One Week To Live: Watch and Pray
March 13, 2016
Charles Billingsley

 

Open:

No doubt most of us have been in a crisis so severe that our entire being was saturated with anguish. Can anyone share such a time, and tell how you responded?

The past two weeks we have studied the last week of the life of Jesus, before He went to the cross. Today we will look at the hours He spent prior to His arrest, and see how He handled a situation most of us will never have to face.

Discuss:

The Setting

1. Read Mark 14:32-35. Jesus gave Peter, James and John two instructions: what were they (vs.34)? What do you think they were to watch for, and pray about?
2. These three disciples needed to witness the greatest suffering in history. Why?

The Suffering

3. What were some of the sufferings Jesus was going through internally in vv. 33-36? What was the Cup He was referring to?

The Submission

4. Verse 36b gives us a foundation for our prayer life. What is it?

Watch and Pray

5. Jesus had prayed constantly during His earthly ministry. Can you give some examples.
6. What are several life lessons we can take away from the verses as Jesus prayed to His Father in His suffering?

Close:

It is so easy to read this passage on auto-pilot, as many of us have grown up with the story of the Resurrection. Jesus commands us, as He did the disciples, to “watch and pray” rather than reading without engaging our brain, for otherwise we, too, might “enter into temptation” (Mark 14:38). As you break into small groups, discuss the temptations that can attack us when we mentally fall asleep in our Christian walk. It is imperative in this day and age to spread the story of His life, death and resurrection so that others may have hope. Join a Life Group so you can serve Him more efficiently. Pray before you leave that you will be watchful and faithful in your daily walk with Him (1 Pet. 4:7).

Focal Passages: Mark 14:32-42; Matthew 26:47-56

Memory Verse: Mark 14:38: “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Pray: Faithfully (often); Authentically (with complete honesty); Intimately (talk to your Abba Father “Dad”); Fervently (it’s okay to be passionate); Fearfully (respect His power); Submissively (seek HIS will, not your own); Confidently (He is in control).

 

           

One Week To Live: Getting The House In Order!
February 28, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

How would you react if your doctor told you that you have only a few short months to live? How can there be blessings in that knowledge?

Today we begin looking toward the resurrection of Jesus, with emphasis on the last week of His earthly life. He began that week by getting His house in order. We will focus on making certain our lives are fit for Him to do His work as He indwells us.

 

Discuss:

Recognize who Jesus is

1. Read Matt. 21:10- 11. To ask Jesus to save us, why is it necessary to believe He is the Son of God? How can an incorrect view of who He really is affect whether we are truly saved? Think of other religions for examples.
2. What are some of His attributes? Do you see Him with those qualities and treat Him as the Holy God that He is?

Recognize what He expects

3. Jesus expected the people to regard the temple with the respect it was designed for. How does He expect us to live our lives (as His temple) in order for Him to work His purpose for us? Someone read 1 Cor. 6:19, 20.
4. Read Joshua 3:5a. What did Joshua tell the people? What does that mean to us?

Recognize what brings Him sorrow

5. What possible actions or thoughts in our lives can grieve the heart of God?
6. What are some things we do that bring God joy?

Recognize what happens next

7. All we need for salvation is to come to Christ “just as we are.” But after salvation, what changes would God expect to let Him be at home in your life? Is this a one-time “house cleaning” or an on-going action?
8. Read Joshua 3:5b. Why should we live our lives expecting miracles each day?

 

Close:

The religious leaders who saw Jesus as He ministered were so filled with envy and disbelief that their hearts were hardened against Him. One needs to be watchful that your heart is always sensitive to the Holy Spirit. As you break into small groups, discuss the situations you face that could grieve Jesus. Pray for Him to show you areas where you are weak, and pray also for discernment as you live daily, to be aware you are working with Him to bring His kingdom “on earth, as it is in heaven.” Search out the life groups, if you are not in one, or start one! Everyone needs as much encouragement, wisdom and support as possible in these hard times.

Focal Passages: Matthew 21:10-14, Joshua 3:5, Matthew 26:28

Memory Verse: Joshua 3:5: “And Joshua said to the people, ‘Sanctify yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do wonders among you.’”

Stand Strong: God’s Promise of Victory
February 14, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

A well-known quote that one hears is “What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?” Would anyone care to answer?

We have been studying the promises of God, the only dependable Giver of promises. Today we will look at the victory that is ours when we become believers in Jesus Christ and are freed from the power of sin.

 

Discuss:

We Belong To God

1. Read Romans 8:2. What is the reason that you can be certain of victory even in the midst of pain and suffering?
2. Why does Satan no longer have power over you?

We Have a New Mind

3. Read verses 8:5, 6. What are some steps you can take to let the Spirit control your mind?
4. How does this agree with Romans 12:2 and 2 Cor. 10:5?

We Have a New Life

5. Have someone read 8:11, and someone else read Col. 2:13, 14. What did God do for you that you could not do for yourself?

We Have Strength to Walk On

6. Read Eph. 3:16 and 2 Thess. 3:3. Where does your strength come from?
7. Whom does He promise to protect you from, in His strength?

We Have Hope

8. Read verses 8:23b and 28. What is the difference between your life in Jesus Christ, and that of those who do not know Him?

 

Close:

What tremendous promises we have read in Romans chapter 8! As you break into small groups, share any thoughts that may have resonated in your heart as to your position in Christ. He has already won the victory—all you need to do is walk in the power and strength of the Holy Spirit, constantly choosing to let Him take control of your life. Have you checked out the Life Groups? New ones are beginning often, and they are a great way to grow in the Lord. As you close in prayer, remember to ask God to be victorious in your life this week.

Focus Passage: Romans 8

Memory Verse: Romans 8:6: “For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.”

Standing Strong: God’s Promises
January 31, 2016
Pastor Matt Willmington

Open:

As a child, what promises do you recall most vividly? Were they fulfilled? What did you learn in those early years about promises?

We have been studying the promises of God, and the reliability of His Word. He has promised many things to His children, but expects us to take action in order to receive them. Today God reminds us that He will hear us when we call, and take care of us.

Discuss:

Fear

1. Read Psalm 34:4-7. David was in severe trouble, running from Saul, when he penned this Psalm. How is that something we can relate to?
2. What four actions were taken, and how did God respond in each?
3. What is the difference in our “fears” and the fear God wants us to have in verse 7?
4. Read Psalms 125:2. How can you verbalize your feelings that God encamps around you?

Famine

5. Read Psalm 34:8-10. In these verses, what actions do we take as God’s children? What actions does God take?
6. Based on God’s Word that He is present with us at all times, how should we react when He seems silent? Is trust during those times a choice?
7. Deliverance may be in one of two forms: what are they? Talk about these for a moment. (Deliver us from the situation, or deliver us through the situation.)

Close:

As we break up into small groups, we have much that we can take with us through this coming week: the truth of God’s Word, the child-like faith He wants us to have as we trust Him, the dependence upon Him through the good times and the bad, and so much more. Talk about your ability to rest in His promises. Close by committing to pray for those who have trouble believing anyone is trustworthy in today’s world.

