Group Notes | July 26

Best Supporting Actor: Malachi
July 26, 2015
Pastor Doug Randlett

Open:

“Familiarity breeds contempt” is an old saying that has stood the test of being true more often than not. Can you list examples where you have lost the emotion of wonder that you experienced when a situation or relationship was at its beginning?

This week we continue to look at Biblical characters who had minor roles in the Scripture, but whose lives are as significant today as thousands of years ago. Malachi, the prophet, had such a life at a time when the Jews had been back in Israel, gotten comfortable and were apathetic toward God.

Discuss:

Going Through the Motions:

1. Before looking into Malachi, can you list some of the parallels between the history of the Jewish nation and the world as you know it in the 2000’s?

2. All the prophets from Samuel to Daniel had died. What was the condition of the hearts of the people? How does that compare to today’s churches?
God’s Love Shown:

3. Read Malachi 1:1-5. God declared His love. What was the people’s response? Can you give an example of doubting God’s love for you?

4. Did the people repent when God declared His love? What about today? Can you give an example?
God’s Love Scorned:

5. From Malachi 1:6 to 3:18 God lists the sins of Israel, and calls them to repent. He warned them a “wake-up call” would be coming. List some of the wake-up calls that our nation or world is experiencing.

6. Not only the ordinary people but also the priests (today’s preachers) were in deep or incredible sin. How did Israel differ from what you know is happening in churches today? Think of some examples.

7. Read Revelation 16:9 and 11. Were God’s warnings heeded?

God’s Love Shown Again:

8. Read Malachi 4:1-6. What was—and is—God’s final word, both to Israel and for today? Do you believe it? Give an illustration.

Lessons to Take Away:

Jesus loves you. He declares it to be so, and He does not lie.
He deserves your best, not leftovers from your time or your money.
He will never quit on you.
He wants you to be in awe of Him, not lukewarm.

Close:

As you go into small group time, consider the apathy of the people of Israel, and examine your own heart. Do you plan to get to your devotions, or prayer, or pay your tithe, but end up giving Him leftovers of your heart or your money? Read the four short chapters of Malachi this week, and let God’s warnings soak into your soul. As your group prays, let His words convict if you need it, but like Israel, if He convicts, then heed His warning. As you leave, be on fire in your spirit to do His will, treat Him with holiness, and love Him with abandonment!

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Group Notes | July 19

Best Supporting Actor
July 19, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

No matter what your station in life is, the responsibility to confront someone who is in the wrong is probably a difficult task. Can someone share a time when you had to confront a person about their actions?

This week we continue the series “Best Supporting Actor,” focusing on biblical characters, who, though having a small part in Scripture, have lessons with deep and lasting implications. Today we look at the prophet Nathan as he confronts King David.

Discuss:

Nathan’s Point:

Hypocrisy

1. Read 2 Samuel 12:1-6. Certainly Nathan knew his confrontation with David could have disastrous results. What are some of the consequences possible when confronting someone who is in the wrong?

2. As Christians, we, like David, are in the public eye. What are some common sins in the church that cause the world to label us as “hypocrites”?
Take a Look In the Mirror

3. Read verses 7, 8. God used Nathan to point out David’s sin. How is it possible to be immune to or rationalize sin in your life?

4. What are some reasons it is always easier to be upset over the sins of others than over your own? Read Romans 2:1.

Call To Repentance

5. Read verse 9. Nathan was called to awaken David’s conscience, but is any sin hidden from God? (Read Psalm 69:5). Who is it hurting?

Fear

6. Read verses 10-12 for God’s perspective. These are not consequences, but punishments. What is the difference?
Genuine Repentance

7. How does David respond in verse 13? What is God’s immediate response?

8. Who can quote 1 John 1:9, and apply it to all of us?

The Ugly Truth

9. Sin, no matter how private or public, is like a cancer. Read verse 14a for the consequences of David’s actions. Do you or someone you know have a sin that can potentially destroy your effectiveness as a believer (do not answer aloud)?

Close:

As we go into small group time, consider the ramifications of David’s sin, which destroyed two families and impacted the lives of his children. Yet sin within the church can equally destroy its effectiveness. Hypocrisy in the church will end only when Christians model holiness in a right relationship with God, genuinely repenting instantly when sin arises, and then putting it behind you and getting on with life, trying to “sin no more.” Pray God would grant you a renewed desire for holiness and a constant awareness that any sin has effects beyond yourself.

Memory Verse: 2 Samuel 12:9a: “Why have you despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in His sight?”

Further Study at Home: Take a few moments to read Psalm 51, written after David’s repentance. Consider also the life of Joseph, who, when he was the focus of someone’s temptation, ran. How different would David’s life have been if Bathsheba had “run” when King David summoned her?

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Group Notes | July 12

Best Supporting Actor
July 12, 2015
Matt Willmington

Open:

We are all moved when we read stories of heroes who do something that benefits the life of one or more people, many times not knowing those involved. Have you ever had an experience of being able to rescue someone who was in peril?

As we continue the series “Best Supporting Actor,” today we will focus on someone who was used by God to save her people from being annihilated. Most people are even unaware of her given name, “Haddaseh,” but God has recorded Esther’s story for us.

Discuss:

Graciousness:

1. Read Esther 2:7, 8 to get a clear picture of Esther’s circumstances. List some of the obstacles she had had in her life. Can you relate?

2. Read 2:9. Esther had no control over her life, yet she evidenced what quality? Can you share how you normally react when you lose control of your circumstances?
Submission:

3. Can someone give a short synopsis of Esther’s story as it unfolds, as Mordecai explains to her what is going to happen to the Jews?

4. Will someone share if you have ever been asked to do something that could help someone else, but at a risk to your own well-being?
Sacrifice:

5. Read 4:16. What is Esther’s response to Mordecai’s instructions?

6. How much would you sacrifice to do God’s will? Think about the suffering church around the world for a moment.
Burden:

7. Read Esther 8:3. What was her burden? Can you honestly say you have a burden for anyone in your “world”?
Dependence:

8. What else was Esther willing to do? What other word is almost always coupled with fasting? Upon whom was Esther depending?

9. How did God honor her godly character? Will He not honor you as well when you evidence these traits?

Close:

Esther’s life provides a true role model for you as you go about your daily life. As you break into small groups think deeply about her qualities. Discuss which one is strongest in your life. Which one(s) do you need to beseech God to help you intensify? Continually pray that God will find you a vessel fit and able to do His work to bring someone in your world (family, neighborhood, community) to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ before it is too late. Never forget that even though you don’t see Him with physical eyes, His hand is always upon you.

Memory Verse: Esther 4:14b: “Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | July 5

Best Supporting Actor
July 5, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Only a person of unbelievable character can endure a long-term relationship with someone who wickedly abuses the moral values and standards that he/she holds dear. Can you think of an example?
Today we begin a new series, focusing on lesser-known Bible characters who have had a major impact on history. There is much to learn as we look closely at the life of Manasseh, who was the king of Judah, and led God’s people to become worse than the pagans in the Promised Land.

Discuss:

God Is Patient

1. Read 2 Chron. 33:1-9. Undoubtedly you have known some young person who, when they hit puberty, began a lifestyle of rebellion and depravity. What were your inward thoughts about this person’s future?

