Flannelgraph of Faith: Daniel
August 20, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Last week we talked about a time when you stood alone against a crowd. Perhaps during this past week you’ve remembered other examples. Did any of them cost you something important, perhaps a job, a fiancé, or possibly even threaten your life? Can you share?

This series, using the modern version of a flannelgraph, has taken on new dimensions as we’ve looked at the old stories we learned as children, reframing them with applications for our lives in today’s world. Last week we saw the courage of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, and this week we will see their friend, Daniel, who chose to worship only the one true God, even when it seemed certain it would cost him his life.

Focal Passages: Daniel 1:8-20, 6:1-27

Discuss:

Background:

1. Read Daniel 1:8-20. These four Hebrew boys of royal blood were taken from their families and homes to Babylon, and put in training to serve Nebuchadnezzar, the king. Why did God bless them so richly?

Being Faithful in the Tough Times Is Vital

2. Years passed, and Daniel was now serving under King Darius, who set up a parliament, making it easier to rule over his kingdom. Read Daniel 6:3, and paraphrase what positions his rulers had. (Satraps were like “mayors.”)
3. What was the plan they wanted the king to make into a 30-day law, and what was their motive? Why would you expect Daniel to be aware of it?
4. When Daniel knew the bill had been officially signed, what did he do? Why did he do this? What do you think he was thanking God for, in this coming situation?

Our Faithfulness Will Be Noticed by Even Those Against Us

5. What was going to happen to anyone found breaking the law?
6. Read 6:14,16. What happened when the king realized he had been duped? What were some of the differences Darius saw in Daniel that caused him to care so deeply for him? (Do you make that much difference at your work?)

Our Faithfulness Breeds Confidence When We Need It Most

7. Read 6:18-20. How did the king spend the night? What can we learn from these verses of action that can be taken before a huge testing?
8. Do you think Darius expected Daniel to be alive? Why or why not?

Our Faithfulness Changes Others

9. Read 6: 24. What action did the king take when he found Daniel’s God had saved him?
10. Read 6:25-26. What was the new law he immediately enacted?

Our Faithfulness is Only Possible When It Comes from the Heart

11. Read Dan.1:8 again; what type of lifestyle had Daniel purposed for his life?
12. Would any of his authority, promotions, integrity or wisdom have happened if he was not sincere in his love for God? (How about yours?)

Close:

Daniel lived a life we can all wish for, but few choose: he stayed true to God from his youth up! He began at home, surely, before being taken captive to Babylon. There, he made the choice to follow his God and chose to obey what he knew to be right. He never deviated from that decision, and God used him to help rule a kingdom, impacting the lives of at least three kings.

Jesus wants us to take the good news of the kingdom to the world. Had Daniel and his three friends stayed in their little clique, they would possibly have impacted no one. By following God’s principles and loving Him, they allowed themselves to be used by God in a pagan society, where they attained high authority and had much influence. Are you going into the world with the Good News? We find that if we’re not careful, our circle of friends becomes more Christ-centered, and although we can grow, have great fellowship, and love God, we are not moving toward loving our neighbors who are very different from us. Let us strive to learn the lesson that Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego teaches us, to hold onto God in all the good times as well as the bad, and to affect the people with whom we come in contact. We do this through loving them. Pray for opportunities this week to love on someone, getting to know them, in order to earn the right to tell them of Jesus.

Memory Verse: Daniel 6:27: He delivers and rescues, and He works signs and wonders, in heaven and on earth, Who has delivered Daniel from the power of the lions.

Ask Yourself: Would I describe my faith in God as half-hearted? If so, it will never deliver me from the lions’ den.

Flannelgraph of Faith: Fighting the Giant
August 6, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It seems everyone you spend quality time with reveals they are fighting some sort of “giant” in their life, whether it’s physical, spiritual or emotional. Can you share an example?

We continue our series this week, looking at the characters taught us in our early years, using the decades-old idea of a flannelgraph. This week we are looking at a story familiar to almost everyone: the story of David, the Israeli youth who had the courage to take a slingshot and a stone, killing an enemy giant, Goliath. We are looking for deeper lessons resting under the top layer of this piece of history. As we re-examine this narrative, we lay the groundwork for finding the giants in our own lives, and hopefully David’s example can help us as we seek to slay our “Goliaths.”

Focal Passages: I Samuel 17

The Background:

There’s probably no one in your group who can’t tell the story of the life of David! Could someone give an overview of what was happening with King Saul and the Israelite army when David came on the scene? Then someone else relate the events that led David to the area where Israel was encamped against the Philistine army. Those two accounts will set the background as David entered the war zone, with Israel and the Philistines getting into position for a coming battle.

Discuss:

The Greatest Challenge in Life is Rarely the Actual Challenge:

1. Read 1 Sam. 17:22-24. What was the first thing David heard as he entered the camp?
2. His immediate response is in verse 26b (read). If you can imagine the situation, what was probably some of the ridicule hurled at him? Verse 28 records the words of his older brother; how would that make you feel?
3. What were the attackers trying to accomplish? Why was such an attack made by the men who were seasoned warriors? Which was the real challenge here that David had to overcome?

Facing Opposition While Doing God’s Will Should be Expected

4. Where did David get his confidence to go against Goliath?
5. Which is harder: going against our peers, or sitting among them saying nothing? Why?
6. Read Matthew 5:10-12, and 2 Timothy 3:11b-13. Why does God record these passages for us?

Your Success or Failure is Directly Related to How You Handle that Opposition

7. Can you achieve a desire you might have to serve God in a certain capacity, if you let fear hold you back? Why or why not?
8. Can someone share a fear you have, and tell how it has affected your life?

Depending on God’s Power in the Face of Your Biggest Giant is Always a Winner:

9. Who was Goliath trusting in? Who was David trusting in? Do you think it even crossed David’s mind that he could lose? Why?

Close:

What a marvelous gift, to have a trust so great in our Holy God that we will go up against the most evil giant we can encounter.  David, even though young and surrounded by men, found himself angered as he saw the fear paralyzing the soldiers. His amazing faith in God, developed through his experiences in the wilderness watching sheep and worshiping his Creator, left him stunned that others would take no action against someone insulting the Living God. It would have been so easy to give in to the jeers of men much older than himself, and run back home. But David was convinced in his soul that God would win the victory for him, and failing to act was not an option David even considered.

How about you? Have you let the giants in your life dictate your choices? They can be your friends, criticism, your appearance, a disability—so many possibilities. Some physical traits perhaps were given to us by God to make us stronger! Think for a moment of those you know in your church who are such a great example of being strong for Christ, though weak by the world’s standards. Follow David’s example and work on trusting God with everything you are, so that you can eliminate the giants that want to take you down and render you incapable of service. You will soon be able to tell you are succeeding: whenever you are doing God’s will, you will have opposition. You will never have spiritual warfare unless you are doing something spiritual!

Memory Verse: I Samuel 17:47: Then all this assembly shall know that the Lord does not save with sword and spear; for the battle is the Lord’s, and He will give you into our hands. (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Are my giants destroying my effectiveness as a Christian? Am I giving in to the persecution and fear, or am I trusting without question? How can I trust more fully? Am I praying to God for more faith?

 

Flannelgraph of Faith: Ruth—Everyone Matters
July 23, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

In almost everyone’s life at some time there has been a woman—perhaps a mother, teacher, or friend—who has made an impact on one’s character. Can you share a memory you may have as you reflect?

We are continuing to examine Bible characters whose lives have left many lessons for us. This week we will concentrate on the book of Ruth, but it will be the life of Naomi, the mother-in-law, whom we will focus on. As we use the old-school visual teaching of the flannelgraph, we will see what we can learn from her life.

Focal Passages: Taken from Ruth 1:1-4:22

Discuss:

God Uses the Famines of Life to Bring Blessings:

1. Can someone give a short summary of why this family of Judea lived in Moab, and what occurred in the first several years? Can you relate to a lifestyle that seems to bring grief every way you turn, and can you share?
2. Read Ruth 1:6 & 14. If you were Naomi, would you have made the decision to return to Bethlehem? Why?
3. Explain how you would reason (for or against) Naomi seeing any blessings in her life since coming to Moab.

God’s Love is Not Exclusive:

4. In a moment we will read Naomi’s outpouring of grief at her circumstances; however, how would you explain her relationship with both daughters-in-law that they would desire to go with her?
5. Read 1:19-21. How do you perceive the heart of Naomi toward God? Can you share a time when you questioned God’s love for you and your faith was shaken?
6. Naomi could see only the events that had occurred in Moab; what are some scriptures that would have been helpful to her know (both OT or NT)?
7. According to Romans 8:28, what would God do with her life?

God’s Plan is Greater:

8. Can someone give a brief synopsis of what happened after Naomi returned to Bethlehem (leaving out the end)?
9. Read 4:15a. Who were the people talking about? How do you think Naomi felt as she held Obed in her arms?
10. List some of the miraculous results that God brought about even though the road had been a very painful one.

Close:

One is so focused on Ruth as the main character in this short book that we often overlook the harsh years that Naomi lived through. Her husband (probably) made the decision to move to the heathen land of Moab. Although there is no mention of the age of her boys, they grew old enough to marry while living there. Their marriages to Moabite women, especially after the death of their father, had to have been a trial to Naomi, but we know she must have treated them with tremendous love and respect. Otherwise, they would not have desired to go to Bethlehem with her, although Orpah was, in the end, persuaded to return to her own parents. Although Naomi did not verbalize a bitterness toward God, asking friends in Bethlehem to call her “Mara” (bitter) must have been her heart’s attitude. She could never have imagined that the simple act of bringing Ruth back to Bethlehem would result in her being great-great-grandmother to King David, and Ruth ultimately being in the line of the Messiah, Christ Jesus.

In our own lives, we can sympathize with the times of trouble Naomi experienced. We have days of crisis, with a rare day here and there that is peaceful and quiet. And often our valleys get so low, we question God’s love for us, His presence with us, and His plan to bring good out of our situation. Perhaps this story of Naomi will be one that will inspire you to recognize God’s miracles are not confined by our past, our race, or our heritage, and He is weaving a purpose that will result in amazing outcomes. He will use truly unlikely circumstances to bring about a beautiful end and a deliverance.

Memory Verse: Ruth2:10: So she fell on her face, bowed down to the ground, and said to him, “Why have I found favor in your eyes, that you should take notice of me, since I am a foreigner?” (NKJV)

Ask Yourself: Do you ever fall down before the Lord, bowing yourself to the ground, and asking Him, “Why have I found favor in Your eyes, that You should take notice of me, since I am a sinner?”

 

 

 

 

Flannelgraph of Faith: Gideon
July 9, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Fear can be a mild stress that causes us worry, or a paralyzing dread that almost immobilizes us, often because we have no control over a situation. Can you share an example?

Today we begin a new series based on the visual teaching from decades ago: the flannelgraph. Although we will use it along with today’s technology, we want to reframe the stories learned from childhood of the heroes of faith, and see how their lives give us insight for applying the lessons to a walk of faith today.

Focal Passages: Taken from Judges 6:1-40, 7:1-25, 8:1-35

Discuss:

The Background:

1. Read Judges 6:1,2. Why did God have to chastise the Israelites, who had been in the Promised Land about forty years? What did they do next (vs 2)?
2. When things got even worse, what were their actions (vs 6)? How is that exactly like people today (9/11 is a great example!)?

God’s Solution:

3. In verses 7-10, God lets Israel know why He was upset with them, but in His grace, He would provide a deliverer. Read verses 14-17, as the Lord calls Gideon. Who does Gideon remind you of, as he tries to get out of the job of delivering Israel (Exodus 3:9ff)?
4. How is that like our lack of faith when God calls us to move out of our comfort zone?

God’s Victory:

5. By the end of chapter 6, how many men did Gideon have, to fight against the Midianites? In 7:1-7, what conversation does Gideon have with God?
6. How many men did Gideon end up with? Will someone explain why God chose those who brought the water to their mouth to drink, to be those who would go with Gideon?

Gideon’s Final Years

7. Read Judges 8:22-27. Why is it so unbelievable that Gideon “became a snare” to Israel, after all that the Lord had done for him?
8. Asking ourselves the same question, how many times has God done something miraculous for you, only for you to leave Him for a season?

What Are Some Applications?

• Defeating fear requires faith
• Defeating fear requires Focus
• Defeating fear requires Fidelity

Close:

Israel had turned away from the God who had delivered them from Egypt about eighty years prior. They had begun to worship the foreign gods and live as the heathen nations around them. God had to reprimand them for their sinful ways, giving them as slaves to the Midianites until they were ready to turn back to Him.

Gideon, a real person in a real-life situation, teaches us that men’s hearts, no matter the lifestyle or their era, never change. When God chose Gideon to deliver Israel, he begged for a sign that he was doing what God wanted. Today, we also might desire a tangible indication we are in His will, but it is our step of faith that God is looking for. We must discipline ourselves to be in His word so much, that it becomes part of who we are, always listening for Him to speak through the verses.

After Gideon’s miraculous experience with the Midianites, we would assume his time of judging Israel was with a focus of bringing the nation back to the One true God. But Gideon, in a strange move, took his eyes off God and repeated Aaron’s offense by making a golden object of worship. Letting our attention become misplaced onto things of the world is a sure way to get away from God. Israel went through generation after generation of faithfulness, then backsliding—doing evil, being chastised, and back to fidelity. How much God desires that we remain faithful, trusting Him no matter what comes our way! He is not our God only when things are going well: we must have such trust that the greatest hurts we bear are carried, knowing He is working in our lives.

What are your “Midianites,” and are you trusting the Lord to help you defeat them?

Memory Verse: Judges 6:16: And the Lord said to him, “Surely I will be with you, and you shall defeat the Midianites as one man.” (NKJV)

 

 

 

 

This is Your Life
June 25, 2017
Charles Billingsley

Open:

If you could use one word that describes the present condition of your life, what would that be (happy, overwhelmed, etc.)? Explain if you would like.

Today, as a congregation, we say goodbye to our worship leader, Charles Billingsley. We do so with sadness because he is moving so far away, but with joy that he has placed doing God’s will above his own desires. As we know, being in the center of God’s will is the only foundation on which to build a great life.

Focal Passage: Acts 16:6-34

Discuss:

The Great Life Begins with Surrender

1. To surrender ourselves to Jesus, what must we know about Him?
2. What is the difference between the “ways” of God, and the “will” of God?
3. Read verses 6-8. What was happening to Paul? Being hindered in heading toward two areas he felt he should visit, did he sit and wait for instructions or continue daily being faithful in what he had been doing? How is that a lesson for us?

The Great Life is Energized by Purpose

4. In verses 11-15, what purpose did God have for sending them to Philippi? Did Paul consider any of his own desires as he carried out the mission God had given him? How can you support your answer with the verses so far?
5. Read verses 20-24. Paul drove a demon from a girl who practiced divination. What was the result? Were they carrying out God’s plan and purpose when this imprisonment happened? How does that reinforce the memory verse (end of page 2)?

The Great Life is Sustained by Worship

6. Read verse 25. Imagine yourself in the same circumstances; can you comprehend having a hymn-fest? What did the hymns indicate of the heart attitude of Paul, Silas, Timothy and Luke?
7. Read verse 26. Their worship had power: what did God do for them? What do you assume they expected from their worship?

The Great Life is Motivated by Love

8. Read verses 27-28. If this were a movie, there would be no such result from an earthquake! Paul never wavered from the path God had set him on. What was his first thought in these verses?
9. In verses 29-34 we see the result of Paul’s love for God and for others. Can you compare that to the love you show as you carry out your daily activities?

Close:

Questions for you to consider: Am I totally surrendered to God? Am I energized by His plan and His purpose for my life? Am I sustaining my walk with him with a lifestyle of worship? Am I motivated by a genuine love for Him and a love for others?

The questions should allow you to fully know your own heart. It is so easy for us to hold back in some areas, because we feel we can control circumstances and not have to wait for Him to act. Do you spend enough time in His word that you are aware of His plan for your life? As Charles illustrated with the heavy fog, we only need enough faith to take the next step! It is not mandatory that we know the whole path. The faith comes in taking the one step we know He desires. Are you worshiping Him daily, spending time in His word, and perhaps having hymns and praise music on quietly in the background? A busy life limits our time to read, but knowing one or two verses well is better than reading a whole chapter while your mind is jumping from one subject to another. Meditate on a verse during the day when you have a few moments to yourself. If other thoughts interfere, take a second to jot them in a small notebook, so you can relieve your mind of forgetting about the matter. And, finally, what is your love “gauge” like?  Do you envision yourself always putting the other person’s needs before your own? Do you sincerely have a love for Jesus that exceeds your love for all others? If you lack in any of these areas, pray that God will help you as you surrender to Him daily, in every way.