Focal Passage: Psalm 34:4-14; Isaiah 55:2

Memory Verse: Psalm 34:7: “The angel of the Lord encamps all around those who fear Him, and delivers them.”

Stand Strong: Building Your Life On God’s Promises
January 17, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Having promises made to you, then subsequently broken, happens often and can leave hurt or anger. Can you give an example?

Today we start a new series, focusing on some of the promises God makes to us in Scripture. In order to trust Him to keep His word, we have to first know that He has been faithful to us thus far.

Discuss:

The Faithfulness of God is Worth Celebrating

1. Read Psalm 89:1a. What was the psalmist praising God for?
2. If you were to “celebrate” God’s faithfulness to you, what are some things you   would praise Him for?
3. When you have gone through rough valleys, how did you know you could still trust Him? You had a choice to be discouraged or to trust. How did you choose?

The Faithfulness of God is Worth Sharing

4. Read verse 1b. We are always willing to share news of a great restaurant, our favorite team, etc. Why is it important to share our faithful Father?
5. When others hear our story of God’s love for us, what does it do for them?

The Faithfulness of God is Guaranteed

6. Read Hebrews 10:23. What are we cautioned to remember?
7. We live in a society where very little that is “guaranteed” can be trusted. Why is God’s faithfulness assured?
8. Read 2 Tim. 2:11 and 2 Thess. 3:3. What does the Bible promise us?

Close:

As we break into small group time, remember our theme for the year is Living Generously. Talk about God’s promise to bless us “exceedingly above all that we can ask or think” and decide if you trust God to love you so much that you can give Him your whole heart. Look at available Life Groups that will encourage you to trust deeper this year—or begin one yourself, to encourage others who may be newer in the faith! Pray as you close for the ability to trust Him with your job, finances, family and health.

Focus Passage: Psalm 89: 1, 2

Memory Verse: 2 Thess. 3:3: “But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.

Seven Promises God Has Made:

 1) He will supply every need. Phil. 4:19
2) His grace is sufficient for you. 2 Cor. 12:9
3) He makes a way out of every temptation. 1 Cor. 10:13
4) He gives victory over death 1 Cor. 15:54
5) He works all things for the good of those who love Him. Rom. 8:28
6) Believers will be with the Lord forever. 1 Thess. 4:13-18
7) He gives us eternal life. John 10:27, 28.

 

 

Finding Your Place in 2016
January 3, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Keeping focused on priorities is a never-ending challenge! Can you give some examples of distractions that tend to throw you off balance, and divert your attention?

Last week we looked at a checklist that can help us concentrate on a strong relationship with our Lord. Today we will look at our goals for this new year, finding where God wants us, and then committing ourselves to accomplishing His will.

Discuss:

Personality

1. Most people would prefer to live life without “hurts, habits or hang-ups” that detract from who we want to be. What will it take for you to realize God made you just as He desired? Read Psa. 139:14a.
2. Do you think God cannot use you as you are? If this is so, why not? Does anyone recall how Moses reacted when God called him to lead Israel out of Egypt?

Learn

3. Read John 17:1-3. How can we get a deep, intimate knowledge of God unless we spend time reading His Word and talking to Him? What is His will for us in this area?

Abilities

4. Share an ability or God-given gift that He has blessed you with, and tell how you are using this gift to glorify Him.
5. Read 1 Cor. 7:7. Who is given gifts or talents by God? Does that include you?

Connect

6. Read Prov. 18:1 and Heb. 10:25. What is God’s will for us so far as meeting regularly with other believers? Why is this important?

Experience

7. God tells us in Matt. 25:14-29 that our talents will do us no good if we do not use them. Do you have an example of this truth?

Practical Principles for Achievement

• Never confuse being busy with accomplishment
• The bridge between vision and accomplishment is discipline
• Passion overcomes obstacles
• Embrace change

Close:

As we break up into small groups, we want to remember that our goal for 2016 should be that we live “generously.” We not only want a strong, personal relationship with our God, we want to be effective Christians who tell our story, who find God’s will for our lives, and then take the steps to ensure that we fulfill His purpose for us. That takes being confident that we are made uniquely by Him just the way He wants us, and being available to serve Him with a whole heart. Pray that you begin this very week, if you have not already.

Focal Passage: John 17:1-3

Memory Verse: Matthew 15:8: “These people draw near to Me with their mouths, and honor Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me.”

A Season of Generosity: Putting Grace In To Action
December 20, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Almost everyone has found the truth in the words “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Can you relate a situation when you were able to give to someone in need, and describe how you felt afterward?

Today we continue to look at the gift of giving of ourselves, not just during this Christmas season, but as a daily lifestyle of worship.

 

Discuss:

Keep your eyes open for those in need

1. Read 1 John 3:17a. Our lives continually cross paths with hurting people. What are some examples of being alert to someone in need?
2. What type of mindset must we have to fulfill this command?

Keep your heart open for those in need

3. Read verse 17b. Closing ourselves off from helping others can be a red flag. What does this say about our heart?
4. Have someone read Proverbs 18:1. How does this verse emphasize the meaning of what you just read? Can anyone liken it to 1 Corinthians 13 without looking up the passage?

Keep your calendar open for those in need

5. If we are intentional about helping others, we have to plan ahead. Discuss practical ways you can schedule time to meet the needs of someone.
6. Read verse 18. How does Jesus view our priority of helping or giving of ourselves to others?

Keep your arms open for those in need

7. Read verse 23. It is definitely easier for a woman to be ready at any moment to hug or love on someone than a man. What are some ways both can seize the moment without offending or scaring someone? Can you give a past example?

 

Close:

Being proactive about meeting the needs of hurting or needy people is not going to happen until your heart is ready. As you break into small groups, discuss ways you can serve, both as individuals and as a group. There are so many opportunities through the church and Life Groups! Search those out, and find out if you have particular skills that will give you insight into fulfilling someone’s need. Close in prayer by beseeching the Lord to help you be alert to the eyes of others you pass, so that you can see into their hearts, and minister to them.

Scripture passage: I John 3:16-24

Memory Verse: 1 John 3:17: “But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him?

 

From Gratitude and Grace
December 6, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Nearly everyone’s true character can be determined by the way they treat other people. Can you give some examples?

This week we continue to look at God’s standards for our interaction with others. We can love others as we love ourselves (Matt. 22:39) only after we first have a genuine love relationship with Christ, built on a foundation of faith and gratefulness.

Discuss:

A Life of Gratitude Requires Work

1. Read Psalm 136:1-6. The Psalmist declares that we are to express our thanks to God. Why is gratefulness in our lives so important?
2. One of the generations of recent years was the “Me Generation.” How does this differ with the command to love others more than we love ourselves?

A Life of Gratitude Requires Humility

3. Read verses 6-9. What immediately impacts you about these verses?
4. Read Luke 18:10-14. How does this passage illustrate the humility we must possess as we understand the significance of the Creator God?

