Flannelgraph Faith: Passing it on
August 12, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Parents will tell you how difficult it was the first time they left their infant in the church nursery or day care! Placing them on a school bus for the first time usually brings on tears for Mom. Why is it so hard to trust the responsibility of our precious possessions to someone else?

We are continuing our series of learning lessons from Bible characters who were strong in the faith, using the vintage style flannel-graph with modern-day technology. Today we see how Paul rejoiced that his passion of taking the gospel to all places was to be handed off to the next generation. The years were passing, enemies increasing, and Paul knew his time on earth would eventually end. Let’s join him in Acts, chapters 16 to 20, learning from him how to pass our faith on to those who will hold dear the beloved Scriptural doctrines.

Discuss:

Changing Our World Must Include the Next Generation

• Read Acts 16:3-5. What kind of reputation did Timothy probably have that Paul would have taken him “under his wing” for mentoring?
• Paul was continually subjected to persecution (2 Cor. 11:23-28) and knew his ministry needed to be given to those who could carry it forward after he was gone. Why was/is this necessary?
• Why is it normally so hard to turn our responsibility over to the someone in the younger generation?

Trusting the Next Generation

• Read Acts 17:14. Paul, Timothy and Silas arrived in Berea, only to have Paul’s dissenters attack him again. Why was he willing to leave Timothy and Silas in Berea and himself leave that area?
• How are you pouring your life into someone who will be able to carry on your love for Jesus? Why is it important that you are willing to give what you value most into their possession?
• Share some ways in which you are trusting someone of the next generation.
• For those who are parents, what was it like to come to a milestone: school, driving, college, even marriage? Why?

Commissioning the Next Generation

• Read Acts 19:22. How did Paul show Timothy that he trusted him to carry on Paul’s burden for the churches?
• What did your teen understand the first time you confidently handed them the car keys and asked them to go pick up ______ (sibling, grocery, etc.)?
• How will you know when it is time to hand over responsibility?

Celebrating the Next Generation

• During the next couple of chapters, we read of Paul having reunions with his co-workers. What must the joy have been as they reported to each other?
• Read 2 Tim. 1-2. What relationship did this older apostle have with the younger one whom he had mentored? Do you have a son or daughter in the faith? How are they carrying out what you passed on?
• There is no greater joy for the Christian than to see one’s children walking in truth! (3 John verse 4) Can you describe the feeling?

Take Away:

• Are you raising the next generation for Christ? What are you doing?
• Are you sending out the next generation (are you handing them the keys?)
• Younger generation: are YOU ready to take over?

Close:

As you read from these chapters in Acts, it is impossible not to mentally examine your life to make certain there is someone from the next generation, whether grandchild, child, friend, etc., that you are investing your life in. Are you praying that they are ready to receive the baton and carry the church forward? All investments in life indicate that there has been time put into knowing the person or firm. One does not knowingly invest their precious goods into something or someone whom they do not trust. Who in the next generation are you investing in?

The investing of your time and talents may seem a small thing. You may not see results in your lifetime, but God has the timeline, not you. As long as you are faithful as a steward in your Father’s house, He will bring about the increase. Let those you love see you putting what you love into God’s work. It will pay great dividends one day!

Key Verse: Acts 18:5: When Silas and Timothy had come from Macedonia, Paul was compelled by the Spirit, and testified to the Jews that Jesus is the Christ.

Focal Passages: Acts 16-20. Take some time this week to read these four chapters that tell of Paul’s trials and victories!

Flannelgraph Faith: The Power of Purpose
July 29, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Do you have a purpose for your life, one that motivates you to actually accomplish it? Or perhaps, in the different seasons of living, your purposes have changed. Can you share either?

Today we look at a married couple from the New Testament who had such love for Jesus that they had completely committed themselves to His work. They were willing to go anywhere they felt led, at any time, to do the work of the ministry. This study continues our series using a modern day flannel-graph, giving visual images to tell a story of love for God and each other.

Discuss:

Reputation Matters

• Read Acts 18:1-4. Aquila and Priscilla, Jewish believers who lived in Rome, were forced to leave by a decree of Claudius. They were strong believers of Jesus Christ and made their way to Corinth. When Paul arrived there, he was introduced to them. Why do you think he was led to them?
• What was their occupation? What was Paul’s trade? What did Paul accomplish by earning his own living while preaching the gospel?
• Surely the reputation of Aquila and Priscilla was such that Paul felt equally yoked in abiding in their home in Corinth. Why would this have been important?
• What do people say about you (you don’t have to answer out loud)? How do you stand out differently from those you work with, or have for friends? Do they know you are a Christ-follower?

   Solidarity Matters

• Read verses 5-11. When the message of Jesus Christ was rejected by those in the synagogue, what did Paul do? What did Jesus tell him in a vision?
• Why is it so much easier to quit, or be silent, in the face of adversity than to continue?
• What did God do by way of encouragement while Paul was being verbally attacked often?
• When you are going through difficult situations, why does it give you so much confidence when God sends others to come along beside you?

 Commitment Matters

• How long did Paul remain preaching in Corinth? Can you remember a job or situation that you endured, only to see it result in victory? Can you share?
• Read verses 18-21. From what you’ve read, how can you conclude Paul left with the young church doing well? Whom did he take with him when he left?
• After visiting with the Ephesian believers, Paul felt he had to leave. Speculate as to why Aquila and Priscilla remained in Ephesus. Was their work finished?
• Has God called you to a certain task? Are you being obedient?

Growth Matters

• Read verses 24-28. What were some of the qualities Apollos had? What was his greatest lack? Does this possibly reflect the reason why Priscilla and Aquila were needed in Ephesus? They now had a new church plant! How would that make youfeel?
• Are you being used to grow the kingdom of God? If you are not growing, God cannot use you the way He desires. What are some ways that you grow? Are you willing for Him to use you?

Close:

This study of the life of two individuals who were committed to God gives us several options to serve as a great study! These two people had a marriage that could provide a role model for any couple who desires to serve God. They were faithful to each other, with a common goal, not holding onto material possessions or home, but willing to carry out God’s plans for their lives. They saw fruit not only in planting churches, but in discipling and mentoring others also.

It also gives us a picture of the great apostle Paul, often regarded as one who lived in the Spirit always. Yet small verses like Acts 18:6, Acts 15:37-39 or Romans 7:18-19 show us that he was human just as we are, sometimes reacted with frustration, just as we do, and was even ready to quit—yet he was on the verge of victory! It should give us extra courage to know that we can do great things for God if we grow, draw near Him moment by moment, and be ready in any situation to let Him use us. That only comes about if we have prepared our heart ahead of time.

Key Verse: Acts 18:9-10:Now the Lord spoke to Paul in the night in a vision, “Do not be afraid, but speak, and do not keep silent; for I am with you, and no one will attack you to hurt you; for I have many people in this city.” (NKJV)

Focal Passage:Acts 18:1-28.

Flannelgraph Faith: The Courage of Conviction
July 15, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Some people seem to have the gift of courage, while others struggle with stepping out of their comfort zone. Can you think of an example when you showed courage even though you were scared?

Today we continue our series using the modern version of the flannelgraph, choosing godly characters from the New Testament. This week we will focus on Stephen, a righteous man who became known as the first martyr of the Christian religion

Discuss:

Courage in our faith comes from above before it comes from within

• Read Acts 4:23-31. Peter and John had just been arrested and taken before the Sanhedrin. Can anyone tell the story of what had happened?
• These two men were perceived to be “unlearned and ignorant” (vs. 13) yet stood boldly before the ruling Jews. Where did their courage come from?
• Why is courage not natural for us? What are some areas where courage is desperately needed in our families? Why do we not take a stand?
• Read Acts 6:8. Why would God give us courage to defy fear?

Courage in our faith is from the overflow

• When are you—in any situation—the most confident? Why is that? As you spend more time with God, do you become “filled and overflowing” with His promises and faith in what He says?
• Read Acts 22:14. What do you know about Stephen? What did he answer when he was taken before the High Priest? Why did he have so much courage? Read Acts 6:8.

Courage in our faith will protect us from beginning to end 

• Read Eph. 3:19, and Romans 15:13 (in The Living Bible if possible, or one that translates abound as “overflowing.”) Why do we have to have conviction in our faith before we can be used by God in courageous ways?
• Read Acts 7:57-60. You may ask, “where was God’s protection for Stephen as he was being stoned?” Will someone answer?
• Why did Stephen cry out to God to receive his spirit, and how could he find the love for those gnashing their teeth in hate as they killed him?
• Probably none of us feel we can face a death of martyrdom, yet every day across the world this is happening. Where do they get their courage?

Close:

The life and age of Stephen is one we know nothing about, although probably he was a husband and father. The Bible records he was a man “full of faith and the Holy Spirit” (Acts 6:3-6). Would that we all had such a eulogy from God! Yet he had such faith that he was able to preach a very long sermon to the ruling Jews, laying the guilt for the crucifixion of Jesus Christ at their door, not fearing his coming death. His conviction that Jesus was truly the Messiah gave him a courage that would face any attack against his belief.

Stephen had the courage of his convictions because he was confident in Whom he believed, and in what he believed. While we will not take a stand for our preferences, we will for our convictions. Do you know the difference? You may prefer a movie with no cursing, but if you continue to watch it, you do not have a conviction. Turning it off and removing it from your home means you have a conviction and will take a stand against it. That difference gives one confidence to face ridicule or back down! Those around Stephen that day saw a good man die; the Jews thought they were squelching the growing community who believed that Jesus was the Messiah; God saw the result: that those who would flee Jerusalem would take the news of the gospel of His Son and spread it throughout the world (Acts 8:1). May we all be so courageous in our conviction as to simply tell our neighbor before it’s too late.

Key Verse: Acts 4:19-20: But Peter and John answered and said to them, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge. For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.” (NKJV)

Focal Passages: Acts 4:19-20, 23-31; 6:8; 7:57-60 and Romans 8:38-39.

The Church There and Here
July 1, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

So often in businesses, additional help is needed to cover shifts when vacation time occurs. Most are hesitant to volunteer, hoping someone else will take the responsibility. Can someone give an example?

This week we want to continue last week’s sermon, looking at the way in which Christ uses believers to build His church. Today we will examine our individual role, our mission, and the reward we know we will receive in heaven. We were given a personal responsibility (gift) whenwe received salvation. Now we must identify our task and apply ourselves to it.

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:1-7; Hebrews 12:1, Phil. 3:13

Discuss:

We are called

• Read Ephesians 4:1. Paul begs us not to forget our calling. What is he referring to?
• What is required for us to accomplish our own calling?
• Read Romans 12:4-5. Is everyone’s work the same? Why not?

To live differently than the world

• Read Eph. 4:2. Why is this the opposite of what society, the media, and commercials would have us believe to be the correct way? If you are living a life of humility (putting others before your own needs), discuss why this is so difficult when it comes to overtly sinful persons who cross our paths?
• What is the opposite of those virtues in verse 2?
• Read Titus 2:11-13. How does God desire that we be separate from the world?

To be united in mission

• Read Eph. 4:3-4a. Occasionally we see people who cannot control a part of their body because of a physical malady. How difficult would this be if the body of Christ operated as dis-unified members? Are we striving for unity?
• Why does the world not take the church seriously in these days of turmoil?What can each of us do about it? What focus must we have?
• We can each make our own calling our focus. Where do we start?

To celebrate our future

• Read Eph. 4:4b. If we are saved, what is our hope for the future?
• Read Phil. 3:13. Paul was able to forget his former life. Can you forgive yourself past sins in order to be effective for the calling God has given you?
• Read Heb. 12:1-2. This is a description of how we should approach life. Name some of the witnesses that make up this “Hall of Faith” and tell why it is amazing that God used them. What does verse 2 tell us to do?

All because of Him

• Read verses Eph. 4:5-6. What truths should our lives center around?
• Read Heb. 12:2 again. What did He do for us while we were “dead in trespasses and sins” and what is He going to do to see that we finish well?
• If our church body—we as individuals and corporately—are going to be effective in a world of upheaval, what does our focus have to be?

Close:

The church is a body universal, made up of every nation, people and language. Have you had the experience of meeting a Christian in an unlikely country or situation, and immediately a sense of the same Spirit dwelling in each of you comes over you? That is how Christ wants the body to work: healthy, growing, and full of love. It is His plan for our lives, and the best life that can be had for all of us.

Individually, we all need to be members focused on Him throughout our day, looking for ways we can bring glory to Him. To be like the world—go the same places, take in the same entertainment, use profanity, or wear the same clothes—causes us to take away that “set apartness” that God desires for us. It also gives the world the right to call us hypocrites, as we say we’re holy, but act like them.

No outside force will ever destroy God’s church. However, we can destroy our own effectiveness if we do not keep our focus on our calling and on our future! God has prepared a place for us, one that is so great that our finite minds cannot even imagine the glory of it. Let’s keep that thought central as we faithfully endure each day.

Key Verse: Matthew 16:18: And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock [confession] I will build My church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it. (NKJV)

Our Responsibility as Christ Followers
June 17, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

What are some responsibilities you have? Tell when or how you learned they would be something that would be in your life long-term.

We tend to look to the Bible, the church, Life Groups or Home Bible Studies as our greatest means for learning how to conduct ourselves as Christ-followers. Have you ever given much thought to the early Christians, who had nothing but word-of-mouth or home gatherings to learn and encourage each other? We are so blessed to have the Scriptures and can see exactly what God expects from us as believers.

Focal Passage: Galatians 6:1-10

Discuss:

We are responsible to and for one another

• Read verse Gal. 6:1a. We all know that getting married or having a child brings responsibilities we have not previously had. Why would God want us to help care for the believers He brings into our lives after we are saved?
• Read Heb. 2:11 and 1 Pet. 2:17 and 5:9. Does God consider believers to be a family? What are some of the responsibilities He expects from us for our new “family”?
• What are some ways in which we can tear down a fellow believer who has fallen into sin? Are these things pleasing to God? How can we gently restore those who are in sin and out of fellowship? (Where would prayer rank as one of the ways?)

We are responsible to God

• Read verse 1b. Why did Paul feel it important to warn believers to be careful lest the same temptation that overtakes a brother or sister in Christ also overtake us? Why did Jesus warn us often about falling into temptation?
• Read Heb. 12:1. We all have an area (or areas) where we are weak, and Satan has that weakness targeted. Why does he want to see us fall?
• How can we avoid the traps he sets in those areas where we are most vulnerable?

We are responsible to care

• Read verse 2. Does anyone recall the meaning for the word “burden”?
• What keeps us from being willing to let others know we have a burden too heavy to carry by ourselves? What should we do?
• Read verse 3. What is the connection of thought between restoring a fellow Christian who is in sin (vs. 2), and not caring (verse 3)?
• Read verse 4. Paul now admonishes us to keep ourselves under a microscope, so that no-one has a reason to accuse our behavior. There are many verses that can be used as a self-examination; why is it important that we do this often?

We are responsible to do what’s right

• Read verse 5. What is the difference in the burden of verse 2, and the “burden” used in verse 5?
• Read verses 7-8 and Jas. 3:18. We must accept responsibility for our actions. Who is watching us because we call ourselves Christ-followers?

We are responsible to NOT QUIT

• Read verses 9-10 and Hebrews 10:36. Why is perseverance so important?

Close:

Many years ago, a young lady from a broken home dated a young man whose family was large and close. She was captivated by the love and general caring she saw within the family unit. She married him and became a part of that close-knit family. That’s how the church body should be. When a person accepts the free gift of God’s grace, they immediately become a part of the large family of God—adopted children of God, and brothers and sisters of Jesus Christ, as we read in the Scripture passage today. That brings responsibility, just as being a part of any family does. You sorrow when someone sorrows, laugh when they are filled with joy, hold them accountable and in general see that they are always on the path to a closer walk with Christ.

Above all, we all need to carry each other’s burdens, and at the same time hold ourselves accountable for seeing that we walk in close fellowship with Jesus Christ. Today’s world will try to get us off the right path as often as possible, but the tight closeness of family will insure that we maintain a healthy, vibrant Christ-like spirit.

Key Verse: Galatians 6:9: And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.

Dr. Jerry Falwell, “Don’t quit! Have a 4^th Quarter Ministry!”

Keys to Living Right
June 03, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Reading the Instruction Sheets that come with a new DIY piece of furniture is a prudent step. Often, however, we feel we are sensible enough to navigate the task of assembly without the need for the instructions. Can you think of an example and tell what occurred?

The past two weeks we have looked at the work of the Holy Spirit in witnessing and in speaking. Today we will look at Psalm 119, as we are presented with the “keys” to a life of joy.

Focal Passage: Psalm 119:9-16

Discuss:

Obey His Word

• How would you describe the Bible to someone who is unfamiliar with it?
• Read verse Psalm 119:9. What does the word “psalms” mean? In the section of Scripture called “Psalms,” who did they magnify?
• If you answered question one by saying the Bible is God’s instruction manual for believers, so that their lives can be empowered by and glorify Him, you would have been correct. Read Romans 10:17 and Heb. 11:6. How does one get the faith to believe that God exists?

Seek Him

• Read verse 10. If you were an unbeliever, not in church, how would you begin to search for God?
• What is the promise God has given in Deut. 4:29? Does anyone remember how the Greek was translated in describing how the Psalmist had searched for God? Why would we actively seek Him with our entire being?

Memorize Scripture

• Read verse 11. When are we tempted to sin? Read Rom. 6:11-14. Why should we NOT sin? What can keep us from obeying the lusts of the flesh?
• Read Heb. 4:12. If God’s Word is living (and God says it is!) and we have it in our heart, will it be present with us when we want to run from sin? How?
• Read Deut. 6:6-8. Can anyone relate their experience with teaching their young children to memorize Scripture?

Worship Him

• Read verses 12, 13. What are some ways in which we worship God? Are there other things in your life that you worship? If so, what are they?
• Read 1 Cor. 10:31. Why should we give God worship?

 Find Joy in Following

• Read verses 14-16. What are some of the joys you experience from following Christ as your Savior?  Are you following Him? If you are not, He’s not that “big of a deal” for you, is He?
• Read 1 Pet. 1:6-9. Is this the testimony of your life?

Key thoughts: Just as a parent sets boundaries for his child, every boundary that God has set around us is there to give us the best life possible. Does this truth bring you amazing happiness? Find joy in following Jesus Christ, as it leads to the happiest life that is possible.

