives give us insight for applying the lessons to a walk of faith today.

Focal Passages: Taken from Judges 6:1-40, 7:1-25, 8:1-35

Discuss:

The Background:

  1. Read Judges 6:1,2. Why did God have to chastise the Israelites, who had been in the Promised Land about forty years? What did they do next (vs 2)?
  2. When things got even worse, what were their actions (vs 6)? How is that exactly like people today (9/11 is a great example!)?

God’s Solution:

  1. In verses 7-10, God lets Israel know why He was upset with them, but in His grace, He would provide a deliverer. Read verses 14-17, as the Lord calls Gideon. Who does Gideon remind you of, as he tries to get out of the job of delivering Israel (Exodus 3:9ff)?
  2. How is that like our lack of faith when God calls us to move out of our comfort zone?

God’s Victory:

  1. By the end of chapter 6, how many men did Gideon have, to fight against the Midianites? In 7:1-7, what conversation does Gideon have with God?
  2. How many men did Gideon end up with? Will someone explain why God chose those who brought the water to their mouth to drink, to be those who would go with Gideon?

Gideon’s Final Years

  1. Read Judges 8:22-27. Why is it so unbelievable that Gideon “became a snare” to Israel, after all that the Lord had done for him?
  2. Asking ourselves the same question, how many times has God done something miraculous for you, only for you to leave Him for a season?

What Are Some Applications?

  • Defeating fear requires faith
  • Defeating fear requires Focus
  • Defeating fear requires Fidelity

Close:

Israel had turned away from the God who had delivered them from Egypt about eighty years prior. They had begun to worship the foreign gods and live as the heathen nations around them. God had to reprimand them for their sinful ways, giving them as slaves to the Midianites until they were ready to turn back to Him.

Gideon, a real person in a real-life situation, teaches us that men’s hearts, no matter the lifestyle or their era, never change. When God chose Gideon to deliver Israel, he begged for a sign that he was doing what God wanted. Today, we also might desire a tangible indication we are in His will, but it is our step of faith that God is looking for. We must discipline ourselves to be in His word so much, that it becomes part of who we are, always listening for Him to speak through the verses.

After Gideon’s miraculous experience with the Midianites, we would assume his time of judging Israel was with a focus of bringing the nation back to the One true God. But Gideon, in a strange move, took his eyes off God and repeated Aaron’s offense by making a golden object of worship. Letting our attention become misplaced onto things of the world is a sure way to get away from God. Israel went through generation after generation of faithfulness, then backsliding—doing evil, being chastised, and back to fidelity. How much God desires that we remain faithful, trusting Him no matter what comes our way! He is not our God only when things are going well: we must have such trust that the greatest hurts we bear are carried, knowing He is working in our lives.

What are your “Midianites,” and are you trusting the Lord to help you defeat them?

Memory Verse: Judges 6:16: And the Lord said to him, “Surely I will be with you, and you shall defeat the Midianites as one man.” (NKJV)

 

 

 

 

Group Time | July 2

The True Definition of Freedom
July 2, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

The very word, freedom, conjures up an incredible number of ideas, synonyms, or lifestyles! Can you share what immediately comes to mind when you hear “freedom”?

Today, as we celebrate the date commemorating the birth of America, we are going to look at the true meaning of “freedom,” and see what God’s word says about it. In doing so, we’ll find we need to be giving Him glory for the greatest freedom life will ever bring: liberty from a sinful and condemned lifestyle to a surety of eternal life with Him.

Focal Passages: Titus 3:1-8; Galatians 4:3-7.

Discuss:

Freedom Requires Submission

  1. Read Titus 3, verse 1. What does Paul say you must do in order to fulfill your obligation for your freedom?
  2. What are some instances of this submission? When can it be disregarded?

Freedom Requires Humility

  1. Read verse 2. One of the hardest instructions to obey is true believers must not be given to slander—or “evil speaking”—against another. How do you justify this in your own life, or when do you think it may not apply? (Did you say social media?)
  2. What is the second command in this verse? What is the source of strife (quarreling)? Read Proverbs 28:25.
  3. How are you supposed to treat others?

Freedom Requires Reflection

  1. In verse 3, how does Paul describe those who are not saved, including you, before salvation? Think for a moment about girls in the past couple of years who were freed from kidnappers. How would they view freedom had they not been held captive for a period of time?
  2. What was your condition before salvation? How do you feel now to know you have been set free from the chains of death and hell? Read Gal. 4:3-7.

Freedom Requires Release

  1. Read Titus 3:4-5. Why did Christ save you? In His mercy, what did He do for you?
  2. Read Ephesians 2:1-3. Does this explain your inability to be saved because of what you did to deserve it?

Freedom Requires a Future

  1. Read verses 6-7. What is your reward for the freedom you have through salvation?
  2. Early pilgrim voyages to America were done for what hope? If there was no future promised by freedom, what would be the benefit?

Freedom Requires a Response

  1. Read verse 8. What are you obligated to do once God has shown you mercy and saved you? Who has the responsibility to “go into all the world and teach the gospel”? (Matt. 28:19.)

Close:

A popular saying in America is “Freedom Isn’t Free.” We all know this statement means your freedom was bought by blood—that of the soldier for physical freedom, and that of Jesus Christ for spiritual freedom. Both carry a huge responsibility on the part of the one who has benefitted from the one who paid with his life.

Paul recognized the obligations each carried, and laid them out for us in today’s passage from Titus. Now we need to take these truths and internalize them, making them our aftermath of salvation. Our responsibility is that we can comfort and teach others with the good news. Take this week to reflect on the paths you have walked, and life prior to your salvation. Can you now look back and see God was guiding you and taking care of you even then? Write the instances down as they come to you, and see the good hand of your God was preparing you for the day you would cry out to Him for freedom from your sins, for the gift of eternal life, and then spread the good news of salvation as you love your neighbor!

Memory Verse: Titus 3:4-5: “But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit.” (NKJV)

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | June 25

This is Your Life
June 25, 2017
Charles Billingsley

Open:

If you could use one word that describes the present condition of your life, what would that be (happy, overwhelmed, etc.)? Explain if you would like.

Today, as a congregation, we say goodbye to our worship leader, Charles Billingsley. We do so with sadness because he is moving so far away, but with joy that he has placed doing God’s will above his own desires. As we know, being in the center of God’s will is the only foundation on which to build a great life.

Focal Passage: Acts 16:6-34

Discuss:

The Great Life Begins with Surrender

  1. To surrender ourselves to Jesus, what must we know about Him?
  2. What is the difference between the “ways” of God, and the “will” of God?
  3. Read verses 6-8. What was happening to Paul? Being hindered in heading toward two areas he felt he should visit, did he sit and wait for instructions or continue daily being faithful in what he had been doing? How is that a lesson for us?

The Great Life is Energized by Purpose

  1. In verses 11-15, what purpose did God have for sending them to Philippi? Did Paul consider any of his own desires as he carried out the mission God had given him? How can you support your answer with the verses so far?
  2. Read verses 20-24. Paul drove a demon from a girl who practiced divination. What was the result? Were they carrying out God’s plan and purpose when this imprisonment happened? How does that reinforce the memory verse (end of page 2)?

The Great Life is Sustained by Worship

  1. Read verse 25. Imagine yourself in the same circumstances; can you comprehend having a hymn-fest? What did the hymns indicate of the heart attitude of Paul, Silas, Timothy and Luke?
  2. Read verse 26. Their worship had power: what did God do for them? What do you assume they expected from their worship?

The Great Life is Motivated by Love

  1. Read verses 27-28. If this were a movie, there would be no such result from an earthquake! Paul never wavered from the path God had set him on. What was his first thought in these verses?
  2. In verses 29-34 we see the result of Paul’s love for God and for others. Can you compare that to the love you show as you carry out your daily activities?

Close:

Questions for you to consider: Am I totally surrendered to God? Am I energized by His plan and His purpose for my life? Am I sustaining my walk with him with a lifestyle of worship? Am I motivated by a genuine love for Him and a love for others?

The questions should allow you to fully know your own heart. It is so easy for us to hold back in some areas, because we feel we can control circumstances and not have to wait for Him to act. Do you spend enough time in His word that you are aware of His plan for your life? As Charles illustrated with the heavy fog, we only need enough faith to take the next step! It is not mandatory that we know the whole path. The faith comes in taking the one step we know He desires. Are you worshiping Him daily, spending time in His word, and perhaps having hymns and praise music on quietly in the background? A busy life limits our time to read, but knowing one or two verses well is better than reading a whole chapter while your mind is jumping from one subject to another. Meditate on a verse during the day when you have a few moments to yourself. If other thoughts interfere, take a second to jot them in a small notebook, so you can relieve your mind of forgetting about the matter. And, finally, what is your love “gauge” like?  Do you envision yourself always putting the other person’s needs before your own? Do you sincerely have a love for Jesus that exceeds your love for all others? If you lack in any of these areas, pray that God will help you as you surrender to Him daily, in every way.

Memory Verse: Luke 9:23: “Then Jesus said to them all, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’”

 

 

 

Group Notes | June 18

Act Like Men
June 18, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Today is the day set aside to give honor to fathers, but the truth is, not everyone has a godly—or even good—father. However, almost all have a father-figure who impacted our lives for good. Can someone share?

We take time on this day to look at the attributes of the man who has the qualities God highly values. Paul, finishing his first letter to the church at Corinth, included two small verses that can be used as a goal for anyone who desires to be “a man after God’s own heart” (Acts 13:22).

Focal Passages: 1 Corinthians 16:13,14; 1 Corinthians 13:1-7

Discuss:

Be A Man of Protection

  1. Read the two verses, focusing on 13a. Living in a world that seems to be coming more and more sinful, what are some obvious things a man would need to protect both himself and his family from?
  2. Thinking more deeply—and in a spiritual direction—what are some of the less apparent but more dangerous issues that one needs to be vigilant about?

Be A Man of Purity

  1. In verse 13b, what is the responsibility laid out here? Someone read Ephesians 6:13,14. In any situation where you are “standing firm,” what does that imply you are doing?
  2. In this case, Paul says to “stand firm in the faith.” How can you do that? Consider your life: are you impacting the world around you, or is it impacting you? (Don’t answer aloud unless you want to.)

Be A Man of Power

  1. Read verse 13c. Anyone raised on the Marvel or D.C. Comic Heroes knows what bravery is. What are some things brave men do?
  2. What are some character traits of a brave man?

Be A Man of Purpose

  1. Read verse 13d. Let’s assume Paul was not speaking of the physical body, although the Greek does not clarify. So, what should one show strength concerning?
  2. What do you do if you are faced with opposition? Do you have, as Dr. Falwell used to say, “stick-to-itiveness”?

Be A Man of Perfection

  1. Read verse 14. Last week we spent time discussing actions done without love as the motivator. Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-7. What is the bottom line?

 

Close:

There has never been a time in our country when the need for individuals who will stand firm in Jesus Christ has been so great.  Our children desperately need to know that their fathers are going to do everything in their power to see that they—the child—will safely arrive to adult status. There are times this goal doesn’t happen, but God will bless the man whose heart is fixed on Him.

The five actions Paul has laid out in these two short verses can equally apply to a woman, but some of Paul’s strongest words are used to encourage men to provide for his family, see that they are united following God’s principles, and be the loving leader that he has been anointed by God to be. Paul (Ephesians 5:25) equates the father’s role in a family to that of Christ loving the church, and giving Himself for it. If Christ knocked at your door, could you invite Him in, or would it send you into a dither? Do you understand that He sees and knows everything you are looking at, everyone you are talking to, and every conversation you have? He knows your thoughts before you speak them! Any man who does not fulfill this role will ultimately be judged by God. Praise Him if that does not fill you with fear, but with knowing you are running the race, trying to win the prize He has laid out for you.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 16:13, 14: “Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love.”

 

 

Group Notes | June 11

What Does Service Look Like?
June 11, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

What do you fear the most when you think of being called to help in any given task outside of your home? Do you consider yourself a follower or a leader?

When you asked Jesus Christ to save you from your sins, you believed He is God and that He paid your sin debt. You confessed those sins, and turned from them, as we are told in Romans 10:10. You may have wondered “what next?” Christ said in Luke 10:27 the two things He desires is for us to “Love the Lord your God,” and “Love your neighbor as yourself”— both beginning with the action of “love.” This week we will look at verses from the Sermon of the Mount to get a further grasp of what our service should look like.

Focal Passage: Matthew 5:13-16

Discuss:

We Are to Speak the Truth

  1. Read the verses from Matthew 5:13-16. In the simplest analogy, share what being salt to the world means for a believer. Does that describe you? How?
  2. What are the two main uses for salt? Did Jesus mean one, or both? Explain how we do each.
  3. Read Ephesians 4:15; what is necessary when we speak truth to the world?

We Are to Show Love

  1. In verse 14a, what is the responsibility of the believer? Read John 3:20, 21. Now answer the question from this perspective.
  2. What is the condition of much of the world in this age we are living? Based on these verses, will most people actively seek out a church to try to change their sinful behavior? Does that make verse 14a hold a deeper meaning?

We Are Not to Be Ashamed

  1. Read verse 14b. Can you briefly share a “soap box” you are passionate about, when fear of others’ attitudes become secondary to your fervor? How does this demonstrate our verse? Why are we not this outspoken for Jesus?
  2. Do you have a story of sharing the gospel, and what you learned from it? If it was negative, did that cause you to quit? Why was that the wrong decision?

We Are to Share the Gospel

  1. Read verse 15. Have you ever wondered if, when you stand before God, hundreds—perhaps thousands—of souls were standing nearby, all of whom you had the opportunity to witness to, but didn’t? Will anyone be in heaven because of you? Those are sobering thoughts! If you don’t share Jesus, who will? Discuss your thoughts for a moment.

We Are to Set the Pace

  1. Read verse 16. What is the result supposed to be, when we share the light of the gospel of peace?

Close:

When the moment came that gave you a choice to accept Jesus as God’s Son, who paid your debt of sin, and you said “Yes!” that was your first step of obedience—speaking the truth (the confession). Have you ever envisioned a pitch-black room, and realized what a small amount of light it takes to make those who are inside feel some comfort? Even something so tiny as a match from a “book” is enough to bring light into the room. If you could imagine yourself being that light, in a world of darkness, would it give you a jump start to witnessing? He asks that you love Him enough to share just what you know with those around you. You’re not asked to have a degree in Theology—just tell what He did for you. Failure to share Jesus is based in fear of being asked what you don’t know.  And yet in other areas—teams, movies, politics, etc.—we usually don’t let ourselves be beaten down by fear. Have you asked yourself why?

If witnessing is something you are insecure about, ask a stronger Christian to go with you, and carry a schedule of upcoming events from your church, and a few tracts, and begin by knocking on doors. Be laid back, with a low-key invitation to church. Start with a small goal of homes for the first week, increasing it until you reach a comfortable number. This is something that God cares passionately about, which should make it a priority for us! Pray that He would send the right person to go with you, and then for the courage to “let your light shine.”

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:16 “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

How Do We Let Our Light Shine?

  1. Consecration: Live your life in your own area of influence so well that others can think of nothing bad to say about you (Titus 2:7,8).
  2. Dedication: Work hard so that you don’t have to be ashamed before God (2 Timothy 2:15, 24).
  3. Motivation: Keep moving forward, even in the face of adversity (Philippians 3:13-15).

Personal Commitments

  1. Daily Bible Reading and study
  2. Committed to prayer

Group Notes | June 4

Not My Jesus: Christ In Me
June 4, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Family resemblances can be a very strong indicator of who someone is a relative of, can’t they? Have you had the experience of identifying some person’s family because of their facial features?

During the past several weeks, we have looked at the life of Jesus Christ from secular and Biblical historical evidence. You should have formed a solid foundation on which to build a relationship, especially when we examined passages that illustrate how much He loves you. This week we want to see if becoming His child will change your appearance or lifestyle so that others will be able to identify you as a child of God. As Acts 4:13 states, “they [the religious leaders] marveled…and realized they [the disciples] had been with Jesus.”

Focal Passage: Galatians 3:20-21; Romans 8:9-14

Discuss:
The World Does Not Control Us

  1. Read the verses from Galatians, and Rom. 9a. When you ask Jesus to forgive your sins and save you, what do you receive? How would you describe the power the Holy Spirit gives you?
  2. Perhaps an area in your life has been a trigger for a response that was not godly; what are some scriptures or “ways of escape” that will help you control your reaction and overcome this stronghold by the power of the Holy Spirit?

(BUT) God Controls Us

  1. In verse 9b, what is the spiritual condition of those who do not choose to obey the Holy Spirit’s leading?
  2. Read Romans 13:11,12. As you read this passage, whose responsibility is it to choose to obey God, rather than a past sinful lifestyle? Will God force you to obey? What are some factors that should enter as you choose your action?

(BECAUSE) He Dwells Within Us

  1. Have you ever been afraid, perhaps being alone as a child, and suddenly someone you loved came into the room? How did your feelings change? How is that analogous to God dwelling within you?
  2. We have life, resurrection power, and the ability to flee sin when the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us. Do you consciously think of your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit and care for it in that manner? Why or why not?

(AND) The Holy Spirit Leads Us

  1. Read verse 11. We sing “The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us!” Are you actively aware of that often? What causes you to think of it?
  2. Where does the He lead us? (Psalm 23 may help you think of some joyful places!)

(TO) A Life That Is Different

  1. Read verse 12-14. Give some examples of living a life that is set apart from the world.
  2. Has anyone ever asked you what makes you different? If not, have you asked yourself ‘why’?

Close:

Do you ever meet someone who seems to have a joy and zest for life that amazes you? Even their countenance exudes peace! That is the evidence that they have the sweet Spirit of God residing in their life. When we give the control of our lives over to let the Holy Spirit rule and reign, we should experience a relief and gladness that we no longer must carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. As we wake in the morning, we should be full of gratitude and delight for another day in His presence! Our “temple” (that is, our body) should be kept clean of filthiness and worldliness (James 1:21), our mouths should always speak what is truthful (Pro. 8:7), and nothing wicked should be set before our eyes (Psa. 101:3). If we could actively be conscious, as we go through our daily routine in the world, that we have the God of the universe within us, would we clean up our “house” and change what we see, speak, or do? Is that a description of your life, or do you fall short, letting the small irritating conflicts that Satan throws at you constantly steal your joy?

Take time this week to study the passages of a life filled with the Spirit, and then strive for the godliness that will set you apart from the world. Praise be to God if, when someone meets us, they immediately recognize us as someone who “has been with Jesus!” Pray for the strength, the sensitivity, and the obedience to give Christ our all.

Memory Verse: Galatians 2:20: “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.”

 

Group Notes | May 28

Not My Jesus: What Does Jesus Say About YOU?
May 28, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Love has become a common expression for everything from our feelings for a chocolate cake, pizza, certain cars to people we know. Can you share an example from your life when you’ve been challenged by the word “love”?

Having carefully examined evidence by secular historians showing that Jesus lived, reading records of the witnesses who saw Him through His ministry and after the resurrection, studying His own witness of Himself and the witness of God as to who He is, we should now know we can trust the truth of what He says about you or me in our relationship with Him. Let’s look at how He values those who choose to obey Him.

Focal Passage: John 15:1-27

Discuss:

You are Ready

  1. Read verse 2. What does Jesus say happens to us at salvation? What does this make you ready for?
  2. Perhaps you have a “green thumb”; what occurs when you take care of your flowers or plants? How does God take care of us?

You are Protected

  1. In verse 5a, what did Jesus say our relationship to Him is like?
  2. If you break a branch off a tree, what happens to it? Can we exist as believers, without Christ? Why?

You are Powerful

  1. Read 5b. How do we remain in Jesus? What is the evidence of a person who is abiding in Christ?
  2. What is promised to believers in this verse? What is the warning?

You are Loved

  1. Read verses 9-10. What are some terms you could use to describe God’s love for His Son (who was worthy)? Can you comprehend that Jesus loves us (who are unworthy) with that same love? How?
  2. How do we remain in His love? What is the greatest example that we know that Jesus obeyed God’s will, remaining in His (God’s) love?

You are promised Joy

  1. Read verse 11. What “things” was Jesus referring to?
  2. How much joy does He promise us if we love and obey Him?

You are His friend

  1. Read verses 14-15. What do we call those with whom we have a “waving” relationship? What about those with whom we share time, food, fun?
  2. In Amos 3:3, God asks, “Do two people walk hand in hand if they are not going to the same place?” This implies an answer of No! In verse 15, how does that confirm what Jesus is saying about our being called His friend?

You are Chosen

  1. What does Jesus say in verse 16? How should that impact our lives? When we “choose” anything, why does it become special to us just by the fact that we are making the choice to embrace it (a spouse, a car, a house, etc.)?

You are given great help

  1. Read verse 16. Does anyone remember the old hymn, “His Eye is on the Sparrow,” and if so, can you recall the first verse? If not, look at Matt. 6:30, 33, and John 14:16. Who is this Comforter? How will He help us?

You are Forgiven

  1. Have any of you seen a dead person or animal sit up? What can they do? How does this illustrate what God has done for us who believe? Read Romans 10:9, 10 if you need to clarify this.

Close:

Did you grow up in a dysfunctional family, where love was not a priority as much as discipline? Or possibly yours was just an undemonstrative family, and you never learned to show your love. Both are common, and make it harder for us to understand God’s love for us, as we are full of sin! Yet as we read the scriptures, Jesus not only speaks of His love for us, but also has shown it by dying for us, and we see that His is an active love, full of grace and longsuffering, with “mercies that are new every morning” (Lam. 3:22, 23). We should take heart! Phil. 4:13 assures us that through Christ, we can accomplish anything—showing love to the unlovely, grace to those who don’t deserve it, even prayer for our enemies to know Christ. A life full of joy is promised to us if we are steadfast in our walk with Him, not worrying about tomorrow. As the song says, we should not be discouraged because—if His eye is on the little sparrow—how much more does He love us, who are “but dust”! Carry that thought with you this week!

Memory Verse: John 15:11: “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.”

 

Group Notes | May 21

Not My Jesus: Who Did Jesus Say That He Is?
May 21, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Many people are skeptical of facts presented to them unless they can see for them-selves they are hearing the truth. Can you give an example from your own life?

This week we continue to examine the truth that Jesus Christ was/is, indeed, God, come in the flesh to the earth. We have looked at the skepticism surrounding His being the only begotten Son of God, even when He declared that He was the Messiah. Let’s study what Jesus Himself said about His deity, to determine if He was a fraud, a prophet or whether “truly, this Man was (is) the Son of God!” (Mark 15:39).

Focal Passage: John 8:12-58

Discuss:

The Light of the World

  1. Read verse 12. What did Jesus claim in this verse? Where does this light lead?
  2. Read Isaiah 9:2. How did Jesus fulfill this prophecy? How does He dispel the darkness that is in one’s soul prior to salvation?

God Incarnate

  1. In verse 23, where was Jesus saying He was from?
  2. John 1:14 gives what fact?
  3. Read John 14:9-11. How much plainer could Jesus have spoken?

The Messiah

  1. Read verses 25-28. Jesus knew He was going to die because of His claims. Would He have made such statements if He were not the Christ? Why?
  2. Read John 4: 25, 26, and Matt. 8:28,29. Were these two accounts valid? Why?
  3. Why did the religious leaders want to kill Him?

The Word

  1. Read John 1:1-4. Who is being referred to in this verse, and how do we know?
  2. Read Col. 1:15-17: How do these verses about Jesus Christ back up His claims to have been the Creator God?

The Sent One

  1. Verse 42: What does Jesus state to the religious leaders here? Again, does He know His life is on the line with these statements?