2. How does this remind you of the voices that are being heard across the world today?

3. Read verses 10, 11. Judah’s downward spiral took decades. Where was God during this period of rebellion, and what did He eventually do?

God Will Not Be Mocked

4. Manasseh had done everything in his power to rid Judah of the influence of his father’s God, Jehovah. How is this a parallel to the depravity we see going on all over today’s world?

5. A sinful lifestyle will only be tolerated by God for a certain period of time. Can you think of other examples, perhaps even from your own experience?

God Is Faithful

6. Read verses 12 and 13. What is the key word in verse 12? What hope does this give anyone for restoration after a time of sinning?

7. What is God’s greatest desire when we have moved away from His love?

God Is Worthy To Be Praised

8. Read verse 14a. What did Manasseh do when he returned to Judah?

9. Is there a time in your own life when you backslid, and came back to God? What did you do?

Close:

As you move into small group time, take a moment of honest self-examination to see if a sinful habit may be causing you to rebel against God—in any form. There are only two things the Lord desires of you: sincere repentance and prayer, which will be evident by a changed life. Be open with each other if you need to be brought back to God in some area of your life; if you can’t name the sin, ask God to help you overcome it before He has reached His limit of time. Close in prayer that He would protect you with a constant nearness and never, ever, give up on anyone who seems beyond the reach of God’s saving grace!
Memory Verse: 2 Chronicles 7:15: “Now My eyes will be open and My ears attentive to prayer made in this place.” (NKJV)

Home Study: Read the rest of 2 Chronicles 33 to see how Manasseh’s early years of wickedness taught his son, Amon, to be even more depraved than he had been. His years after returning from Babylon were not enough to stem the tide of evil in the life of his son. Read 2 Chronicles 34 and 35, however, to see that the short years he had with his grandson, Josiah, were such that Josiah was one of the godliest kings to rule in Judah—a great encouragement to any grandparent!

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Group Notes | June 28

Reaching the Next Generation
June 28, 2015
Dr. Ed Hindson

Open:
Every generation faces challenges in regard to issues of moral values. If you have children or grandchildren, what are some of the concerns you feel they will face in the coming few years?

Today we are going to turn our focus to the importance of passing the baton of faith on to the next generation. The Biblical accounts of Elijah and Elisha illustrate how important it is that we give them a strong spiritual foundation, so they can face the trials of our broken culture with courage, the voice of God, and the certainty that the Bible is the moral absolute that holds the answers for the questions of the world.

Discuss:
Contrasting Elijah and Elisha

1. Read 1 Kings 17:1 and 18:41. Elijah (“Jehovah is my God”) lived in a time when he saw his country turning away from God. Where did he get the faith for his predictions? (Read James 5:17). Do you have this type of faith?

2. After Elijah raised the widow’s son and killed the 450 prophets of Baal, Jezebel threatened his life. What did he do, and where was his focus?

3. When you encounter problems that paralyze you, do you find yourself running from them, or looking to God for help? How can you listen for His voice?
Confrontation

4. Read 1 Kings 19:9. God spoke to Elijah, giving him specific instructions to carry out. Has He given believers detailed commands? What are they?

5. Elijah was told to anoint a successor, which was Elisha (“God is salvation”). (Read 1 Kings 19:19, 20 if you need to). How is our next generation like Elisha?
Commission: Change the World

6. Go back and read 1 Kings 19:15-18. Did God expect Elijah to do impossible tasks? Does He ask more of you than you can do?

7. Read Romans 4:20-22. What does this verse tell you about your ability to carry out the orders God gives individually?

8. What are some ways we can train the next generation to succeed us?

Close:
Call: Pick up the Mantle
As you break into your small group time, think over the lessons that have been given through these two prophets: 1) God never loses control of a situation; 2) listen for God’s voice in the midst of problems; and 3) be aware of all opportunities to train the next generation. Pray that God will open your eyes to the people who are looking for answers to the emptiness inside them. Call the church and ask if there are people you can minister to. There is always someone who knows less than you, and you can disciple one-on-one. Seize those teachable moments before they slip away!

Memory Verse: Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” (NKJV

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Group Notes | June 21

Greater Things: The Power of the Local Church
June 21, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Looking back—or looking forward—can possibly be mind-blowing. If you had been able, perhaps ten, twenty or more years ago, to see just one snapshot of your present family or daily activity, what would go through your mind? Would you recognize the situation?

We have been concentrating on the words of Jesus that we would do greater works than He did. Today we are going to celebrate the beginning of the 60th year of our church, realizing that a current snapshot of Thomas Road Baptist Church and Liberty University would have caused Dr. Jerry Falwell, in 1957, to fall on his knees and cry “Holy, Holy, Holy is the Son of God!”

Discus:

Power of the Local Church

1. Refresh your mind with the words in John 14:12, 13. The promises of Jesus were incredible, yet we are seeing them come to pass through our local church. What are some of them?

2. Read Acts 5:42. Why did God honor His promise to those first believers?
Purpose of the Local Church

3. What are some of the responsibilities of the local church?

4. What are some possibilities for our church if we continue faithful?

5. Have someone read Genesis 9:7. What are some other meanings this can have besides just to Adam and Eve?
Promise of the Local Church

6. Read Ephesians 3:20. How have you been part of the “exceedingly abundantly” works in your local church?

7. Think for a moment if you’ve ever had a desire for a certain ministry or responsibility to be active in your church; have you considered that God has given you the thought so that you could act upon it?

8. Read Joshua 4:19-24. How are we today leaving “Stones of Remembrance” for future generations?

Close:

Before breaking up into small groups, have someone read Isaiah 51:1. It is good for you to re-examine your life and see the faithfulness of God. But God has a future, a plan, and purposes for you that are still to come. Not everyone is a visionary as Dr. Falwell was, but everyone can “tell his story” to a lost world. Talk in your group of some things you would like to see come about in the future, and have a time of prayer that through you, your local church can be a beacon of light to the world.

Memory Verse: John 14:13: “And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.”

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Group Notes | June 14

Greater Things: Being A Follower!
June 14, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Beginning a venture with fervor is normal; continuing through obstacles takes work and determination; but ending well? That is the reward of commitment for a winner! Can you think of times when you began well but quit, or when you began, then finished well?

We have been looking at the Greater Things God promised we would do. Last week we examined our hearts for sins that could keep us from doing His will. Today we will focus on the need to be a committed follower, ready to move forward with God beside us!

Discuss:

You Must Be Obedient

1. Read Luke 14:33. What is the difference between being a Christian, and being a disciple?

2. Read John 14:15. What area of our life does this short statement from Christ refer to? How is this analogous to our own children, and the obedience we desire from them?

You Must Know You Are Not Alone

3. Share the occasion when you realized that He cares about every step you take?

4. Read verses 16 and 17. These verses are full of promises of His ever-abiding presence with us. Why, then, is it so difficult to remember we are not alone, especially when we come to those “obstacles” we talked about?

You Must Fully Trust Him

5. Read verse 19. Who is there in your life that you fully trust? Why?

6. When you look back at the faithfulness of God, has He ever failed you?

7. If He has been faithful in the past, what would keep Him from being faithful in the future?

You Must Look For Him

8. Read verse 21. How can we exercise our awareness of His love for us? Oswald Chambers wrote “In the initial stages [of abiding], it will be a continual effort, but as you continue [it will be] without any conscious effort.*

9. Once you begin to notice evidences of His love for you personally, what can you do to make conscious efforts to see Him acting on your behalf?