Close

Peter—that brash, often outspoken disciple—was a different man after seeing Jesus in His resurrected body. He became a bold testifier of the faith, and his letters were filled with nuggets of gold. In chapter 3 of his first letter, he writes that if we want to love life and see good days, we should keep our tongues from evil, and our lips from speaking deceit. Last week we learned that controlling the tongue is one of the hardest virtues to acquire, but we are to strive for it. He goes on to say that we should turn away from evil and do good; to seek peace and pursue it (in fact, run after it). In his second letter, he says that God’s divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness, and His word is filled with “exceedingly great and precious promises”

Reading these short passages from the small books of 1 and 2 Peter, we can see that Peter summarizes the sermon for today: we are to obey the Word, to seek God’s way within the Scripture, memorize it, worship Him for Who He is, and find joy in following His way, so that we have life and godliness. Do these guidelines illustrate your lifestyle? As said in question 11, if He’s not first and foremost in your life, then He’s not that big of a deal to you. Another statement heard today from a believer was “if my iPad dings to say I haven’t clicked on my Scripture app in three days, I know I need to read some!” Would your family be okay if you only spoke to them every few days? Probably not. Timothy reminds us that we are to flee sin, and pursue (run after) righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience and gentleness (1 Tim. 6:10-12.) Let’s make new commitments to pick up these “keys to living” and live a life of righteousness.

The Power of His Presence
May 20, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

We often are hesitant to speak out concerning a matter we feel may leave us open to stress, yet when someone else—smarter, stronger or more powerful—is behind us, we immediately have much more boldness. Can you think of an example?

Today we are focusing on the powerful presence of the Holy Spirit. We open with the apostles gathered in a room in a house, praying, beseeching God to use them. The apostles, who had been ready to return to former trades after the crucifixion, were now gathered together, waiting for the promise from the resurrected Jesus that they should remain in Jerusalem until they had received the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Focal Passage: Acts 2:1-21.

Discussion:

Pentecost

• Although to us, Pentecost has become synonymous with this occurrence in Acts 2, was it actually a term for this event, or a word with a simple meaning? How long had it been since Jesus had been resurrected?
• Can someone tell, in their own words, what happened as the disciples were gathered in that room?
• In the Old Testament, what were some references to fire, and what did they generally represent? What about the effect of wind?
• Tongues: the apostles were miraculously able to speak in other languages, so that everyone clearly could hear the gospel in their native language. Why would God do such a miracle?

The supernatural power of the Holy Spirit in our lives

• It was promised
  • Read Acts 1:8. Jesus, who cannot lie, told the disciples to wait for this anointing. What did He say would be the result of the Holy Spirit coming upon them?
  • Read Romans 5:5 and 1 Cor. 3:16. Is the Holy Spirit promised to us as well?

• It was obvious
  • Read Acts 2:6-8, 12. Why do we tend to put a limit on the power of God?
  • The apostles had seen three years of miracles. How do you think they reacted when they realized they could communicate with foreigners?

• It was significant
  • How likely is it that these 3,000 who were saved that day would ever forget the occasion? Why?
  • What are some significant things you’ve experienced, never forgotten, and how did they impact your life?

•  It was life changing
  • Read verse 41. What did these saved persons do next?
  • What has been the most life-changing part of the gospel for you individually?

ASK YOURSELF: Why is today’s believer not willing to “seek and to save those who are lost”?

Close:

This passage is the true beginning of the church. Although these individuals in Acts were miraculously anointed with the Holy Spirit, able to begin a ministry of bringing lost souls into the kingdom of God, He was not limited to that time, and that place. In the following years the disciples saw the Gentiles of all nations become empowered with the Holy Spirit as well.

As we saw in the references in Romans and Corinthians, we, also, have been given the same Holy Spirit, with the same resurrection power, and the same ability to be used significantly in bringing others to Christ. What is holding us back? In Isaiah 6:8 the Lord asked, “Who will go for us?” and Isaiah responded, “Here am I! Send me!” Have you said that to Jesus? He is looking for a heart that is sold out to Him, willing to put Him first before everything else in one’s life. He’s looking for a heart that is not held down by being close to family, to a beautiful home, comfort, a steady paycheck, safety, or so much more. He is waiting for us to say to Him, “Here am I, Lord—send me.” Will we be that one? We have the Holy Spirit’s power. Are we using it?

Key Verse: Acts 2:21: “And it shall come to pass that whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.” (NKJV)

HOPE IN THE HURTING
May 06, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

OPEN:

If you are someone who can honestly say that you have a great life with few problems, you are a blessed person! Most of us are often overwhelmed and sometimes feel we can’t take the next step. Can someone share?

Today we are looking at Psalm 34, a Psalm of David, written when he was running from King Saul by way of the wilderness. In it, we get the instruction needed to make it through any trial Satan could throw at us. It is a mini-sermon, filled with wisdom, and pointing us to the Source of Strength we can use throughout our days.

Key Verse: Psalm 34:1: “I will bless the LORD at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth.”

Focal Passage: Psalm 34:1-22

DISCUSS:

When you hurt–worship! (Vv. 1-3)

1. Read Psalm 34:1-3. Why is it so important to take our attention off ourselves and our immediate problems and focus on God?
   2. What are some ways in which you can turn this into a worship experience?
2. How often did David say he would praise the Lord? What did he boast in? Who else should speak God’s praise? (Is that us?) Whom should we tell of God’s greatness? What is special about praising Him with other believers?

When you hurt–pray! (Vv. 4-7)

1. Read verses 4-7. Why is it so important to pray? Whose power are you seeking when you pray? Read Philippians 4:6. What does Paul (through the Holy Spirit) tell us about prayer?
2. David knew that when he talked to God, God would listen and answer. What else does God do for the one who prays? How can we be free from all our fears? What will the results look like, for the one who looks to God for help? (vs. 5).
3. It is okay to pray when we are desperate. David was running for his life when he penned this Psalm, and what does he assure us the result will be? What power had he tapped in to with his prayer? Is this meant for us as well?

When you hurt–run! (Vv. 8-10)

1. Read verses 8-10. When you were a child, where did you run when you hurt? Why is this a good analogy for us, always running to God, but especially when we are hurting?
2. Often, we take a taste of a food to see if we like it; David begs us to give God the opportunity to show us He is good. What does God promise if we are His people who fear Him?

When you hurt–listen! (Vv. 11-14)

1. Read verses 11-14. David, knowing he was writing to those who could learn (his people and by extension, believers through the ages), desires to teach them the most important thing he knew. What was it? Why is “listening” so important, not only while we pray, but anytime God may speak to our hearts?
2. We all wish to be joyful and live a good life. How is this possible? What else should we strive for? Read 1 Pet. 3:10-11. Does Peter echo the same thing?

When you hurt–trust! (Vv. 15-18)

1. Read verses 15-18 and 1 Pet. 3:12. What is God doing for His children? Do you have someone you watch over with passionate vigilance? How can you trust God to watch over you or those you love with the same fervor you exhibit?
2. Read 2 Chronicles 16:9a. What did this Old Testament author know of God’s watch-care?
3. What happens to those who do evil and never turn to the Lord?

When you hurt–don’t quit! (Vv. 19-22).

1. Read verses 19-22. David emphasizes again the benefits of trusting the Lord. What are they (name them one by one!)?
2. Do these verses mean that we shall avoid all calamity? Read in KJV or NKJV if possible. Verse 20 was thought to be fulfilled by Christ on the Cross.

TAKE AWAY:
1) Spend at least 10 minutes each day thanking Him for His care for you
2) Spend time asking God for clarity and wisdom to navigate life each day
3) Read His word every day (1 Proverb and 3 Psalms each day will finish both books each month)
4) Don’t quit when the trials come
5) The greatest of all hope is salvation; when you hurt, God will deliver you

CLOSE:

Following the guidelines in these 22 verses will change your living! Can you imagine your life next year at this time if you put these principles into practice? When David writes to “taste and see that the Lord is good,” he was thinking of the true satisfaction you would have if you truly placed your faith and trust in God. With that thought being uppermost each morning, carried throughout the day, and meditated on at night, you would always be dwelling on God and His goodness. Does that seem impossible? No—God does not give us impossible tasks; He gives us tasks that He knows we can fulfill. Worship Him. Pray to Him, not in stilted, “King James” prayers, but talk to Him as you would to someone you know loves you with their whole heart.

We sing “He’s a good, good Father,” and the truth of that one phrase should be enough to give you encouragement through any trial you encounter. Finances going badly and not enough money? Marital problems? Turn them over to Him and then show the Christ-like behavior that He desires. Do you think there’s nothing left of your marriage, or nothing that can be done about your debt or addiction? That nothing can be done that will help you–even by God? Remember His creation? He had nothing to work with there, either. Yet the evidence of His eternal Power and Godhead is all around you. Don’t run away, don’t pretend your hurt doesn’t exist, give it all to Him and then listen to see if He wants you to do something. We can’t do all the talking and no listening–that’s not a relationship, but disconnection. You need to listen to the still, small voice well. Trust Him.

Above all, don’t quit. Some of us have a harder time standing our ground than others. Stand firm, remembering that God is not your enemy–Satan is. And he’d like nothing better than for you to leave God and go back to old ways. Keep on keeping on. “The Lord will redeem those who serve Him.” Salvation and joy are the result of unity with Christ. Hold tightly to that hope that will not fail you, especially when you’re hurting.

A BRAND NEW DAY: A BRAND NEW DAY OF SERVING
April 22, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Some people love to help others in the capacity they enjoy most—for instance, cooking a meal for a new neighbor, —while others serve grudgingly. A radio pastor told of arriving in a country only to be ushered to the kitchen with a “Sleep here on the floor; I didn’t know you were coming!” presented in a sour tone. The result was awkward and inhospitable. Can anyone share an example that will illustrate ways to serve?

We are in the series, “A Brand New Day,” looking at the new life a believer has in Jesus Christ. We have learned that we are new creations in Him, with a new purpose in life. We have looked at our new walk, our growth, and the new relationships we have. Now we want to look at the ways in which we can serve others, knowing that is part of our new life and our “calling” from God.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 4:1-7

Discuss:

You have been CALLED

1. Read Eph. 4:1. As believers, it is as though God has “called” us by name. Why would He do that? (John 10:27, 1 John 4:19).
2. When will our calling end? Will we ever be worthy of this calling?
3. Who were some Biblical saints called for a special job or vocation?

You are called to SERVE

4. Read verses 2-4. The calling is to be a blessing to other people through our service. What are ways Paul mentions in these verses?
5. How impactful is verse 3, i.e., making allowances for people’s differences from our own? Why do we feel our way is usually the right way?
6. Verse 4 says our calling has a glorious hope. What is it?

You have been EQUIPPED

7. Read verse 7 and Romans 12:4-13. How and why should this information fill us with comfort?
8. What is a “gift” (in Scripture) and how can we liken the passage in Romans to our natural body? How is that the same as being a member of the church?
9. Who are a few examples from the Bible of someone God called to a certain work, after having given him/her a background for what would be needed?

You have been BLESSED

10. Read Eph. 4:16. What is the result of our service? Is this the life God desires for each of us, and why?

Key Verse: Ephesians 4:1: “I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called.”

Close:

This past week in central Virginia, Christians were able to put their faith into action as churches and Disaster Relief teams organized efforts to provide help, resources and food to many who lost homes or household goods in tornadoes. The number of those seen working in communities was staggering as they aided overwhelmed homeowners in restoring their lives as much as possible. It was a testimony of Christ-followers being called to serve their neighbors, loving them, caring, encouraging and repairing. Meanwhile, citizens in the upper Mid-west of the US saw the same love expressed by churches and Christ-followers as they fought their way out of a record-breaking blizzard. Service in action was exemplified everywhere.

Just as we expect fruit trees to flourish, bloom, and produce luscious fruit in its season, so also believers in Jesus Christ, who are rooted in Him, will produce fruit that is both Godly and “worthy of the calling with which you were called.” The service that we give to benefit others must come from a pure heart of love, willing and passionate to do the Father’s business. Do you realize that someday we will all stand before God and give an account of ourselves? Does that cause you to desire a more holy life? What will you answer Him when He asks if you loved your neighbors?

The church has a multitude of ways in which you can serve with whatever gift God has given you. Get connected with a Life Group that is comfortable and fitting for you, and jump in. There will never be a better time to begin to serve than this brand new day of TODAY!

A BRAND NEW DAY: OF LIVING
April 8, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you are a parent, grandparent, or even a close, loving aunt or uncle, you know the entire dynamics of a home changes when a new baby arrives! What are some of the obvious—and less obvious–changes?

On Easter Sunday, the power of God was present in a stirring message of salvation, as many accepted the free gift of grace and faith available through believing on Jesus Christ, and experienced the beginning of a new life. This week we look at the changes that gift of salvation will bring about as you grow in faith, and assess some of the areas that will be most affected.  Did your life change in the past week? Let’s look at the picture of what the gospel should bring about.

Focal Passage: 1 John 1:1-10

Discuss:

A Brand New Day of Salvation

1. Read John 5:24. Does this verse describe what has happened to you recently? Recognizing your need to be saved from your debt of sins (Rom. 6:23) is the first step in coming to salvation. Read Rom.10:13. Did you follow the recognition up by asking Jesus to save you and repenting of your sins?
2. Read Rom. 3:23. How many—or what kinds—of sin will separate you from the love of Christ? Read Rom. 10:10. What, besides repentance, is necessary for salvation?

A Brand New Day of Action

3. Read John 3:13-14. Jesus was ready, at thirty years of age, to begin His ministry. What was the first act of obedience that He performed? How does this give us a precedent as to the importance God places on baptism?
4. What does baptism represent? Have you been baptized, even after salvation of some lengthy time? What has held you back from obeying this ordinance?

A Brand New Day of Living

5. Read 1 Pet. 2:1-2. In the opening, a new baby requires the family or guardian to take responsibility for certain requirements the child needs. If you liken that to your salvation experience, what are some things your new life will require of you?
6. Read 1 John 1:5-6, and 2 Cor. 5:17. Explain why you, as a newborn babe in Christ (or even as a seasoned believer) cannot go places, look at things, or have companions that would be contrary to your faith in Jesus Christ.

A Brand New Day of Walking

7. Read verses 7-8. If you’re a new believer you might be asking yourself, “Where do I go? What do I do?” Read Matt. 6:33 and James 1:5. You now have a Creator who will “liberally” give you wisdom when you ask. How do you seek God and His righteousness before other things (Matt. 6:33)?
8. Read 1 Thess. 5:16-18. When you read verses such as this, underline it so that you can find it at a moment’s notice. What does it mean to your new way of life?

A Brand New Day of Forgiveness

9. Read verse 9. Why is it necessary to keep a “short account” of your sins? How is that analogous to letting debt on a credit card mount up?
10. What are some ways you can keep your walk pure?

Memory Verse: 1 John 1:6: If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.

Close

So often non-believers will scoff at Christianity, saying it is a list of rules—of “do’s and don’ts.” You may have felt that way yourself before Jesus called you to Himself. What they do not realize, however, is that He has taken the “old” you, the one who walked in darkness and had fellowship with darkness, and created a new being! You are no longer the same person, with the same desires for sin and its temporary pleasure. The old has passed away, and the new has come—and continues to keep coming.

If you remember, Pastor Jonathan used the organ as an example of a new creation. It had been a tree that was cut down, and fashioned by experts into a beautiful instrument that is used to worship God. You, too, have been changed from the person you were  into someone completely new, whose being can bring glory to God for the rest of your life. What a praise!

If you feel you need additional help—and most of us do!—connect with one of the Life Groups at church, and find one that meets your needs. There are studies for everyone, and they will help you grow as you seek this new life of joy and peace with God.

Crossroads: Walking With Jesus
March 25, 2018
Dr. Jerry Vines, Guest Speaker

Open:

It is a terrible feeling to turn your head for a moment, only to look back and your child—parent, friend—is nowhere to be seen. Can you think of an example?

We are interrupting our series, “Crossroads: Where His Road Meets Our Road,” as we welcome Dr. Jerry Vines to the pulpit. At the same time, as he brings to our attention the life of Enoch from Genesis 5:21-24, we see the amazing story of the life of a man whose walk intersected with God and became incredible. He served and “walked with God” for three hundred years, and was one of only two people in the Bible who did not die, but passed from this life directly to heaven.

Focal Passages: Genesis 5:21-24; Hebrews 11:5-6; Gal. 5:22-23.

Discuss:

Enoch Walked In

1. Read Genesis 5:21. How long had Enoch lived his life before he met God? There must be a moment at which you choose whether to walk with God or reject Him.
2. What are some problems Enoch dealt with in his world that are similar to the same problems you face daily? Read Gen. 6:5-6. Because the ancient world was so evil, what did God do?
3. When you—just as Enoch did—cry out to God that you want to know Him, what immediately happens? (Hint: just-as-if-I-had-never-sinned).

Enoch Walked On

4. Read Gen. 5:22, and Amos 3:3. When two walk together in fellowship, what are some of the bonds that hold them together?
5. What are some evidences of growth as you continue your walk daily? Read Gal. 5:22-26. How does this growth come about?
6. The growth—sometimes sweet and sometimes painful—is a continuation of the justification gotten at the moment of salvation (question 3), and is called _________. (Hint: we are being “set apart.”)

Enoch Walks Out

7. Enoch proved himself worthy in his walk for three-hundred years. Read Col. 1:9-11, and 1 Thess. 2:12. How are these verses—hundreds of years later—exactly what God meant when the Holy Spirit said Enoch “walked with God”?
8. What happened to Enoch after three-hundred years? Read Heb. 11:5-6. He was not found! How many people do you imagine went looking for him? As in the opening thought, would his family have searched long and hard for him?
9. When we pass from this life to the eternal life that is promised to believers, what is that step called (after sanctification, question 6)?

 Close

When we think of the highest praise given some men in Scripture, a few immediately come to mind: Enoch, of whom it was said (Heb. 11:5-6) that “he pleased God;” Nathanael, whom Christ said was “…an Israelite…in whom is no guile;” Abraham, who was a “friend of God; and Moses, with whom God spoke face to face as to a friend. These would indicate men who lived above the average in their godly walk.

Enoch was a man who was in a world very much like ours. For sixty-five years he was immersed in that culture—perhaps, like Lot, it could have been said of him that his righteous heart was “oppressed by the filthy conduct of the wicked.” However, when he cried out to God, God heard and saved him, allowing him to witness for Him for three hundred years. Jude, in verses 14-15, presents Enoch as a preacher and prophet, pointing the way to God. His walk was so filled with fellowship with his God that he was ushered into heaven, straight from the grim conditions of earth. What bliss!

Is that your walk? Do you start your day with devotions? Reading your Bible early in the morning means you are seeking to hear what God wants to say to you for your day, so you can meditate on it as you do chores. Lifting up holy hands in prayer, with your eyes open to heaven, indicates you are talking to Him. The conversation goes back and forth in fellowship. Out of the abundance of the comradeship comes the fruit listed in Gal. 5:22-23: gentleness, peace, etc. Is this your greatest desire? Seeking God, walking with Him, and persevering through trials and testing will mold you into a person whom God says is worthy of Him. Do you want to be that person?