A Life of Gratitude Requires Dependence

5. Read John 15:4, 5. What is Christ telling us in this passage?
6. What are some things a child reasonably expects from a parent?
7. What are some of the daily provisions that we should be thanking God for?

A Life of Gratitude Must Be Based In Grace

8. Without the free gift of God’s grace, we would be lost for eternity (Rom. 6:23 and 3:23-25 NASB). What is your reaction to what Christ has offered? Do you understand His grace?

Close:

As you break into small groups, take a moment to think “What did I thank God for today?” If you can list many things, you are probably in a love relationship with Him. If you struggled to list any, be open with your need to ask for prayer as you develop an attitude of gratitude for all He does for you daily. Close in prayer by thanking Him for His wondrous works, His grace, and for giving you an opportunity to serve Him. Be especially alert during the Christmas season to ways you can minister to those who need a special touch!

Memory Verse: Psalm 136:1: “Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever.”

 

           

Thankful Because He’s Faithful
November 22, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Much of life today is filled with sorrow, chaos and darkness, and we can feel overwhelmed. Let’s consciously take a few moments to name some of the many things we have to be grateful for. Call out random short answers as you think of them.

Today we want to reflect on the path we have traveled this past year. As we look back, we desire to see God’s amazing faithfulness in never leaving us on our own.

 

Discuss:

He Is Faithful

1. Someone read 2 Thessalonians 3:3. What is the first phrase of this verse?
2. What is so significant about these three words, and why?
3. Read Deut. 7:9. If faithfulness is one of the attributes of God’s character, what does that mean to you as you follow Him?

He Will Establish You

4. God’s faithfulness is followed by two promises. What is the first?
5. Read 2 Thess. 2:15-17. The word for “establish” in both verses means to set you firmly in place, where you cannot be moved. Will you relate this to your life, and tell how that gives you assurance in this world where you may otherwise feel like a ball being batted around?

He Will Guard You

6. What is the second promise? Can anyone give an example of a situation where God has actually protected (guarded) you?
7. As you look back at the past year, if He has been faithful to bring you through all the difficulties and crises, what does this tell you about tomorrow?

Close:

As you break into small groups, share some of the trials God has walked through with you this year. Do you see Faithfulness as an unchangeable part of God, just as He is loving, merciful, etc.? Sometimes you may not have felt His presence, but did He ever leave you? Share if you have major obstacles in trusting His constant watchfulness. Think of joining a Life Group at church to help you know and trust Him better. As you close in prayer, ask Him to reveal Himself to you in more ways, for faith to love Him more deeply, and for the ability to trust Him more fully!

Memory Verse: 2 Thessalonians 3:3: “But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.”

Portrait of a King: Leadership By Example
October 4, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Going through the “daily grind” seems overwhelming when you’re young and thinking how many years you will wor! What are some things that drive you to persevere each day, month and year?

As we continue to focus on lessons learned from King Solomon, we see he led his people by he himself following God’s authority. This week we will focus on his dedication of the newly-built temple, and examine specifics in his life that drove him during these years.

Discuss:

Solomon’s Joy

1. Read 1 Kings 6:11-13. Verse 12b and verse 13 each have a message from God that motivated Solomon and brought him joy. What were they?
2. What are some of the things about God that bring you joy?

Solomon’s Praise

3. Read 1 Kings 8:14,15a. The temple was completed and ready for dedication. What was so astounding about Solomon’s opening words? Contrast your answer with Daniel 4:30.
4. Can you think of situations in your life when you’ve taken credit for something when you knew God deserved praise for doing it?
5. Read 1 Kings 8:22, 23a. What attitude do you see as Solomon lifts his hands to heaven? Why is it so hard for us to do this?

Solomon’s Thankfulness

6. Have several be ready to read I Kings 8:23, 8:24, 8:30, 8:37-40, and 8:44-45. After each verse ask the question, “In this verse, what was Solomon thankful for?”
7. How often each day to you stop to thank God for Who He is, His promises to you, His forgiveness, His provision or His protection? How often should you?

Close:

As you break into small groups, consider the example Solomon set for his people as he showed humility, praise, and thankfulness! As believers, you should always be asking yourself, am I leading well? Loving well? Living well? There is so much potential to be an influence for good, and to be a testimony of God’s grace! Pray specifically that God would raise up leaders within your family who will take the role of seeing that everyone is motivated by his or her relationship with Christ and to be a source of strength and hope in these chaotic times.

Memory Verse: Psalm 24:3, 4a: “Who may ascend into the hill of the Lord? Or who may stand in His holy place? He who has clean hands and a pure heart.” (NKJV)

Ponder: 

The Model for Christian Leadership:

• Christ-centered
• Committed to Serve
• Courageous to Lead
• Consistently Developing
• Continually Inviting Feedback
• Your life will be changed, and you will be a leader!

 

 

Portrait of a King: Lead With Success

September 20, 2015

Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Instruction sheets that come with “assemble it yourself” items often seem a waste of time and are pushed aside—until one finishes with extra parts! Can you think of some things you have really messed up by disregarding the instructions?

Last week we began a series meant to inspire and equip us for leadership, for we do not know what the future may hold. As we looked at David’s commission to his son, Solomon, we saw David charging him to remain faithful to God. Today we will look at God’s practical lessons on effective leadership.

 

Discuss:

Copy It

1. Read Deut. 17:18-20. Hundreds of years before a king began to rule over Israel, God gave a list of instructions for these future kings. What was the first order (verse 18)?
2. Can anyone recall a time in school when you had to write a sentence or word “a hundred times”? Why did the teacher do this?

Keep It

3. What was the further instruction in verse 19? What memory—past or present—do you have of carrying something with you, trying to memorize it?
4. Read Psalm 119:11. What is God’s promise for memorizing His word? What is one suggestion you have that helps you to “hide His word in your heart”?

Read It

5. Do you ever look at the bottles of vitamins on your shelves, mentally kicking yourself for not taking them? How does this analogy reinforce the necessity of reading God’s word?
6. What was God’s instruction in verse19b? Someone read Deut. 6:6-9. To not read God’s word is disobedience, which is ____?

Live It

7. Read verse 20 again. What are the results God promises if you daily read His word?
8. Finish by reading and thinking deeply about Deut. 30:15-18a.

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, think for a moment what your family would be like if everyone earnestly read, memorized, and lived out the principles in God’s word. Would it transform your family? This is what God desires, what He has laid out for you in His word, and what He promises. Discuss what is holding you or your family back from this total commitment. Pray as you close that you would rise up and be the leader who will say “This is going to be the way we want to live.” Leadership takes only one person to change the direction of many. Be that one!

Memory Verse: Ecclesiastes 12:13: “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is the man’s all.” (NKJV)

Ponder: Model for Christian Leaders

• Christ-centered in all aspects of life.
• Committed to serve the needs of others before your own.
• Courage to lead with power and love as you serve.
• Consistently develop others into servant leaders.
• Continually invite feedback in order to grow.