Memory Verse: Luke 9:23: “Then Jesus said to them all, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’”

 

 

 

What Does Service Look Like?
June 11, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

What do you fear the most when you think of being called to help in any given task outside of your home? Do you consider yourself a follower or a leader?

When you asked Jesus Christ to save you from your sins, you believed He is God and that He paid your sin debt. You confessed those sins, and turned from them, as we are told in Romans 10:10. You may have wondered “what next?” Christ said in Luke 10:27 the two things He desires is for us to “Love the Lord your God,” and “Love your neighbor as yourself”— both beginning with the action of “love.” This week we will look at verses from the Sermon of the Mount to get a further grasp of what our service should look like.

Focal Passage: Matthew 5:13-16

Discuss:

We Are to Speak the Truth

1. Read the verses from Matthew 5:13-16. In the simplest analogy, share what being salt to the world means for a believer. Does that describe you? How?
2. What are the two main uses for salt? Did Jesus mean one, or both? Explain how we do each.
3. Read Ephesians 4:15; what is necessary when we speak truth to the world?

We Are to Show Love

4. In verse 14a, what is the responsibility of the believer? Read John 3:20, 21. Now answer the question from this perspective.
5. What is the condition of much of the world in this age we are living? Based on these verses, will most people actively seek out a church to try to change their sinful behavior? Does that make verse 14a hold a deeper meaning?

We Are Not to Be Ashamed

6. Read verse 14b. Can you briefly share a “soap box” you are passionate about, when fear of others’ attitudes become secondary to your fervor? How does this demonstrate our verse? Why are we not this outspoken for Jesus?
7. Do you have a story of sharing the gospel, and what you learned from it? If it was negative, did that cause you to quit? Why was that the wrong decision?

We Are to Share the Gospel

8. Read verse 15. Have you ever wondered if, when you stand before God, hundreds—perhaps thousands—of souls were standing nearby, all of whom you had the opportunity to witness to, but didn’t? Will anyone be in heaven because of you? Those are sobering thoughts! If you don’t share Jesus, who will? Discuss your thoughts for a moment.

We Are to Set the Pace

9. Read verse 16. What is the result supposed to be, when we share the light of the gospel of peace?

Close:

When the moment came that gave you a choice to accept Jesus as God’s Son, who paid your debt of sin, and you said “Yes!” that was your first step of obedience—speaking the truth (the confession). Have you ever envisioned a pitch-black room, and realized what a small amount of light it takes to make those who are inside feel some comfort? Even something so tiny as a match from a “book” is enough to bring light into the room. If you could imagine yourself being that light, in a world of darkness, would it give you a jump start to witnessing? He asks that you love Him enough to share just what you know with those around you. You’re not asked to have a degree in Theology—just tell what He did for you. Failure to share Jesus is based in fear of being asked what you don’t know.  And yet in other areas—teams, movies, politics, etc.—we usually don’t let ourselves be beaten down by fear. Have you asked yourself why?

If witnessing is something you are insecure about, ask a stronger Christian to go with you, and carry a schedule of upcoming events from your church, and a few tracts, and begin by knocking on doors. Be laid back, with a low-key invitation to church. Start with a small goal of homes for the first week, increasing it until you reach a comfortable number. This is something that God cares passionately about, which should make it a priority for us! Pray that He would send the right person to go with you, and then for the courage to “let your light shine.”

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:16 “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

How Do We Let Our Light Shine?

1. Consecration: Live your life in your own area of influence so well that others can think of nothing bad to say about you (Titus 2:7,8).
2. Dedication: Work hard so that you don’t have to be ashamed before God (2 Timothy 2:15, 24).
3. Motivation: Keep moving forward, even in the face of adversity (Philippians 3:13-15).

Personal Commitments

1. Daily Bible Reading and study
2. Committed to prayer

Not My Jesus: What Does Jesus Say About YOU?
May 28, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Love has become a common expression for everything from our feelings for a chocolate cake, pizza, certain cars to people we know. Can you share an example from your life when you’ve been challenged by the word “love”?

Having carefully examined evidence by secular historians showing that Jesus lived, reading records of the witnesses who saw Him through His ministry and after the resurrection, studying His own witness of Himself and the witness of God as to who He is, we should now know we can trust the truth of what He says about you or me in our relationship with Him. Let’s look at how He values those who choose to obey Him.

Focal Passage: John 15:1-27

Discuss:

You are Ready

1. Read verse 2. What does Jesus say happens to us at salvation? What does this make you ready for?
2. Perhaps you have a “green thumb”; what occurs when you take care of your flowers or plants? How does God take care of us?

You are Protected

3. In verse 5a, what did Jesus say our relationship to Him is like?
4. If you break a branch off a tree, what happens to it? Can we exist as believers, without Christ? Why?

You are Powerful

5. Read 5b. How do we remain in Jesus? What is the evidence of a person who is abiding in Christ?
6. What is promised to believers in this verse? What is the warning?

You are Loved

7. Read verses 9-10. What are some terms you could use to describe God’s love for His Son (who was worthy)? Can you comprehend that Jesus loves us (who are unworthy) with that same love? How?
8. How do we remain in His love? What is the greatest example that we know that Jesus obeyed God’s will, remaining in His (God’s) love?

You are promised Joy

9. Read verse 11. What “things” was Jesus referring to?
10. How much joy does He promise us if we love and obey Him?

You are His friend

11. Read verses 14-15. What do we call those with whom we have a “waving” relationship? What about those with whom we share time, food, fun?
12. In Amos 3:3, God asks, “Do two people walk hand in hand if they are not going to the same place?” This implies an answer of No! In verse 15, how does that confirm what Jesus is saying about our being called His friend?

You are Chosen

13. What does Jesus say in verse 16? How should that impact our lives? When we “choose” anything, why does it become special to us just by the fact that we are making the choice to embrace it (a spouse, a car, a house, etc.)?

You are given great help

14. Read verse 16. Does anyone remember the old hymn, “His Eye is on the Sparrow,” and if so, can you recall the first verse? If not, look at Matt. 6:30, 33, and John 14:16. Who is this Comforter? How will He help us?

You are Forgiven

15. Have any of you seen a dead person or animal sit up? What can they do? How does this illustrate what God has done for us who believe? Read Romans 10:9, 10 if you need to clarify this.

Close:

Did you grow up in a dysfunctional family, where love was not a priority as much as discipline? Or possibly yours was just an undemonstrative family, and you never learned to show your love. Both are common, and make it harder for us to understand God’s love for us, as we are full of sin! Yet as we read the scriptures, Jesus not only speaks of His love for us, but also has shown it by dying for us, and we see that His is an active love, full of grace and longsuffering, with “mercies that are new every morning” (Lam. 3:22, 23). We should take heart! Phil. 4:13 assures us that through Christ, we can accomplish anything—showing love to the unlovely, grace to those who don’t deserve it, even prayer for our enemies to know Christ. A life full of joy is promised to us if we are steadfast in our walk with Him, not worrying about tomorrow. As the song says, we should not be discouraged because—if His eye is on the little sparrow—how much more does He love us, who are “but dust”! Carry that thought with you this week!

Memory Verse: John 15:11: “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.”

 

Not My Jesus: What Jesus Really Said
May 14, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell
Video: Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., 1975

 

Open:

Thinking of driving on the Autobahn in Germany seems like a driver’s dream, especially when you’re stuck on a U.S. Interstate trapped behind cars going less than a stated speed limit. Why would no speed limit seem so tantalizing, and is that the way the Autobahn is in reality?

This week we want to carefully absorb some of the instructions for Christians, for a life blessed by God, from Jesus Himself. In this series, “Not My Jesus,” we’ve looked at the myths surrounding Jesus, the views the world has, Jesus’ own witness of who He is, and the witness of God the Father. Now we will look at several of His guidelines for happiness, apply those truths to our daily living and ask the Holy Spirit to reveal areas where we need to become more like Him!

Focal Passage: Matthew 5:1-12.

Discuss:

The Humble in Heart

1. Read verses 1-3. Why does the Bible specifically say, “He opened His mouth and taught them”—does anyone remember?
2. What characterizes someone who is “poor in spirit”? Why would they attain happiness?

The Mourners

3. In verse 4, what type of mourners did Jesus mean?
4. Read Luke 18:13, and 1 Tim. 1:15, 16. How do these two passages confirm the need for people to mourn their sinful state, and what does God do to comfort them?

The Inheritors

5. What do you think of when you hear the term “meek”? What are some of the Biblical meanings of meek?
6. When you think of something being “inherited,” what crosses your mind? How or why would these people inherit the earth? Someone read Phil. 4:11-13. How does being content within your circumstances give you blessings?

Those Who Hunger and Thirst

7. Verse 6: When is the last time you were truly hungry, or extremely thirsty? How can you develop your spiritual appetite so that you desire God’s word daily, meditating on it even “in the night watches”?
8. Read Job 23:12b. How does this passage illustrate verse 6 of Matthew 5? What will change in your life if you desire God’s word with the same craving you exercise in your food life?

 Close:

You’re probably wondering, how does the Autobahn illustrate our spiritual life? Many live their lives as if there are no rules or consequences, which isn’t the true reality. Yet the world assumes following Jesus is a life of do’s and don’ts, and perceive it as taking away everything they think they enjoy—their “speed limits” if you will. The truth is, Jesus says following Him results in a life of being blessed (happy). In today’s sermon, we were so privileged to hear a forty-two-year-old message by Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., as he reiterated that blessings come on the lives of those who live in a manner that pleases God. Just as we are pleased to give our approval to our children when they obey with a great attitude, so God chooses to bless us when we strive to live holy, sanctified lives. Is that something you desire, as Job did? After hearing the message, did you weigh your lifestyle against the message Jesus taught on living a life of peace with God? It’s never about rules: it’s about the heart attitude, and the desire to please the God who bought us with His own blood! This week, as you go about your daily routine, take your spiritual pulse often to make certain your heart is beating in sync with His. Share His love when the opportunity presents itself. What if God has placed you here for such a time as this?

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:1,2: “And seeing the multitudes, He went up on a mountain, and when He was seated His disciples came to Him. Then He opened His mouth and taught them saying.”

Not My Jesus: The World’s View of Jesus
April 30, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Can you think of a time you became involved in something because you didn’t have all the facts about the situation? Would you share?

Our world has such a confused idea of Jesus Christ, and Who He is! We must be careful in conversation that we are not agreeing with a doctrinal statement someone is making until we know that their idea of Jesus is in line with the Word of God. As we saw last week, no serious historian denies that Jesus actually lived, but few believe Him to be the Son of God. This week we continue the new series in which we determine that our view of Jesus not only must be true, we must know why it’s true.

Focal Passages: Matthew 16:1-17.

Discuss:

The World is always looking for a sign

1. Read Matt. 16:1-4. Had these scribes and Pharisees been following Jesus as He had been performing miracles? If so, what was the real reason for their statement in verse 1?
2. What did Jesus say would be the evidence of His claim that He was the Messiah? If they had really wanted to believe, what would they have done?
3. How is that like people today who beg God for a miracle (for the life, health, etc. of someone perhaps), and then they “will believe”? Can you discuss what comes to mind?

There are signs from above and signs from below

4. In verses 5-12, what were the disciples missing? What had they seen—probably nearly every day—while they had been with Jesus?
5. Yet Jesus still needed to warn them of the deceitfulness of false doctrine. Why did He need to counsel them to be careful not to be swayed by error?
6. Taking the world religions individually, why did the Jews not accept Jesus as the Messiah the prophets had written of? Islam denies Jesus’ deity; whose word are they ignoring? They deny the crucifixion; last week, how many witnesses saw Jesus alive after the crucifixion? Hinduism embraces thousands of gods; can you think of Jesus’ own words that would refute this doctrine? Buddhism also denies He is the Son of God. Atheists For Christ leave out the crucifixion. How then, do they think they can be saved? (If you need to, look at the end!)
7. Why do we need to be so diligent to teach the next generation there is only One Way?

The greatest revelation of who Jesus Is? Himself!

8. In verses 13-17, what had Jesus asked His disciples? Who revealed this to Peter?
9. If you were asked by anyone who He is, what would you say? What evidence do you have? (Hopefully, a changed life!)

 

Close:

Because the world does not have a correct view of Jesus Christ as revealed in the Scripture, it has gone crazy with its own rules for sinful lifestyles, making it vital that we know the Biblical guidelines God has set. Jesus knew the disciples were going to face “wolves” among the believers, and warned them in our focal passage to guard against accepting things at face value. Now, two thousand years later, we are in an even more precarious position, as we see our values undermined, not being allowed to have an opinion that goes against society, and being called out for “hate crimes” if we label Biblical sin as sin. Paul warned believers in Eph. 4:14 to not be carried away by every “wind of doctrine,” and in both letters to Timothy as well as Titus he warns us to hold fast to sound doctrine—that men, in fact, would come to hate it. We see this today all around the world. Doctrine—a scary word to many—is simply the set of principles God has established that His people may strive to live holy, sanctified lives. Paul writes in 1 Thess.  4:3, “For this is the will of God for you, your sanctification!”  Let us go forward toward that goal, reaching out in love to the many who have an inaccurate view of Him!

 

Jews: They expected someone who would rise as a military leader. Islam: Jesus Himself stated He and the Father are One (John 10:30); also, John 1:1-5; and denying the resurrection, they ignore the 515+ people who saw Jesus alive. Hinduism: Jesus stated, “I am the Way, the Truth and the Life; no man comes to the Father except by Me” (John 14:6).  Atheists for Christ also ignore the witnesses who saw Jesus after the resurrection; they believe their good works will get them to heaven.

 

Outsiders: Truly He Is The Son of God
April 16, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Sometimes it takes more than one circumstance to finally “connect the dots.” Can you think of an instance when this has been the case for you?

This week we finish looking at four people who were personally affected by the events surrounding the crucifixion, and their reaction to Jesus Christ. The centurion, doubtless having been involved from the night of the arrest to the last breath taken by Jesus, had the light of understanding hit him as he watched Jesus die. As all the dots began to be connected, this man, intimately involved in the crucifixion, made a profound statement that has gone into the very Word of God: “Truly this was (is) the Son of God!”

Focal Passages: Mark 15:20-39; Mark 16:1-7.

Discuss:

The Prologue

1. Looking back at the events that led to the crucifixion of Jesus Christ, one’s mind finds it hard to cope with the series of situations that ended in such an inhumane way. What seems to have been the beginning of this ending (from a human view point)?
2. As the jealousy among the Jewish religious leaders escalated, what was their next step?
3. They plotted how best to get Jesus alone to kill him; who played into their hands? What do you think the other disciples would have done if they had realized Judas was about to betray Jesus (speculation)?
4. What happened when Judas told the Jews where they could find Jesus? Who came to the garden the night Jesus was praying? What was their intention?

The Terrible Hours

5. The Roman military came to arrest Jesus. Who was probably one of the main authorities, one who would give orders, and be on hand throughout the following day? What events did he see in the Garden of Gethsemane?
6. When Jesus’ “case” went from the religious leaders to the governing authorities, how did they react? How did they keep “passing the buck”?
7. What happened next?
8. As Pilate ordered the crucifixion, who probably was on hand to carry it out?
9. What did Scripture predict the Messiah would do (Isaiah 53:7)?

 The Death

10. Who, more than likely, was in charge of the order to nail Jesus to the tree?
11. As he watched the events now out of his hands, what did he see happen before his eyes?
12. How did all those events affect him? What were his words?

The Victory!

Close:

As believers, we know the victory that was just around the corner! The hurt, pain, sense of loss, despair—and so much more—that the disciples and followers of Jesus went through during those three days can only be speculated about. We, on the other hand, have read “the end of the story,” and know that Sunday morning the tomb Joseph gave to the family of Jesus was empty! Tradition has it that the stone was guarded by the same centurion who had doubtless overseen the soldiers in the garden the night of His arrest, then in charge of those who carried out the crucifixion on Friday, and was afterward given charge to guard the tomb. If so, he could have seen the sight of the angel rolling the stone away, giving the guards on duty a shock so great they fainted. All we know for sure is that He came out of the tomb and appeared to the women, to the disciples, and before ascending into heaven, more than five hundred or more people. Seeing Him caused them to believe, and change the world. And He is still changing it today!