Close:

One of the greatest debates in all of history is a simple question: was/is Jesus Christ who He claimed to be: the Son of the living God? If a person will read the Bible, making notes of the facts it presents, they will find that it states He was God manifest in flesh, who came to the earth fully God and fully man, healed every kind of disease, raised the dead, taught, lived a sinless life in order to pay the penalty for sin for any who would accept the free gift of grace, was crucified, buried and rose again; was seen by many witnesses after the resurrection, and returned to heaven to wait until it is time for Him to return for believers. That is a lot of facts to base rejection on! Especially so, considering there were witnesses to almost all of it. And yet, people want proof. As we learned early in this series, no true historian rejects the evidence that Jesus lived. But was He the Son of God, a good man, a prophet, or a fraud? The quandary usually comes when unbelievers reject Him because they cannot reconcile that He is love, and yet allows evil to exist. But proof—which is something that is seen—is not faith, and “without faith, it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.” (Heb. 11:6) In the final analysis of a study of Jesus, it comes down to a decision: will the reader believe that Jesus knows who He says He is—the great I AM—or will they reject Him because life has dealt some hard blows? The biggest proof there will ever be is watching a wretched soul turn their life over to Jesus, and then seeing the new life emerge. What more proof could anyone ask than the complete healing of a soul? Do His bidding: seek those who are lost and introduce them to the Savior!

Memory Verses: John 8:12: “Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, ‘I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.’” through whom also He made the worlds.”

Study: Take some time at home to look up passages on “Light,” and find out how many times Jesus is spoken of as the light. Go to www.biblegateway.com or www.blueletterbible.org and find passages that will make the study on Jesus come alive for you! The deeper you go, the more you will want to learn!

Group Notes | May 14

Not My Jesus: What Jesus Really Said
May 14, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell
Video: Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., 1975

 

Open:

Thinking of driving on the Autobahn in Germany seems like a driver’s dream, especially when you’re stuck on a U.S. Interstate trapped behind cars going less than a stated speed limit. Why would no speed limit seem so tantalizing, and is that the way the Autobahn is in reality?

This week we want to carefully absorb some of the instructions for Christians, for a life blessed by God, from Jesus Himself. In this series, “Not My Jesus,” we’ve looked at the myths surrounding Jesus, the views the world has, Jesus’ own witness of who He is, and the witness of God the Father. Now we will look at several of His guidelines for happiness, apply those truths to our daily living and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal areas where we need to become more like Him!

Focal Passage: Matthew 5:1-12.

Discuss:

The Humble in Heart

  1. Read verses 1-3. Why does the Bible specifically say, “He opened His mouth and taught them”—does anyone remember?
  2. What characterizes someone who is “poor in spirit”? Why would they attain happiness?

The Mourners

  1. In verse 4, what type of mourners did Jesus mean?
  2. Read Luke 18:13, and 1 Tim. 1:15, 16. How do these two passages confirm the need for people to mourn their sinful state, and what does God do to comfort them?

The Inheritors

  1. What do you think of when you hear the term “meek”? What are some of the Biblical meanings of meek?
  2. When you think of something being “inherited,” what crosses your mind? How or why would these people inherit the earth? Someone read Phil. 4:11-13. How does being content within your circumstances give you blessings?

Those Who Hunger and Thirst

  1. Verse 6: When is the last time you were truly hungry, or extremely thirsty? How can you develop your spiritual appetite so that you desire God’s word daily, meditating on it even “in the night watches”?
  2. Read Job 23:12b. How does this passage illustrate verse 6 of Matthew 5? What will change in your life if you desire God’s word with the same craving you exercise in your food life?

 Close:

You’re probably wondering, how does the Autobahn illustrate our spiritual life? Many live their lives as if there are no rules or consequences, which isn’t the true reality. Yet the world assumes following Jesus is a life of do’s and don’ts, and perceive it as taking away everything they think they enjoy—their “speed limits” if you will. The truth is, Jesus says following Him results in a life of being blessed (happy). In today’s sermon, we were so privileged to hear a forty-two-year-old message by Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., as he reiterated that blessings come on the lives of those who live in a manner that pleases God. Just as we are pleased to give our approval to our children when they obey with a great attitude, so God chooses to bless us when we strive to live holy, sanctified lives. Is that something you desire, as Job did? After hearing the message, did you weigh your lifestyle against the message Jesus taught on living a life of peace with God? It’s never about rules: it’s about the heart attitude, and the desire to please the God who bought us with His own blood! This week, as you go about your daily routine, take your spiritual pulse often to make certain your heart is beating in sync with His. Share His love when the opportunity presents itself. What if God has placed you here for such a time as this?

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:1,2: “And seeing the multitudes, He went up on a mountain, and when He was seated His disciples came to Him. Then He opened His mouth and taught them saying.”

Group Notes | May 7

Not My Jesus: Who Is The Real Jesus?
May 7, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Many people are still living who can remember when any news written in newspapers or on the television could be believed. What do you think has taken place in the last several years to change this?

This week we continue to explore the person of Jesus Christ as written about in the Old Testament, and witnessed  to in the New Testament—all without error. We have looked at the various views the world has of Him, the witness of His own words as recorded in Scripture, and this week we look at the validation that God Himself has affirmed by His own words. As we absorb the wonder of His deity, power and glory, perhaps we will see an increasing growth in our own faith.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 1:1-14.

Discuss:

The Final Word

  1. Read Heb. 1:1,2. How had God spoken to His people prior to the New Testament? What changed with the coming of Jesus?
  2. Read John 1:1-5. If you truly believe that the Bible is God’s actual word to man, what evidence does God—who cannot lie—give as to who Jesus is?

God’s Only Representative

  1. In verse 3a, what did the word “image” (character) mean?
  2. Why does verse 3b signify the past tense of His actions? What other Scriptures can you think of that support this?*

God’s Greatest Joy

  1. Somehow I am convinced our emotions, which we try to hard to keep in check, are also the image of God–I know the angels rejoice, and I know our futile efforts at holiness must bless Him, just as our little ones do when they bring us breakfast in bed, and everything is a sloppy mess!
  1. Why did He bring God so much joy? Can we relate?

He Is God

  1. In verses 8 & 9 alone, how many different reasons did God give to confirm Jesus as God?
  2. Someone read Col. 2:9. How does Paul back up the verse in Hebrews? Can you think of other verses that reinforce that Jesus is God?**

He Is Creator

  1. What does God the Father say of the Son in verse 10? Scriptures abound that testify to His being creator. Can you think of any?

He Is Eternal

  1. What is going to perish and wear out (verse 11)?
  2. From Genesis (21:33), through the New Testament, Everlasting (Eternal) is one of God’s characteristics. What does He also bestow on us, when we become His child? (John 3:16)

Our Final Hope

  1. What does “hope” mean when spoken of in the New Testament? Why is Jesus the only hope we have? Read 1 Cor. 15:19 and Hebrews 11:1. Does this give you more “hope”?
  2. Can you give an example of His having given you hope when you felt at the end of your rope? How do non-believers make it through the difficulties of life?

Close:

It is mind-boggling to realize that, in our own country, nine out of ten people say they believe in God. And a reported 26% believe that the Bible is the actual infallible word of God. Yet as you ponder those two statistics, you would think the country would be well-filled with those who see Jesus as God—since scripture clearly says so. The sad truth is, only about 6% believe that. Can you imagine that out of every one-hundred people who cross your path (in the workplace, the mall, etc.), only about six of them hold Jesus Christ as their hope for eternal life?*** Since the largest Christian University is located here, most likely this statistic for Thomas Road attenders would be different. However, the reality still should cause us to desire to share Jesus to a lost and dying world! Is there any higher endorsement than God Himself? In Titus 1:2, Paul tells us that God cannot lie. That means every word He spoke in Hebrews 1 concerning Jesus Christ is Truth! Does that fill your soul with peace that passes all understanding? To know that you can be adopted as a child and heir by the Creator God should be overwhelming. To have access to His power to live a holy life, to overcome Satan, to have joy and peace—and so much more—should create in us a huge desire to not only worship Him in Spirit and in Truth, but also to want to declare to those whom we love and whom we meet that He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and NO-ONE gets to the Father unless they come through Jesus Christ! Share that this week!

Memory Verses: Hebrews 1:1-2: “God, who at various times and in various ways spoke in time past to the fathers by the prophets, has, in these last days, spoken to us by His Son, whom He has appointed heir of all things, through whom also He made the worlds.”

*4: John 19:30; Hebrews 10:12; **7: 1 John 5:7; ***Gallup polls, 2011, 2014

 

 

 

 

 

 

Group Time | April 30

Not My Jesus: The World’s View of Jesus
April 30, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Can you think of a time you became involved in something because you didn’t have all the facts about the situation? Would you share?

Our world has such a confused idea of Jesus Christ, and Who He is! We must be careful in conversation that we are not agreeing with a doctrinal statement someone is making until we know that their idea of Jesus is in line with the Word of God. As we saw last week, no serious historian denies that Jesus actually lived, but few believe Him to be the Son of God. This week we continue the new series in which we determine that our view of Jesus not only must be true, we must know why it’s true.

Focal Passages: Matthew 16:1-17.

Discuss:

The World is always looking for a sign

  1. Read Matt. 16:1-4. Had these scribes and Pharisees been following Jesus as He had been performing miracles? If so, what was the real reason for their statement in verse 1?
  2. What did Jesus say would be the evidence of His claim that He was the Messiah? If they had really wanted to believe, what would they have done?
  3. How is that like people today who beg God for a miracle (for the life, health, etc. of someone perhaps), and then they “will believe”? Can you discuss what comes to mind?

There are signs from above and signs from below

  1. In verses 5-12, what were the disciples missing? What had they seen—probably nearly every day—while they had been with Jesus?
  2. Yet Jesus still needed to warn them of the deceitfulness of false doctrine. Why did He need to counsel them to be careful not to be swayed by error?
  3. Taking the world religions individually, why did the Jews not accept Jesus as the Messiah the prophets had written of? Islam denies Jesus’ deity; whose word are they ignoring? They deny the crucifixion; last week, how many witnesses saw Jesus alive after the crucifixion? Hinduism embraces thousands of gods; can you think of Jesus’ own words that would refute this doctrine? Buddhism also denies He is the Son of God. Atheists For Christ leave out the crucifixion. How then, do they think they can be saved? (If you need to, look at the end!)
  4. Why do we need to be so diligent to teach the next generation there is only One Way?

The greatest revelation of who Jesus Is? Himself!

  1. In verses 13-17, what had Jesus asked His disciples? Who revealed this to Peter?
  2. If you were asked by anyone who He is, what would you say? What evidence do you have? (Hopefully, a changed life!)

 

Close:

Because the world does not have a correct view of Jesus Christ as revealed in the Scripture, it has gone crazy with its own rules for sinful lifestyles, making it vital that we know the Biblical guidelines God has set. Jesus knew the disciples were going to face “wolves” among the believers, and warned them in our focal passage to guard against accepting things at face value. Now, two thousand years later, we are in an even more precarious position, as we see our values undermined, not being allowed to have an opinion that goes against society, and being called out for “hate crimes” if we label Biblical sin as sin. Paul warned believers in Eph. 4:14 to not be carried away by every “wind of doctrine,” and in both letters to Timothy as well as Titus he warns us to hold fast to sound doctrine—that men, in fact, would come to hate it. We see this today all around the world. Doctrine—a scary word to many—is simply the set of principles God has established that His people may strive to live holy, sanctified lives. Paul writes in 1 Thess.  4:3, “For this is the will of God for you, your sanctification!”  Let us go forward toward that goal, reaching out in love to the many who have an inaccurate view of Him!

 

Jews: They expected someone who would rise as a military leader. Islam: Jesus Himself stated He and the Father are One (John 10:30); also, John 1:1-5; and denying the resurrection, they ignore the 515+ people who saw Jesus alive. Hinduism: Jesus stated, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life; no man comes to the Father except by Me” (John 14:6).  Atheists for Christ also ignore the witnesses who saw Jesus after the resurrection; they believe their good works will get them to heaven.

 

Group Time | April 23

Not My Jesus: The Case for Christ
April 23, 2017
Dr. Lee Strobel

Open:

Few things intrigue those of any age more than a good story! Books, movies, and personal adventures all lure us to listen attentively. Can a couple of you share a short story, perhaps one you’ve told a number of times because it is so interesting?

So often in Group Time we are encouraged to do nothing more as a witness than just “tell our story.” The world is anxious to hear of a true change of character that comes when someone turns their life over to Jesus Christ. This week we heard a story of a life completely changed by the word of God: Dr. Lee Strobel, a man who acknowledged himself to be an immoral, depraved individual, a lawyer by trade, and an avowed atheist who was changed by the gospel.

Dr. Strobel’s story: While he was living a life of complete degradation, he saw his wife accept Jesus as her Savior. Desiring to divorce her, he chose to wait to see if she would soon leave the “cult.” Instead, he saw her change before his eyes into a someone he admired. It caused him to take all his skills as a lawyer and intellect, studying to find the fallacies in Christianity. This led him to the truth that it took more faith to believe there is no God, than to believe that Jesus, is, in truth, the Son of God. After two years of study, he gave his life to Christ, and became a believer.

Think About or Discuss:

Early Accounts

  1. Looking back 2000 years, what conclusion must you draw when there is no serious historian who denies the existence of a Man, Jesus Christ? He was, it was written, “a doer of wonderful works” (Josephus, Antiquities, XVIII,33)?

Execution

  1. Even the same historians (at least four, perhaps more, outside of the Bible) wrote of his execution, and the part Pontius Pilate and the Jewish religious leaders played in it. If there is no debate about this fact, again—what conclusion must be drawn?
  2. Strobel stressed the fact that in law (his profession), witnesses to a statement are everything: no statement is accepted for fact unless two could be found. What do you remember about the two witnesses used to testify against Jesus? 

Empty Tomb

  1. Who saw the tomb empty? (Matt. 28). Why would the ones guarding the tomb run to their superiors to tell them what happened, and make up a lie, if Jesus was still in the tomb? Their lives, according to the Bible, would be forfeit if he had been stolen.
  2. Why would the disciples steal His body (as was rumored), and then continue to preach in His name, and eventually be willing to die for preaching Christ?

Eyewitnesses

  1. This one fact sets Christianity apart from all other religions. No other effort to reach God depends on the object of worship being dead, then alive. In doing a computer search for those who wrote on the resurrection, there are at least 17 who wrote that Jesus was alive after the crucifixion, and seen by over five-hundred people. All agree that someone would live for a lie, but no one would die for a lie, and yet the followers of Jesus, like Stephen, were martyred beginning in the early days after His death. This became Dr. Strobel’s pivotal point: that no one in law could discount the enormous number of witnesses to His life after the cross.
  2. The gospels all clearly record the number of people who saw and interacted with Jesus after His resurrection. Who were some of these people, and how did He intermingle with them?
  3. Josephus, the secular historian, admits that after the resurrection, many of His disciples who claimed to have seen Him continued to preach in His name. He ended his writing with “accordingly, perhaps He was the Messiah, concerning Whom the prophets have recounted wonders.” (Antiquities). Who else has changed the world as Jesus has?

 

Close:

What a story! The greatest evidence that Jesus is alive is that those who believe that He is Who He claimed to be, ask Him to take control of their lives, forgive their sins, and are made into new creatures! They are given a new heart, new desires for life, and new eyes. One of the most heart-rending statements was Dr. Strobel saying his small daughter was so scared of him when she was young that she would grab her toys and run to her room when he came home. Was he drunk? Would he yell? Scream? Throw things? Yet after he gave his life to Christ she saw a new Daddy emerge from the ashes. He said about six months after he became a believer, she asked if she could invite Jesus into her life, so she could be changed like her daddy had been. Could you ask for a greater testimony than that—that the child you have raised in fear now wishes to become like you? Anyone reading this study can have the same experience if you desire! Often someone will say, “Well, I just don’t believe the Bible is true.” Ask them to name a specific reference, and then help them work through the evidence. Google. Get extra help. But do whatever you can to show others that Jesus is alive, sitting at the right hand of God the Father, waiting to come back for His children. Let that be the ending after you have told your story: that they not wait too long!

Dr. Strobel: Believe+Receive=Become

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | April 16

Outsiders: Truly He Is The Son of God
April 16, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Sometimes it takes more than one circumstance to finally “connect the dots.” Can you think of an instance when this has been the case for you?

This week we finish looking at four people who were personally affected by the events surrounding the crucifixion, and their reaction to Jesus Christ. The centurion, doubtless having been involved from the night of the arrest to the last breath taken by Jesus, had the light of understanding hit him as he watched Jesus die. As all the dots began to be connected, this man, intimately involved in the crucifixion, made a profound statement that has gone into the very Word of God: “Truly this was (is) the Son of God!”

Focal Passages: Mark 15:20-39; Mark 16:1-7.

Discuss:

The Prologue

  1. Looking back at the events that led to the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, one’s mind finds it hard to cope with the series of situations that ended in such an inhumane way. What seems to have been the beginning of this ending (from a human view point)?
  2. As the jealousy among the Jewish religious leaders escalated, what was their next step?
  3. They plotted how best to get Jesus alone to kill him; who played into their hands? What do you think the other disciples would have done if they had realized Judas was about to betray Jesus (speculation)?
  4. What happened when Judas told the Jews where they could find Jesus? Who came to the garden the night Jesus was praying? What was their intention?

The Terrible Hours

  1. The Roman military came to arrest Jesus. Who was probably one of the main authorities, one who would give orders, and be on hand throughout the following day? What events did he see in the Garden of Gethsemane?
  2. When Jesus’ “case” went from the religious leaders to the governing authorities, how did they react? How did they keep “passing the buck”?
  3. What happened next?
  4. As Pilate ordered the crucifixion, who probably was on hand to carry it out?
  5. What did Scripture predict the Messiah would do (Isaiah 53:7)?

 The Death

  1. Who, more than likely, was in charge of the order to nail Jesus to the tree?
  2. As he watched the events now out of his hands, what did he see happen before his eyes?
  3. How did all those events affect him? What were his words?

The Victory!

Close:

As believers, we know the victory that was just around the corner! The hurt, pain, sense of loss, despair—and so much more—that the disciples and followers of Jesus went through during those three days can only be speculated about. We, on the other hand, have read “the end of the story,” and know that Sunday morning the tomb Joseph gave to the family of Jesus was empty! Tradition has it that the stone was guarded by the same centurion who had doubtless overseen the soldiers in the garden the night of His arrest, then in charge of those who carried out the crucifixion on Friday, and was afterward given charge to guard the tomb. If so, he could have seen the sight of the angel rolling the stone away, giving the guards on duty a shock so great they fainted. All we know for sure is that He came out of the tomb and appeared to the women, to the disciples, and before ascending into heaven, more than five hundred or more people. Seeing Him caused them to believe, and change the world. And He is still changing it today!

Which group do you belong in? Those who are familiar with the events of the crucifixion and have had your life changed because of it, or the group of those who know about it, but have no interest in a changed life? It’s a choice that must be made this side of eternity. One rich man in hell begged Abraham—across a chasm—to send someone to tell his family that hell is real, only to be told it was too late (Luke 16:19-31). Don’t wait—if God is speaking to your heart, answer Him today!

 

 

Group Notes | April 9

Outsiders: Pilate
April 9, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Few things can probably get on our “last nerve” as quickly as someone’s child whining until they get their way—and it may even be ours! Can you think of an example, and why do you think it is so irritating?

This week we look at the third of four characters who were affected by the events that took place the week before the crucifixion, and their reaction to Jesus Christ. Pilate, the governor of Judea, had to listen to the Jews as they relentlessly sought his approval to put Jesus to death. Though Pilate gives in under pressure, he could have made a different choice.

Focal Passages: John 18:28-40; John 19:1-16.

 

Discuss:

Complacency

  1. Throughout the focal passages, you read of Jesus being brought before Pilate; what did Pilate keep repeating that seemed to indicate he wanted to avoid making the decision to kill Jesus?
  2. Last week we saw that the religious leaders were concerned their positions of authority would be lost if He continued to draw followers. What did Pilate have to lose?
  3. How like parents who finally cave in from a child’s continual whining was Pilate as the crowd continued to cry out for Jesus’ death? Why did he do this?

Confusion

  1. Read verses 33-38. These verses serve to build a judgment against Pilate. How? He was confused, and kept asking questions, but did not seem to understand he was hearing truth as Jesus answered each question. Do you ever run from the truth of something because you are confused?
  2. Pilate heard Truth from Jesus in these verses. If he had had any genuine interest, what options did he have as governor that he could have exercised at this time?

Compromise

  1. Read 19:6b-8 and 15b-16. Pilate knew there was nothing that warranted Jesus dying, yet he finally gave in. He looked for ways to avoid responsibility for His death, but how did God see his actions (verse 11)?
  2. Read verses 7 and 8 again, and Matt. 27:19. Why do you think Pilate was afraid after hearing these two statements?
  3. We can all see ourselves in the actions of Pilate, as we look at our own life when in a situation we don’t want to get involved in. Can anyone share as we close?

 

Close:

One can’t help but feel some empathy for Pilate as he was placed in the situation where he was asked to give the order to crucify a Man he felt was innocent. And yet in the end—just like parents whose children don’t give up—he folded when the Jews played their Ace, that Caesar was their only king (19:12). He knew if Caesar heard of the turmoil, his reign could be ended. Pilate, if anything, was a politician, hired by Rome to keep peace in the region of Judea. Now, with Jesus, he had to choose between doing the right thing, or giving in to the anarchists who wanted Jesus killed. Pilate heard Jesus’ answers, was told He called Himself the Son of God (19:7,8), and was afraid. He, like so many today, had received the truth and hit a “Y” in his life when a choice could be made to learn more of Jesus, or take the world. How often do you find yourself taking the easy way out, because you have become too comfortable with the world or don’t want to deal with the continual yelling? Pilate didn’t want to deal with this problem and shake up his world! He seemed to think “washing his hands” would eliminate his responsibility. When we pass on an obligation that we know must be made, what do we call that? Passing the buck? Don’t pass the buck on making a decision that will determine your eternal destiny: if you have heard of Jesus but side-stepped the issue, make your choice and leave the world behind. His Truth could have set Pilate free (John 8:32)!

Memory Verse: John 18:37b: “…for this cause I was born, and for this cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice.”

Group Notes | April 2

Outsiders: One for All
April 2, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Going into “survival mode” in order to keep a job, one’s family, or even one’s position of influence or way of life can result in actions that are sometimes ruthless! Can you think of an example (it can even be from the Scripture)?

This week we look at the second of four characters who were affected by the crucifixion, and their reaction to the life of Jesus. Caiaphas, the high priest, was so fearful at his loss of position that he plotted His murder to the extent of finding people willing to lie under oath.

Focal Passage: John 11:45-57.

Further Passages: Matt. 26:57-68; John 2:19-22.

Discuss:

The world is always looking for another way

  1. Read Matt. 26:59. How far were the Jewish religious leaders willing to go to bring about the death of Jesus? What was more important to Caiaphas, learning the truth about Jesus or stopping Him before he lost the power of his position as High Priest?
  2. Read John 11:48. What were the religious leaders afraid of? How is that like today, when people we know, or work with, tell false accusations against you or someone you know, to keep or advance in their job? What is the difference—or is there any?

Jesus claimed to be able to do what no one could imagine

  1. Read verse 60b, 61. What was Jesus referring to? (John 2:19-22)
  2. Read Isa. 29:13. How does this verse illustrate the blindness of the religious leaders?

Sometimes in the most difficult moments of life, He remains silent

  1. Read verses 62-64. What did Jesus just tell Caiaphas? Was he now at a crossroads, able to choose to believe Jesus, or annihilate Him to retain his own position? Would he be responsible at judgment for his choice?
  2. Can you share a time when you thought Jesus was being silent, when He was actually working on your behalf?
  3. Jesus was not powerless while silent! Why is He willing to test your faith when He knows His timing is perfect? Read James 1:3,4. How does He want us to react?