Enoch’s world: Social disruption; emotional confusion; spiritual rebellion; and religious upheaval. Does this sound like the world in which you live?

Crossroads: Hope for Tomorrow and Forever
March 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

We’ve all had the experience of hearing information but not quite understanding the complete significance of it. Often, not wanting to seem presumptuous, we have not asked enough questions, and thereby caused ourselves difficulties down the road. Can you think of an example?

This is the second week of the series “Crossroads,” as we look at Biblical characters whose lives intersected with Jesus. Today we study Thomas, the disciple who has been known throughout history as “Doubting Thomas.” However, closer scrutiny will reveal Thomas to be an enthusiastic follower of Jesus, ready to die with Him, but always trying to be sure he completely understood the significance of what Jesus was saying. He asked bold questions, not out of doubt, but to confirm the information he was hearing. Would that all Christ-followers would be so sure they have their facts straight when it comes to doing God’s will!

Focal Passages: John 11:1-16; 14:1-6; 20:24-29; Mark 8:31-37.

Discuss:

Thomas was unsure of what tomorrow might hold

1. Read John 11:1-16. What reaction did most of the disciples have when Jesus told them he was going to go to Bethany? Who had a different reaction?
2. Why would Thomas have been willing to go with Him, and possibly even to die? How do you think you would have reacted?

Jesus gave the answer

3. Read John 14:1-6. What did Jesus tell His disciples in verses 5-6? Why do you think Thomas asked his question? If you were in Thomas’ place and was told you could go where Jesus was going, what questions would you ask to make sure you did not miss the way?
4. How did Jesus answer? Why is He called the great “I AM”?

Thomas’ tomorrow came quicker than expected

5. Read John 20:24-25. Thomas had followed Jesus for three years, had seen countless miracles, and watched Him be beaten and crucified. Now the other disciples are telling him they have seen Jesus, alive and well. What emotions were probably uppermost in Thomas’s mind and heart?
6. How can you best understand his emotions? No analogy comes even close, but can you think of a time when you could not believe what you were hearing or seeing?

 Thomas forgot what Jesus had said

7. How do you think he tried to reconcile Jesus’ words of going “to prepare a place for you” with the death he had seen Jesus die?
8. What do you think Thomas did during that next week, hearing over and over how the apostles had seen Jesus? How far away from those closest to Jesus would you have strayed, had it been you? Why?

Jesus again gave the answer

9. Read verse 26. Thomas made certain that he was close to the disciples during the week, and he was ultimately rewarded with the presence of Jesus. How did he probably feel, knowing he had not believed the disciples?
10. Read verses 27-29. Jesus assured Thomas that it was He, and Thomas believed. How are we mentioned in verse 29?

Jesus’ answer is always the same—HOPE

11. Read verses 25 and 26. What are the promises Jesus gives? Do you believe this? Do you share your story?

Close:

How like Thomas we are today! We know Jesus from the Scriptures, believe in Him, have our sins forgiven, and try to walk a holy life. Often we sense the presence, power and sometimes “feel” the voice of God. But the bad times come, the loved ones die, prayers seem not to get answered, the road gets very rocky, and we forget what Jesus tells us: “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Thomas had seen it all, from the early days when Jesus called the twelve together, to the ascension as He disappeared in the clouds going back to heaven. But like us, he wanted evidence. He bluntly stated that he wouldn’t believe unless he could put his fingers in the hands and side of the pierced Savior. Often, we, like Thomas, demand signs before we’ll go further with Jesus. And yet He says, “Blessed are those who have not seen, and yet believed.”

How many times can you look back and see that through the tough times, He was holding you, carrying you, leading you? The trust must be there when the going gets hard, when the faith almost deserts us, and you have to cry out “Lord, increase my faith!” And what keeps us going? His answer, that He is the Great “I AM” _______ (fill in the blank), He is whatever you need, at the moment you need Him. Share your story of HOPE for the world.

KEY VERSE: John 11:25: So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!” But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in His hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into His side, I will not believe.”

Difference Makers: To Serve is to Give
February 25, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

For some, sharing your resources to help others is easy; for others—it can be very hard. Can you reveal the ways your heart responds to needs, and how you handle it?

Today we finish the series “Difference Makers.” This has been a time to learn ways to love people, and make a difference in their lives. We found that God commands that we give of our time, our talents, and the treasures we hold dear, so that we meet the needs of others. Sharing what we have, helping fill a need, or giving where our heart leads is each a part of giving, and we want to learn how to do it cheerfully and in abundance.

Focal Passages: 2 Corinthians 8:1-9; 9:6-9.

Recap from last week, Galatians 5:

Serving is an antidote to selfishness: You can’t be selfish while serving Serving is a picture of God’s command: Meeting the needs of others is a must Serving keeps us together: Serving someone leaves no room for animosity

Before we begin the last half of last week’s sermon, we’ll look at Biblical references for giving from Genesis through Malachi. Please read them at home (to save time):

Genesis 14:17-20: Abraham gives Melchizedek one-tenth of all he has;
Leviticus 27:30: 400 years later: A tithe is one-tenth, and belongs to God;
Deut. 14:22-29: 40 years later, Moses reminds the people of the tithe;
Malachi 3:6-12: 1,000 years later: Robbing God of tithes brings consequences;
1 Corinthians 16:1-2: On the first day of the week, set aside your tithe to give.

Therefore, the New Testament picture of giving reinforces the Old Testament.

Discuss:

FIRST:

1. Read 2 Cor. 9:7-8. What is the first verb Paul uses in these verses for you to have a “Step 1” to follow for tithing?
2. Was he speaking of money, talents, time or all three here?
3. Go back to 1 Cor. 16: 2. Why should God want your gift set aside on the first day of the week? Does He mean the first DAY, or the first thing that should be taken out of the paycheck?

INTENTIONAL:

4. How do you decide how much you can give? What is your guide concerning your tithe?
5. How much faith do you have that if you make a commitment to begin tithing, God will provide for your needs?
6. Read Malachi 3:10. What does God promise, if you give your tithe? What does “floodgates” (NIV) mean?
7. If you are intentional about giving, what does Paul call that? How many other things in your life are you intentional concerning? Do you waver on those, and why not?

PROPORTIONAL:

8. If you gave back to the Lord in proportion to what He has given you, how would you decide the amount to give? List some of your priceless treasures.
9. How does God (through Paul) tell you to give? Does anyone know the Greek word for cheerful? (Hilarious). Do you give like this?
10. What would you be doing in service or serving, if you tithed a tenth of your hours to God, or a tenth of your talents? What are some talents used for the good of others?

 Close

There was a couple many years ago whose bills were taking every penny that came in as wages. The husband figured their outgo (needs, not wants), and looked at his income. He calculated that he owed God $250 per month if they had the courage to begin tithing and believed that God would honor His promise in Malachi 3:10. The next pay period was followed by a weekend, and on Sunday they put their check in the offering plate. When he went to work the next day, his boss called him into his office. He was given a $250.00 per month raise, not anticipated. God is faithful!

Hopefully you have been motivated to make a difference in the life of someone—or more—during 2018. You may be well on your way, or it may be that you desire to do so but have fears. Go back and re-listen to the sermons, taking notes. Seek out Life Groups who will guide you through ideas, opportunities, or steps. The staff always knows of needs, whether it is for salvation, taking food to new families, inviting those who move into your area to church, or “owning your neighborhood” by doing all those things. God will be with you every step of the way, and there are always others who will go with you until you are comfortable alone. Test Him and see if He will not open the floodgates and pour out blessings on you!

Key Verse: 2 Cor. 8:9: For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sakes He became poor that you, through His poverty, might become rich. (NKJV)

Difference Makers: What Does the Walk Look Like?
February 11, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Have you ever realized how many things you do foolishly because you are attempting something you are not experienced at? Sometimes raising children or taking care of a parent with dementia might fall into that category. Can you think of an example?

We have been in a series that will teach us how to be “Difference Makers” in our community if our hearts are open to doing God’s will. We have learned how to be certain we are a Christ-follower, how to recognize people who need Christ, and how to take the good news of the story of what He’s done for us to those we meet. Today we want to look at three steps we can take when we’re ready to share Christ, knowing that with each witness the task will become more familiar and less daunting.

Focal Passages: John 9:1-11, 26-33, 35-38; Matthew 28:19,20.

Discuss:

TELL: Tell them the Gospel story

1. Read John 9:1-11. For years, the man in this account had nothing to tell. After Jesus healed him, what story could he share?
2. Can someone refresh everyone’s mind with the recent sermon on the Gadarene demoniac? How did the people respond to that man’s healing? Read Mark 5:17-20. What do you think happened to that village after he returned and told his story?
3. Everyone who is saved has a new beginning. What are some things that hold you back from sharing what Christ has done for you?

GROW: Help them grow in their awareness of, and identity in, Christ

4. Read John 9: 26-33. Why were the Jews so focused on finding fault with Jesus? How did the healed man react?
5. What do you notice about his responses—was he able to answer all their questions? Did this stop him from telling what had happened? How can this encourage you when you begin to tell others how Christ saved you?
6. If someone wants to accept Christ, what steps would you take to help him/her grow in their faith? How would it help you if you searched for and wrote out verses or passages that encourage prayer or Bible memorization (Psa. 119:11)?

SEND: Help them map their mission

7. Read verses 35-38. What did the blind man do after Jesus healed him? Thinking back to the demoniac, why did Jesus tell him to stay in his own country? How is that like the Samaritan woman last week, whose entire village was changed because of her story? Testimonies draw people!
8. What would happen if you suggested you meet with the person you are trying to win to Christ one time a week to study together, or pray? How is it possible that your little two-some would grow to include more?
9. Read 2 Timothy 2:15. Why did Paul instruct Timothy to “study”? What are some other ways in which you can grow as a Christ-follower?

Close

In the opening dialogue, you thought about efforts you have made when you have no previous experience. The first time you tell the story of your salvation, you may feel you should have said something else, added more, or feel in general you made a mess of it. But have you ever likened what you say in marriage to your witnessing? In marriage, one partner will make a statement; later, it is a “you didn’t tell me that” scenario. The difference is, they don’t always hear what you mean when you speak! When you tell the story of accepting Christ, the Holy Spirit, who is in you, and perhaps working in the other person, can cause them to hear what they need to—that is an awesome thought. And as we see in the passage of the blind man, he didn’t know the answers to most of the questions the Jewish leaders were throwing at him, so he kept repeating, “All I know is, whereas I was blind, now I see!” Perhaps that’s all you can say: “All I know is, whereas I lived a life of sin and pain for others, now I want to live it to glorify Jesus Christ,” and it may be all they need to hear.

There doesn’t have to be carefully worded stories. God has saved you. The change may be instant, or it may be gradual, but people will see the difference. Babies are not born ready for walking and eating meat; they are born, carefully taken care of, taught how to do things that will become lifestyles, and one day leave the home and begin their own life and family. That is what you want the hearers of your story to do. Nothing will be better than to stand before Jesus and see a room full of people whose lives you impacted for God’s kingdom. But you have to start. We have to start!

Key Verses: John 9:25: He answered and said, “Whether He is a sinner or not I do not know. One thing I know: that though I was blind, now I see.” (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

1. Can make a call, a visit, or write a letter;
2. Stop and notice what someone is saying or doing;

Engage someone in conversation and listen with interest.

Difference Makers: Where Do I Start?
January 28, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

For some of us, a list of steps necessary to achieve a certain end is extremely helpful, while others do great without one. Can you share an example?

We are in a series called “Difference Makers,” looking at how we should be living out our Christian life in the world. Because we sometimes feel we’re in a gray area as to what we should be doing, today’s sermon lays out for us three steps that will help us examine our hearts to know that we are prepared to witness, who we should have a burden for, and why it is our job to share with them the Good News.

Focal Passages: 2 Pet. 3:9-10; 1 Cor.15:1-4a; John 14:6; Rom.10:9-13; Matt. 22:37.

BEING A DIFFERENCE MAKER: Where do I start?

Know who you are

1. What have you learned in prior weeks that defines a “Difference Maker”? According to those passages above, what is your responsibility?
2. How can you be a Christian, and not be a Christ-follower? What does a Christ-follower do?
3. In 1 Cor. 15:1-4a, what did Paul do once he was saved by grace?

Know who they are

4. John 3:16 says Jesus’ atonement for sins is available to whom?
5. What are some normal characteristics of those who need Christ? How is it possible that their anger, profanity, or attitude might be covering up a deep desire to have someone love them?
6. Read Matt. 22:37. Why is it so hard to love those who are going to hell (your “neighbors”)?
7. What are some intentional things you can do to show love for these people?

Know what your job is

8. Go back again to 1 Cor. 13:4. What did Paul do after salvation? What was probably said of him? (Remember, his reputation would have gone out among all those following Jesus Christ at that time. How hard would that have been for him to face those same people?)
9. 28:19-20: What does Jesus tell you?

Close

If we are not careful, we can become insulated in our churches through Bible studies, evening groups, choosing friends, worship or Sunday School, and never reach our neighbors or the world. It takes intentional, daily discipline to be willing to be used to further the kingdom of God on earth. Usually work situations are not easy places to witness verbally, so we rely on our lifestyle to show our co-workers that we hold ourselves to another standard. But is this what Jesus desires of us? If we look at the early church, we find the disciples going out “street preaching,” sharing the good news of the death, burial and resurrection of a Messianic Savior to all who would listen. They didn’t just live their faith, they shared it. Have you examined your life to see if you love the lost with the same compassion Jesus did? Does your lost neighbor weigh on your heart? Until you get the courage to witness, you can at least lift him/her to the throne each day, asking God to open a door. If you are unsure of the status of their soul, you can usually pick up on it with just a few minutes conversation, or ask a non-threatening question like “Do you attend church?” Most people are not offended by that. Identify your job as a Christ-follower as someone who is a witness of what He has done for you, gives out the good news, and loves people into a relationship with Jesus. You’ll never be satisfied to live a life of mediocrity again!

Key Verses: 2 Peter 3:9: The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance. (NKJV)

A DIFFERENCE MAKER:

Sees things and people the way Christ does;                                                                  Loves people, and uses things (not the reverse!);                                                              Has a heart for the hurting;                                                                                             Has a heart for the lost;                                                                                                     Is a Christ-follower;                                                                                                              Is one who has believed and received the Gospel story of Jesus [His death, burial,   resurrection], has followed Jesus in baptism, is obeying all that Jesus taught, and is helping others do the same.

Our Response to Christ’s Church
January 14, 2018
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

When you were young, did you find it easy to obey, usually doing what you were told, or were you constantly finding it difficult to submit to authority? Can you share?

Last week we looked at the institution of the church—the cohesive body of believers that Christ established as a method to spread the good news of salvation available through Him. We learned what He planned for the church and how it is to function. Now we ask ourselves, “How do we respond?” Let’s look at the responsibilities of believers as we come together in small or large groups, in order to change our world.

Focal Passage: Ephesians 2:19: “Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”

Discuss:

Background

Last week we learned:

• The Church is God-ordained, instituted by Him to preach the gospel (Matt. 16:18).
• The Church is not a building or an organization, it’s YOU! Individuals are the church.
• Jesus is the Head of the Church, (Eph. 1:22, 23)
• Jesus gave a plan for the Church, (Acts 2:42-47)
• Jesus gave us the keys to the Church, (Matt. 28:18-20)

We can see that God ordained the church and we should have a much clearer idea of the importance of it. Now, what are our responsibilities?

We are required to carry out His plan

1. Read Matthew 28:18-20. Who did Christ give the job of spreading the gospel to? Does this apply to today’s churches? Why?
2. Did He suggest this commitment, or give it as a directive, expecting believers to be obedient? Going back to the Ice Breaker, do you find it difficult to serve in your church, or does it excite you? Share your heart.
3. Why do you think church members leave it to the pastor and staff? What three words are important in verse 19? 

We are required to serve within the church

4. Read Romans 12:4-5. What is the analogy in these verses that is compared to the church? How do you see yourself as a member of a church body, just as your fingers or toes are functioning members of your own body?
5. Read 1 Peter 4:10 and Romans 12:6-8. What is the charge here?

We are required to baptize believers

6. Read Matt. 28:19b. Why do we baptize? Why did Christ set us an example to follow, when He was baptized by John?
7. What does it symbolize? Is this a suggestion or commandment?

We are required to remember how Christ established the church

8. What is the second ordinance the church is told to perform, in remembrance of Christ’s death on the cross? Read 1 Cor. 11:23-26.
9. Both ordinances are holy. However, what are we told in verses 27-30?

We are required to pray that the world would believe

10. 12:12, Eph. 1:18, 6:18, and Phil. 4:6 are just a few of the hundreds of verses on prayer. Why is that communication so important to your spiritual life and what does it mean in the lives of others?

Close

It is incredible to think that God gave frail, sinful humans the task of seeking out the lost in this world, and presenting them with the gospel. One feels the listener could turn and say, “But you used to ____!” This gives you an even greater reason to tell the story of your changed life—not yet perfect, not complete, but always striving for the goal that God has set before you. One of the responsibilities you have as a Christian is to be part of a local body of believers who come together to worship, praise, and pray (Heb. 10:24, 25). Would you pray the more earnestly if you knew that it was only by your prayers that someone you love would be saved? Yes, without a doubt you would be constant in coming before God on their behalf! The obligations laid on you for serving your Lord are contained in the Scriptures in today’s sermon. Write those on 3×5 cards, memorize them, and recognize that your job is to love the Lord your God first and foremost, and love your neighbor as much as you love yourself. If you do these two things, you will find yourself serving and being effective in your church, your community, and your world.

Key Verse: Colossians 1:18 (NKJV): “And He is the head of the body, the church, Who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in all things He may have the preeminence.”

Pressing On
December 31, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Finding a time or circumstance in which to make a fresh start is a great thing. The beginning of a new year definitely seems to be the optimal time when we hope for a change in our lives! What other times might hold new hope?

As we end 2017, we know we answered firmly that Christ is the only reason for the Christmas season. Now we can’t help but hope 2018 might be a year of new beginnings. Perhaps it will be the year we achieve a long dreamed-of goal, or reach a new level of faith. Let’s strive with the apostle Paul toward the goal of knowing Christ and the power of His resurrection better than we ever have before.

Focal Passage: Philippians 3:1-14.