Which group do you belong in? Those who are familiar with the events of the crucifixion and have had your life changed because of it, or the group of those who know about it, but have no interest in a changed life? It’s a choice that must be made this side of eternity. One rich man in hell begged Abraham—across a chasm—to send someone to tell his family that hell is real, only to be told it was too late (Luke 16:19-31). Don’t wait—if God is speaking to your heart, answer Him today!

 

 

Outsiders: One for All
April 2, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Going into “survival mode” in order to keep a job, one’s family, or even one’s position of influence or way of life can result in actions that are sometimes ruthless! Can you think of an example (it can even be from the Scripture)?

This week we look at the second of four characters who were affected by the crucifixion, and their reaction to the life of Jesus. Caiaphas, the high priest, was so fearful at his loss of position that he plotted His murder to the extent of finding people willing to lie under oath.

Focal Passage: John 11:45-57.

Further Passages: Matt. 26:57-68; John 2:19-22.

Discuss:

The world is always looking for another way

1. Read Matt. 26:59. How far were the Jewish religious leaders willing to go to bring about the death of Jesus? What was more important to Caiaphas, learning the truth about Jesus or stopping Him before he lost the power of his position as High Priest?
2. Read John 11:48. What were the religious leaders afraid of? How is that like today, when people we know, or work with, tell false accusations against you or someone you know, to keep or advance in their job? What is the difference—or is there any?

Jesus claimed to be able to do what no one could imagine

3. Read verse 60b, 61. What was Jesus referring to? (John 2:19-22)
4. Read Isa. 29:13. How does this verse illustrate the blindness of the religious leaders?

Sometimes in the most difficult moments of life, He remains silent

5. Read verses 62-64. What did Jesus just tell Caiaphas? Was he now at a crossroads, able to choose to believe Jesus, or annihilate Him to retain his own position? Would he be responsible at judgment for his choice?
6. Can you share a time when you thought Jesus was being silent, when He was actually working on your behalf?
7. Jesus was not powerless while silent! Why is He willing to test your faith when He knows His timing is perfect? Read James 1:3,4. How does He want us to react?

Jesus’ plan was the one so desperately needed

8. Read verses 49,50. What was significant about Caiaphas’ statement?
9. What did it provide?
10. Read Romans 5:15, 18. What did the death of this One Man accomplish?

Would you be willing to be “all in” for Christ?

Close:

We can probably not comprehend the group of religious leaders gathered to take down the Creator of the universe. Caiaphas is a great example of God using many different types of people for His work (as He did with Pharaoh.) Don’t ever assume because someone is plying “religion” as their trade, that they are in a close relationship with Jesus Christ! And we all have heard the story of the crucifixion so many times that we must concentrate as we read, begging God to give us a fresh perspective. Caiaphas had been ruling as High Priest for about 17 years (it is ironic that he lost his position soon thereafter), and enjoyed power and prestige; now it was threatened because of the popularity of One Man, and the entire group was afraid of losing control. Is that why we falter in our faith? Have you considered something so insignificant as “worry” being because you lack control of a situation? Taking Jesus at His word, having faith that His silence is working to bring about His timing for your good, is critical in your walk with Him, and your growing in faith. Let the evidence of His own testimony (“I am He” John 4:26, “It is as you said” Matt. 26:64) cause you to examine the depth of your trust in His perfect work on the cross, and His perfect timing for your plans. You will not regret it when you get through the trial!

Memory Verse: John 11:50: “…nor do you consider that it is expedient for us that one man should die for the people, and not that the whole nation should perish.”

Storytellers: The Story of a Servant
March 19, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell, with Dr. David Wheeler

 

Open:

Another week! What exciting story, game, or piece of information happened this week that you could hardly wait to share?

This week we finish the short series on the importance of sharing the story of our encounter with the living Christ. We want to focus on the story of someone who lived—more than likely—as a rejected woman, but ended up changing a village with her testimony. Is it possible our reputation could be any worse—and our testimony be any greater?

Focal Passage: John 4:1-30, 39-42

Discuss:

See the Worth of Every Person

1. Read John 4:1-7. What were some of the reasons the trip through Samaria was unusual? How did the Jews view Samaritans, and women in particular?
2. What was Jesus’ physical condition as He sat at the well (verse 6)? What would be “natural” in that moment?

See Them the Way Christ Sees Them

3. Read verses 7-10. What did Jesus see as He spoke with the woman who came to the well?
4. Read verse 11. What is significant about the lack of a dipper? How would you react if you needed to share a drink with someone who was “unclean”?

See the Value of the Message

5. Read verse 10b. What was He trying to get her to ask for?
6. Think: How much time each week do you intentionally put yourself in a place where you will meet people who need to hear your message?

See the Importance of Telling Them

7. Read verses 28-30. What possibly took place within the woman’s heart that she would risk rejection by running back to town? If you could put yourself in her place, do you think her countenance had changed any, so as to be believed by the men of Samaria?

 

Do Whatever It Takes

8. Read verses 40-42. What was the outcome of the extra time Jesus spent in Samaria?
9. How often do you get out of your box to tell your story?

           

Action Applications:

1. Everyone matters to Jesus! Be intentional in going to places where you will find the lost.
2. Be willing to share not only your story, but also minister to needs; would Jesus have drunk from her dipper, had she gone ahead and gotten Him water?
3. He gave her respect, even though she was a woman of low virtue; He “valued” her.
4. Be willing to inconvenience yourself if you have an opportunity to share your story with more people, because of the one.
5. Pray that God would put you in a pond where there are many fish!

 

Close:

As you watch a movie or read a book, do you get caught up in the story line, and live the situation? If so, you’ll be able to envision and empathize with the woman who went to the well. She probably waited until the other women had come and gone—after all, it was possible she had been intimate with several husbands in the village—and she was not a popular person. The only ones who showed her attention more than likely were the men who used her. Yet as she approached the well, there sat a Jew, who with compassion in His eyes, spoke to her as if she were of value, and asked for water. The conversation is not all recorded, but He must have made such an impression that she ran back to the town to tell those who would listen that it was possible the Messiah was in Samaria! She had a story that changed the lives of a town. If you went outside your comfort zone, would you find a group who needs to hear your story, that there is Someone who loves them, died to pay for their sins, and is not willing that any go to hell, but can receive forgiveness and eternal life? Pray God will use you to share your story!

Memory Verse: John 4:10: Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is who says to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked Him and He would have given you living water.”

 

 

Storytellers: The Story of Sight

March 5, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Nearly everyone has a favorite story that they love to share, whether it’s for encouragement, humor or pure enjoyment. Although we have only time for a couple, will someone share their much-loved story?

For three weeks, we are going to look at some of the true stories that were written about Jesus’ ministry, trying to identify the characteristics of the storyteller, and decide what points he was trying to make as he re-told the events. This week we will look at the story of Jesus as He restores sight to a man blind from birth.

Focal Passage: John 9:1-27

Discuss:

The Beginning of a Story

1. Read John 9:1-3. What were some of the main points about the man who had been born blind?
2. Did the man need faith to obey the instructions of Jesus? Why or why not? (For a parallel passage to study, read 2 Kings 5:9-12.)

The Power of a Story

3. Read verses 6-9. What were some of the reasons this man felt an urgency to assure people that he was the one who had been healed?
4. If this had been you, what would have been your reaction or feelings?

The Faith of a Storyteller

5. Read verses 10-11. Why was he able to be convincing as he told of the experience with Jesus?
6. Which was his greater determination, to give Jesus the credit for healing him, or be afraid of what the Jewish leaders would do to him? Why?

The Courage of a Storyteller

7. Read verses 15, 25-26. Can you understand his frustration when the Jews kept interrogating him with the same questions over and over? Why?
8. Read verses 18-20. What had his parents done?

The Importance of a Storyteller

9. Read verse 4. What did Jesus say your important job is? Why? What is your story? Are you excited to tell it—as the blind man—or are you fearful of repercussions from external sources, as his parents were?

Action Applications:

1. Decide if you have a story. If you have been granted the gift of salvation, you have something to tell the world;
2. Be committed to sharing your story at each and every opportunity;
3. Pray each day that God would bring someone who needs to hear your story;
4. Share your story even though you may experience sarcasm, doubt or skepticism!

Close:

We all have a favorite part of some movie—a line or two that perhaps defines the entire storyline for us. In “Up Close and Personal,” a mentored journalist eventually eclipses her teacher, ending with a final scene where she accepts an award with words dedicated to his memory: “He told me to ‘just tell the story’.” Whenever life throws a curve ball, those words come to mind: just tell the story. 2 Corinthians 5:17 tells us that if “any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away, behold all things become new.” A new life, a new creation, old things passed away—what more could a good story have as a plot? If you have been saved, you have the story inside you, waiting for every opportunity to share it with someone who needs it. Pray this week that God would guide you to that person!

Memory Verse: John 9:39: For judgment I have come into this world, that those who do not see may see, and that those who see may be made blind.”

 

Overflow: Risk and Reward
February 19, 2017
 Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Making any type of decision to eliminate bad habits, hurts or hang-ups from our lives can be exhausting—causing us to often forget to look for the rewards that follow. Can someone share an example when you reaped a benefit because you made a right choice?

For several weeks we have been looking at the “weights” or sins that can be heavy burdens in our lives, particularly debt and discouragement. This week we want to look at the rewards that come when we have gotten those encumbrances out of our lives, and are finally able to focus on the joy of lining our actions up with holy living.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 13:1-6

Discuss:

Truly Love One Another

1. Read verse 1. What happens when you are angry at yourself, and someone needs you? Your answer should demonstrate the importance of ridding your life of those sins from Heb. 12:1. How are you supposed to love those who are your family in the faith?
2. What are some characteristics of the love spoken of here? How does this line up with 1 John 4:20? Gal. 5:22 might help if you need some ideas.

Have Room to Help Others

3. Read verses 2 and 3. Because of today’s uncertain world, this principle from God’s word is not as easy as it was in the time of the disciples. What are some alternate ways we can practice generosity to those whom we don’t know?
4. In James 1:27, we are told to minister to widows and orphans; here are two more categories God is concerned that we care for. What are they? Read Isaiah 61:1; did Jesus do this? What are some practical ways you can do this?

Have the Marriage We’ve Always Dreamed About

5. Read verse 4a. What type of marriage are you to strive for? Why does God want your marriage to be as beautiful as the relationship of Christ loving the church? Who all does a marriage affect?
6. Read verse 4b, then read James 1:14,15. Where does adultery begin? If lust begins in the mind and heart, (thought), what does that tell us about temptations from online, books, etc.? What responsibility do females have in their dress code?

Have the Right Attitudes About “Stuff”

7. Read verse 5. Do you know that God actually owns all that we have? What is a steward and how is that different from an owner? What are we commanded in verse 5?
8. If you actually prayed about all your purchases before buying, would you think of yourself as being too materialistic?

Have the Right Attitude About God

9. Read verse 6. What has God promised us? Do you really believe that He is your helper? Why or why not? When you worry, what are you saying to God?

Action Applications:

1. Get rid of pride: look for it in your life and pray for deliverance;
2. Look for opportunities to bless others: pray that God would open your eyes to those occasions;
3. Look at your spouse as a gift, not a burden;
4. Stop caring so much about “stuff” and don’t get caught up in materialism;
5. Start truly caring about your relationship with God, and discipline yourself to spending time with Him daily! A haphazard faith will result in a hazardous life.

Close:

This week’s study is a perfect example of a garden that has had the weeds and stones removed from the rows of growing vegetables, as we’ve tried to rid our lives of the things that would cause us not to flourish in Christ! Now we can put into practice those things which will make life joyful: our relationship with God, with our brothers and sisters, and our service to our community and the world. Only by being free from the burdens that weigh us down can we experience the freedom that Jesus wants us to have.  As you read through the passage in Hebrews, look at all the relationships that He cares most about: your family in Christ, your family given to you by God (i.e., spouse, children), your ability to serve those whom you don’t know, those who are bound by Satan somehow, and your relationship with Him­, who has promised to meet your needs, provide abundant life for you, and never leave you or forsake you! What more could you ask from life? Pray daily that your life will please Him.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 13:5: “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Overflow: The Biggest Connection to the Right Direction
February 5, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Inevitably, as a human being, we will sin. That sin may eventually result in consequences that can cause us to be discouraged. Can you think of something you can share?

Today we look at Hebrews 12, focusing on laying “aside the sin that so easily ensnares us.” We want to examine the first of two types of discouragement: one that results when our own sinful choice or action causes consequences that may result in our becoming depressed. (The second—caused by others—will be looked at next week). The discouragement can be a tool Satan uses to rob us of our joy as a believer, crowding out our effectiveness.

Focal Passage: Hebrews 12:1, 5-13

Discuss:

All sin has consequences

1. Read Rom. 3:23. What sin is specified here? How does God view sin?
2. What about the consequences of sin—can they differ? How?
3. Read Heb. 12:5 If sin is continued, or left unconfessed, as a loving Father, what must God do?

Those consequences can leave us discouraged if we don’t see their value

4. Does confession eliminate the consequences? Give examples.
5. Read verse 6. Why is it important to examine the consequences to see their value?

God’s discipline is a clear picture of His love for us

6. Read verses 7-8. Why must you be disciplined because of sin?
7. Read Prov. 3:11-12 and 14:34. Why should these verses bring you comfort?
8. If God does NOT discipline you for sin, what may this mean?

This discipline will ALWAYS make us better

9. Read verses 10-11. What is the purpose of God’s discipline? In verse 11, what should be the result?

Don’t allow these moments to get you down; let them raise you up

10. Read verses 12-13. What is the picture this passage paints of the effect of discouragement on the physical body?
11. How can Satan use discouragement to rob you of your usefulness to Christ, and your joy as a Christian? Read Phil. 3:13-14. How can you apply this verse to yourself?

Action Applications:

1) Make a list of consequences you are facing, or have faced, as a result of bad decisions or sin;
2) Evaluate each one from the viewpoint of what you learned from those consequences;
3) If you can’t find something you’ve learned, take some time to determine what you should learn;
4) If there is unconfessed sin that is part of this, confess it and ask forgiveness;
5) If you need to seek forgiveness for something you’ve done to others, do so.
6) Is there an action you need to take to move past it?
7) Move on!

Close:

Discipline! Not a word we really like, as it indicates an action that has been done and is going to have a “reaction.” If your child begins doing something that can have dire consequences if continued, you want to stop it before it becomes a habit, and you institute a punishment to change or correct behavior. God also has standards for us, and when we violate those standards with our living, He must discipline us. The comfort found in God’s discipline is that He only does this to those whom He calls His children. (To be sinful but see no discipline should cause you to closely examine your life to make sure you are saved.) And often our actions have consequences that may go on for the rest of our lives. If we are not careful and intentional, we may find the discouragement of long-standing consequences can ruin our joy, rob us of being useful Christians, and affect our health. Don’t let Satan “devour” you by telling you that you are worthless, but pray constantly that your life lines up with the biblical standards He has given. “Lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily ensnares you,” and run your race with strength!

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:11: “Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterwards it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”

Thought: Sometimes, when we are in sin and discipline does not come immediately, we may feel we have “gotten away with it.” This is addressed in Romans 2:4 when Paul writes, “Or do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and longsuffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?” God may extend His patience and mercy, allowing us time to realize how badly we are hurting Him, but not at all ignoring the sin. To continue without discipline should bring us to our knees even more quickly, as His goodness should lead us to an even greater repentance! If not, we may be despising the “riches of His goodness” and incur even greater wrath.

 

Overflow: Proven Biblical Money Principles
January 15, 2017
Dave Ramsey

 

Open:

It probably comes as no surprise that money problems are one of the greatest causes of dissension in a home. Can you share some of the reasons this is true?

Today we begin a new series entitled “Overflow.” With all the advertising thrown at us daily, it’s hard not to get caught up in having the latest version of everything available. However, in doing so, debt accumulates, which in turn causes problems for anyone trying to live the “American Dream.” At the same time, the Bible states that the borrower (the one in debt) is a slave to the lender (the bank, the credit card company, etc.) We are going to work our way through this series, hoping the reward will be financial freedom in our lives.