Close:

As you break into small groups, share one-sentence examples of ways in which God has shown Himself to you in the past week. Soon you will realize He is beside you every moment. The more you become aware of this, the more your relationship with Him will flourish. Pray that He will send you evidences of His great love for you this week! Finish by having someone read Micah 6:6-8.

Memory Verse: John 14:15: “If you love Me, keep My commandments.” (NKJV)
*Oswald Chambers, My Utmost For His Highest, June 14 Reading, www.utmost.org

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Group Notes | June 7

Greater Things: Starts In the Heart
June 7, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most cultures equate the heart as being the essence of our emotions. We say our heart “broke” or it “stopped” at certain situations. What are other common expressions?

Last week we began a series, “Greater Things,” to focus on ways God desires to use us in the future. We learned that prayer is the key to having a life devoted to Him, but prayer that is effective has to come from a pure heart. Today we are going to examine subtle sins of the heart that can keep it from being one wholly devoted to Him.

Discuss:

A Double-Minded Heart Will Never See Greater Works

1. Read James 4:8-10. James refers to being “double-minded.” What did he mean?

2. Jesus often spoke of our bodies as “vessels.” What are the instructions in 8b?

3. What are we to mourn over? Is this the same as Matthew 5:4?

4. Why will sin destroy a Christian, or a church?

A Proud Heart Will Never See Greater Works

5. Read verses 10, and 13-18. What is the main focus of these verses?

6. What are some dangers of pride in one’s heart?

7. What was Satan’s greatest sin? In verse 16, what does God call it?

A Judging Heart Work Never See Greater Works

8. Read verses 11 and 12. What is happening in our heart when we judge the actions of another believer?

9. Matthew 7:1 tells us not to judge each other. What will happen if we do?

Close:

James gets down where you live, desiring that believers live holy, pure lives. Sin in the heart defiles a man, so daily you have to make choices to do right or wrong, fighting a battle between the flesh and the spirit. As we break into small groups, examine your heart for any unforgiven or unrepentant sin, and ask God to expose it; examine your life for pride, and ask Him to expose that as well; and then be honest with yourself as to the habit of judging, and confess it, so you can do “greater works” this week.

Memory Verse: James 4:17: “Therefore, to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin.” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | May 31

Greater Things
May 31, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Many years ago our friends and acquaintances were limited to our church, job, and location. We would never have imagined a world where we could interact with people around the globe, instantly! What are some pros and cons of “social media?”

Today we begin a series on the ‘Greater Things’ Christ said would be done after He had gone back to the Father. Incredible? Yet when we recall the limits of His human travels, we realize we can reach the entire world with the good news of His free salvation.

Discuss:

God’s Authority:

1. Read John 14:1-11. The truths written in the Bible have always been attacked, but never more so than today. What are some of the reasons?

2. What are some of the promises and claims Jesus made in these verses?

3. Why is it necessary to have the firm foundation of belief that Jesus is who He said He is, before we can share the Gospel?
God’s Provision:

4. Read John 14:12. To do ‘greater works’ involves a condition; what is it? Is Jesus speaking of head knowledge, or heart knowledge?

5. Explain how we can do greater works than Jesus did.

6. Give suggestions how you can be doing greater works, as an ordinary person, with an extraordinary God.
God’s Plan:

7. Read verses 13 and 14. How do we ask the Father for anything? What must prayer involve?

8. What attributes of Jesus Christ are recognized when we pray in the name of Jesus? What would happen if you prayed in your name?

Close:

As you break up into small groups, let these verses comfort you, inspire you, and cause you to magnify Jesus Christ for Who He is! He is sitting at the right hand of God the Father, interceding for you, listening to your prayers, and being willing to give you new life. What an awesome God you serve! Consider your prayers this week: do they fall into the categories He has outlined in these verses? P.T. Forsythe once wrote, “The greatest sin is prayerlessness,” and Dr. Jerry Falwell said “Nothing of eternal signfiicance is ever accomplished apart from prayer.” Pray that God would grant you the desire to talk with Him often.

Memory Verse: John 14:12: “Most assuredly I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to the Father.” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | May 24

James 3
May 24, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Horrified at my gaffe of asking a friend who had had a sudden weight gain if she were pregnant, I learned quickly never to make that mistake again! “Slip of the tongue,” “put your foot in your mouth,” and many other sayings recognize how easily we can speak, and then wish we could pull back our words. Can you think of examples when you have been embarrassed, humiliated or began an argument with a thoughtless word?
Today we will look at the wisdom in James 3, building on the principles he lays out throughout this small book that will result in a closer walk with God.

Discuss:

Recognize the Danger in Words:

1. Read James 1:26 and James 3:8. Almost every adult recognizes the power that is in the words we speak. What are some of the dangers of uncontrolled speech? What can be some of the results?

2. Why does God say our words can be like “deadly poison”? Can anyone give an example?

The Problem:

3. Read verse 9. We all know someone who speaks with a “double-tongue.” What is meant by that?

4. What is the result of being someone whose words cannot be trusted?

5. What will be their effectiveness in witnessing?

6. Verses 12 and 16 indicate the problem goes deeper than our tongue. Where does the real trouble lay?

The Solution:

7. Read verse 17. If we realize that we ourselves have a problem with our tongue, what are some steps we should take to see that our words heal, rather than destroy?

8. What are the goals we should strive for in our speech? Elaborate, if you have time.

Close:

As you studied James 3, were you convicted about something you have said which has resulted in hurt or embarrassment to someone? As you break into small groups, discuss which, if any, of those situations need to be reconciled, and which need to be taken to the Father for forgiveness. Share ways to begin to strive to keep your focus on those attributes in verse 17. Perhaps a Life Group at church may help you. Pray God will open the door to heal the hearts of anyone you know who has been hurt by words.

Memory verse: James 3:10 (NKJV): “Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not to be so.”

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Group Notes | May 17

JAMES 1
May 17, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us have the head knowledge to know when we should do right, but sometimes, thinking of the repercussions, we choose to remain silent or do nothing. Can you share a recent time when you did not take an honorable action, and were left with a guilty conscience?
Today and next week we are going to look at the very practical book of James: one which tells us repeatedly how to act in such a manner as to have a life pleasing to God, see our faith grow, and have our Christian walk become much more effective.

Discuss:

1. Read James 1:1-8. James tells it like it is: in this world, we are going to have trials! What should be the result in going through a crisis that tests our faith?

2. How can you know that God does not want you to walk through the trial alone?

3. How do you normally handle a crisis that comes into your life? If you react with impatience or frustration, what happens to your spiritual development?

4. What are some outcomes—both mild and severe—that can occur when you act hastily in your own wisdom, without asking God for “back up”?

5. Read verses 19-21. James gives us a plan of three steps. What are they? They sound simple; can you explain why they might not be easy to carry out?

6. Every couple of days we have to take the garbage out, or the house will stink. How does that compare with the instructions found in verse 21?

7. Read verses 22-24 (in the New Living translation if available). What is the necessary action we must take when we hear or read God’s word? How does that relate to our memory verse?

8. When you look in the mirror before leaving home, what do you do? What kind of life will you have if you know God’s word, but never take steps to let it change you?