Discuss:

THE PAST SHOULD STAY THERE

Our beliefs about the past

1. Read verse 13. Why did Paul give this piece of advice he himself followed? What happens to any living organism if it remains stagnant? Read verses 2-3. Why does he warn against holding onto traditions learned as immature believers?
2. Read verses 6-7. All the good works in the world can’t save anyone. How did Paul find this out for himself? Read Eph. 2:8-9. What are some traditions the church is still holding onto today that should be put into the past?

What we should believe

1. Read verse 8. What is the only thing worthwhile that will help you, keep you, protect you, and save you? What were some of them Paul counted as nothing? (Is there anything you are relying on for salvation, other than the work of Jesus Christ on the cross? Answer in your heart.)
2. How can you commit to “knowing Him better” as one of your New Year’s goals—and then keeping a daily journal to see that you do?

THE GOAL IS CLEAR

1. Read verse 10. If you set your goal for 2018 to know Christ better, what could that look like? What would change as you come to know Him more intimately?
2. What is the fruit that begins to come as you know Him better? (Gal. 5:22-23.)
3. Read verse 12. Paul wanted the church to know he had not “arrived.” What does he say he has to do?

THE GOAL? PURSUIT OF CHRIST AND THE PROMISE OF HEAVEN

1. Read verses 13-14. What were the three things Paul disciplined himself to do?
2. What are some ways you can take control in these areas? Read Heb. 12:1. 

Close

If you’ve ever stood in the sand at a beach as the waves roll in, you know that remaining in one spot will soon pull sand away from your feet, only to cover them higher with each incoming wave. Standing still in the Christian life will destroy your progress, just as surely. Paul knew that he could not let his family, his reputation as a Pharisee, his zeal for God and eventually his torture of Christians, define who he was: he became a child of the King the day Jesus met him on the road to Damascus, and from that point on he had to forget those things which had seemed to matter, to become the person God intended him to be. When you reach(ed) the point at which you surrender(ed) your heart to Christ, from then on you must pursue a life of knowing Him, serving Him, and letting the change in your heart be reflected in your lifestyle. What better time to discipline yourself setting these worthy goals than the beginning of a new year? Keep a journal of your progress, your prayers, and His answers this year, so you can see your growth. In a way, life as a disciplined Christian will never become any more of a habit than a new lifestyle of healthy eating habits. One piece of pie, one bag of chips, and suddenly the control slips. Be honest with yourself: admit the slip, and begin again (Prov. 24:16). Strive for the prize that Jesus Christ has promised! Keep pressing on, and if you stumble, get up, knowing the heavenly reward will be waiting when He calls you.

Key Verses: Phil. 3:14: I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. (NKJV)

The Point of Christmas Is: SACRIFICE
December 10, 2017
Matt Willmington and Dr. Harold Willmington

Open:

There is not a day that passes that we are not asked to make some type of sacrifice, whether it’s our time, money, a place in line or one where loss or cost is heavy. Can you think of an example to share?

We are in a series for December, asking “What’s the point of Christmas?” Today we will have Dr. Harold Willmington and his son, Matt Willmington, discuss how the Christmas story was one of a supreme gift, as God the Father sacrificed the life of His only Son, Jesus Christ, for sinners who are unworthy and uncaring. We will focus on Abraham and Isaac.

Focal Passage: Genesis 22:1-14.

Discuss:

The Testing

1. Read Gen. 22:1. What are some pertinent facts you know of the life of Abraham? Why was he special to God?
2. What does the Bible mean when it says God tested Abraham? Read Deut. 13:3b and Psalm 26:2. Why does God test you?
3. Some versions translate the word “tested” as “tempted.” Read Matt. 4:1 and 1 Cor. 10:13. What is God looking for as He tests you? Who tempts you to do evil, and why?

The Ultimate Sacrifice

4. Read verse 2. What was God asking Abraham to do?
5. Put yourself in Abraham’s place, and imagine giving the life of your child, to obey a direct order from God? What would be some of your thoughts?
6. Did God already know the outcome? Why would He ask Abraham to do this deed, as He knew what the result would be?
7. Read verse 4. How many days did Abraham travel, expecting to fulfil God’s command. What was this a foreshadowing of (two thousand years later)?

Incredible Faith

8. Read verses 5-10. As Isaac asked Abraham his amazingly perceptive question, what must Abraham have felt?
9. Between the time God told him to go make the sacrifice, until verse 10 when he stretched out his hand to slaughter his son, had Abraham hesitated or argued with God? Do you believe he was unhesitatingly going to go through with it?

God Provides

10. Read verses 11-14. What did God do to reward Abraham’s act of obedience?
11. When has God asked something from you, and you have obeyed without hesitating or question?

ASK YOURSELF: WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO PUT ON THE ALTAR?

 Close

This passage from the life of Abraham, recorded in the book of Genesis, evokes so many emotions from us as children of God. We may feel disbelief that God would ask such a difficult—seemingly impossible—act from one of His own. What would Sarah say when Abraham returned? What would the Gentiles in the area think? What precedent would it create for human sacrifice, among the Jewish nation? The closest we can get to understanding Abraham’s feelings is when our child enters the military during wartime. The thought of losing him to save a nation who detests what Christians stand for is almost impossible, yet we somehow do it.

Abraham was instant in his obedience, not faltering or hesitating when God gave the instruction. He put together the articles needed for the sacrifice, got his servants and donkeys, and headed for the place he knew God wanted him to go. What did he think about during those three days of travel? How did he feel when Isaac asked the penetrating question “Where is the sacrifice?”? Was his heart broken, or did he trust God was going to provide an alternative at the last moment? Have you wondered why God tested him? The testing is not because God doesn’t know what the outcome will be (for He always does), but often our final response will open our eyes as to how much we trust God when He asks something difficult of us. Has He asked something of you, and you failed? Did you realize you lacked the will to fully obey? Or did you pass, like Abraham, with flying colors? What do you have in your life right now that needs to be placed on the altar, so that you can be fully and whole-heartedly obedient? Be “Abraham’s seed” (Gal. 3:29) and be prompt to do His bidding!

Key Verse: Genesis 22:14: And Abraham called the name of the place, The-Lord-Will-Provide; as it is said to this day, “In the Mount of the Lord, it shall be provided.” (NKJV)

The Heart of Thanksgiving
November 26, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Parents whose young child attempts “Thank you” (in childish language) for the first time—without being prompted—experience so much joy! Even as adults we are grateful when someone commends us for a job or attitude done well. Can you give an example, realizing we’re doing it, not for boasting, but to make a point?

We are just finishing the last hours of four days traditionally known in America as the “Thanksgiving holiday.” These days are usually filled with an abundance of food, family, and thankfulness for blessings of the past year. Possessing a grateful heart is one of the important characteristics of one who wants to be genuine as a Christ-follower. Paul gives us much guidance in the short book of Colossians, knowing if we set our mind to be more aware of, and thankful for, our blessings, we will pass on a joyous legacy.

Focal Passages: Colossians 3:12-17.

Discuss:

The Heart of Gratitude

Be Different

1. Read verse 12. We often hear the word “intentional” used today. What are the characteristics that Paul encourages us to be “intentional” about, in this verse?
2. What is the connection between the qualities listed in the verse (which might differ according to translation), and the trait of being thankful? The deeper question is, what is the foundation upon which being thankful is situated?
3. What is the relationship between gratefulness and humility? Explain.

Be Caring

4. Read verses 13-14. No one is perfect, including you! What list of sins could Jesus recite against you, if He wanted to? Have you asked for forgiveness? What is the analogy between being forgiven by Christ, and you forgiving those who antagonize you?
5. In verse 14, another action is intentional; what is it? What are some ways you can “put on” love? Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a. Why in Col. 3:14 does Paul call love the “bond of perfection”? How is that linked with 1 Cor. 13:4-8a?
6. Who does the world encourage you to put first? Why is that contrary to the Word of God?

Be Together

7. Read verse 15. How do you attain God’s peace? How can you let it rule in your heart? Why is that important?
8. Everyone has friends who do not know about or care about God. Why is it important to maintain most of your fellowship with believers? How are some ways you can love an unbeliever but not let them influence you?
9. Why does Paul add “and be thankful” at the end of this verse? How does Peace and Thankfulness go together?

Be Consistent

10. Read verse 16. As you look back at the previous four verses, how many of the actions that are addressed are “intentional”? What do the words “put on,” “let,” “do,” and “be” have in common?
11. Read Ephesians 4:14-16. Why would the world want to take you down in your faith? What is the goal in verse 15? What is God’s purpose for us in 16b?

Close:

When was the last time you saw a two-year-old throw a fit when you tried to dress him? It is typical as they learn to express the desire to “do it myself!” We should be so adamant about appropriating the word of God, putting it on, taking it in, and teaching ourselves to be more and more aware of the reality of the characteristics until we do them as naturally as breathing. When your soul wells up in “Thank You!” to God, does that one time express your gratefulness? Certainly, it is good. But you can teach yourself, no matter your age, to remember to thank Him more than just one time when He has shown Himself involved in your needs. What has He done for you today? Did you say thank You? Yesterday? During the time when friends or family were gathered around a meal, did you have some time set aside when each one listed some of those things you are so very thankful Christ did for you this year?

Paul encourages us to incorporate gratefulness into our lives, so that no blessing comes our way without immediate thankfulness going up to God. Did you realize, in question 3, that thankfulness goes hand in hand with humility? Think of royalty, or movies where there are servants who labor long and hard to do their employer’s bidding. Are they used to hearing “thank you”? No. It was the expectation that the service would be done to please the one who hired them. Do you say thank you to your spouse for working all day, doing the jobs around the house, or keeping meals prepared? Begin with those small things that show you realize you don’t deserve all the time and effort made on your behalf; your children will see the “attitude of gratitude” and copy it. Soon it will become habitual, and you will carry it outside your walls into the world—and show them the difference as a true Christ-follower!

Key Verse: Colossians 3:17: And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him. (NKJV)

TINY GIANTS: Truth in Love
November 05, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Being told the truth about something in your life may result in hurt feelings. However, if the one who speaks what you need to hear loves you genuinely, does that help you absorb the correction better? Can you share an example?

We are currently looking at the second of the three shortest books in the NT, gleaning nuggets of wisdom that are often missed because the books are so short. This week we want to examine 2 John for God’s commandment that we walk in love, speak truth in love and serve people in love. We want to internalize these important qualities so that we are not a “noisy gong or a clanging cymbal!” (1 Cor. 13:1).

Focal Passages: 2 John.

Discuss:

The encouragement of truth

1. Read verses 1-3. Why is it such a fallacy to believe that it really doesn’t matter what you believe, if you are sincere? Who is Truth? Why can truth not exist apart from Him?
2. What are the three blessings John prays for, for the church he’s writing to? How does one have access to those qualities?
3. If grace, mercy and peace are from God, how intimately do you have to know Him to receive these gifts?

The requirement of love

4. Read verse 4a. What do you need to be reminded of? Why is it so easy to get so bogged down with the ‘nasty now and now’ that love is often pushed aside for ‘duty’?
5. Read verse 6. What does John say love means? Read John 14:15. What does Jesus say? Read 1 John 4:8; just as we know that Jesus is the Way, Truth and Life, what does this verse tell you?
6. How does 1 Cor. 13:13 end? Why is love more important than faith and hope?

The importance of discernment

7. Read verse 7a. John said that he was writing the previous verses (4-6), because there were so many different deceitful philosophies being taught. What are some ideas being stated as truth today that demonstrate his statement?
8. Read verses 10-11. How can we protect our minds from being sucked into the false beliefs that are being propagated?

The value of fellowship

9. Read verse 12b. Why did John hope to visit these friends and talk “face to face”? What are you missing today by interacting through social media, tv, etc? Give some examples of displacing true fellowship with other options.
10. How much do you value the fellowship you have with Christian brothers and sisters? How often do you seek them out?

 Close:

John wrote this short letter to a church he loved, opening his heart to give words of warning he felt necessary for these early believers. His two main themes, reminding these brethren to show love to all people always, as well as warning the flock to be vigilant of false doctrine regarding Jesus Christ, were both very pertinent in their walk as believers. He begins his letter with emphasis on love and truth, not separating one from the other. He stressed the importance that Jesus Christ is both, and true believers show their love for Him by obeying His commandments, and loving each other.

We read this small book—about the length of a daily devotional—and find it as applicable today as it was two thousand years ago. Individually we all have turmoil, both from outside of our control, and internally from attacks of warfare, of human failings, and by sinful thoughts or actions. Yet it is love and truth that ultimately triumph in our lives. Seek out a Life Group that will help you grow in your faith, fight with the armor of God, and love unconditionally, so that others will know you are a Christ-follower!

Key Verse: 2 John 6: This is love, that we walk according to His commandments. This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it. (NKJV)

*Matt. 18:15-17, 21-22; 1 John 2:9-11; Matt. 6:14-15; Col. 3:13

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: Taking the Next Step of Service
October 22, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you learn of a need that someone has, what is your immediate response? Did you have to stop for a moment, or were you able to give a spontaneous anwer?

This week we finish the series “START: Taking the Next Step from the Step You’re On.” We have been seeking God’s direction for this journey of faith we are living. We want to follow the example Jesus set by serving those whom we meet along our path. We want to condition ourselves to be alert to their needs, then meet those needs as we are able.

Focal Passages: John 13:4-17; Matthew 25:40; Philippians 2:3-4.

Discuss:

THE NEXT STEP OF SERVICE:

Putting Jesus First

1. Someone read the memory verse, John 13:15. Why should you learn to be a servant? Read Mark 10:44-45. What does that teach you?
2. Read Matthew 25:37-40. What stands out as you read this passage? Were the “righteous” serving because they wanted to be noticed or because they wanted to show their love for Christ? Why does service have to start in the heart?

Putting Others First

3. Share some examples when you don’t exactly excel at putting others first. (Did you say, “in traffic,” or “waiting in a line”?) How can you change these situations?
4. Read Phil. 2:3-4. There are several suggestions of how to be more like Jesus in these two verses. What are they? Which of these things do you find the hardest?

HOW?

With What You Have

5. In verses 4-5 of John 13, what did Jesus need to perform the humble task of washing the feet of His disciples?
6. Can someone relate the oft-quoted maxim about God’s calling and equipping?* Use what He has already given you.
7. What will happen if you wait until you feel you are prepared to serve before you can be useful to God?

With what you know

8. Read verses 6-8 of John 13. The last phrase has a deeper meaning to Jesus than it did for the disciples. What was Jesus really saying?
9. What should be the goal for every act of service you perform?

With Christ as your model

10. Read verses 13-15. Why does Christ want you to serve others? Examine your acts of service to make certain your motive is to show the love of Christ.

WHAT’S NEXT?

 Pray

11. Why should you pray? When you pray for the needs of others, are you also asking God to use you?

Offer

12. What would happen if you prayed each morning that God would bring someone across your path who had a need, you see the need, and are able to meet it? Take that step of faith!

Try

13. All believers have the responsibility to share the gospel, and to serve. In the Ice Breaker, you listed how you would react to a need. Now that you’ve had the sermon study, can you embellish on seeing a gift that might be more comfortable for you than you had thought? You may have to try more than once to find what niche is really yours.

Close:

Serving someone sounds like an uncomfortable step of faith, doesn’t it? Yet it is a heart attitude God wants us to have, and has said that we do it for His glory, not our own. We look into the eyes of those we meet and get a glimpse of their heart. If there is an obvious need, ask Him to reveal how you can help. Have you ever been behind someone in line at Walmart and they are digging for change to come up with sufficient money to pay for their groceries? You look, and see nothing but food. Don’t hesitate to hand the clerk the dollar in your hand! God will never let you go hungry for giving away what’s He’s given to you. Does someone have a yard that needs mowed? You don’t know their story, but you can take a half hour and push your mower down to their yard and mow. If you’re afraid they’ll take it wrong, take a basket of fresh-baked bread and a note to put on their porch. Give God the opportunity to start sending needs your way, and the satisfaction that comes will make you hunger for them more and more. If you go on a short-term mission trip, prepare yourself to feel as though you barely got started when you need to leave! You will look at the elderly people and your heart will cry that they may go into a Christ-less eternity before someone else comes to tell them of Jesus. Let every day be a day of opportunity to serve your Lord, and to follow Him.

Memory Verse: John 13:15: For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you. (NKJV)

*”God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.”

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites are resources such as original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: Prayer Matters
October 8, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Meeting someone who is well-known and respected, possibly powerful, can be intimidating—and often we feel foolish, on reflection, for what we said as our mind went blank! Can anyone think of an example you can share?

This week the series “START” continues as we realize the truth that God—who cannot lie—wants a conversation with us on a personal basis. That He would care enough to form us in our mother’s womb, see every detail of our lives (good and bad) from birth to death, and still desire a relationship with us, completely blows our mind. Yet we often treat Him with flippancy, offering “prayers” that are more like a recitation than a conversation. Let’s see what His word says about the importance of prayer.

Focal Passages: 1 John 5:14-15; 1 Peter 5:6,7; Hebrews 4:14-16; James 5:16b; Luke 11:1-4, 17:17.

Discuss:

Prayer Matters:

1. Read 1 John 5:14-15. What do you mean when you use the word “if,” as in “if I go”? Why, then, do these verses say “if you ask,” and “if you know”?
2. Assuming our heart is right with God’s heart, what does He promise? Are these verses a blanket promise we will get what we want?

Prayer is talking to God your Father:

3. God is your Father if you are saved. In that case, how do you view prayer, and your ability to come before the Creator of the entire universe?
4. Read 1 Peter 5:6-7. Sometimes we assume God is like those we talk to who give some attention to what we say, rather than truly focusing on us. Does it matter that He “hears” you?

Prayer is a conversation:

5. Read Hebrews 4:14-16. In verse 16, how are we to come to Him? Do your children (if applicable) hesitate to tell you their needs? How does that relate?
6. There are two sides in a conversation. After pouring out your heart, do you take any time to be quiet and see how He responds? If you don’t, why not?

Prayer is powerful:

7. Read James 5:16b. Would God have this verse in Scripture if it were not true? How do you demonstrate that you believe it, as you pray?

How Do I Pray?

8. Read Luke 11:1-4. The disciples asked this question of Jesus. Therefore, we need to internalize the answer.

Know Who God is:

9. In verse 2a, what does “hallowed” mean? If you could describe God with one word, what would it be? Is this how you see Him as you pray?

Recognize the importance of God’s plan:

10. In verse 2b, we are not told that it is our will that will be done. Why is it of utmost importance that we bow to God’s will, both in our prayers, and in our lives?

Know that God cares about YOU:

11. Read verse 3. Jesus Himself says we need to ask for our “daily bread.” God cares so much about us that He wants to satisfy our daily needs. How often was the manna in the wilderness given? Why would He want us to ask daily?