Jesus’ plan was the one so desperately needed

  1. Read verses 49,50. What was significant about Caiaphas’ statement?
  2. What did it provide?
  3. Read Romans 5:15, 18. What did the death of this One Man accomplish?

Would you be willing to be “all in” for Christ?

Close:

We can probably not comprehend the group of religious leaders gathered to take down the Creator of the universe. Caiaphas is a great example of God using many different types of people for His work (as He did with Pharaoh.) Don’t ever assume because someone is plying “religion” as their trade, that they are in a close relationship with Jesus Christ! And we all have heard the story of the crucifixion so many times that we must concentrate as we read, begging God to give us a fresh perspective. Caiaphas had been ruling as High Priest for about 17 years (it is ironic that he lost his position soon thereafter), and enjoyed power and prestige; now it was threatened because of the popularity of One Man, and the entire group was afraid of losing control. Is that why we falter in our faith? Have you considered something so insignificant as “worry” being because you lack control of a situation? Taking Jesus at His word, having faith that His silence is working to bring about His timing for your good, is critical in your walk with Him, and your growing in faith. Let the evidence of His own testimony (“I am He” John 4:26, “It is as you said” Matt. 26:64) cause you to examine the depth of your trust in His perfect work on the cross, and His perfect timing for your plans. You will not regret it when you get through the trial!

Memory Verse: John 11:50: “…nor do you consider that it is expedient for us that one man should die for the people, and not that the whole nation should perish.”

Group Notes | March 26

Outsiders: Jesus at the Center
March 26, 2017
Charles Billingsley

Open:

Sometimes we can attend a function, meeting, or study that is really important, but sit there feeling very disconnected from the group for any of a number of reasons. Can you think of an example?

This week we begin a new series, looking for four weeks at people who were part of the crucifixion of Jesus, but did not recognize His deity, and yet were touched by His grace. Whether their heart was changed, we will not know until eternity. Is it possible we—or someone we know—could hear the story of Christ week after week, be touched by His power, but never open our hearts to Him? Let’s look at the story.

Focal Passage: John 18:1-11

Further Passages: John 10:17-18, Luke 22:49-51, 52,53; Matt. 26:53,54; Rom. 8:38, 39.

Discuss:

The Power of Jesus is Undeniable

  1. Someone read John 1:3 and Rom. 1:20. What is said of Jesus? In Romans, what gives evidence of a Creator? How would you describe His power?
  2. Read John 18:1-7. When Jesus said “I AM HE,” what was the significance of the words? We think of people falling backwards; consider if the soldiers fell forward, or their legs gave out: what would be their posture? What Scripture would have been fulfilled in the lives of the men who fell?

The Love of Jesus is Unconditional

  1. Read verses 8-9. Who was Jesus concerned for as the guards came to arrest Him?
  2. Read Col. 2:13,14. What kind of love would cause someone to die for persons so vile as to be “dead” in their sins?
  3. Read Rom. 8:38, 39. How would you describe unconditional love? Do you struggle with loving like that (think—don’t answer aloud unless you desire)?

The Grace of Jesus is Indescribable

  1. Read verse 10. What was significant about Malchus’ position in Jewish hierarchy? What was Peter’s intent (probably)?
  2. Read verse 11. Who can tell what happened next (from Luke 22:51)? Why was Malchus not “deserving” of the grace of Jesus?
  3. When you reflect for a moment, how many people owe you something—perhaps money? Does it bother you? How does that compare with the grace you received from God?

Close:

There are not enough words for us to describe the power of God, with our finite minds and vocabulary. How can we comprehend a universe where the stars alone exceed a number over 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000—and He knows them all by name? Such power is indescribable. The creation (Rom. 1:20) alone testifies to all men that there is a Creator. When Jesus answered, “I am He,” He was using the words God used for His Name: the great I AM. It’s scary to think that perhaps we’ve become so used to going to church, talking about the Lord, singing, praying and even praising Him, that He no longer is held in such high esteem that we, like Isaiah, would cry out, “Woe is me!” To be the recipient of the kind of love available to men by calling on His name is unfathomable. To have Him remove your vilest sins, casting them as far as the east is from the west, is incomprehensible, and yet we get upset when He does not answer our prayers, or give us what we want. Our knowledge is a drop in a bucket and His is as limitless as possible, and yet we often treat Him like a servant, or a genie in a lamp. We all need to fall to our knees and cry “Holy, Holy, Holy, is the Lord God Almighty!” Won’t you take the message of salvation you’ve been given and tell those whose hearts need to be changed by His love that it is available to them? It matters so much!

Memory Verse: John 3:17: “For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.”

Thoughts to Take Away:

  • (Verse 3): The soldiers came with “lanterns and torches” against the Light of the World;
  • They came with weapons against the Prince of Peace;
  • (Verses 4-8): Jesus was in Total Control: He knew all things; He went forward; He took the initiative; His words took them to the ground in response to His majesty; He told them what to do;
  • Nothing can stop the will of God;
  • We are protected by His love; we are perfected by His love;
  • As trials come, will we flee or fight?

Quote: “For evil to flourish, it requires only for good men to do nothing.” Edmund Burke.

 

Group Time | March 19

Storytellers: The Story of a Servant
March 19, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell, with Dr. David Wheeler

 

Open:

Another week! What exciting story, game, or piece of information happened this week that you could hardly wait to share?

This week we finish the short series on the importance of sharing the story of our encounter with the living Christ. We want to focus on the story of someone who lived—more than likely—as a rejected woman, but ended up changing a village with her testimony. Is it possible our reputation could be any worse—and our testimony be any greater?

Focal Passage: John 4:1-30, 39-42

Discuss:

See the Worth of Every Person

  1. Read John 4:1-7. What were some of the reasons the trip through Samaria was unusual? How did the Jews view Samaritans, and women in particular?
  2. What was Jesus’ physical condition as He sat at the well (verse 6)? What would be “natural” in that moment?

See Them the Way Christ Sees Them

  1. Read verses 7-10. What did Jesus see as He spoke with the woman who came to the well?
  2. Read verse 11. What is significant about the lack of a dipper? How would you react if you needed to share a drink with someone who was “unclean”?

See the Value of the Message

  1. Read verse 10b. What was He trying to get her to ask for?
  2. Think: How much time each week do you intentionally put yourself in a place where you will meet people who need to hear your message?

See the Importance of Telling Them

  1. Read verses 28-30. What possibly took place within the woman’s heart that she would risk rejection by running back to town? If you could put yourself in her place, do you think her countenance had changed any, so as to be believed by the men of Samaria?

 

Do Whatever It Takes

  1. Read verses 40-42. What was the outcome of the extra time Jesus spent in Samaria?
  2. How often do you get out of your box to tell your story?

           

Action Applications:

  1. Everyone matters to Jesus! Be intentional in going to places where you will find the lost.
  2. Be willing to share not only your story, but also minister to needs; would Jesus have drunk from her dipper, had she gone ahead and gotten Him water?
  3. He gave her respect, even though she was a woman of low virtue; He “valued” her.
  4. Be willing to inconvenience yourself if you have an opportunity to share your story with more people, because of the one.
  5. Pray that God would put you in a pond where there are many fish!

 

Close:

As you watch a movie or read a book, do you get caught up in the story line, and live the situation? If so, you’ll be able to envision and empathize with the woman who went to the well. She probably waited until the other women had come and gone—after all, it was possible she had been intimate with several husbands in the village—and she was not a popular person. The only ones who showed her attention more than likely were the men who used her. Yet as she approached the well, there sat a Jew, who with compassion in His eyes, spoke to her as if she were of value, and asked for water. The conversation is not all recorded, but He must have made such an impression that she ran back to the town to tell those who would listen that it was possible the Messiah was in Samaria! She had a story that changed the lives of a town. If you went outside your comfort zone, would you find a group who needs to hear your story, that there is Someone who loves them, died to pay for their sins, and is not willing that any go to hell, but can receive forgiveness and eternal life? Pray God will use you to share your story!

Memory Verse: John 4:10: Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked Him and He would have given you living water.”

 

 

Group Notes | March 12

Storytellers: “Story Takers”
March 12, 2017
Matt Willmington

 

Open:
What exciting story or piece of information (ball game, book, movie, etc.) did you share with someone this week? Did you think to examine why you did this?
Last week we looked at one of the stories in the New Testament, applying principles to help us share the story of our salvation with people we meet. Today we are going to look at exactly what that story should look like, and where we can share it.

Focal Passage: Matthew 9:1-13, Mark 2:1-17

Discuss:
What Is the Story?
1. There are usually both “bad” parts and “good” parts in any story.
a. What is the best part of God’s story? (John 3:16) He loves us!
b. What is bad about our story? (Rom. 3:10, 23) We deserve punishment.
c. What did God do for us? (1 Pet. 3:18) Jesus paid it all!
d. What does He give us? (Rom. 10:13, Eph. 2:8, 9) The free gift of salvation.
e. What is God’s promise? (Rom. 8:38,39) Eternal life with Him.

TAKE PEOPLE TO JESUS
2. Read Mark 2:1-12. What were some of the anxieties these four friends had for their paralytic comrade? What was their major concern?
3. Why were they determined to get him to Jesus?
4. Are you so concerned about your friends, that you will take them where they can hear the gospel? If it’s not your responsibility, whose is it?

TAKE JESUS TO PEOPLE
5. Read Matt. 9:9-13 and Luke 5:28-29. What are several reasons that made Jesus’ action of calling Matthew uncommon?
6. What were three immediate responses of Matthew to Jesus’ call? What was courageous about him calling his “IRS” friends?
7. If you knew your story would bring this result so quickly, would you run to tell it to everyone?

TAKE JESUS’ BURDEN
8. Read Matt. 9:35-38. What is your main concern when meeting a friend whom you feel is not saved? What are some things Jesus felt and some things He did?
9. What are some things you can do for unsaved friends?

Action Applications:
1. Only you know if you have been changed by God. If you have, then realize your story is simple:
1) God loves you;
2) You were a sinner who deserved to be punished;
3) Jesus paid your sin debt with His death on the cross;
4) You have been given full pardon for your sins the moment you ask Him to save you;
5) You will spend eternity with Him!

2. Be committed to having a team of friends pray for lost loved ones or those you are burdened for, and work to bring them to where they can hear the gospel; know God wants them to be saved, and praise Him for any opportunity;
3. Invite friends to your home for a meal at a time when other Christians will be there; dig deep to find courage to be hospitable, despite what others may say;
4. Serve those who are in need at every opportunity! Have compassion on the lost, and pray that God will surround those you have a burden for with Godly people.
5. Share your story at every opportunity!

Close:
Our story is unique: it is ours, and no one else will have the same experience. Does it bother you that you can’t think of a time, a moment, or an instance when you became a child of God? Perhaps that was not meant to be your story but someone else’s! Were you changed in some way? Probably. It is hard to get used to witnessing, but recent statistics show that even in one’s home, only about 3% of children and grandchildren know the testimony of their parents. Does that convict you? That would be a great place to begin telling your story! The only thing you will take to heaven are the souls whom you lead to Jesus Christ. Don’t you want those to be your family, friends or your circle of influence? Pray diligently that God would multiply your faith this year, and burden you with two or three that you can pray persistently for, with heartfelt compassion and love. You cannot save them, but you can introduce them to the Savior.

Memory Verse: Matt. 9:38: “Therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.”

Quote to remember: “Do we own the lostness of our community?”

Group Notes | March 5

Storytellers: The Story of Sight

March 5, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Nearly everyone has a favorite story that they love to share, whether it’s for encouragement, humor or pure enjoyment. Although we have only time for a couple, will someone share their much-loved story?

For three weeks, we are going to look at some of the true stories that were written about Jesus’ ministry, trying to identify the characteristics of the storyteller, and decide what points he was trying to make as he re-told the events. This week we will look at the story of Jesus as He restores sight to a man blind from birth.

Focal Passage: John 9:1-27

Discuss:

The Beginning of a Story

  1. Read John 9:1-3. What were some of the main points about the man who had been born blind?
  2. Did the man need faith to obey the instructions of Jesus? Why or why not? (For a parallel passage to study, read 2 Kings 5:9-12.)

The Power of a Story

  1. Read verses 6-9. What were some of the reasons this man felt an urgency to assure people that he was the one who had been healed?
  2. If this had been you, what would have been your reaction or feelings?

The Faith of a Storyteller

  1. Read verses 10-11. Why was he able to be convincing as he told of the experience with Jesus?
  2. Which was his greater determination, to give Jesus the credit for healing him, or be afraid of what the Jewish leaders would do to him? Why?

The Courage of a Storyteller

  1. Read verses 15, 25-26. Can you understand his frustration when the Jews kept interrogating him with the same questions over and over? Why?
  2. Read verses 18-20. What had his parents done?

The Importance of a Storyteller

  1. Read verse 4. What did Jesus say your important job is? Why? What is your story? Are you excited to tell it—as the blind man—or are you fearful of repercussions from external sources, as his parents were?

Action Applications:

  1. Decide if you have a story. If you have been granted the gift of salvation, you have something to tell the world;
  2. Be committed to sharing your story at each and every opportunity;
  3. Pray each day that God would bring someone who needs to hear your story;
  4. Share your story even though you may experience sarcasm, doubt or skepticism!

Close:

We all have a favorite part of some movie—a line or two that perhaps defines the entire storyline for us. In “Up Close and Personal,” a mentored journalist eventually eclipses her teacher, ending with a final scene where she accepts an award with words dedicated to his memory: “He told me to ‘just tell the story’.” Whenever life throws a curve ball, those words come to mind: just tell the story. 2 Corinthians 5:17 tells us that if “any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away, behold all things become new.” A new life, a new creation, old things passed away—what more could a good story have as a plot? If you have been saved, you have the story inside you, waiting for every opportunity to share it with someone who needs it. Pray this week that God would guide you to that person!

Memory Verse: John 9:39: For judgment I have come into this world, that those who do not see may see, and that those who see may be made blind.”

 

Group Notes | February 26

Overflow: He Is All You Need
February 26, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

If you could eliminate one item from your life that you think would lower your stress level, what would it be?

For several weeks, we have been looking at Hebrews 12 and 13, trying to identify the “weights” or sins that keep us tied to this world, and which take our focus away from living a full Christian life. This week we want to internalize the wonder that the God who created the universe still stoops to give sinners His grace for redemption and abundant life by being all we need.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 13:20, 21; Romans 12:2

Discuss:

He Is Our Peace

  1. Read Hebrews 13:20a. God is called the God of “peace.” What is the greatest peace God offers?  What really comes to your mind when you think of the word “peace”? These early believers were being persecuted for their faith, and were questioning their commitment to Christ. Can you share a time when your faith was challenged to the extent you wanted to quit?
  2. Read Jas 1:2, 3 (NAS, if possible). James also was encouraging believers who were having their faith tested. What other types of peace (besides salvation) does God give?

He Is Our Shepherd

  1. Read verse 20b and Matthew 9:36. How are people like sheep?
  2. What are some qualities of a shepherd? Why is God called your Shepherd (Psa. 23)?

He Is Our Deliverer

  1. Read verse 20c. It’s hard for us to identify with a religion of daily sacrifices; for this reason, the NT provides many verses that lay background for the amazing sacrifice of the crucifixion. Why did He want to shed His blood for us?
  2. Read Col. 2:13-15 (NAS, if possible). What has He delivered you from?

He Is Our Provider

  1. Read verse 21a. What are some of your daily needs? Just so you don’t miss it, what does this section of the verse assure you?
  2. What is He equipping you for? Why is that such an important point to grasp?

He Is Our Hope

  1. Read verse 21b. What does God wish to produce in you? How will He do this? Read Heb. 6:18, 19. What are some of the areas listed as provisions of God’s hope?

 

Action Applications:

  1. Take the first steps: identify any thing, person, or activity in your life that is replacing God;
  2. Be committed to walking away from whatever or whomever you listed in #1;
  3. Pray over your commitment every day;
  4. Share your burdens with Christians who have your best interests at heart; don’t walk this journey alone!

 

Close:

We have learned so many things over the past several weeks—things that, when put into practice, will begin to relieve the daily levels of stress that we seem to carry on our backs. Taking those first small steps toward getting freedom from debt, forgiving those against whom we have long-held grudges, discarding habits or companions that pull us down: all these and more begin to give us freedom to live as Christ would have us live, and to do so in His power, with His presence, and with our hand in His! Hopefully you have made the action points for the past several sermons into daily prayer practices, so that you keep making progress. Be sure you pray for those who are fighting battles just as you are, and if possible, meet with them for a time of encouragement.  And soon you will be able to say with Paul, “Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:37-39). Amen!

Memory Verse: Hebrews 13:21: “(May God) make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen.”

Quote: “The only place you cannot fail is when you are in God’s will!”

 

February 19 | Group Notes

Overflow: Risk and Reward
February 19, 2017
 Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Making any type of decision to eliminate bad habits, hurts or hang-ups from our lives can be exhausting—causing us to often forget to look for the rewards that follow. Can someone share an example when you reaped a benefit because you made a right choice?

For several weeks we have been looking at the “weights” or sins that can be heavy burdens in our lives, particularly debt and discouragement. This week we want to look at the rewards that come when we have gotten those encumbrances out of our lives, and are finally able to focus on the joy of lining our actions up with holy living.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 13:1-6

Discuss:

Truly Love One Another

  1. Read verse 1. What happens when you are angry at yourself, and someone needs you? Your answer should demonstrate the importance of ridding your life of those sins from Heb. 12:1. How are you supposed to love those who are your family in the faith?
  2. What are some characteristics of the love spoken of here? How does this line up with 1 John 4:20? Gal. 5:22 might help if you need some ideas.

Have Room to Help Others

  1. Read verses 2 and 3. Because of today’s uncertain world, this principle from God’s word is not as easy as it was in the time of the disciples. What are some alternate ways we can practice generosity to those whom we don’t know?
  2. In James 1:27, we are told to minister to widows and orphans; here are two more categories God is concerned that we care for. What are they? Read Isaiah 61:1; did Jesus do this? What are some practical ways you can do this?

Have the Marriage We’ve Always Dreamed About

  1. Read verse 4a. What type of marriage are you to strive for? Why does God want your marriage to be as beautiful as the relationship of Christ loving the church? Who all does a marriage affect?
  2. Read verse 4b, then read James 1:14,15. Where does adultery begin? If lust begins in the mind and heart, (thought), what does that tell us about temptations from online, books, etc.? What responsibility do females have in their dress code?

Have the Right Attitudes About “Stuff”

  1. Read verse 5. Do you know that God actually owns all that we have? What is a steward and how is that different from an owner? What are we commanded in verse 5?
  2. If you actually prayed about all your purchases before buying, would you think of yourself as being too materialistic?

Have the Right Attitude About God

  1. Read verse 6. What has God promised us? Do you really believe that He is your helper? Why or why not? When you worry, what are you saying to God?

Action Applications:

  1. Get rid of pride: look for it in your life and pray for deliverance;
  2. Look for opportunities to bless others: pray that God would open your eyes to those occasions;
  3. Look at your spouse as a gift, not a burden;
  4. Stop caring so much about “stuff” and don’t get caught up in materialism;
  5. Start truly caring about your relationship with God, and discipline yourself to spending time with Him daily! A haphazard faith will result in a hazardous life.

Close:

This week’s study is a perfect example of a garden that has had the weeds and stones removed from the rows of growing vegetables, as we’ve tried to rid our lives of the things that would cause us not to flourish in Christ! Now we can put into practice those things which will make life joyful: our relationship with God, with our brothers and sisters, and our service to our community and the world. Only by being free from the burdens that weigh us down can we experience the freedom that Jesus wants us to have.  As you read through the passage in Hebrews, look at all the relationships that He cares most about: your family in Christ, your family given to you by God (i.e., spouse, children), your ability to serve those whom you don’t know, those who are bound by Satan somehow, and your relationship with Him­, who has promised to meet your needs, provide abundant life for you, and never leave you or forsake you! What more could you ask from life? Pray daily that your life will please Him.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 13:5: “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Group Notes | February 12

Overflow: Making Room for Life: Forgiveness, Holiness and Peace
February 12, 2017
 Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

There is probably no one who has not been hurt by the actions of someone else—some very severely, with life-long consequences. Can someone share an example, without using names, and tell how you handled or are handling the situation?

Discouragement is a burden that can suffocate our spirit. Last week we looked at that which we bring on ourselves, and how we could change our perspective. Today we want to look at the discouragement that comes as a response to the someone else’s actions toward us, and choose to take steps to free ourselves from the anger by forgiveness. We want to lay aside the despair, getting our joy and peace back.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 12:14-29

Discuss:

Forgiveness

  1. Read verses 14-17. What does the word “work” indicate? What other verbs are in these verses? Who is implied as doing the working and watching?
  2. What is the consequence of unforgiveness in 15b? What steps can you take to forgive those who have hurt you?
  3. Read Matt. 6:14,15. What is another result of unforgiveness?

Holiness

  1. Read 14b. What are some evidences of a “holy life”? What is the consequence of unholiness?
  2. Read Eph. 1:13, Heb. 12:15 and 1 Pet. 1:16. What does God expect of us? What is the verb in 14b? Does anyone remember what the Greek word meant?

Peace

  1. Read 15a. What are you to strive for? How do you “live peaceably with all men” (Rom. 12:18)?
  2. How does this apply to those who have wronged you?

Bitterness

  1. Why is it so hard to forgive those who have hurt us (verse 15b)?

A matter of the heart

  1. Read verse 28. What has God prepared for us? What does God deserve from us? Why?

Action Applications:

1) Make a list of those whom you need to forgive;

2) Put them in order or longest out-standing, or greatest in hurt;

3) Do whatever is necessary to actively forgive that person; if you no longer know where they are, ask God to bring them to you, or repent and realize you are cleansed;

4) Seek to live a holy life, putting the past behind you;

5) When a new hurt comes along, take care of it immediately.

6) Always keep in mind that, as God has forgiven you, so you should forgive others.

7) Move on with joy!

Close:

As Paul tells us in Romans 17, our sinful nature is at war with our new nature in Christ! It is not natural for us to easily forgive those who hurt us, or worse, hurt our children—it takes “work.” Not forgiving leaves us open to the enemy, giving Satan a foothold in our lives, and we can become bitter, which defiles others. It is imperative that, just as we have been forgiven, so we must forgive those who have sinned against us. It takes prayer and a heart that truly desires a close relationship with God to live in peace with all men. As you saw in the opening verses of this passage, the Christian life is not passive but active; it is not easy, it is “work!” It is not natural, it is Godly, and comes from a yearning to be holy. Pray for those on your action list, that they would be saved, coming to a right relationship with God. The more you pray for them, the more you will find love growing in your heart, and a desire to see them as a Christian brother or sister. Pray for yourself, as well, that you will be the example that others can point to as a follower of Jesus Christ.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:14: “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord.”

 

 

Group Notes | February 5

Overflow: The Biggest Connection to the Right Direction
February 5, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Inevitably, as a human being, we will sin. That sin may eventually result in consequences that can cause us to be discouraged. Can you think of something you can share?

Today we look at Hebrews 12, focusing on laying “aside the sin that so easily ensnares us.” We want to examine the first of two types of discouragement: one that results when our own sinful choice or action causes consequences that may result in our becoming depressed. (The second—caused by others—will be looked at next week). The discouragement can be a tool Satan uses to rob us of our joy as a believer, crowding out our effectiveness.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 12:1, 5-13

Discuss:

All sin has consequences

  1. Read Rom. 3:23. What sin is specified here? How does God view sin?
  2. What about the consequences of sin—can they differ? How?
  3. Read Heb. 12:5 If sin is continued, or left unconfessed, as a loving Father, what must God do?

Those consequences can leave us discouraged if we don’t see their value

  1. Does confession eliminate the consequences? Give examples.
  2. Read verse 6. Why is it important to examine the consequences to see their value?