 

Discuss:

Live on a written Budget

1. Read Job 25:2, and 1 Cor. 14:33. What is one of the attributes of God? How is a budget a thing of “order”?
2. Read Luke 14:28. Who is speaking here? What point is Christ trying to get across to the people? What eventually happens when spending is not controlled?

Avoid Debt

3. Read Prov. 22:7. How does this verse translate to your paycheck and your bills?
4. Read Romans 13:8. This is God’s word to you; what does it say? Is this God’s best for you?
5. Read Luke 7:41-43. When Christ died on the cross of Calvary, what was happening to the sin debt that you were burdened with? Can you think of a greater example of freedom from debt than this?

Foster High Quality Relationships

6. Read Prov. 13:20. Why are your companions so important? Can you think of examples, perhaps of friends who gravitate to those who are like-minded?
7. Read Isaiah 41:6. What happens when a rotten apple or a potato are in a bag with many good ones? What lesson does that teach you about having companions who are not serious about their walk with Jesus?

Save and Invest

8. Read Eccl. 11:1-2. How is this verse a good plan for investing? Why does it make common sense?
9. Someone paraphrase Matt. 25:10-29. What point was Jesus trying to make?

Be Incredibly Generous

10. How does this principle illustrate the second of the “Two Greatest” commandments that Jesus gave?
11. Read Deut. 15:10. This is Old Testament! What was God trying to get you to see in this verse?

Close:

Five things! Five ways to organize your finances that will eventually result in freedom from bills that seem to come every day. Credit card companies assume a payoff time of thirty years—the length of most mortgages. Meanwhile, you are working many of your hours per week just to pay the interest on those material things you charged—things  that will soon be broken or tossed away, or possibly put in a yard sale. Take the first step and write out a budget: one that is sensible, yet gives boundaries for impulsive purchases. But as your finances need to be dealt with, be certain that you have also taken care of the greatest debt you’ll ever be chained by: that of your sin which can separate you from God! If someone came along and wrote you a check to cover all you owe, you would probably fall to your knees and cry. How much greater to know that He who had no sin became sin for you, so that you could [become free from your debt of sin, and] become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21). Start with being free from that debt, and then move to your finances.

Memory Verse: Hebrews 12:1: “Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”

 

 

 

A New Walk For A New You
January 1, 2017
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

A new year! As you think of the coming months, what’s on your mental calendar? You probably know some of the challenges you are going to face—others may take you by surprise. How prepared do you feel to face the next twelve months?

When we consider the beginning of a new year, we generally think of things in our own life or family that we would like to change. We decide January 1 is a good day to start, so we make a “resolution” to begin a new way of eating, exercising, habits, or whatever we feel needs to be improved. As a Christian, this is a great time to make a commitment to read the Scripture every day and see how our lives reflect the standards Jesus has set for us. Starting now will give you a full year to draw nearer to Him, and you will find the “new walk” will produce a “new you”!

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:17-32

 Discuss:

A New Walk

1. Read verses 17-19. Can you give examples showing how this passage reflects the world we live in today?
2. What do you consider your number one problem? Did you say “busyness”? Why is that a problem?
3. Be honest: when is your devotional life happening? If you are involved with your television, electronics, or listening to music for over 5 hours each day, do you discipline yourself to find time for God—hopefully first?
4. Read verse 24. What does God expect of you? If you call yourself a Christian, do you intentionally seek a relationship with Him, or do you just hope it will happen at some point during the day?

Here are a list of commitments to make for this new year:

1. Commit to make room in your schedule and your life for God.
2. Commit to make time for your family—apart from movies or watching tv.
3. Commit to make time for others, to serve and help them—perhaps even disciple them.

 A New You

5. If you spend quality time dieting or exercising this new year, what do you expect to happen? How is that analogous to exercising your spirit with God’s word and serving Him?
6. Who should benefit from your new focus if you truly make Him first in your life?
7. In verses 21-32, what are some things that you should see go out of your life? What should replace them?

Here are a list of commitments to make for A New You:

1. A commitment to live right (and get rid of the bad!)
2. A commitment to live better (renew your thoughts and attitudes)
3. A commitment to live with eternity in mind (and share Him with the world)

Close:

A friend said today, “I’m starting a diet. There’s still a ‘skinny’ inside here!” According to 2 Corinthians 5:17, “If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold all things have become new.” Just as the “skinny” inside the lady, there should be a “new creation” inside of us! That should be our standard for this coming year: we call ourselves Christians, so therefore, a new creation is inside of us. Do you have things left over from the “old” person you were that is still taking up residence, but needs to be moved out? All things in your life should have become new when you were saved. Did it? When you are going about your daily business, can the world tell that you are a Christian by your actions? If not, something is desperately needing to change. This is the first of the new year—let it be a beginning that will find you, on December 31, 2017, in such a close relationship with Jesus Christ that everyone will know, just from being around you, that He is in residence in your life! Pray for those whom you love who need to hear that He loves them, and pray that He will open a door for you to witness to them in the coming days. Let this be the year that you evangelize your world!

Memory Verse: Ephesians 4:32: “Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.”

Focal Passages: Ephesians 4:17-32.

 

 

 

Self on the Shelf: Our Worship Matters
December 11, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Often we hear the term worship used as in, “he worships the ground she walks on!” Can you think of other examples of worship used by the world, relating to things or people?

Over the past few weeks we have looked at the importance of the true meaning of the Christmas gift of the Savior, letting it impact our hearts, rather than centering our focus on the gifts under the tree. Today we are going to look at the response of Mary, as her entire being worshiped and magnified God in the acceptance of being the chosen mother to God’s Son, Jesus, who was to be born as a baby.

Focal Passages: Luke 1:46-55

 Discuss:

Worship Comes from Within: It is the condition of the heart in our daily living

1. What comes to your mind when you hear the word worship?
2. How did Mary worship God in verse 46?
3. Where should our worship originate? Can you think of a moment when spontaneous exaltation poured from you because God had done something wonderful for you?

A Life of Worship Results in a Response from God: He always responds to a humble heart

4. What did Mary mean when she referred to herself as “LOWLY”?
5. Why is God against the proud (verse 51)? Who is the epitome of Pride?
6. How does your heart alert you to times you are feeling prideful? Can you be worshiping at that time?

This Response is needed in Our Daily Struggle: His mercy overcomes anything we might face

7. In verse 50, who are the ones who are recipients of His mercy?
8. Why do we need His mercy daily? What happens when we decide we can handle a situation? What does that action stem from (verse 51)?

This Response is All that is Needed

9. Who does God have control over? Do you really believe that? Do you find yourself “helping” God in situations where you have prayed? Why?

This Response is Permanent

10. Who is the promise of verse 55 for? Who are the children spoken of here?
11. Mary had studied the Old Testament from a child. What did she believe about God’s promises? Do you believe them to the extent you would die for Him?

Close:

Worship is something that is not dependent on external circumstances, but originates in our soul and spirit. We may be “led” in worship by those who are having us join together in hymns of psalms and praise, but the joy in singing and praying should be an offering to our God for all He has done. Few things are more joyous than having spontaneous praise and gratefulness come from our heart because God has shown Himself mighty in a situation. Would that we would always be so full of worship that our soul and spirit magnify Him, as Mary’s did. As you go about this week, be aware of times that pride inserts itself into your life, squashing your wonder at the work God is trying to do. Pray daily that others see Jesus as you live your life, and your joy and peace are so deep that others desire to know Him and worship Him! Let your daily theme be “O, come, let us adore Him, Christ the Lord.”

Memory Verse: Luke 1:49: “For He who is mighty has done great things for me. And Holy is His name.”

Focal Passages: Luke 1:46-55, Prov. 16:18. A mirror response of Mary’s song is Hannah, in 1 Samuel 2:1-10.

C.H. Spurgeon, on Mary’s Song of Worship:

“My soul doth magnify the Lord.” Here is an occupation for all of us who know the Lord, and have been born into His family. It is an occupation which may be followed by all sorts of people. This humble woman speaks of her low estate, and yet she could magnify the Lord. All believers, of every rank and condition, can attend to this work. This is an occupation which can be followed in all places. You need not go up to the meeting house to magnify the Lord, you can do it at home. You may be tossed about upon the sea in a storm, but you may trust His name, and be calm, and so magnify Him. Or, you may be no traveler, and never go a hundred yards out of the village in which you were born, but you may magnify the Lord just as well for all that. This is not an occupation which requires a crowded congregation, it can be fitly performed in solitude. I suppose this sonnet of the Virgin was sung with only one [person] to hear it, her cousin Elizabeth. There is quorum for God’s praise even where there is only one; but, where there are two that agree to praise God, then is the praise exceeding sweet.

 

 

Self on the Shelf: Refocus or Regret
November 27, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Most of us have—at some point in our life—realized that if we continue down a certain path, it can lead to an end we’re not ready for. Can someone think of an example?

This week we enter the Christmas season, when the “wants” of our family (or ourselves) become the focus of much money and time. God entered this earth to provide us with salvation through the greatest story ever told. It is only by taking the attention off our own desires and focusing on Him that we will get the truth of what His coming means to each of us.

Focal Passages: 1 John 2:15-17; Luke 1:5-14

Discuss:

God’s View

1. In 1 John 2:15 and verse 17, what does God warn you to be alert for in your own life? He has told us what pleases Him in Luke 10:27. What does this mean to you personally?

QUESTION: This Christmas, how can I show my neighbor that he/she is more important than I am?

The World’s View

2. Read verses 16 and 17. What does the world tempt you with constantly? Think of the commercials you (or your children, or grandchildren, if applicable) see daily.
3. Can you illustrate with an example the truth that what should be the “Reason for the Season” has instead become all about you or your family?

QUESTION: What can you do to re-direct your focus from this path of having more “stuff,” to see that you are using it for the good of others?

A Refocused Heart is One Fixed on Him

4. In Luke 1:6,7, what are some characteristics of Elizabeth and Zechariah? List some feelings that would have been uppermost because of their inability to conceive.
5. What did a childless couple endure in those days?

Even When Things Don’t Go Your Way

6. Did they let the unanswered prayer for a child stop them from keeping their focus on loving God?

Refocus or Regret

7. What did the angel tell Zechariah in verse 13b? Do you think that was a prayer that had been recent? Why or why not?

QUESTION: Where is your heart amid disappointments, unanswered prayers, and shortcomings?

Daily:

 1) Praise God daily (Psalm 118:24)

2) Repent of our sins—never allow them to continue (Psalm 32:5)

3) Seek reconciliation with anyone who carries a grudge, has upset, hurt or been unfair to you (Matthew 5:24)

4) Look for ways to bring joy to someone each day (1 Thess. 4:9)

5) Focus on what really matters (Phil. 4:8)

Close:

It hardly seems possible that we are again at the beginning of another Christmas season! As we enter this month, list some of the opportunities that are possible through our church or community to bring the good news of the gospel to those outside the church. Examine your heart to make certain that your lifestyle is not hung up on adding more “things” to an already-overflowing home, and that you’re not breeding materialism in your family. We all have today to begin on a new path that will yield eternal rewards. Pray for each other that the joy of Christmas would be abiding in you every day, and that you pass it on to everyone you meet.

Memory Verse: 1 John 2:15: “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.’”

Focal Passages: 1 John 2:15-17; Luke 1:5-15, Luke 10:27.

 

 

 

 

Making Room For Joy
November 13, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Joy is heart-felt, deep inside us, even though we may be in tumultuous circumstances. Can you think of one sentence that robbed your joy this week? Give one sentence that reflects something that brought you joy this week.

This week we are going to look at what is takes to make room for joy. Joy does not happen by accident, but through actions. Let’s look at what it looks like, and how we get it.

Focal Passage: Galatians 5:13-26

Discuss:

To Serve in love

1. In verse 13, what admonition does Paul give the believers? You have freedom in Christ, but how are you to use that freedom? What does this mean to you?
2. Read Philippians 2:3,4. What is Paul saying in this verse?

QUESTION: What can you do for someone today that will put a genuine smile on their face?

To Speak in love

3. What are you warned of in verse 15? Does anyone remember the word picture for “biting, devouring, and destroying”? (Hint: wild animals attacking).
4. If you are saturated with concern about the world and its impact on you, what room will you have for joy? Why?
5. Who was Paul writing to? Why did he need to warn believers to stop these practices (verse 15)?

QUESTION: What can you say to someone today that will encourage them, or lift their spirits?

To Act in love

6. What are the fruits of the Spirit? How do you get these to grow in your life?
7. How can you practice doing the right thing, even when your flesh desires to take over or get even?
8. Read verses 19-21. Do you want a life like that? Yet it is a perfect synopsis of today’s world. What does verse 24 tell you?

QUESTION: How can you change your actions today to show the fruits of the Spirit to others?

 To Reflect Christ in love

9. Read 1 Peter 2:21. Whose example are you to follow? Why is the saying “What would Jesus do?” still very pertinent?

Close:

It is incredibly difficult to put the trials and pressures of the world out of your mind so that they do not take away the joy you have. Go around the circle and give one word examples of things the world cannot take from you (for instance, your salvation). The fruits of the Spirit are easy to quote, but very hard to put into practice, yet they should be something produced in you effortlessly as you become more like Christ. Real joy will come when your personal desires are at war with doing what is right, and you stop, take a breath, then do the right thing. Those small victories will come more often, and grow into habits. Pray for each other that the joy of Christ would be abiding in you, and that you can be a conduit to pass it on to others this week.

Memory Verse: Galatians 5:14: “For the whole law can be summed up in this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Focal Passages: Galatians 5:13-26; Phil. 2:3, 4; 1 Peter 2:21.

Further study on Question 1: Romans 6.

 

 

 

 

Living In Peace
October 30, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Peace. The very word conjures up different emotions and different ideas in everyone. What are some things you think of when someone says you can “live in peace”?

Today, more than ever before, we want to find out how to live peacefully in a world rocked on all sides by chaos. We will look at the instructions given by James as to how we can achieve peace in our lives, and pass it on to those with whom we come in contact.

Focal Passage: James 3:13-18

Discuss:

Serving and Humility

1. In verse 13, James opens this subject of living in peace by laying out the evidence of the life of a person who understands God’s ways. What are they?
2. “Proving” that you are wise is an action word, not a thought that crosses your mind. Read Jas. 2:14-17 for a parallel passage. How are you living this honorable life (vs 13)?
3. How should your service be done? Why?

Pure Heart

4. There are six actions words in verse 14 that reveal a heart that is full of sin. What are they?
5. How do verses 14-16 sound like our world today?
6. How does 1John 2:16 sound like this passage? Do those sins from verse 14 exist in the passage from John?

Desire to Live as Christ Lived

7. Look at the qualities of godly wisdom found in verse 17. Who do these remind you of? Is it possible for you to live like this?
8. There is chaos in society because Christians are being silent. Are these traits active choices?

A Changed World

9. Read Matt. 5:9. What is a peacemaker? What are the two things that will happen when a peacemaker steps in?

Close:

Being a person of peace is so important that it is mentioned in almost every book of the Bible. In 1 Pet. 3:10-12, Peter mentions how important it is that we seek to live in peace. It begins with watching what we say, turning away from evil, and actively seeking peace. You cannot help but have a positive impact on others if you are a peacemaker, and God promises results (verse 18). It takes a prepared person to have the influence to speak peace so that others listen, however. You must fill your heart with God’s wisdom, pray for His words to be in your mouth, show no favoritism, and be sincere. Turn the work over to God, and let Him produce the results after you have planted the seeds!

Memory Verse: Matthew 5:9: “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the sons of God.”

Focal Passage: James 3:13-18; 1 John 1:9; Romans 12:18; John 10:10

 

 

 

 

 

Unfinished: The Time Is Now
October 16, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Saying goodbye to a loved one, whether by reason of imminent death, deployment or for some other reason, is so very hard. We try to include everything that is exceptionally special into those final words. Do you have an instance you can share?

We are close to ending the series, “Unfinished,” as Paul tries to leave nothing omitted that Timothy—and future believers—will need as they stay true to Jesus Christ in the face of whatever persecution they may encounter in their lifetime. He gives a heartfelt exhortation regarding the task of living out life as a faithful believer.