Be in the right spiritual place for prayer:

12. Read John 9:31. What must our lifestyle be like for God to hear our prayers? Why is it important that our lives be “holy” as He is holy? How does 1 John 1:9 fit in here? If we are His children, how does He view us?

Be in the right attitude for prayer:

13. Read verse 11:4. What happens when we have unforgiveness for others?

Seek God’s leading in your life:

14. How do we do this? Read 11:4c. Why should we want what God wants?

Be thankful for everything:

15. Developing an attitude of gratitude is the key to being in God’s will. Why is that true?

Close

Cultivating a deep and meaningful prayer life is essential if you want a close relationship with your heavenly Father. As we have mentioned in numerous ways often, no relationship, whether with a spouse, your child, a family member, etc., will ever morph into a quality bond unless time is invested by conversation. If one side does all the talking, without giving the other an opportunity for answering and sharing equally, the relationship is nothing more than a power trip. We have learned much about prayer in these passages, but the most obvious is that our hearts must be in a condition where sins are confessed, a lifestyle is God-centered, no bitterness resides against our fellow man—in essence, we are in a right relationship with Him.  We cannot be living in sin and present our requests, expecting Him to overlook the things we are doing that are in direct opposition to His word. Paul wrote in Romans 6:1, “What? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? God forbid!” Paul uses the most forceful word in Greek to imply “Absolutely Not” to emphasize our dependence on the relationship must be clean. “Be holy, as He is holy.” Do you want Him to answer your deepest needs? Then begin by lining up your life with His, desiring His will in all things, and being fervent with your prayer life. Above all, learn to be grateful for everything He blesses you with. As you do, you will find contentment, knowing He hears you, is answering in His time frame, and doing what is best. He sees the end, not the tunnel you’re in!  Trust Him.

Memory Verse: 1 John 5:14: Now this is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. (NKJV)

Helpful Websites: www.biblegateway.com; www.blueletterbible.org. Within both of those sites there are resources such as Original Greek or Hebrew, the meanings, Commentaries, and more study materials.

START: How Can I Be Sure?
  September 24, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

There are so many decisions that must be made in life, and the right path is not always easy to know. For instance, “Is she/he the right person for me to marry?” Can you think of an example when you struggled with not being certain about something crucial?

Today we start a new series simply entitled “START.” All of us are on different levels of faith, of commitment, or maturity, but we want to know what the next step is for our situation. Dr. Falwell originally wrote a pamphlet, “How to Get Started Right,” outlining those next steps. Before we look at those steps, let’s be positive that we are in a right relationship with God, without any doubt of our salvation.

Focal Passages: Ephesians 2:1-9; John 3:16, 4:14, 8:52,10:27-29; 1 Corinthians 1:8,9; Philippians 1:6; Hebrews 13:5; 1 John 1:3-4, 5-10, 2:3-5, 2:15, 3:2-3, 3:5-6, 3:14, 3:22, 4:1-3, 5:1-2, 5:14-15.

Discuss:

Background:

1. Read Eph. 2:1b-3. What is the condition of the person who has not asked Jesus to save them?
2. Read verses 4-6. “But God” stepped in and did what? Why (vs. 4)?
3. Read verses 8-9. How were you saved? Did you do something to merit it? If you had achieved it by being good, could you boast about it?

How You Can Be Sure:

You will want to know Him:

4. Who will share the story of meeting your spouse, and the desire to know every little thing about her/him?
5. If you are going to trust God with your life, what are some things you will want to know about Him (for instance, is He always trustworthy?)? Where are you going to find these character traits?

Conviction of your sin:

6. Read John 14:26. It is said that there is no one more miserable than a true Christian who is living a sinful lifestyle. What can you conclude if you have a sinful addiction, and are not convicted about it?
7. Read 1 John 3:6. How does the Scripture back up the conclusion you just came to concerning a lifestyle of sin?

Seek fellowship with other Christians:

8. Read 1 John 1:7. Think of a fire: if you pull a piece of log out from the rest, what soon happens to it? How is that like a Christian who does not fellowship with other believers? Do you get that fellowship watching a service on the television?
9. At our churches, what is the biggest benefit of being part of a Life Group?

Understand the power of prayer:

10. In your family or work, how much of a relationship would you eventually have if you took no time to communicate with the others?
11. The Person Who has taken up residence in your life wants a very personal, loving relationship with you. Do you have a special name for Him that signifies your deepest feelings for talking with Him? What does James 5:16b tell you?

Recognize the importance of God’s Word:

12. Going back to family again, or even before that, to your relationship as it grew with the person who would be your spouse (if applicable), if you received a letter from her/him, how did you treat it? Discuss.
13. How do you view the books of the Bible, in giving you a guideline to know God, His plan, and how to live your life? Read 1 Peter 2:2-3 and 2 Peter 1:3. What do these verses tell you about Scripture? Read Psalm 119:11. What is another reason for memorizing His word? 

Close

Have you ever asked people where they will spend eternity? It is very few who will answer “Hell.” Since almost everyone assumes they will go to heaven, you must follow your question up with “What are you basing your hope on?” You already know most will say their good must outweigh their bad. This is such an unfortunate situation, and brings great pain to those of us who have tried to reach family members who are in a works-based religion. The START of a journey with Jesus Christ is to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you were “dead in your sin” and being so, were powerless to resurrect yourself. BUT GOD, through His great love with which He loved YOU, was willing to save you, and give you a new life of salvation. It was Grace—all grace—and nothing that you did. He offered it to you freely, asking that you live your new life with Him at the center. Did you accept that gift? If you did, He adopted you, and nothing you can do will cause Him to back out of this relationship. However, Romans 6 begins by telling us that the adoption by God is not a license to continue to sin. That is why you must do a self-examination with the points outlined above, making certain that your walk is in line with the Biblical precepts. If you have no desire to read your Bible, change your way of a sinful lifestyle, be with other Christians, or pray, you might need to reassess your conversion experience. However, if He is alive and well within you, and you are maturing in your walk with Him, begin by talking aloud with Him every time He crosses your mind! Nothing you say to Him will shock Him, cause Him to condemn you or think less of you, (He knows it anyway,) and the constant conversation will eventually morph into a close relationship that will flood your soul. You will “never find a friend so faithful!”

Memory Verse: Ephesians 2:4-5: But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved). (NKJV)

Nothing Is Impossible With God
September 10, 2017
Dr. Ben Guttierez

Open:

Sometimes, in making a decision to take a certain action, we realize we have started something where the task becomes too big, and we want to give up. Can anyone give an example?

These past two weeks, we have come through catastrophes that have left millions destitute, and they no doubt wonder if they will survive the stress of these crises. At the same time, we have witnessed God showing His mighty and awesome power, bringing about miracles that man could not—under any imagination—have orchestrated. Nothing is impossible for Him to accomplish, and as His child, nothing is impossible to the believer whose life is rich in faith. We are promised that God will do exceedingly abundantly above all that we can ask or think!

Focal Passages: Matthew 9:1-13, 10:2-4; 16:26; Luke 3:12-13, 5:27, 7:34, 18:10-11, 13a.

Discuss:

Background:

1. Matthew, the tax collector, was someone the Jews would have gone out of their way to avoid. In that day, tax collectors ranked with the lowest of the low in terms of character and integrity. Read Matthew 18:17, 21:32, and Luke 7:34 to see how they were lumped in Scripture with those whom no one would believe could be saved.

Who Can God Use:

2. Read Matthew 9:9. What would make a wretched sinner, tax collector and outcast obey Jesus when He said, “Follow Me”?
3. How do you know that Matthew’s new-found faith was real?

God—the Forgiver of Sins

4. Read Matt. 9:1-6. What is Jesus saying in verse 6?
5. Can you think of an acquaintance that you have felt, perhaps for years, they were too “bad” for God to save them?

No One is Too Wayward That God Cannot Use Them

6. Read Matt. 9:10-13. Who was Jesus seeking as He went through the towns preaching, teaching and healing?
7. Read Mark 12:37. Who embraced Jesus and His teaching?
8. How does this compare with 1 Corinthians 1:21?

God Changes Hearts

9. Read Luke 19:7-9. Zacchaeus was also a tax collector, like Matthew. What showed his humility when Jesus went to his house?
10. Read 1 Sam. 15:22. How high does God place obedience to His word?

Can God Use YOU?

11. Read Matt. 18:4. What does God desire from you?

Read Matt. 22:36-38. What else?

Can He use you?

 Close:

Satan can so easily get any of us tied up in regret, doubt or lies, bringing up the past and reminding us of it. How many times have you thought, “God can’t use me, because I have ____________”? Or perhaps there is an acquaintance that you know who has made life a living torture for someone you love, and you feel they are so far beyond the possibility of salvation that God will never write their names in the book of Life (Rev. 20:15). The truth is, no one is beyond the reach of God’s mercy and grace, unless they choose to ignore the call of Jesus. It takes a repentant heart and an act of turning from sin to obeying the voice of God to become His child. “He is the forgiver of sins and the determiner of one’s mission in life. God will use any heart that is submissive to His will.” (Sermon). He does not desire anyone to perish, but all to come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ.

With the number of catastrophes coming one after another, examine your heart closely to (2 Cor. 13:5) to see that you are His child, lest you be caught unprepared! Once you know that you are, without a doubt and with a faith that will not be shaken, tell your story as often as God gives you opportunity, as the time may be short. He can use you no matter what you’ve done, if you ask forgiveness and repent, just as He can use those whom you continue to lift to the throne, no matter how hopeless the outlook! Do so this week!

Memory Verse: Matthew 19:26: But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Flannelgraph of Faith: Jonah
August 27, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Occasionally we’re asked to take a responsibility in an event or situation for which we’re competent, but don’t wish to participate. Sometimes we will go so far as to make plans to “be away” in order to escape taking on the task. Can you share an example?

Today we will conclude our Flannelgraph series, having used a modern twist on the old visual aid style of teaching. We have reframed the precious stories we learned as children, looking for deeper meanings to apply to our lives as we continue to grow in Christ. We are going to learn from Jonah, the prophet who was commissioned by God to go preach repentance to a people whose sins were leading to their destruction.

Focal Passages: Jonah, Chapters 1-4

Discuss:

Background:

1. Jonah, an Israelite, was called by God to prophecy to the enemy country of Nineveh. Instead of obeying, Jonah ran from God. Can one or two share the first part of Jonah’s life, to give us the background?

God’s Call Trumps Our Comfort

2. What is the most astonishing fact that stands out after God calls Jonah to go preach to Nineveh?
3. How is his fleeing in the opposite direction the same as our knowing to obey God, but not doing it? How does God view the difference?
4. Where was Jonah when the storm from God came upon the ship? How can we compare this to the storms that may come into our lives when we are in disobedience to God’s will? Why does He bring those storms (Heb.12:5,6)?

God’s Redemption Trumps Our Contempt (Anger)

5. Can someone tell what occurred after the sailors threw Jonah into the sea?
6. Read Jonah 2:2-10. We can certainly understand Jonah’s fervent prayer of repentance when he found himself inside the belly of the whale, miraculously alive. Why does incredible trouble cause us to repent of known sin and turn to God? Can you relate? Was 9/11 a good example? Why?
7. Will someone tell us what happens next? How was he received in Nineveh?
8. How did Jonah react? 

God’s Salvation Trumps Everything

9. Read 4:1-4. It is easy to criticize Jonah’s reaction to God’s incredible mercy to the people of Nineveh, but what was his real problem? What was he missing that had just happened in his own life? Are you ever aware that God is merciful toward you, but subsequently you get angry as He shows mercy to someone you think unworthy?
10. God acts again in mercy, even following Jonah’s angry response. Can someone tell what happens in the last several verses of chapter 4? Even though Jonah was in sin, reacting with hurt pride, God still granted him grace and mercy. Can you think of an example when He gave you grace when you didn’t deserve it? (Share if you can).

Close:

What a short book to be so full of lessons for life! We have seen how God in His omnipotence wanted to save an ungodly heathen nation, calling them to Himself. In calling Jonah, He showed His power over nature by bringing the storm over the boat; His power was again manifest as He provided a sea creature to not only swallow Jonah, but provided air for him in the belly of the whale. He gave Jonah another chance to go to Nineveh, where He used him to cause an entire kingdom to repent and be saved. He administered grace to an angry prophet, and in love spoke to the word for a plant to grow for shade. His power over His creation provided a worm to devour the plant, making Jonah all the angrier, yet God was trying to get him to understand how much more valuable a human soul is than a plant.

We can also learn totally different lessons from the first chapter. We have an enemy who is alive and well, roaming the earth to tempt and devour the saints. As we read the first few verses we see that Satan is willing to help those who would run from Jesus, seeking to do their own thing. He will provide a way (i.e., the ship), to make it as easy as possible. But (verse 3b) there is a “fare” that must be paid for running. And Satan cannot stop the Almighty God when He is ready to rescue and use His servant.

Hopefully, as you go about your daily activities this week, you pay special attention to your actions, choosing always to follow God. God is our Rescuer, our Deliverer, and our Strength. Share Him with those you love—and those you may not love!—this week.

Memory Verse: Jonah 2:9: But I will sacrifice to You with the voice of thanksgiving; I will pay what I have vowed. Salvation is of the Lord.

Ask Yourself: Am I running from anything God has asked me to do?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Prayer and His Presence
August 13, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

In interesting studies that have been done, the amount of people who will stand alone when in a crowd is minimal. Have you ever had an experience of being the last person still holding a certain position when everyone else had chosen another option, and can you share?

The story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego is one most of us learned—by way of a flannelgraph—as children. We listened with sympathy to their punishment of being thrown into a fiery furnace for not bowing down to a golden image, and the miracle God displayed as He delivered them in an incredible way. These three brave young men left us a legacy that sought to teach us courage and help us grow strong in our faith. We want to glean more nuggets of truth that will increase our confidence as we go through our own fiery trials (1 Peter 4:12), and grow in our relationship to God.

Focal Passages: Daniel 1, 2, 3

Discuss:

The Background

1. Daniel and his three friends were brought to Babylon as prisoners of Nebuchadnezzar. Can someone give a short overview of the early years of their life there? Read Daniel 1:17. How did these four cope in Babylon? Because of their wisdom, they advanced in authority, although they were about to go through a trial that would seem impossible to overcome.

Pray Like It Matters…Because It Does!

2. Before we get to the golden image, read Dan. 2:16-19. Verse 18 gives you a picture of the source of strength for these young men. What was it? Do you feel this was a habit or a one-time occasion, and why?
3. Why does it seem to take a crisis to bring you to prayer? Prayer should be our first line of defense; why? If you don’t pray often, is it realistic to assume God will give you a reason to do so? Why? Read James 5:16b.

Compromise Will Never Deliver

4. Someone relate the demand Nebuchadnezzar made of his people when he built a 90 ft. high statue. What happened when all the people bowed down?
5. Recall the opening Ice Breaker; who will be the one(s) left standing alone against the majority during testing?
6. Read Dan. 3:17-18. What was on the line when the men did not bow down? Did they have any reason to assume they would not die? As a Christian, have you ever folded when you should have stood alone (don’t answer aloud unless you choose to).
7. If they had bowed down, what would it have cost them?

The World’s Power Is No Match For His

8. What initially happened when the three were thrown into the fiery furnace? What did the king witness, as he looked into the fire?
9. Read Dan. 3:27. What was Nebuchadnezzar’s conclusion when they came out?

We Have His Power

10. Read John 14:26. How do you know you can trust His power when you’re in a trial?
11. Read Isaiah 43:2b. You are the only one who can truthfully answer this question: can you look back and see that your faith is increasing, and that you are trusting Him to be with you every step?

Close:

Standing alone is hard. In the opening, if you thought of an example from your own life, you possibly sensed that same twinge of unease that you had felt then, and wonder now where you got the nerve to step away from the crowd. The decision to not bow to any god but the true God seemed as if it was going to cost Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego their very lives. They had not read the end of the story! We can see from chapters 1 and 2 that prayer was a part of their daily routine; in this case, they probably had time only for a short plea for God’s help and His will, but if He had different plans, whether He saved them or not, they would be faithful to Him until death took them.

We need to ask ourselves the same question. Will you stand regardless of the outcome? If you are praying for a loved one to survive a disease, for an end to a financial crisis, for help in your marriage, for a wayward child—will you still stand with Him and trust Him if He is quiet? Remember, too, that those who are going through trials usually need others to intercede for them—which not only keeps you in a state of prayer but also gives strength for the burden for those in the trial. Seek out a Life Group and get with others who are going through crises, and let the burdens be shared by brothers and sisters (Gal. 6:2). We need to know that we know the Holy Spirit is with us as we go through trials. Sometimes He walks with us, and sometimes He carries us. Trust Him. You will find He is trustworthy.

Memory Verse: Daniel 3:17: “If that is the case, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king.”

Ask Yourself: Is my faith in God strong enough that I would stand against enemies of Christ? Do I trust Him to bring me through the trials of life? How can I develop a closer relationship with Him?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samuel—God’s Way, Always
July 30, 2017
Dr. Ben Gutierrez

Open:

When we were young, we often did not have enough experience, or enough guidance, to make the best choices, and our lives were impacted with consequences we could not undo. Can anyone share an experience?

This week we continue the series, “Flannelgraph of Faith,” taking stories we learned as children and looking for deeper—or underlying—lessons we can use in our own lives. This week we will focus on I Samuel, looking not only at Samuel’s life, but also the far-reaching consequences for Israel that came when they rejected Samuel’s warning. We continue to use the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, as we learn from his life.

Focal Passages: Taken from I Samuel

The Background:

In Judges 2:10-15, we read that after Joshua died, God appointed judges who would lead under God’s direction. The people fluctuated between following the Lord while the judge lived, then turning to idols after his death. This pattern continued about 300 years, and caused the word of the Lord to be “rare in those days” (1 Samuel 3:1).  Judges 21:25 ends this period declaring “everyone did that which was right in his own eyes.”

Discuss:

Nothing & No One Can Make You Choose the Way You Choose:

1. Can someone give an overview of the events occurring during the conception and early years of Samuel? Read 3:19, 20. What was Samuel’s position in Israel after God spoke to him?
2. Read 7:15 and 8:1, 3-7. What event occurred that changed the course of Israel’s future? Israel had adopted the ways of the heathen nations; what are some reasons this happened? How are we seeing this with Christians today?
3. Who decides what you wear, watch, where you work, etc.? What establishes your boundaries (you don’t have to answer out loud)?

Bad Choices Lead to Worse Choices:

4. The people of Israel wanted a king, like their pagan neighbors. Read 1 Sam. 10:17-19a. What did Samuel tell the people? What was their response?

Only Obedience from a Pure Heart Honors God:

5. Does anyone remember the story of the anointing of Saul as King? Can you paraphrase it for the group?
6. Read 15:17-23. Saul started his reign well, but soon got sidetracked with pride. What was the final straw? What does God delight in?