Terrorism and the Persecuted Church
September 6, 2015
Johnnie Moore

Open:

With many trials and conflicts in the lives of most families, it is easy to isolate ourselves from problems facing those in our nation or world who are targets of hate, hunger or other perils. What are some examples you can think of that are easier to ignore than become involved in?

Christianity began in the Middle East, and yet its spread eventually led to the colonization of America. When Christianity spread across America, those in the Middle East largely become forgotten, and their persecution overlooked. Today we will focus on the incredible crisis unfolding as brothers and sisters in Christ are victims of unspeakable atrocities.

Discuss:

What Is Happening?

1. Read Revelation 20:4. Ten years ago, reading this passage would have caused us to think of the Middle Ages. What are you feeling in your heart as you read or hear of ISIS victims in this present year?
2. Who is our real enemy? Why is persecution escalating?

What Does the Bible Teach About Times of Intense Christian Persecution?

3. Have several people read one verse: Matt. 13:20, 21; Mark 10:29, 30; Acts 8:1; Rom. 8:35 and 2 Tim. 3:12. Persecution has and will always be.
4. As the world becomes more intolerant of Christians, persecution will increase. What signs of a demoralized society do you see indicating your world is in danger of God’s judgment? Does this affect you personally?

What Does the Bible Tell Us We Are To Do To Help?

5. Read Hebrews 13:3. If possible, read it in two or three translations. What are some ways we can pray for those in desperate situations?
6. Read Acts 11:29. What are practical ways we can provide food, clothing, shelter, or other means of physical needs of refugees?

Close:

This very heavy subject is something we would rather turn from than face. As you break into small groups, talk about what to expect when it reaches your nation, community or neighborhood. Discuss preparations that can be made—both physical and spiritual—before persecution arrives near you. Pray that God will enable you to help in a tangible way those who are currently being persecuted, and intercede for them with your fervent prayers. Don’t let Satan deceive you that this is not your problem! And very importantly, educate yourself in the agenda and doctrine of ISIS.

Memory Verse: John 12:25: “He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” (NKJV).

Note: Johnnie Moore’s book, Defying ISIS, is available in eBook form, as well as soft cover. Read this powerful book to become more informed of the potential for persecution.

 

Our Playbook For Change: Vision Matters
August 23, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Trying to instill the hope of a future, children are asked often, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Goals are imperative to a balanced life. What are some results when one loses a purpose to strive for?

Today, as we continue to look at the relevancy of the church, we will examine one of its core reasons for being: Vision.

Discuss:

Our Vision

1. Read Acts 1:8. Following the resurrection and ascension of Jesus Christ, the church was birthed. What was its reason for coming into existence?
2. Every day, in any town, you see country churches that are very old and still beautiful and still small. What does its size tell you about its history?
3. Why must any church have a vision for God’s purpose in order to be effective?
4. Do you, yourself, have a vision for your future? Can you share it?

Our Mission

5. Read Matthew 28:18-20. What should be our mission in life as a church?
6. How can our church be passionate about spreading the gospel unless it begins in individual hearts?
7. What is the driving force behind your vision? How does God view your mission? Read Acts 2:14-21 when you get home.

Our Message

8. Read Acts 2:21. What is the message you, as a believer, have for the lost ones around you?
9. Read Romans 1:16, 17. Every day you cross paths with people who are rejecting the Lord as their Savior. What is your burden for them?

Close:

As you break into small groups, think of the vision that was in the hearts of those who began your church. Has it been continued through the years? Discuss the opportunities and obstacles that are faced as churches—or individuals—strive to tell the message of the gospel. Pray that you never lose the vision of seeing lives changed as you lead someone to the Lord. You can make a difference in the life of someone as you plant a seed, water, or pray. Utilize every opportunity to tell one person each day what the Lord has done for you!

Memory Verse: Acts 2:21: “And it shall come to pass that whoever calls upon the Name of the LORD shall be saved.” (NKJV)

Ponder: Dr. Jerry Falwell’s definitions of vision: Vision is: the eye of faith to see the invisible and the decisiveness to make it visible; the power that causes people to make huge sacrifices in order to become all they can be for God; adopting a plan of action that will enable you to move forward in your Christian life and ministry; that inward fire which enables you to boldly communicate to your peers what the future will be like; the dynamic that enables you to translate your faith and dreams into a new and personal walk with God; the God-given energy which will make you become a risk-taker.

Best Supporting Actor: Josiah, Break The Cycle
August 9, 2015
Pastor Scott Randlett

Open:

Rarely do you meet someone who has not made attempts to change some detail of their life. Would anyone like to share something you have tried to overcome but eventually gave up because you decided “that’s just the way I am”?

Today, as we finish the series on Best Supporting Actor, we will look at Josiah. He became a king at eight years of age, with a passion for serving God and bringing Israel back to worshiping Him. Through him we can learn how to begin a new legacy in life.

Discuss:

Believe God’s Power Is Greater Than Your Limitations:

1. Read 2 Kings 22:1, 2. Josiah had a very mature faith in God’s almighty power for one so young. What were some obstacles he could have used as an excuse to do nothing?
2. Perhaps you consider the reputation of your parents, your appearance, past lifestyle, etc., as a reason too big to try to change. How are you limiting God?
3. God loves you more than you can comprehend, and wishes to help you achieve a passion for life. What are ideas or situations holding you back?

Surround Yourself with Trustworthy People:

4. Read verses 3-10. Who were some of the people closest to Josiah? What were the relationships built on?
5. Read Proverbs 13:20. Can anyone share how the impact of co-workers, friends or family has influenced your walk with Christ for good or for bad?
6. Read 1 Corinthians 15:33. Can God trust those who are closest to you? What are steps you can take to free yourself from any who pull you away from Him?

Respond to the Truth of God’s Word:

7. Read verses 11-13. What did Josiah do when God’s laws were read to him?
8. Will anyone share what you do with the sermons you hear preached each Sunday?
9. What are some actions you perform that show nothing is more valuable to you than your relationship with Jesus Christ?

Close:

As you consider Josiah’s age, his evil father, and the idolatry Israel was involved in, you can see it would have been easy for him to have given up trying to change his world. But he knew his God was the same One whom David, over four hundred years earlier, had believed in when he slew Goliath. As you break into small groups, discuss the reality of your desire to serve God, Who is not limited by your age, past, or insecurities. The church has many Life Groups to help you as you seek a closer walk with Him. Pray that He would give you strength to overcome anything in your life that has created a wall between you and Him. Then, go out this week in HIS strength and do it!

Memory Verse: 2 Kings 22:2: “And he did what was right in the sight of the Lord, and walked in all the ways of his father David; he did not turn aside to the right hand or to the left.” (NKJV)

For Further Home Study: Read 2 Chronicles 32 and 33.Think of the evil family history Josiah had to overcome. Yet God was working years earlier as He led Manasseh to repentance and gave him six years to teach his grandson Josiah about the living God. His testimony built the foundation of a strong faith that served Josiah well when he became king two years later. God is not limited by age, by the past, or by insecurities.