God’s discipline is a clear picture of His love for us

  1. Read verses 7-8. Why must you be disciplined because of sin?
  2. Read Prov. 3:11-12 and 14:34. Why should these verses bring you comfort?
  3. If God does NOT discipline you for sin, what may this mean?

This discipline will ALWAYS make us better

  1. Read verses 10-11. What is the purpose of God’s discipline? In verse 11, what should be the result?

Don’t allow these moments to get you down; let them raise you up

  1. Read verses 12-13. What is the picture this passage paints of the effect of discouragement on the physical body?
  2. How can Satan use discouragement to rob you of your usefulness to Christ, and your joy as a Christian? Read Phil. 3:13-14. How can you apply this verse to yourself?

Action Applications:

1) Make a list of consequences you are facing, or have faced, as a result of bad decisions or sin;
2) Evaluate each one from the viewpoint of what you learned from those consequences;
3) If you can’t find something you’ve learned, take some time to determine what you should learn;
4) If there is unconfessed sin that is part of this, confess it and ask forgiveness;
5) If you need to seek forgiveness for something you’ve done to others, do so.
6) Is there an action you need to take to move past it?
7) Move on!

Close:

Discipline! Not a word we really like, as it indicates an action that has been done and is going to have a “reaction.” If your child begins doing something that can have dire consequences if continued, you want to stop it before it becomes a habit, and you institute a punishment to change or correct behavior. God also has standards for us, and when we violate those standards with our living, He must discipline us. The comfort found in God’s discipline is that He only does this to those whom He calls His children. (To be sinful but see no discipline should cause you to closely examine your life to make sure you are saved.) And often our actions have consequences that may go on for the rest of our lives. If we are not careful and intentional, we may find the discouragement of long-standing consequences can ruin our joy, rob us of being useful Christians, and affect our health. Don’t let Satan “devour” you by telling you that you are worthless, but pray constantly that your life lines up with the biblical standards He has given. “Lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily ensnares you,” and run your race with strength!

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:11: “Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterwards it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”

Thought: Sometimes, when we are in sin and discipline does not come immediately, we may feel we have “gotten away with it.” This is addressed in Romans 2:4 when Paul writes, “Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?” God may extend His patience and mercy, allowing us time to realize how badly we are hurting Him, but not at all ignoring the sin. To continue without discipline should bring us to our knees even more quickly, as His goodness should lead us to an even greater repentance! If not, we may be despising the “riches of His goodness” and incur even greater wrath.

 

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Group Notes | January 15

Overflow: Proven Biblical Money Principles
January 15, 2017
Dave Ramsey

 

Open:

It probably comes as no surprise that money problems are one of the greatest causes of dissension in a home. Can you share some of the reasons this is true?

Today we begin a new series entitled “Overflow.” With all the advertising thrown at us daily, it’s hard not to get caught up in having the latest version of everything available. However, in doing so, debt accumulates, which in turn causes problems for anyone trying to live the “American Dream.” At the same time, the Bible states that the borrower (the one in debt) is a slave to the lender (the bank, the credit card company, etc.) We are going to work our way through this series, hoping the reward will be financial freedom in our lives.

 

Discuss:

Live on a written Budget

  1. Read Job 25:2, and 1 Cor. 14:33. What is one of the attributes of God? How is a budget a thing of “order”?
  2. Read Luke 14:28. Who is speaking here? What point is Christ trying to get across to the people? What eventually happens when spending is not controlled?

Avoid Debt

  1. Read Prov. 22:7. How does this verse translate to your paycheck and your bills?
  2. Read Romans 13:8. This is God’s word to you; what does it say? Is this God’s best for you?
  3. Read Luke 7:41-43. When Christ died on the cross of Calvary, what was happening to the sin debt that you were burdened with? Can you think of a greater example of freedom from debt than this?

Foster High Quality Relationships

  1. Read Prov. 13:20. Why are your companions so important? Can you think of examples, perhaps of friends who gravitate to those who are like-minded?
  2. Read Isaiah 41:6. What happens when a rotten apple or a potato are in a bag with many good ones? What lesson does that teach you about having companions who are not serious about their walk with Jesus?

Save and Invest

  1. Read Eccl. 11:1-2. How is this verse a good plan for investing? Why does it make common sense?
  2. Someone paraphrase Matt. 25:10-29. What point was Jesus trying to make?

Be Incredibly Generous

  1. How does this principle illustrate the second of the “Two Greatest” commandments that Jesus gave?
  2. Read Deut. 15:10. This is Old Testament! What was God trying to get you to see in this verse?

Close:

Five things! Five ways to organize your finances that will eventually result in freedom from bills that seem to come every day. Credit card companies assume a payoff time of thirty years—the length of most mortgages. Meanwhile, you are working many of your hours per week just to pay the interest on those material things you charged—things  that will soon be broken or tossed away, or possibly put in a yard sale. Take the first step and write out a budget: one that is sensible, yet gives boundaries for impulsive purchases. But as your finances need to be dealt with, be certain that you have also taken care of the greatest debt you’ll ever be chained by: that of your sin which can separate you from God! If someone came along and wrote you a check to cover all you owe, you would probably fall to your knees and cry. How much greater to know that He who had no sin became sin for you, so that you could [become free from your debt of sin, and] become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21). Start with being free from that debt, and then move to your finances.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:1: “Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”

 

 

 

Group Notes | January 8

A New Heart For A New Church
January 8, 201
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Retirement: it conjures up many different expectations, depending on the age of the person thinking about it. Yet when it arrives, some thrive on such a busy schedule. They wonder how they had time to work. Others sit in their recliner and vegetate, comfortable and without ambition! How do (or how did) you envision that period of your life?

Last week we began the new year by examining our individual lives as Christians, to be certain we are walking as Christ would have us to. This week we are going to focus on the church we attend—or the one you attend—to see that it is adhering to the standards which Christ set forth for His church. We will look at two of those listed in Revelation to see the progression from “losing one’s first love,” to one where the members have become comfortable and complacent within the church.

Focal Passages: Revelation 2:1-7, 3:14-22.

Discuss:

Doing the good things doesn’t always equal doing the right things.

  1. Read Rev. 2:2,3. What were some of the good things the church in Ephesus was doing? Do you see these things being done in churches today?
  2. What was wrong with the busyness of this church? When the church was originally organized, what was its heartbeat?

The right things always spring from the heart.

  1. Read Rev. 2:4. What was the main problem Jesus had with this church? Someone read Matt. 28:19-20 and Mark 12:29-31. What are the “marching orders” Christ gave to the Christian as well as to the church?
  2. Whose duty is it to evangelize? Was this listed as happening in the Ephesian church?
  3. Read Rev. 2:5. What were they told to do?

Lacking the right thing will always turn your heart the wrong way.

  1. Read Rev. 3:15, 17. What was the mindset of the members of the church in verse 17? How is that like many people in today’s churches?
  2. What value to Christ is a church like this? You can probably think of churches that don’t want to bring in new people who will disrupt the routine. How is this an example of a lukewarm church?
  3. What happens to the hearts of these comfortable Christians? Does this sound like those in retirement who decide to get settled in with no goal?

Make the right thing the main thing.

  1. Read vs. 20. What is God giving this church at Laodicea? How many times has He given you a second chance?
  2. What is our priority as Christians (back to question 3)? Why did God create us?

 

Close:

Were any of the issues dealt with in these two churches something that you are familiar with, in your life or a previous (or current) church? We must look at the Gospel as a whole to realize our first priority in our walk with Jesus Christ is to bring those to Him who do not know Him. We are not fulfilling the commandment to love Him and love our neighbor if we are not concerned about their eternal life. If we love them as much as we love ourselves, we won’t want to see them go to hell. Many—despite how impossible it seems—of our neighbors have never heard the gospel. Pray for opportunities to share your story this year. That’s all you have to do: just tell someone what God has done for you, and what He did for them when He came to this earth. It could be the most wonderful thing they’ve ever been told!

Memory Verse: Ephesians 4:30: “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”

Focal Passages: Revelation 2:1-7, 3:14-22.

Think On: Rev. 2:5: 1) Reflect  2) Repent  3) Restart

Group Time | January 1

A New Walk For A New You
January 1, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

A new year! As you think of the coming months, what’s on your mental calendar? You probably know some of the challenges you are going to face—others may take you by surprise. How prepared do you feel to face the next twelve months?

When we consider the beginning of a new year, we generally think of things in our own life or family that we would like to change. We decide January 1 is a good day to start, so we make a “resolution” to begin a new way of eating, exercising, habits, or whatever we feel needs to be improved. As a Christian, this is a great time to make a commitment to read the Scripture every day and see how our lives reflect the standards Jesus has set for us. Starting now will give you a full year to draw nearer to Him, and you will find the “new walk” will produce a “new you”!

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:17-32

 Discuss:

A New Walk

  1. Read verses 17-19. Can you give examples showing how this passage reflects the world we live in today?
  2. What do you consider your number one problem? Did you say “busyness”? Why is that a problem?
  3. Be honest: when is your devotional life happening? If you are involved with your television, electronics, or listening to music for over 5 hours each day, do you discipline yourself to find time for God—hopefully first?
  4. Read verse 24. What does God expect of you? If you call yourself a Christian, do you intentionally seek a relationship with Him, or do you just hope it will happen at some point during the day?

Here are a list of commitments to make for this new year:

  1. Commit to make room in your schedule and your life for God.
  2. Commit to make time for your family—apart from movies or watching tv.
  3. Commit to make time for others, to serve and help them—perhaps even disciple them.

 A New You

  1. If you spend quality time dieting or exercising this new year, what do you expect to happen? How is that analogous to exercising your spirit with God’s word and serving Him?
  2. Who should benefit from your new focus if you truly make Him first in your life?
  3. In verses 21-32, what are some things that you should see go out of your life? What should replace them?

Here are a list of commitments to make for A New You:

  1. A commitment to live right (and get rid of the bad!)
  2. A commitment to live better (renew your thoughts and attitudes)
  3. A commitment to live with eternity in mind (and share Him with the world)

Close:

A friend said today, “I’m starting a diet. There’s still a ‘skinny’ inside here!” According to 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold all things have become new.” Just as the “skinny” inside the lady, there should be a “new creation” inside of us! That should be our standard for this coming year: we call ourselves Christians, so therefore, a new creation is inside of us. Do you have things left over from the “old” person you were that is still taking up residence, but needs to be moved out? All things in your life should have become new when you were saved. Did it? When you are going about your daily business, can the world tell that you are a Christian by your actions? If not, something is desperately needing to change. This is the first of the new year—let it be a beginning that will find you, on December 31, 2017, in such a close relationship with Jesus Christ that everyone will know, just from being around you, that He is in residence in your life! Pray for those whom you love who need to hear that He loves them, and pray that He will open a door for you to witness to them in the coming days. Let this be the year that you evangelize your world!

Memory Verse: Ephesians 4:32: “Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.”

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:17-32.

 

 

 

Group Notes | December 18

Self on the Shelf: The Christmas Calling
December 18, 2016
Matt Willmington

 

Open:

If you have lived very long, you have seen the word “calling” mean many different actions. Give as many examples as you can think of!

During this Christmas season, we have attempted to take the focus off ourselves and put it on the true message of Christmas. It is the time of year when we reflect most on the action of Jesus the King, leaving heaven, to enter the world as a baby, born of a virgin. We began this series studying the birth of another baby three months earlier, that of John the Baptist, who was the one chosen to announce the coming of the Messiah.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:57-80

 Discuss:

Answer God’s Call

  1. Can someone summarize the events that took place when Zacharias and Elizabeth learned they would be parents?
  2. Read Isaiah 40:3. What had been prophesied of John, about 700 years before his birth?
  3. When he was born (verses 67-75), what did his father say of him in verses 76-79?
  4. Have you ever felt that God was moving in your life, so that you could respond in a particular situation?

Announce Jesus

  1. What was John’s “calling?” How did this fulfill God’s reason for him to be born at this time in history?
  2. Was his childhood very different than that of Jesus (verse 80 compared to Luke 2:40, 52)?
  3. In Matthew 28:19-20, how does John’s calling differ from yours?

Accept His Timing

  1. Go in your mind to the years when Zacharias and Elizabeth were of child-bearing age; what if John had been born then? About how long would it have been before Jesus would be born?
  2. What do you find yourself doing when God’s timing is not yours? Do you usually take over, or patiently wait for Him to act?
  3. What season are you in now—a waiting period, or is everything going well?

Close:

It is a magnificent lesson to all of us to reflect on the high calling of John the Baptist. In Esther 4:14, it is pointed out that she was raised up for the time that she would be needed to save her people from annihilation. John was born at a time in history in order to fulfill prophecy that he would be the one who would announce that the Messiah had come to Israel. But think of his parents: they had prayed long and hard—for many years—for a child, and still Elizabeth remained barren. Did they think God had forgotten them? They kept their faith, but sorrow still had to have been present in her heart. Yet had she been able to see her role from God’s perspective, she would have realized she was going to bear the forerunner to Jesus Christ, and that joy would have taken away all her pain! Perhaps when we have prayers that are not answered in a timely manner, we need to read this passage, asking God for the patience and trust to believe He is working out purposes that are so far beyond our ability to grasp, and have faith that He is arranging everything for the good of those we love. Pray for the insight to have a great confidence in Him who created you! And realize that, like John, you have been called to announce to your world the good news of Jesus Christ. What a mighty message you have!

Memory Verse: Luke 1:76: “And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Highest; for you will go before the face of the Lord to prepare His ways.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:57-80, Isaiah 40:3, Malachi 3:1 and 4:5.

 

 

Group Notes | December 11

Self on the Shelf: Our Worship Matters
December 11, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Often we hear the term worship used as in, “he worships the ground she walks on!” Can you think of other examples of worship used by the world, relating to things or people?

Over the past few weeks we have looked at the importance of the true meaning of the Christmas gift of the Savior, letting it impact our hearts, rather than centering our focus on the gifts under the tree. Today we are going to look at the response of Mary, as her entire being worshiped and magnified God in the acceptance of being the chosen mother to God’s Son, Jesus, who was to be born as a baby.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:46-55

 Discuss:

Worship Comes from Within: It is the condition of the heart in our daily living

  1. What comes to your mind when you hear the word worship?
  2. How did Mary worship God in verse 46?
  3. Where should our worship originate? Can you think of a moment when spontaneous exaltation poured from you because God had done something wonderful for you?

A Life of Worship Results in a Response from God: He always responds to a humble heart

  1. What did Mary mean when she referred to herself as “LOWLY”?
  2. Why is God against the proud (verse 51)? Who is the epitome of Pride?
  3. How does your heart alert you to times you are feeling prideful? Can you be worshiping at that time?

This Response is needed in Our Daily Struggle: His mercy overcomes anything we might face

  1. In verse 50, who are the ones who are recipients of His mercy?
  2. Why do we need His mercy daily? What happens when we decide we can handle a situation? What does that action stem from (verse 51)?

This Response is All that is Needed

  1. Who does God have control over? Do you really believe that? Do you find yourself “helping” God in situations where you have prayed? Why?

This Response is Permanent

  1. Who is the promise of verse 55 for? Who are the children spoken of here?
  2. Mary had studied the Old Testament from a child. What did she believe about God’s promises? Do you believe them to the extent you would die for Him?

Close:

Worship is something that is not dependent on external circumstances, but originates in our soul and spirit. We may be “led” in worship by those who are having us join together in hymns of psalms and praise, but the joy in singing and praying should be an offering to our God for all He has done. Few things are more joyous than having spontaneous praise and gratefulness come from our heart because God has shown Himself mighty in a situation. Would that we would always be so full of worship that our soul and spirit magnify Him, as Mary’s did. As you go about this week, be aware of times that pride inserts itself into your life, squashing your wonder at the work God is trying to do. Pray daily that others see Jesus as you live your life, and your joy and peace are so deep that others desire to know Him and worship Him! Let your daily theme be “O, come, let us adore Him, Christ the Lord.”

Memory Verse: Luke 1:49: “For He who is mighty has done great things for me. And Holy is His name.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:46-55, Prov. 16:18. A mirror response of Mary’s song is Hannah, in 1 Samuel 2:1-10.

C.H. Spurgeon, on Mary’s Song of Worship:

“My soul doth magnify the Lord.” Here is an occupation for all of us who know the Lord, and have been born into His family. It is an occupation which may be followed by all sorts of people. This humble woman speaks of her low estate, and yet she could magnify the Lord. All believers, of every rank and condition, can attend to this work. This is an occupation which can be followed in all places. You need not go up to the meeting house to magnify the Lord, you can do it at home. You may be tossed about upon the sea in a storm, but you may trust His name, and be calm, and so magnify Him. Or, you may be no traveler, and never go a hundred yards out of the village in which you were born, but you may magnify the Lord just as well for all that. This is not an occupation which requires a crowded congregation, it can be fitly performed in solitude. I suppose this sonnet of the Virgin was sung with only one [person] to hear it, her cousin Elizabeth. There is quorum for God’s praise even where there is only one; but, where there are two that agree to praise God, then is the praise exceeding sweet.

 

 

Group Notes | December 4

Self on the Shelf: A Reason for Hope
December 4, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you could ask for one thing for Christmas, and you knew you would get it, what would it be? (After answers): How many of these were material desires?

This week we continue to fill our hearts and minds with the right perspective of the Christmas season, remembering the miracle of Christ’s birth as He left His glory as the Sovereign God of the universe to come to this earth as a baby. His birth provides us with salvation through the greatest story ever told. We will focus today on Mary’s role in His coming, and the hope that His life can give us.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:26-45; Isaiah 9:6,7

 Discuss:

Christmas is a Reminder that Christ Reigns

  1. Christianity is different from all other religions. What are the reasons given in Luke 1:32 and 33?
  2. Many prophecies were given foretelling the coming of a Messiah who would reign for eternity. Read Isaiah 9:6,7. How does this impact how you live today?

Christmas is a Reminder of His Power

  1. Jesus did not leave His power in heaven when He came to earth, but was fully God, and fully man. What was His first miracle?
  2. What are some reasons that Mary and Joseph never doubted that Jesus is the Son of God?
  3. What does verse 37 tell you? What does “nothing” mean? What is a “nothing” in your life that you feel it is impossible for Him to fix? (How much do you pray about it?)

Christmas is a Reminder of God’s Plan

  1. In verses 38 and 45, why does scripture say that Mary was blessed?
  2. Can anyone list a promise that God has given in His word? Do you believe them? As you can see, belief brings blessings!
  3. What is the promise for you in Jeremiah 29:11? How do your actions show that you believe that?

Close:

The Christmas season reveals our hearts like no other time of the year. It is easy for our thoughts to be centered on decorations, cards, and gifts, but we need to lay open our desires, and look at them through the eyes of God: do we have a “give me” attitude, or are we examining our lives to see that we are fulfilling the purpose He had for us when He gave us the free gift of salvation? Do we allow Him to always reign supreme, believing His promises and not doubting His ability to handle anything that happens to us? Are we using this time to bless others as He has blessed us? Talk for a few minutes before prayer about the multitude of opportunities that exist to give of yourself to your neighbors and your community (or even your world). Be aware that even in the church body Christmas can be a time of sorrow for those who are alone, or have lost a loved one, and ministry occasions abound, in turn, possibly opening doors for us to tell the “greatest story ever told” to a lost and dying world. Above all, pray that your walk with Christ is deeper than it was last year at this time.

Memory Verse: Isaiah 9:6: “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulders. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:26-45, Isaiah 9:6-7.

Some of God’s Promises:

“For He Himself has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’” Heb. 13:5b
“And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” Acts 2:21                 “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” James 1:5
“Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.” James 1:12
“And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” Rev. 21:4.

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | November 27

Self on the Shelf: Refocus or Regret
November 27, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Most of us have—at some point in our life—realized that if we continue down a certain path, it can lead to an end we’re not ready for. Can someone think of an example?

This week we enter the Christmas season, when the “wants” of our family (or ourselves) become the focus of much money and time. God entered this earth to provide us with salvation through the greatest story ever told. It is only by taking the attention off our own desires and focusing on Him that we will get the truth of what His coming means to each of us.

Focal Passages: 1 John 2:15-17; Luke 1:5-14

Discuss:

God’s View

  1. In 1 John 2:15 and verse 17, what does God warn you to be alert for in your own life? He has told us what pleases Him in Luke 10:27. What does this mean to you personally?

QUESTION: This Christmas, how can I show my neighbor that he/she is more important than I am?

The World’s View

  1. Read verses 16 and 17. What does the world tempt you with constantly? Think of the commercials you (or your children, or grandchildren, if applicable) see daily.
  2. Can you illustrate with an example the truth that what should be the “Reason for the Season” has instead become all about you or your family?

QUESTION: What can you do to re-direct your focus from this path of having more “stuff,” to see that you are using it for the good of others?

A Refocused Heart is One Fixed on Him

  1. In Luke 1:6,7, what are some characteristics of Elizabeth and Zechariah? List some feelings that would have been uppermost because of their inability to conceive.
  2. What did a childless couple endure in those days?

Even When Things Don’t Go Your Way

  1. Did they let the unanswered prayer for a child stop them from keeping their focus on loving God?

Refocus or Regret

  1. What did the angel tell Zechariah in verse 13b? Do you think that was a prayer that had been recent? Why or why not?

QUESTION: Where is your heart amid disappointments, unanswered prayers, and shortcomings?

Daily:

 1) Praise God daily (Psalm 118:24)

2) Repent of our sins—never allow them to continue (Psalm 32:5)

3) Seek reconciliation with anyone who carries a grudge, has upset, hurt or been unfair to you (Matthew 5:24)

4) Look for ways to bring joy to someone each day (1 Thess. 4:9)

5) Focus on what really matters (Phil. 4:8)

Close:

It hardly seems possible that we are again at the beginning of another Christmas season! As we enter this month, list some of the opportunities that are possible through our church or community to bring the good news of the gospel to those outside the church. Examine your heart to make certain that your lifestyle is not hung up on adding more “things” to an already-overflowing home, and that you’re not breeding materialism in your family. We all have today to begin on a new path that will yield eternal rewards. Pray for each other that the joy of Christmas would be abiding in you every day, and that you pass it on to everyone you meet.

Memory Verse: 1 John 2:15: “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.’”

Focal Passages: 1 John 2:15-17; Luke 1:5-15, Luke 10:27.

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | November 21

Being Thankful
November 21st, 2016

Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Although (hopefully) we evidence a spirit of gratitude for things done for us all year, at Thanksgiving we intentionally take time to be thankful for our many blessings. What are some things that you are especially thankful for this year?

David, a man after God’s own heart, filled his life composing beautiful Psalms of praise in gratefulness to God for His care. Remember that many of David’s praises were written when he was pursued by enemies, running for his life, or in a situation that would make praise difficult. Yet today we will look at Psalm 100 and see what we can learn as we fill our hearts with our own praise and thankfulness to God, even if we are in the midst of hard times.

Focal Passage: Psalm 100:1-5

Think About or Discuss:

We Serve Him

  1. Can you name anyone you enjoy serving? What is it about your helping them that brings you a feeling of delight?
  2. David wrote that you should serve God with gladness! What would that look like for you? Read Matthew 25:40. How can you serve someone today that will bring a bit of pleasure to their life?

He is Our Creator and Sustainer

  1. When you discussed or wrote down an answer in the Ice Breaker, according to verse 3 what should one of the answers have been?
  2. Which do you stand on when you are trusting yourself to God’s care: your feelings, or the promises He has given you? Give or write down some examples.

We Can Stand in His Presence

  1. When is the last time you prayed, without distractions, and then remained quiet so you could hear Him if He answered? How often are you quiet in His presence?
  2. Read John 10:29. What promise is in this verse? How do you know it’s true?
  3. Can you remember the freedom you felt as a child to run into your mom or dad’s arms (or someone you loved) whenever you needed comfort? How do you relate that to your feelings about your heavenly Father?