 To Obey Is Better Than Sacrifice:

7. Read Joshua 24:15. Substitute your country for the Amorites, and read it as a contemporary choice. What is holding you back from choosing to serve God with a pure heart?

 Close:

As we read the life of Samuel, it is hard not to liken the people of Israel to those around us, and across our own land. Immorality, profanity and immodesty is rampant, while crime and unrest is on the increase. Jesus Christ is being confined to the church building, until we have a generation growing up who will not know the Lord (Judges 2:10). But our choices are not forced upon us: you may not be able to control the behaviors and values of the citizens of the land, but you have control over your choices for yourself. It may be the only thing you can control!

Learn from Samuel that, in the midst of a sinful country, you can have a relationship with God that is real and personal. He will never forsake you, never leave you on your own, and loves you beyond anything you have ever known. If you get to the end of your rope and cry out to Him for evidence that He is with you, listen and watch for an indication that He has heard your cry and show you that He is listening. If He answers no, or seems silent, trust Him. If He doesn’t answer a fervent prayer, will you still love Him? That is the main question, and only you can choose your answer. Commit your life to establishing a closer relationship with Him, and then tell others your story.

Memory Verse: I Samuel 15:22: So Samuel said, “Has the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.” (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Are my choices in attitude, clothing, words I speak and my integrity something that brings glory to God? Am I giving “lip service” to God but not my heart? “To obey [His word] is better than sacrifice.” Am I doing life God’s way, or my way?

Flannelgraph of Faith: Samson
July 16, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

It is not unusual for expectant parents to desire a particular goal for the baby’s future (for instance, perhaps becoming part of the family law firm). Do you know someone who is an example of such a life, and what has been the outcome?

As we continue looking at Bible characters whose lives have much to teach us, we come to the powerfully strong Israelite, Samson. Using the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, this colorful, yet wayward, man had a future ordered by God. As the last in the line of judges of Israel, he lived a life that will encourage many who have wondered if God gives second chances.

Focal Passages: Taken from Judges 13:1 through 16:31

Discuss:

God’s Promises Are Filled with Power:

1. Read Judges 13:1. What was the condition of the people of Israel after the last judge had died? How long were they in captivity this time?
2. Each time Israel found themselves enslaved by other nations, what did they eventually do?
3. In verses 2, 3 & 5, how did God act in grace toward His people? What was the promise and purpose for Samson that God gave his mother?

God’s Promises Can Be Derailed by Our Actions:

1. Will someone paraphrase the next years of Samson’s life? What was his greatest hindrance to God’s perfect plan for him? Read 1 John 2:16. Does this sum up his actions?
2. Read Jeremiah 29:11. What would you do differently if you had known from a child that God’s had a specific plan for your life, that would give you “hope, and a future”?
3. What are some examples of God’s ideal plan for you, and how can you wreck what He wants to accomplish? (For example, marriage is His perfect plan, unfaithfulness and divorce can thwart it.)
4. When you ruin the plan God had for you, what does He do? Read Romans 8:28,29. After receiving forgiveness (1 John 1:9), how does this change the consequences?

God’s Promises Are Forever Promises:

1. Read 16:28-30. Samson knew how badly he had hindered God’s plans for his life, and begged God for one more chance. What did God do?
2. What lesson can you learn from the continual backsliding that Samson did, and yet, when he cried out to God, God helped him?

Close:

It is hard to read these chapters in Judges on the life of Samson, and not have questions and concerns about the immoral way in which he lived his life, yet was used mightily by God. Being brought up to be Israel’s deliverer from the Philistines, as an adult he went from one sinful situation to another. Yet somehow, in the timing of all the years that he judged Israel, he apparently had a faith so profound that he is listed in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11:32.

We can learn much from Samson’s life. God promised that he would be used for a specific plan and purpose, and nothing could take that away. He promised it to Samson’s mother, and it was not conditional on Samson never straying from the path of righteousness. We also were created by God for something above and beyond all we can ask or think, but we must live lives of faithfulness to see that purpose fulfilled. We also can take comfort in knowing that the backslider can return to the God he left for the world and will find Him waiting with arms open wide. That is a blessed reassurance. The cry of our heart should always be that the Lord would make Himself so real to us that we recognize answers to our heart’s requests as quickly as they come. Nothing fills you with the security of being loved, as seeing Him fulfilling promises to give you a life full of His unmerited favor.

Memory Verse: Judges 6:28: Then Samson called to the Lord, saying, “O Lord God, remember me, I pray! Strengthen me, I pray, just this once, O God, that I may with one blow take vengeance on the Philistines for my two eyes!” (NKJV)

The True Definition of Freedom
July 2, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

The very word, freedom, conjures up an incredible number of ideas, synonyms, or lifestyles! Can you share what immediately comes to mind when you hear “freedom”?

Today, as we celebrate the date commemorating the birth of America, we are going to look at the true meaning of “freedom,” and see what God’s word says about it. In doing so, we’ll find we need to be giving Him glory for the greatest freedom life will ever bring: liberty from a sinful and condemned lifestyle to a surety of eternal life with Him.

Focal Passages: Titus 3:1-8; Galatians 4:3-7.

Discuss:

Freedom Requires Submission

1. Read Titus 3, verse 1. What does Paul say you must do in order to fulfill your obligation for your freedom?
2. What are some instances of this submission? When can it be disregarded?

Freedom Requires Humility

3. Read verse 2. One of the hardest instructions to obey is true believers must not be given to slander—or “evil speaking”—against another. How do you justify this in your own life, or when do you think it may not apply? (Did you say social media?)
4. What is the second command in this verse? What is the source of strife (quarreling)? Read Proverbs 28:25.
5. How are you supposed to treat others?

Freedom Requires Reflection

6. In verse 3, how does Paul describe those who are not saved, including you, before salvation? Think for a moment about girls in the past couple of years who were freed from kidnappers. How would they view freedom had they not been held captive for a period of time?
7. What was your condition before salvation? How do you feel now to know you have been set free from the chains of death and hell? Read Gal. 4:3-7.

Freedom Requires Release

8. Read Titus 3:4-5. Why did Christ save you? In His mercy, what did He do for you?
9. Read Ephesians 2:1-3. Does this explain your inability to be saved because of what you did to deserve it?

Freedom Requires a Future

10. Read verses 6-7. What is your reward for the freedom you have through salvation?
11. Early pilgrim voyages to America were done for what hope? If there was no future promised by freedom, what would be the benefit?

Freedom Requires a Response

12. Read verse 8. What are you obligated to do once God has shown you mercy and saved you? Who has the responsibility to “go into all the world and teach the gospel”? (Matt. 28:19.)

Close:

A popular saying in America is “Freedom Isn’t Free.” We all know this statement means your freedom was bought by blood—that of the soldier for physical freedom, and that of Jesus Christ for spiritual freedom. Both carry a huge responsibility on the part of the one who has benefitted from the one who paid with his life.

Paul recognized the obligations each carried, and laid them out for us in today’s passage from Titus. Now we need to take these truths and internalize them, making them our aftermath of salvation. Our responsibility is that we can comfort and teach others with the good news. Take this week to reflect on the paths you have walked, and life prior to your salvation. Can you now look back and see God was guiding you and taking care of you even then? Write the instances down as they come to you, and see the good hand of your God was preparing you for the day you would cry out to Him for freedom from your sins, for the gift of eternal life, and then spread the good news of salvation as you love your neighbor!

Memory Verse: Titus 3:4-5: “But when the kindness and the love of God our Savior toward man appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us, through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit.” (NKJV)

Act Like Men
June 18, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Today is the day set aside to give honor to fathers, but the truth is, not everyone has a godly—or even good—father. However, almost all have a father-figure who impacted our lives for good. Can someone share?

We take time on this day to look at the attributes of the man who has the qualities God highly values. Paul, finishing his first letter to the church at Corinth, included two small verses that can be used as a goal for anyone who desires to be “a man after God’s own heart” (Acts 13:22).

Focal Passages: 1 Corinthians 16:13,14; 1 Corinthians 13:1-7

Discuss:

Be A Man of Protection

1. Read the two verses, focusing on 13a. Living in a world that seems to be coming more and more sinful, what are some obvious things a man would need to protect both himself and his family from?
2. Thinking more deeply—and in a spiritual direction—what are some of the less apparent but more dangerous issues that one needs to be vigilant about?

Be A Man of Purity

3. In verse 13b, what is the responsibility laid out here? Someone read Ephesians 6:13,14. In any situation where you are “standing firm,” what does that imply you are doing?
4. In this case, Paul says to “stand firm in the faith.” How can you do that? Consider your life: are you impacting the world around you, or is it impacting you? (Don’t answer aloud unless you want to.)

Be A Man of Power

5. Read verse 13c. Anyone raised on the Marvel or D.C. Comic Heroes knows what bravery is. What are some things brave men do?
6. What are some character traits of a brave man?

Be A Man of Purpose

7. Read verse 13d. Let’s assume Paul was not speaking of the physical body, although the Greek does not clarify. So, what should one show strength concerning?
8. What do you do if you are faced with opposition? Do you have, as Dr. Falwell used to say, “stick-to-itiveness”?

Be A Man of Perfection

9. Read verse 14. Last week we spent time discussing actions done without love as the motivator. Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-7. What is the bottom line?

Close:

There has never been a time in our country when the need for individuals who will stand firm in Jesus Christ has been so great.  Our children desperately need to know that their fathers are going to do everything in their power to see that they—the child—will safely arrive to adult status. There are times this goal doesn’t happen, but God will bless the man whose heart is fixed on Him.

The five actions Paul has laid out in these two short verses can equally apply to a woman, but some of Paul’s strongest words are used to encourage men to provide for his family, see that they are united following God’s principles, and be the loving leader that he has been anointed by God to be. Paul (Ephesians 5:25) equates the father’s role in a family to that of Christ loving the church, and giving Himself for it. If Christ knocked at your door, could you invite Him in, or would it send you into a dither? Do you understand that He sees and knows everything you are looking at, everyone you are talking to, and every conversation you have? He knows your thoughts before you speak them! Any man who does not fulfill this role will ultimately be judged by God. Praise Him if that does not fill you with fear, but with knowing you are running the race, trying to win the prize He has laid out for you.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 16:13, 14: “Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with love.”

Not My Jesus: Christ In Me
June 4, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Family resemblances can be a very strong indicator of who someone is a relative of, can’t they? Have you had the experience of identifying some person’s family because of their facial features?

During the past several weeks, we have looked at the life of Jesus Christ from secular and Biblical historical evidence. You should have formed a solid foundation on which to build a relationship, especially when we examined passages that illustrate how much He loves you. This week we want to see if becoming His child will change your appearance or lifestyle so that others will be able to identify you as a child of God. As Acts 4:13 states, “they [the religious leaders] marveled…and realized they [the disciples] had been with Jesus.”

Focal Passage: Galatians 3:20-21; Romans 8:9-14

Discuss:
The World Does Not Control Us

1. Read the verses from Galatians, and Rom. 9a. When you ask Jesus to forgive your sins and save you, what do you receive? How would you describe the power the Holy Spirit gives you?
2. Perhaps an area in your life has been a trigger for a response that was not godly; what are some scriptures or “ways of escape” that will help you control your reaction and overcome this stronghold by the power of the Holy Spirit?

(BUT) God Controls Us

3. In verse 9b, what is the spiritual condition of those who do not choose to obey the Holy Spirit’s leading?
4. Read Romans 13:11,12. As you read this passage, whose responsibility is it to choose to obey God, rather than a past sinful lifestyle? Will God force you to obey? What are some factors that should enter as you choose your action?

(BECAUSE) He Dwells Within Us

5. Have you ever been afraid, perhaps being alone as a child, and suddenly someone you loved came into the room? How did your feelings change? How is that analogous to God dwelling within you?
6. We have life, resurrection power, and the ability to flee sin when the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us. Do you consciously think of your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit and care for it in that manner? Why or why not?

(AND) The Holy Spirit Leads Us

7. Read verse 11. We sing “The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us!” Are you actively aware of that often? What causes you to think of it?
8. Where does the He lead us? (Psalm 23 may help you think of some joyful places!)

(TO) A Life That Is Different

9. Read verse 12-14. Give some examples of living a life that is set apart from the world.
10. Has anyone ever asked you what makes you different? If not, have you asked yourself ‘why’?

Close:

Do you ever meet someone who seems to have a joy and zest for life that amazes you? Even their countenance exudes peace! That is the evidence that they have the sweet Spirit of God residing in their life. When we give the control of our lives over to let the Holy Spirit rule and reign, we should experience a relief and gladness that we no longer must carry the weight of the world on our shoulders. As we wake in the morning, we should be full of gratitude and delight for another day in His presence! Our “temple” (that is, our body) should be kept clean of filthiness and worldliness (James 1:21), our mouths should always speak what is truthful (Pro. 8:7), and nothing wicked should be set before our eyes (Psa. 101:3). If we could actively be conscious, as we go through our daily routine in the world, that we have the God of the universe within us, would we clean up our “house” and change what we see, speak, or do? Is that a description of your life, or do you fall short, letting the small irritating conflicts that Satan throws at you constantly steal your joy?

Take time this week to study the passages of a life filled with the Spirit, and then strive for the godliness that will set you apart from the world. Praise be to God if, when someone meets us, they immediately recognize us as someone who “has been with Jesus!” Pray for the strength, the sensitivity, and the obedience to give Christ our all.

Memory Verse: Galatians 2:20: “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.”

Not My Jesus: Who Did Jesus Say That He Is?
May 21, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Many people are skeptical of facts presented to them unless they can see for them-selves they are hearing the truth. Can you give an example from your own life?

This week we continue to examine the truth that Jesus Christ was/is, indeed, God, come in the flesh to the earth. We have looked at the skepticism surrounding His being the only begotten Son of God, even when He declared that He was the Messiah. Let’s study what Jesus Himself said about His deity, to determine if He was a fraud, a prophet or whether “truly, this Man was (is) the Son of God!” (Mark 15:39).

Focal Passage: John 8:12-58

Discuss:

The Light of the World

1. Read verse 12. What did Jesus claim in this verse? Where does this light lead?
2. Read Isaiah 9:2. How did Jesus fulfill this prophecy? How does He dispel the darkness that is in one’s soul prior to salvation?

God Incarnate

3. In verse 23, where was Jesus saying He was from?
4. John 1:14 gives what fact?
5. Read John 14:9-11. How much plainer could Jesus have spoken?

The Messiah

6. Read verses 25-28. Jesus knew He was going to die because of His claims. Would He have made such statements if He were not the Christ? Why?
7. Read John 4: 25, 26, and Matt. 8:28,29. Were these two accounts valid? Why?
8. Why did the religious leaders want to kill Him?

The Word

10. Read John 1:1-4. Who is being referred to in this verse, and how do we know?
11. Read Col. 1:15-17: How do these verses about Jesus Christ back up His claims to have been the Creator God?

The Sent One

11. Verse 42: What does Jesus state to the religious leaders here? Again, does He know His life is on the line with these statements?

Close:

One of the greatest debates in all of history is a simple question: was/is Jesus Christ who He claimed to be: the Son of the living God? If a person will read the Bible, making notes of the facts it presents, they will find that it states He was God manifest in flesh, who came to the earth fully God and fully man, healed every kind of disease, raised the dead, taught, lived a sinless life in order to pay the penalty for sin for any who would accept the free gift of grace, was crucified, buried and rose again; was seen by many witnesses after the resurrection, and returned to heaven to wait until it is time for Him to return for believers. That is a lot of facts to base rejection on! Especially so, considering there were witnesses to almost all of it. And yet, people want proof. As we learned early in this series, no true historian rejects the evidence that Jesus lived. But was He the Son of God, a good man, a prophet, or a fraud? The quandary usually comes when unbelievers reject Him because they cannot reconcile that He is love, and yet allows evil to exist. But proof—which is something that is seen—is not faith, and “without faith, it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.” (Heb. 11:6) In the final analysis of a study of Jesus, it comes down to a decision: will the reader believe that Jesus knows who He says He is—the great I AM—or will they reject Him because life has dealt some hard blows? The biggest proof there will ever be is watching a wretched soul turn their life over to Jesus, and then seeing the new life emerge. What more proof could anyone ask than the complete healing of a soul? Do His bidding: seek those who are lost and introduce them to the Savior!

Memory Verses: John 8:12: “Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, ‘I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.’” through whom also He made the worlds.”

Study: Take some time at home to look up passages on “Light,” and find out how many times Jesus is spoken of as the light. Go to www.biblegateway.com or www.blueletterbible.org and find passages that will make the study on Jesus come alive for you! The deeper you go, the more you will want to learn!

Not My Jesus: Who Is The Real Jesus?
May 7, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Many people are still living who can remember when any news written in newspapers or on the television could be believed. What do you think has taken place in the last several years to change this?

This week we continue to explore the person of Jesus Christ as written about in the Old Testament, and witnessed  to in the New Testament—all without error. We have looked at the various views the world has of Him, the witness of His own words as recorded in Scripture, and this week we look at the validation that God Himself has affirmed by His own words. As we absorb the wonder of His deity, power and glory, perhaps we will see an increasing growth in our own faith.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 1:1-14.

Discuss:

The Final Word

1. Read Heb. 1:1,2. How had God spoken to His people prior to the New Testament? What changed with the coming of Jesus?
2. Read John 1:1-5. If you truly believe that the Bible is God’s actual word to man, what evidence does God—who cannot lie—give as to who Jesus is?

God’s Only Representative

3. In verse 3a, what did the word “image” (character) mean?
4. Why does verse 3b signify the past tense of His actions? What other Scriptures can you think of that support this?*

God’s Greatest Joy

5. Somehow I am convinced our emotions, which we try to hard to keep in check, are also the image of God–I know the angels rejoice, and I know our futile efforts at holiness must bless Him, just as our little ones do when they bring us breakfast in bed, and everything is a sloppy mess!

5. Why did He bring God so much joy? Can we relate?

He Is God

7. In verses 8 & 9 alone, how many different reasons did God give to confirm Jesus as God?
8. Someone read Col. 2:9. How does Paul back up the verse in Hebrews? Can you think of other verses that reinforce that Jesus is God?**

He Is Creator

9. What does God the Father say of the Son in verse 10? Scriptures abound that testify to His being creator. Can you think of any?

He Is Eternal

10. What is going to perish and wear out (verse 11)?
11. From Genesis (21:33), through the New Testament, Everlasting (Eternal) is one of God’s characteristics. What does He also bestow on us, when we become His child? (John 3:16)

Our Final Hope

12. What does “hope” mean when spoken of in the New Testament? Why is Jesus the only hope we have? Read 1 Cor. 15:19 and Hebrews 11:1. Does this give you more “hope”?
13. Can you give an example of His having given you hope when you felt at the end of your rope? How do non-believers make it through the difficulties of life?