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 4:1-5

Discuss:

Our Command

1. Whose responsibility is it to share the news of the Gospel (verse 2a)? What other scriptures do you know that lay the duty for telling the story of Jesus on all believers?
2. “Preaching” is the word used to proclaim the Gospel to the world. Why do believers think this is for pastors only, in light of passages like Matthew 28:18-20?

Our Commission

3. How do we prepare ourselves to “be ready”? What does the application look like?
4. Being “commissioned” for a certain duty is a serious and solemn action. So much so, Paul’s word of “charge” means plead, beg or urge followers to carry out the admonition. What does he say our commission is, in verse 2b? How is this analogous to being commissioned in the military, and serving where you are told to go? What is involved in the military aspect? Go back and read Chapter 2:3,4 and see how Paul uses this activity as a parallel.
5. Look at the verbs in 2b, and someone each take one word and describe how it would be done in love? (A description of each word’s Greek meaning will be at the end.)

The Time is Now!

6. What are some of the signs of the end times in regard to the people who are in churches in verses 3 and 4? Which of these traits are we seeing now, and can you give an example?
7. This does not refer to the world, but to the church. Why will they feel this way toward Jesus Christ and living the Christian life?

Our Time Is Now

8. How does Paul begin verse 5? Why does he expect us to be different?
9. Read Phil. 2:14-16. How can you guard your walk?

Close:

We are now a few days—perhaps a few hours—away from Paul’s execution. Every word is measured for the value it will mean to Timothy and the church, both at that time and in the future. Therefore, we take these words to heart, knowing that they are God’s words through Paul to us. We are living in a time when persecution is getting worse, and the time to make believers may be short. We don’t know but what our own personal time may be short! In that light, be diligent to carry out the charge of making disciples, because you might be the only person who will share the story of God’s love with your own extended family, friends, co-workers or community. Pray for each other fervently that no one would fall away, and all would be bold to confess Jesus as Lord.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 4:5: “But you be watchful in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 4:1-5; Romans 10:13,14

Verse 2: “Be ready”: to continue activity in the face of opposition, in spite of the state of the world; to continue to practice what you have been doing for Christ on a constant basis. “Convince”: to implement or help someone see that they are wrong, and why; to win them over with love. “Rebuke”: to disapprove of actions, or call sin by its right name. “Exhort”: to encourage strongly by helping someone understand. “Longsuffering”: emotional calm in the midst of provocation (again, done in love). “Teaching”: to provide instruction to one who needs it; to be able to disagree with their actions without being disagreeable.

 

 

 

Unfinished: Sin Stops
October 2, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Someone once said that of the number of choices adults make each day, almost every one is done either for the good of others, or for the good of yourself. Can you think of an example from this week, and which category did the choice fall into?

Today we continue the series, “Unfinished,” looking at the wise counsel in Paul’s admonitions to make choices that will bring peace and joy through Jesus Christ, not choosing the temporal pleasures of sin such as the world is making today. We can either make a choice to stop sin dead in its tracks and pursue serving and trusting God, or continue a path that becomes a totally self-centered life.

Read Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 3:1-9

Discuss:

Sin will keep you from the presence and the power of God

1. As you listened to verses 2-4 read, what in particular struck you as being a clear picture of society today? Those verses reflect persons who are making their choices for the good of whom?
2. More than likely everyone thought of someone in your own family who fell into one of these categories. What can you do for them immediately?

Self-deception doesn’t make things better

3. Verse 5a spoke of those who have a “form of godliness, but deny its power.” Sadly, many consider the pleasures of sin to be worth more than a life lived for Jesus Christ, but consider “going forward” to pray a prayer as evidence they are saved. Paul reminds us that being religious is not the same as living a righteous life. Read Matthew 7:16, 17: how can you know someone is saved?
4. According to Barna research, most people believe they are going to heaven, even though they live like the world. What does Romans 6:23 tell you? How does this reflect these verses?

Turn away!

5. Why does verse 5b tell you to turn away from being companions of those who say they don’t need God (paraphrase, 5a), and those listed in 6-9?
6. If you are to stop sin in your life so that you can become a “vessel fit for His use” what is the first step you must take (hint: 1 John 1:9)?
7. Hebrews11:6 gives you the second step of faith in finishing the task God has given; what is it?
8. Often it is only after a trial that you can look back and see how God brought you through. Psalm 73:26 tells you to look to God for your strength. Why?

Close:

Paul made it very clear that being religious does not fulfil the law of Christ. As he lists the society found in the days when men are each doing “what is right in their own eyes,” (Proverbs 21:2), it sounds like our world today. Did you not identify so many of the people you rub shoulders with daily, as he listed those who are in effect saying, “God, leave me alone!”? He concludes this section by reminding Timothy—and you—to not be companions with them, as they will lead you away from the truth. The only way you can stop the sin in your life is to be vigilant about your lifestyle. Keep a short account with God, confessing sins as they occur and turning from them, being diligent to study the Scriptures so you can apply them to your life, and being dependent upon God for the strength each day to see that He alone is the one on the throne of your heart. As you begin this new week, pray for the others in your group that all would trust Him for the grace and power to live each day.

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 2:22: “Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy, Chapter 3:1-9

Unfinished: A Work Worth Doing
September 18, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

An insightful question to ask young people is, “If you could choose any vocation you wanted, what would it be?” What answer would you give if you were asked that today, as an adult? Is your work satisfying to you?

We are in a series called “Unfinished,” looking at Paul’s final words to Timothy. Paul was soon to be executed but penned loving instructions for those who would continue the mission of spreading the Gospel.  He had faithfully carried out what he knew God had called him to do. Let’s apply these words to our own lives in today’s world.

Discuss:

Never be ashamed

1. Read 2 Timothy 1:8-18. In verse 8a, why does Paul tell Timothy not to be ashamed of the testimony of Jesus, or of Paul? How does this parallel the night of the crucifixion, when Peter and the other apostles fled?*
2. Why should you never be ashamed of being a Christian, when you have the opportunity to take a stand?

Because you are called

3. Read verse 9. What is the “holy calling” He called you to pursue?
4. Why did He call you? When did He call you? Can you truly understand that?

With the message of life

5. Read verse 10. Why do we say that Jesus “abolished” death, and that it has been defeated? Do you fear death any longer, or just the uncertainty in the way by which it may come?

Though the journey might be tough

6. Read verse 12a. We are seeing the times getting tough for Christians all over the world. What are some of the ways Christianity is being attacked? Ask yourself, will I be strong enough to face tough times for my Lord?

God is faithful

7. Read verse 12b. How do you know He is faithful? Look back at your life; has He ever left you? Can you think of a time when you doubted Him because He answered a prayer with “No”?

You are not alone

8. What “good thing” is Paul referring to in verse 14? When do you receive the Holy Spirit? Will He ever leave you?

Close:

Can you put yourself in Paul’s place, where he was perhaps only days away from being executed for his faith? He had undergone brutal persecution most of his years after becoming a believer, but had never turned away from the great work God had called him to do.** Now he was preparing others to take up the gauntlet and continue making Christ-followers. As you discuss or think about your courage in the face of persecution, what are your concerns? It is pertinent that you realize some people who turn away and reject God do so because He has answered fervent prayer with “No.” Yet truly trusting Him means trusting that His way is always the right way, even when you do not understand (questions 6, 7 and 8). Pray for each other diligently that no one will fall by the wayside, but rely on the Holy Spirit to empower all in your group to take every opportunity to stand for the name of Jesus. If you need extra time to study, find a Life Group that will help you to witness, spreading the good news on your street, in your job, or in your community. God simply asks that you be available for Him to use!

Memory Verse: 2 Timothy 1:12: “For this reason I also suffer these things, nevertheless I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day.”

Focal Passage: 2 Timothy 1:8-18; John 1:12

Home Study: **Read 2 Corinthians 11:23b-28 for Paul’s list of persecution which he had suffered. *Read Mark 14:27-50, 66-72 for the account of the apostles turning their backs on the Savior, and Peter’s denials (question 2).

 

 

 

Plugged In: Commissioned
September 4, 2016
Matt Willmington

Open:

Have you ever really thought about the reality that every successful event (party, reunion, etc.) has come about because someone decided “I can/should do that”? Can you give an example?

We continue to focus on the need to be “plugged in” to the power that comes to us as a child of God, enabling us to serve Him and change our world. This week we will look at Nehemiah, a Biblical character, who, because of his great commitment to God, stepped up to the plate and led a community to come together and rebuild the ruins of Jerusalem.

 

Discuss:

1. Today’s busy schedules leave little time for relaxation, but what is the difference between solitude and isolation?
2. Read Proverbs 18:1a. How does this verse reflect the life of someone who has no interest in sharing the good news of Jesus Christ?
3. Did someone who has withdrawn themselves from fellowship (perhaps from depression, hurt, etc.) come to your mind? What can you do to restore them?

Let’s look at what it takes to successfully carry out God’s commission of loving Him and loving our neighbors.

Work

4. Read Nehemiah 2:17-18. Why was Nehemiah concerned about the people rebuilding the wall around Jerusalem? What did he do to get the project started?
5. Read Ephesians 4:11-13. How does the work of Christ get done if we just sit on the sidelines? Why do we need to get “into the game?”

War

6. Read Nehemiah 4:13-14. What extra effort had to be made as these men worked on the wall? What are some of the hindrances that we should expect in our own lives as we seek to share the gospel?
7. Who are some of the enemies we have because of our desire to build God’s kingdom on earth? Who were the Israelites thinking about as they built (vs 14)? Who should we be concerned about as we seek to change our world?

Word

8. Read Neh. 8:1-3,5-6,7b-8. Nehemiah realized there was another part of life that was as necessary as the physical wall the people built. What was it?
9. We have the advantage of knowing the whole story, from Genesis to Revelation. What are some personal applications we can make from these passages that will help us carry out the commission of Jesus Christ?

Close:

Do you find some Old Testament characters seem to be “hero” material? Nehemiah was one of those. His life shows a deep reverence for God and a willingness to do whatever God laid on his heart. As you close, discuss ways you can get plugged in more closely to God, so that you, with a group of believers, can change your world—perhaps through a Life Group (or possibly even talk to someone who can help you begin one). Nehemiah had a vision, carried it out, and changed his community. Can you pray that God will open doors this week for you to “seek and save those who are lost”? God will bless your efforts and you will find new meaning in life.

Memory Verse: Nehemiah 4:14b: “Do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, great and awesome, and fight for your brethren, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your houses.”

Focal Passage: Nehemiah 2:17, 18; 4:13-14; 8:1-8.

Home Study: Take some time to read the short book of Nehemiah. Notice how many times he stopped and prayed. Write down those things that inspire you to grow in your knowledge of God and His word.

 

 

 

Plugged In: Keep Calm and Carry On-Overcoming Fear with Faith
August 21,2016
Charles Billingsley

 

Open:

Frustration can explode when you’re in the middle of a document, only to have your laptop shut down because you forgot to recharge it. Or electricity goes out just as a cake goes into the oven! Can anyone give a personal example of losing power?

Over the next few weeks, we will examine how our lives are powerless unless we are deeply “plugged in” to Christ Jesus, walking in faith daily. Today we will look at the fear that can enter our thoughts and hearts as we are bombarded with chaos on every hand, until we remember that we know the source of all power: it is God and God alone.

 

Discuss:

1. Read Psalm 46:1-11. What is the central lesson this Psalm teaches?
2. As you listened to the Psalm being read, what were your thoughts, and how did the words speak to your heart?
3. It is said of the great theologian, Martin Luther, when he heard discouraging news, that he would say, “Come, let us sing the forty-sixth Psalm!” Why do you think that was?

Be Still

4. In verse 10, what are some meanings of the word “be”? Does it indicate action?
5. Everyone knows what it means to be “still,” but why is it so difficult? If God tells us to “be still,” He considers it extremely important. Does anyone recall some of the definitions given in the sermon for the word? (They will be listed at the end.)

And Know

6. God continued to give us instructions, in addition to being still. What does God mean by “know”? Why is it so important that we know the heart of God?
7. As you think of your family or friends, what makes the difference between knowing them, and being acquainted with them? Why does this Psalm illustrate the importance of knowing Him intimately?

 

That I AM God

8. If you remember the sermons on the life of Moses, God called Himself the “I AM.” What are some of the characteristics of God being “I AM”?
9. What does God want for us in this Psalm? How does that define “Who” He is?

Why should that bring us tremendous peace in the midst of the trouble and fear of the times we are living in?

 

Close:

An old hymn said “trials dark on every hand.”* That so well sums up our world. We are besieged by busyness and electronics in our jobs, at home and play. As you break into small groups, discuss how these things take your time away from knowing God better. What things can you omit in order to spend time alone with Him, and actually “Be Still”? Be open with one another, so that each of you can pray for the discipline everyone needs in order to hunger and thirst to really KNOW God. When you recognize His unparalleled power, you will realize you have no reason to fear anything, for He has your back. Thank Him continually for the good things He has done in your life! This week, ask Him to show you ways to know Him more intimately, and overcome those times when you find yourself living in fear.

Memory Verse: Psalm 46:10: “Be still and know that I am God.”

Focal Passage: Psalm 46:1-11.

Memorable Quotes: “Come, let us sing the forty-sixth Psalm!” Martin Luther 1483-1546); “In the presence of power, fear subsides.” Charles Billingsley

*Song: “We’ll Understand It Better By and By,” lyrics by Charles Albert Tindley

Contemplate: “Be”: to exist; “Still”:  to cease striving; to abandon; practice solitude, detach daily; leaving anything that takes our focus away from God; “And Know”: knowledge at the deepest level (Jeremiah 29:13); “that I AM God”: from Greek Elohim; He is always in the present, and He holds the future in His hands. To Him is all power, honor, majesty, glory and much, much more.

 

Overcomer: Overcoming Together
August 7, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Seasons of crises can overwhelm us, especially if we are trying to handle a situation by ourselves. Can you think of a time you were facing a trouble, and a friend came along side to help you shoulder the burden? Can you share?

From the creation of Eve as a companion for Adam, to the creation of the body of believers called the church, God has ordained relationships to be the heartbeat of our lives—both vertically with Him, and horizontally with our neighbors. Today we continue to glean more lessons from the life of Moses, who led the children of Israel for forty years. Was he overwhelmed? Let’s focus on the words of his father-in-law, and apply them to our own life.

 

Discuss:

It is difficult to overcome when you are overwhelmed

1. Read Exodus 18:13-23. Scholars feel that Moses led about 2,500,000 people out of Egypt. What did verses 13-16 record his daily activity? How many people waiting for your time would overwhelm you?
2. In verses 17-18, what did his father-in-law tell him? Can any of you relate?

Living life in a whirlwind rarely leads to accomplishment

3. Go back to verse 14. What was Jethro asking? If any of you are totally swamped by your current lifestyle, how do you feel at the end of the day?
4. What are some things that can cause you to want to “stay in bed” when morning comes?

Building Godly relationships is a great first step in finding your way out

5. Read verse 21a. What kind of men did Jethro suggest Moses surround himself with? How can you apply that to your own life? Think of your most intimate friends: do they fit these qualifications?
6. Read verse 22b. How does this verse relate to Galatians 6:2?

Overcoming together is God’s plan

7. Why did God say He was going to create Eve? Read Ecclesiastes 3:12. What is God saying through Solomon?
8. Who are some of those whom God has ordained to help us carry burdens and endure trials?

 

Close:

It is easy to relate to the incredible burden Moses was bearing, even though the times we live in are nothing like his. Most of us have schedules that we feel are going to break us. As you go into small groups, discuss things in your life that are overwhelming you, and suggest ways you can chip away at the list of responsibilities. (There is a list below).  If you are able, seek out others who need you as a friend to help them bear their burdens.  Pray this week that you will take a step toward becoming more aware of God’s amazing power to put people in your life who will help you, and whom you can help!

Steps for freedom from being overwhelmed:
1) Take time out to rest from the things that are the greatest burdens.
2) Prioritize the importance of your responsibilities, working on the most important first.
3) Don’t ever let the amount of duties or “stuff” crowd out your need to spend time with God.
4) Surround yourself with true friends who are reliable, Godly and trustworthy.

Memory Verse: Exodus 18:11: “Now I know that the LORD is greater than all the gods; for in the very thing in which they behaved proudly, He was above them.”

Focal Passage: Exodus 18:13-23

 

 

 

 

 

Overcomer: Overcoming Insecurity
July 24, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

It is often said that failure to try something is worse than trying, then failing. “Failure to try” is frequently because we perceive ourselves incompetent to accomplish a certain task. Can you share an example?