Close:

James’ desire for the believers who had spread to other countries for safety was simple: act out your faith, constantly seek God’s wisdom, and do what is right. As you break into small groups, discuss which of today’s verses are the hardest for you to process. Then pray for your own needs to let them change you. Be sure to pray for those of your group, that God would fill all of you with a desire to do His will, serve Him, and be “unstained” by the sins of the world that you encounter each day. Take time this week to read the first chapter of James each day, so that it soaks into your heart!

Memory Verse: James 1:22: “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.”

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Group Notes | May 10

Mother’s Day: Things I’ve Learned From My Mom
May 10, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us, whether old or young, have had a person in our lives who has had a positive impact upon how we live. Can you share wisdom you have received from someone who has loved you unconditionally?

Today we will look at Proverbs 31, and find truths that are fundamental for any of us. These are timeless applications that will make life more fulfilling for us, and for our family.

Discuss:

1. Read Proverbs 31:11. You may have been raised in a home where being “right” was often the cause of disagreements. What type of example are you setting for your family if you always need to be right?

2. Why would others be leery of trusting you if you must always be right? Is “being honest better than being right” a good principle and why?

3. Read verse 13. Those of you who have employees have probably seen a huge shift in work ethics over the past few years. Does anyone have insight into why this has happened?

4. Just doing the minimum will never get us past “ordinary.” Why is that?

5. Read verse 20. It is so much easier to turn a blind eye to the needs of others than reach out to help. What are some reasons we do this? What are some scriptures that indicate this is wrong?

6. Read verse 23. It is said that the only thing we can take to heaven is our children (physical or spiritual). What is meant by that? How can our work schedules drive them away?

7. Read verse 26. If you contrast wisdom, kindness and anger, are there shared qualities in them? Can they all exist in the same heart? Someone read James 3:9-12, and someone read Matthew 15:18 to back up your answers.

8. Read verse 30b. How does this support the first and greatest commandment given by God?

Close:

Perhaps many of us were not fortunate enough to learn that honesty, hard work, serving others, the worth of family, kindness and loving God are the keys to a life filled with God’s blessings. But we can all start today, no matter what baggage we have on our shoulders, to be that person! As you break into small groups, give God the burdens that cause you heartache, and ask Him to re-direct your paths into following in His footsteps. Seek out a Life Group that will encourage you if needed. And always pray for the opportunity to share what God has done for you!

Memory Verse: Proverbs 31:30: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.”

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Group Notes | May 3

He Lives, Do You? Why Are You Here?
May 3, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Feeling incapable of doing a job or serving in a particular capacity occurs when we compare ourselves with others. Can you share a time when you have let an opportunity to help someone pass because you believed yourself unworthy?

We have learned that being filled with Christ’s resurrection power gives our lives purpose and a mission. Yet we shall see today that many Christians live without real meaning to their life, and—feeling they have no worth—they just exist. Let’s see how to change that thinking.

Discuss:

1. Read Matthew 28:18-20. As you listen to the reading, did Jesus question whether the disciples were worthy or able to carry out His instructions?

2. What are the action words He gave? What qualifications did He indicate was needed to do the job? Does this include our generation?

3. Can someone recall Moses’ answers when God told Him to bring Israel out of Egypt? What was his reaction, and what “self-worth” comes across? (Read Ex. 3:10-14, 4:1, 10-14a if you need to).

4. God has extended the Great Commission to us; how are we like Moses?

5. God has asked you to do a specific thing. Are you using your feelings of inadequacy or past failures to shirk this responsibility?

6. God has not asked you to do something impossible; He never calls you to a task without equipping you. Share some hindrances that may be stopping you from obeying God.

7. Read James 4:17. What is James saying to all of us about obedience? If Jesus gave you the charge of sharing your testimony, what is your responsibility?

Close:

When witnessing becomes a “fear factor” remember one rule: just tell your story. Whether you were raised in a Godly home, or came out of a sinful background, God has given you qualities to carry out the purpose He has for you! As you break into small groups, talk about the feelings of inadequacy that you may have that keep you from living a life of genuine obedience. Pray for peace in those areas, and remember that we are never going to be alone, even when we feel the most isolated. Christ has promised that He will be with us every step of the way. Close in prayer, asking God that everyone would have the opportunity this week to share their story with an unbeliever.

Memory Verse: Mark 16:15: “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature.”

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Group Notes | April 26

He Lives! Do You? No Doubt
Pastor Jonathan Falwell
April 26, 2015

Open:

In anger at being told he could not have what he wanted, the child ran from the room, screaming “You don’t love me!” Why do we doubt someone’s love for us when our desires do not get answered the way we wish them to?

Our recent focus has been living life fully, over the top, because Christ is alive. This means we live without fear and with child-like trust in Him. Today we want to grasp the essentials needed to never doubt that He loves us beyond anything we can imagine.

Discuss:

1. Read John 20:24-31. Thomas was absent from his friends when Jesus came, and later did not believe their testimony that they had seen Jesus. Will people always believe your testimony that Jesus is alive? Why?

2. Thomas missed an incredible opportunity to believe that Jesus was alive, without seeing Him. How do you miss out on occasions to be blessed because life distracts you from being aware the living God is with you?

3. Thinking back to the opening, why do we equate getting our desires fulfilled with being loved by God?

4. Who plants the doubt in our heart, and why? Did he not start that way? (Gen. 3:1).

5. Do you isolate yourself when you are dealing with doubt, anger or disappointment, or do you seek to draw close to those who will encourage you—including Jesus? Why does this matter?

6. Read Ephesians 3:17-20. Why is it not possible for faith and doubt to co-exist?

7. What is the importance of “faith” in living a life of joy in Christ?

Close:

Jesus does not desire a life of defeat for you, but of joy, peace, and a mind free from worry. He provides not only His own presence, but godly friends, pastors, life groups and the church so that you can live life “over the top!” As you break into small groups, take each of the areas where Satan wants to beat you down—being distracted from God’s presence, giving in to discouragement, and doubting God’s love for you—and examine your heart to see if you are holding back, like Thomas, rather than “believing even though you don’t see Him.” Pray that God would reveal anything that may be keeping you from living abundantly, and then spread your happiness this week as you go through your days.

Memory Verse: John 20:29: “Jesus said to him, ‘Thomas, because you have seen Me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen, and yet have believed.’”

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Group Notes | April 19

He Lives! Do You? No Fear
Pastor Jonathan Falwell
April 19, 2015

Open:

Running into friends usually presents the automatic question, “How are you?” The answer is usually, “Fine!” The truth is, heavy concerns rob us of joy and peace on every side. What are some that you can think of?

As we have been looking at the resurrection power, we are learning that it is available to give meaning and peace to our lives every day. We can choose to live in fear of worldly pressure or choose to trust Jesus to be with us every moment.

Discuss

1. Read Matthew 28:1-10 and note how many times it is written to “not be afraid” or to not “fear.” How does that apply to us as well? (Hint: 2 Tim. 3:16).