He Has Shown Us Mercy

  1. What does mercy mean to you? How does God show that to you?
  2. Read Heb. 4:16b; what is the promise in this verse? Why is it not accurate to trust your feelings?

His Truth Will Never End

  1. How long will His truth endure? How many chances will He give you to come running back to Him? Isn’t this something wonderful to share with those who are hopeless?

Close:

Focusing on total praise to God during this Thanksgiving season begins, not with family, your salvation, your children, or material blessings, but with those things He gives us so freely that we take for granted: He knit your life in your mother’s womb, and brought you forth; as soon as you hit the world, air was supplied to you; food and water were given, without which you would not have grown. When you became aware of Him and His great love for you, you could make the decision to turn from your sin to Him, and begin a new life. So many foundation stones were built upon to bring you here to this place where you can worship Him! As you continue through this week, dwell on the wonderful gifts He has given you freely to enjoy. If you meet someone who needs to be thankful, gently point out how much you value the loving Savior and Creator who gave you life.

Memory Verse: Psalm 100:1-5: “Make a joyful shout to the Lord, all you lands! Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing. Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture. Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations.”

Focal Passages: Psalm 100; Heb. 4:6.

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | November 13

Making Room For Joy
November 13, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Joy is heart-felt, deep inside us, even though we may be in tumultuous circumstances. Can you think of one sentence that robbed your joy this week? Give one sentence that reflects something that brought you joy this week.

This week we are going to look at what is takes to make room for joy. Joy does not happen by accident, but through actions. Let’s look at what it looks like, and how we get it.

Focal Passage: Galatians 5:13-26

Discuss:

To Serve in love

  1. In verse 13, what admonition does Paul give the believers? You have freedom in Christ, but how are you to use that freedom? What does this mean to you?
  2. Read Philippians 2:3,4. What is Paul saying in this verse?

QUESTION: What can you do for someone today that will put a genuine smile on their face?

To Speak in love

  1. What are you warned of in verse 15? Does anyone remember the word picture for “biting, devouring, and destroying”? (Hint: wild animals attacking).
  2. If you are saturated with concern about the world and its impact on you, what room will you have for joy? Why?
  3. Who was Paul writing to? Why did he need to warn believers to stop these practices (verse 15)?

QUESTION: What can you say to someone today that will encourage them, or lift their spirits?

To Act in love

  1. What are the fruits of the Spirit? How do you get these to grow in your life?
  2. How can you practice doing the right thing, even when your flesh desires to take over or get even?
  3. Read verses 19-21. Do you want a life like that? Yet it is a perfect synopsis of today’s world. What does verse 24 tell you?

QUESTION: How can you change your actions today to show the fruits of the Spirit to others?

 To Reflect Christ in love

  1. Read 1 Peter 2:21. Whose example are you to follow? Why is the saying “What would Jesus do?” still very pertinent?

Close:

It is incredibly difficult to put the trials and pressures of the world out of your mind so that they do not take away the joy you have. Go around the circle and give one word examples of things the world cannot take from you (for instance, your salvation). The fruits of the Spirit are easy to quote, but very hard to put into practice, yet they should be something produced in you effortlessly as you become more like Christ. Real joy will come when your personal desires are at war with doing what is right, and you stop, take a breath, then do the right thing. Those small victories will come more often, and grow into habits. Pray for each other that the joy of Christ would be abiding in you, and that you can be a conduit to pass it on to others this week.

Memory Verse: Galatians 5:14: “For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Focal Passages: Galatians 5:13-26; Phil. 2:3, 4; 1 Peter 2:21.

Further study on Question 1: Romans 6.

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | November 6

The Barrick Family
with Pastor Jonathan Falwell
November 6, 2016

 

Open:

Most of us would like to achieve a high goal of some type, or perhaps we have wished to do so at some point in our life, but feel it’s too late. Do you have an example you can share?

Today we are taking time to celebrate the ten-year anniversary of a family from the church who survived one of the worst car wrecks ever seen. A YouTube link is below, so that you can see the wreck as it unfolded in November, 2006. Out of it, God has brought thousands of people to Himself!

Jen’s story, video (appx. 5 mins.): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00pWA7mYW-A

Focal Passage: Isaiah 6:1-8

Discuss:

You

  1. Have you ever asked God to use you? If so, can you share with the group?
  2. Do you remember what was in your mind at the time? Did you dream of an easy life, where you shared the gospel with willing people?

Others

  1. Who were some of the characters in the Old or New Testaments who suffered greatly, only to be used of God in a mighty way?
  2. What do you think the Barrick family would have said had you told them a horrific accident and a terrible brain injury would be needed to mold them into a family that God would use world-wide?

Forgiveness

  1. Why is forgiveness so important? Is there anyone you need to forgive (answer in the silence of your heart)? Could they have hurt you more than the drunk driver injured the Barrick family?

Take-away

  1. Can you honestly say that you would have written, as Jennifer did when she was fifteen years old, “God, do whatever You have to do to use me to further Your kingdom, and give me boldness?” Explain your answer.
  2. What is one statement made by any of the family in Sunday’s sermon time that you took away with you?
  3. Share whether you can state, “Yes, Lord, whatever You need to do for me to be a witness, I will accept Your plan?”

 

Close:

It is so easy to almost be envious of the influence, the huge crowds, and the immense number of people that are responding to the Gospel given by the Barrick family as they witness of God’s grace, mercy, and miraculous healing. And yet in the “wish that were me leading so many people to the Lord” mentality, few of us would be willing to go through the years of trauma that they have endured because of one man’s choice to drink and drive. Yes, God could have stopped him. Yes, God could have done anything to keep this family safe. But God was looking at the big picture, the souls they would be leading into the kingdom, and the joy they are experiencing in knowing the suffering has been so worth it! And it is not over. If you know this family, you know Jen still suffers from short-term memory loss, and you travel in your mind to a time when Linda and Andy, the parents, grow too old to care for her. Will she be healed by then? Meanwhile, they still deal with the after-effects of the cancer Jen has experienced, and, although not mentioned, Andy himself has suffered cancer. God has a special love for this family. Pray for their safety, their protection, and their strength as they travel week after week, pouring out the message of hope and healing to a hurting world. And examine your own heart to see if you can honestly say, “Lord, not my will, but Thine be done!” And as Isaiah said in the passage above, “Here am I, Lord, send me!” Can you say that?

Memory Verse: Psalm 73:28: “But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord GOD, that I may declare all Your works.”

 

 

Group Notes | October 30

Living In Peace
October 30, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Peace. The very word conjures up different emotions and different ideas in everyone. What are some things you think of when someone says you can “live in peace”?

Today, more than ever before, we want to find out how to live peacefully in a world rocked on all sides by chaos. We will look at the instructions given by James as to how we can achieve peace in our lives, and pass it on to those with whom we come in contact.

Focal Passage: James 3:13-18

Discuss:

Serving and Humility

  1. In verse 13, James opens this subject of living in peace by laying out the evidence of the life of a person who understands God’s ways. What are they?
  2. “Proving” that you are wise is an action word, not a thought that crosses your mind. Read Jas. 2:14-17 for a parallel passage. How are you living this honorable life (vs 13)?
  3. How should your service be done? Why?

Pure Heart

  1. There are six actions words in verse 14 that reveal a heart that is full of sin. What are they?
  2. How do verses 14-16 sound like our world today?
  3. How does 1John 2:16 sound like this passage? Do those sins from verse 14 exist in the passage from John?

Desire to Live as Christ Lived

  1. Look at the qualities of godly wisdom found in verse 17. Who do these remind you of? Is it possible for you to live like this?
  2. There is chaos in society because Christians are being silent. Are these traits active choices?

A Changed World

  1. Read Matt. 5:9. What is a peacemaker? What are the two things that will happen when a peacemaker steps in?

Close:

Being a person of peace is so important that it is mentioned in almost every book of the Bible. In 1 Pet. 3:10-12, Peter mentions how important it is that we seek to live in peace. It begins with watching what we say, turning away from evil, and actively seeking peace. You cannot help but have a positive impact on others if you are a peacemaker, and God promises results (verse 18). It takes a prepared person to have the influence to speak peace so that others listen, however. You must fill your heart with God’s wisdom, pray for His words to be in your mouth, show no favoritism, and be sincere. Turn the work over to God, and let Him produce the results after you have planted the seeds!

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:9: “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the sons of God.”

Focal Passage: James 3:13-18; 1 John 1:9; Romans 12:18; John 10:10

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | October 23

Unfinished: How to Finish Well
October 23, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Completing a task can often be a tremendous challenge, and the satisfaction of having had the discipline to do so is very rewarding. Do you have an example you can share?

We are concluding the series, “Unfinished,” as we have studied Paul’s final words of encouragement to Timothy, as well as future believers. He gives instructions on faithfully continuing the work he had begun, after his death. Let’s examine our own discipline in enduring through challenges that may come into our lives as we carry on God’s work.

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 4:6-22

Discuss:

Walk Worthy

  1. What was Paul saying in verse 7? When did Paul’s call to be an apostle begin? Is that when his “race” began?
  2. Read Philippians 3:13,14. How was Paul able to lay aside the life he had lived before Jesus met him on the road to Damascus? What should that teach us?

Look Up

  1. Considering his coming execution, where was his focus, addressed in verse 8?
  2. Paul not only kept his own mind always on pleasing Jesus Christ, but says others who love Him will also be rewarded on “that Day.” Whom did he refer to?
  3. Why is it so easy for the culture to drag a believer down? Where must you constantly have your heart centered?

Stand Strong, Even If You Must Stand Alone

  1. Why did Paul mention the individuals in verses 10 and 11? What warning is this to you?

Forgive Often

  1. What type of spirit did Paul show in verse 16b? Who does this remind you of?
  2. Who suffers the most from a spirit of unforgiveness? Can you share an example?

Never Quit

  1. In verse 17-18a, Paul stated how he was finishing strong. What enabled him?
  2. As he pens his last words, where again was his focus? How was he able to overcome the events that were almost upon him? Could you?

Close:

Paul’s execution was at hand. He wanted to be certain that Timothy understood that the only thing that mattered was keeping on with the task God had given until the call came to go to his heavenly home. Paul was in effect saying, “I’ve done the best I could since Jesus saved me, and have constantly looked to Him to give me strength through trials. Now I trust Him to get me through this last suffering so that I may receive the crown of righteousness.” That is the goal for all of us. No matter what has happened before today, we can make a commitment that “today is the first day of the rest of our lives,” and we can strive to say, as Paul did, that we have kept the faith, and finished the race. Pray for each other fervently that we all would fix our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 4:18: “And the Lord will deliver me from every evil work and preserve me for His heavenly kingdom. To Him be glory forever and ever. Amen!”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 4:6-22; 1 John 1:9

Group Notes | October 16

Unfinished: The Time Is Now
October 16, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Saying goodbye to a loved one, whether by reason of imminent death, deployment or for some other reason, is so very hard. We try to include everything that is exceptionally special into those final words. Do you have an instance you can share?

We are close to ending the series, “Unfinished,” as Paul tries to leave nothing omitted that Timothy—and future believers—will need as they stay true to Jesus Christ in the face of whatever persecution they may encounter in their lifetime. He gives a heartfelt exhortation regarding the task of living out life as a faithful believer.

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 4:1-5

Discuss:

Our Command

  1. Whose responsibility is it to share the news of the Gospel (verse 2a)? What other scriptures do you know that lay the duty for telling the story of Jesus on all believers?
  2. “Preaching” is the word used to proclaim the Gospel to the world. Why do believers think this is for pastors only, in light of passages like Matthew 28:18-20?

Our Commission

  1. How do we prepare ourselves to “be ready”? What does the application look like?
  2. Being “commissioned” for a certain duty is a serious and solemn action. So much so, Paul’s word of “charge” means plead, beg or urge followers to carry out the admonition. What does he say our commission is, in verse 2b? How is this analogous to being commissioned in the military, and serving where you are told to go? What is involved in the military aspect? Go back and read Chapter 2:3,4 and see how Paul uses this activity as a parallel.
  3. Look at the verbs in 2b, and someone each take one word and describe how it would be done in love? (A description of each word’s Greek meaning will be at the end.)

The Time is Now!

  1. What are some of the signs of the end times in regard to the people who are in churches in verses 3 and 4? Which of these traits are we seeing now, and can you give an example?
  2. This does not refer to the world, but to the church. Why will they feel this way toward Jesus Christ and living the Christian life?

Our Time Is Now

  1. How does Paul begin verse 5? Why does he expect us to be different?
  2. Read Phil. 2:14-16. How can you guard your walk?

Close:

We are now a few days—perhaps a few hours—away from Paul’s execution. Every word is measured for the value it will mean to Timothy and the church, both at that time and in the future. Therefore, we take these words to heart, knowing that they are God’s words through Paul to us. We are living in a time when persecution is getting worse, and the time to make believers may be short. We don’t know but what our own personal time may be short! In that light, be diligent to carry out the charge of making disciples, because you might be the only person who will share the story of God’s love with your own extended family, friends, co-workers or community. Pray for each other fervently that no one would fall away, and all would be bold to confess Jesus as Lord.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 4:5: “But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 4:1-5; Romans 10:13,14

Verse 2: “Be ready”: to continue activity in the face of opposition, in spite of the state of the world; to continue to practice what you have been doing for Christ on a constant basis. “Convince”: to implement or help someone see that they are wrong, and why; to win them over with love. “Rebuke”: to disapprove of actions, or call sin by its right name. “Exhort”: to encourage strongly by helping someone understand. “Longsuffering”: emotional calm in the midst of provocation (again, done in love). “Teaching”: to provide instruction to one who needs it; to be able to disagree with their actions without being disagreeable.

 

 

 

Group Notes | October 9

Unfinished: Never Give Up! Never Quit!
October 9, 2016
Dr. Ben Gutierrez 

Open: 

The temptation to quit is very real when your circumstances have become over-whelming and there seems no way out. Have you kept on when you thought you couldn’t? Can you give an example, and share the outcome?

This week we continue the series, “Unfinished.” Paul is very close to the end of his life, and desires that his last words encourage believers to never give up. If ever anyone had been in conditions where quitting would have seemed the best way out, it was he. Yet he knew that God would get him through, and heaven would be his reward. He pens instructions to all believers as to the importance of trusting that God will never leave our side, and will bring us safely through any storm.

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 3:10-17

Discuss: 

Paul’s “Last Will and Testament”

1. Verse 14, in particular, resounds with Paul’s message of not giving up on God when it seems as if we’re alone. What had kept Paul anchored in his faith?

2. Can you share an example of someone who has given up on God, rather than holding to Him with all their might and trusting in His promises?

“The Faith” is now established—Defend it and Live it!

3. Paul’s admonition is that believers would put what has been learned into practice, just as he had done. Timothy had been taught the Word of God from childhood. Read Galatians 1:6,7 for a description of those who turn away.

4. How does verse 16 describe God’s word? Do you believe that? How do you know your foundation is secure?

Many people were giving up on God!

5. In I Timothy, Paul had referred many times to “some” people who turned away from God. Now in II Timothy, he mentions “all,” and several close friends in particular. Why do you think people were turning away, rather than holding on to God?

6. When you think of ISIS, and the beheadings, Paul saw the same scenario. In fact, he was facing it in a matter of days. How would this affect your faith?

Three Spiritual Anchors

7. 1) God’s Faithful Followers

God has left many examples to look to when you need your faith to be strengthened (Hebrews, Chapter 11 for example). Not only is the Bible full of faithful men and women, but you have only to look at your own path to see He has been not just good, but Great and Mighty in taking care of you. Can you give an example?

2) God’s Trustworthy Word!

When you are having the worst day possible, what happens when you sit down and absorb God’s word? What are some of the most comforting verses for you in the midst of crisis?

3) God’s Perfect Work!

Even when you think God is not listening, or not working for your good, or when you don’t understand why so much is going wrong, He is still working out His plan for your life. How do you know this to be true?

Close: 

Paul was no longer teaching precepts for believers to live by—now he was giving them the most important words he could leave with them. “Don’t quit, don’t stop trusting, don’t give up!” He had seen the ascent of Christianity, had seen a vision of the risen Christ that so deeply affected him, that beatings, shipwreck, starvation, and other situations could not cause him to turn away from telling everyone about the love of Jesus. Now he was seeing them give up because of the tremendous hatred toward believers. Above all, his message to us today in the midst of an anti-Christian world, is “Don’t give up!” Pray for each other daily, pray for strength to endure trials and testing (verse 12). God will never fail you, never leave you, and you have His promise in His word that He will be bearing your burdens and helping you carry your load. Get in His word and absorb it, so that in times of crisis it will not cross your mind to leave the faith!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 3:14: “But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned them.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 3:10-17

 

Group Notes | October 2

Unfinished: Sin Stops
October 2, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Someone once said that of the number of choices adults make each day, almost every one is done either for the good of others, or for the good of yourself. Can you think of an example from this week, and which category did the choice fall into?

Today we continue the series, “Unfinished,” looking at the wise counsel in Paul’s admonitions to make choices that will bring peace and joy through Jesus Christ, not choosing the temporal pleasures of sin such as the world is making today. We can either make a choice to stop sin dead in its tracks and pursue serving and trusting God, or continue a path that becomes a totally self-centered life.

Read Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 3:1-9

Discuss:

Sin will keep you from the presence and the power of God

  1. As you listened to verses 2-4 read, what in particular struck you as being a clear picture of society today? Those verses reflect persons who are making their choices for the good of whom?
  2. More than likely everyone thought of someone in your own family who fell into one of these categories. What can you do for them immediately?

Self-deception doesn’t make things better

  1. Verse 5a spoke of those who have a “form of godliness, but deny its power.” Sadly, many consider the pleasures of sin to be worth more than a life lived for Jesus Christ, but consider “going forward” to pray a prayer as evidence they are saved. Paul reminds us that being religious is not the same as living a righteous life. Read Matthew 7:16, 17: how can you know someone is saved?
  2. According to Barna research, most people believe they are going to heaven, even though they live like the world. What does Romans 6:23 tell you? How does this reflect these verses?

Turn away!

  1. Why does verse 5b tell you to turn away from being companions of those who say they don’t need God (paraphrase, 5a), and those listed in 6-9?
  2. If you are to stop sin in your life so that you can become a “vessel fit for His use” what is the first step you must take (hint: 1 John 1:9)?
  3. Hebrews11:6 gives you the second step of faith in finishing the task God has given; what is it?
  4. Often it is only after a trial that you can look back and see how God brought you through. Psalm 73:26 tells you to look to God for your strength. Why?

Close:

Paul made it very clear that being religious does not fulfil the law of Christ. As he lists the society found in the days when men are each doing “what is right in their own eyes,” (Proverbs 21:2), it sounds like our world today. Did you not identify so many of the people you rub shoulders with daily, as he listed those who are in effect saying, “God, leave me alone!”? He concludes this section by reminding Timothy—and you—to not be companions with them, as they will lead you away from the truth. The only way you can stop the sin in your life is to be vigilant about your lifestyle. Keep a short account with God, confessing sins as they occur and turning from them, being diligent to study the Scriptures so you can apply them to your life, and being dependent upon God for the strength each day to see that He alone is the one on the throne of your heart. As you begin this new week, pray for the others in your group that all would trust Him for the grace and power to live each day.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 2:22: “Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 3:1-9

Group Notes | September 25

Unfinished: Living Faith in the Margins
September 25, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Almost everyone has a “to do” list, or an unwritten variety of tasks that need to be have been begun, but have not been completed. Can you think of an example, and how do you feel when you can mark one off the list?

As we continue the series, “Unfinished,” we are focusing on the wealth of wise counsel in Paul’s final words to Timothy. He knew death was imminent, and wanted Timothy—and us by extension—to live life to its fullest through Jesus Christ. Today we focus on taking the word we hear preached in the church on Sunday and apply it to our daily activities as we go through the routine in the other areas of our lives.

Read Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 2:1-26

Discuss:

Be Strong

  1. Think about how often you take on a task, and feel it is too overwhelming, and you want to give up. If God has called you to do this (job, duty, mission), how does He expect you to see it to completion? At the end of the day, where has your strength come from?
  2. Can anyone share a situation where you felt it impossible to get through, but later could look back and see His strength being poured into you daily?

The Gospel Still Works

  1. As verse 9 was read, Paul reminded us that whatever our own situation, God’s omnipotence is still working. 2 Cor. 5:17 tells us that when we become believers, our old nature passes away and all things become new. Explain how that change is made manifest through your time on earth?
  2. How important is it that you internalize the knowledge each day that you are living a new life?

Live Differently

  1. Why does Paul say in verse 15 to “study” God’s Word? What can you apply God’s desires for your life unless you know His revealed will from His word?

Use Your Faith in the Real World

  1. Without a doubt, Paul spent his time in the “real world.” His entire focus was telling lost souls how to respond to the love of God and be saved. How are you different from those around you every day?
  2. What are some ways you can draw strength and encouragement throughout your week, or when times are hard? And how can you yourself give strength and encouragement to others when they are going through tough times?

To Finish What Christ Began

  1. In verses 24-26, Paul admonishes us to treat others with love and humility. You cannot separate love and truth. Who will listen to you if you do not show love to them first?
  2. How can you continue the work Christ began? What are some things you can do in your sphere of influence?

Close:

Coming to church, meeting with friends on Sundays and possibly Wednesdays, or attending a Life Group, all feed your spirit and encourages you. But in those situations, all (or most) in attendance are of the same mindset as you, and in a way, isolated from the filth, obvious sins, profanity, and hatred that you might face in your day-to-day activities. As you close this session, it is so imperative that you study the chapter with the intention of learning and applying how God wants you to carry out His mission. Perhaps even write down some of the ideas Paul’s instructions create in you. He wants you to be living in victory every day, no matter what circumstances you find yourself in, while you are dealing with people who may be living so differently than you live. Treat them with respect, love them, invite them to come to church with you. Most of all, show them that each day you want to live your life pleasing to Him who died for you!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 2:15: “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the world of truth.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 2

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | September 18

Unfinished: A Work Worth Doing
September 18, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

An insightful question to ask young people is, “If you could choose any vocation you wanted, what would it be?” What answer would you give if you were asked that today, as an adult? Is your work satisfying to you?

We are in a series called “Unfinished,” looking at Paul’s final words to Timothy. Paul was soon to be executed but penned loving instructions for those who would continue the mission of spreading the Gospel.  He had faithfully carried out what he knew God had called him to do. Let’s apply these words to our own lives in today’s world.

Discuss:

Never be ashamed

  1. Read 2 Timothy 1:8-18. In verse 8a, why does Paul tell Timothy not to be ashamed of the testimony of Jesus, or of Paul? How does this parallel the night of the crucifixion, when Peter and the other apostles fled?*
  2. Why should you never be ashamed of being a Christian, when you have the opportunity to take a stand?

Because you are called

  1. Read verse 9. What is the “holy calling” He called you to pursue?
  2. Why did He call you? When did He call you? Can you truly understand that?

With the message of life

  1. Read verse 10. Why do we say that Jesus “abolished” death, and that it has been defeated? Do you fear death any longer, or just the uncertainty in the way by which it may come?

Though the journey might be tough

  1. Read verse 12a. We are seeing the times getting tough for Christians all over the world. What are some of the ways Christianity is being attacked? Ask yourself, will I be strong enough to face tough times for my Lord?

God is faithful

  1. Read verse 12b. How do you know He is faithful? Look back at your life; has He ever left you? Can you think of a time when you doubted Him because He answered a prayer with “No”?