Today we continue to learn lessons from the life of Moses, who seemed to consider himself totally inadequate for the job God was calling him to do. His personal perception of himself kept him from hearing God’s promise to be with Him through it all. Let’s focus on how he pushed through the obstacles to trust God.

Discuss:

I’m Not Good Enough or Smart Enough

1. Read Exodus 4:1-3. When was the last time you actually did not take an active part in something because of fear that you weren’t good enough?
2. How does that differ from the answer Moses gave God?

I Don’t Know What to Say

3. Read verses 10-12. If you’ve been saved very long, you recognize the “nudge” God gives when He is asking something of you. How have you let this fear stop you from obeying Him? Does it also keep you from witnessing?
4. How can you trust God enough to obey Him to equip you if He has called you to a certain work?

I’m Too Scared; Someone Else Should Do It

5. Read verses 13-16. Moses continued to beg God to “let someone else do it!” Yet God had not only personally picked Moses, but had constantly given His promise to be with him. Why did God not give up on Moses?
6. What arguments do you use with God? What would it take for you to trust Him to be with you, and give you the words to speak?

When You Trust God with Your Today, God Will Take Care of Your Future

7. Read verse 31. After Moses’ last protestation, when God became angry, He still used Moses. Trust is a day-to-day issue. How can you better trust Him today to push forward victoriously?
8. If you feel that God wants you to witness, or minister, and promises to be with you, how will you trust Him then? As we asked last week, would you feel differently if you heard God say to you aloud, “I will be with you”?

Close:

Moses obviously had the same hang-ups, habits, and hurts as we experience. None of us are exempt from feeling inadequate to serve a holy God. As you break up into small groups, discuss the reasons why you feel self-doubt, writing them down so that you can see whether they are as valid as you feel they are! Perhaps they are old burdens from childhood years, and you have let Satan browbeat you with a constant barrage of “not worthy.” Go to Scriptures that address your lack of confidence, understand that you are a child of the King, and write beside each of your insecurities the blessings God has given you, and the things you have done for His kingdom. Let them make a difference in your life. Pray this week that you trust God with a full heart!

Points to Ponder:
1) No one is ever smart enough on our own but with God, all things are possible (Philippians 4:13).
2) Our words will always be insufficient, but if our heart is available, He will speak through us.
3) Yes, there’s always someone else, but He called you for a particular task.
4) It is only when we trust God that we will begin to see how powerful He really is!

Memory Verse: Exodus 4:31: “So the people believed, and when they heard that the LORD had visited the children of Israel and that He had looked on their affliction, then they bowed their heads and worshiped.”

Focal Passage: Exodus 4:1-31

 

 

 

 

 

 

Overcomer: Overcoming Perilous Times
July 10, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

When we think of being victorious—or being an overcomer—we generally assume we’ve persevered through something big. But overcoming can begin with small things we want to eliminate from our lives. Can you give some examples?

Today we continue to study what it takes to be victorious as we go through periods of trouble, focusing on the life of Moses for our example. We are particularly going to consider the qualities needed when times of great peril come to us personally, as a family unit, or in our country. We need these qualities now more than ever.

Discuss:

1. Read Exodus 2:11-19. Imagine your life as Moses must have been raised. Surely, however he learned of his heritage, he could not block their slavery from his mind as he strolled Egypt. Can you speculate how he may have felt?
2. What type of thoughts may have gone through his head as he came closer to the time when he knew he was going to align himself with them? Would you assume he had given much thought to their plight?

Be Realistic About What Is Going On

3. Read verses 11-14 again. Moses did not ignore the predicament the Israelites were in. What can you learn from his actions? Why is it so much easier to close your eyes to the pain of others, rather than becoming involved?
4. What were some of the sacrifices he knew he would be making as he took up their cause? Do you consider a sacrifice you might have to make if you act to help someone?

Be Willing to Get Involved

5. Read verse 15. Moses was correct in realizing his involvement was going to cost him his royal position in Egypt. Who are some people in your family or friends who lay their life on the line every day? How can you help?

When Trouble Surrounds You, Don’t Stop Doing the Right Thing

6. Read verses 16-19. It would have been easy for Moses to turn away from helping everyone after fleeing for his life. What circumstances in these verses show that he had the quality of being a true “Overcomer” deep inside?
7. When you have been persecuted for doing right, do you tend to hibernate, or keep going? Can you give an example?
8. In what ways does the faith of Moses challenge you in your daily life?
9. As we study the life of Moses, Who else sacrificed everything—a throne, power, authority—to lay down His life for people who didn’t receive Him?

Close:

The example of Moses is incredible as you think of the staggering sacrifice he was willing to make. It had to have been a constant source of grief to see his own people in captivity. As you break up into small groups, discuss whether you find it easier to hibernate or ignore the pain others are going through, or whether you are one who will step forward and help? Pray for each other, for perilous times have indeed hit our land. It will be at great personal risk that you follow the example of Moses, seeing a need, taking action, and serving. Be an example to those who are watching you!

Memory Verse: Exodus 3:7: “And the LORD said, ‘I have surely seen the oppression of My people who are in Egypt, and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters, for I know their sorrows.’”

Focal Passage: Exodus 2:11-19

 

 

 

 

We’ve Come This Far by Faith: Now What? 60^th Anniversary Service
June 26, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Imagine a photograph of you taken a few years ago in a then-familiar setting, and mentally place it beside one from your present-day situation. Can you share what might go through your mind? Would there be awe, amazement, or maybe confusion, regret?

Over one hundred years ago Dwight Moody said, “The world has yet to see what God can do with a man wholly consecrated to Him.” Dr. Jerry Falwell, Sr., was such a man, and today we celebrate and reflect on the incredible vision he believed his God could accomplish through him. More than sixty years ago, he fervently sought God’s guidance, wisdom and direction for his life; through prayer and extraordinary faith, he built a church and university to spread the gospel throughout his community, country and the world. Now it is the mission of the many members of Thomas Road Baptist Church to continue the great work of seeing the world reached for Jesus Christ. By faith and prayer, we will move forward with this remarkable work!

 

Discuss:

1. Read Isaiah 51:1. It is good to recall our lives before salvation, and reflect on the amazing grace that saved us. Can anyone share their testimony?
2. We don’t want to keep a backward focus. Read Philippians 3:13. What can happen if we dwell too long on the past?
3. Read Jeremiah 29:11—a verse that inspires hope and promise to believers. Will someone share how it brings meaning to your life?
4. Read Romans 10:14. How can anyone be effective without a vision? Do you think this was a cornerstone for Dr. Falwell’s prayers?
5. What was the foundation upon which his life was built? Read Acts 2:42. How do you think this verse has played out in the life of growing this church?
6. What is the three-fold statement of faith for our church? Can you list some ways in which these are fulfilled?
7. Read Acts 20:18-21. From what you know of Dr. Falwell, how closely did this verse parallel with his life? What kind of legacy did he leave?
8. What are some visions you have for your personal opportunity for growth within the church?
9. How are you prepared to take part in the coming years, actively being a participant rather than passively being a spectator? What kind of legacy are you leaving to those who know you?

 

Close:

From the small room at a Bible College where Dr. Falwell prayed by the hour for God’s hand to be on his life, he developed a vision for a church which became an incredible reality. If he could see today’s harvest from that original cluster of thirty-five individuals who longed for a church, and those who desired to have an education built on Biblical principles, he would no doubt be humbled and stunned that God used him to build His kingdom on earth. As you break into small groups, discuss ways you can further the outreach that can affect the world. Remember the recent sermon, how, by 300 A.D., the twelve disciples had increased to over 10,000,000 Christians. Today’s church should be able to impact the entire world exponentially just as the early church did. Pray as you leave that Jesus would give you a personal vision of hope and a future of how you can change your area of influence and help you be extremely aware of the legacy you are leaving your family and friends.

Memory Verse: Mark 11:24: “Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.”

 

The “Following” Church
June 12, 2016
Matt Willmington

 

Open:

Families who do “life” together seem so very happy, compared to those who occupy the same home but all have different lifestyles. Can you give an example?

Last week we looked at what a real Christian should be, and we each asked ourselves, “Am I a Christian?” This week we want to focus on the characteristics of a Christ-following church, and what it looks like in the community. Is your church a happy “carpool” of Christians on a mission together, loving and serving?

Discuss:

What Does a Church Look Like?

1. What are four non-negotiables that were in the early church (and should be in today’s as well)?*
2. What do you know about Rome’s society during the rise of Christianity? How is that different from today’s world?
3. These early Christians had no vote and no voice, yet they increased daily. What were some of the traits outsiders saw in these believers?**
4. How should you live, so that men may not bring an indictment of hypocrisy against you? Romans 12 is a great self-examination chapter.

Today’s Church

5. Read Acts 1:22, 4:13, 22. Why was the early church so powerful? What verse do you know that tells you this should be the heartbeat of today’s church?
6. Read Acts 1:8. What had Jesus told His followers to expect? Read 2:1; when the Holy Spirit came upon the believers, what kind of change occurred in their lives? Do we have this same power?
7. Read Acts 1:14. What was another characteristic of these early believers? Read Ephesians 6:18. What did Paul instruct all believers?

 

Close:

As you break up into small groups, take a moment to discuss the terrible persecution the early church went through, and liken it to today’s world. You must never forget that you have all of the power of the Holy Spirit within you, giving you strength to overcome evil. Talk about some of the problems you encounter daily, and see if others can give you suggestions how to let the world see your joy and peace. As you pray before leaving, ask God for boldness and love to serve those whom you meet daily, so that you can be a living testimony of the love of Christ.

Focal Passages: Acts chapters 1-7; Acts 1:14, 22; 2:1, 37, 47; Acts 4:13, 21, 31-33: 5:11, 7:54.

Memory Verse: Acts 4:32: “And with great power the apostles gave witness of the Lord Jesus. And great grace was upon them all.”

*Question 1: The church should be believers working TOGETHER in unity with a common mission, as a FAMILY of God, living out the WORD of God, under the AUTHORITY of God, on the MISSION of God.

**Question 2: The lives of the early believers were seen as: Convicting by their lifestyle (2:37), Favored by God (2:47), Amazing in their love, life, and the change that had resulted (4:13), Bold in speaking of the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus (4:13, 33), Glorifying to God (4:21), Generous to each other and outsiders (4:32), filled with Grace (4:33), and Power (4:33).

Memorable Quotes:

The Epistle to Diognetes, AD 130: “They [believers] display to us their wonderful and confessedly striking method of life… They marry, as do all others, they beget children, but they do not destroy their offspring. They have a common table, but not a common bed. They are in the flesh, but they do not live after the flesh. They pass their days on earth, but they are citizens of heaven. They obey the prescribed laws, and at the same time surpass the laws by their lives. They love all men and are persecuted by all. They are unknown and condemned; they are put to death and restored to life. They are poor yet make many rich; they are in lack of all things and yet abound in all; they are dishonored, and yet in their very dishonor are glorified. They are evil spoken of and yet are justified; they are reviled and bless; they are insulted and repay the insult with honor; they do good yet are punished as evildoers. When punished, they rejoice as if quickened into life; they are assailed by the Jews as foreigners and are persecuted by the Greeks, yet those who hate them are unable to assign any reason for their hatred. To sum it all up in one word—what the soul is to the body, that are Christians in the world.”

Timothy Keller: “The early church was strikingly different from the culture around it in this way—the pagan society was stingy with its money and promiscuous with its body. A pagan gave nobody their money and practically gave everybody their body. And the Christians came along and gave practically nobody their body and they gave practically everybody their money.”

John 17:20-26 In The World, But Not of It, Part 3
May 29, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Most of us can recall a time when we were threatened, but because we knew someone was nearby, watching out for us, we were not afraid. Can you remember an experience that illustrates this?

This week we will finish looking at the prayer of Jesus in John 17, as He prayed for all believers. His desire is for us to be so secure in His protection and love that we will not be afraid to witness of His love at every opportunity.

Discuss:

1. Read John 17:20-26. What leaps out at you as you read these verses?
2. What is the thread of “unity” throughout this section of prayer?

Know That Jesus Is Praying for You

3. Read verse 20 again. We pray for ourselves many times every day. How does it make you feel to know Jesus prays for you?
4. Read Romans 8:34. What does this verse tell you about His love for you?

Jesus Is with Us Every Step of the Way

5. Read verse 23. In your present lifestyle, what does the world see that shows you are someone who is loved by God?
6. Most people who are in a love relationship want to shout it to the world, so everyone can share the happiness. How much does Jesus say God loves you, His child (23b)? How can you grasp that God loves you so much?

We Have the Answer

7. Read verse 25, and John 20:29. What does it take for one to believe that Jesus is the only way to eternal life?
8. Think back on the opening: you are loved, valued, and protected by God Himself. What kind of power should that unleash in you?

Only in Christ Do We Have Hope

9. Read verse 26 and Ephesians 5:8. How are you to act, as a light-bearer to your community?

Close:

As you break into small groups, talk for a few moments about the deep love of God for you, so much so that He loves you as much as He loves Jesus, His only Son. He has promised to be with you, protect you, and give you wisdom in this world. That should unleash a love in you that makes you want to share it with your world! Is there someone you know who needs to know that Jesus loves them? Pray as you leave for that one person to cross your path this week, and that—remembering this prayer of Christ—you would have the boldness to tell what He has done for you.

Focal Passage: John 17:20-26, John 16:33, Romans 8:34, Ephesians 5:8.

Memory Verse: John 17:26. “And I have declared to them Your name, and will declare it, that the love with which You loved Me may be in them, and I in them.”

Think On: “I am a friend of anyone who is a friend of Christ!” (Jerry Falwell, Sr.) Does that describe the way you see those who attend your church?

 

 

Power Through Strength
May 8, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Physical strength is often held in high esteem, but which would you prefer: a well-built, muscular body or a strong, inner character? Explain your answer.

Today we want to focus on the power that comes from a depth of character that is able to withstand the forces that are coming against us in this modern era. Ultimately it is only the power of a fervent relationship with Jesus Christ that makes us strong.

 

Discuss:

1. Read 1 Timothy 1:1-3. In what three ways did Paul increase in strength?
2. Read verses 2-6. Several influences played a role in Timothy becoming strong as a Christian. What were they? (Notice how Intercessory Prayer was one of those ways—an example for us).

Looking Back for Strength

3. When you look back over your life, can you identify people God placed in your life to lead you in the right direction? Share for a moment.
4. In verse 3, Paul said his “forefathers” served God; who did he say had encouraged Timothy? Who are you influencing?

In Order for Us to Be an Example to Others

5. What does Paul instruct Timothy in verse 6a? How does your strength become an example to someone else? Why was this a “gift”?
6. Read Acts 14:21, 22. How were the early Christians being strengthened? Do you need strength yourself? Who do you know that needs strength and encouragement?

Renews Our Strength

7. Read verses 7-12. What does God give you? Does anyone know the origin of the word “power” (used here)?
8. Bodily strength is acquired by exercise; what are some ways you receive God’s strength? Read Eph. 3:16; was this also one of your answers?

He Protects Us Until the End of Time

9. Verse 12 shows Paul’s unfailing faith. How can you relate?

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, center your thoughts on what you need from God, besides food and shelter. It is a short list: you need Him to protect you, to encourage you, and to help you impact your world. As you look back, even through the bad times, did He fail you? No, not since the day you called out His name and asked for salvation! You have His promise on that. Now you need His strength to stand for Him in a world where it is unpopular to say you’re a Christian. Discuss hazards you face as you witness, and close in prayer, asking God to give you a holy boldness to stand for Him every moment of the coming week.

Focal Passages: 1 Timothy 1:1-12; Isaiah 41:10

Memory Verse: 1 Timothy 1:12: “For this reason I also suffer these things; nevertheless, I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed to Him until that Day.”

 

Agents of Grace: Grace ToLead
April 24,2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Often we see positions of leadership filled by those who do not have the skills to lead. Can you give examples? Why would one desire such a position if it is not their “gift”?

Today we continue the series Agents of Grace. Let us examine the qualities that make a good leader, then put into practice what we learn.