Close:

It is mind-boggling to realize that, in our own country, nine out of ten people say they believe in God. And a reported 26% believe that the Bible is the actual infallible word of God. Yet as you ponder those two statistics, you would think the country would be well-filled with those who see Jesus as God—since scripture clearly says so. The sad truth is, only about 6% believe that. Can you imagine that out of every one-hundred people who cross your path (in the workplace, the mall, etc.), only about six of them hold Jesus Christ as their hope for eternal life?*** Since the largest Christian University is located here, most likely this statistic for Thomas Road attenders would be different. However, the reality still should cause us to desire to share Jesus to a lost and dying world! Is there any higher endorsement than God Himself? In Titus 1:2, Paul tells us that God cannot lie. That means every word He spoke in Hebrews 1 concerning Jesus Christ is Truth! Does that fill your soul with peace that passes all understanding? To know that you can be adopted as a child and heir by the Creator God should be overwhelming. To have access to His power to live a holy life, to overcome Satan, to have joy and peace—and so much more—should create in us a huge desire to not only worship Him in Spirit and in Truth, but also to want to declare to those whom we love and whom we meet that He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, and NO-ONE gets to the Father unless they come through Jesus Christ! Share that this week!

Memory Verses: Hebrews 1:1-2: “God, who at various times and in various ways spoke in time past to the fathers by the prophets, has, in these last days, spoken to us by His Son, whom He has appointed heir of all things, through whom also He made the worlds.”

*4: John 19:30; Hebrews 10:12; **7: 1 John 5:7; ***Gallup polls, 2011, 2014

Not My Jesus: The Case for Christ
April 23, 2017
Dr. Lee Strobel

Open:

Few things intrigue those of any age more than a good story! Books, movies, and personal adventures all lure us to listen attentively. Can a couple of you share a short story, perhaps one you’ve told a number of times because it is so interesting?

So often in Group Time we are encouraged to do nothing more as a witness than just “tell our story.” The world is anxious to hear of a true change of character that comes when someone turns their life over to Jesus Christ. This week we heard a story of a life completely changed by the word of God: Dr. Lee Strobel, a man who acknowledged himself to be an immoral, depraved individual, a lawyer by trade, and an avowed atheist who was changed by the gospel.

Dr. Strobel’s story: While he was living a life of complete degradation, he saw his wife accept Jesus as her Savior. Desiring to divorce her, he chose to wait to see if she would soon leave the “cult.” Instead, he saw her change before his eyes into a someone he admired. It caused him to take all his skills as a lawyer and intellect, studying to find the fallacies in Christianity. This led him to the truth that it took more faith to believe there is no God, than to believe that Jesus, is, in truth, the Son of God. After two years of study, he gave his life to Christ, and became a believer.

Think About or Discuss:

Early Accounts

1. Looking back 2000 years, what conclusion must you draw when there is no serious historian who denies the existence of a Man, Jesus Christ? He was, it was written, “a doer of wonderful works” (Josephus, Antiquities, XVIII,33)?

Execution

2. Even the same historians (at least four, perhaps more, outside of the Bible) wrote of his execution, and the part Pontius Pilate and the Jewish religious leaders played in it. If there is no debate about this fact, again—what conclusion must be drawn?
3. Strobel stressed the fact that in law (his profession), witnesses to a statement are everything: no statement is accepted for fact unless two could be found. What do you remember about the two witnesses used to testify against Jesus? 

Empty Tomb

4. Who saw the tomb empty? (Matt. 28). Why would the ones guarding the tomb run to their superiors to tell them what happened, and make up a lie, if Jesus was still in the tomb? Their lives, according to the Bible, would be forfeit if he had been stolen.
5. Why would the disciples steal His body (as was rumored), and then continue to preach in His name, and eventually be willing to die for preaching Christ?

Eyewitnesses

6. This one fact sets Christianity apart from all other religions. No other effort to reach God depends on the object of worship being dead, then alive. In doing a computer search for those who wrote on the resurrection, there are at least 17 who wrote that Jesus was alive after the crucifixion, and seen by over five-hundred people. All agree that someone would live for a lie, but no one would die for a lie, and yet the followers of Jesus, like Stephen, were martyred beginning in the early days after His death. This became Dr. Strobel’s pivotal point: that no one in law could discount the enormous number of witnesses to His life after the cross.
7. The gospels all clearly record the number of people who saw and interacted with Jesus after His resurrection. Who were some of these people, and how did He intermingle with them?
8. Josephus, the secular historian, admits that after the resurrection, many of His disciples who claimed to have seen Him continued to preach in His name. He ended his writing with “accordingly, perhaps He was the Messiah, concerning Whom the prophets have recounted wonders.” (Antiquities). Who else has changed the world as Jesus has?

Close:

What a story! The greatest evidence that Jesus is alive is that those who believe that He is Who He claimed to be, ask Him to take control of their lives, forgive their sins, and are made into new creatures! They are given a new heart, new desires for life, and new eyes. One of the most heart-rending statements was Dr. Strobel saying his small daughter was so scared of him when she was young that she would grab her toys and run to her room when he came home. Was he drunk? Would he yell? Scream? Throw things? Yet after he gave his life to Christ she saw a new Daddy emerge from the ashes. He said about six months after he became a believer, she asked if she could invite Jesus into her life, so she could be changed like her daddy had been. Could you ask for a greater testimony than that—that the child you have raised in fear now wishes to become like you? Anyone reading this study can have the same experience if you desire! Often someone will say, “Well, I just don’t believe the Bible is true.” Ask them to name a specific reference, and then help them work through the evidence. Google. Get extra help. But do whatever you can to show others that Jesus is alive, sitting at the right hand of God the Father, waiting to come back for His children. Let that be the ending after you have told your story: that they not wait too long!

Dr. Strobel: Believe+Receive=Become

Outsiders: Pilate
April 9, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Few things can probably get on our “last nerve” as quickly as someone’s child whining until they get their way—and it may even be ours! Can you think of an example, and why do you think it is so irritating?

This week we look at the third of four characters who were affected by the events that took place the week before the crucifixion, and their reaction to Jesus Christ. Pilate, the governor of Judea, had to listen to the Jews as they relentlessly sought his approval to put Jesus to death. Though Pilate gives in under pressure, he could have made a different choice.

Focal Passages: John 18:28-40; John 19:1-16.

Discuss:

Complacency

1. Throughout the focal passages, you read of Jesus being brought before Pilate; what did Pilate keep repeating that seemed to indicate he wanted to avoid making the decision to kill Jesus?
2. Last week we saw that the religious leaders were concerned their positions of authority would be lost if He continued to draw followers. What did Pilate have to lose?
3. How like parents who finally cave in from a child’s continual whining was Pilate as the crowd continued to cry out for Jesus’ death? Why did he do this?

Confusion

4. Read verses 33-38. These verses serve to build a judgment against Pilate. How? He was confused, and kept asking questions, but did not seem to understand he was hearing truth as Jesus answered each question. Do you ever run from the truth of something because you are confused?
5. Pilate heard Truth from Jesus in these verses. If he had had any genuine interest, what options did he have as governor that he could have exercised at this time?

Compromise

6. Read 19:6b-8 and 15b-16. Pilate knew there was nothing that warranted Jesus dying, yet he finally gave in. He looked for ways to avoid responsibility for His death, but how did God see his actions (verse 11)?
7. Read verses 7 and 8 again, and Matt. 27:19. Why do you think Pilate was afraid after hearing these two statements?
8. We can all see ourselves in the actions of Pilate, as we look at our own life when in a situation we don’t want to get involved in. Can anyone share as we close?

Close:

One can’t help but feel some empathy for Pilate as he was placed in the situation where he was asked to give the order to crucify a Man he felt was innocent. And yet in the end—just like parents whose children don’t give up—he folded when the Jews played their Ace, that Caesar was their only king (19:12). He knew if Caesar heard of the turmoil, his reign could be ended. Pilate, if anything, was a politician, hired by Rome to keep peace in the region of Judea. Now, with Jesus, he had to choose between doing the right thing, or giving in to the anarchists who wanted Jesus killed. Pilate heard Jesus’ answers, was told He called Himself the Son of God (19:7,8), and was afraid. He, like so many today, had received the truth and hit a “Y” in his life when a choice could be made to learn more of Jesus, or take the world. How often do you find yourself taking the easy way out, because you have become too comfortable with the world or don’t want to deal with the continual yelling? Pilate didn’t want to deal with this problem and shake up his world! He seemed to think “washing his hands” would eliminate his responsibility. When we pass on an obligation that we know must be made, what do we call that? Passing the buck? Don’t pass the buck on making a decision that will determine your eternal destiny: if you have heard of Jesus but side-stepped the issue, make your choice and leave the world behind. His Truth could have set Pilate free (John 8:32)!

Memory Verse: John 18:37b: “…for this cause I was born, and for this cause I have come into the world, that I should bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth hears My voice.”

Outsiders: Jesus at the Center
March 26, 2017
Charles Billingsley

Open:

Sometimes we can attend a function, meeting, or study that is really important, but sit there feeling very disconnected from the group for any of a number of reasons. Can you think of an example?

This week we begin a new series, looking for four weeks at people who were part of the crucifixion of Jesus, but did not recognize His deity, and yet were touched by His grace. Whether their heart was changed, we will not know until eternity. Is it possible we—or someone we know—could hear the story of Christ week after week, be touched by His power, but never open our hearts to Him? Let’s look at the story.

Focal Passage: John 18:1-11

Further Passages: John 10:17-18, Luke 22:49-51, 52,53; Matt. 26:53,54; Rom. 8:38, 39.

Discuss:

The Power of Jesus is Undeniable

1. Someone read John 1:3 and Rom. 1:20. What is said of Jesus? In Romans, what gives evidence of a Creator? How would you describe His power?
2. Read John 18:1-7. When Jesus said “I AM HE,” what was the significance of the words? We think of people falling backwards; consider if the soldiers fell forward, or their legs gave out: what would be their posture? What Scripture would have been fulfilled in the lives of the men who fell?

The Love of Jesus is Unconditional

3. Read verses 8-9. Who was Jesus concerned for as the guards came to arrest Him?
4. Read Col. 2:13,14. What kind of love would cause someone to die for persons so vile as to be “dead” in their sins?
5. Read Rom. 8:38, 39. How would you describe unconditional love? Do you struggle with loving like that (think—don’t answer aloud unless you desire)?

The Grace of Jesus is Indescribable

6. Read verse 10. What was significant about Malchus’ position in Jewish hierarchy? What was Peter’s intent (probably)?
7. Read verse 11. Who can tell what happened next (from Luke 22:51)? Why was Malchus not “deserving” of the grace of Jesus?
8. When you reflect for a moment, how many people owe you something—perhaps money? Does it bother you? How does that compare with the grace you received from God?

Close:

There are not enough words for us to describe the power of God, with our finite minds and vocabulary. How can we comprehend a universe where the stars alone exceed a number over 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000—and He knows them all by name? Such power is indescribable. The creation (Rom. 1:20) alone testifies to all men that there is a Creator. When Jesus answered, “I am He,” He was using the words God used for His Name: the great I AM. It’s scary to think that perhaps we’ve become so used to going to church, talking about the Lord, singing, praying and even praising Him, that He no longer is held in such high esteem that we, like Isaiah, would cry out, “Woe is me!” To be the recipient of the kind of love available to men by calling on His name is unfathomable. To have Him remove your vilest sins, casting them as far as the east is from the west, is incomprehensible, and yet we get upset when He does not answer our prayers, or give us what we want. Our knowledge is a drop in a bucket and His is as limitless as possible, and yet we often treat Him like a servant, or a genie in a lamp. We all need to fall to our knees and cry “Holy, Holy, Holy, is the Lord God Almighty!” Won’t you take the message of salvation you’ve been given and tell those whose hearts need to be changed by His love that it is available to them? It matters so much!

Memory Verse: John 3:17: “For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.”

Thoughts to Take Away:

• (Verse 3): The soldiers came with “lanterns and torches” against the Light of the World;
• They came with weapons against the Prince of Peace;
• (Verses 4-8): Jesus was in Total Control: He knew all things; He went forward; He took the initiative; His words took them to the ground in response to His majesty; He told them what to do;
• Nothing can stop the will of God;
• We are protected by His love; we are perfected by His love;
• As trials come, will we flee or fight?

Quote: “For evil to flourish, it requires only for good men to do nothing.” Edmund Burke.

Storytellers: “Story Takers”
March 12, 2017
Matt Willmington

Open:
What exciting story or piece of information (ball game, book, movie, etc.) did you share with someone this week? Did you think to examine why you did this?
Last week we looked at one of the stories in the New Testament, applying principles to help us share the story of our salvation with people we meet. Today we are going to look at exactly what that story should look like, and where we can share it.

Focal Passage: Matthew 9:1-13, Mark 2:1-17

Discuss:
What Is the Story?
1. There are usually both “bad” parts and “good” parts in any story.
a. What is the best part of God’s story? (John 3:16) He loves us!
b. What is bad about our story? (Rom. 3:10, 23) We deserve punishment.
c. What did God do for us? (1 Pet. 3:18) Jesus paid it all!
d. What does He give us? (Rom. 10:13, Eph. 2:8, 9) The free gift of salvation.
e. What is God’s promise? (Rom. 8:38,39) Eternal life with Him.

TAKE PEOPLE TO JESUS
2. Read Mark 2:1-12. What were some of the anxieties these four friends had for their paralytic comrade? What was their major concern?
3. Why were they determined to get him to Jesus?
4. Are you so concerned about your friends, that you will take them where they can hear the gospel? If it’s not your responsibility, whose is it?

TAKE JESUS TO PEOPLE
5. Read Matt. 9:9-13 and Luke 5:28-29. What are several reasons that made Jesus’ action of calling Matthew uncommon?
6. What were three immediate responses of Matthew to Jesus’ call? What was courageous about him calling his “IRS” friends?
7. If you knew your story would bring this result so quickly, would you run to tell it to everyone?

TAKE JESUS’ BURDEN
8. Read Matt. 9:35-38. What is your main concern when meeting a friend whom you feel is not saved? What are some things Jesus felt and some things He did?
9. What are some things you can do for unsaved friends?

Action Applications:
1. Only you know if you have been changed by God. If you have, then realize your story is simple:
1) God loves you;
2) You were a sinner who deserved to be punished;
3) Jesus paid your sin debt with His death on the cross;
4) You have been given full pardon for your sins the moment you ask Him to save you;
5) You will spend eternity with Him!

2. Be committed to having a team of friends pray for lost loved ones or those you are burdened for, and work to bring them to where they can hear the gospel; know God wants them to be saved, and praise Him for any opportunity;
3. Invite friends to your home for a meal at a time when other Christians will be there; dig deep to find courage to be hospitable, despite what others may say;
4. Serve those who are in need at every opportunity! Have compassion on the lost, and pray that God will surround those you have a burden for with Godly people.
5. Share your story at every opportunity!

Close:
Our story is unique: it is ours, and no one else will have the same experience. Does it bother you that you can’t think of a time, a moment, or an instance when you became a child of God? Perhaps that was not meant to be your story but someone else’s! Were you changed in some way? Probably. It is hard to get used to witnessing, but recent statistics show that even in one’s home, only about 3% of children and grandchildren know the testimony of their parents. Does that convict you? That would be a great place to begin telling your story! The only thing you will take to heaven are the souls whom you lead to Jesus Christ. Don’t you want those to be your family, friends or your circle of influence? Pray diligently that God would multiply your faith this year, and burden you with two or three that you can pray persistently for, with heartfelt compassion and love. You cannot save them, but you can introduce them to the Savior.

Memory Verse: Matt. 9:38: “Therefore pray the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into His harvest.”

Quote to remember: “Do we own the lostness of our community?”

Overflow: He Is All You Need
February 26, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you could eliminate one item from your life that you think would lower your stress level, what would it be?

For several weeks, we have been looking at Hebrews 12 and 13, trying to identify the “weights” or sins that keep us tied to this world, and which take our focus away from living a full Christian life. This week we want to internalize the wonder that the God who created the universe still stoops to give sinners His grace for redemption and abundant life by being all we need.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 13:20, 21; Romans 12:2

Discuss:

He Is Our Peace

1. Read Hebrews 13:20a. God is called the God of “peace.” What is the greatest peace God offers?  What really comes to your mind when you think of the word “peace”? These early believers were being persecuted for their faith, and were questioning their commitment to Christ. Can you share a time when your faith was challenged to the extent you wanted to quit?
2. Read Jas 1:2, 3 (NAS, if possible). James also was encouraging believers who were having their faith tested. What other types of peace (besides salvation) does God give?

He Is Our Shepherd

3. Read verse 20b and Matthew 9:36. How are people like sheep?
4. What are some qualities of a shepherd? Why is God called your Shepherd (Psa. 23)?

He Is Our Deliverer

5. Read verse 20c. It’s hard for us to identify with a religion of daily sacrifices; for this reason, the NT provides many verses that lay background for the amazing sacrifice of the crucifixion. Why did He want to shed His blood for us?
6. Read Col. 2:13-15 (NAS, if possible). What has He delivered you from?

He Is Our Provider

7. Read verse 21a. What are some of your daily needs? Just so you don’t miss it, what does this section of the verse assure you?
8. What is He equipping you for? Why is that such an important point to grasp?

He Is Our Hope

9. Read verse 21b. What does God wish to produce in you? How will He do this? Read Heb. 6:18, 19. What are some of the areas listed as provisions of God’s hope?

Action Applications:

1. Take the first steps: identify any thing, person, or activity in your life that is replacing God;
2. Be committed to walking away from whatever or whomever you listed in #1;
3. Pray over your commitment every day;
4. Share your burdens with Christians who have your best interests at heart; don’t walk this journey alone!

Close:

We have learned so many things over the past several weeks—things that, when put into practice, will begin to relieve the daily levels of stress that we seem to carry on our backs. Taking those first small steps toward getting freedom from debt, forgiving those against whom we have long-held grudges, discarding habits or companions that pull us down: all these and more begin to give us freedom to live as Christ would have us live, and to do so in His power, with His presence, and with our hand in His! Hopefully you have made the action points for the past several sermons into daily prayer practices, so that you keep making progress. Be sure you pray for those who are fighting battles just as you are, and if possible, meet with them for a time of encouragement.  And soon you will be able to say with Paul, “Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:37-39). Amen!

Memory Verse: Hebrews 13:21: “(May God) make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen.”

Quote: “The only place you cannot fail is when you are in God’s will!”