2. What were some differences between the fear of the guards and the fear that the two Mary’s were experiencing?

3. What is a primary reason we have fear in our lives, even as Christians?

4. The reasons we live in fear of worldly anxieties are many. How would it help if you could actually visibly see Christ beside you?

a. What would it take for you to understand and absorb the truth that God the Son, who spoke the world into being, is with you every second?

b. What would it take for you to relinquish your (assumed) control of situations that bring turmoil, and to really trust Him to “have your back”?

c. Read 1 John 4:18. What is the missing ingredient when we are in fear and what does fear cause? How is this true?

d. If someone whose power is greater than ours has promised help with our problems, we rest easier. Why do we not realize Jesus is that Person?

e. The song, “A Midnight Cry,” speaks of viewing life as constantly fulfilling God’s word. How can we celebrate who He is every moment?

Close:

We trust God with our salvation, and embrace His death as payment for our sinful past. Yet when it comes to control of our lives, we hold back and are afraid to trust Him. As we break into small groups for prayer time, let us confess if we have a lack of trust. Usually our concern isn’t that He won’t fix our problem—but that He won’t do it the way we want it done. That’s a big step of faith. It’s time to take it and “not be afraid!”

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 15:22: “For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive.”

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Group Notes | April 5

The Supernatural Power of God
April 5, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

A very old song, whose title is full of truth, is “What a Difference a Day Makes.”* Can you share a recent time when you awoke with a feeling that there was no hope for a “good” day, and yet something turned it completely around?

We have been looking at the days leading to the crucifixion. Today we will focus on the incredible turn of events two thousand years ago, that changed the world forever with the power of the resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Discuss:

1. Read Matthew 28:1-8. What did the women expect to find when they went to the tomb on Sunday morning? Think “outside the box” at insurmountable obstacles.

2. An earthquake, a huge stone rolled away, fainted guards—and yet all without fanfare or chaos! What lessons can the peace of the angel teach us?

3. The women saw and believed in the resurrection power. Read John 20:29. Who is he referring to?

4. Read Philippians 4:7-11. What does Paul say about the resurrection power?

5. The disciples daily saw the power of Jesus, but could not connect the
Scriptures with the events at the cross. How does this differ from our having head knowledge, but not allowing Christ to enter our hearts?

6. Even though you may not always “feel” His presence, how can you know that He is there for you?

7. Read again Phil. 4:7. If you know that His power is available to you, and that His presence never leaves or forsakes you, what are some reasons you don’t have the supernatural peace that He desires for you?

Close:

The disciples had seen Jesus’ power for three years, but could not understand it until He opened their eyes (read Luke 24:45). Could it be that you need your “eyes” opened to His supernatural power, and especially His presence in your life? Accepting these by faith, not by feeling, will bring supernatural peace! As you break into small groups, admit openly if you are lacking in faith and discuss your options. Pray for yourself and the others this week that God would manifest Himself in an amazing way!

Memory Verse: Matthew 28:6: “He is not here, for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.”

*English lyrics by Stanley Adams, 1934.

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Group Notes | March 29

Walking  the Road: Getting Ready for Arrival
March 29, 2015
Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Anticipating the arrival of someone loved or highly respected can send a person, a family or a community into a frenzy of excitement! List some of the activities that are done in preparation for the appearance of such a one.

The last two weeks we’ve looked at the road that a genuine Christian should walk, as we look toward the crucifixion. Today we will look at what it takes in our lives to be ready for the arrival or return of Christ as Lord and Savior.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 11:7-10. Why was there so much intensity of anticipation, and who may have been among this throng?

2. Today a “red carpet” would be rolled out for someone important, but most of these people had few possessions. What was symbolic about the people laying their coats and branches down on His path?

3. No one was made to throw their cloaks, but they were willing to sacrifice what they had for this Man they loved. What can you give Him?

4. Many, knowing Jesus was coming, had run to the fields to cut branches or climbed trees for the limbs. What did these actions reveal about their hearts?

5. Read Ephesians 4:12. What truth can we glean from the efforts of the people waiting for Jesus, and the necessity for us each day?

6. Do you know what “Hosanna” means? This crowd was united in their adulation of Jesus. What are some ways we offer praise and worship?

7. To whom did Christ leave the work of preparing the world for His return?

8. What are you willing to do to be sure your heart, your family’s or your community’s is ready for His return?

Close:

It would probably impact us greatly if we could see how we would have reacted had we been part of this crowd. Would we have been jubilant or silent? If we had on an Armani suit jacket or a Prada coat, would we have thrown them down or hesitated? Would we have sweated to get the branches? In other words, what are we willing to do for Christ? As you go into small groups, search your heart to see if there are any closets that are off-limits to Him, and pray that He would help you sacrifice everything to be His, to work constantly to be diligent about His business, and to worship Him with your every breath.
MEMORY VERSE: Mark 11:9: “Then those who went before and those who followed cried out, saying, ‘Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the LORD.’ ”

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Group Notes | March 22

The Road To the Cross: Going A Little Farther
March 22, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Climbing Stone Mountain began with excitement but soon turned to pain! Every few minutes we would ask someone coming down, “Is it much farther to the top?” Can you think of times when someone had to encourage you to continue on a difficult path?
Last week we learned that walking the road as a Christian requires obedience, discipline and respect. Today we want to focus on persevering through times of trials, pain and suffering. Abandoning our faith is not an option.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 14:32-34. What emotions do you experience knowing that Jesus—God the Son—felt agony for the death that was coming to Him?

2. During times of severe distress in your own life, what are some responses you feel in your spirit? Do those times cause you to doubt God’s love?

3. Read 1 Peter 5:10. How can you develop a trust so deep that the most frightening events do not cause you to think God has deserted you?

4. Read Mark 14:36. What are some reasons why being in God’s will is better than insisting on your own desires, especially if yours seem so much easier?

5. Can you share a time when you quit—or almost quit—because the suffering seemed too great? Tell how you felt when you looked back and saw that God had been with you all the way.

6. What do you do when you begin to feel discouraged, thinking the hard times are too great? Can you eventually reach out to others who are going through difficulties, with encouragement to continue?

Close:

As we break into smaller groups, we want to let the message of the Cross completely saturate us as we consider the suffering Christ went through for us. We need to finish the task He gave us, going into our community and letting them know of a Savior who died for them. Involve yourself with the Life Groups at church who serve the community, and pray that God would use you to comfort others who are going through times of pain.

Memory Verse: Mark 14:35: “Hen went a little farther, and fell on the ground, and prayed that if it were possible, the hour might pass from Him.”

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Group Notes | March 15

The Road to the Cross: Walking the Road
March 15, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

It’s usually easy to begin a new job, a marriage, or a new endeavor with enthusiasm; however, if we don’t work to keep the fervor alive, apathy can easily settle in. What are some examples of this truth?
Most people who become a follower of Jesus Christ are zealous as they begin their life with Him. Today we will concentrate on continuing to live our lives devoted to Him, keeping that “first love” for Him as the priority of our being.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 12:30, 31. It is hard to think of anyone we know who fulfills this commandment. What are some reasons God would “command” us to do what seems impossible?

2. Read Mark 12:41-44. What was the widow’s motive in giving everything she had to God?

3. What are some things we can do to make sure we are giving our “all” to God?

4. Read Luke 14:27. List disciplines required in our lives in order to wholly follow Christ. Mentally put a check beside those you need to work on.

5. God, by the very nature of who He is, deserves our utmost reverence. What are some ways we give Him this respect, and what are some ways He is held in contempt by the world?

6. Read Luke 5:4-6. A child, no matter his age, shows his love for a parent by obedience. Why does following Christ require our obedience, even when it doesn’t make sense?

7. Can you think of examples in your life when you have obeyed by faith?

Close:

Holding God in a place of highest esteem, obeying Him, and serving Him all are evidences that we love Him. Did you notice in the story of Peter that Jesus told him to “let down [the] nets” and Peter said, “Ok, I’ll let down the net.” In a few minutes the net “was breaking” under the weight, but if Peter had obeyed fully, letting down nets, he would have been prepared for what Christ was going to do! As we go into our small groups, search your heart to find if there are areas where you are holding back from completely obeying; confess these areas, and ask Him to reveal anything that would keep you from being, like the widow, totally sold out to Him. Use the Life Groups at church to enrich your walk with Him, and pray for constant opportunities to share what He has done for you.

Memory Verse: Mark 12:30, 31: “’And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.”

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Group Notes | March 8

Don’t Give Up On God
March 8, 2015
Dr. Ben Gutierrez

Open:

It is so easy to give up on someone when they disappoint or hurt us. Often, removing them from our life can be easier than facing the situation. Can you share a time when you were so disappointed that you erased someone from your life?

This week we are looking at one of the most important promises of comfort and hope ever given, as the disciples, hours away from the crucifixion, tried to sort out their feelings of confusion and pain as their hearts cried out “Jesus! Do You really care?”

Discuss:

1. Put yourself in the place of the faithful disciples. What are some of the feelings you would have had if you had been at the Last Supper, and heard Jesus tell of His immediate up-coming death?

2. Would you have felt betrayed, having seen Him perform thousands of miracles, yet meekly ready to die? Why?

3. Read John 14:1-3. Instead of focusing on His imminent suffering, what does He do?

4. What is His deep desire in verse 1a? Explain how that same compassion is available to us when we deal with chaos, pain, fear or doubt that He cares?

5. In verse 1b Jesus begs them to remember He is God. Why did this matter at this time?

6. Give some examples of His past faithfulness to you; address the statement “Never once, did I ever walk alone?”*

7. What is the promise in verses 2 and 3? What attributes of His character is Jesus revealing as He speaks?

8. What are some ways you can reinforce that His faithfulness to you in the past, when you wanted to give up on Him through the worst times of pain or fear, means that you can trust Him with your future, no matter what it holds?

Close:

Imagine! Jesus is comforting this small group of eleven believers who will become the nucleus of His church worldwide hours before He goes to the cross! If you had been in that group, could He have depended on you to hang in there? As we go into small group time, discuss those valleys you are going through, and decide if Jesus is really with you. Resolve if you are willing to trust Him, rather than giving up and feeling alone. Pray for each other, that each would trust their most intimate troubles to His faithful care.

Memory Verse: John 4:16: “Jesus said to him, ‘I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.’” (NKJV)

*Writers: Jason Ingram, Matt Redman, Tim Wanstal. Recording Artist Matt Redman sings “Never Once Did I Ever Walk Alone” on his CD “10,000 Reasons,” 2011.

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Group Notes | March 1

And The Greatest of These Is Love
March 1, 2015

Open:

Checking out at WalMart, the elderly man dug in his pockets for enough money to cover his meager food purchase. The person next in line quietly handed the clerk a bill to pay for the groceries. Can you list examples of times someone has taken the opportunity to show God’s love to a person they’ve never met?
Continuing the focus on God’s love from 1 John, this week we want to spotlight what it actually means for us to be filled with His love.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 John 4:7-21. In verses 7 and 8, why is it so important that we sincerely have love in our hearts? What does this show to the world?

2. In verses 9 and 10, what did we do to earn the love God has shown us? What are some reasons God loves us so much?

3. Re-read verses 16-18. What is the reassurance that we have in these verses? Does the action of standing before God fill you with joy or with fear? (You may answer in your heart).

4. Read 1 Corinthians 13:11-13. Why is the greatest of “these three” (faith, hope, love) LOVE?

5. What are some practical ways we can show God’s love to those around us? (Moderator, mark off those that are mentioned, emphasizing any that are left):

a. Always look for the best in others, and give them the benefit of the doubt;

b. Make forgiveness a habit, especially when it is not deserved;

c. Forgive even when it is not asked for;

d. Take care of conflict as soon as possible and move on, leaving the conflict behind;

e. Look for a reason to bless someone each day;

f. Meet needs as often as you are able, whenever God shows them to you;

g. Pray for others diligently and deliberately, for as long as their need is present;

h. Endeavor to know God better each day through reading His word and prayer;

i. Find ways every day to show God’s love to someone who does not know Him;

j. Make certain you are known as a person who has been transformed by your relationship with Jesus Christ.

Close:

Did any of those practical applications speak to your heart? As you break into small groups, be open to sharing how God spoke to you, and have the group pray that you will be filled with love in that area. All should continually pray ‘diligently and deliberately’ for each of those in your group. Satan does not want believers to be victorious, so as you close in prayer, focus on 1 John 4:4!

Memory Verse: John 13:35: “By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

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Group Notes | February 22

God’s Love And Its Impact On Others
February 22, 2015

Open:

Even when our desires are to please Christ, often we lack love in relationships for those in our lives. Can you give some examples of situations that can cause love to fail?
Last week we looked at Part 1 of God’s Amazing Love and how it impacts our lives. This week we will go to Part 2 and consider how that love that comes from Him into our lives should extend outwardly to those around us.

Discuss:

1. In 1 John 3:1-10, we learned that God calls believers His children, and that He has much work to do in us. We also learned His love should change us. How did that study make you more aware of His love this past week?

2. Read 1 John 3:11-24. What is the main thought that runs through this entire section of Scripture?

3. Why is it so important to God that we show love to others—that He actually demands it of us?

4. Read Romans 5:8. What does this passage tell us of God’s love for us?

5. Give some examples of evidence that His love has transformed your life.

6. Someone re-read verse 18. Love is not a passive word, but one that denotes action! Give some examples of ways you show love to your brothers and sisters, rather than simply saying “I love you.”

7. Read James 2:14-17. What is James saying? How does it line up with John’s words?

8. Obeying God’s commandment to love others helps fulfill His plan for you. Do you see confirmation of verse 24 in your life?

Close:

Loving our Christian brothers and sisters shows the depth of our love for Christ. In your small group time, take a moment to list anyone with whom you need to mend a relationship, and this week intentionally begin to do so. Before you break up, pray earnestly that your life would reflect God’s love to those whom you meet this week, so much so that they would know you are a Christian by your love.

Memory Verse: 1 John 3:23: “And this is His commandment: that we should believe on the name of His Son Jesus Christ and love one another, as He gave us commandment.”

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Group Notes | February 15

God’s Amazing Grace February 15, 2015

Open:

Each day we are bombarded with expressions of “love.” Give some examples that you feel convey the correct meaning of this oft-used word.

This week and next week we are going to focus on love. We cannot grasp the true meaning of this word until we understand God’s love toward us who are His children.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 John 3:1-10. To try to understand God’s love for us, we can contrast the love we have for our own children. Can you put your some of your feelings into words, even though the comparison is inadequate?

2. List some ways that God the Father loves God the Son. What are some adjectives that you think of, knowing God loves you with that same love?

3. If you are truly God’s child, what can you do to make Him quit loving you?

4. No one knows whose child you are unless you are visible in a loving relationship with your father. How does this parallel verse 1b?

5. Very few experiences in life exceed our expectations, but read 1 Corinthians 2:9; it tells us that we cannot even imagine what God has in store for us, because of His great love. What are some of the magnificent possibilities that might await us?

6. 1 John 3:3-10 illustrates how our adoption as children of God should change us. What are some of the new characteristics that people should see in us?

7. Share some major changes that have occurred since you asked God to save you.

Close:

Your salvation should bring you such joy that your desire each day is to become more like Christ. Knowing God loves you with an everlasting love, which has only just begun, should spur you to build on that relationship constantly. As you break into small groups, discuss some areas where you still need to overcome habits that can harm your relationship with Christ. Pray diligently that God will give you strength to win over Satan. Always keep in mind that the church has people who are willing and eager to see that you become more victorious day by day.

Memory Verse: I John 3:2: “Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | February 8

The Marks of a Believer February 8, 2015

Open:

Our bodies are wonderful when everything is working perfectly! Give examples of problems the body may suffer, and tell how they may impact our daily lifestyle.

We have been concentrating on getting fit in every area of our lives, focusing last week on setting right goals. Now we will look at four elements that are the marks of a strong believer, realizing that all of them must work together for a healthy Christian lifestyle.

Discuss:

1. Read Mark 9:14-29. Have someone re-tell the scene as they imagine it happening, and put into their own words the need and hope of the father

2. As you think of the characteristics of a believer, what do you notice happening in verse 15a as Jesus enters the area, and what does that mean to you?

3. Explain why an attitude of worship is essential if you expect miracles from Jesus.

4. List some attributes of God that “blow you away.” Explain possibilities why you may not believe He will control hopeless situations in your life.

5. Re-read verse 24. Why do you think the father cried tears before he said “Help my unbelief?” When have you cried tears over unbelief?

6. Read Isaiah 59:2. What must happen before you are completely healthy as a believer? How does this realization go before 1 John 1:9?

7. If you have a child, describe your feelings when you do not talk on a regular basis. If you talked to your child (or anyone you love) the equal amount of time you pray, would you be happy as a parent or family member? What are some ways you can improve your prayer life?

8. Read Philippians 4:13. Do miracles take place in your life because of you, or because of God working through you?

9. What are the four marks of the believer?

Close:

A healthy relationship with God is the highest priority in your life. As an illness can prevent your body from working well, missing one of these four elements in your Christian life can cause you to desperately need a miracle. Spend small group time praying for needs in your life, as well as for others you know who need a miracle from God. Remember that there are many opportunities for prayer, worship, or Bible study available at church to help you grow as a believer.
Memory Verse: Mark 10:27: “But Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With men it is impossible, but not with God; for with God all things are possible.’” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | February 1

Get Fit: Trusting God for Your Future

Open:

Trusting our lives to things or situations occurs hundreds of time each day. What are some things you can think of that we trust in, usually without thought?

The past month we have been focused on getting fit in every area of our lives. This week we end this series as we encompass all we have learned in order to make our lives conform to the goal of living our lives with the purpose of bringing glory to our God.

Discuss:

1. Living our lives to bring God glory sounds impossible. Read Mark 10:27. What does this scripture tell us? What are some of the impossibilities that the Holy Spirit is implying?

2. Read Psalm 33:1-22. If we are to live our lives for God’s glory, what will this look like on a daily basis?

3. This Psalm tells us in verses 1-5 that we are to worship Him with all that we are. What are some reasons He is worthy of our worship?

4. In verses 6-9, the psalmist gives us a small picture of the greatness of God. If we worship Him because of what He has done, not only in creation and throughout history, but in our own lives, what are some things you can list?

5. Do you have goals that will line your life up with God’s purpose for you? Share some of them and tell what actions are you taking to make these goals realities?

6. Why did Richard Blackaby say “the primary purpose of spiritual leaders [or Christians] is not to achieve their goals but to accomplish God’s will”?

7. We would all agree that Christ is worthy of our trust. Re-read verses 18-22. What are some ways He shows Himself faithful? If He has been faithful in the past, what are some things we should trust Him with in the future?

8. What signals alert you to the possibility you may not be trusting Him?

Close:

God can do amazing things with us if we are willing, ready, and available to be used. We have to live our lives intentionally to accomplish His plans and purposes for us. As we break into small groups, discuss the possibilities that could occur if you set goals that you knew you could accomplish, knew that you would not fail, be willing to pay the price, and what you would be willing to sacrifice to attain them. Remember to discuss needs that might be met by the small groups meeting at the church, and especially remember to pray for those who are seeking God’s help, His glory, and His will in their lives.

Memory Verse: Psalm 33:20, 21: “Our soul waits for the Lord, He is our help and our shield. For our
heart shall rejoice in Him, because we have trusted in His holy name.” (NKJV)

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Group Notes | January 25

Get Fit Financially January 25, 2015

Open:

Money, like politics, is a very sensitive subject. Can you think of some clichés or wise sayings that you hear in regard to money?
We have looked at getting fit in every area of our lives this month: spiritually, in relationships, and physically. This week we look at finances. It is difficult for people to agree on wise spending habits, so we must go to the source of all wisdom–God’s word.

Discuss:

1. Read Matthew 25:14-29. Why is it vital that we understand the importance of handling our finances properly?

2. What did Christ want us to learn from the third servant’s actions and excuses?

3. Why do we get in trouble when we rationalize our ‘wants’ to be ‘needs’?

4. God has provided many things to enjoy. How can these be a test of our devotion to Christ?

5. Read Prov. 22:27.

a. List areas of spending that may be keeping you from being free from debt.

b. If these are ‘needs,’ can you think of substitutes that might lighten the impact on your spending?

6. Getting debt free can be a long process. What are some things you are willing to do in order to be where you want to be?

7. All plans start with a first step. Give some suggestions that would help you or others begin the road to freedom?

8. Read Matt. 6:21. Spending foolishly can become a habit, which can become an addiction. Where are some places that one can get help?

Close:

It makes one feel very vulnerable to admit to being a poor money manager. As you break into small groups, try to see your friends as a support group who can hold you accountable with your finances. The church is also offering extra help to those who truly wish freedom from debt. Pray that God will lead you to a place where you can take the steps necessary to enjoy His treasures without worshiping them or coveting more. Close by thanking Him for always providing for your needs.

Memory Verse:

Matthew 6:19-21: “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

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Group Notes | January 18

Get Fit: Physically

Scott Bullman January 18, 2015

Open:

Deciding to change something about yourself, and then actually doing it, is by far easier said than done! What are some examples of physical change that you or someone you know has accomplished?

The past two Sundays we have understood that beginning the new year by getting fit spiritually and with relationships starts with developing a closer bond with God. This week Scott Bullman will help us look at our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit, and learn what our responsibility is as we take care of it.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20. Before we can solve a problem, we have to identify it.

a. What is something physical we need to change about ourselves?

b. Which of these might impact our testimony as a follower of Christ?

2. Why do you have to get to the point where “the pain of bearing the problem is greater than the pain of changing it” before you are mentally ready to take the first step? (Henry Cloud)

3. Where should discipline begin when change is needed?

a. Read Eccl. 4:10. What is the benefit of accountability?

b. Express any hesitation you might have with an accountability partner.

4. Read 1 Peter 1:13. What is special about self-control?

5. Why do we need the power of God to change?

6. Read Romans 12: 1, 2.

a. What are some reasons why deliverance does not come immediately?

b. What are some ways that others can benefit as they see us changing?

c. When will you be able to stop your discipline?

Close:

Changing habits that have a strong grip on your life is a task that will take fervor, determination, and discipline. As you break into small groups, discuss changes that you know you need, and explore possibilities of the church providing groups who will help you. As you close, pray specifically for strength to determine to change strongholds and deliverance from anything that hurts your relationship with Christ.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20: Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit Who is in you, Whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

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Group Notes | January 18

Get Fit: Physically

Scott Bullman January 18, 2015

Open:

Deciding to change something about yourself, and then actually doing it, is by far easier said than done! What are some examples of physical change that you or someone you know has accomplished?

The past two Sundays we have understood that beginning the new year by getting fit spiritually and with relationships starts with developing a closer bond with God. This week Scott Bullman will help us look at our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit, and learn what our responsibility is as we take care of it.

Discuss:

1. Read 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20. Before we can solve a problem, we have to identify it.

a. What is something physical we need to change about ourselves?

b. Which of these might impact our testimony as a follower of Christ?

2. Why do you have to get to the point where “the pain of bearing the problem is greater than the pain of changing it” before you are mentally ready to take the first step? (Henry Cloud)

3. Where should discipline begin when change is needed?

a. Read Eccl. 4:10. What is the benefit of accountability?

b. Express any hesitation you might have with an accountability partner.

4. Read 1 Peter 1:13. What is special about self-control?

5. Why do we need the power of God to change?

6. Read Romans 12: 1, 2.

a. What are some reasons why deliverance does not come immediately?

b. What are some ways that others can benefit as they see us changing?

c. When will you be able to stop your discipline?

Close:

Changing habits that have a strong grip on your life is a task that will take fervor, determination, and discipline. As you break into small groups, discuss changes that you know you need, and explore possibilities of the church providing groups who will help you. As you close, pray specifically for strength to determine to change strongholds and deliverance from anything that hurts your relationship with Christ.

Memory Verse: 1 Corinthians 6:19, 20: Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit Who is in you, Whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

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Group Notes | January 11

Get Fit in Relationships
January 11, 2015

Open:

People were created to be social beings, but maintaining close bonds is often a challenge. Can you share situations where relationships were in danger, and yet had an excellent ending?
Last week we looked at getting fit in our spiritual life through avoiding sin, worshiping and pursuing God, and being in His Word. Today we are going to examine how a deep relationship with God enables us to have stronger ties with family and friends.

Discuss:

1. Quote Psalm 119:11 together (last week’s memory verse). Why is it necessary to get our lives spiritually fit before working on relationships with others?

2. Read 1 Peter 3:8-12. Anything that is valuable takes maintenance and care to protect it. So it is with relationships we truly care about. What are some actions we can take to keep a relationship healthy?

3. What are some obstacles to a healthy relationship, and why? What is probably the greatest hindrance?

4. Re-read verse 9. When someone hurts or uses us, what is our natural response? What type of response does God desire from us?

5. What is the promise in verse 10 which sounds so simple? What are some ways we can get control over our responses when we want to wound, hurt, or “get even?”

6. What does it take to be honest yet encouraging to everyone we talk to?

7. What are the instructions given in verse 11 that help us embrace better relationships?

8. Verse 12 gives us the abundant promise of security as we seek to live a life pleasing to God. What can we be assured of?

Close:

The relationships we are building should never be taken for granted. They are precious evidence of a life being lived to glorify Christ. As you close in prayer, remember to lift up the groups that are meeting at church to further meet needs in this area. Also pray that God will help you keep a bridle on your tongue, that you always speak softly, and keep your words pure.

Memory Verse, January 11, 2015:
1 Peter 3:8: “Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous.

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Group Notes | January 4

Get Fit Spiritually
January 4, 2015

Open:

In today’s culture to speak of “getting fit” is usually assumed to mean a change in diet or exercise for the benefit of appearance. Is this sentence right or wrong, and why? What other areas could fall under someone “getting fit?”

Last week we looked at our mission statement, the past year, and the possibilities for improvement in 2015. Today we are going to look at getting fit in our spiritual life as we focus on growing in our relationship with Christ.

Discuss:

1. Read Psalm 119:1-11. As you listened to the Psalm, what seemed to be the passion of the writer’s heart? Give specific instances.

2. It is impossible to live a sinless life, but how would you rate yourself in trying to obey God’s commands?

3. Which verses encourage us to remove ourselves from sinful situations?

4. Spiritual health requires worship! What are some ways to worship, and what benefits are in each?

5. Why does worship require that we recognize God for Who He is? What are some of the words of “worship” in the verses that were read?

6. When we desire something, we actively pursue it. What are some examples showing we are actively pursuing a relationship with Christ?

7. Discuss the impossibility of being spiritually fit, but Biblically illiterate.

8. Quote Psalm 119:11. What is the greatest benefit of memorizing the Word of God?

Close:

As we break into small groups for prayer, let us be mindful that there are groups that will be meeting at church to help us follow up on “getting fit.” TRBC also encourages daily devotions through the “My Time” on the website. As you close, pray that God will help you memorize the verses each week, as you seek to “hide His word in your heart.”
Verse for Week 1: Psalm 119:1: “I have hidden Your word in my heart, that I might not sin against You.”

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Group Notes | April 12

He Lives…Do You? Fishing or Following?
Matt Willmington
April 12, 2015

Open:

So many circumstances can happen to us that totally change our lives. Can you think of situations you have had that completely altered your way of living?

Today we begin to center our thoughts on the difference the resurrection makes in the lives of those who meet Jesus, and deal with the question: has accepting the reality of His sacrifice changed you personally?

Discuss:

1. Read John 21:4-8. Why did the disciples return to fishing after the crucifixion?

2. The disciples were unsure what to do next, having seen Jesus alive again, but not having instructions from Him. What do you do when you are not sure what your next step should be after a disturbing experience?

3. Can you give an example of being uncertain of a next step, only to have Him suddenly make His will known? How were you obedient?

4. Read verses 9-14. Jesus was on the shore with the fire, some food, and His presence. In this situation, how would you have approached Him? Would your shame be foremost in your mind?

5. All the disciples had forsaken Him at the Garden of Gethsemane. Do you think they had to face their humiliation as they looked and listened to Him now? What about you—do you need to face past actions?

6. Read verses 15-19. Can anyone share a time when they were so out of God’s will that a re-commitment to Him had to be made? Notice that Jesus did not make the disciples come to Him, but He came to them—just as He meets us where we are, not where we should be!

7. Read verses 20-22. Jesus’ instructions to the forgiven disciples were plain and simple: “Come, follow Me.” Are you ready to follow Him or are you still fishing?

Close:

The same instructions Jesus gave His disciples are given to us as well. He wants us to follow Him with our whole heart, forgetting the past. As you break into small groups, let His Spirit bring to mind anything that needs confession or repentance, so that you can follow Him fully. Don’t forget to search the Life Groups at church to see if you can serve: there is always someone who needs comfort and encouragement from what you have been through!

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