Discuss:

Jesus Restores

1. What are some qualities a good leader should possess?
2. Can you think of hindrances that might cause someone to reject a position of leadership? (Did you list A feeling of inadequacy, A fear of rejection, A fear of failing, and A feeling of a disreputable past, as possibilities?)
3. Read John 21:15-17. What was Jesus trying to get Peter to understand? How heavy do you think Peter’s heart had been since his denial of knowing Christ?

Jesus Empowers

4. What did Jesus command Peter? Did it entail Peter examining his heart?
5. If Peter’s heart was full of love for the Savior, how would that influence his obedience to do what Jesus instructed?

Jesus Calls

6. How does Peter’s restoration encourage those of us who have failed Jesus?

He Can Use Anyone!

7. Read 1 Corinthians 1:25-27. List some in Scripture who were called by God, who felt unqualified to be a leader?

God’s Grace Is the Key For You To Be a Leader!

8. What do you think may be the biggest obstacle to God using you?

Close:

As you break into small groups, discuss anything that might be causing you to hold back from being a leader. Possibly any one of the fears in question 2 might be your answer! No one wants to take a step outside his comfort zone, but your restoration from a tainted past might be just the answer to someone’s quest for salvation. No one can minister to someone in need as well as one who has “been there, done that.” Do you have a story that others need to hear? God might call you to be a leader of a Life Group, a mentor, or a disciple. Whatever He asks, pray that you are willing to follow Him. He wants the person who is available, and will empower you to lead as He directs!

Focal Passages: John 21:15-19a; Luke 5:11; 1 Corinthians 1:26, 27; Psalm 51:13-15; Acts 3:11-14a.

Memory Verse: Luke 5:11: “So when they had brought their boats to land, they forsook all and followed Him.”

 

Agents of Grace: Forgiving Grace
April 10, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

First impressions often are the basis for forming—or running from—a relationship. Can you share what you hope people think you are like, after they have first met you?

This week we continue to uncover ways in which we can demonstrate God’s amazing Grace to our world. We who have been saved have received grace that we did not deserve; now it is our turn to bestow that same grace on others, by forgiving an offense against us.

 

Discuss:

A Characteristic of Christ

1. Read Psalm 103:8. How does this one verse describe your Lord?
2. Read Eph. 1:7 and 2:8. How are your sins forgiven?

A Characteristic of a Christian

3. Read Eph. 4:32. What does God expect of believers?
4. Read Matt. 18:21. Why is it important that forgiveness be a constant part of your Christian walk?

Mercy Granted

5. Read Matt. 18:23-27. Someone paraphrase these verses.
6. How are these verses analogous to a sinner being saved?

Mercy Denied

7. Read verses 28-33. Why is the debtor’s behavior shocking?
8. Read Matt. 6:14, 15. What did Christ command us to do?
9. Why would your Christian testimony rest on how you forgive those who have sinned against you?

 

Close:

Forgiveness is at the very root of Jesus’ love: “He paid a debt He did not owe, because you owed a debt you could not pay.” As you break into small groups, think about the opening. Ask yourself if others see you as joyful, bitter or just like the world. Share with the group, if possible, any hurts that need to be forgiven so they can pray for you. Pray before you leave, that God would fill you with such joy and compassion for others that people who are with you a short time want to know what it is that makes you different. Ask Him to give you opportunities to share His forgiveness for your sins, and let them know He is waiting to forgive theirs as well!

Focal Passages: Matthew 18:21-35; Hosea Chapters 1-3, Heb. 12:14, 15.

Memory Verse: Rev. 22:21: “The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.”

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Easter: Belief Changes Everything
March 27, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Do you ever know where a household item is because you have seen it, and then have a family member ask you where it is? Even though you tell them where to look, they can’t find it. You walk straight to it.  What makes the difference?

Today we are going to look at those who had watched Jesus during his last hours as He was crucified, then see the reactions as some saw Him risen, while others were told. Many let the agony of His death blind them to the fact He was indeed ALIVE!

 

Discuss:

1. Read Matt. 27:55-61. What were some of the feelings the women—and the disciples—no doubt experiencing as Jesus died and was buried?
2. How is that like us when things go wrong, and we feel He has left us on our own? How have we let discouragement interfere with our faith?
3. Read Mark 16:1. What were the women expecting to find at the tomb? Why?
4. Read Matt. 28:2-8, and Mark 16:9-13. Why do you think the disciples refused to believe that Jesus was alive, even though He had been seen?
5. What was the reason the women and the two disciples believed?
6. What was it that changed their unbelief to belief? What did Jesus say in John 20:29?
7. What are some reasons people today do not believe that He is alive?

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, talk about the distractions, discouragements and disappointments the world throws at you daily, that interfere with your peace. Share how your schedules, over-commitments, and family relationships rob you of the belief that God is in control of every part of your life. Do you believe that? Do you live as if you know that to be true? Your joy should be so contagious everyone wants to be with you, to have the relationship you have with the risen Savior! Pray that God would grant you that unspeakable peace and joy this week, in the midst of an unstable and crazy world.

 

Focal Passages: Matthew 27:55-61-28:1-8, 16-20; Mark 16:1, 10-16, 20.

Memory Verse: Matthew 28:5,6: “Do not be afraid, for I know that you seek Jesus who was crucified. He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.”

 

One Week To Live: Watch and Pray
March 13, 2016
Charles Billingsley

 

Open:

No doubt most of us have been in a crisis so severe that our entire being was saturated with anguish. Can anyone share such a time, and tell how you responded?

The past two weeks we have studied the last week of the life of Jesus, before He went to the cross. Today we will look at the hours He spent prior to His arrest, and see how He handled a situation most of us will never have to face.

Discuss:

The Setting

1. Read Mark 14:32-35. Jesus gave Peter, James and John two instructions: what were they (vs.34)? What do you think they were to watch for, and pray about?
2. These three disciples needed to witness the greatest suffering in history. Why?

The Suffering

3. What were some of the sufferings Jesus was going through internally in vv. 33-36? What was the Cup He was referring to?

The Submission

4. Verse 36b gives us a foundation for our prayer life. What is it?

Watch and Pray

5. Jesus had prayed constantly during His earthly ministry. Can you give some examples.
6. What are several life lessons we can take away from the verses as Jesus prayed to His Father in His suffering?

Close:

It is so easy to read this passage on auto-pilot, as many of us have grown up with the story of the Resurrection. Jesus commands us, as He did the disciples, to “watch and pray” rather than reading without engaging our brain, for otherwise we, too, might “enter into temptation” (Mark 14:38). As you break into small groups, discuss the temptations that can attack us when we mentally fall asleep in our Christian walk. It is imperative in this day and age to spread the story of His life, death and resurrection so that others may have hope. Join a Life Group so you can serve Him more efficiently. Pray before you leave that you will be watchful and faithful in your daily walk with Him (1 Pet. 4:7).

Focal Passages: Mark 14:32-42; Matthew 26:47-56

Memory Verse: Mark 14:38: “Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Pray: Faithfully (often); Authentically (with complete honesty); Intimately (talk to your Abba Father “Dad”); Fervently (it’s okay to be passionate); Fearfully (respect His power); Submissively (seek HIS will, not your own); Confidently (He is in control).

 

           

One Week To Live: Getting The House In Order!
February 28, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

How would you react if your doctor told you that you have only a few short months to live? How can there be blessings in that knowledge?

Today we begin looking toward the resurrection of Jesus, with emphasis on the last week of His earthly life. He began that week by getting His house in order. We will focus on making certain our lives are fit for Him to do His work as He indwells us.

 

Discuss:

Recognize who Jesus is

1. Read Matt. 21:10- 11. To ask Jesus to save us, why is it necessary to believe He is the Son of God? How can an incorrect view of who He really is affect whether we are truly saved? Think of other religions for examples.
2. What are some of His attributes? Do you see Him with those qualities and treat Him as the Holy God that He is?

Recognize what He expects

3. Jesus expected the people to regard the temple with the respect it was designed for. How does He expect us to live our lives (as His temple) in order for Him to work His purpose for us? Someone read 1 Cor. 6:19, 20.
4. Read Joshua 3:5a. What did Joshua tell the people? What does that mean to us?

Recognize what brings Him sorrow

5. What possible actions or thoughts in our lives can grieve the heart of God?
6. What are some things we do that bring God joy?

Recognize what happens next

7. All we need for salvation is to come to Christ “just as we are.” But after salvation, what changes would God expect to let Him be at home in your life? Is this a one-time “house cleaning” or an on-going action?
8. Read Joshua 3:5b. Why should we live our lives expecting miracles each day?

 

Close:

The religious leaders who saw Jesus as He ministered were so filled with envy and disbelief that their hearts were hardened against Him. One needs to be watchful that your heart is always sensitive to the Holy Spirit. As you break into small groups, discuss the situations you face that could grieve Jesus. Pray for Him to show you areas where you are weak, and pray also for discernment as you live daily, to be aware you are working with Him to bring His kingdom “on earth, as it is in heaven.” Search out the life groups, if you are not in one, or start one! Everyone needs as much encouragement, wisdom and support as possible in these hard times.

Focal Passages: Matthew 21:10-14, Joshua 3:5, Matthew 26:28

Memory Verse: Joshua 3:5: “And Joshua said to the people, ‘Sanctify yourselves, for tomorrow the Lord will do wonders among you.’”

Stand Strong: God’s Promise of Victory
February 14, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

A well-known quote that one hears is “What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?” Would anyone care to answer?

We have been studying the promises of God, the only dependable Giver of promises. Today we will look at the victory that is ours when we become believers in Jesus Christ and are freed from the power of sin.

 

Discuss:

We Belong To God

1. Read Romans 8:2. What is the reason that you can be certain of victory even in the midst of pain and suffering?
2. Why does Satan no longer have power over you?

We Have a New Mind

3. Read verses 8:5, 6. What are some steps you can take to let the Spirit control your mind?
4. How does this agree with Romans 12:2 and 2 Cor. 10:5?

We Have a New Life

5. Have someone read 8:11, and someone else read Col. 2:13, 14. What did God do for you that you could not do for yourself?

We Have Strength to Walk On

6. Read Eph. 3:16 and 2 Thess. 3:3. Where does your strength come from?
7. Whom does He promise to protect you from, in His strength?

We Have Hope

8. Read verses 8:23b and 28. What is the difference between your life in Jesus Christ, and that of those who do not know Him?

 

Close:

What tremendous promises we have read in Romans chapter 8! As you break into small groups, share any thoughts that may have resonated in your heart as to your position in Christ. He has already won the victory—all you need to do is walk in the power and strength of the Holy Spirit, constantly choosing to let Him take control of your life. Have you checked out the Life Groups? New ones are beginning often, and they are a great way to grow in the Lord. As you close in prayer, remember to ask God to be victorious in your life this week.

Focus Passage: Romans 8

Memory Verse: Romans 8:6: “For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.”

Standing Strong: God’s Promises
January 31, 2016
Pastor Matt Willmington

Open:

As a child, what promises do you recall most vividly? Were they fulfilled? What did you learn in those early years about promises?

We have been studying the promises of God, and the reliability of His Word. He has promised many things to His children, but expects us to take action in order to receive them. Today God reminds us that He will hear us when we call, and take care of us.

Discuss:

Fear

1. Read Psalm 34:4-7. David was in severe trouble, running from Saul, when he penned this Psalm. How is that something we can relate to?
2. What four actions were taken, and how did God respond in each?
3. What is the difference in our “fears” and the fear God wants us to have in verse 7?
4. Read Psalms 125:2. How can you verbalize your feelings that God encamps around you?

Famine

5. Read Psalm 34:8-10. In these verses, what actions do we take as God’s children? What actions does God take?
6. Based on God’s Word that He is present with us at all times, how should we react when He seems silent? Is trust during those times a choice?
7. Deliverance may be in one of two forms: what are they? Talk about these for a moment. (Deliver us from the situation, or deliver us through the situation.)

Close:

As we break up into small groups, we have much that we can take with us through this coming week: the truth of God’s Word, the child-like faith He wants us to have as we trust Him, the dependence upon Him through the good times and the bad, and so much more. Talk about your ability to rest in His promises. Close by committing to pray for those who have trouble believing anyone is trustworthy in today’s world.

Focal Passage: Psalm 34:4-14; Isaiah 55:2

Memory Verse: Psalm 34:7: “The angel of the Lord encamps all around those who fear Him, and delivers them.”

Stand Strong: Building Your Life On God’s Promises
January 17, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Having promises made to you, then subsequently broken, happens often and can leave hurt or anger. Can you give an example?

Today we start a new series, focusing on some of the promises God makes to us in Scripture. In order to trust Him to keep His word, we have to first know that He has been faithful to us thus far.

Discuss:

The Faithfulness of God is Worth Celebrating

1. Read Psalm 89:1a. What was the psalmist praising God for?
2. If you were to “celebrate” God’s faithfulness to you, what are some things you   would praise Him for?
3. When you have gone through rough valleys, how did you know you could still trust Him? You had a choice to be discouraged or to trust. How did you choose?

The Faithfulness of God is Worth Sharing

4. Read verse 1b. We are always willing to share news of a great restaurant, our favorite team, etc. Why is it important to share our faithful Father?
5. When others hear our story of God’s love for us, what does it do for them?

The Faithfulness of God is Guaranteed

6. Read Hebrews 10:23. What are we cautioned to remember?
7. We live in a society where very little that is “guaranteed” can be trusted. Why is God’s faithfulness assured?
8. Read 2 Tim. 2:11 and 2 Thess. 3:3. What does the Bible promise us?

Close:

As we break into small group time, remember our theme for the year is Living Generously. Talk about God’s promise to bless us “exceedingly above all that we can ask or think” and decide if you trust God to love you so much that you can give Him your whole heart. Look at available Life Groups that will encourage you to trust deeper this year—or begin one yourself, to encourage others who may be newer in the faith! Pray as you close for the ability to trust Him with your job, finances, family and health.

Focus Passage: Psalm 89: 1, 2

Memory Verse: 2 Thess. 3:3: “But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.

Seven Promises God Has Made:

 1) He will supply every need. Phil. 4:19
2) His grace is sufficient for you. 2 Cor. 12:9
3) He makes a way out of every temptation. 1 Cor. 10:13
4) He gives victory over death 1 Cor. 15:54
5) He works all things for the good of those who love Him. Rom. 8:28
6) Believers will be with the Lord forever. 1 Thess. 4:13-18
7) He gives us eternal life. John 10:27, 28.

 

 

Finding Your Place in 2016
January 3, 2016
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Keeping focused on priorities is a never-ending challenge! Can you give some examples of distractions that tend to throw you off balance, and divert your attention?

Last week we looked at a checklist that can help us concentrate on a strong relationship with our Lord. Today we will look at our goals for this new year, finding where God wants us, and then committing ourselves to accomplishing His will.

Discuss:

Personality

1. Most people would prefer to live life without “hurts, habits or hang-ups” that detract from who we want to be. What will it take for you to realize God made you just as He desired? Read Psa. 139:14a.
2. Do you think God cannot use you as you are? If this is so, why not? Does anyone recall how Moses reacted when God called him to lead Israel out of Egypt?

Learn

3. Read John 17:1-3. How can we get a deep, intimate knowledge of God unless we spend time reading His Word and talking to Him? What is His will for us in this area?

Abilities

4. Share an ability or God-given gift that He has blessed you with, and tell how you are using this gift to glorify Him.
5. Read 1 Cor. 7:7. Who is given gifts or talents by God? Does that include you?

Connect

6. Read Prov. 18:1 and Heb. 10:25. What is God’s will for us so far as meeting regularly with other believers? Why is this important?

Experience

7. God tells us in Matt. 25:14-29 that our talents will do us no good if we do not use them. Do you have an example of this truth?

Practical Principles for Achievement

• Never confuse being busy with accomplishment
• The bridge between vision and accomplishment is discipline
• Passion overcomes obstacles
• Embrace change

Close:

As we break up into small groups, we want to remember that our goal for 2016 should be that we live “generously.” We not only want a strong, personal relationship with our God, we want to be effective Christians who tell our story, who find God’s will for our lives, and then take the steps to ensure that we fulfill His purpose for us. That takes being confident that we are made uniquely by Him just the way He wants us, and being available to serve Him with a whole heart. Pray that you begin this very week, if you have not already.

Focal Passage: John 17:1-3

Memory Verse: Matthew 15:8: “These people draw near to Me with their mouths, and honor Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me.”

A Season of Generosity: Putting Grace In To Action
December 20, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Almost everyone has found the truth in the words “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Can you relate a situation when you were able to give to someone in need, and describe how you felt afterward?