 

Best Supporting Actor: Malachi
July 26, 2015
Pastor Doug Randlett

Open:

“Familiarity breeds contempt” is an old saying that has stood the test of being true more often than not. Can you list examples where you have lost the emotion of wonder that you experienced when a situation or relationship was at its beginning?

This week we continue to look at Biblical characters who had minor roles in the Scripture, but whose lives are as significant today as thousands of years ago. Malachi, the prophet, had such a life at a time when the Jews had been back in Israel, gotten comfortable and were apathetic toward God.

Discuss:

Going Through the Motions:

1. Before looking into Malachi, can you list some of the parallels between the history of the Jewish nation and the world as you know it in the 2000’s?

2. All the prophets from Samuel to Daniel had died. What was the condition of the hearts of the people? How does that compare to today’s churches?
God’s Love Shown:

3. Read Malachi 1:1-5. God declared His love. What was the people’s response? Can you give an example of doubting God’s love for you?

4. Did the people repent when God declared His love? What about today? Can you give an example?
God’s Love Scorned:

5. From Malachi 1:6 to 3:18 God lists the sins of Israel, and calls them to repent. He warned them a “wake-up call” would be coming. List some of the wake-up calls that our nation or world is experiencing.

6. Not only the ordinary people but also the priests (today’s preachers) were in deep or incredible sin. How did Israel differ from what you know is happening in churches today? Think of some examples.

7. Read Revelation 16:9 and 11. Were God’s warnings heeded?

God’s Love Shown Again:

8. Read Malachi 4:1-6. What was—and is—God’s final word, both to Israel and for today? Do you believe it? Give an illustration.

Lessons to Take Away:

Jesus loves you. He declares it to be so, and He does not lie.
He deserves your best, not leftovers from your time or your money.
He will never quit on you.
He wants you to be in awe of Him, not lukewarm.

Close:

As you go into small group time, consider the apathy of the people of Israel, and examine your own heart. Do you plan to get to your devotions, or prayer, or pay your tithe, but end up giving Him leftovers of your heart or your money? Read the four short chapters of Malachi this week, and let God’s warnings soak into your soul. As your group prays, let His words convict if you need it, but like Israel, if He convicts, then heed His warning. As you leave, be on fire in your spirit to do His will, treat Him with holiness, and love Him with abandonment!

Best Supporting Actor
July 12, 2015
Matt Willmington

Open:

We are all moved when we read stories of heroes who do something that benefits the life of one or more people, many times not knowing those involved. Have you ever had an experience of being able to rescue someone who was in peril?

As we continue the series “Best Supporting Actor,” today we will focus on someone who was used by God to save her people from being annihilated. Most people are even unaware of her given name, “Haddaseh,” but God has recorded Esther’s story for us.

Discuss:

Graciousness:

1. Read Esther 2:7, 8 to get a clear picture of Esther’s circumstances. List some of the obstacles she had had in her life. Can you relate?

2. Read 2:9. Esther had no control over her life, yet she evidenced what quality? Can you share how you normally react when you lose control of your circumstances?
Submission:

3. Can someone give a short synopsis of Esther’s story as it unfolds, as Mordecai explains to her what is going to happen to the Jews?

4. Will someone share if you have ever been asked to do something that could help someone else, but at a risk to your own well-being?
Sacrifice:

5. Read 4:16. What is Esther’s response to Mordecai’s instructions?

6. How much would you sacrifice to do God’s will? Think about the suffering church around the world for a moment.
Burden:

7. Read Esther 8:3. What was her burden? Can you honestly say you have a burden for anyone in your “world”?
Dependence:

8. What else was Esther willing to do? What other word is almost always coupled with fasting? Upon whom was Esther depending?

9. How did God honor her godly character? Will He not honor you as well when you evidence these traits?

Close:

Esther’s life provides a true role model for you as you go about your daily life. As you break into small groups think deeply about her qualities. Discuss which one is strongest in your life. Which one(s) do you need to beseech God to help you intensify? Continually pray that God will find you a vessel fit and able to do His work to bring someone in your world (family, neighborhood, community) to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ before it is too late. Never forget that even though you don’t see Him with physical eyes, His hand is always upon you.

Memory Verse: Esther 4:14b: “Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?” (NKJV)

Reaching the Next Generation
June 28, 2015
Dr. Ed Hindson

Open:
Every generation faces challenges in regard to issues of moral values. If you have children or grandchildren, what are some of the concerns you feel they will face in the coming few years?

Today we are going to turn our focus to the importance of passing the baton of faith on to the next generation. The Biblical accounts of Elijah and Elisha illustrate how important it is that we give them a strong spiritual foundation, so they can face the trials of our broken culture with courage, the voice of God, and the certainty that the Bible is the moral absolute that holds the answers for the questions of the world.

Discuss:
Contrasting Elijah and Elisha

1. Read 1 Kings 17:1 and 18:41. Elijah (“Jehovah is my God”) lived in a time when he saw his country turning away from God. Where did he get the faith for his predictions? (Read James 5:17). Do you have this type of faith?

2. After Elijah raised the widow’s son and killed the 450 prophets of Baal, Jezebel threatened his life. What did he do, and where was his focus?

3. When you encounter problems that paralyze you, do you find yourself running from them, or looking to God for help? How can you listen for His voice?
Confrontation

4. Read 1 Kings 19:9. God spoke to Elijah, giving him specific instructions to carry out. Has He given believers detailed commands? What are they?

5. Elijah was told to anoint a successor, which was Elisha (“God is salvation”). (Read 1 Kings 19:19, 20 if you need to). How is our next generation like Elisha?
Commission: Change the World

6. Go back and read 1 Kings 19:15-18. Did God expect Elijah to do impossible tasks? Does He ask more of you than you can do?

7. Read Romans 4:20-22. What does this verse tell you about your ability to carry out the orders God gives individually?

8. What are some ways we can train the next generation to succeed us?

Close:
Call: Pick up the Mantle
As you break into your small group time, think over the lessons that have been given through these two prophets: 1) God never loses control of a situation; 2) listen for God’s voice in the midst of problems; and 3) be aware of all opportunities to train the next generation. Pray that God will open your eyes to the people who are looking for answers to the emptiness inside them. Call the church and ask if there are people you can minister to. There is always someone who knows less than you, and you can disciple one-on-one. Seize those teachable moments before they slip away!

Memory Verse: Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” (NKJV

Greater Things: Being A Follower!
June 14, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Beginning a venture with fervor is normal; continuing through obstacles takes work and determination; but ending well? That is the reward of commitment for a winner! Can you think of times when you began well but quit, or when you began, then finished well?

We have been looking at the Greater Things God promised we would do. Last week we examined our hearts for sins that could keep us from doing His will. Today we will focus on the need to be a committed follower, ready to move forward with God beside us!

Discuss:

You Must Be Obedient

1. Read Luke 14:33. What is the difference between being a Christian, and being a disciple?

2. Read John 14:15. What area of our life does this short statement from Christ refer to? How is this analogous to our own children, and the obedience we desire from them?