You are not alone

  1. What “good thing” is Paul referring to in verse 14? When do you receive the Holy Spirit? Will He ever leave you?

Close:

Can you put yourself in Paul’s place, where he was perhaps only days away from being executed for his faith? He had undergone brutal persecution most of his years after becoming a believer, but had never turned away from the great work God had called him to do.** Now he was preparing others to take up the gauntlet and continue making Christ-followers. As you discuss or think about your courage in the face of persecution, what are your concerns? It is pertinent that you realize some people who turn away and reject God do so because He has answered fervent prayer with “No.” Yet truly trusting Him means trusting that His way is always the right way, even when you do not understand (questions 6, 7 and 8). Pray for each other diligently that no one will fall by the wayside, but rely on the Holy Spirit to empower all in your group to take every opportunity to stand for the name of Jesus. If you need extra time to study, find a Life Group that will help you to witness, spreading the good news on your street, in your job, or in your community. God simply asks that you be available for Him to use!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 1:12: “For this reason I also suffer these things, nevertheless I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 1:8-18; John 1:12

Home Study: **Read 2 Corinthians 11:23b-28 for Paul’s list of persecution which he had suffered. *Read Mark 14:27-50, 66-72 for the account of the apostles turning their backs on the Savior, and Peter’s denials (question 2).

 

 

 

Group Notes | September 11

Unfinished: Here and Now
September 11, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Basic learning falls into one of two categories: learning by experience, or learning by observation. For instance, your parents may have divorced, and the consequences made you determine you will never do that to your child. Experience in getting a $150 ticket for speeding may teach you the consequences were not worth the moment of fun! Can you think of an illustration for either that has impacted your life?

Over the next few weeks we will focus on finding answers to questions like “Why am I here? Why was I born? Do I have a purpose?” as we start a new series called “Unfinished.”  We may find some of the answers through having experienced God’s movement in our individual lives, while other answers may come as we observe the changed lives of those who have given their heart to Christ.

Discuss:

  1. Before we look at the focal passage, does anyone know a Scripture that may tell us why God says He made man? (Psalm 86:9 is one).
  2. How do you know God has a purpose for you? (Read Jeremiah 29:11).

We are going to study Paul’s last words to Timothy, encouraging him to carry on the work of the ministry. We need to apply these instructions to our own life, knowing the work of spreading the gospel to the world is not yet finished.

Life exists only in Christ

  1. Read 2 Timothy 1:1-7. What does verse 1b tell us? Why must we know this by our own experience, or by observing the changed lives around us?

In a crazy world, hope comes only from Him

  1. Read verse 2b. What are some ways the world uses to avoid believing this verse? What is our hope and how is it so different from that of the world?

Finding purpose in life starts with Him

  1. Read verses 3a and 4. If we believe that God created us with certain gifts, with a specific purpose, how can we know them? Read 1 Peter 4:10. Why did He give us a gift/gifts? Will we find true joy if we are not serving others in some way?

It’s been entrusted to us

  1. Read verse 5. Who had passed on the gift of faith to Timothy? God has delivered it to us; who are you passing it on to?

Our starting point

  1. Read verse 6. What does Paul mean by “stir up”? Is your gift like that of your friends? What are ways in which we can recognize our gift (question 5)? When we find it, what are we to do with it?

Peace through strength

  1. Read verse 8. Where do our fears come from? What has God given to us? Can anyone share the extent of the “power” that God gives us?

Close:

These verses are so filled with important content that it’s hard to condense the time it takes to study it in depth! Below will be some points for you to think on during the coming week, expanding on what God has done for us. He has given us so much, both in our life on earth, as well as gifts of service for our brethren, and a future with Him. Examine your life to see if these things are alive and well in you, and discuss ways that you can increase your awareness of them. Pray for each other, that you would be able to vanquish the fear that Satan tries to use to destroy these wonderful blessings from God. If you know someone who would benefit from being in a small group, invite them to come with you next week, especially if they are new to your area. Loneliness is a tool Satan uses too often in the life of a believer to destroy the work we are called to finish.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 1:7: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 1:1-7

Home Study: Take some time to list all the benefits that God had blessed Timothy with, and then do a self-examination to see that they are active in your own life. In verse 1, the “life” Christ promises is not only for here and now, but for eternity. Verse 2, “grace” in the original Greek implies God draws the heart, then keeps us, grows us, encourages us through kindness, and pushes us forward to complete the task He has given us. Mercy is to exercise kindness toward the miserable and afflicted, and stop looking at the world. Peace is that tranquil state of a soul that knows its future is secure in Christ Jesus. Joy (verse 4) is the natural result of a life lived in service to God. Power (verse 7) is our word for dynamite—an explosive, immense capability to choose what is right, true, honorable, and pure (Phil. 4:8) over what is bad; love for the brethren, and a sound mind, which is one filled with being content in whatever state you are placed in (Phil. 4:11).

 

 

Group Notes | September 4

Plugged In: Commissioned
September 4, 2016
Matt Willmington

Open:

Have you ever really thought about the reality that every successful event (party, reunion, etc.) has come about because someone decided “I can/should do that”? Can you give an example?

We continue to focus on the need to be “plugged in” to the power that comes to us as a child of God, enabling us to serve Him and change our world. This week we will look at Nehemiah, a Biblical character, who, because of his great commitment to God, stepped up to the plate and led a community to come together and rebuild the ruins of Jerusalem.

 

Discuss:

  1. Today’s busy schedules leave little time for relaxation, but what is the difference between solitude and isolation?
  2. Read Proverbs 18:1a. How does this verse reflect the life of someone who has no interest in sharing the good news of Jesus Christ?
  3. Did someone who has withdrawn themselves from fellowship (perhaps from depression, hurt, etc.) come to your mind? What can you do to restore them?

Let’s look at what it takes to successfully carry out God’s commission of loving Him and loving our neighbors.

Work

  1. Read Nehemiah 2:17-18. Why was Nehemiah concerned about the people rebuilding the wall around Jerusalem? What did he do to get the project started?
  2. Read Ephesians 4:11-13. How does the work of Christ get done if we just sit on the sidelines? Why do we need to get “into the game?”

War

  1. Read Nehemiah 4:13-14. What extra effort had to be made as these men worked on the wall? What are some of the hindrances that we should expect in our own lives as we seek to share the gospel?
  2. Who are some of the enemies we have because of our desire to build God’s kingdom on earth? Who were the Israelites thinking about as they built (vs 14)? Who should we be concerned about as we seek to change our world?

Word

  1. Read Neh. 8:1-3,5-6,7b-8. Nehemiah realized there was another part of life that was as necessary as the physical wall the people built. What was it?
  2. We have the advantage of knowing the whole story, from Genesis to Revelation. What are some personal applications we can make from these passages that will help us carry out the commission of Jesus Christ?

Close:

Do you find some Old Testament characters seem to be “hero” material? Nehemiah was one of those. His life shows a deep reverence for God and a willingness to do whatever God laid on his heart. As you close, discuss ways you can get plugged in more closely to God, so that you, with a group of believers, can change your world—perhaps through a Life Group (or possibly even talk to someone who can help you begin one). Nehemiah had a vision, carried it out, and changed his community. Can you pray that God will open doors this week for you to “seek and save those who are lost”? God will bless your efforts and you will find new meaning in life.

Memory Verse: Nehemiah 4:14b: “Do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, great and awesome, and fight for your brethren, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your houses.”

Focal Passage: Nehemiah 2:17, 18; 4:13-14; 8:1-8.

Home Study: Take some time to read the short book of Nehemiah. Notice how many times he stopped and prayed. Write down those things that inspire you to grow in your knowledge of God and His word.

 

 

 

Group Notes | August 28

Plugged In: The Power of Sharing
August 28, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

What type of crisis are you currently facing, or perhaps have faced recently? Can anyone share? Do you have someone who can help you carry the burden and walk this valley of tears with you?

We are currently looking at the need to be deeply “plugged in” to Christ Jesus, walking with Him closely each day. This is very necessary as we face trials and unbearable catastrophes on an almost-daily basis. Let’s look at the need to be walking so closely with Him that we are passionate to share His light to a very dark world.

Discuss:

  1. Can someone quickly remind the group of the Mission Statement of TRBC? What three passions do we desire our members to have?

One of those areas is the desire to change our world. Let’s look at what is involved.

It takes work

  1. Read 2 Corinthians 5:11-21. What does Paul specifically tell us in verse 11a? If church members gather on Sunday, go through the “Order of Service,” then go home, will change in the world take place? Why or why not?
  2. You might pray for your neighbor to be saved, but what are some things that must take place along with your prayer?
  3. Why would Paul say we have a “fearful responsibility?”

It takes commitment

  1. Read verse 14 again. Why is submission to the power of God completely at odds with the propaganda the world throws at us?
  2. How are you able to tell when a couple is happy in their marriage? How is that analogous to what people think when they find you call yourself a Christian? How does your lifestyle make you different—if it does?

It takes acceptance

 Read verses 16 and 17. Can someone be a “closet” Christian?

  1. Why is it necessary that others see your life has changed?

It takes HIM

  1. Read verse 19. Is there any reason for Christ to have died if you could get to heaven through your giving, through good works, or helping meet needs through social media?

It takes YOU

 Read verses 20 and 21. As you interact with people during a day, how many times do you actually look into their eyes to see if there’s a need? The eyes, it is said, are the window to the soul. What can their eyes tell you?

  1. How can you reach your world for Christ?

Close:

This study has been longer than usual, so we won’t take time to break into small groups. Take just a moment to discuss how you can actually carry out the command of Christ to love the world (Matt. 28), love God with everything you are and everything you have, and love your neighbor more than you love yourself. How many actually know your neighbor? Quickly list something each of you are passionate about. Does this passion exist in your relationship with Jesus? This week, ask Him to show you ways to know Him more intimately, love Him more dearly, meet ONE need of ONE neighbor, and start to change your world!

Memory Verse: 2 Corinthians 5:17: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new.”

Focal Passage: 2 Corinthians 5:11-21.

Contemplate: The members of any local body of believers should be passionate about 1) Having a Commitment to Scripture; 2) Having Discipline in a deep Prayer Life; 3) Being Engaged in a Lifestyle of Worship; 4) Being Connected in your Community; 5) Having a Heart for Serving; and 6) Sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

 

 

Group Notes | August 21

Plugged In: Keep Calm and Carry On-Overcoming Fear with Faith
August 21,2016
Charles Billingsley

 

Open:

Frustration can explode when you’re in the middle of a document, only to have your laptop shut down because you forgot to recharge it. Or electricity goes out just as a cake goes into the oven! Can anyone give a personal example of losing power?

Over the next few weeks, we will examine how our lives are powerless unless we are deeply “plugged in” to Christ Jesus, walking in faith daily. Today we will look at the fear that can enter our thoughts and hearts as we are bombarded with chaos on every hand, until we remember that we know the source of all power: it is God and God alone.

 

Discuss:

  1. Read Psalm 46:1-11. What is the central lesson this Psalm teaches?
  2. As you listened to the Psalm being read, what were your thoughts, and how did the words speak to your heart?
  3. It is said of the great theologian, Martin Luther, when he heard discouraging news, that he would say, “Come, let us sing the forty-sixth Psalm!” Why do you think that was?

Be Still

  1. In verse 10, what are some meanings of the word “be”? Does it indicate action?
  2. Everyone knows what it means to be “still,” but why is it so difficult? If God tells us to “be still,” He considers it extremely important. Does anyone recall some of the definitions given in the sermon for the word? (They will be listed at the end.)

And Know

  1. God continued to give us instructions, in addition to being still. What does God mean by “know”? Why is it so important that we know the heart of God?
  2. As you think of your family or friends, what makes the difference between knowing them, and being acquainted with them? Why does this Psalm illustrate the importance of knowing Him intimately?

 

That I AM God

  1. If you remember the sermons on the life of Moses, God called Himself the “I AM.” What are some of the characteristics of God being “I AM”?
  2. What does God want for us in this Psalm? How does that define “Who” He is?

Why should that bring us tremendous peace in the midst of the trouble and fear of the times we are living in?

 

Close:

An old hymn said “trials dark on every hand.”* That so well sums up our world. We are besieged by busyness and electronics in our jobs, at home and play. As you break into small groups, discuss how these things take your time away from knowing God better. What things can you omit in order to spend time alone with Him, and actually “Be Still”? Be open with one another, so that each of you can pray for the discipline everyone needs in order to hunger and thirst to really KNOW God. When you recognize His unparalleled power, you will realize you have no reason to fear anything, for He has your back. Thank Him continually for the good things He has done in your life! This week, ask Him to show you ways to know Him more intimately, and overcome those times when you find yourself living in fear.

Memory Verse: Psalm 46:10: “Be still and know that I am God.”

Focal Passage: Psalm 46:1-11.

Memorable Quotes: “Come, let us sing the forty-sixth Psalm!” Martin Luther 1483-1546); “In the presence of power, fear subsides.” Charles Billingsley

*Song: “We’ll Understand It Better By and By,” lyrics by Charles Albert Tindley

Contemplate: “Be”: to exist; “Still”:  to cease striving; to abandon; practice solitude, detach daily; leaving anything that takes our focus away from God; “And Know”: knowledge at the deepest level (Jeremiah 29:13); “that I AM God”: from Greek Elohim; He is always in the present, and He holds the future in His hands. To Him is all power, honor, majesty, glory and much, much more.

 

Group Notes | August 14

Overcomer: Finishing Strong
August 14, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It takes only a fraction of a second to make a choice that has consequences that can last for the rest of your life, yet you somehow pick up and finish with integrity. Can anyone give a personal example?

Over the past several weeks we have learned lessons from the life of Moses, starting with his birth until, at 80 years of age, he led the children of Israel out of Egypt, where he guided them for forty years. Today we focus on one incident when his disobedience to God cost him the reward of going into the promised land. Still, he continued to be passionate in serving God.

 

Discuss:

  1. Read Numbers 20:1-12 for a background of Moses’ disobedience.
  2. Had God ignored Moses’ action, what lessons would that have taught Israel about disobeying and dishonoring Him, and about the importance and authority of the Ten Commandments? Which one did it violate in particular?

He didn’t let his past failure keep him from his future obedience

  1. In verse 12 of Numbers 20, how do you think Moses felt when God reprimanded and punished him in front of the multitude?
  2. How would you have felt if it had happened to you (perhaps a congregation, or company)? Can you share?

He continued to lead

  1. God continued to give Moses instructions in Numbers 20. What does verse 27 say? What does this tell us about the heart of Moses?
  2. Think of a time when your own disobedience caused God to have to discipline you; did you let the bitterness give you a reason to walk away from God for a season?

He continued to bless those around him

  1. If you go back to Deut. 31 (read it on your own), you will see Moses pours his remaining days into blessing the tribes of Israel, mentoring Eleazar to take the place of Aaron, and preparing Joshua to take his own place. What do these actions tell you about his inner character?
  2. Ask yourself a very serious question: in the same circumstances, would you (or have you) continued serving God with a passion, or shut Him out of your life?

Key Point: It was GOD’S work, not Moses’

 

Close:

It would have been so easy to let the humility of the one act of disobedience take root and grow a “root” of bitterness. Read Hebrews 12:15. Most of us have had times of God’s disciplining, and have sometimes felt it unfair (from our perspective). As you go into small groups, discuss things in your life that need to be dealt with so that you let the past go, and finish strong.  Also, most of us know someone who feels they have been hurt or treated unfairly, and have turned away from God (read James 5:20).  Pray this week that you will examine your heart, certain that God has first place in all you do and say, and that you are committed to serving Him until He calls you home!

Memory Verse: Deut. 31:6: “Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the LORD your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”

Focal Passages: Numbers 20:1-12, 27; Deut. 34:1-8.

Quote for finishing strong: Having a “4th Quarter Ministry!” Jerry Falwell, Sr.

 

 

Group Notes | August 7

Overcomer: Overcoming Together
August 7, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Seasons of crises can overwhelm us, especially if we are trying to handle a situation by ourselves. Can you think of a time you were facing a trouble, and a friend came along side to help you shoulder the burden? Can you share?

From the creation of Eve as a companion for Adam, to the creation of the body of believers called the church, God has ordained relationships to be the heartbeat of our lives—both vertically with Him, and horizontally with our neighbors. Today we continue to glean more lessons from the life of Moses, who led the children of Israel for forty years. Was he overwhelmed? Let’s focus on the words of his father-in-law, and apply them to our own life.

 

Discuss:

It is difficult to overcome when you are overwhelmed

  1. Read Exodus 18:13-23. Scholars feel that Moses led about 2,500,000 people out of Egypt. What did verses 13-16 record his daily activity? How many people waiting for your time would overwhelm you?
  2. In verses 17-18, what did his father-in-law tell him? Can any of you relate?

Living life in a whirlwind rarely leads to accomplishment

  1. Go back to verse 14. What was Jethro asking? If any of you are totally swamped by your current lifestyle, how do you feel at the end of the day?
  2. What are some things that can cause you to want to “stay in bed” when morning comes?

Building Godly relationships is a great first step in finding your way out

  1. Read verse 21a. What kind of men did Jethro suggest Moses surround himself with? How can you apply that to your own life? Think of your most intimate friends: do they fit these qualifications?
  2. Read verse 22b. How does this verse relate to Galatians 6:2?

Overcoming together is God’s plan

  1. Why did God say He was going to create Eve? Read Ecclesiastes 3:12. What is God saying through Solomon?
  2. Who are some of those whom God has ordained to help us carry burdens and endure trials?

 

Close:

It is easy to relate to the incredible burden Moses was bearing, even though the times we live in are nothing like his. Most of us have schedules that we feel are going to break us. As you go into small groups, discuss things in your life that are overwhelming you, and suggest ways you can chip away at the list of responsibilities. (There is a list below).  If you are able, seek out others who need you as a friend to help them bear their burdens.  Pray this week that you will take a step toward becoming more aware of God’s amazing power to put people in your life who will help you, and whom you can help!

Steps for freedom from being overwhelmed:
1) Take time out to rest from the things that are the greatest burdens.
2) Prioritize the importance of your responsibilities, working on the most important first.
3) Don’t ever let the amount of duties or “stuff” crowd out your need to spend time with God.
4) Surround yourself with true friends who are reliable, Godly and trustworthy.

Memory Verse: Exodus 18:11: “Now I know that the LORD is greater than all the gods; for in the very thing in which they behaved proudly, He was above them.”

Focal Passage: Exodus 18:13-23

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | July 31

Overcoming: Overcoming the Attacks
July 31, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

In this modern age of distractions, busyness, heavy schedules, and more, attacks—personal or general—seem to come at us daily. Can you think of some you’ve endured recently?

We have recently been focusing on the life of Moses, concentrating on the internal battles he went through as God called him to do the job of leading Israel out of Egypt. Now we will look at the external attacks that took place, as people and situations arose to provoke him to give up. Let us continue to see him as an example of an “overcomer.”

 

Discuss:

Our Battle Is Bigger Than We Think

  1. Read Exodus 5:1-11. In the second half of chapter 4, Moses and Aaron went to the Israelites who had been slaves in Egypt for 400 years, and told them God had called them to deliver the Hebrews from slavery. Next they went to Pharaoh. How did he react? The battle suddenly became more real, did it not?
  2. What kind of reaction should Moses have expected from Pharaoh? Read Ex. 4:21-23. What had God had told Moses would happen?

Our Hope Is Bigger Than We Believe

  1. Read 5:3a again. Think of a recent roadblock you have met with when trying to do something for the Lord. Can you share? Did you quit or persevere?
  2. Why did Moses and Aaron persist when it would have been easier to give up? Why would their refusal to quit have anything to do with their trust in the Lord?

The Attacks May (Will) Keep Coming

  1. In verse 5:7, what command did Pharaoh give? This attack seems to verge on insanity! Why are we surprised when sinners act like sinners?
  2. Why will attacks keep on happening as long as you are trying to do something to progress God’s kingdom? Read Eph. 6:12 and 1 Peter 5:8. Do these verses explain the attacks?

The Victory Is His

  1. Read Ex. 9:16 and 1 Samuel 17:47. Whose fight are the battles we are engaged in? How does it depend on us?
  2. What are the best things we can do to win?

 

Close:

As we move our focus from looking at the internal battles to those that come at us from outside, are you intimidated that you are in a war with Satan? He ultimately wants to take you down, and it is not going to be your strength that saves you. As you break into small groups, discuss the weapons of warfare that you need to use as you battle daily. Focus on the points in this sermon, and internalize them so that you realize daily that it is only your personal relationship with Christ that is going to bring you through as an “overcomer!” Pray for each other, for the families, marriages, children and grandchildren represented by those in your group. Try to make a disciple of someone this week, asking God to change a heart because of your witness.

Memory Verse: Exodus 6:1: “Then the LORD said to Moses, ‘Now you shall see what I will do to Pharaoh. For with a strong hand he will let them go, and with a strong hand he will drive them out of his land.’”

Focal Passage: Exodus 5:1-11, 9:16, 10:1, 10:2, 14:4, 14:13, and 14:31

 

 

Group Notes | July 24

Overcomer: Overcoming Insecurity
July 24, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It is often said that failure to try something is worse than trying, then failing. “Failure to try” is frequently because we perceive ourselves incompetent to accomplish a certain task. Can you share an example?

Today we continue to learn lessons from the life of Moses, who seemed to consider himself totally inadequate for the job God was calling him to do. His personal perception of himself kept him from hearing God’s promise to be with Him through it all. Let’s focus on how he pushed through the obstacles to trust God.

Discuss:

I’m Not Good Enough or Smart Enough

  1. Read Exodus 4:1-3. When was the last time you actually did not take an active part in something because of fear that you weren’t good enough?
  2. How does that differ from the answer Moses gave God?

I Don’t Know What to Say

  1. Read verses 10-12. If you’ve been saved very long, you recognize the “nudge” God gives when He is asking something of you. How have you let this fear stop you from obeying Him? Does it also keep you from witnessing?
  2. How can you trust God enough to obey Him to equip you if He has called you to a certain work?

I’m Too Scared; Someone Else Should Do It

  1. Read verses 13-16. Moses continued to beg God to “let someone else do it!” Yet God had not only personally picked Moses, but had constantly given His promise to be with him. Why did God not give up on Moses?
  2. What arguments do you use with God? What would it take for you to trust Him to be with you, and give you the words to speak?

When You Trust God with Your Today, God Will Take Care of Your Future

  1. Read verse 31. After Moses’ last protestation, when God became angry, He still used Moses. Trust is a day-to-day issue. How can you better trust Him today to push forward victoriously?
  2. If you feel that God wants you to witness, or minister, and promises to be with you, how will you trust Him then? As we asked last week, would you feel differently if you heard God say to you aloud, “I will be with you”?

Close:

Moses obviously had the same hang-ups, habits, and hurts as we experience. None of us are exempt from feeling inadequate to serve a holy God. As you break up into small groups, discuss the reasons why you feel self-doubt, writing them down so that you can see whether they are as valid as you feel they are! Perhaps they are old burdens from childhood years, and you have let Satan browbeat you with a constant barrage of “not worthy.” Go to Scriptures that address your lack of confidence, understand that you are a child of the King, and write beside each of your insecurities the blessings God has given you, and the things you have done for His kingdom. Let them make a difference in your life. Pray this week that you trust God with a full heart!

Points to Ponder:
1) No one is ever smart enough on our own but with God, all things are possible (Philippians 4:13).
2) Our words will always be insufficient, but if our heart is available, He will speak through us.
3) Yes, there’s always someone else, but He called you for a particular task.
4) It is only when we trust God that we will begin to see how powerful He really is!

Memory Verse: Exodus 4:31: “So the people believed, and when they heard that the LORD had visited the children of Israel and that He had looked on their affliction, then they bowed their heads and worshiped.”

Focal Passage: Exodus 4:1-31

 

 

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | July 17

Overcomer: Overcoming the Past
July 17, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Have you ever made a choice that caused you to lose hope and think a new life could ever be pulled from beneath the chaos you created? What continued to push you through the pain to see what the future might hold? Can you share an example?