Overflow: Making Room for Life: Forgiveness, Holiness and Peace
February 12, 2017
 Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

There is probably no one who has not been hurt by the actions of someone else—some very severely, with life-long consequences. Can someone share an example, without using names, and tell how you handled or are handling the situation?

Discouragement is a burden that can suffocate our spirit. Last week we looked at that which we bring on ourselves, and how we could change our perspective. Today we want to look at the discouragement that comes as a response to the someone else’s actions toward us, and choose to take steps to free ourselves from the anger by forgiveness. We want to lay aside the despair, getting our joy and peace back.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 12:14-29

Discuss:

Forgiveness

1. Read verses 14-17. What does the word “work” indicate? What other verbs are in these verses? Who is implied as doing the working and watching?
2. What is the consequence of unforgiveness in 15b? What steps can you take to forgive those who have hurt you?
3. Read Matt. 6:14,15. What is another result of unforgiveness?

Holiness

4. Read 14b. What are some evidences of a “holy life”? What is the consequence of unholiness?
5. Read Eph. 1:13, Heb. 12:15 and 1 Pet. 1:16. What does God expect of us? What is the verb in 14b? Does anyone remember what the Greek word meant?

Peace

6. Read 15a. What are you to strive for? How do you “live peaceably with all men” (Rom. 12:18)?
7. How does this apply to those who have wronged you?

Bitterness

8. Why is it so hard to forgive those who have hurt us (verse 15b)?

A matter of the heart

9. Read verse 28. What has God prepared for us? What does God deserve from us? Why?

Action Applications:

1) Make a list of those whom you need to forgive;

2) Put them in order or longest out-standing, or greatest in hurt;

3) Do whatever is necessary to actively forgive that person; if you no longer know where they are, ask God to bring them to you, or repent and realize you are cleansed;

4) Seek to live a holy life, putting the past behind you;

5) When a new hurt comes along, take care of it immediately.

6) Always keep in mind that, as God has forgiven you, so you should forgive others.

7) Move on with joy!

Close:

As Paul tells us in Romans 17, our sinful nature is at war with our new nature in Christ! It is not natural for us to easily forgive those who hurt us, or worse, hurt our children—it takes “work.” Not forgiving leaves us open to the enemy, giving Satan a foothold in our lives, and we can become bitter, which defiles others. It is imperative that, just as we have been forgiven, so we must forgive those who have sinned against us. It takes prayer and a heart that truly desires a close relationship with God to live in peace with all men. As you saw in the opening verses of this passage, the Christian life is not passive but active; it is not easy, it is “work!” It is not natural, it is Godly, and comes from a yearning to be holy. Pray for those on your action list, that they would be saved, coming to a right relationship with God. The more you pray for them, the more you will find love growing in your heart, and a desire to see them as a Christian brother or sister. Pray for yourself, as well, that you will be the example that others can point to as a follower of Jesus Christ.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:14: “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord.”

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A New Heart For A New Church
January 8, 201
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Retirement: it conjures up many different expectations, depending on the age of the person thinking about it. Yet when it arrives, some thrive on such a busy schedule. They wonder how they had time to work. Others sit in their recliner and vegetate, comfortable and without ambition! How do (or how did) you envision that period of your life?

Last week we began the new year by examining our individual lives as Christians, to be certain we are walking as Christ would have us to. This week we are going to focus on the church we attend—or the one you attend—to see that it is adhering to the standards which Christ set forth for His church. We will look at two of those listed in Revelation to see the progression from “losing one’s first love,” to one where the members have become comfortable and complacent within the church.

Focal Passages: Revelation 2:1-7, 3:14-22.

Discuss:

Doing the good things doesn’t always equal doing the right things.

1. Read Rev. 2:2,3. What were some of the good things the church in Ephesus was doing? Do you see these things being done in churches today?
2. What was wrong with the busyness of this church? When the church was originally organized, what was its heartbeat?

The right things always spring from the heart.

3. Read Rev. 2:4. What was the main problem Jesus had with this church? Someone read Matt. 28:19-20 and Mark 12:29-31. What are the “marching orders” Christ gave to the Christian as well as to the church?
4. Whose duty is it to evangelize? Was this listed as happening in the Ephesian church?
5. Read Rev. 2:5. What were they told to do?

Lacking the right thing will always turn your heart the wrong way.

6. Read Rev. 3:15, 17. What was the mindset of the members of the church in verse 17? How is that like many people in today’s churches?
7. What value to Christ is a church like this? You can probably think of churches that don’t want to bring in new people who will disrupt the routine. How is this an example of a lukewarm church?
8. What happens to the hearts of these comfortable Christians? Does this sound like those in retirement who decide to get settled in with no goal?

Make the right thing the main thing.

9. Read vs. 20. What is God giving this church at Laodicea? How many times has He given you a second chance?
10. What is our priority as Christians (back to question 3)? Why did God create us?

Close:

Were any of the issues dealt with in these two churches something that you are familiar with, in your life or a previous (or current) church? We must look at the Gospel as a whole to realize our first priority in our walk with Jesus Christ is to bring those to Him who do not know Him. We are not fulfilling the commandment to love Him and love our neighbor if we are not concerned about their eternal life. If we love them as much as we love ourselves, we won’t want to see them go to hell. Many—despite how impossible it seems—of our neighbors have never heard the gospel. Pray for opportunities to share your story this year. That’s all you have to do: just tell someone what God has done for you, and what He did for them when He came to this earth. It could be the most wonderful thing they’ve ever been told!

Memory Verse: Ephesians 4:30: “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”

Focal Passages: Revelation 2:1-7, 3:14-22.

Think On: Rev. 2:5: 1) Reflect  2) Repent  3) Restart

Self on the Shelf: The Christmas Calling
December 18, 2016
Matt Willmington

Open:

If you have lived very long, you have seen the word “calling” mean many different actions. Give as many examples as you can think of!

During this Christmas season, we have attempted to take the focus off ourselves and put it on the true message of Christmas. It is the time of year when we reflect most on the action of Jesus the King, leaving heaven, to enter the world as a baby, born of a virgin. We began this series studying the birth of another baby three months earlier, that of John the Baptist, who was the one chosen to announce the coming of the Messiah.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:57-80

 Discuss:

Answer God’s Call

1. Can someone summarize the events that took place when Zacharias and Elizabeth learned they would be parents?
2. Read Isaiah 40:3. What had been prophesied of John, about 700 years before his birth?
3. When he was born (verses 67-75), what did his father say of him in verses 76-79?
4. Have you ever felt that God was moving in your life, so that you could respond in a particular situation?

Announce Jesus

5. What was John’s “calling?” How did this fulfill God’s reason for him to be born at this time in history?
6. Was his childhood very different than that of Jesus (verse 80 compared to Luke 2:40, 52)?
7. In Matthew 28:19-20, how does John’s calling differ from yours?

Accept His Timing

8. Go in your mind to the years when Zacharias and Elizabeth were of child-bearing age; what if John had been born then? About how long would it have been before Jesus would be born?
9. What do you find yourself doing when God’s timing is not yours? Do you usually take over, or patiently wait for Him to act?
10. What season are you in now—a waiting period, or is everything going well?

Close:

It is a magnificent lesson to all of us to reflect on the high calling of John the Baptist. In Esther 4:14, it is pointed out that she was raised up for the time that she would be needed to save her people from annihilation. John was born at a time in history in order to fulfill prophecy that he would be the one who would announce that the Messiah had come to Israel. But think of his parents: they had prayed long and hard—for many years—for a child, and still Elizabeth remained barren. Did they think God had forgotten them? They kept their faith, but sorrow still had to have been present in her heart. Yet had she been able to see her role from God’s perspective, she would have realized she was going to bear the forerunner to Jesus Christ, and that joy would have taken away all her pain! Perhaps when we have prayers that are not answered in a timely manner, we need to read this passage, asking God for the patience and trust to believe He is working out purposes that are so far beyond our ability to grasp, and have faith that He is arranging everything for the good of those we love. Pray for the insight to have a great confidence in Him who created you! And realize that, like John, you have been called to announce to your world the good news of Jesus Christ. What a mighty message you have!

Memory Verse: Luke 1:76: “And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Highest; for you will go before the face of the Lord to prepare His ways.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:57-80, Isaiah 40:3, Malachi 3:1 and 4:5.

Self on the Shelf: A Reason for Hope
December 4, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

If you could ask for one thing for Christmas, and you knew you would get it, what would it be? (After answers): How many of these were material desires?

This week we continue to fill our hearts and minds with the right perspective of the Christmas season, remembering the miracle of Christ’s birth as He left His glory as the Sovereign God of the universe to come to this earth as a baby. His birth provides us with salvation through the greatest story ever told. We will focus today on Mary’s role in His coming, and the hope that His life can give us.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:26-45; Isaiah 9:6,7

 Discuss:

Christmas is a Reminder that Christ Reigns

1. Christianity is different from all other religions. What are the reasons given in Luke 1:32 and 33?
2. Many prophecies were given foretelling the coming of a Messiah who would reign for eternity. Read Isaiah 9:6,7. How does this impact how you live today?

Christmas is a Reminder of His Power

3. Jesus did not leave His power in heaven when He came to earth, but was fully God, and fully man. What was His first miracle?
4. What are some reasons that Mary and Joseph never doubted that Jesus is the Son of God?
5. What does verse 37 tell you? What does “nothing” mean? What is a “nothing” in your life that you feel it is impossible for Him to fix? (How much do you pray about it?)

Christmas is a Reminder of God’s Plan

6. In verses 38 and 45, why does scripture say that Mary was blessed?
7. Can anyone list a promise that God has given in His word? Do you believe them? As you can see, belief brings blessings!
8. What is the promise for you in Jeremiah 29:11? How do your actions show that you believe that?

Close:

The Christmas season reveals our hearts like no other time of the year. It is easy for our thoughts to be centered on decorations, cards, and gifts, but we need to lay open our desires, and look at them through the eyes of God: do we have a “give me” attitude, or are we examining our lives to see that we are fulfilling the purpose He had for us when He gave us the free gift of salvation? Do we allow Him to always reign supreme, believing His promises and not doubting His ability to handle anything that happens to us? Are we using this time to bless others as He has blessed us? Talk for a few minutes before prayer about the multitude of opportunities that exist to give of yourself to your neighbors and your community (or even your world). Be aware that even in the church body Christmas can be a time of sorrow for those who are alone, or have lost a loved one, and ministry occasions abound, in turn, possibly opening doors for us to tell the “greatest story ever told” to a lost and dying world. Above all, pray that your walk with Christ is deeper than it was last year at this time.

Memory Verse: Isaiah 9:6: “For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulders. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:26-45, Isaiah 9:6-7.

Some of God’s Promises:

“For He Himself has said, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’” Heb. 13:5b
“And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” Acts 2:21                 “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” James 1:5
“Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him.” James 1:12
“And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” Rev. 21:4.

Being Thankful
November 21st, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Although (hopefully) we evidence a spirit of gratitude for things done for us all year, at Thanksgiving we intentionally take time to be thankful for our many blessings. What are some things that you are especially thankful for this year?

David, a man after God’s own heart, filled his life composing beautiful Psalms of praise in gratefulness to God for His care. Remember that many of David’s praises were written when he was pursued by enemies, running for his life, or in a situation that would make praise difficult. Yet today we will look at Psalm 100 and see what we can learn as we fill our hearts with our own praise and thankfulness to God, even if we are in the midst of hard times.

Focal Passage: Psalm 100:1-5

Think About or Discuss:

We Serve Him

1. Can you name anyone you enjoy serving? What is it about your helping them that brings you a feeling of delight?
2. David wrote that you should serve God with gladness! What would that look like for you? Read Matthew 25:40. How can you serve someone today that will bring a bit of pleasure to their life?

He is Our Creator and Sustainer

3. When you discussed or wrote down an answer in the Ice Breaker, according to verse 3 what should one of the answers have been?
4. Which do you stand on when you are trusting yourself to God’s care: your feelings, or the promises He has given you? Give or write down some examples.

We Can Stand in His Presence

5. When is the last time you prayed, without distractions, and then remained quiet so you could hear Him if He answered? How often are you quiet in His presence?
6. Read John 10:29. What promise is in this verse? How do you know it’s true?
7. Can you remember the freedom you felt as a child to run into your mom or dad’s arms (or someone you loved) whenever you needed comfort? How do you relate that to your feelings about your heavenly Father?

He Has Shown Us Mercy

8. What does mercy mean to you? How does God show that to you?
9. Read Heb. 4:16b; what is the promise in this verse? Why is it not accurate to trust your feelings?

His Truth Will Never End

10. How long will His truth endure? How many chances will He give you to come running back to Him? Isn’t this something wonderful to share with those who are hopeless?

Close:

Focusing on total praise to God during this Thanksgiving season begins, not with family, your salvation, your children, or material blessings, but with those things He gives us so freely that we take for granted: He knit your life in your mother’s womb, and brought you forth; as soon as you hit the world, air was supplied to you; food and water were given, without which you would not have grown. When you became aware of Him and His great love for you, you could make the decision to turn from your sin to Him, and begin a new life. So many foundation stones were built upon to bring you here to this place where you can worship Him! As you continue through this week, dwell on the wonderful gifts He has given you freely to enjoy. If you meet someone who needs to be thankful, gently point out how much you value the loving Savior and Creator who gave you life.

Memory Verse: Psalm 100:1-5: “Make a joyful shout to the Lord, all you lands! Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing. Know that the Lord, He is God; it is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people and the sheep of His pasture. Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him and bless His name. For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations.”

Focal Passages: Psalm 100; Heb. 4:6.

The Barrick Family
with Pastor Jonathan Falwell
November 6, 2016

Open:

Most of us would like to achieve a high goal of some type, or perhaps we have wished to do so at some point in our life, but feel it’s too late. Do you have an example you can share?

Today we are taking time to celebrate the ten-year anniversary of a family from the church who survived one of the worst car wrecks ever seen. A YouTube link is below, so that you can see the wreck as it unfolded in November, 2006. Out of it, God has brought thousands of people to Himself!

Jen’s story, video (appx. 5 mins.): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=00pWA7mYW-A

Focal Passage: Isaiah 6:1-8

Discuss:

You

1. Have you ever asked God to use you? If so, can you share with the group?
2. Do you remember what was in your mind at the time? Did you dream of an easy life, where you shared the gospel with willing people?

Others

3. Who were some of the characters in the Old or New Testaments who suffered greatly, only to be used of God in a mighty way?
4. What do you think the Barrick family would have said had you told them a horrific accident and a terrible brain injury would be needed to mold them into a family that God would use world-wide?

Forgiveness

5. Why is forgiveness so important? Is there anyone you need to forgive (answer in the silence of your heart)? Could they have hurt you more than the drunk driver injured the Barrick family?

Take-away

6. Can you honestly say that you would have written, as Jennifer did when she was fifteen years old, “God, do whatever You have to do to use me to further Your kingdom, and give me boldness?” Explain your answer.
7. What is one statement made by any of the family in Sunday’s sermon time that you took away with you?
8. Share whether you can state, “Yes, Lord, whatever You need to do for me to be a witness, I will accept Your plan?”

Close:

It is so easy to almost be envious of the influence, the huge crowds, and the immense number of people that are responding to the Gospel given by the Barrick family as they witness of God’s grace, mercy, and miraculous healing. And yet in the “wish that were me leading so many people to the Lord” mentality, few of us would be willing to go through the years of trauma that they have endured because of one man’s choice to drink and drive. Yes, God could have stopped him. Yes, God could have done anything to keep this family safe. But God was looking at the big picture, the souls they would be leading into the kingdom, and the joy they are experiencing in knowing the suffering has been so worth it! And it is not over. If you know this family, you know Jen still suffers from short-term memory loss, and you travel in your mind to a time when Linda and Andy, the parents, grow too old to care for her. Will she be healed by then? Meanwhile, they still deal with the after-effects of the cancer Jen has experienced, and, although not mentioned, Andy himself has suffered cancer. God has a special love for this family. Pray for their safety, their protection, and their strength as they travel week after week, pouring out the message of hope and healing to a hurting world. And examine your own heart to see if you can honestly say, “Lord, not my will, but Thine be done!” And as Isaiah said in the passage above, “Here am I, Lord, send me!” Can you say that?

Memory Verse: Psalm 73:28: “But it is good for me to draw near to God; I have put my trust in the Lord GOD, that I may declare all Your works.”

Unfinished: How to Finish Well
October 23, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Completing a task can often be a tremendous challenge, and the satisfaction of having had the discipline to do so is very rewarding. Do you have an example you can share?

We are concluding the series, “Unfinished,” as we have studied Paul’s final words of encouragement to Timothy, as well as future believers. He gives instructions on faithfully continuing the work he had begun, after his death. Let’s examine our own discipline in enduring through challenges that may come into our lives as we carry on God’s work.

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 4:6-22

Discuss:

Walk Worthy

1. What was Paul saying in verse 7? When did Paul’s call to be an apostle begin? Is that when his “race” began?
2. Read Philippians 3:13,14. How was Paul able to lay aside the life he had lived before Jesus met him on the road to Damascus? What should that teach us?

Look Up

3. Considering his coming execution, where was his focus, addressed in verse 8?
4. Paul not only kept his own mind always on pleasing Jesus Christ, but says others who love Him will also be rewarded on “that Day.” Whom did he refer to?
5. Why is it so easy for the culture to drag a believer down? Where must you constantly have your heart centered?

Stand Strong, Even If You Must Stand Alone

6. Why did Paul mention the individuals in verses 10 and 11? What warning is this to you?

Forgive Often

7. What type of spirit did Paul show in verse 16b? Who does this remind you of?
8. Who suffers the most from a spirit of unforgiveness? Can you share an example?

Never Quit

9. In verse 17-18a, Paul stated how he was finishing strong. What enabled him?
10. As he pens his last words, where again was his focus? How was he able to overcome the events that were almost upon him? Could you?

Close:

Paul’s execution was at hand. He wanted to be certain that Timothy understood that the only thing that mattered was keeping on with the task God had given until the call came to go to his heavenly home. Paul was in effect saying, “I’ve done the best I could since Jesus saved me, and have constantly looked to Him to give me strength through trials. Now I trust Him to get me through this last suffering so that I may receive the crown of righteousness.” That is the goal for all of us. No matter what has happened before today, we can make a commitment that “today is the first day of the rest of our lives,” and we can strive to say, as Paul did, that we have kept the faith, and finished the race. Pray for each other fervently that we all would fix our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of our faith!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 4:18: “And the Lord will deliver me from every evil work and preserve me for His heavenly kingdom. To Him be glory forever and ever. Amen!”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 4:6-22; 1 John 1:9