You Must Know You Are Not Alone

3. Share the occasion when you realized that He cares about every step you take?

4. Read verses 16 and 17. These verses are full of promises of His ever-abiding presence with us. Why, then, is it so difficult to remember we are not alone, especially when we come to those “obstacles” we talked about?

You Must Fully Trust Him

5. Read verse 19. Who is there in your life that you fully trust? Why?

6. When you look back at the faithfulness of God, has He ever failed you?

7. If He has been faithful in the past, what would keep Him from being faithful in the future?

You Must Look For Him

8. Read verse 21. How can we exercise our awareness of His love for us? Oswald Chambers wrote “In the initial stages [of abiding], it will be a continual effort, but as you continue [it will be] without any conscious effort.*

9. Once you begin to notice evidences of His love for you personally, what can you do to make conscious efforts to see Him acting on your behalf?

Close:

As you break into small groups, share one-sentence examples of ways in which God has shown Himself to you in the past week. Soon you will realize He is beside you every moment. The more you become aware of this, the more your relationship with Him will flourish. Pray that He will send you evidences of His great love for you this week! Finish by having someone read Micah 6:6-8.

Memory Verse: John 14:15: “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” (NKJV)
*Oswald Chambers, My Utmost For His Highest, June 14 Reading, www.utmost.org

Greater Things
May 31, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Many years ago our friends and acquaintances were limited to our church, job, and location. We would never have imagined a world where we could interact with people around the globe, instantly! What are some pros and cons of “social media?”

Today we begin a series on the ‘Greater Things’ Christ said would be done after He had gone back to the Father. Incredible? Yet when we recall the limits of His human travels, we realize we can reach the entire world with the good news of His free salvation.

Discuss:

God’s Authority:

1. Read John 14:1-11. The truths written in the Bible have always been attacked, but never more so than today. What are some of the reasons?

2. What are some of the promises and claims Jesus made in these verses?

3. Why is it necessary to have the firm foundation of belief that Jesus is who He said He is, before we can share the Gospel?
God’s Provision:

4. Read John 14:12. To do ‘greater works’ involves a condition; what is it? Is Jesus speaking of head knowledge, or heart knowledge?

5. Explain how we can do greater works than Jesus did.

6. Give suggestions how you can be doing greater works, as an ordinary person, with an extraordinary God.
God’s Plan:

7. Read verses 13 and 14. How do we ask the Father for anything? What must prayer involve?

8. What attributes of Jesus Christ are recognized when we pray in the name of Jesus? What would happen if you prayed in your name?

Close:

As you break up into small groups, let these verses comfort you, inspire you, and cause you to magnify Jesus Christ for Who He is! He is sitting at the right hand of God the Father, interceding for you, listening to your prayers, and being willing to give you new life. What an awesome God you serve! Consider your prayers this week: do they fall into the categories He has outlined in these verses? P.T. Forsythe once wrote, “The greatest sin is prayerlessness,” and Dr. Jerry Falwell said “Nothing of eternal signfiicance is ever accomplished apart from prayer.” Pray that God would grant you the desire to talk with Him often.

Memory Verse: John 14:12: “Most assuredly I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to the Father.” (NKJV)

JAMES 1
May 17, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us have the head knowledge to know when we should do right, but sometimes, thinking of the repercussions, we choose to remain silent or do nothing. Can you share a recent time when you did not take an honorable action, and were left with a guilty conscience?
Today and next week we are going to look at the very practical book of James: one which tells us repeatedly how to act in such a manner as to have a life pleasing to God, see our faith grow, and have our Christian walk become much more effective.

Discuss:

1. Read James 1:1-8. James tells it like it is: in this world, we are going to have trials! What should be the result in going through a crisis that tests our faith?

2. How can you know that God does not want you to walk through the trial alone?

3. How do you normally handle a crisis that comes into your life? If you react with impatience or frustration, what happens to your spiritual development?

4. What are some outcomes—both mild and severe—that can occur when you act hastily in your own wisdom, without asking God for “back up”?

5. Read verses 19-21. James gives us a plan of three steps. What are they? They sound simple; can you explain why they might not be easy to carry out?

6. Every couple of days we have to take the garbage out, or the house will stink. How does that compare with the instructions found in verse 21?

7. Read verses 22-24 (in the New Living translation if available). What is the necessary action we must take when we hear or read God’s word? How does that relate to our memory verse?

8. When you look in the mirror before leaving home, what do you do? What kind of life will you have if you know God’s word, but never take steps to let it change you?

Close:

James’ desire for the believers who had spread to other countries for safety was simple: act out your faith, constantly seek God’s wisdom, and do what is right. As you break into small groups, discuss which of today’s verses are the hardest for you to process. Then pray for your own needs to let them change you. Be sure to pray for those of your group, that God would fill all of you with a desire to do His will, serve Him, and be “unstained” by the sins of the world that you encounter each day. Take time this week to read the first chapter of James each day, so that it soaks into your heart!

Memory Verse: James 1:22: “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

He Lives, Do You? Why Are You Here?
May 3, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Feeling incapable of doing a job or serving in a particular capacity occurs when we compare ourselves with others. Can you share a time when you have let an opportunity to help someone pass because you believed yourself unworthy?

We have learned that being filled with Christ’s resurrection power gives our lives purpose and a mission. Yet we shall see today that many Christians live without real meaning to their life, and—feeling they have no worth—they just exist. Let’s see how to change that thinking.

Discuss:

1. Read Matthew 28:18-20. As you listen to the reading, did Jesus question whether the disciples were worthy or able to carry out His instructions?

2. What are the action words He gave? What qualifications did He indicate was needed to do the job? Does this include our generation?

3. Can someone recall Moses’ answers when God told Him to bring Israel out of Egypt? What was his reaction, and what “self-worth” comes across? (Read Ex. 3:10-14, 4:1, 10-14a if you need to).

4. God has extended the Great Commission to us; how are we like Moses?

5. God has asked you to do a specific thing. Are you using your feelings of inadequacy or past failures to shirk this responsibility?

6. God has not asked you to do something impossible; He never calls you to a task without equipping you. Share some hindrances that may be stopping you from obeying God.

7. Read James 4:17. What is James saying to all of us about obedience? If Jesus gave you the charge of sharing your testimony, what is your responsibility?

Close:

When witnessing becomes a “fear factor” remember one rule: just tell your story. Whether you were raised in a Godly home, or came out of a sinful background, God has given you qualities to carry out the purpose He has for you! As you break into small groups, talk about the feelings of inadequacy that you may have that keep you from living a life of genuine obedience. Pray for peace in those areas, and remember that we are never going to be alone, even when we feel the most isolated. Christ has promised that He will be with us every step of the way. Close in prayer, asking God that everyone would have the opportunity this week to share their story with an unbeliever.

Memory Verse: Mark 16:15: “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.”

He Lives! Do You? No Fear
Pastor Jonathan Falwell
April 19, 2015

Open:

Running into friends usually presents the automatic question, “How are you?” The answer is usually, “Fine!” The truth is, heavy concerns rob us of joy and peace on every side. What are some that you can think of?