Today we want to contrast our lives with that of Moses, who made a mistake that caused him to flee Egypt, sending him into the desert, where he lived as a shepherd. God sought him, gave him freedom from his past, then used him to change his entire nation. Often our past holds us back from being available for God’s will. Let us see how we can change that.

Discuss:

God doesn’t look at our past to determine if He wants to use us

  1. Read Exodus 3:1-4. When Moses was eighty years old, he was called by God to a bush that was burning with fire, yet not extinguished. Why had he left Egypt and how long ago? How would his action have affected him mentally?

God’s Holiness trumps our messiness

  1. Read verses 5, 6. God had been quiet for almost 400 years. What do you think Moses felt as he realized the Holy God was speaking to him? If this had happened to you, how would you have reacted?

God’s plans will always be greater than ours

  1. Read verses 7-10. After 400 years of slavery, the Israelites assumed God had forgotten them. Had He? Who had initiated this meeting between Moses and God? If God asked you to do something significant, how would you respond?
  2. What do you think Moses felt his remaining years were going to be like before God called him? Do you think he would have wanted to go back to Egypt? Why or why not?

God’s power will always be enough

  1. Read verses 11, 12. Moses implored God to let someone else be the deliverer. Why do you think he “argued” with God? Over the next thirty verses Moses brings up reasons that he cannot lead Israel out of Egypt. Skim your eyes through the verses; what does he keep missing?
  2. When you feel that God wants you to witness, or minister, how do you respond? Would you feel differently if you heard God say, “I will be with you”?

The only way to overcome our past is to know our future

  1. Read verses 13-14. We cannot read Moses’ body language, so we do not know if he was agitated about his past, or failing in faith. What is meant that we ‘can only overcome our past by knowing our future’?
  2. Can you give an example of God bringing good out of your life even though you may have a past that you feel He could hold against you?
  3. In what ways does the life of Moses this week challenge you in your daily life?

Close:

Moses had had forty years to ponder the killing in Egypt, his flight, and his life as a shepherd. Possibly he no longer had hope that his life would ever be different. As you break up into small groups, discuss some of the baggage that is holding you back when God is asking that you be available. Think about your repentance for past sins. If it was real, where are they now (Psalm 103:12)? Pray for each other, that we would fall down on our faces before a Holy God, asking how He can use each of us as the day of His return draws nearer. Seek opportunities to tell someone of His great love and forgiveness.

Memory Verse: Exodus 3:12: “So He said, ‘I will certainly be with you. And this shall be a sign to you that I have sent you: When you have brought the people out of Egypt, you shall serve God on this mountain.’”

Focal Passage: Exodus 3:1-14

Home Study: Read Exodus 3 and 4, to see Moses’ reaction to God’s desire for his life.

Group Notes | July 10

Overcomer: Overcoming Perilous Times
July 10, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

When we think of being victorious—or being an overcomer—we generally assume we’ve persevered through something big. But overcoming can begin with small things we want to eliminate from our lives. Can you give some examples?

Today we continue to study what it takes to be victorious as we go through periods of trouble, focusing on the life of Moses for our example. We are particularly going to consider the qualities needed when times of great peril come to us personally, as a family unit, or in our country. We need these qualities now more than ever.

Discuss:

  1. Read Exodus 2:11-19. Imagine your life as Moses must have been raised. Surely, however he learned of his heritage, he could not block their slavery from his mind as he strolled Egypt. Can you speculate how he may have felt?
  2. What type of thoughts may have gone through his head as he came closer to the time when he knew he was going to align himself with them? Would you assume he had given much thought to their plight?

Be Realistic About What Is Going On

  1. Read verses 11-14 again. Moses did not ignore the predicament the Israelites were in. What can you learn from his actions? Why is it so much easier to close your eyes to the pain of others, rather than becoming involved?
  2. What were some of the sacrifices he knew he would be making as he took up their cause? Do you consider a sacrifice you might have to make if you act to help someone?

Be Willing to Get Involved

  1. Read verse 15. Moses was correct in realizing his involvement was going to cost him his royal position in Egypt. Who are some people in your family or friends who lay their life on the line every day? How can you help?

When Trouble Surrounds You, Don’t Stop Doing the Right Thing

  1. Read verses 16-19. It would have been easy for Moses to turn away from helping everyone after fleeing for his life. What circumstances in these verses show that he had the quality of being a true “Overcomer” deep inside?
  2. When you have been persecuted for doing right, do you tend to hibernate, or keep going? Can you give an example?
  3. In what ways does the faith of Moses challenge you in your daily life?
  4. As we study the life of Moses, Who else sacrificed everything—a throne, power, authority—to lay down His life for people who didn’t receive Him?

Close:

The example of Moses is incredible as you think of the staggering sacrifice he was willing to make. It had to have been a constant source of grief to see his own people in captivity. As you break up into small groups, discuss whether you find it easier to hibernate or ignore the pain others are going through, or whether you are one who will step forward and help? Pray for each other, for perilous times have indeed hit our land. It will be at great personal risk that you follow the example of Moses, seeing a need, taking action, and serving. Be an example to those who are watching you!

Memory Verse: Exodus 3:7: “And the LORD said, ‘I have surely seen the oppression of My people who are in Egypt, and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters, for I know their sorrows.’”

Focal Passage: Exodus 2:11-19

 

 

 

 

Group Notes | July 3

Overcomer: What Does It Take to Be an Overcomer?
July 3, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

A common expression is “You’re either going in to, coming out of, or in the middle of a crisis at all times.” Everyone wants to be able to look back and see that we came victoriously through the trials of life, and not be defeat. Can you think of an example?

Today we begin a new series, examining the qualities it takes to be victorious as we go through periods of trouble. We will focus on the life of Moses, a man who went through ordeals from birth to death, yet God called to do great things for Him. Let’s look at what made Moses an overcomer, and what we can learn from him.

Discuss:

  1. Read Hebrews 11:23-29. In these few short verses, Moses took a stand several times that showed extreme courage. What were they?
  2. How would you label Moses’ character—was he more concerned about pleasing God or having people like him? How can you be an overcomer if your goal is to please people?

Faith

  1. How did Moses determine his course of action each time? Why was that important?
  2. Read Hebrews 11:1. The definition of faith (complete trust or confidence in someone or a strong belief in God) is described further here. What role did his faith play in Moses’ decisions?
  3. We do not know how Moses knew the God of his fathers, or how he knew he was Hebrew, but what were some of the things he gave up to do God’s will?

Looking to God for Significance

  1. Read verse 24b-25. It is so easy to get your support or “validation” from your friends. What teaches you that only God’s promises can be relied on?
  2. In what ways does the faith of Moses challenge you in your daily life?

Recognition of What Matters

  1. Read verse 26. Can you share something you have given up recently because you desire to honor God more than treasures on earth?
  2. How conscious are you of serving Christ as you go about your daily routine?

Close:

Moses was definitely an overcomer! Born of humble beginnings at a time when Pharaoh decreed all Hebrew boys be killed at birth, to leading the Israelites for forty years, he faithfully kept his eyes on God. As you break up into small groups, be open with each other in sharing times you’ve failed to be victorious because you looked to people for help, rather than Christ. Pray for each other, as no one walks the Christian life without troubles or trials, and all need intercessory prayer. Be alert to choices as challenges come your way, and make the decision beforehand to be an overcomer this week. There are many Life Groups that will help you be triumphant in your walk (2 Cor. 2:14)!

Memory Verse: Exodus 2:24: “So God heard their groaning, and God remembered His covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob.”

Focal Passage: Hebrews 11:23-29.

 

 

 

Group Notes | June 26

We’ve Come This Far by Faith: Now What? 60th Anniversary Service
June 26, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Imagine a photograph of you taken a few years ago in a then-familiar setting, and mentally place it beside one from your present-day situation. Can you share what might go through your mind? Would there be awe, amazement, or maybe confusion, regret?

Over one hundred years ago Dwight Moody said, “The world has yet to see what God can do with a man wholly consecrated to Him.” Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., was such a man, and today we celebrate and reflect on the incredible vision he believed his God could accomplish through him. More than sixty years ago, he fervently sought God’s guidance, wisdom and direction for his life; through prayer and extraordinary faith, he built a church and university to spread the gospel throughout his community, country and the world. Now it is the mission of the many members of Thomas Road Baptist Church to continue the great work of seeing the world reached for Jesus Christ. By faith and prayer, we will move forward with this remarkable work!

 

Discuss:

  1. Read Isaiah 51:1. It is good to recall our lives before salvation, and reflect on the amazing grace that saved us. Can anyone share their testimony?
  2. We don’t want to keep a backward focus. Read Philippians 3:13. What can happen if we dwell too long on the past?
  3. Read Jeremiah 29:11—a verse that inspires hope and promise to believers. Will someone share how it brings meaning to your life?
  4. Read Romans 10:14. How can anyone be effective without a vision? Do you think this was a cornerstone for Dr. Falwell’s prayers?
  5. What was the foundation upon which his life was built? Read Acts 2:42. How do you think this verse has played out in the life of growing this church?
  6. What is the three-fold statement of faith for our church? Can you list some ways in which these are fulfilled?
  7. Read Acts 20:18-21. From what you know of Dr. Falwell, how closely did this verse parallel with his life? What kind of legacy did he leave?
  8. What are some visions you have for your personal opportunity for growth within the church?
  9. How are you prepared to take part in the coming years, actively being a participant rather than passively being a spectator? What kind of legacy are you leaving to those who know you?

 

Close:

From the small room at a Bible College where Dr. Falwell prayed by the hour for God’s hand to be on his life, he developed a vision for a church which became an incredible reality. If he could see today’s harvest from that original cluster of thirty-five individuals who longed for a church, and those who desired to have an education built on Biblical principles, he would no doubt be humbled and stunned that God used him to build His kingdom on earth. As you break into small groups, discuss ways you can further the outreach that can affect the world. Remember the recent sermon, how, by 300 A.D., the twelve disciples had increased to over 10,000,000 Christians. Today’s church should be able to impact the entire world exponentially just as the early church did. Pray as you leave that Jesus would give you a personal vision of hope and a future of how you can change your area of influence and help you be extremely aware of the legacy you are leaving your family and friends.

Memory Verse: Mark 11:24: “Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.”

 

Group Time : June 19

In The World, But Not of It: Never Waver
June 19, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Is there a belief you hold to so firmly that you would oppose anyone who would deny your right to exercise that conviction? Perhaps it’s Constitutional Rights, or something so simple as disciplining your child. Can you give examples?

This week we will return to the series of living in the world, but making life choices based on the Word of God, rather than following society. We will examine one scene from the life of the prophet Elijah, who stood strong in faith in a pagan world.

Discuss:

  1. Read 1 Kings 18:21-39. What were some amazing things said or done by Elijah in this passage?

Make a Choice

  1. Read verse 21 again. If you have had to make a choice that required you to be unpopular because of your Christianity, will you share?
  2. Why do many Christians not take a stand for what is laid out as Truth in Scripture?
  3. What does silence indicate to the world?

Have Confidence

  1. Read verse 25a. What were some dangers Elijah faced from the prophets of Baal?
  2. If you are asked if you believe God is able to do anything, what would you say? If you had to act on that belief against society’s behavior, what would you do?

Go all In!

  1. Read verses 30-35. Did Elijah manipulate the situation in his favor?
  2. Think back on the opening: when in a position to take a stand in line with Scripture, are you generally confident, silent, or a fence rider? Why?
  3. How much confidence did Elijah place in God’s power, and in particular, His reliability in answering Elijah’s prayer?
  4. Read James 5:17a. Elijah is often held in high esteem because of his amazing faith. It is actually his amazing GOD who should be held in high esteem! Why?

Close:

As you break into small groups, discuss the difficulty of taking a stand that will result in persecution, loss of friends, or gossip. Do you usually choose pleasing friends or people over pleasing God? The Bible calls that being a “man pleaser.” (Gal. 1:10). Discuss ways you can use to develop the trust in God that Elijah had. This week, write down ideas that will help you become more courageous in sharing your faith. There are always Life Groups meeting that will encourage and benefit you. Pray as you leave that God would give you a holy boldness to witness for Him at every opportunity.

Focal Passage: 1 Kings 18: 21-39

Memory Verse: 1 King 18:21. Elijah went before the people and said, “How long will you waver between two opinions? If the LORD is God, follow Him; but if Baal is God, follow him.”

 

 

 

Group Notes | June 12

The “Following” Church
June 12, 2016
Matt Willmington

 

Open:

Families who do “life” together seem so very happy, compared to those who occupy the same home but all have different lifestyles. Can you give an example?

Last week we looked at what a real Christian should be, and we each asked ourselves, “Am I a Christian?” This week we want to focus on the characteristics of a Christ-following church, and what it looks like in the community. Is your church a happy “carpool” of Christians on a mission together, loving and serving?

Discuss:

What Does a Church Look Like?

  1. What are four non-negotiables that were in the early church (and should be in today’s as well)?*
  2. What do you know about Rome’s society during the rise of Christianity? How is that different from today’s world?
  3. These early Christians had no vote and no voice, yet they increased daily. What were some of the traits outsiders saw in these believers?**
  4. How should you live, so that men may not bring an indictment of hypocrisy against you? Romans 12 is a great self-examination chapter.

Today’s Church

  1. Read Acts 1:22, 4:13, 22. Why was the early church so powerful? What verse do you know that tells you this should be the heartbeat of today’s church?
  2. Read Acts 1:8. What had Jesus told His followers to expect? Read 2:1; when the Holy Spirit came upon the believers, what kind of change occurred in their lives? Do we have this same power?
  3. Read Acts 1:14. What was another characteristic of these early believers? Read Ephesians 6:18. What did Paul instruct all believers?

 

Close:

As you break up into small groups, take a moment to discuss the terrible persecution the early church went through, and liken it to today’s world. You must never forget that you have all of the power of the Holy Spirit within you, giving you strength to overcome evil. Talk about some of the problems you encounter daily, and see if others can give you suggestions how to let the world see your joy and peace. As you pray before leaving, ask God for boldness and love to serve those whom you meet daily, so that you can be a living testimony of the love of Christ.

Focal Passages: Acts chapters 1-7; Acts 1:14, 22; 2:1, 37, 47; Acts 4:13, 21, 31-33: 5:11, 7:54.

Memory Verse: Acts 4:32: “And with great power the apostles gave witness of the Lord Jesus. And great grace was upon them all.”

*Question 1: The church should be believers working TOGETHER in unity with a common mission, as a FAMILY of God, living out the WORD of God, under the AUTHORITY of God, on the MISSION of God.

**Question 2: The lives of the early believers were seen as: Convicting by their lifestyle (2:37), Favored by God (2:47), Amazing in their love, life, and the change that had resulted (4:13), Bold in speaking of the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus (4:13, 33), Glorifying to God (4:21), Generous to each other and outsiders (4:32), filled with Grace (4:33), and Power (4:33).

Memorable Quotes:

The Epistle to Diognetes, AD 130: “They [believers] display to us their wonderful and confessedly striking method of life… They marry, as do all others, they beget children, but they do not destroy their offspring. They have a common table, but not a common bed. They are in the flesh, but they do not live after the flesh. They pass their days on earth, but they are citizens of heaven. They obey the prescribed laws, and at the same time surpass the laws by their lives. They love all men and are persecuted by all. They are unknown and condemned; they are put to death and restored to life. They are poor yet make many rich; they are in lack of all things and yet abound in all; they are dishonored, and yet in their very dishonor are glorified. They are evil spoken of and yet are justified; they are reviled and bless; they are insulted and repay the insult with honor; they do good yet are punished as evildoers. When punished, they rejoice as if quickened into life; they are assailed by the Jews as foreigners and are persecuted by the Greeks, yet those who hate them are unable to assign any reason for their hatred. To sum it all up in one word—what the soul is to the body, that are Christians in the world.”

Timothy Keller: “The early church was strikingly different from the culture around it in this way—the pagan society was stingy with its money and promiscuous with its body. A pagan gave nobody their money and practically gave everybody their body. And the Christians came along and gave practically nobody their body and they gave practically everybody their money.”

June 5 | Group Notes

Following Christ: What Is a CHRISTIAN? Are YOU a Christian?
June 5, 2016
Matt Willmington

Open:

Almost everyone seems to be going through—or has just been through—a recent trial! If you have experienced a crisis lately, what did you do to get through it?

Today we are going to explore the story of a rich young ruler who came to Jesus. His story is presented in three gospels, giving us many lessons to apply to our own lives.

 

Discuss:

Question:

  1. Read Matthew 19:16-20. As you read this passage, what are some of the positive characteristics of the young man who comes to Jesus?
  2. In verse 16, how does the young man think one gains eternal life? What are some popular religions that believe eternal life is gained by good works?
  3. Why do you think Jesus listed only the Commandments dealing with relationships with those around him?
  4. What did all these commandments have in common? He was “rich,” “young,” a “ruler” (magistrate over his people), and had “great possessions”; how do you envision him involved with the poor or ordinary people?

Answer:

  1. Read verse 21. What is the most important thing Jesus told him to do?
  2. Read Mark 10:21a. This is Mark’s version of the same young man. How did Jesus look upon the man? With what kind of emotion do you think He answered the question?

Decision:

  1. Read verses 22-26. Why did he go away “sorrowful”?
  2. Read Matt. 6:21. What was the most important thing in the young man’s life?
  3. What is your greatest possession? Could you leave it to follow Jesus?

Close:

As you break into small groups, think deeply about the attitude the young man showed in coming to Jesus. He treated Christ with respect, and by his own admission had kept all the commandments. He was, we would say, a “Yuppie”—a young and upcoming professional. Yet it was obvious he sensed something was missing in his life. Talk for a few minutes about the lifestyle of people about you; do they have everything, but still seem to lack something? Go, tell them your story, that Jesus is the answer to the deepest call of the heart. As you close in prayer, pray that you will always be open to God using you in any way He desires. Join a Life Group that will further your relationship with Him, or think of starting one of your own. It’s never too late to tell others that Jesus has all the answers.

Focal Passage: Matthew 19:16-26; Mark 10:17-27; Luke 18:18-27

Group Notes | May 29

John 17:20-26 In The World, But Not of It, Part 3
May 29, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us can recall a time when we were threatened, but because we knew someone was nearby, watching out for us, we were not afraid. Can you remember an experience that illustrates this?

This week we will finish looking at the prayer of Jesus in John 17, as He prayed for all believers. His desire is for us to be so secure in His protection and love that we will not be afraid to witness of His love at every opportunity.

Discuss:

  1. Read John 17:20-26. What leaps out at you as you read these verses?
  2. What is the thread of “unity” throughout this section of prayer?

Know That Jesus Is Praying for You

  1. Read verse 20 again. We pray for ourselves many times every day. How does it make you feel to know Jesus prays for you?
  2. Read Romans 8:34. What does this verse tell you about His love for you?

Jesus Is with Us Every Step of the Way

  1. Read verse 23. In your present lifestyle, what does the world see that shows you are someone who is loved by God?
  2. Most people who are in a love relationship want to shout it to the world, so everyone can share the happiness. How much does Jesus say God loves you, His child (23b)? How can you grasp that God loves you so much?

We Have the Answer

  1. Read verse 25, and John 20:29. What does it take for one to believe that Jesus is the only way to eternal life?
  2. Think back on the opening: you are loved, valued, and protected by God Himself. What kind of power should that unleash in you?

Only in Christ Do We Have Hope

  1. Read verse 26 and Ephesians 5:8. How are you to act, as a light-bearer to your community?

Close:

As you break into small groups, talk for a few moments about the deep love of God for you, so much so that He loves you as much as He loves Jesus, His only Son. He has promised to be with you, protect you, and give you wisdom in this world. That should unleash a love in you that makes you want to share it with your world! Is there someone you know who needs to know that Jesus loves them? Pray as you leave for that one person to cross your path this week, and that—remembering this prayer of Christ—you would have the boldness to tell what He has done for you.

Focal Passage: John 17:20-26, John 16:33, Romans 8:34, Ephesians 5:8.

Memory Verse: John 17:26. “And I have declared to them Your name, and will declare it, that the love with which You loved Me may be in them, and I in them.”

Think On: “I am a friend of anyone who is a friend of Christ!” (Jerry Falwell, Sr.) Does that describe the way you see those who attend your church?

 

 

Group Notes | May 22

John 17:7-19 In The World, But Not of It, Part 2
May 22, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Today we are seeing battles between good and evil, right and wrong, and truth and untruth swirling around us. Can you give some examples?

This week we will continue to look at the prayer of Jesus as He prayed for all believers through the ages. His will is for us to be a “light” in this dark world. Let us focus on the fervor as He prayed for our guidance, protection and strength, as we fulfill that desire.

 

Discuss:

  1. Read John 17:7-19. What are some of the main points of Jesus’ prayer to His Father?
  2. Which phrase in these verses is particularly relevant to you personally?

The Message is Clear

  1. Read verse 7 again, Romans 10:14, 15, and Isaiah 6:8. To whom has God given the responsibility of telling unbelievers about Christ?
  2. Read Eph. 5:8. Why do all Christians have this responsibility?

We Must Stand in Unity

  1. Read verse 11, and Ephesians 4:4-6. Why is it so important that there is unity within the church? How does unity versus discord impact our testimony in our community?

Standing on the Word of God

  1. Read verse 17, and Hebrews 5:13,14. How are you going to learn to stand for truth (vs. 14b)? How is that different from physical exercise?
  2. Read 2 Timothy 4:2. What fears do you have about sharing the plan of salvation—that you won’t have an answer? What attitude is conveyed if you say, “I don’t know the answer to your concern, but I’ll get back with you?”

Only in Christ Do We Have Hope

  1. Children imitate those whom they esteem. Read verse 18 and Col. 1:26-28. We cannot be imitators of, or introduce others to, someone we do not know. How can we be imitators of Christ?

 

Close:

So much substance to meditate on in this sermon! If the local body of believers does not understand its mission and strive for unity in the knowledge of God’s Word, the entire community is affected. As you break into small groups, talk about your role, not only within the church to help new believers grow, but in your area of influence where you can be a light as you stand for truth. You cannot be a “fence rider,” discouraged, downtrodden or depressed at the evil in your world—your God is still on the throne, and in control!

Focal Passage: John 17:7-19, John 16:33

Memory Verse: Ephesians 5:8: “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of light.”

 

 

Group Notes | May 8

Power Through Strength
May 8, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Physical strength is often held in high esteem, but which would you prefer: a well-built, muscular body or a strong, inner character? Explain your answer.

Today we want to focus on the power that comes from a depth of character that is able to withstand the forces that are coming against us in this modern era. Ultimately it is only the power of a fervent relationship with Jesus Christ that makes us strong.

 

Discuss:

  1. Read 1 Timothy 1:1-3. In what three ways did Paul increase in strength?
  2. Read verses 2-6. Several influences played a role in Timothy becoming strong as a Christian. What were they? (Notice how Intercessory Prayer was one of those ways—an example for us).

Looking Back for Strength

  1. When you look back over your life, can you identify people God placed in your life to lead you in the right direction? Share for a moment.
  2. In verse 3, Paul said his “forefathers” served God; who did he say had encouraged Timothy? Who are you influencing?

In Order for Us to Be an Example to Others

  1. What does Paul instruct Timothy in verse 6a? How does your strength become an example to someone else? Why was this a “gift”?
  2. Read Acts 14:21, 22. How were the early Christians being strengthened? Do you need strength yourself? Who do you know that needs strength and encouragement?

Renews Our Strength

  1. Read verses 7-12. What does God give you? Does anyone know the origin of the word “power” (used here)?
  2. Bodily strength is acquired by exercise; what are some ways you receive God’s strength? Read Eph. 3:16; was this also one of your answers?