Today we continue to look at the gift of giving of ourselves, not just during this Christmas season, but as a daily lifestyle of worship.

 

Discuss:

Keep your eyes open for those in need

1. Read 1 John 3:17a. Our lives continually cross paths with hurting people. What are some examples of being alert to someone in need?
2. What type of mindset must we have to fulfill this command?

Keep your heart open for those in need

3. Read verse 17b. Closing ourselves off from helping others can be a red flag. What does this say about our heart?
4. Have someone read Proverbs 18:1. How does this verse emphasize the meaning of what you just read? Can anyone liken it to 1 Corinthians 13 without looking up the passage?

Keep your calendar open for those in need

5. If we are intentional about helping others, we have to plan ahead. Discuss practical ways you can schedule time to meet the needs of someone.
6. Read verse 18. How does Jesus view our priority of helping or giving of ourselves to others?

Keep your arms open for those in need

7. Read verse 23. It is definitely easier for a woman to be ready at any moment to hug or love on someone than a man. What are some ways both can seize the moment without offending or scaring someone? Can you give a past example?

 

Close:

Being proactive about meeting the needs of hurting or needy people is not going to happen until your heart is ready. As you break into small groups, discuss ways you can serve, both as individuals and as a group. There are so many opportunities through the church and Life Groups! Search those out, and find out if you have particular skills that will give you insight into fulfilling someone’s need. Close in prayer by beseeching the Lord to help you be alert to the eyes of others you pass, so that you can see into their hearts, and minister to them.

Scripture passage: I John 3:16-24

Memory Verse: 1 John 3:17: “But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him?

 

From Gratitude and Grace
December 6, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Nearly everyone’s true character can be determined by the way they treat other people. Can you give some examples?

This week we continue to look at God’s standards for our interaction with others. We can love others as we love ourselves (Matt. 22:39) only after we first have a genuine love relationship with Christ, built on a foundation of faith and gratefulness.

Discuss:

A Life of Gratitude Requires Work

1. Read Psalm 136:1-6. The Psalmist declares that we are to express our thanks to God. Why is gratefulness in our lives so important?
2. One of the generations of recent years was the “Me Generation.” How does this differ with the command to love others more than we love ourselves?

A Life of Gratitude Requires Humility

3. Read verses 6-9. What immediately impacts you about these verses?
4. Read Luke 18:10-14. How does this passage illustrate the humility we must possess as we understand the significance of the Creator God?

A Life of Gratitude Requires Dependence

5. Read John 15:4, 5. What is Christ telling us in this passage?
6. What are some things a child reasonably expects from a parent?
7. What are some of the daily provisions that we should be thanking God for?

A Life of Gratitude Must Be Based In Grace

8. Without the free gift of God’s grace, we would be lost for eternity (Rom. 6:23 and 3:23-25 NASB). What is your reaction to what Christ has offered? Do you understand His grace?

Close:

As you break into small groups, take a moment to think “What did I thank God for today?” If you can list many things, you are probably in a love relationship with Him. If you struggled to list any, be open with your need to ask for prayer as you develop an attitude of gratitude for all He does for you daily. Close in prayer by thanking Him for His wondrous works, His grace, and for giving you an opportunity to serve Him. Be especially alert during the Christmas season to ways you can minister to those who need a special touch!

Memory Verse: Psalm 136:1: “Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever.”

 

           

Thankful Because He’s Faithful
November 22, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Much of life today is filled with sorrow, chaos and darkness, and we can feel overwhelmed. Let’s consciously take a few moments to name some of the many things we have to be grateful for. Call out random short answers as you think of them.

Today we want to reflect on the path we have traveled this past year. As we look back, we desire to see God’s amazing faithfulness in never leaving us on our own.

 

Discuss:

He Is Faithful

1. Someone read 2 Thessalonians 3:3. What is the first phrase of this verse?
2. What is so significant about these three words, and why?
3. Read Deut. 7:9. If faithfulness is one of the attributes of God’s character, what does that mean to you as you follow Him?

He Will Establish You

4. God’s faithfulness is followed by two promises. What is the first?
5. Read 2 Thess. 2:15-17. The word for “establish” in both verses means to set you firmly in place, where you cannot be moved. Will you relate this to your life, and tell how that gives you assurance in this world where you may otherwise feel like a ball being batted around?

He Will Guard You

6. What is the second promise? Can anyone give an example of a situation where God has actually protected (guarded) you?
7. As you look back at the past year, if He has been faithful to bring you through all the difficulties and crises, what does this tell you about tomorrow?

Close:

As you break into small groups, share some of the trials God has walked through with you this year. Do you see Faithfulness as an unchangeable part of God, just as He is loving, merciful, etc.? Sometimes you may not have felt His presence, but did He ever leave you? Share if you have major obstacles in trusting His constant watchfulness. Think of joining a Life Group at church to help you know and trust Him better. As you close in prayer, ask Him to reveal Himself to you in more ways, for faith to love Him more deeply, and for the ability to trust Him more fully!

Memory Verse: 2 Thessalonians 3:3: “But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.”

Portrait of a King: Leadership By Example
October 4, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Going through the “daily grind” seems overwhelming when you’re young and thinking how many years you will wor! What are some things that drive you to persevere each day, month and year?

As we continue to focus on lessons learned from King Solomon, we see he led his people by he himself following God’s authority. This week we will focus on his dedication of the newly-built temple, and examine specifics in his life that drove him during these years.

Discuss:

Solomon’s Joy

1. Read 1 Kings 6:11-13. Verse 12b and verse 13 each have a message from God that motivated Solomon and brought him joy. What were they?
2. What are some of the things about God that bring you joy?

Solomon’s Praise

3. Read 1 Kings 8:14,15a. The temple was completed and ready for dedication. What was so astounding about Solomon’s opening words? Contrast your answer with Daniel 4:30.
4. Can you think of situations in your life when you’ve taken credit for something when you knew God deserved praise for doing it?
5. Read 1 Kings 8:22, 23a. What attitude do you see as Solomon lifts his hands to heaven? Why is it so hard for us to do this?

Solomon’s Thankfulness

6. Have several be ready to read I Kings 8:23, 8:24, 8:30, 8:37-40, and 8:44-45. After each verse ask the question, “In this verse, what was Solomon thankful for?”
7. How often each day to you stop to thank God for Who He is, His promises to you, His forgiveness, His provision or His protection? How often should you?

Close:

As you break into small groups, consider the example Solomon set for his people as he showed humility, praise, and thankfulness! As believers, you should always be asking yourself, am I leading well? Loving well? Living well? There is so much potential to be an influence for good, and to be a testimony of God’s grace! Pray specifically that God would raise up leaders within your family who will take the role of seeing that everyone is motivated by his or her relationship with Christ and to be a source of strength and hope in these chaotic times.

Memory Verse: Psalm 24:3, 4a: “Who may ascend into the hill of the Lord? Or who may stand in His holy place? He who has clean hands and a pure heart.” (NKJV)

Ponder: 

The Model for Christian Leadership:

• Christ-centered
• Committed to Serve
• Courageous to Lead
• Consistently Developing
• Continually Inviting Feedback
• Your life will be changed, and you will be a leader!

 

 

Portrait of a King: Lead With Success

September 20, 2015

Pastor Jonathan Falwell

 

Open:

Instruction sheets that come with “assemble it yourself” items often seem a waste of time and are pushed aside—until one finishes with extra parts! Can you think of some things you have really messed up by disregarding the instructions?

Last week we began a series meant to inspire and equip us for leadership, for we do not know what the future may hold. As we looked at David’s commission to his son, Solomon, we saw David charging him to remain faithful to God. Today we will look at God’s practical lessons on effective leadership.

 

Discuss:

Copy It

1. Read Deut. 17:18-20. Hundreds of years before a king began to rule over Israel, God gave a list of instructions for these future kings. What was the first order (verse 18)?
2. Can anyone recall a time in school when you had to write a sentence or word “a hundred times”? Why did the teacher do this?

Keep It

3. What was the further instruction in verse 19? What memory—past or present—do you have of carrying something with you, trying to memorize it?
4. Read Psalm 119:11. What is God’s promise for memorizing His word? What is one suggestion you have that helps you to “hide His word in your heart”?

Read It

5. Do you ever look at the bottles of vitamins on your shelves, mentally kicking yourself for not taking them? How does this analogy reinforce the necessity of reading God’s word?
6. What was God’s instruction in verse19b? Someone read Deut. 6:6-9. To not read God’s word is disobedience, which is ____?

Live It

7. Read verse 20 again. What are the results God promises if you daily read His word?
8. Finish by reading and thinking deeply about Deut. 30:15-18a.

 

Close:

As you break into small groups, think for a moment what your family would be like if everyone earnestly read, memorized, and lived out the principles in God’s word. Would it transform your family? This is what God desires, what He has laid out for you in His word, and what He promises. Discuss what is holding you or your family back from this total commitment. Pray as you close that you would rise up and be the leader who will say “This is going to be the way we want to live.” Leadership takes only one person to change the direction of many. Be that one!

Memory Verse: Ecclesiastes 12:13: “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is the man’s all.” (NKJV)

Ponder: Model for Christian Leaders

• Christ-centered in all aspects of life.
• Committed to serve the needs of others before your own.
• Courage to lead with power and love as you serve.
• Consistently develop others into servant leaders.
• Continually invite feedback in order to grow.

Terrorism and the Persecuted Church
September 6, 2015
Johnnie Moore

Open:

With many trials and conflicts in the lives of most families, it is easy to isolate ourselves from problems facing those in our nation or world who are targets of hate, hunger or other perils. What are some examples you can think of that are easier to ignore than become involved in?

Christianity began in the Middle East, and yet its spread eventually led to the colonization of America. When Christianity spread across America, those in the Middle East largely become forgotten, and their persecution overlooked. Today we will focus on the incredible crisis unfolding as brothers and sisters in Christ are victims of unspeakable atrocities.

Discuss:

What Is Happening?

1. Read Revelation 20:4. Ten years ago, reading this passage would have caused us to think of the Middle Ages. What are you feeling in your heart as you read or hear of ISIS victims in this present year?
2. Who is our real enemy? Why is persecution escalating?

What Does the Bible Teach About Times of Intense Christian Persecution?

3. Have several people read one verse: Matt. 13:20, 21; Mark 10:29, 30; Acts 8:1; Rom. 8:35 and 2 Tim. 3:12. Persecution has and will always be.
4. As the world becomes more intolerant of Christians, persecution will increase. What signs of a demoralized society do you see indicating your world is in danger of God’s judgment? Does this affect you personally?

What Does the Bible Tell Us We Are To Do To Help?

5. Read Hebrews 13:3. If possible, read it in two or three translations. What are some ways we can pray for those in desperate situations?
6. Read Acts 11:29. What are practical ways we can provide food, clothing, shelter, or other means of physical needs of refugees?

Close:

This very heavy subject is something we would rather turn from than face. As you break into small groups, talk about what to expect when it reaches your nation, community or neighborhood. Discuss preparations that can be made—both physical and spiritual—before persecution arrives near you. Pray that God will enable you to help in a tangible way those who are currently being persecuted, and intercede for them with your fervent prayers. Don’t let Satan deceive you that this is not your problem! And very importantly, educate yourself in the agenda and doctrine of ISIS.

Memory Verse: John 12:25: “He who loves his life will lose it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.” (NKJV).

Note: Johnnie Moore’s book, Defying ISIS, is available in eBook form, as well as soft cover. Read this powerful book to become more informed of the potential for persecution.

 

Our Playbook For Change: Vision Matters
August 23, 2015
Pastor Jonathan Falwell

Open:

Trying to instill the hope of a future, children are asked often, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Goals are imperative to a balanced life. What are some results when one loses a purpose to strive for?

Today, as we continue to look at the relevancy of the church, we will examine one of its core reasons for being: Vision.

Discuss:

Our Vision

1. Read Acts 1:8. Following the resurrection and ascension of Jesus Christ, the church was birthed. What was its reason for coming into existence?
2. Every day, in any town, you see country churches that are very old and still beautiful and still small. What does its size tell you about its history?
3. Why must any church have a vision for God’s purpose in order to be effective?
4. Do you, yourself, have a vision for your future? Can you share it?

Our Mission

5. Read Matthew 28:18-20. What should be our mission in life as a church?
6. How can our church be passionate about spreading the gospel unless it begins in individual hearts?
7. What is the driving force behind your vision? How does God view your mission? Read Acts 2:14-21 when you get home.

Our Message

8. Read Acts 2:21. What is the message you, as a believer, have for the lost ones around you?
9. Read Romans 1:16, 17. Every day you cross paths with people who are rejecting the Lord as their Savior. What is your burden for them?

Close:

As you break into small groups, think of the vision that was in the hearts of those who began your church. Has it been continued through the years? Discuss the opportunities and obstacles that are faced as churches—or individuals—strive to tell the message of the gospel. Pray that you never lose the vision of seeing lives changed as you lead someone to the Lord. You can make a difference in the life of someone as you plant a seed, water, or pray. Utilize every opportunity to tell one person each day what the Lord has done for you!

Memory Verse: Acts 2:21: “And it shall come to pass that whoever calls upon the Name of the LORD shall be saved.” (NKJV)

Ponder: Dr. Jerry Falwell’s definitions of vision: Vision is: the eye of faith to see the invisible and the decisiveness to make it visible; the power that causes people to make huge sacrifices in order to become all they can be for God; adopting a plan of action that will enable you to move forward in your Christian life and ministry; that inward fire which enables you to boldly communicate to your peers what the future will be like; the dynamic that enables you to translate your faith and dreams into a new and personal walk with God; the God-given energy which will make you become a risk-taker.

Best Supporting Actor: Josiah, Break The Cycle
August 9, 2015
Pastor Scott Randlett

Open:

Rarely do you meet someone who has not made attempts to change some detail of their life. Would anyone like to share something you have tried to overcome but eventually gave up because you decided “that’s just the way I am”?

Today, as we finish the series on Best Supporting Actor, we will look at Josiah. He became a king at eight years of age, with a passion for serving God and bringing Israel back to worshiping Him. Through him we can learn how to begin a new legacy in life.

Discuss:

Believe God’s Power Is Greater Than Your Limitations:

1. Read 2 Kings 22:1, 2. Josiah had a very mature faith in God’s almighty power for one so young. What were some obstacles he could have used as an excuse to do nothing?
2. Perhaps you consider the reputation of your parents, your appearance, past lifestyle, etc., as a reason too big to try to change. How are you limiting God?
3. God loves you more than you can comprehend, and wishes to help you achieve a passion for life. What are ideas or situations holding you back?

Surround Yourself with Trustworthy People:

4. Read verses 3-10. Who were some of the people closest to Josiah? What were the relationships built on?
5. Read Proverbs 13:20. Can anyone share how the impact of co-workers, friends or family has influenced your walk with Christ for good or for bad?
6. Read 1 Corinthians 15:33. Can God trust those who are closest to you? What are steps you can take to free yourself from any who pull you away from Him?

Respond to the Truth of God’s Word:

7. Read verses 11-13. What did Josiah do when God’s laws were read to him?
8. Will anyone share what you do with the sermons you hear preached each Sunday?
9. What are some actions you perform that show nothing is more valuable to you than your relationship with Jesus Christ?

Close:

As you consider Josiah’s age, his evil father, and the idolatry Israel was involved in, you can see it would have been easy for him to have given up trying to change his world. But he knew his God was the same One whom David, over four hundred years earlier, had believed in when he slew Goliath. As you break into small groups, discuss the reality of your desire to serve God, Who is not limited by your age, past, or insecurities. The church has many Life Groups to help you as you seek a closer walk with Him. Pray that He would give you strength to overcome anything in your life that has created a wall between you and Him. Then, go out this week in HIS strength and do it!

Memory Verse: 2 Kings 22:2: “And he did what was right in the sight of the Lord, and walked in all the ways of his father David; he did not turn aside to the right hand or to the left.” (NKJV)

For Further Home Study: Read 2 Chronicles 32 and 33.Think of the evil family history Josiah had to overcome. Yet God was working years earlier as He led Manasseh to repentance and gave him six years to teach his grandson Josiah about the living God. His testimony built the foundation of a strong faith that served Josiah well when he became king two years later. God is not limited by age, by the past, or by insecurities.