As we have been looking at the resurrection power, we are learning that it is available to give meaning and peace to our lives every day. We can choose to live in fear of worldly pressure or choose to trust Jesus to be with us every moment.

Discuss

1. Read Matthew 28:1-10 and note how many times it is written to “not be afraid” or to not “fear.” How does that apply to us as well? (Hint: 2 Tim. 3:16).

2. What were some differences between the fear of the guards and the fear that the two Mary’s were experiencing?

3. What is a primary reason we have fear in our lives, even as Christians?

4. The reasons we live in fear of worldly anxieties are many. How would it help if you could actually visibly see Christ beside you?

a. What would it take for you to understand and absorb the truth that God the Son, who spoke the world into being, is with you every second?

b. What would it take for you to relinquish your (assumed) control of situations that bring turmoil, and to really trust Him to “have your back”?

c. Read 1 John 4:18. What is the missing ingredient when we are in fear and what does fear cause? How is this true?

d. If someone whose power is greater than ours has promised help with our problems, we rest easier. Why do we not realize Jesus is that Person?

e. The song, “A Midnight Cry,” speaks of viewing life as constantly fulfilling God’s word. How can we celebrate who He is every moment?

Close:

We trust God with our salvation, and embrace His death as payment for our sinful past. Yet when it comes to control of our lives, we hold back and are afraid to trust Him. As we break into small groups for prayer time, let us confess if we have a lack of trust. Usually our concern isn’t that He won’t fix our problem—but that He won’t do it the way we want it done. That’s a big step of faith. It’s time to take it and “not be afraid!”

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 15:22: “For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive.”

Walking  the Road: Getting Ready for Arrival
March 29, 2015
Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Anticipating the arrival of someone loved or highly respected can send a person, a family or a community into a frenzy of excitement! List some of the activities that are done in preparation for the appearance of such a one.

The last two weeks we’ve looked at the road that a genuine Christian should walk, as we look toward the crucifixion. Today we will look at what it takes in our lives to be ready for the arrival or return of Christ as Lord and Savior.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 11:7-10. Why was there so much intensity of anticipation, and who may have been among this throng?

2. Today a “red carpet” would be rolled out for someone important, but most of these people had few possessions. What was symbolic about the people laying their coats and branches down on His path?

3. No one was made to throw their cloaks, but they were willing to sacrifice what they had for this Man they loved. What can you give Him?

4. Many, knowing Jesus was coming, had run to the fields to cut branches or climbed trees for the limbs. What did these actions reveal about their hearts?

5. Read Ephesians 4:12. What truth can we glean from the efforts of the people waiting for Jesus, and the necessity for us each day?

6. Do you know what “Hosanna” means? This crowd was united in their adulation of Jesus. What are some ways we offer praise and worship?

7. To whom did Christ leave the work of preparing the world for His return?

8. What are you willing to do to be sure your heart, your family’s or your community’s is ready for His return?

Close:

It would probably impact us greatly if we could see how we would have reacted had we been part of this crowd. Would we have been jubilant or silent? If we had on an Armani suit jacket or a Prada coat, would we have thrown them down or hesitated? Would we have sweated to get the branches? In other words, what are we willing to do for Christ? As you go into small groups, search your heart to see if there are any closets that are off-limits to Him, and pray that He would help you sacrifice everything to be His, to work constantly to be diligent about His business, and to worship Him with your every breath.
MEMORY VERSE: Mark 11:9: “Then those who went before and those who followed cried out, saying, ‘Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the LORD.’ ”

The Road to the Cross: Walking the Road
March 15, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

It’s usually easy to begin a new job, a marriage, or a new endeavor with enthusiasm; however, if we don’t work to keep the fervor alive, apathy can easily settle in. What are some examples of this truth?
Most people who become a follower of Jesus Christ are zealous as they begin their life with Him. Today we will concentrate on continuing to live our lives devoted to Him, keeping that “first love” for Him as the priority of our being.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 12:30, 31. It is hard to think of anyone we know who fulfills this commandment. What are some reasons God would “command” us to do what seems impossible?

2. Read Mark 12:41-44. What was the widow’s motive in giving everything she had to God?

3. What are some things we can do to make sure we are giving our “all” to God?

4. Read Luke 14:27. List disciplines required in our lives in order to wholly follow Christ. Mentally put a check beside those you need to work on.

5. God, by the very nature of who He is, deserves our utmost reverence. What are some ways we give Him this respect, and what are some ways He is held in contempt by the world?

6. Read Luke 5:4-6. A child, no matter his age, shows his love for a parent by obedience. Why does following Christ require our obedience, even when it doesn’t make sense?

7. Can you think of examples in your life when you have obeyed by faith?

Close:

Holding God in a place of highest esteem, obeying Him, and serving Him all are evidences that we love Him. Did you notice in the story of Peter that Jesus told him to “let down [the] nets” and Peter said, “Ok, I’ll let down the net.” In a few minutes the net “was breaking” under the weight, but if Peter had obeyed fully, letting down nets, he would have been prepared for what Christ was going to do! As we go into our small groups, search your heart to find if there are areas where you are holding back from completely obeying; confess these areas, and ask Him to reveal anything that would keep you from being, like the widow, totally sold out to Him. Use the Life Groups at church to enrich your walk with Him, and pray for constant opportunities to share what He has done for you.

Memory Verse: Mark 12:30, 31: “’And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”

And The Greatest of These Is Love
March 1, 2015

Open:

Checking out at WalMart, the elderly man dug in his pockets for enough money to cover his meager food purchase. The person next in line quietly handed the clerk a bill to pay for the groceries. Can you list examples of times someone has taken the opportunity to show God’s love to a person they’ve never met?
Continuing the focus on God’s love from 1 John, this week we want to spotlight what it actually means for us to be filled with His love.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 John 4:7-21. In verses 7 and 8, why is it so important that we sincerely have love in our hearts? What does this show to the world?

2. In verses 9 and 10, what did we do to earn the love God has shown us? What are some reasons God loves us so much?

3. Re-read verses 16-18. What is the reassurance that we have in these verses? Does the action of standing before God fill you with joy or with fear? (You may answer in your heart).

4. Read 1 Corinthians 13:11-13. Why is the greatest of “these three” (faith, hope, love) LOVE?

5. What are some practical ways we can show God’s love to those around us? (Moderator, mark off those that are mentioned, emphasizing any that are left):

a. Always look for the best in others, and give them the benefit of the doubt;

b. Make forgiveness a habit, especially when it is not deserved;

c. Forgive even when it is not asked for;

d. Take care of conflict as soon as possible and move on, leaving the conflict behind;

e. Look for a reason to bless someone each day;

f. Meet needs as often as you are able, whenever God shows them to you;

g. Pray for others diligently and deliberately, for as long as their need is present;

h. Endeavor to know God better each day through reading His word and prayer;

i. Find ways every day to show God’s love to someone who does not know Him;

j. Make certain you are known as a person who has been transformed by your relationship with Jesus Christ.