He Protects Us Until the End of Time

  1. Verse 12 shows Paul’s unfailing faith. How can you relate?

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, center your thoughts on what you need from God, besides food and shelter. It is a short list: you need Him to protect you, to encourage you, and to help you impact your world. As you look back, even through the bad times, did He fail you? No, not since the day you called out His name and asked for salvation! You have His promise on that. Now you need His strength to stand for Him in a world where it is unpopular to say you’re a Christian. Discuss hazards you face as you witness, and close in prayer, asking God to give you a holy boldness to stand for Him every moment of the coming week.

Focal Passages: 1 Timothy 1:1-12; Isaiah 41:10

Memory Verse: 1 Timothy 1:12: “For this reason I also suffer these things; nevertheless, I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed to Him until that Day.”

 

Group Notes | May 1

Agents of Grace: Sufficient Grace
May 1, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It is not at all unusual to feel the stress of a situation or a set of circumstances to be so difficult that we question our ability to get through it—especially if there is no end in sight. Can anyone share?

Today we finish the series, Agents of Grace, with one of the greatest of all God’s promises: His grace is always going to be enough to see us through anything we face!

 

Discuss:

Thorns

  1. Read 2 Cor. 12:7-10. In verse 10, what are some possible “thorns” Paul said we may have to endure in this life?
  2. What can be some examples of positive results from troublesome times?
  3. Read James 1:2-4. How does James tell us to react to a trial? What can it produce?

It is okay to admit you’re hurting

  1. Read Gal. 6:2. Why is it okay to tell someone you trust that you are having a difficult time? What can stop you from seeking help?

That “thorn” may never disappear

  1. In 2 Cor.12:8, what did Paul ask for? Think for a moment if you have a thorn, and then share your answer to this question: If God does not remove it, will you still love Him, or could it cause you to desert Christ?

You may never get over it, but God will always bring you through it

  1. Read 1 Cor. 10:13. What does God promise? Do you trust His promises?
  2. At the end of the trial, what lessons will you have learned?

Joy is guaranteed if we trust the heart of God!

  1. Read 2 Cor. 12:9b-10. James and Paul both had the same outlook on going through trials. What was it? How can that apply to us?

 

Close:

As you break in to small groups, discuss trials that you’ve recently been through. What did you learn about yourself, and where would you rate your trust that Jesus had your back? Can you share with each other the areas where you need to learn better how to trust His promises of sufficient grace? If you found yourself ready to desert Him because of the trial, talk honestly about that area as well. In prayer time, be open with God as you confess the need for a stronger faith, or praise Him that He brought you through! Now you truly have something to share with those who are in the midst of trials, and can encourage those who need comfort!

Focal Passages: 2 Cor. 12:7-10, 1 Cor. 1:18, 21a, 1 Cor. 10:13, John 16:33, Romans 8:35-39.

Memory Verse: 2 Cor. 12:9: “And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.”

Quotes: “God will never put more on you than He puts in you” (Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr.). “No one thrives in isolation, especially in the midst of a storm.” “We must accept the fact that [a trial] will draw us closer to God.”

Group Notes | April 24

Agents of Grace: Grace ToLead
April 24,2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Often we see positions of leadership filled by those who do not have the skills to lead. Can you give examples? Why would one desire such a position if it is not their “gift”?

Today we continue the series Agents of Grace. Let us examine the qualities that make a good leader, then put into practice what we learn.

Discuss:

Jesus Restores

  1. What are some qualities a good leader should possess?
  2. Can you think of hindrances that might cause someone to reject a position of leadership? (Did you list A feeling of inadequacy, A fear of rejection, A fear of failing, and A feeling of a disreputable past, as possibilities?)
  3. Read John 21:15-17. What was Jesus trying to get Peter to understand? How heavy do you think Peter’s heart had been since his denial of knowing Christ?

Jesus Empowers

  1. What did Jesus command Peter? Did it entail Peter examining his heart?
  2. If Peter’s heart was full of love for the Savior, how would that influence his obedience to do what Jesus instructed?

Jesus Calls

  1. How does Peter’s restoration encourage those of us who have failed Jesus?

He Can Use Anyone!

  1. Read 1 Corinthians 1:25-27. List some in Scripture who were called by God, who felt unqualified to be a leader?

God’s Grace Is the Key For You To Be a Leader!

  1. What do you think may be the biggest obstacle to God using you?

Close:

As you break into small groups, discuss anything that might be causing you to hold back from being a leader. Possibly any one of the fears in question 2 might be your answer! No one wants to take a step outside his comfort zone, but your restoration from a tainted past might be just the answer to someone’s quest for salvation. No one can minister to someone in need as well as one who has “been there, done that.” Do you have a story that others need to hear? God might call you to be a leader of a Life Group, a mentor, or a disciple. Whatever He asks, pray that you are willing to follow Him. He wants the person who is available, and will empower you to lead as He directs!

Focal Passages: John 21:15-19a; Luke 5:11; 1 Corinthians 1:26, 27; Psalm 51:13-15; Acts 3:11-14a.

Memory Verse: Luke 5:11: “So when they had brought their boats to land, they forsook all and followed Him.”

 

Group Note | April 17

Agents of Grace: Grace That Sets Us Free
April 17, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Today, more than any other time in history, generations are clashing over the customs taught them by parents, educators and society. Can you give examples of differences?

Because we are the recipients of the gift of salvation, we want to share the good news that it is available to all people. At the same time, we want to be certain we do not pass on the idea that salvation is earned by our works. Today we will focus on the problem of “Legalism,” which is a mindset that rules and restrictions supersede grace, ruining a church’s effectiveness and giving Satan a foothold.

 

Discuss:

  1. What do we mean by “legalism”? Can you give some examples found within the church?
  2. Read Luke 11: 37-41. What did Jesus condemn the Pharisees for?
  3. Read Mark 7:6-9. How does hypocrisy and legalism go hand-in-hand?

Rules Over Righteousness                          

  1. Read verse Luke 11:42. What could be the result of a church whose focus is on following rules, rather than letting the Holy Spirit convict and lead?
  2. Can anyone give examples from past experiences? Was music mentioned? Were the responses from preference or God’s word?

Don’t Hate Truth

  1. Why is it important to love truth? Read Eph. 4:15. How does this verse contradict the actions of the Pharisees?

God Will Deal With Hypocrisy

  1. Jesus will one day deal with all who profess Him, but do not live for Him. Read Matthew 7:21-23. How were they being hypocritical?

God Will Protect the Faithful

  1. Read John 8:31, 36. How does grace set us free from the bonds of legalism?

Close:

As you break into small groups, talk briefly about the traps legalism can set for you. Is there any area in your life where the Holy Spirit has shined a light on something you need to give to God? So many were raised in the era of extreme legalism, and have old shackles that need to be thrown away! Pray with the group that Christ would free you from any chains or holdovers that need to be torn down. We have Freedom Groups to help if you need them. Go forth this week rejoicing in the freedom that God has for you!

Focal Passages: Luke 11:33-54, 12:1b-3, 7; Hebrews 12:1; Isaiah 29:13; Romans 5:20, 21.

Memory Verse: John 8:31-32: “Then Jesus said to those Jews who believed Him, “If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed. And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free.”

Hypocrisy Is:
1) Rules Over Righteousness  (Luke 11:42)
2) Reputation Over Humility  (Luke 11:43)
3) Popularity Over Truth  (Luke 11:44)
4) Hypocrisy Over Obedience  (Luke 11:45, 46)
5) Attacking Others Over Being Agents of Grace  (Luke 11:47)
6) Having Focus On Ourselves Over Focusing On Jesus  (Luke 11:52)

Study these points this week, praying that God will show you if you have any areas where you need Him to set you free!

 

 

Group Notes | April 10

Agents of Grace: Forgiving Grace
April 10, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

First impressions often are the basis for forming—or running from—a relationship. Can you share what you hope people think you are like, after they have first met you?

This week we continue to uncover ways in which we can demonstrate God’s amazing Grace to our world. We who have been saved have received grace that we did not deserve; now it is our turn to bestow that same grace on others, by forgiving an offense against us.

 

Discuss:

A Characteristic of Christ

  1. Read Psalm 103:8. How does this one verse describe your Lord?
  2. Read Eph. 1:7 and 2:8. How are your sins forgiven?

A Characteristic of a Christian

  1. Read Eph. 4:32. What does God expect of believers?
  2. Read Matt. 18:21. Why is it important that forgiveness be a constant part of your Christian walk?

Mercy Granted

  1. Read Matt. 18:23-27. Someone paraphrase these verses.
  2. How are these verses analogous to a sinner being saved?

Mercy Denied

  1. Read verses 28-33. Why is the debtor’s behavior shocking?
  2. Read Matt. 6:14, 15. What did Christ command us to do?
  3. Why would your Christian testimony rest on how you forgive those who have sinned against you?

 

Close:

Forgiveness is at the very root of Jesus’ love: “He paid a debt He did not owe, because you owed a debt you could not pay.” As you break into small groups, think about the opening. Ask yourself if others see you as joyful, bitter or just like the world. Share with the group, if possible, any hurts that need to be forgiven so they can pray for you. Pray before you leave, that God would fill you with such joy and compassion for others that people who are with you a short time want to know what it is that makes you different. Ask Him to give you opportunities to share His forgiveness for your sins, and let them know He is waiting to forgive theirs as well!

Focal Passages: Matthew 18:21-35; Hosea Chapters 1-3, Heb. 12:14, 15.

Memory Verse: Rev. 22:21: “The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.”

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Group Notes | April 3

Agents of Grace: Shared Grace
April 3, 2016
Dr. Ben Gutierrez

 

Open:

Often we fight any situation that causes us to step out of our comfort zone and take a risk. Can you give an example when you have been forced to “step outside the box”?

This week we continue the new series, Agents of Grace. We will focus on the lesson the disciples learned when they stepped out of their comfort zone, and discover how we may apply that example to our own lives as we carry out the Great Commission.

 

Discuss:

Within Your Comfort Zone

  1. As Jesus began His ministry, where (geographically) did He mainly focus? What are some reasons this would have been comfortable for the disciples?
  2. As you have read through the Gospels, what type of responses do you recall Jesus causing as He walked the streets in the towns of Israel?
  3. As you seek to share the story of Jesus in your community, even though your words may not be received, most people understand what you are talking about; how is that the same as the disciples and Jesus ministering in the towns in Israel? Were they in their comfort zone?

Outside the Box

  1. Read Mark 4:35. Jesus instructed the disciples to prepare to go to an extremely pagan country. What do you imagine they said or felt?
  2. Read Mark 5:1-16. Who met Jesus when the boat landed? What was he like?
  3. Read verse 5:18, 19. What did Jesus instruct the man to do?
  4. Read Mark 7:31-8:9a. What happened when Jesus returned to the area on a second trip?
  5. How many had been affected by the man’s story?
  6. What can this teach us?

 

Close:

As you break up into small groups, discuss the potential for ONE person to change a country! It seems impossible, but the pagan land of Decapolis witnessed a reformation because one person’s life was changed by Jesus Christ, and he told “what the Lord had done for [him].” That is all you need to do: tell your story. Discuss what may be holding you back from witnessing, when all you are told to do is “tell what He has done for you.” Check out the Life Groups to see if there is one that encourages sharing your story. As “Agents of Grace,” you are going to be challenged to take the story of Jesus to your family, job, or community. Get out of your comfort zone and obey God (Matt 28.19,20).

Focal Passages: Mark 4:35-5:19; Mark 7:31-8:9a.

Memory Verse: Mark 5:19b: “Go home to your own people and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how He has had mercy on you.” (NKJV)

Further Study: Dr. Lew Weider & Dr. Ben Gutierrez, (2011). Consider. Academx Publishing Services.

 

Group Notes | March 27

Easter: Belief Changes Everything
March 27, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Do you ever know where a household item is because you have seen it, and then have a family member ask you where it is? Even though you tell them where to look, they can’t find it. You walk straight to it.  What makes the difference?

Today we are going to look at those who had watched Jesus during his last hours as He was crucified, then see the reactions as some saw Him risen, while others were told. Many let the agony of His death blind them to the fact He was indeed ALIVE!

 

Discuss:

  1. Read Matt. 27:55-61. What were some of the feelings the women—and the disciples—no doubt experiencing as Jesus died and was buried?
  2. How is that like us when things go wrong, and we feel He has left us on our own? How have we let discouragement interfere with our faith?
  3. Read Mark 16:1. What were the women expecting to find at the tomb? Why?
  4. Read Matt. 28:2-8, and Mark 16:9-13. Why do you think the disciples refused to believe that Jesus was alive, even though He had been seen?
  5. What was the reason the women and the two disciples believed?
  6. What was it that changed their unbelief to belief? What did Jesus say in John 20:29?
  7. What are some reasons people today do not believe that He is alive?

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, talk about the distractions, discouragements and disappointments the world throws at you daily, that interfere with your peace. Share how your schedules, over-commitments, and family relationships rob you of the belief that God is in control of every part of your life. Do you believe that? Do you live as if you know that to be true? Your joy should be so contagious everyone wants to be with you, to have the relationship you have with the risen Savior! Pray that God would grant you that unspeakable peace and joy this week, in the midst of an unstable and crazy world.

 

Focal Passages: Matthew 27:55-61-28:1-8, 16-20; Mark 16:1, 10-16, 20.

Memory Verse: Matthew 28:5,6: “Do not be afraid, for I know that you seek Jesus who was crucified. He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.”

 

Group Notes | March 20

One Week To Live: The End of the Beginning
March 20, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Often we assume that in the event of a certain type of crisis or disaster we will react in a rational or logical way. The truth is, until we are tested, we do not know exactly how we will react! Can anyone share?

As we continue to focus on the last week of Jesus, we see the disciples all pledging to remain steadfast as He reveals His upcoming death. He knows what is going to occur, while they have no idea the horror that is coming or foresee their unpredictable behavior. We will let the Scriptures tell us of those hours.

 

Discuss:

It Was Not Only Inevitable, It Was Imperative

  1. Read Matt. 26:47-56. As Jesus took the disciples to the Garden of Gethsemane, what were they probably expecting?
  2. Re-read verse 54. Can you think of any Old Testament scripture that had to be fulfilled this night? (Is. 50:6,7; 53:2-11).

It Was Difficult To Comprehend

  1. Why do you think the disciples all fled?
  2. Read verses 69-75. Can you think of an instance where you have not spoken out for Christ, or admitted you are His child? Were you thinking only of your own safety or reputation?
  3. Why is it so hard to comprehend the enormity of Jesus’ sacrifice?

It Is Critical To Believe

  1. After the events before the Sanhedrin, Jesus was taken to Golgotha, where He was crucified. Read Matt. 27:39-54. What were some of the groups of people watching and blaspheming God as Jesus died? How is that a description of today?
  2. What was the result for some of those who watched? Many believe there is a God, but what has to occur in their lives besides belief?

 

Close:

Because it is so easy to read the account of the crucifixion in “auto-mode,” it is imperative that the Word of God, breathed by Him, be read with the focus of how God felt watching His Son bear the sins of the world. It is hard to grasp the horror of that day. As you break into small groups, pray that you can find something new that will grab your attention, causing your heart to break with the sacrifice He made for YOU. As you prepare for the Resurrection Sunday, celebrate the fact that Christians are the only people who serve a God who was dead, buried, and now is alive!

Focal Passages: Matthew 26:47-56, 69-75, 27:27-54.

Home Study:: Is 50:6,7, 53:2-11.

Memory Verse: Matthew 27:54: “So when the centurion and those with him, who were guarding Jesus, saw the earthquake and the things that had happened, they feared greatly, saying, “Truly this was the Son of God!”

Group Notes | March 13

One Week To Live: Watch and Pray
March 13, 2016
Charles Billingsley

 

Open:

No doubt most of us have been in a crisis so severe that our entire being was saturated with anguish. Can anyone share such a time, and tell how you responded?

The past two weeks we have studied the last week of the life of Jesus, before He went to the cross. Today we will look at the hours He spent prior to His arrest, and see how He handled a situation most of us will never have to face.

Discuss:

The Setting

  1. Read Mark 14:32-35. Jesus gave Peter, James and John two instructions: what were they (vs.34)? What do you think they were to watch for, and pray about?
  2. These three disciples needed to witness the greatest suffering in history. Why?

The Suffering

  1. What were some of the sufferings Jesus was going through internally in vv. 33-36? What was the Cup He was referring to?

The Submission

  1. Verse 36b gives us a foundation for our prayer life. What is it?

Watch and Pray

  1. Jesus had prayed constantly during His earthly ministry. Can you give some examples.
  2. What are several life lessons we can take away from the verses as Jesus prayed to His Father in His suffering?

Close:

It is so easy to read this passage on auto-pilot, as many of us have grown up with the story of the Resurrection. Jesus commands us, as He did the disciples, to “watch and pray” rather than reading without engaging our brain, for otherwise we, too, might “enter into temptation” (Mark 14:38). As you break into small groups, discuss the temptations that can attack us when we mentally fall asleep in our Christian walk. It is imperative in this day and age to spread the story of His life, death and resurrection so that others may have hope. Join a Life Group so you can serve Him more efficiently. Pray before you leave that you will be watchful and faithful in your daily walk with Him (1 Pet. 4:7).

Focal Passages: Mark 14:32-42; Matthew 26:47-56

Memory Verse: Mark 14:38: “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Pray: Faithfully (often); Authentically (with complete honesty); Intimately (talk to your Abba Father “Dad”); Fervently (it’s okay to be passionate); Fearfully (respect His power); Submissively (seek HIS will, not your own); Confidently (He is in control).

 

           

Group Notes | March 6

One Week To Live: Faithfulness In Serving
March 6, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Have you ever gone to a family meal, only to find there was a pre-planned announcement that had to be made, perhaps something hard to bear?

As we continue to look at the last week of the life of Jesus, we will focus on the Last Supper, the meal where Jesus outlined His coming death, and the reaction of the disciples, who were not ready to receive His news. We need to look at the significance as it applies to us today.

 

Discuss:

Betrayal, Desertion, Disobedience, Broken Promises

  1. Read Matt. 26:17-25. What were the disciples expecting this meal to be?
  2. It turns into a somber mood immediately. How can you identify?
  3. Is anyone willing to share a time when you—after you have walked with Jesus for some time—betrayed Him in some way? How did you feel afterwards?
  4. When you experienced His forgiveness, how did you feel?
  5. Have you ever been the victim of betrayal, etc., and how did you feel? How did you afterwards treat the person who acted against you?

Communion

  1. Read verse 26 and I Cor. 11:23-26. What is the significance when we today celebrate Communion? What are the things Jesus wants us to remember?
  2. We know that Jesus was already extending forgiveness to His disciples, although their betrayal had not yet happened. What does this tell you about your sins, and the Cross?

Examine Yourself

  1. Read verses 27-29. What are our responsibilities before taking communion? If you cannot make something right prior to a communion service, what should you do?
  2. How does this bring God glory?

 

Close:

Taking communion is not to be performed lightly. We see from the lesson Jesus gave that we are to reflect on His actions, recognizing that we, too, betray, disobey, break our promises, and possibly even desert Him for the world at times. As you break into small groups, talk about the meaning of the Cross, and understand that nothing you can ever do will separate you from His love or forgiveness, if you are repentant. Pray for a sensitive spirit to examine yourself daily so that you are always in a right relationship with Him. Always be on the lookout for someone whom you can minister to: there are hundreds around you who know much less than you, whatever the length of time you have been saved. Just tell them your story!

Focal Passage: Matthew 26:17-35

Examine Yourself at home: 1 Corinthians 13, 2 Peter 1:5-10, Psalm 24:3-5

Memory Verse: Matthew 26:28: “For this is My blood of the new covenant, which is shed for many for the remission of sins.”

Group Notes | February 28

One Week To Live: Getting The House In Order!
February 28, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

How would you react if your doctor told you that you have only a few short months to live? How can there be blessings in that knowledge?

Today we begin looking toward the resurrection of Jesus, with emphasis on the last week of His earthly life. He began that week by getting His house in order. We will focus on making certain our lives are fit for Him to do His work as He indwells us.

 

Discuss:

Recognize who Jesus is

  1. Read Matt. 21:10- 11. To ask Jesus to save us, why is it necessary to believe He is the Son of God? How can an incorrect view of who He really is affect whether we are truly saved? Think of other religions for examples.
  2. What are some of His attributes? Do you see Him with those qualities and treat Him as the Holy God that He is?

Recognize what He expects

  1. Jesus expected the people to regard the temple with the respect it was designed for. How does He expect us to live our lives (as His temple) in order for Him to work His purpose for us? Someone read 1 Cor. 6:19, 20.
  2. Read Joshua 3:5a. What did Joshua tell the people? What does that mean to us?

Recognize what brings Him sorrow

  1. What possible actions or thoughts in our lives can grieve the heart of God?
  2. What are some things we do that bring God joy?

Recognize what happens next

  1. All we need for salvation is to come to Christ “just as we are.” But after salvation, what changes would God expect to let Him be at home in your life? Is this a one-time “house cleaning” or an on-going action?
  2. Read Joshua 3:5b. Why should we live our lives expecting miracles each day?

 

Close:

The religious leaders who saw Jesus as He ministered were so filled with envy and disbelief that their hearts were hardened against Him. One needs to be watchful that your heart is always sensitive to the Holy Spirit. As you break into small groups, discuss the situations you face that could grieve Jesus. Pray for Him to show you areas where you are weak, and pray also for discernment as you live daily, to be aware you are working with Him to bring His kingdom “on earth, as it is in heaven.” Search out the life groups, if you are not in one, or start one! Everyone needs as much encouragement, wisdom and support as possible in these hard times.

Focal Passages: Matthew 21:10-14, Joshua 3:5, Matthew 26:28

Memory Verse: Joshua 3:5: “And Joshua said to the people, ‘Sanctify yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do wonders among you.’”

Group Notes | February 21

Stand Strong: The LAST Promise: A New Home
February 21, 2016
 Matt Willmington

Open:

Preparing for a move to a new home, especially one more grand than the one you’ve been living in, can be very exciting. Can you give examples?

Today we finish our series on Standing Strong on the Promises of God. We have looked at various areas of our lives, seeing that victory can be had on all fronts because our hope is not in ourselves, but in the God who made us. His promises never fail. We are going to focus on the end of one’s life on earth, with either a heavenly city or a lake of fire promised as the final move.

 

Discuss

Passed Away

  1. Read Rev. 21:1-8. In the new heaven and new earth, many things we know now will have passed away. What is first?
  2. Read 2 Peter 3:10. How does Peter confirm Rev. 21:1?
  3. A sea has the purpose of separating or dividing geographical areas. Why do you think God would not want seas in the new earth?
  4. Verse 4 tells of more that will have passed away in the New City. What are they?
  5. The city will have no sin in it, therefore those who have rejected God will not be there. Read verse 8. Who will be in the final “home” of those who have rebelled against God?

All Things New

  1. The New Jerusalem will be for those who have accepted Jesus Christ as Savior. Read 2 Cor. 5:17 to see when this new life begins.
  2. What were other things God has prepared for you there?

The Dwelling

  1. Who will be dwelling in that new City?
  2. Read John 14:1-4 and feel the anticipation of the greatest promise to believers. What is it?

Close:

How many times have you quoted that passage from John 14, absorbing comfort when times are tough, when grief descends, and life is overwhelming? It is a promise believers stake their lives on. As you break into small groups, share some of the wonders you anticipate as you think of heaven. Is it real to you? Are you so comfortable in your daily life that you’d rather stay here? Think this week of the glories promised believers, and the tragic end awaiting those who reject Jesus! Pray as you leave that God would put someone in your path this week with whom you may share the love of Jesus, that they, too, may look forward to a heavenly home.

Focal Passage: Revelation 21: 1-8.

Home Study: Revelation 21 and 22.

Memory Verse: Revelation 21:3: “And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, ‘Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God.’”