Close:

Did any of those practical applications speak to your heart? As you break into small groups, be open to sharing how God spoke to you, and have the group pray that you will be filled with love in that area. All should continually pray ‘diligently and deliberately’ for each of those in your group. Satan does not want believers to be victorious, so as you close in prayer, focus on 1 John 4:4!

Memory Verse: John 13:35: “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

God’s Amazing Grace February 15, 2015

Open:

Each day we are bombarded with expressions of “love.” Give some examples that you feel convey the correct meaning of this oft-used word.

This week and next week we are going to focus on love. We cannot grasp the true meaning of this word until we understand God’s love toward us who are His children.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 John 3:1-10. To try to understand God’s love for us, we can contrast the love we have for our own children. Can you put your some of your feelings into words, even though the comparison is inadequate?

2. List some ways that God the Father loves God the Son. What are some adjectives that you think of, knowing God loves you with that same love?

3. If you are truly God’s child, what can you do to make Him quit loving you?

4. No one knows whose child you are unless you are visible in a loving relationship with your father. How does this parallel verse 1b?

5. Very few experiences in life exceed our expectations, but read 1 Corinthians 2:9; it tells us that we cannot even imagine what God has in store for us, because of His great love. What are some of the magnificent possibilities that might await us?

6. 1 John 3:3-10 illustrates how our adoption as children of God should change us. What are some of the new characteristics that people should see in us?

7. Share some major changes that have occurred since you asked God to save you.

Close:

Your salvation should bring you such joy that your desire each day is to become more like Christ. Knowing God loves you with an everlasting love, which has only just begun, should spur you to build on that relationship constantly. As you break into small groups, discuss some areas where you still need to overcome habits that can harm your relationship with Christ. Pray diligently that God will give you strength to win over Satan. Always keep in mind that the church has people who are willing and eager to see that you become more victorious day by day.

Memory Verse: I John 3:2: “Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.” (NKJV)

Get Fit: Trusting God for Your Future

Open:

Trusting our lives to things or situations occurs hundreds of time each day. What are some things you can think of that we trust in, usually without thought?

The past month we have been focused on getting fit in every area of our lives. This week we end this series as we encompass all we have learned in order to make our lives conform to the goal of living our lives with the purpose of bringing glory to our God.

Discuss:

1. Living our lives to bring God glory sounds impossible. Read Mark 10:27. What does this scripture tell us? What are some of the impossibilities that the Holy Spirit is implying?

2. Read Psalm 33:1-22. If we are to live our lives for God’s glory, what will this look like on a daily basis?

3. This Psalm tells us in verses 1-5 that we are to worship Him with all that we are. What are some reasons He is worthy of our worship?

4. In verses 6-9, the psalmist gives us a small picture of the greatness of God. If we worship Him because of what He has done, not only in creation and throughout history, but in our own lives, what are some things you can list?

5. Do you have goals that will line your life up with God’s purpose for you? Share some of them and tell what actions are you taking to make these goals realities?

6. Why did Richard Blackaby say “the primary purpose of spiritual leaders [or Christians] is not to achieve their goals but to accomplish God’s will”?

7. We would all agree that Christ is worthy of our trust. Re-read verses 18-22. What are some ways He shows Himself faithful? If He has been faithful in the past, what are some things we should trust Him with in the future?

8. What signals alert you to the possibility you may not be trusting Him?

Close:

God can do amazing things with us if we are willing, ready, and available to be used. We have to live our lives intentionally to accomplish His plans and purposes for us. As we break into small groups, discuss the possibilities that could occur if you set goals that you knew you could accomplish, knew that you would not fail, be willing to pay the price, and what you would be willing to sacrifice to attain them. Remember to discuss needs that might be met by the small groups meeting at the church, and especially remember to pray for those who are seeking God’s help, His glory, and His will in their lives.

Memory Verse: Psalm 33:20, 21: “Our soul waits for the Lord, He is our help and our shield. For our
heart shall rejoice in Him, because we have trusted in His holy name.” (NKJV)

Get Fit: Physically

Scott Bullman January 18, 2015

Open:

Deciding to change something about yourself, and then actually doing it, is by far easier said than done! What are some examples of physical change that you or someone you know has accomplished?

The past two Sundays we have understood that beginning the new year by getting fit spiritually and with relationships starts with developing a closer bond with God. This week Scott Bullman will help us look at our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit, and learn what our responsibility is as we take care of it.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20. Before we can solve a problem, we have to identify it.

a. What is something physical we need to change about ourselves?

b. Which of these might impact our testimony as a follower of Christ?

2. Why do you have to get to the point where “the pain of bearing the problem is greater than the pain of changing it” before you are mentally ready to take the first step? (Henry Cloud)

3. Where should discipline begin when change is needed?

a. Read Eccl. 4:10. What is the benefit of accountability?

b. Express any hesitation you might have with an accountability partner.

4. Read 1 Peter 1:13. What is special about self-control?

5. Why do we need the power of God to change?

6. Read Romans 12: 1, 2.

a. What are some reasons why deliverance does not come immediately?

b. What are some ways that others can benefit as they see us changing?

c. When will you be able to stop your discipline?

Close:

Changing habits that have a strong grip on your life is a task that will take fervor, determination, and discipline. As you break into small groups, discuss changes that you know you need, and explore possibilities of the church providing groups who will help you. As you close, pray specifically for strength to determine to change strongholds and deliverance from anything that hurts your relationship with Christ.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20: Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit Who is in you, Whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

Get Fit in Relationships
January 11, 2015

Open:

People were created to be social beings, but maintaining close bonds is often a challenge. Can you share situations where relationships were in danger, and yet had an excellent ending?
Last week we looked at getting fit in our spiritual life through avoiding sin, worshiping and pursuing God, and being in His Word. Today we are going to examine how a deep relationship with God enables us to have stronger ties with family and friends.

Discuss:

1. Quote Psalm 119:11 together (last week’s memory verse). Why is it necessary to get our lives spiritually fit before working on relationships with others?

2. Read 1 Peter 3:8-12. Anything that is valuable takes maintenance and care to protect it. So it is with relationships we truly care about. What are some actions we can take to keep a relationship healthy?

3. What are some obstacles to a healthy relationship, and why? What is probably the greatest hindrance?

4. Re-read verse 9. When someone hurts or uses us, what is our natural response? What type of response does God desire from us?

5. What is the promise in verse 10 which sounds so simple? What are some ways we can get control over our responses when we want to wound, hurt, or “get even?”

6. What does it take to be honest yet encouraging to everyone we talk to?

7. What are the instructions given in verse 11 that help us embrace better relationships?

8. Verse 12 gives us the abundant promise of security as we seek to live a life pleasing to God. What can we be assured of?

Close:

The relationships we are building should never be taken for granted. They are precious evidence of a life being lived to glorify Christ. As you close in prayer, remember to lift up the groups that are meeting at church to further meet needs in this area. Also pray that God will help you keep a bridle on your tongue, that you always speak softly, and keep your words pure.

Memory Verse, January 11, 2015:
1 Peter 3:8: “Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous.